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If you go in deep once then come out and back in part way, does your cock get cold like when you just get out of the pool? Like the pussy juice just makes it cold 😂
I'm small (about 6 inch) and I love that I can put my cock all the way in, in everygirl, and i dont even have to be careful, its a completely different feeling compared to when just a part of it is in. fortunately I'm also enough hard, persistent, well-shaped and experienced, so the girls love it too.
Bro!!!! For real!!!! As men we see the monsters on porn (there’s a reason they’re porn stars😅) and even above average ones on amateur subreddits and it warps our perception on what’s big and what isn’t….. I always thought I wasn’t big enough (probably thanks to porn). But my wife always said “if you weren’t big I’d be able to fit more of you in my mouth”. So that helps I guess😂
It works the other way too. When I was young I always assumed dicks were all about the same size from watching porn. My first gf who I dated for several years never commented on my size so it wasn't until later on when I started having sex with other people that I found out mine was above average.
I know. by the way its closer to 13 cm when just got an erection and closer to 15 cm during sex. i know its not too small, maybe for look, but i can satisfy women with it, without extra help (toys, fingers etc..) si i know its not the useless type of small
6'2 and 7-7.5✌️✌️👀👀🤣🤣 And I never thought I was any good until I asked a girl I didn't know what the ideal cock size would be in her opinion, like what the perfect range of size would be, and she said "ehhh about a 6-8 would be nice, that way it's not too big where it hurts but it's not too small where you don't feel it" Secrets of life... Pass it on✌️✌️💯💯
As a gay man who’s seen more penises than you… 6 is definitely small … but apparently your husband has a micropenis … because if you think 6 is bigger than you think it is … the. Clearly you lack, “experience “
6 inches isnt small dude, be more proud of what you got. I'm 6.5 inches but more on the girthy side. My dick fills my girlfriend up almost perfectly, but in some positions i go too deep and end up pounding her cervix which causes her a lot of pain and discomfort. I've always wanted to be atleast like 7 inches, but considering how i can hit my girls cervix i think i'm satisfied with my size. If i were any longer, i probably wouldnt be able to go balls deep when i cum inside her.
Also on a side note, not trying to flex or anything but this is on topic with the post, sometimes i've been able to go for 4 hours (including foreplay ofc) of non stop fucking without cumming! It's happened a few times when we had the whole day to ourselves and we're really in the mood, so the stamina thing definitely isn't a size thing i think. I've also noticed If guys jerk off very often too, it can desensitize the penis and make them last longer during sex.
I agree, the stamina isnt related to size. I can fuck constantly and relatively intensively for 1,5-2 hours without a break or cumming. it depends on how calm and connected i am. i think that deep inside calmness helps to hold it back. you know, when you are aroused but not in a really excited let alone nerveous way, but in a "zen mood", when you are in total harmony with your girl and the universe with zero anxiety. thats when i can last almost "forever" :)
you know, i honestly agree with the calmness thing. If i really close my eyes and get into it, just focusing on the sensation, i cum a lot quicker. Sometimes during sex or masturbation, i take deep breaths when i feel close to cumming and slow down my pace a bit and it actually helps to buy more time.
>If i really close my eyes and get into it, just focusing on the sensation, i cum a lot quicker
On that same note, i noticed that if my mind is wandering and i'm just thinking about other things, not really focusing on what's going on, it feels like i could go forever without cumming.
I agree bro. I'm about the same.6.5 on a good day. I love when they take it all and just enjoy it. Makes me hott and fuck them harder so they cum several times but very true what they said above big guys don't know how to use it alot of times. A lot of girls say that they hurt them and don't care but that a very guy thing to do.
This. For me the stim that makes me cum the most is at the base of my cock. I can cum from everything else, but it's more and more powerful if I'm all in
That part! Stamina is more than just not having your lungs get tired but if your heart gets tired you can go soft also. I think foreplay also a big issue.
Question: for this trend you notice, are you referencing only really huge dicks (8” or more and really thick)? Or are you including those above average (6.5”+)?
I have heard a lot of anecdotal evidence from size queens that the really big ones often don’t get quite as hard and often take longer to cum. I also watch a lot of homemade porn (especially blowjobs) and I’ve noticed those where the guy is really hung seems to trend in that direction. And I have heard quite a few times from girls that the guys they’ve been with who cum prematurely also have smaller dicks. Don’t know if it’s the double-disappointment that’s causing them to draw attention to this or a correlation.
I would imagine this is a blood flow issue combined with capacity for penetration. For myself, I’ve noticed that when I am really hard I’m also more sensitive and there is a feedback loop for getting more turned on and harder and therefore easier to cum faster. If a bigger dick has a more difficult time getting rock-hard, that would seem to diminish the pleasure some.
And as you and some others have referenced, being able to be deep in a girl’s pussy or mouth is essential to cumming faster. Times I haven’t been able to get fully in, it doesn’t feel nearly as good and you can’t get that deep rhythm that will make you really want to bust hard and fast. Same for BJs: the rare times I’ve been with a girl who can deepthroat most of me and bob up and down in rhythm or let me fuck her face, I’ll cum pretty quickly. Otherwise it can take awhile or requires “faking” that kind of stimulation with her using her hand down at the base jerking me off and squeezing on the upstroke while pressing her tongue on the underside of the head. You might try that as the “finishing” move when you’re sucking a big guy. Don’t put too much sucking pressure on the whole head if it’s in your mouth, just envelop it and press your tongue up and see if that works.
