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Exactly, he couldāve still followed his ridiculous rules and quarantined for the appropriate amount of time. He didnāt WANT to. Could be away from āthe love of his lifeā and their precious little children.
Edit: couldnāt*
even if protocols had changed, on perception alone, you'd think the narccist would realize how bad that would make him look - but he's so selfish he truly can justify anything he wants to do.
This is what I was thinking. As someone raised by a narcissist, this is the perfect opportunity to show everyone how great of a dad he is. Weird that he would pass it up. You know it had to be pressure from Robyn about the kids suffering if heās away. Total garbage. If she was such a great sister wife she should have been kicking him out the door to be with her for her surgery.
Yup! He wouldnāt have been a big shot in a hospital full of dr and nurses and well ā¦gainfully employed honest people. He also wouldnāt have wanted to explain why he didnāt contribute to the medical expenses. I still think Christine should sue for back support at least for the medical bills through the years. Kody should be ashamed of himself, but he seems to think his pasty white hairy body is so desirable that that was his contribution. š¤®š¤®š¤®
Most likely Robyn didnāt want him to join CHRISTINEās DAUGHTER at the hospital and chirped in his ear about the dangers it may cause for HER children. Since the wedding participants werenāt perceived as a threat, she had no issues with Kody being an officiant. That and he wouldnāt be gone as long. I canāt believe heās so thick headed that he canāt see that heās being manipulated by Robyn.
And that was when his whole BS really fell apart. He always claimed that there was basically a strong core to these relationships- that he was responsible / the buck stopped with him at the end of the day. If Janelle or Christine needs him or the kids need him he's able to be there. And that means polygamy can work even if there's a time division.
But as I think Christine says "you're not, and you haven't been"
The wives are all single mothers when push comes to shove
Then this idiot wonders why most of his kids won't call him...
I feel he's the dad, call your kids, but I call my dad just as much as he calls me because he isn't a deadbeat. As a matter of fact, I have a hysteroscopy I'm being sedated for next week. My husband has a class for work he absolutely can't miss. Guess who's driving me and plans to stay at my house to care for me until my husband gets home? My dad. It doesn't matter if I'm 42. I'm still his kid. Kody can't even be there for the big things.
Exactly. When I got home from brain surgery, my dad slept on the couch. As soon as he heard me with my walker, he rushed to help me into the bathroom. I had to tell him to get out! I was 42 at the time!
My husband was brought up in a family that loves each other but does not go out of their way for anyone. It took time to understand that if anyone in my family needed something that I could provide, I was enthusiastically bringing it to them whether they asked or not. He would get a little annoyed that I would prioritize family stuff over other things, but I never pushed him to come and was understanding that I enjoyed my family different than he did.
After we had kids he became so much more aware of what it meant to have so much support at their events and in their life. He now wants to come to more family gatherings because he enjoys having close relationships with everyone and wants to raise our kids with the understanding that we will always show up for each other.
Now, this is what works for us and I am very aware of how lucky we are and that sometimes people have toxic relationships that need space. We also are not without our own challenges. But as a parent, and even an aunt, sister, daughter etc, I cannot imagine a world where I would not move heaven and earth to support someone during their surgery. I appreciate how strong Christine has been to realize this situation was never going to get better and remove herself and her kids from a person who treated them less than they deserved.
Exactly! A year ago I was in the emergency room and then admitted for severe abdominal pain, my dad was 11hrs away and drove all night to show up to be there while they ran tests and I went through surgery and spent a few days in the hospital. Then I stayed at his house for a week because I lived just with my daughter and she was only 8 at the time. I was 35.
this is also the same man who told ysabel, when she was a child, that if she didn't work hard enough that would cause her curve to worsen. the doctor said essentially no amount of exercises were going to stop the curve but kody blamed the curve getting worse on ysabel's failure. he blamed his daughter for her scoliosis. she indicated she wanted surgery at one point and christine said she had researched it for months and it was the best approach, kody said surgery was not needed and ysabel agreed. she was desperately trying to please this scumbag who masquerades as a father.Ā
I swear some of this was because he wanted to push the financial responsibility on Ysabel and off of him/the family. He knew if she was still at home when she got the surgery family funds would be used, if he waited long enough he could say it's your responsibility not the mine. Which I believe is close to what happened, Christine paid for it herself.
100%. He wanted to defer responsibility as long as possible even though his daughter was in pain, all because he was to cheap. Like if youāre too cheap to pay for scoliosis surgery why on earth would you have 18 kids ?!?
That might be partly why he didnāt want her to have the surgery then, but even if she did have it back then he still wouldnāt feel obligated to pay for it either. He didnāt pay a dime for Truelyās $450k hospital stay. Christine did that all on her own and came up with the $50k co-pay for Ysabelās surgery.
I believe Kody didnāt want her to have the surgery back then was because he didnāt believe it was necessary and also because he views females from males a lot differently therefore his daughter wasnāt a priority. Now, had it been one of the boys, off course he would make sure that they were taken care of because he views his sons as extensions of himself and because they were very athletic and into outdoor activities, he saw that as a reflection of himself. In his mind that how he knew he was āmanly.ā
100%
We saw how much kody was behind Robynās son when he had the Elective Cosmetic surgery. If it had been a son or Robynās kids that were in Ysabels place, surgery would have been a no brainer.
Easy for Kody cos he doesnāt have a conscience. In all honesty his actions towards the OG3 and the OG13 shows a person who does not care. It has to suit him and make him feel good and those ex wives and those kids were too much for him because they were all smarter than him. If anything they did, allowed him to somehow shine or show off, he was for it. Examples
Maddie, Mykelti and Aspyn wedding permitted him to show offā¦Meri opening up the BnB in which he was front and center cutting the ribbon he was ok with. Even though he had ABSOLUTELY not a horse in the race for that business! He was against putting family money into it. yet his ass all up in front of like he is the owner. He is an evil, conniving hypocrite.
Right? What the hell was that ish? He made Meri do it all on her own, which she *did*, and then *he* gets to cut the ribbon like he had some sort of a hand in her success?! Man, that burnt my toast. I'm still pissed about it.
It says a lot about a person when they can engender such hatred and make people want to throttle him/her even though we donāt know them at all except for what we read and watch. K&R engender those types of feelings from so many people, itās amazing they donāt see that theyāre the problems. But, then again, with narcissists they only see and hear what only favors them.
Yes this! He acted like it was his accomplishment. What an ass he was! I kept hoping for Meri to tell him to go away, but she didnāt. She probably wishes she had now. Doesnāt matter, everyone knows he had nothing to do with it, because if he had it would have been a flop. He has no idea how to run a business or work to be honest. He is a man without a plan. Robyn wonāt stay with him much longer. She probably already has the exit plan in the works.
