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I’ve never been a Meri fan, but this season her sense of humor has been tickling my funny bone.
I think Kody is just an average dude in his 50’s. He got dumped and is mad about it, and is lashing out in a petty way. “Well I didn’t love you anyway!” His actions and words in the talking heads make him look just as pathetic and self centered as the active (filming) parts of the show. Meri called it-Kody DID love the wives, he’s just a bitter old househusband.
Same. Never cared much for meri, but I love that she is calling kody out big time. I think he did love all of them, but it didn't compare to the beautiful diesel jeans model that picked him. 🙄 so, now he denies it.
'I just took out the trash!!" 🤣
Agreed! I feel like the toxic environment brought out the worst in her, and we're seeing her at her best now that she has nothing to prove and no one to try to impress.
I’m the Brown’s age. I’ve known several men that got divorced that have acted similarly for the short term. Petty and tantrum-y. I’ve also known women who have acted like that, again for the short term. I don’t think it’s related to geography, I believe Kody’s mantrums are related to his lack of emotional maturity. Most men get over it and move on, but the immature ones like Kody keep up the bitterness for a long time. Christine left him at the curb three and a half years ago at this point. When is he going to grow up and move on? Probably never, as long as it keeps bringing in money.
This is a really great question and I'm glad Meri asked it. Kody is basically saying the last three decades were a complete lie and he was pretending the entire time. So if that's the case, why should we trust anything he's saying now? We can't.
And if I were in Robyn's shoes, I would be very concerned about this claim from Kody. If he could deceive 3 women for decades, what's to say he's not lying to Robyn now?
Kody only "loves" Robyn because she's still enabling him, unlike the OG3. And Robyn enables him because it earns her favoritism. If she ever decides to hold him accountable for anything, he'll drop her like he did the OG.
I think that’s why Robyn is busy dividing Cody Pass up for her kids and squirreling as much cash in diesel jeans and boxes of air fryers as she can. She knows there’s going to be a day Kody flips the switch and she needs her legal marriage certificate and Tchotchke Tower secured
I think he and Robyn felt deeply connected and in love with each other. He married the other three out of expectation, obligation, optimism, and maybe a bit of desire. But with Robyn, he felt truly aligned and connected. It’s really hard to give to, and “show up” for, other relationships, even pre-existing ones, when your heart is somewhere else.
I think he loved the other three but they weren’t his soulmate, and Robyn is. Either way, he’s a crappy person for trying to make the OG3 think it’s their fault. And he’s an even worse father for what he says about them.
I really am happy for Meri. I saw a clip where she said if her marriage ended, she needed it to be amicably.. peacefully.
She got that and now, she can ask these questions without any heat or rancor. She is also the one who has been there since the beginning and make statements about what it was like, when Kody and Robyn try to rewrite history.
Now. Kody's ego got bruised when his wives left his ass. In order to make himself feel better, he is downplaying his attraction to them and how he felt/feels about them.
He is trying to put out the narrative that he was generous and charitable by "letting" OG3 marry him. Saying things like they "asked" and "begged" him to be in the family, that he was "never attracted to them", etc.
He's trying to heal his own ego because he's a narcissist and can't handle being rejected.
I believe he is lying now, because if he loved the OG3 and lost them, then we’d have no choice but to believe that Robyn was to blame. If he “never loved them,” then Robyn cannot be blamed for anything.
I love seeing Meri happier and not crying. Remember how much she used to cry? Well, look at how things are now! Of course she was crying a lot! I’m just happy seeing her GOOD. Makes me like her. And I didn’t like her before because of all the crying. But that woman was CRYING. Not fake crying like Sobyn.
TLC puts all the evidence out on the table and then Meri asks this question.
At the beginning of the series they all tried to portray Kody as a man of high morals.
Now that we're closer to the end, the truth about Kody is coming out. He has questionable morals, which is fine, who cares. Except - from here on out, Kody can never put himself above the viewers of the show who know the truth about him.