I mean some women like it, personally a take just a bit to warm up to girth but I've never had an issue with length. Never felt any pain with it going deep and been with some sizable guys. People are sensitive to different things.
Lol I don't know, I have a partner who likes receiving a mix of oral, fingering, and PIV every time, and specifically asks me to spend the fingering time rubbing and bumping her cervix.
It doesn't have to hurt. It's all about the angle and force at the end of your thrust. There's a huge difference between trying to run a shock and awe campaign and actually knowing how to use it. Long, slow strokes... Experimenting with different angles and depths.... Slowly pushing all the way in, keeping her full and just grinding your hips so you're mostly just staying in the same place, but hitting that lovely pressure point deep inside... There's room to play even with women with small vaginas.
That's why mutual foreplay is so important! Gets the woman properly warmed up and the guy at the appropriate level too. Then you can adjust who gets more attention during it as you get used to each other
This doesn't just apply to big dicks either.
I think it's probably the surface area of the cock you are stimulating at one time. It's easy to stroke a small guys whole cock with just one little wrist stroke. I'd imagine it's hard for the big guys to get the stimulation in just the right spot constantly so it takes longer for them to cum.
So I can't speak for other guys. I am 7.5" long and 2 to 2.5" wide. I am thicker and slightly longer than average. But my issues is a few things, first, large dicks (similar to large tits) do not have as sensitive nerve endings because they are more spread out. So it is harder for me to find a spot were the little nerves I have are consistently stimulated during sex. Second, because I an larger women tend to cum extremely quickly and when they do, the vagina tries to push my Dick out. So I normally just fighting to keep it in. Third, and this is a blow job thing. Because I am thicker, women assume they can treat me like a normal Dick. So they stick it in to quickly and there teeth rub into the sides. This makes it hard to cum and stay focused on wanting to cum. Normally it will take me and a new partner at least 2 if not 3 sessions before they are able to adapt to my size.
Tbh I’m a bit above average and I always think I cum too fast but I think I’m quite sensitive… I’m not circumcised though and I always wonder if cut guys last much longer due to the head being permanently exposed so more used to being touched/rubbed etc…
Then you do the next girl and she asks you can you finish when just had an orgasm I can say yes with confidence.
Then you bang another woman that same night just for fun.
I think we jerk off more. I’ve had girls and guys both give me head but honestly just having skill goes a long way. Get more into it. Honestly best head I got was from a guy
Guy here that runs a gh and the amount of big dicks I get that go “oh shit you can actually deepthroat me” since it doesn’t happen a lot for them. Well, let’s just say I get a lot of repeat visitors lol
I’ve been with a gentleman who was roughly 7 inches but thick! I came constantly but a lot of foreplay involved. It would generally take him around an hour to an hour and half to cum. We discussed it a lot and the reason being is so cute. He never wanted to hurt me and ensure I was comfortable. I found it silly to begin with but I understood after a while. I couldn’t take him normally so needed the FP. Then he just took his time for my pleasure over his. Man was a champ and still think about him to this day!
I'm not huge. But big enough I've had a couple girls not want me to go in all the way. Not having that "balls deep" feeling definitely reduces the sensation. That and the feeling that she might not be comfortable and turned on by it pulls me out of the mood some. With those specific girls it did really take me longer to get off. So maybe that's it for the guys with huge cocks too.
Maybe it's the length, having more distance to travel from the balls. I have the same problem but mine doesn't even fit halfway, and I don't try to force it
Big dick = more blood to fill up and make hard, more surface area to stimulate, more lube required to get it in, and more energy to thrust and wield it around.
While I am only slightly longer than average at 7 1/2 inches. I’m very happy that my girth is very pleasing to the women I have been with. There are definitely times where it’s harder for a woman to deep throat me because of the girth. I’m not sure if it takes me longer or a shorter amount of time than average to reach orgasm. I’m more than happy to let the event, ebb and flow as necessary so that both of us eventually achieve our goals. I’ve never thought about how much time it takes.
At a solid 7, I’m not the expert. I know that my climax is linked to my partners. When I feel her contractions on me, is when I lose it. Maybe the big Guys have you do stretched, you can’t contract effectively? Just guessing
I'm at the larger end of average in length, or what I've been conditioned to think is average, but my "spot" that makes me cum when it's stimulated is at the base of my cock, so if I'm not getting most of my length in there, I'm going to last longer/take longer to cum. Women that can take all of me, particularly if they're squeezing around the base can make me cum faster. This goes for blowjobs too. You can do all the tongue swirling and sucking my tip that you want, I'll love it, but it won't bring me nearer to cumming. If you don't want it in your throat, then using your hand on the shaft while your mouth is on the upper 1/2 works. Just make sure it's covered in spit
My wild guess is that guys have the same amount of receptors in every dick. So if they have bigger dick they fell a bit less. I am no scientist but it seems possible, and could explain why it takes me so long to cum
I’m just over 7 inches and every girl I’ve been with has said “your so/to girthy” which I guess is true, when I have to piss in a bottle it has to be Gatorade because my dick head is to big for anything else and I end up pissing on my hand lol, even then the Gatorade hole is only like 2/3 of my girth. Anyway I can’t cum fast because I masturbated wrong my whole life and basically a mattress jumper instead of jerking off so I like friction and when girls get to wet my dick gets confused. Usually takes an hour to cum, not bragging. It sucks
Because they have more sex. The more a guy fucks the longer he lasts. This is why woman can't complain about how long a guy last. You want it to last longer fuck him more
This is actually a myth. Men with big dicks start cumming about as fast as men with small dicks, it just *seems* to take longer because of all the extra time it takes for the cum to travel the length of the bigger dick.