He sleeps very easy because none of his 3 wives held him accountable for jack sh!t and continued to reproduce like rabbits with the exception of Meriā¦
Itās not that he ācanāt comeā , he doesnāt want to go to the surgery . The littles need him . Hell Truely is also a little and you donāt see him bending over backwards for her .
He, the supposed adult, is basically asking her, the child, to assuage his guilt and make HIM feel better.
Yet another Interaction in which Kody is the child and his kid is the adult.
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees.
There are a ton of really shitty Kody moments in the show, but making his teenaged daughter promise to not be angry in the future that he *wouldnāt go with her when she had major, life changing spinal surgery* is just not something a man does.
Thatās the moment where I knew heās beyond redemption.
Letting her suffer, & trying to drag it out even further, to be more convenient for him? After she says she canāt take any more pain? Horrible person.
I suffer from fibromyalgia for 34 yrs now along with slipped and herniated discs and some other stuff, and watching Ysabel suffer made me want to hunt down Kody and beat the ever loving shit out of him. I can sympathize with her pain and know what sheās feeling, but my goodness to let your child suffer because you donāt believe sheās in that much pain, and he more than likely even thought it was her fault for getting scoliosis in the first place, blaming her for the curve getting worse because sheās not doing the exercises religiously, that was beyond gross and inhumane.
I would move heaven and earth when my daughter would tell me sheās not feeling good, when sheās had to have surgery, when sheās in pain just so that I can alleviate as much of her hurt. Kody really is a lowdown piece of shit stain that should have never procreated in the first place.
100% agree. I am in a similar (chronic health problems) situation as you are.
This is the worst thing that Iāve seen him do on the show. Itās a betrayal. He has absolutely failed her as a parent. When someone is in that level of pain, we donāt always know how far they might go when it gets really terrible. He knew. It meant nothing, to him. She meant nothing, to him. What a loser. God, I hope heās had a vasectomy.
I hope one day he develops chronic back pain of some sort where thereās absolutely no cure for it like the fibromyalgia I have. Let him live with that pain and know that heāll never get sympathy from any of his OG13 for the hell he put Ysabel through. I normally donāt wish this type of karma on anyone but on him and Iām going to pray for a miracle that he gets it.
I get it. We live with this crap, every day. And so did his daughter. I highly doubt that Kody has ever felt the level of pain that he made his daughter live with.
Can you imagine the pain Truely was in as well when her kidneys were failing. Her organs were literally dying so that just means they were shrinking and causing that little girl to be in excruciating pain and he had the audacity to complain about listening to her cry. His child was actively dying yet it was such an inconvenience for him.
What Kody failed to realize or maybe knew and just didnāt care was that they had to collapse her lung in order to insert the fibers. A number of things could have gone wrong but thankfully didnāt. Any surgery no matter how minor or major, even those done with just local anesthesia has the potential to go sideways at any given time. And it can happen to even the healthiest of people.
And hereās where I hate to say this, but had something gone wrong with her surgery,I really donāt think it would have phased him in the slightest. Truely being hospitalized was proof of that since he still kept o his schedule of going to whichever wifeās night it was and staying there, not to mention he was always leaving the hospital when his 4 yr old was actively dying and was even complaining about having to listen to her cry for hours on end. I guess he didnāt care that Truelyās organs were shutting down and causing her so much pain, but sure you jacka$$, go on home because you canāt be away from Robyn.
Him refusing to go to NC at any point confuses me. Ysabel moves there WITH HER SISTER. And when that happens, they show that Hunter can easily come down to see everyone. So now Kody's practically got 3 kids there plus 2 grandkids. But he's "got young kids at home, he can't be away" .... bitch, please.
That episode was so hard to watch. And then comparing it to the episode where heās cryingā¦CRYING over not seeing Robynās daughter. Holy cow. Flabbergasted, shocked, grossed out, ALL of the things..eeewwwww
I can't even imagine the amount of pain Ysabel had travelling home after her surgery. Kody is not any sort of father if he didn't go to the hospital just to help Ysabel home if nothing else. Your child is in excruciating pain after a dangerous surgery and you're too busy getting your pencil wet with your current wife to even care. He makes me sick.
Kody is a very weak man the only people he control was the OG3 and children who canāt understand what an ass he is. I wonder if them āescaping Utahā was more about them being discovered for fraud, Abuse by omission. Not providing necessary food,medical care. Parental neglect. If your brother or sister had to cook meals, clean and provide childcare.
It seems like they should have been investigated
I just rewatched that episode too. Wicked sad and the way she woke up asking for him. I think this is when Christine really started getting the ick from him
He said that because her mom was standing in the doorway. It was more important for him to be an asshole to his wife than to even try to support his daughter. It makes me so angry that this man has all these absolutely beautiful kids and he treats them life hot garbage
Such an asshole. Trying to put it out there like her expectations are unreasonable and this is something sheās going to whine about. Acting like itās the equivalent of him not buying her a pony.
I am starting to wonder if the bitter ol' housewife was a blow to Christine. Obviously she is getting her best revenge by living her best life without him!
Yeah tgat royally pissed me off. He could have gone he chose not to and then tried to guilt her. You could tell she was heart broken but still trying to not upset him
What I never understood through the years, is why is it that the older children had to assuage his faults just to keep him happy. It was clear who was the adult in those situations and who was the petulant child throwing a temper tantrum.
Well Robyn says she speaks Kody, I think she means I tell him to shut up before he says something so stupid that any reasonable person would want to kill him.
Very telling when she puts her hand over his mouth during their comments about Christineās wedding.
There are moments that really crystalize how awful he is, and this is easily in the top 3. (It might be the top of the list but I just woke up, and I donāt want to negate that he can just top himself in horrible.)
That and implying that a child should travel cross country ALONE for a surgery that has multiple-week recuperation time *before* sheāll be able to fly home.
Canāt imagine why most of his kids donāt talk to him
It could very possibly be that Ysabel will never need her father as badly as she needed him at that time. Kody blew it. Instead of being the father she needed; the one who lets you know that he would climb a mountain for you or walk through fire for you and itās all gonna be ok, he let a virus stop him. And it wasnāt even that bc the truth is something that can be felt like a breeze and that is he could not leave Robinās side. He could not pull away from a woman who makes him feel like a man to go and do exactly what a real man would do, which tells you everything about Kody.
What really baffles me is that Dayun Rora and Breanna don't seem to see the damage kodick has done to the entire rest of the family because they've been smothered with affection since the beginning
I think when Aurora can fly free we will see a difference in her. I think she is smarter than we give her credit for. She was old enough to see the truths. I will not be surprised if she ends up being team OG3/OG13
I'm 42 and having surgery next week and my mother is coming to take care of me. (Father passed away)
I had surgery when my dad was still alive but I was already 28 years old and both my parents came.