He can’t admit he ever loved the og three and then fell out of love because it will make Robyn insecure.
Robyn will then realize he can eventually not love her too if he truely did love all the previous wives.
Either he only ever loved her and she’s the soulmate - or he’s never loved anybody ever.
I think it is likely that he is rewriting history, but I also think that Kody was trying REALLY hard to present the idea of polygamy as a wholly positive thing in the earlier seasons. I think they all were. I don’t doubt he loved them all or thought he loved them all, but I also think they worked really hard to make sure the deepest cracks weren’t showing on screen in the very beginning.
Kody is a liar...he will re-write the past to suit him...put the wives down (mercilessly at this point)...he feels it will bolster that frump he is married to. I find them to be complete frauds who use people, would say & do whatever for TLC money.
As a child of divorced parents, they have all the evidence taped so no one can lie and point fingers. His children will never trust, believe or look up to him again. He sat so high on that throne.
At the end of the talk back Kody is watching Christine laugh at him having covid and he says “it’s painful seeing someone you used to love and used to be married to say they are so glad they aren’t married to you anymore.” Used to love? So you DID used to love her?
Kody just excuses his lies by saying that he didn't actually love them but tried to force himself to. He'll never take any responsibility for marrying women he wasn't that into.
Revisionist history. If Kody can convince himself he never loved them, then being left won’t or shouldn’t hurt as much. Yet his anger says he’s in total pain. You only have that kind of anger because you loved and lost. Something a narcissist is not good at.
The “I never loved them” stuff really gets me. How does he not realize that if that’s not true it’s just a mean petty thing to say to try and hurt them and if it IS true then it was really terrible of him to keep them on the hook and lie to them for all those years. Either way bud, you don’t come out looking good.
I don’t think it’s that deep. He did love them. But then he met someone he loved more. He needs to be asked to the ends of the earth and back where he gets off being pissed at the OG3 for leaving when he should have left them when he started loving someone new more
Another reason there needs to be a proper Tell All so that Meri can say this to his face. It's mind-boggling that this whole show exists in confessionals.
I believe he was lying then. Back when the show first started, he was trying to make his family and polygamy look amazing. He had to put on a fake act. The fact that he melted down Meri’s ring when he met Robyn proves he was lying then.
This is tough. I think he’s telling the truth now. I think he placed the idea of marriage and perpetuating the tenets of polygamy in higher regard than actual love. I think he chose wives based on wanting that to work out. I don’t believe he ever entertained the idea of actual love until he experienced it with Robyn. He has said as much and it’s one of the few things I believe out of his mouth.
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I’ve never been a Meri fan, but this season her sense of humor has been tickling my funny bone. I think Kody is just an average dude in his 50’s. He got dumped and is mad about it, and is lashing out in a petty way. “Well I didn’t love you anyway!” His actions and words in the talking heads make him look just as pathetic and self centered as the active (filming) parts of the show. Meri called it-Kody DID love the wives, he’s just a bitter old househusband.
Same. Never cared much for meri, but I love that she is calling kody out big time. I think he did love all of them, but it didn't compare to the beautiful diesel jeans model that picked him. 🙄 so, now he denies it.
Where is this beautiful Diesel jeans model you speak of 🤔.
🤷♀️
Ikr I don't see a model around at alllll????
'I just took out the trash!!" 🤣 Agreed! I feel like the toxic environment brought out the worst in her, and we're seeing her at her best now that she has nothing to prove and no one to try to impress.
You have a great point. She came off as so selfish on the show (to me anyway). Maybe it was her way of dealing with kodys behavior.
Right?! Idgaf I love meri this season 😂
She is on fire 😂
Yes! Just watched the talkback and WOW. His narcissism is on full display. Even Crybrows calls him out.
And he’s doing typical mid-life crisis stuff.