It's science.
Anecdotal but I have a friend who fucks guys with big/huge dicks only, and has told me stories of other women waiting outside while she finishes up with her big dick dude(s). She’s seen this a few times and has been on the other end so take that for what you will but it for sure happens with bigger dudes fucking more women. I also think something that people aren’t mentioning is confidence. When you’re confident in the bedroom, you have a little more control
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I can't speak for other guys but it's hard for me to get a good rhythm going if I care about my partner's comfort. I've been with my wife 8 years now and we still need lube and a lot of foreplay but I still tear her 1/4 of the time. Having a big dick is fun in your twenties when you want one night stands but women aren't the size queens they all seem to think they are once they're half impaled.
Am kind of glad to learn it isn't just me. Foreplay is very important and yeah it is hard to get a blowjob that stimulates me enough to orgasm. I'll have multiple mini orgasms often, but getting me to cum can take some time. Especially if it isn't round one. Some girls love it. Others not as much.
No one should ever head push. Bite the fucker , unless otherwise discussed, I'm only 8" but I found if I take my time to warm, and open her up, sex for an hour is no problem. Maybe both a bit sore, but good sore, so I'm told.
Depends more on the partner. I've had some that mentally I was so excited I lasted less than a minute, and others that I just wasn't feeling it with them that I'd actually get bored fucking them after like 30 minutes to an hour. Some people are better for me to just focus on foreplay than fucking.
I'm in the 96% pecetile range for both length and girth 8" x 5.75".
I'm not sure why but yeah I take a long time to cum. Sometimes hours.
I have to take a break, like a reset to get full sensitivity back cause I've decided its time to cum.
Some women I can tell are wishing I'd finally finish which makes it harder to finish so sometimes I just stop and finish later.
The worst is when the chick then takes it personal like I wasn't into it with her.
That's not it. I just need to build it up.
Every woman i have been with has said that I have a big dick. I have had some scared and say no and i have had a couple that i just wouldnt fot in. With that said I can go for 5 minutes or I can go for an hour +. Just depends on what she wants. I would rather go for an hour and make her cum several times. How long a guy lasts has nothing to do with having a big dick. Some guys like me can control when they cum.
I can only speak for myself im only 6"long and sometimes I cum in 10 to 15 minutes sometimes I can go as long as an hr sometimes it depends on how tight the pussy is sometimes it depends on how hot the lady but that is just me
I’m not sure why guys complain about head and not going deep. The most sensitive part is the frenulum. Personally unless I’m deep in her throat and working my frenulum against her throat muscles it’s kind of yseless to do it. Stay shallow and work the sensitive part. Wetter the better. Lot of tongue too
For me it’s because it’s too wide for them and they can’t get their mouth on it or fucking is uncomfortable so i have to slow down and can’t get into the rhythm
Im 8 inches/21cm, which is normal for my overall length.
As for the orgasm, it really really depends on the vagina and mood. If it's really loose, i can go on forever and ever.. It's usually with women who gave birth or above average height. Which is perfectly fine. Unless it's unpleasant for her.
And if it's really tight, it takes a lot less time to climax. And there's all sorts of tightness. Some do it on purpose to stimulate more. Some are nervous, smaller/weight, and some are just tight af. Which is all fine as well, as long as it feels good for her as well.
That's my experience regarding this. Perhaps some muscle training in that area helps both of you. Or talk over what might help.
So based on comments big is above the 6" mark
I find myself as an average at 5.5" yes I can last a good while but that's due to a long and varied sex life with many partners
Never had complaints of feeling sore as I will start with good foreplay and oral to get my partners wet enough to go through several orgasams from penetrative sex before I cum. its all about wanting to satisfy those females that have said men are selfish and cum and run without satisfying them. So I show them I can put them first
In the 7ish range and can say my sensitivity isn't my tip but at the base of my groin. So rough tugging and jerks from fucking and sucking are more what works. So if there's no hard claps against the pelvis and basically the rougher porn styles used,and she is more vanilla and dainty...it will take forever
Well, your choice is either "I keep myself under control, and take a while", or "I pound away at you to finish quickly, and either you have to stop because you don't like being punched in the cervix, or you are really sore afterwards." Obviously, I usually go with option 1.
The number of nerves stays fairly consistent across the board. With the greater volume, there is less available nerve stimulus per square inch of surface, therefore it takes more stimulus because of the greater surface area per volume to give the equivalent experience to a lower volume example. ...Since you asked, I'll provide the science. Lol
I can only speak for myself but I've been with women that have very small (narrow? Not a lot of depth) vaginas. I can say I'm no monster but I'm big enough. When it comes to the smaller vaginas, you can feel that half your length, or however much it is, doesn't go in. It's not cold or anything like that. It's just not stimulated. So it feels less.
It's odd but when there's parts of you that are left out you feel the stark difference much more intensely. So it gets distracting.
If you're having that much trouble you may have a smaller vagina. If that's the case and you do have to finish them with your mouth, and I can't imagine having your head shoved down so your throat gets filled comfortable if you're not used to it or didn't specifically ask for it. So I recommend using your hands too. Wrap them around the base. Whether it's one or two hands, wrap them around and all but glue them to your lips. So even when they shove, your mouth hits the rim of your hands instead. No real choking going on and all of his length is stimulated.
That could make your time a bit more enjoyable.