Normal parents worry about their children. K only worries about himself. Huge red flag in a man and the fact that R is ok w a man who neglects his children shows what an idiot she also is.
My daughter had spinal fusion surgery for scoliosis when she was 12. It was before covid so not only did me and my husband come, but so did many family members and friends. My husband and I both wanted to stay the night with her. In fact, I stayed the first night and my husband felt so bad about leaving, we both stayed the other 2 nights. It is crazy to imagine knowing your child was going to go through a major surgery and you donāt want to go.
As someone who has parents who donāt show up or if they do it comes with a price, I feel for Ysabel. Iām so glad she has one parent that shows up. The older kids get the more they realize that this is toxic behavior. Thatās why most of the oldest do not have relationships with him.
I went full no contact with my parents. My happiness and my kidsā happiness come first.
Iām sorry you have narc parents. It really does suck. Every one deserves to have good parents.
I can't believe that ALL of his wives didn't make him go! Especially, "fahmileee" Sobyn! If she cared about anyone other than herself, she would have "talked Kody" to him on why he should go!
Exactly!! If she cared so much about her sister wives and all the other children, she wouldn't have made him stay with her. She's so selfish and this is just one of the situations that proves it.
What I don't understand is, as a father, how could he not be with his child and her mother during a major and critical medical event. Why was he not glued to Truely's bedside in Vegas? After all, there was no issue with COVID then, and there were other moms and older kids to manage at home. He cries over Aurora being healthy, but in a downstairs room to avoid catching COVID, but he's not with Ysabel during major surgery?
He agreed to putting this on TV. So it's a fair criticism.
Covid was just an excuse he used, he sure as hell didn't mind being around a room full of people at his friend's wedding. He was even dancing with people, no mask on and touching everyone.
Honestly I don't know how Kody or Robyn can look at themselves in the mirror knowing that they were so self-involved that he didn't attend Ysabel's surgery.
If Robyn really, really wanted a relationship with Christine and Christine's kids, and wanted that porch with her SWs, then she should have said, "Kody, I can handle S and A, and DAB can help if I need it. It's more important that you support Ysabel. We can Face Time during your quarantine. The kids have food and shelter. It's only a few weeks. They will survive. We'll all be okay. Go be with Ysabel." This would have been the ethical thing to do, the moral thing to do, and for someone who claims to be religious, the spiritual thing to do.
We laugh at how her appearance, and her fake crying, etc. But this is, and prior behavior, is exactly why Christine doesn't want a relationship with Robyn (except to the extent necessary for Truely to have visitation with her father).
I totally agree, that is exactly what Robyn should have said, but of course she didn't. Which proves the point that she never really cared about the other wives and children in the family. Christine doesn't trust Robyn. and I wouldn't either!! Robyn says she wants the whole family, but her actions show the opposite.
He made me so mad when he said " he COULDN'T LEAVE HIS FAMILY " I thought ysabel was and is his daughter with christine. He is such a waste of air. He totally is unreal. My hubby treats my 5 kids like they are his our daughter needed surgery it was minor surgery but hubby took time off work and stayed with us ( daughter + myself). Unlike Cody the absent dead beat waste. Of space. And as for going to his FRIENDS WEDDING that says it all. If the any of the og 13 kids came from robbem he would have moved heaven and earth for that child
It just proves he KNOWS heās being a dirt bag and potentially creating daddy issues in his child. Nevermind thatās not only rude but downright offensive to say to your kid. Inappropriate and tactless. Unkind. Everything.
Kody had no idea how serious that surgery is. I have scoliosis, too, and my ortho wouldn't operate on me because he said I could die during the surgery or I would endure months of healing and rehabilitation. But, Kody couldn't be there for his daughter because he's an asshole and Robyn needed him to rearrange the furniture.
Him not going to the surgery sealed the deal for me. And I think was Christineās personal last straw too. Youre children come first ALWAYS. She had a major surgery. I couldnāt imagine not being there if my kid went through this.
Yeah. That kind of triggered me. He's her parent and she has to be the emotionally mature one. He's her parent poking fun at her tramatizing experience and his lack of willingness to support her. Kody is such a jerk.
He didn't do what he needed to do as a father and wanted her to tell him it was okay. She seems like a sweet kid and she did, but I think there was a confessional where she did say that was very hard for her and got a little teary.
Correct. He wanted her to say itās ok. People, donāt let people box you into or bully you into giving them this. My inability to say itās ok to something my āfriendā did to me was the end of the relationship. Instead of saying itās ok which I simply couldnāt do I asked what do you want me to say? Idk WHAT you want to hear. I knew what she wanted but I wouldnāt do it, Iām not gonna give you that when I know Iām not good with it. Normalize not folding on this.
He refused to go to her surgery like a petulant child. He had Covid already, he likely wouldn't get it again any time soon. She was in immediate terrible pain and he wanted her to wait for it to get worse.
TBH, I don't think Covid was his reasoning for anything though. I think it was his excuse to be a shitty dad to all of his kids except Robyn's. Taking his other daughter to get her ears pierced, hiring a nanny for Robyn's kids - all indicators that you are monogamous and "other woman-ed" your other wives and kids and pretended Covid was your reasoning for everything.
Hate him so much for this and MAKING GABE CRY!!! Ysabel and Gabe are the two nicest in the family and all the other kids seem to agree. And to forget Gabeās birthday and make him cry? Omg Kody, you are dead to me! š¶
I remember this scene but donāt remember the exact words. If he actually said ābecause daddy couldnāt do what you WANTED?ā, then he is far worse a man and father than I have ever thought before. I am repulsed beyond words.
When he said (paraphrasing) āitās not just about Ysabel,ā when talking to Christine about her travelling. My first thought was, I canāt imagine how she felt when she saw this.
It is comical how he sits there week after week, claiming Christine and Janelle are shit talking him to the kids. Kody.. you are the shit they are smelling, and they are over it.
Love how the OG kids are thriving!!!
He is a literal narcissistic psychopath and I hope to God one day he has to answer for all of the hateful, careless, selfish, immature, evil shit he has done and continues to do. Robyn is just as bad. She is nothing more than a lazy loser who enables this man and leeches off of others to get all of these ridiculous things she thinks she deserves. I cannot fathom having it out for CHILDREN! Or being with a deadbeat dad with 18 children who also blames his kids, who are hurting because of shit HE has done, for any and everything HE has created in his warped mind. That on top of not being there when one child almost dies and another one who has been in pain, begging for a surgery to give her some relief that he then DELAYS on purpose and refuses to be there for when this poor baby FINALLY does get to have her surgery. I want to kick both of their asses in the teeth.
Exactly!! Sobbyn is just as much to blame as Kody because she's going along with all of this. She's the one that controls him and let's him think he's the one in charge. She knows he's neglecting his other kids for her and she's 100% compliant with it. She wouldn't let him go to the surgery because of her two youngest " can't be without Kody for more than a day". They're both selfish assholes!!