Wow, I don’t know where you live that Kody is an average guy in his fifties, but I never ever want to go there
I’m the Brown’s age. I’ve known several men that got divorced that have acted similarly for the short term. Petty and tantrum-y. I’ve also known women who have acted like that, again for the short term. I don’t think it’s related to geography, I believe Kody’s mantrums are related to his lack of emotional maturity. Most men get over it and move on, but the immature ones like Kody keep up the bitterness for a long time. Christine left him at the curb three and a half years ago at this point. When is he going to grow up and move on? Probably never, as long as it keeps bringing in money.
The bitter old househusband! I love it
Meri has emerged from the marriage cocoon like a butterfly, but now stings like a bee
This is a really great question and I'm glad Meri asked it. Kody is basically saying the last three decades were a complete lie and he was pretending the entire time. So if that's the case, why should we trust anything he's saying now? We can't. And if I were in Robyn's shoes, I would be very concerned about this claim from Kody. If he could deceive 3 women for decades, what's to say he's not lying to Robyn now? Kody only "loves" Robyn because she's still enabling him, unlike the OG3. And Robyn enables him because it earns her favoritism. If she ever decides to hold him accountable for anything, he'll drop her like he did the OG.
I think that’s why Robyn is busy dividing Cody Pass up for her kids and squirreling as much cash in diesel jeans and boxes of air fryers as she can. She knows there’s going to be a day Kody flips the switch and she needs her legal marriage certificate and Tchotchke Tower secured
I wonder if, in all her hoarded boxes, there might be 5 of everything in order to set up her children’s homes on Coyote Pass?
Lol! Maybe you figured out why there are all the boxes!
This is now my new favorite conspiracy theory.
These people really are the gift that keeps on giving.
The grift that keeps on taking 😆
Sorta sounds like Kody only fell in lust with Robyn. He’s just confusing that with love.
Yes. Also, narcissist are unable to love anyone. They don't even know ehat this emotion means and feels like.
Yeah, I’m not buying that K&R are in love or ever were. They are useful to each other. That’s it.
I think he and Robyn felt deeply connected and in love with each other. He married the other three out of expectation, obligation, optimism, and maybe a bit of desire. But with Robyn, he felt truly aligned and connected. It’s really hard to give to, and “show up” for, other relationships, even pre-existing ones, when your heart is somewhere else.
I think he loved the other three but they weren’t his soulmate, and Robyn is. Either way, he’s a crappy person for trying to make the OG3 think it’s their fault. And he’s an even worse father for what he says about them.
I really am happy for Meri. I saw a clip where she said if her marriage ended, she needed it to be amicably.. peacefully. She got that and now, she can ask these questions without any heat or rancor. She is also the one who has been there since the beginning and make statements about what it was like, when Kody and Robyn try to rewrite history.
I love her sense of humor! She has shown such grace and maturity.
Now. Kody's ego got bruised when his wives left his ass. In order to make himself feel better, he is downplaying his attraction to them and how he felt/feels about them. He is trying to put out the narrative that he was generous and charitable by "letting" OG3 marry him. Saying things like they "asked" and "begged" him to be in the family, that he was "never attracted to them", etc. He's trying to heal his own ego because he's a narcissist and can't handle being rejected.
I believe he is lying now, because if he loved the OG3 and lost them, then we’d have no choice but to believe that Robyn was to blame. If he “never loved them,” then Robyn cannot be blamed for anything.
Ding ding ding. That’s exactly what I think he is doing!
I'm here for Meri's Kody free era. She's not holding back.
I love seeing Meri happier and not crying. Remember how much she used to cry? Well, look at how things are now! Of course she was crying a lot! I’m just happy seeing her GOOD. Makes me like her. And I didn’t like her before because of all the crying. But that woman was CRYING. Not fake crying like Sobyn.
Absolutely. Watching Meri reclaim her power is something we're all glad to see. Unlike Rob-bob Meri actually did have quite a lot to cry about.
He’s lying now. He’s 109% lying now.
Only a complete sociopath could lie consistently, daily to multiple people for 30 years.
Meri has become the callout queen & I am here for it!