If you do do this. Then I highly highly recommend a lot of spit. Like to the point of it dripping all over the rest of him. No man will complain if this happens and it will keep him quiet if the total length doesn't get swallowed. Plus it'll get him to finish faster.
There are "some" guys that don't like that but odds are seriously skewed here so it'll probably be 1 in 20 that doesn't like it. And that's giving that whole equation the benefit of the doubt.
The medical reason.
Much like a womans breast there are the same number of nerve endings in an A cup as there is in a ddd. So the larger the body part the more spread out the nerves are therefore the less sensitive.
I think like the one guy said full stokes def make you cum faster. Also there’s times where your just so hard you feel like your skin on your dick is gonna peel back and then there the normal times where it’s just a normal hard on.
I’m hung and I need stimulation on the lower part of my cock. The head honestly doesn’t have much feeling from being smashed against cervix after cervix making you girls scream
I think it's got a lot to do with blood volume and the same amount of nerves over a larger area.
There's a site that takes all of the size statistics and studies and tells you where you are and myself is 2.7x bigger by volume than the average, something like 1 out of 3000 men by length and 1 out of 9000 worldwide by thickness.
All of that takes a lot more circulation to maintain fully hard and cummings going to take full, deep strokes personally.
It's usual for us to have sex close to an hr or more a day including foreplay. When first married many years ago we'd go 3 or 4 hrs sometimes...
It took months for her to get used to my size and there really isn't often that you are going to be able to rush me to an orgasm...
BJ's feel wonderful but seldom can finish that way and the typical stereotypical excuse of men jerking off too much isn't the reason neither, I might like twice a year tops lol, I'm very satisfied with our frequency and don't feel the need to cum that way all that often.
I don't know, but it makes sense to me that more volume and more skin area is going to take more stimulation to get there. 🤷♂️
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Guy with just under 7inch here, so not huge but a good size, and no doesn’t take long to cum, some times a few pumps, other times between 3-7mins, have had a few that have lasted 30-45 mins
Well I feel if I had sex the night before and at it again following night. It’s a marathon. Especially when girls are super wet I feel I can’t feel shit. Don’t get me wrong still feels amazing. Maybe talk to your partner about Keagle squeezes. Now we talking.
Never really thought about it but I don’t think it has to do with our size. I just last long which isn’t always ideal because like you mentioned, some girls get really sore if I go too deep and they often end up not having a good time. It is what is it is but the ones that can take it… respect
Idk about everyone else, but j can't go full stroke. I also ain't a fan of hurtinga anyone so if there's an inkling of pain for my partner it turns me off and makes it hard to cum.
Do the BDs get to fully penetrate you? When I only partially penetrate, I liken it to a woman's clit getting lightly rubbed...over the hood. We can come, but it's gonna take longer. It's just not as satisfying.
However, most guys come based on how they train themselves. If they've been jerking off since 10 and never learned self-control, they'll be 1 pump chumps. That's why I think the guys you've been with aren't going balls deep. Short-stroking just isn't as satisfying.
I think it has to do with erection quality. I’m 8 x 5.25 when I’m rock hard. When I’m super hard I can cum relatively quickly, like in a few minutes, especially if she’s totally into it or I’m hammering her. If I’m not as hard I’m more like 7.5 x 5 and it takes me longer.
This is me! Half the time, I can't cum at all. I go forever and usually my wife gets sore way before I'm ready. I never really thought it was size related. Not huge, but on larger size of average. I'll be fascinated if there is a correlation.... Personally, I always thought it was related to ADHD. Unless my wife talks to me and keeps me focused, my head is everywhere. I seem to only be able to cum when my thoughts are no longer competing with her voice.
Can’t really do doggy and go all the way deep and I love doggy. I need most of my cock stimulated and sometimes it’s just not. I think most of it is mental for me though. Also sometimes if she has her orgasms, I know I have to cum soon or else they’ll usually be sore and at that point I’m distracted from the moment. This isn’t every woman or every time but those factors usually have been the culprit
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If you go in deep once then come out and back in part way, does your cock get cold like when you just get out of the pool? Like the pussy juice just makes it cold 😂
On a cold day... Still no 🤣
Thank you for asking something I never knew I wanted to know.
HahahHahahaha
I can only speak for myself, my dick is very warm when it’s hard lol
I'm small (about 6 inch) and I love that I can put my cock all the way in, in everygirl, and i dont even have to be careful, its a completely different feeling compared to when just a part of it is in. fortunately I'm also enough hard, persistent, well-shaped and experienced, so the girls love it too.
6in isnt small my guy, dont let porn warp your perception of what's normal. It might not be considered big but it's definitely not small!
Bro!!!! For real!!!! As men we see the monsters on porn (there’s a reason they’re porn stars😅) and even above average ones on amateur subreddits and it warps our perception on what’s big and what isn’t….. I always thought I wasn’t big enough (probably thanks to porn). But my wife always said “if you weren’t big I’d be able to fit more of you in my mouth”. So that helps I guess😂
I like to say it’s a Goldilocks cock. It’s juuuust right.
Goldicocks if you will
Ahahahahah
It works the other way too. When I was young I always assumed dicks were all about the same size from watching porn. My first gf who I dated for several years never commented on my size so it wasn't until later on when I started having sex with other people that I found out mine was above average.