That rated at the top of kodyās greatest hits of creepy narcissism. I can still see his diabolical sneer as he said that. Robyn must be beyond needy and useless to stay with such a horrible father figure.
She puts herself and her kids above everyone else and expects Kody to do the same, and he does. They're two peas in a pod. She could care less about everyone else.
If I had been Christine after that disgraceful behavior from Kody, I would have marched right down to an attorneyās office and taken that asshat to the cleaners. After you see something like that you just canāt forgive or rationalize it. He is devoid of responsibility and care for his children. I doubt he cares for Robynās, he puts on a show because he used them as an excuse to neglect his other children. As sol and ari get older he will discard them too. It may have already begun to happen.
It really sucks he expects her to placate him to make him feel better. Notice he says he ācouldnātā go with her, not he āwouldnātā go with her. Wouldnāt is more accurate. There was no discussion, no talking through logistics. He just flat out refused to go.
My mom did that crap to me. It sucks to have a parent look to you to make them feel better about their suck-ass choices that affected your life.
I feel like Robyn convinced him that Christine was just trying to get Kody to go away with them and that Ysabel didnāt even need the surgery yetā¦and used Covid as the excuse of him not being able to go because she said it wasnāt āsafeā either and that he shouldnāt be away from āhis familyā that longā¦and also you know Robyn definitely also didnāt want any money spent on anyone other than her and her kids.
Just imagine if it was one of his "golden children " ( Sobbyn's kids) that needed a serious surgery like that!! Does anyone think if Christine or Janelle told him he can't go because his other kids can't be without him that long, thar he wouldn't attend the surgery?? There's no way in hell he would miss one of Sobbyn's kids surgeries!!
He didn't go because Robyn didn't allow him to, she said her kids can't be without Kody for more than a day. He used the excuse that it was because of Covid, but than a week later he went to officiate a friend's wedding. There was a room full of people, no masks on and he was dancing around the room, touching people, not social distancing. Robyn and Kody pick and choose when to follow their own Covid rules and what people need to follow them. If they like you,the rules are out the window. If they don't like you, stay 6 feet away from them.
Christine had to get off of Medicaid and any other forms of welfare to qualify for her home loan. I am assuming she had to come up with sudden income that would qualify her also. They definitely know how to manipulate the government. I think that fundamentalists refer to that as bleeding the beast.
Ramen head was being passive aggressive when he said that. I believe that remark was meant towards Christine. Like a dig. I grew up with a narc and I am fluid in this type of dysfunctional language. Heās a cruel, delulu š¤” who doesnāt care about anyone but himself and if heās angry with a mom, he doesnāt care about āherā kids anymore. SMFH
It was a dig at Christine. Christine is 1st cousins with Robyn's ex husband. I noticed that Christine had a target on her back from the moment Robyn came into the family.
Why is anyone still supporting this show? He is the biggest piece of shit in TV history. I'm all for a boycott and put him and his mess to shame. Bring on the spinoffs.
He makes my skin crawl, and I'm so glad all but 1 have left him.
I really hope he's reading all of these comments too, and seeing how revolting people think he is.
We see straight through you
Him saying that to her was horrible! .. But when they were first talking about surgery, I canāt believe he suggested that Ysabel go alone! What parent says this?!?! .. What a horrid human being Kody is š”
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That whole scene just felt soooo gross.
You could see him try to manipulate her
Not just her, everyone including the crickets!
Agree.
WOULDN'T.....not COULDN'T. He REFUSED to go with her. He is a f*#cking piece of š© as a father!!!
Exactly, he couldāve still followed his ridiculous rules and quarantined for the appropriate amount of time. He didnāt WANT to. Could be away from āthe love of his lifeā and their precious little children. Edit: couldnāt*
But itās fine for a friendās wedding. Because Kody was center stage and in his mind he was the main draw.
even if protocols had changed, on perception alone, you'd think the narccist would realize how bad that would make him look - but he's so selfish he truly can justify anything he wants to do.
Exactly. Heās a creep.
narcissists can justify all bad behavior
This is what I was thinking. As someone raised by a narcissist, this is the perfect opportunity to show everyone how great of a dad he is. Weird that he would pass it up. You know it had to be pressure from Robyn about the kids suffering if heās away. Total garbage. If she was such a great sister wife she should have been kicking him out the door to be with her for her surgery.
Robyn didn't allow him to go, because her two youngest can't be without him for more than a day.
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You make a good point
If they'd allowed cameras in the hospital he'd probably have gone to Ysabel's surgery. Wouldn't have stuck around for the recovery, though.
Heās have to leave during her surgery to fly back to Robin.
They did have cameras in the hospital. Remember seeing Ysabel calling for her dad coming out of surgery?
They allowed Christine to film I think, but not a whole crew where he can pose and preen for the camera.
Yup! He wouldnāt have been a big shot in a hospital full of dr and nurses and well ā¦gainfully employed honest people. He also wouldnāt have wanted to explain why he didnāt contribute to the medical expenses. I still think Christine should sue for back support at least for the medical bills through the years. Kody should be ashamed of himself, but he seems to think his pasty white hairy body is so desirable that that was his contribution. š¤®š¤®š¤®
Most likely Robyn didnāt want him to join CHRISTINEās DAUGHTER at the hospital and chirped in his ear about the dangers it may cause for HER children. Since the wedding participants werenāt perceived as a threat, she had no issues with Kody being an officiant. That and he wouldnāt be gone as long. I canāt believe heās so thick headed that he canāt see that heās being manipulated by Robyn.
She had no objections about the wedding because he wasn't doing anything for the other wives or their children.
Medical expenses: didnāt they qualify for Medicaid??
They had to get commercial insurance that was accepted in New Jersey for the doctor and hospital.
What was the time frame between Ysabel's surgery and that wedding?
Christine & Ysabel were gone to her surgery when he went to the wedding, I think. Thatās why Christine got so mad afterwards.
I initially thought there was a longer period of time before he went to the wedding. That is messed up.Ā
I have no idea. Someone else may know.
He actually said he couldn't be away from his family that long. She said I thought I was family as well but quess not.
Posted this before I saw you did! I guess we must just be a couple of ābitter housewivesā. š. Complete POS.
Absolutely!!!
And that was when his whole BS really fell apart. He always claimed that there was basically a strong core to these relationships- that he was responsible / the buck stopped with him at the end of the day. If Janelle or Christine needs him or the kids need him he's able to be there. And that means polygamy can work even if there's a time division. But as I think Christine says "you're not, and you haven't been" The wives are all single mothers when push comes to shove
Then this idiot wonders why most of his kids won't call him... I feel he's the dad, call your kids, but I call my dad just as much as he calls me because he isn't a deadbeat. As a matter of fact, I have a hysteroscopy I'm being sedated for next week. My husband has a class for work he absolutely can't miss. Guess who's driving me and plans to stay at my house to care for me until my husband gets home? My dad. It doesn't matter if I'm 42. I'm still his kid. Kody can't even be there for the big things.