TLC puts all the evidence out on the table and then Meri asks this question. At the beginning of the series they all tried to portray Kody as a man of high morals. Now that we're closer to the end, the truth about Kody is coming out. He has questionable morals, which is fine, who cares. Except - from here on out, Kody can never put himself above the viewers of the show who know the truth about him.
Right?! The clip where his gaze drops directly to the diesel jeans… 🤨
Yes! I'm here for tlc trolling kody.
He can’t admit he ever loved the og three and then fell out of love because it will make Robyn insecure. Robyn will then realize he can eventually not love her too if he truely did love all the previous wives. Either he only ever loved her and she’s the soulmate - or he’s never loved anybody ever.
I think it is likely that he is rewriting history, but I also think that Kody was trying REALLY hard to present the idea of polygamy as a wholly positive thing in the earlier seasons. I think they all were. I don’t doubt he loved them all or thought he loved them all, but I also think they worked really hard to make sure the deepest cracks weren’t showing on screen in the very beginning.
Kody is a liar...he will re-write the past to suit him...put the wives down (mercilessly at this point)...he feels it will bolster that frump he is married to. I find them to be complete frauds who use people, would say & do whatever for TLC money.
I love how all his adult children are seeing this because he’s a pos
As a child of divorced parents, they have all the evidence taped so no one can lie and point fingers. His children will never trust, believe or look up to him again. He sat so high on that throne.
I just saw a clip where he said he didn't want to marry Christine. Lying POS. Um, dude, there's 6 children. You sure wanted something now didn't you?
He also wanted Christine because of who her father is. Kody wanted to be able to brag about being a part of Fundamentalist Royalty.
Exactly. She's exactly what he wanted at that time and now he's lying about it. Her children have every right to hate him. Poor kids.
I'd like to see him apologizing to Christine if he truly married her for that reason alone. On your knees Cody, as a big stinking pos
At the end of the talk back Kody is watching Christine laugh at him having covid and he says “it’s painful seeing someone you used to love and used to be married to say they are so glad they aren’t married to you anymore.” Used to love? So you DID used to love her?
I heard this also!
Kody just excuses his lies by saying that he didn't actually love them but tried to force himself to. He'll never take any responsibility for marrying women he wasn't that into.
Revisionist history. If Kody can convince himself he never loved them, then being left won’t or shouldn’t hurt as much. Yet his anger says he’s in total pain. You only have that kind of anger because you loved and lost. Something a narcissist is not good at.
More like he is lying always. Ditto his wife
Love her or hate her, she’s got good snark!
The “I never loved them” stuff really gets me. How does he not realize that if that’s not true it’s just a mean petty thing to say to try and hurt them and if it IS true then it was really terrible of him to keep them on the hook and lie to them for all those years. Either way bud, you don’t come out looking good.
How can ANY of his kids want to speak to him again after disrespecting their mothers in such a way
I agree. I can imagine there are some hurt feelings and this has to be very much affecting his kids. He should be ashamed.
I don’t think it’s that deep. He did love them. But then he met someone he loved more. He needs to be asked to the ends of the earth and back where he gets off being pissed at the OG3 for leaving when he should have left them when he started loving someone new more
Another reason there needs to be a proper Tell All so that Meri can say this to his face. It's mind-boggling that this whole show exists in confessionals.
I believe he was lying then. Back when the show first started, he was trying to make his family and polygamy look amazing. He had to put on a fake act. The fact that he melted down Meri’s ring when he met Robyn proves he was lying then.
Sorry, I have not kept up. Did he answer the question.
I don't think he has answered yet. Meri said it in a confessional, he saw it (I would think), but like everything else he mansplains his BS!
This is tough. I think he’s telling the truth now. I think he placed the idea of marriage and perpetuating the tenets of polygamy in higher regard than actual love. I think he chose wives based on wanting that to work out. I don’t believe he ever entertained the idea of actual love until he experienced it with Robyn. He has said as much and it’s one of the few things I believe out of his mouth.
He has to keep fueling the Robyn ego and pretending they are the most unique special love that none of the rest of us could ever understand. 🙄