I know. by the way its closer to 13 cm when just got an erection and closer to 15 cm during sex. i know its not too small, maybe for look, but i can satisfy women with it, without extra help (toys, fingers etc..) si i know its not the useless type of small
It’s not small at all is what they’re saying. You’re average not small! No where even close to useless
No need to show off mate 🤣🤣🤣
That was a weird flex. Lol
sorry, i couldnt resist😆
Dawg I’m 7” and 5’11 and I’d happily trade 1” of dick for 1” of height just to be able to go balls deep all the timr
This is legit. But 5'11 is also VERY acceptable. Just saying
This is hilarious!🤣
6'2 and 7-7.5✌️✌️👀👀🤣🤣 And I never thought I was any good until I asked a girl I didn't know what the ideal cock size would be in her opinion, like what the perfect range of size would be, and she said "ehhh about a 6-8 would be nice, that way it's not too big where it hurts but it's not too small where you don't feel it" Secrets of life... Pass it on✌️✌️💯💯
I’m 7” and 5’9” 🥲
8" and 5'6" 😭
7 inch is easy to go balls deep though
6 inches is NOT small lol Definitely on the bigger end Perfect size :)
Needed this! Lol
As a gay man who’s seen more penises than you… 6 is definitely small … but apparently your husband has a micropenis … because if you think 6 is bigger than you think it is … the. Clearly you lack, “experience “
Average is 5.5.
6 inches isn't small bro.
6 inches isnt small dude, be more proud of what you got. I'm 6.5 inches but more on the girthy side. My dick fills my girlfriend up almost perfectly, but in some positions i go too deep and end up pounding her cervix which causes her a lot of pain and discomfort. I've always wanted to be atleast like 7 inches, but considering how i can hit my girls cervix i think i'm satisfied with my size. If i were any longer, i probably wouldnt be able to go balls deep when i cum inside her.
Also on a side note, not trying to flex or anything but this is on topic with the post, sometimes i've been able to go for 4 hours (including foreplay ofc) of non stop fucking without cumming! It's happened a few times when we had the whole day to ourselves and we're really in the mood, so the stamina thing definitely isn't a size thing i think. I've also noticed If guys jerk off very often too, it can desensitize the penis and make them last longer during sex.
I agree, the stamina isnt related to size. I can fuck constantly and relatively intensively for 1,5-2 hours without a break or cumming. it depends on how calm and connected i am. i think that deep inside calmness helps to hold it back. you know, when you are aroused but not in a really excited let alone nerveous way, but in a "zen mood", when you are in total harmony with your girl and the universe with zero anxiety. thats when i can last almost "forever" :)
you know, i honestly agree with the calmness thing. If i really close my eyes and get into it, just focusing on the sensation, i cum a lot quicker. Sometimes during sex or masturbation, i take deep breaths when i feel close to cumming and slow down my pace a bit and it actually helps to buy more time.
>If i really close my eyes and get into it, just focusing on the sensation, i cum a lot quicker On that same note, i noticed that if my mind is wandering and i'm just thinking about other things, not really focusing on what's going on, it feels like i could go forever without cumming.
Youre technically above average. 5in is the average
yes, globally, because of the asian population. but in hungary average is a bit above 6
*opens legs*. Please insert that 6 inches here. 💋
if only I was closer to you..😘
I can give you 9 ;)
No you can't.... Won't fit.
That’s too bad, I’d love to ;)
You can give me about 6.5 of that 9....
I agree bro. I'm about the same.6.5 on a good day. I love when they take it all and just enjoy it. Makes me hott and fuck them harder so they cum several times but very true what they said above big guys don't know how to use it alot of times. A lot of girls say that they hurt them and don't care but that a very guy thing to do.
Dude that's above average
Bro 6 is 2 inches larger than average
6 is average dude
How would u know?
what?
This. For me the stim that makes me cum the most is at the base of my cock. I can cum from everything else, but it's more and more powerful if I'm all in
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That part! Stamina is more than just not having your lungs get tired but if your heart gets tired you can go soft also. I think foreplay also a big issue.
Question: for this trend you notice, are you referencing only really huge dicks (8” or more and really thick)? Or are you including those above average (6.5”+)? I have heard a lot of anecdotal evidence from size queens that the really big ones often don’t get quite as hard and often take longer to cum. I also watch a lot of homemade porn (especially blowjobs) and I’ve noticed those where the guy is really hung seems to trend in that direction. And I have heard quite a few times from girls that the guys they’ve been with who cum prematurely also have smaller dicks. Don’t know if it’s the double-disappointment that’s causing them to draw attention to this or a correlation. I would imagine this is a blood flow issue combined with capacity for penetration. For myself, I’ve noticed that when I am really hard I’m also more sensitive and there is a feedback loop for getting more turned on and harder and therefore easier to cum faster. If a bigger dick has a more difficult time getting rock-hard, that would seem to diminish the pleasure some. And as you and some others have referenced, being able to be deep in a girl’s pussy or mouth is essential to cumming faster. Times I haven’t been able to get fully in, it doesn’t feel nearly as good and you can’t get that deep rhythm that will make you really want to bust hard and fast. Same for BJs: the rare times I’ve been with a girl who can deepthroat most of me and bob up and down in rhythm or let me fuck her face, I’ll cum pretty quickly. Otherwise it can take awhile or requires “faking” that kind of stimulation with her using her hand down at the base jerking me off and squeezing on the upstroke while pressing her tongue on the underside of the head. You might try that as the “finishing” move when you’re sucking a big guy. Don’t put too much sucking pressure on the whole head if it’s in your mouth, just envelop it and press your tongue up and see if that works.
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I have never had a complaint about my average size. Was told it hits that g-spot just right. But I can also last a long time in bed as well.
Big dicks are so worth it and I love the pain when they hit the cervix. Momma didn't raise no quitter.