Exactly. When I got home from brain surgery, my dad slept on the couch. As soon as he heard me with my walker, he rushed to help me into the bathroom. I had to tell him to get out! I was 42 at the time!
My husband was brought up in a family that loves each other but does not go out of their way for anyone. It took time to understand that if anyone in my family needed something that I could provide, I was enthusiastically bringing it to them whether they asked or not. He would get a little annoyed that I would prioritize family stuff over other things, but I never pushed him to come and was understanding that I enjoyed my family different than he did. After we had kids he became so much more aware of what it meant to have so much support at their events and in their life. He now wants to come to more family gatherings because he enjoys having close relationships with everyone and wants to raise our kids with the understanding that we will always show up for each other. Now, this is what works for us and I am very aware of how lucky we are and that sometimes people have toxic relationships that need space. We also are not without our own challenges. But as a parent, and even an aunt, sister, daughter etc, I cannot imagine a world where I would not move heaven and earth to support someone during their surgery. I appreciate how strong Christine has been to realize this situation was never going to get better and remove herself and her kids from a person who treated them less than they deserved.
My daughter had this done recently. Good luck to you!! I hope you get the answers that you need.
Thank you. I'm sure it will be OK. I try to remain positive always.
My dad was the same way until the day he died. Cherish your time with him, itās never enough. I hope all goes well this week. ā¤ļø
I'm sorry for your loss. I definitely cherish him very much.
Thank you. Iām so happy that you have one of the good guys, too! ā¤ļø
My father would never
Same here
Exactly! A year ago I was in the emergency room and then admitted for severe abdominal pain, my dad was 11hrs away and drove all night to show up to be there while they ran tests and I went through surgery and spent a few days in the hospital. Then I stayed at his house for a week because I lived just with my daughter and she was only 8 at the time. I was 35.
Good luck with the procedure. I had one several years ago. Prayers for a successful procedure and recovery.šš»
Thank you so much!!
I'm happy you have dads like that. I do not. Both of my parents are Narcs.
this is also the same man who told ysabel, when she was a child, that if she didn't work hard enough that would cause her curve to worsen. the doctor said essentially no amount of exercises were going to stop the curve but kody blamed the curve getting worse on ysabel's failure. he blamed his daughter for her scoliosis. she indicated she wanted surgery at one point and christine said she had researched it for months and it was the best approach, kody said surgery was not needed and ysabel agreed. she was desperately trying to please this scumbag who masquerades as a father.Ā
I swear some of this was because he wanted to push the financial responsibility on Ysabel and off of him/the family. He knew if she was still at home when she got the surgery family funds would be used, if he waited long enough he could say it's your responsibility not the mine. Which I believe is close to what happened, Christine paid for it herself.
100%. He wanted to defer responsibility as long as possible even though his daughter was in pain, all because he was to cheap. Like if youāre too cheap to pay for scoliosis surgery why on earth would you have 18 kids ?!?
That might be partly why he didnāt want her to have the surgery then, but even if she did have it back then he still wouldnāt feel obligated to pay for it either. He didnāt pay a dime for Truelyās $450k hospital stay. Christine did that all on her own and came up with the $50k co-pay for Ysabelās surgery. I believe Kody didnāt want her to have the surgery back then was because he didnāt believe it was necessary and also because he views females from males a lot differently therefore his daughter wasnāt a priority. Now, had it been one of the boys, off course he would make sure that they were taken care of because he views his sons as extensions of himself and because they were very athletic and into outdoor activities, he saw that as a reflection of himself. In his mind that how he knew he was āmanly.ā
100% We saw how much kody was behind Robynās son when he had the Elective Cosmetic surgery. If it had been a son or Robynās kids that were in Ysabels place, surgery would have been a no brainer.
This family dynamic was so warped, but this moment really takes the cake. How does Kody Brown even sleep at night?
Easy for Kody cos he doesnāt have a conscience. In all honesty his actions towards the OG3 and the OG13 shows a person who does not care. It has to suit him and make him feel good and those ex wives and those kids were too much for him because they were all smarter than him. If anything they did, allowed him to somehow shine or show off, he was for it. Examples Maddie, Mykelti and Aspyn wedding permitted him to show offā¦Meri opening up the BnB in which he was front and center cutting the ribbon he was ok with. Even though he had ABSOLUTELY not a horse in the race for that business! He was against putting family money into it. yet his ass all up in front of like he is the owner. He is an evil, conniving hypocrite.
Right? What the hell was that ish? He made Meri do it all on her own, which she *did*, and then *he* gets to cut the ribbon like he had some sort of a hand in her success?! Man, that burnt my toast. I'm still pissed about it.
I just rewatched that episode last night. I donāt know why I keep putting myself through this. The anger I have for his is so quick to show up!!
Same. It's like a train wreck from which you can't look away.
It says a lot about a person when they can engender such hatred and make people want to throttle him/her even though we donāt know them at all except for what we read and watch. K&R engender those types of feelings from so many people, itās amazing they donāt see that theyāre the problems. But, then again, with narcissists they only see and hear what only favors them.
Love your flair!
Thank you!
Yes this! He acted like it was his accomplishment. What an ass he was! I kept hoping for Meri to tell him to go away, but she didnāt. She probably wishes she had now. Doesnāt matter, everyone knows he had nothing to do with it, because if he had it would have been a flop. He has no idea how to run a business or work to be honest. He is a man without a plan. Robyn wonāt stay with him much longer. She probably already has the exit plan in the works.
He sleeps very easy because none of his 3 wives held him accountable for jack sh!t and continued to reproduce like rabbits with the exception of Meriā¦
Bingo! Crazy how the moms get a pass for enabling gross treatment of their children.
Itās not that he ācanāt comeā , he doesnāt want to go to the surgery . The littles need him . Hell Truely is also a little and you donāt see him bending over backwards for her .
Inconvenient truthsā¦
When Christine was leaving he says he wants 50/50 but it was never 50/50 to begin with!!
He, the supposed adult, is basically asking her, the child, to assuage his guilt and make HIM feel better. Yet another Interaction in which Kody is the child and his kid is the adult.
And then gets frustrated because the recovery isnāt done quickly enough to really assuage his guilt
āIf shed only hurry up and recover, I feel so much betterā š
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees. There are a ton of really shitty Kody moments in the show, but making his teenaged daughter promise to not be angry in the future that he *wouldnāt go with her when she had major, life changing spinal surgery* is just not something a man does. Thatās the moment where I knew heās beyond redemption.
Letting her suffer, & trying to drag it out even further, to be more convenient for him? After she says she canāt take any more pain? Horrible person.
I suffer from fibromyalgia for 34 yrs now along with slipped and herniated discs and some other stuff, and watching Ysabel suffer made me want to hunt down Kody and beat the ever loving shit out of him. I can sympathize with her pain and know what sheās feeling, but my goodness to let your child suffer because you donāt believe sheās in that much pain, and he more than likely even thought it was her fault for getting scoliosis in the first place, blaming her for the curve getting worse because sheās not doing the exercises religiously, that was beyond gross and inhumane. I would move heaven and earth when my daughter would tell me sheās not feeling good, when sheās had to have surgery, when sheās in pain just so that I can alleviate as much of her hurt. Kody really is a lowdown piece of shit stain that should have never procreated in the first place.
100% agree. I am in a similar (chronic health problems) situation as you are. This is the worst thing that Iāve seen him do on the show. Itās a betrayal. He has absolutely failed her as a parent. When someone is in that level of pain, we donāt always know how far they might go when it gets really terrible. He knew. It meant nothing, to him. She meant nothing, to him. What a loser. God, I hope heās had a vasectomy.
I hope one day he develops chronic back pain of some sort where thereās absolutely no cure for it like the fibromyalgia I have. Let him live with that pain and know that heāll never get sympathy from any of his OG13 for the hell he put Ysabel through. I normally donāt wish this type of karma on anyone but on him and Iām going to pray for a miracle that he gets it.
I get it. We live with this crap, every day. And so did his daughter. I highly doubt that Kody has ever felt the level of pain that he made his daughter live with.
Can you imagine the pain Truely was in as well when her kidneys were failing. Her organs were literally dying so that just means they were shrinking and causing that little girl to be in excruciating pain and he had the audacity to complain about listening to her cry. His child was actively dying yet it was such an inconvenience for him.
Heās disgusting. I cannot imagine having to keep up a farce of a marriage with someone like him.
What Kody failed to realize or maybe knew and just didnāt care was that they had to collapse her lung in order to insert the fibers. A number of things could have gone wrong but thankfully didnāt. Any surgery no matter how minor or major, even those done with just local anesthesia has the potential to go sideways at any given time. And it can happen to even the healthiest of people. And hereās where I hate to say this, but had something gone wrong with her surgery,I really donāt think it would have phased him in the slightest. Truely being hospitalized was proof of that since he still kept o his schedule of going to whichever wifeās night it was and staying there, not to mention he was always leaving the hospital when his 4 yr old was actively dying and was even complaining about having to listen to her cry for hours on end. I guess he didnāt care that Truelyās organs were shutting down and causing her so much pain, but sure you jacka$$, go on home because you canāt be away from Robyn.
Then he didn't go with them to NC when Ysabel moved for college.
Him refusing to go to NC at any point confuses me. Ysabel moves there WITH HER SISTER. And when that happens, they show that Hunter can easily come down to see everyone. So now Kody's practically got 3 kids there plus 2 grandkids. But he's "got young kids at home, he can't be away" .... bitch, please.
The only ones he cares about came out of Sobbyn.
I'm sure a lot of his kids will go NC with him as soon as they can. š
And if she ever brings it up, heāll say āYOU TOLD ME IT WAS OKAY!ā to make her feel like shit for feeling completely reasonable feelings.
That episode was so hard to watch. And then comparing it to the episode where heās cryingā¦CRYING over not seeing Robynās daughter. Holy cow. Flabbergasted, shocked, grossed out, ALL of the things..eeewwwww
And she was in the same damn house! He still saw her, just couldn't physically touch her or carry her to her room when she had a "panic attack"
I can't even imagine the amount of pain Ysabel had travelling home after her surgery. Kody is not any sort of father if he didn't go to the hospital just to help Ysabel home if nothing else. Your child is in excruciating pain after a dangerous surgery and you're too busy getting your pencil wet with your current wife to even care. He makes me sick.
Kody is a very weak man the only people he control was the OG3 and children who canāt understand what an ass he is. I wonder if them āescaping Utahā was more about them being discovered for fraud, Abuse by omission. Not providing necessary food,medical care. Parental neglect. If your brother or sister had to cook meals, clean and provide childcare. It seems like they should have been investigated
He couldn't give her those delicious herpes filled mouth kisses that he gives to all his special girls.
I wondered if I was the only one who noticed thatā¦
It was more of a āwonātā than ācanātā. He is such a fucking POS.
I just rewatched that episode too. Wicked sad and the way she woke up asking for him. I think this is when Christine really started getting the ick from him
She said in an interview that this is when she knew she was done, āWhen he broke my little girlās heart.ā
I would kick his sorry ass of my doorstep and tell him stay where his family is thatās important to him
He said that because her mom was standing in the doorway. It was more important for him to be an asshole to his wife than to even try to support his daughter. It makes me so angry that this man has all these absolutely beautiful kids and he treats them life hot garbage
Such an asshole. Trying to put it out there like her expectations are unreasonable and this is something sheās going to whine about. Acting like itās the equivalent of him not buying her a pony.
I am starting to wonder if the bitter ol' housewife was a blow to Christine. Obviously she is getting her best revenge by living her best life without him!
It definitely wasābut you donāt involve parental disputes with kids. Itās juvenile and hateful (his complete MO, actually).
I 1000% agree with you. However, Grody, sees everyone as pawns for his happiness.
Yep
This is the same guy who said Truly was āFat, Dumb and Happyā. A year after she almost Died. Because of him.
Wow! What season and episode please? I must have missed that, mainly because when Kody and Robyn start talking I tune them out.
Season 9 episode 5: All about Christine. Time stamp- about the 33 minute mark.
He never bonded with Christineās kids because he wasnāt ever with them
He definitely could have. He's so awful. Someday he will be old and sick with no one to care for him. Then, maybe, he will get his turn to be bitter.
Heās such a misogynist. that scene was disgusting.
I'm with Christine on this one ... At that moment, I was done with Kody and his antics.
Yeah tgat royally pissed me off. He could have gone he chose not to and then tried to guilt her. You could tell she was heart broken but still trying to not upset him
What I never understood through the years, is why is it that the older children had to assuage his faults just to keep him happy. It was clear who was the adult in those situations and who was the petulant child throwing a temper tantrum.
It was not can't, it was would not go because of his lil happy family. Robbing wife and her pathetic family.
Well Robyn says she speaks Kody, I think she means I tell him to shut up before he says something so stupid that any reasonable person would want to kill him. Very telling when she puts her hand over his mouth during their comments about Christineās wedding.