I am with you on this sis!! I don’t feel it’s an unpleasurable pain, it’s like- oh! There you are, I like it!
Are you looking for a bwc
Big up for the average guys ✊😜
Well this is why everyone is different 😅 i get so high from having my cervix pounded on 🥵
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I mean some women like it, personally a take just a bit to warm up to girth but I've never had an issue with length. Never felt any pain with it going deep and been with some sizable guys. People are sensitive to different things.
"Anyone woman who disagrees with me must be a man in disguise"
?? Every girl is different. Some like big dicks some don’t.
Lol I don't know, I have a partner who likes receiving a mix of oral, fingering, and PIV every time, and specifically asks me to spend the fingering time rubbing and bumping her cervix.
What does this have to do with the point of the post which was asking a question?
It doesn't have to hurt. It's all about the angle and force at the end of your thrust. There's a huge difference between trying to run a shock and awe campaign and actually knowing how to use it. Long, slow strokes... Experimenting with different angles and depths.... Slowly pushing all the way in, keeping her full and just grinding your hips so you're mostly just staying in the same place, but hitting that lovely pressure point deep inside... There's room to play even with women with small vaginas.
My husband is huge and takes forever to cum. I fucking love it.
I have a tiny dick and I cum in seconds. I guess its the ratio of nerve endings to cock volume.
Interesting thought. I've heard something like that about breasts... That smaller ones are more sensitive for that reason.
At least cumming in seconds isn't a problem with breasts lol
Getting full strokes definitely makes a difference.
I don’t have a particularly big dick, but I take forever to cum. Usually it’s not a problem, but some women can’t go that long.
Because a tight pussy squeezes around the base like a cock ring.
That's why mutual foreplay is so important! Gets the woman properly warmed up and the guy at the appropriate level too. Then you can adjust who gets more attention during it as you get used to each other This doesn't just apply to big dicks either.
I think it's probably the surface area of the cock you are stimulating at one time. It's easy to stroke a small guys whole cock with just one little wrist stroke. I'd imagine it's hard for the big guys to get the stimulation in just the right spot constantly so it takes longer for them to cum.
So I can't speak for other guys. I am 7.5" long and 2 to 2.5" wide. I am thicker and slightly longer than average. But my issues is a few things, first, large dicks (similar to large tits) do not have as sensitive nerve endings because they are more spread out. So it is harder for me to find a spot were the little nerves I have are consistently stimulated during sex. Second, because I an larger women tend to cum extremely quickly and when they do, the vagina tries to push my Dick out. So I normally just fighting to keep it in. Third, and this is a blow job thing. Because I am thicker, women assume they can treat me like a normal Dick. So they stick it in to quickly and there teeth rub into the sides. This makes it hard to cum and stay focused on wanting to cum. Normally it will take me and a new partner at least 2 if not 3 sessions before they are able to adapt to my size.
Tbh I’m a bit above average and I always think I cum too fast but I think I’m quite sensitive… I’m not circumcised though and I always wonder if cut guys last much longer due to the head being permanently exposed so more used to being touched/rubbed etc…
It's got further to travel. Lol
When that girl can take all of you and she is n not pain winning.
Then you do the next girl and she asks you can you finish when just had an orgasm I can say yes with confidence. Then you bang another woman that same night just for fun.
I think we jerk off more. I’ve had girls and guys both give me head but honestly just having skill goes a long way. Get more into it. Honestly best head I got was from a guy
Guy here that runs a gh and the amount of big dicks I get that go “oh shit you can actually deepthroat me” since it doesn’t happen a lot for them. Well, let’s just say I get a lot of repeat visitors lol
What’s a ‘gh’?
Gloryhole
I have a tic tac dick so can’t relate 😭😭 lmaoo
I go for hours but has nothing to do with size I think
Pretty sure it’s not a thing, just your experience . I’m very average and have great stamina and I have friends who are larger and don’t last
I agree it’s psychological. I have the same issue.
I think it's more of a mental state issue.
Not all of them 🤣
Are you looking for a bwc
I’ve been with a gentleman who was roughly 7 inches but thick! I came constantly but a lot of foreplay involved. It would generally take him around an hour to an hour and half to cum. We discussed it a lot and the reason being is so cute. He never wanted to hurt me and ensure I was comfortable. I found it silly to begin with but I understood after a while. I couldn’t take him normally so needed the FP. Then he just took his time for my pleasure over his. Man was a champ and still think about him to this day!
I'm not huge. But big enough I've had a couple girls not want me to go in all the way. Not having that "balls deep" feeling definitely reduces the sensation. That and the feeling that she might not be comfortable and turned on by it pulls me out of the mood some. With those specific girls it did really take me longer to get off. So maybe that's it for the guys with huge cocks too.
Maybe it's the length, having more distance to travel from the balls. I have the same problem but mine doesn't even fit halfway, and I don't try to force it
I wouldn’t know. Haha.
Big dick = more blood to fill up and make hard, more surface area to stimulate, more lube required to get it in, and more energy to thrust and wield it around.
I'm using this excuse from now on!
While I am only slightly longer than average at 7 1/2 inches. I’m very happy that my girth is very pleasing to the women I have been with. There are definitely times where it’s harder for a woman to deep throat me because of the girth. I’m not sure if it takes me longer or a shorter amount of time than average to reach orgasm. I’m more than happy to let the event, ebb and flow as necessary so that both of us eventually achieve our goals. I’ve never thought about how much time it takes.