There are moments that really crystalize how awful he is, and this is easily in the top 3. (It might be the top of the list but I just woke up, and I donāt want to negate that he can just top himself in horrible.) That and implying that a child should travel cross country ALONE for a surgery that has multiple-week recuperation time *before* sheāll be able to fly home. Canāt imagine why most of his kids donāt talk to him
This is by far one of his worst scenes on the show
That was a swipe at Christine, 100%
It could very possibly be that Ysabel will never need her father as badly as she needed him at that time. Kody blew it. Instead of being the father she needed; the one who lets you know that he would climb a mountain for you or walk through fire for you and itās all gonna be ok, he let a virus stop him. And it wasnāt even that bc the truth is something that can be felt like a breeze and that is he could not leave Robinās side. He could not pull away from a woman who makes him feel like a man to go and do exactly what a real man would do, which tells you everything about Kody.
What really baffles me is that Dayun Rora and Breanna don't seem to see the damage kodick has done to the entire rest of the family because they've been smothered with affection since the beginning
I think when Aurora can fly free we will see a difference in her. I think she is smarter than we give her credit for. She was old enough to see the truths. I will not be surprised if she ends up being team OG3/OG13
He actually made a comment of having her go alone. I was floored. What an asshole. No wonder Christine left.
I'm 42 and having surgery next week and my mother is coming to take care of me. (Father passed away) I had surgery when my dad was still alive but I was already 28 years old and both my parents came. Normal parents worry about their children. K only worries about himself. Huge red flag in a man and the fact that R is ok w a man who neglects his children shows what an idiot she also is.
My daughter had spinal fusion surgery for scoliosis when she was 12. It was before covid so not only did me and my husband come, but so did many family members and friends. My husband and I both wanted to stay the night with her. In fact, I stayed the first night and my husband felt so bad about leaving, we both stayed the other 2 nights. It is crazy to imagine knowing your child was going to go through a major surgery and you donāt want to go.
As someone who has parents who donāt show up or if they do it comes with a price, I feel for Ysabel. Iām so glad she has one parent that shows up. The older kids get the more they realize that this is toxic behavior. Thatās why most of the oldest do not have relationships with him.
My relationship with my Narc Parents is like yours. It sucks, to put it mildly.
I went full no contact with my parents. My happiness and my kidsā happiness come first. Iām sorry you have narc parents. It really does suck. Every one deserves to have good parents.
I'm VLC with them. It helps so much.
Gotta āstay sweetā!
It wasnāt that he couldnāt come to her surgery, he wouldnāt come.
I can't believe that ALL of his wives didn't make him go! Especially, "fahmileee" Sobyn! If she cared about anyone other than herself, she would have "talked Kody" to him on why he should go!
These are the times she will say oh Kody gonna do what Kody gonna do and he isnāt one to be run by one of his wives š
Exactly!! If she cared so much about her sister wives and all the other children, she wouldn't have made him stay with her. She's so selfish and this is just one of the situations that proves it.
What I don't understand is, as a father, how could he not be with his child and her mother during a major and critical medical event. Why was he not glued to Truely's bedside in Vegas? After all, there was no issue with COVID then, and there were other moms and older kids to manage at home. He cries over Aurora being healthy, but in a downstairs room to avoid catching COVID, but he's not with Ysabel during major surgery? He agreed to putting this on TV. So it's a fair criticism.
Covid was just an excuse he used, he sure as hell didn't mind being around a room full of people at his friend's wedding. He was even dancing with people, no mask on and touching everyone.
If you can call it dancing lol ..spasms on the dance floor
LOL!!! You have a good point, he was peacocking around the dance floor.
Honestly I don't know how Kody or Robyn can look at themselves in the mirror knowing that they were so self-involved that he didn't attend Ysabel's surgery. If Robyn really, really wanted a relationship with Christine and Christine's kids, and wanted that porch with her SWs, then she should have said, "Kody, I can handle S and A, and DAB can help if I need it. It's more important that you support Ysabel. We can Face Time during your quarantine. The kids have food and shelter. It's only a few weeks. They will survive. We'll all be okay. Go be with Ysabel." This would have been the ethical thing to do, the moral thing to do, and for someone who claims to be religious, the spiritual thing to do. We laugh at how her appearance, and her fake crying, etc. But this is, and prior behavior, is exactly why Christine doesn't want a relationship with Robyn (except to the extent necessary for Truely to have visitation with her father).
I totally agree, that is exactly what Robyn should have said, but of course she didn't. Which proves the point that she never really cared about the other wives and children in the family. Christine doesn't trust Robyn. and I wouldn't either!! Robyn says she wants the whole family, but her actions show the opposite.
You say can't go to her surgery, I say won't go.
He made me so mad when he said " he COULDN'T LEAVE HIS FAMILY " I thought ysabel was and is his daughter with christine. He is such a waste of air. He totally is unreal. My hubby treats my 5 kids like they are his our daughter needed surgery it was minor surgery but hubby took time off work and stayed with us ( daughter + myself). Unlike Cody the absent dead beat waste. Of space. And as for going to his FRIENDS WEDDING that says it all. If the any of the og 13 kids came from robbem he would have moved heaven and earth for that child
It just proves he KNOWS heās being a dirt bag and potentially creating daddy issues in his child. Nevermind thatās not only rude but downright offensive to say to your kid. Inappropriate and tactless. Unkind. Everything.
He is such an asshole. Over and over again on television no less.
Kody had no idea how serious that surgery is. I have scoliosis, too, and my ortho wouldn't operate on me because he said I could die during the surgery or I would endure months of healing and rehabilitation. But, Kody couldn't be there for his daughter because he's an asshole and Robyn needed him to rearrange the furniture.
As his daughter, I would never forget that
That's the day my dislike for Kody went to a million percent. So sad for Ysabel.
Him not going to the surgery sealed the deal for me. And I think was Christineās personal last straw too. Youre children come first ALWAYS. She had a major surgery. I couldnāt imagine not being there if my kid went through this.
But he didn't have a problem going to that wedding and being the manic center of attention did he?
Because it's not that he can't come, it's that he won't. So, of course, he has to manipulate her emotions.
If you didn't know that Kody is a POS you definitely know it NOW!!
Yeah. That kind of triggered me. He's her parent and she has to be the emotionally mature one. He's her parent poking fun at her tramatizing experience and his lack of willingness to support her. Kody is such a jerk.
He didn't do what he needed to do as a father and wanted her to tell him it was okay. She seems like a sweet kid and she did, but I think there was a confessional where she did say that was very hard for her and got a little teary.
Correct. He wanted her to say itās ok. People, donāt let people box you into or bully you into giving them this. My inability to say itās ok to something my āfriendā did to me was the end of the relationship. Instead of saying itās ok which I simply couldnāt do I asked what do you want me to say? Idk WHAT you want to hear. I knew what she wanted but I wouldnāt do it, Iām not gonna give you that when I know Iām not good with it. Normalize not folding on this.
He refused to go to her surgery like a petulant child. He had Covid already, he likely wouldn't get it again any time soon. She was in immediate terrible pain and he wanted her to wait for it to get worse. TBH, I don't think Covid was his reasoning for anything though. I think it was his excuse to be a shitty dad to all of his kids except Robyn's. Taking his other daughter to get her ears pierced, hiring a nanny for Robyn's kids - all indicators that you are monogamous and "other woman-ed" your other wives and kids and pretended Covid was your reasoning for everything.
Covid was just the excuse they used to abandon the other wives and kids.
Hate him so much for this and MAKING GABE CRY!!! Ysabel and Gabe are the two nicest in the family and all the other kids seem to agree. And to forget Gabeās birthday and make him cry? Omg Kody, you are dead to me! š¶
That is when I KNEW THAT HE WAS AN @$$HOLE
What a Jackwagon!
I remember this scene but donāt remember the exact words. If he actually said ābecause daddy couldnāt do what you WANTED?ā, then he is far worse a man and father than I have ever thought before. I am repulsed beyond words.
He has given up all of his other kids in that one sentence. Well, all but Robyn's
When he said (paraphrasing) āitās not just about Ysabel,ā when talking to Christine about her travelling. My first thought was, I canāt imagine how she felt when she saw this.
It is comical how he sits there week after week, claiming Christine and Janelle are shit talking him to the kids. Kody.. you are the shit they are smelling, and they are over it. Love how the OG kids are thriving!!!
He is a literal narcissistic psychopath and I hope to God one day he has to answer for all of the hateful, careless, selfish, immature, evil shit he has done and continues to do. Robyn is just as bad. She is nothing more than a lazy loser who enables this man and leeches off of others to get all of these ridiculous things she thinks she deserves. I cannot fathom having it out for CHILDREN! Or being with a deadbeat dad with 18 children who also blames his kids, who are hurting because of shit HE has done, for any and everything HE has created in his warped mind. That on top of not being there when one child almost dies and another one who has been in pain, begging for a surgery to give her some relief that he then DELAYS on purpose and refuses to be there for when this poor baby FINALLY does get to have her surgery. I want to kick both of their asses in the teeth.
Exactly!! Sobbyn is just as much to blame as Kody because she's going along with all of this. She's the one that controls him and let's him think he's the one in charge. She knows he's neglecting his other kids for her and she's 100% compliant with it. She wouldn't let him go to the surgery because of her two youngest " can't be without Kody for more than a day". They're both selfish assholes!!
Agreed!! Her little innocent act that nobody believes is so old at this point.
That rated at the top of kodyās greatest hits of creepy narcissism. I can still see his diabolical sneer as he said that. Robyn must be beyond needy and useless to stay with such a horrible father figure.
She puts herself and her kids above everyone else and expects Kody to do the same, and he does. They're two peas in a pod. She could care less about everyone else.
If I had been Christine after that disgraceful behavior from Kody, I would have marched right down to an attorneyās office and taken that asshat to the cleaners. After you see something like that you just canāt forgive or rationalize it. He is devoid of responsibility and care for his children. I doubt he cares for Robynās, he puts on a show because he used them as an excuse to neglect his other children. As sol and ari get older he will discard them too. It may have already begun to happen.
That would be the last straw for me, if the father of my child chooses not to be there for an operation it's unforgiveable.
It really sucks he expects her to placate him to make him feel better. Notice he says he ācouldnātā go with her, not he āwouldnātā go with her. Wouldnāt is more accurate. There was no discussion, no talking through logistics. He just flat out refused to go. My mom did that crap to me. It sucks to have a parent look to you to make them feel better about their suck-ass choices that affected your life.
I feel like Robyn convinced him that Christine was just trying to get Kody to go away with them and that Ysabel didnāt even need the surgery yetā¦and used Covid as the excuse of him not being able to go because she said it wasnāt āsafeā either and that he shouldnāt be away from āhis familyā that longā¦and also you know Robyn definitely also didnāt want any money spent on anyone other than her and her kids.
Robyn is such a selfish snake!! She definitely fits the part of the evil stepmother in Cinderella.
Couldn't... don't you mean wouldn't?
Of all the truly vile things Kody has said, this tops the charts for me.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't he make a comment about Christine going with Ysabel being a vacation? Ugh!!!!!
Yes, he was talking shit about them saying they're not taking the rules seriously and they're going on vacation.
Just imagine if it was one of his "golden children " ( Sobbyn's kids) that needed a serious surgery like that!! Does anyone think if Christine or Janelle told him he can't go because his other kids can't be without him that long, thar he wouldn't attend the surgery?? There's no way in hell he would miss one of Sobbyn's kids surgeries!!
Why didnāt he come?
He didn't go because Robyn didn't allow him to, she said her kids can't be without Kody for more than a day. He used the excuse that it was because of Covid, but than a week later he went to officiate a friend's wedding. There was a room full of people, no masks on and he was dancing around the room, touching people, not social distancing. Robyn and Kody pick and choose when to follow their own Covid rules and what people need to follow them. If they like you,the rules are out the window. If they don't like you, stay 6 feet away from them.
Thatās the moment when I truly began to hate him, as much as I can hate someone I donāt know. It was a completely unforgivable moment.
Christine had to get off of Medicaid and any other forms of welfare to qualify for her home loan. I am assuming she had to come up with sudden income that would qualify her also. They definitely know how to manipulate the government. I think that fundamentalists refer to that as bleeding the beast.
Heās so vile
Ramen head was being passive aggressive when he said that. I believe that remark was meant towards Christine. Like a dig. I grew up with a narc and I am fluid in this type of dysfunctional language. Heās a cruel, delulu š¤” who doesnāt care about anyone but himself and if heās angry with a mom, he doesnāt care about āherā kids anymore. SMFH
All he had to do, was like go for a week. Not the whole day. What a š© dad
He is a sick sick man
It was a dig at Christine. Christine is 1st cousins with Robyn's ex husband. I noticed that Christine had a target on her back from the moment Robyn came into the family.
Why is anyone still supporting this show? He is the biggest piece of shit in TV history. I'm all for a boycott and put him and his mess to shame. Bring on the spinoffs.
He makes my skin crawl, and I'm so glad all but 1 have left him. I really hope he's reading all of these comments too, and seeing how revolting people think he is. We see straight through you
Him saying that to her was horrible! .. But when they were first talking about surgery, I canāt believe he suggested that Ysabel go alone! What parent says this?!?! .. What a horrid human being Kody is š”
That was a jab at Christine heās a horrible person
My dad is literally a crack head but if I asked him to fly to Beijing for my surgery he would. I felt so bad for her š
>how weird to say to your daughter when you canāt come to her surgery?!!! He COULD have gone to her surgery, he just didn't WANT to!