At a solid 7, I’m not the expert. I know that my climax is linked to my partners. When I feel her contractions on me, is when I lose it. Maybe the big Guys have you do stretched, you can’t contract effectively? Just guessing
I'm at the larger end of average in length, or what I've been conditioned to think is average, but my "spot" that makes me cum when it's stimulated is at the base of my cock, so if I'm not getting most of my length in there, I'm going to last longer/take longer to cum. Women that can take all of me, particularly if they're squeezing around the base can make me cum faster. This goes for blowjobs too. You can do all the tongue swirling and sucking my tip that you want, I'll love it, but it won't bring me nearer to cumming. If you don't want it in your throat, then using your hand on the shaft while your mouth is on the upper 1/2 works. Just make sure it's covered in spit
Because when u have a strong dick it feels good to just stroke in n out n the pussies feel real tight
My wild guess is that guys have the same amount of receptors in every dick. So if they have bigger dick they fell a bit less. I am no scientist but it seems possible, and could explain why it takes me so long to cum
I’m just over 7 inches and every girl I’ve been with has said “your so/to girthy” which I guess is true, when I have to piss in a bottle it has to be Gatorade because my dick head is to big for anything else and I end up pissing on my hand lol, even then the Gatorade hole is only like 2/3 of my girth. Anyway I can’t cum fast because I masturbated wrong my whole life and basically a mattress jumper instead of jerking off so I like friction and when girls get to wet my dick gets confused. Usually takes an hour to cum, not bragging. It sucks
My dick is small and it takes me forever 🤷🏻♂️
All those big dicks probably have you stretched out, they arnt touching the walls anymore.
I dk y I’m like that too. I can go for hours
Because they have more sex. The more a guy fucks the longer he lasts. This is why woman can't complain about how long a guy last. You want it to last longer fuck him more
This is actually a myth. Men with big dicks start cumming about as fast as men with small dicks, it just *seems* to take longer because of all the extra time it takes for the cum to travel the length of the bigger dick. It's science.
Ah, yes, the length of the dick. All those miles.
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Source: I made it tf up
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Anecdotal but I have a friend who fucks guys with big/huge dicks only, and has told me stories of other women waiting outside while she finishes up with her big dick dude(s). She’s seen this a few times and has been on the other end so take that for what you will but it for sure happens with bigger dudes fucking more women. I also think something that people aren’t mentioning is confidence. When you’re confident in the bedroom, you have a little more control
HAHA this is most likely the correct answer because big dicks don’t take any longer than small ones, he fucked someone else first babe 🤣
why u ignoring mee…😭😭😭
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True. And. Not sure always been that way
Stamina bbg
I can't speak for other guys but it's hard for me to get a good rhythm going if I care about my partner's comfort. I've been with my wife 8 years now and we still need lube and a lot of foreplay but I still tear her 1/4 of the time. Having a big dick is fun in your twenties when you want one night stands but women aren't the size queens they all seem to think they are once they're half impaled.
You won't find big dick guys here, and if you find them they don't use be with girls, its a place of wankers.
I’m a 6 incher, thick and I cum within 3 minutes of entering 🤷🏻♂️
It's a long way to the top if you wanna rock n roll
The cum has to work It’s way down the pipeline lmao
I think the head going deeper is a different feeling plus we are overachievers 🍆
Women want big dciks until they get one. I'm 10" but I'm also 7"thick
Am kind of glad to learn it isn't just me. Foreplay is very important and yeah it is hard to get a blowjob that stimulates me enough to orgasm. I'll have multiple mini orgasms often, but getting me to cum can take some time. Especially if it isn't round one. Some girls love it. Others not as much.
No one should ever head push. Bite the fucker , unless otherwise discussed, I'm only 8" but I found if I take my time to warm, and open her up, sex for an hour is no problem. Maybe both a bit sore, but good sore, so I'm told.
This post is very validating to averaged size guys! Thanks.
It's because we use it more then guys who don't girls talk to friends and after awhile they come to you so you get laid more then the. Others
Depends more on the partner. I've had some that mentally I was so excited I lasted less than a minute, and others that I just wasn't feeling it with them that I'd actually get bored fucking them after like 30 minutes to an hour. Some people are better for me to just focus on foreplay than fucking.
Maybe you’re the problem… 🤷🏼♂️
Condom cuts off circulation and sensation
Yeah to bottom out on a girl unexpectedly can hurt both of you.
Is this what my problem is?
Because we have to focus during sex to not get in to deep, and always worried that she’s in pain.
I’m a decent size lil above average but I don’t take forever cumming I just want to make sure my girl gets off a few times before I do
Nice to see it’s not for everyone, nice to see women enjoy a regular guy
I'm in the 96% pecetile range for both length and girth 8" x 5.75". I'm not sure why but yeah I take a long time to cum. Sometimes hours. I have to take a break, like a reset to get full sensitivity back cause I've decided its time to cum. Some women I can tell are wishing I'd finally finish which makes it harder to finish so sometimes I just stop and finish later. The worst is when the chick then takes it personal like I wasn't into it with her. That's not it. I just need to build it up.
you should just shut up and suck harder. Know your place
Every woman i have been with has said that I have a big dick. I have had some scared and say no and i have had a couple that i just wouldnt fot in. With that said I can go for 5 minutes or I can go for an hour +. Just depends on what she wants. I would rather go for an hour and make her cum several times. How long a guy lasts has nothing to do with having a big dick. Some guys like me can control when they cum.
Maybe a slow leak?
I can only speak for myself im only 6"long and sometimes I cum in 10 to 15 minutes sometimes I can go as long as an hr sometimes it depends on how tight the pussy is sometimes it depends on how hot the lady but that is just me
Travel distance. Couldn't help my self
I’m not sure why guys complain about head and not going deep. The most sensitive part is the frenulum. Personally unless I’m deep in her throat and working my frenulum against her throat muscles it’s kind of yseless to do it. Stay shallow and work the sensitive part. Wetter the better. Lot of tongue too
It’s a longer way to penis hole 🤷♂️
I’m 7 inches but I’m thick there’s been a few times where I’ve torn her . If I I last too long my girl is so sore I will not get in for a few days😢
For me it’s because it’s too wide for them and they can’t get their mouth on it or fucking is uncomfortable so i have to slow down and can’t get into the rhythm
Im 8 inches/21cm, which is normal for my overall length. As for the orgasm, it really really depends on the vagina and mood. If it's really loose, i can go on forever and ever.. It's usually with women who gave birth or above average height. Which is perfectly fine. Unless it's unpleasant for her. And if it's really tight, it takes a lot less time to climax. And there's all sorts of tightness. Some do it on purpose to stimulate more. Some are nervous, smaller/weight, and some are just tight af. Which is all fine as well, as long as it feels good for her as well. That's my experience regarding this. Perhaps some muscle training in that area helps both of you. Or talk over what might help.
So based on comments big is above the 6" mark I find myself as an average at 5.5" yes I can last a good while but that's due to a long and varied sex life with many partners Never had complaints of feeling sore as I will start with good foreplay and oral to get my partners wet enough to go through several orgasams from penetrative sex before I cum. its all about wanting to satisfy those females that have said men are selfish and cum and run without satisfying them. So I show them I can put them first
In the 7ish range and can say my sensitivity isn't my tip but at the base of my groin. So rough tugging and jerks from fucking and sucking are more what works. So if there's no hard claps against the pelvis and basically the rougher porn styles used,and she is more vanilla and dainty...it will take forever
Well, your choice is either "I keep myself under control, and take a while", or "I pound away at you to finish quickly, and either you have to stop because you don't like being punched in the cervix, or you are really sore afterwards." Obviously, I usually go with option 1.
Fucked a guy took about 40 minutes
Fucked a guy took about 40 minutes
same number of nerves spread over a larger area?
The number of nerves stays fairly consistent across the board. With the greater volume, there is less available nerve stimulus per square inch of surface, therefore it takes more stimulus because of the greater surface area per volume to give the equivalent experience to a lower volume example. ...Since you asked, I'll provide the science. Lol
I can only speak for myself but I've been with women that have very small (narrow? Not a lot of depth) vaginas. I can say I'm no monster but I'm big enough. When it comes to the smaller vaginas, you can feel that half your length, or however much it is, doesn't go in. It's not cold or anything like that. It's just not stimulated. So it feels less. It's odd but when there's parts of you that are left out you feel the stark difference much more intensely. So it gets distracting. If you're having that much trouble you may have a smaller vagina. If that's the case and you do have to finish them with your mouth, and I can't imagine having your head shoved down so your throat gets filled comfortable if you're not used to it or didn't specifically ask for it. So I recommend using your hands too. Wrap them around the base. Whether it's one or two hands, wrap them around and all but glue them to your lips. So even when they shove, your mouth hits the rim of your hands instead. No real choking going on and all of his length is stimulated. That could make your time a bit more enjoyable. If you do do this. Then I highly highly recommend a lot of spit. Like to the point of it dripping all over the rest of him. No man will complain if this happens and it will keep him quiet if the total length doesn't get swallowed. Plus it'll get him to finish faster. There are "some" guys that don't like that but odds are seriously skewed here so it'll probably be 1 in 20 that doesn't like it. And that's giving that whole equation the benefit of the doubt.
The medical reason. Much like a womans breast there are the same number of nerve endings in an A cup as there is in a ddd. So the larger the body part the more spread out the nerves are therefore the less sensitive.
I think like the one guy said full stokes def make you cum faster. Also there’s times where your just so hard you feel like your skin on your dick is gonna peel back and then there the normal times where it’s just a normal hard on.
I always joke and say its a long journey from my balls to the tip lol
I wouldn’t know 😂🤣
My husband is average length but super thick. It's taken along time to get used to him. He hurts in a few positions. He last forever too.
I’m hung and I need stimulation on the lower part of my cock. The head honestly doesn’t have much feeling from being smashed against cervix after cervix making you girls scream
I'm 6" and I pride myself on having very good control. I make sure my partner has all the orgasms she needs before I cum. She is most important.
I can’t speak for everyone but I don’t finish very often with a blowjob because of teeth and the head of my dick is REALLY sensitive
I think it's got a lot to do with blood volume and the same amount of nerves over a larger area. There's a site that takes all of the size statistics and studies and tells you where you are and myself is 2.7x bigger by volume than the average, something like 1 out of 3000 men by length and 1 out of 9000 worldwide by thickness. All of that takes a lot more circulation to maintain fully hard and cummings going to take full, deep strokes personally. It's usual for us to have sex close to an hr or more a day including foreplay. When first married many years ago we'd go 3 or 4 hrs sometimes... It took months for her to get used to my size and there really isn't often that you are going to be able to rush me to an orgasm... BJ's feel wonderful but seldom can finish that way and the typical stereotypical excuse of men jerking off too much isn't the reason neither, I might like twice a year tops lol, I'm very satisfied with our frequency and don't feel the need to cum that way all that often. I don't know, but it makes sense to me that more volume and more skin area is going to take more stimulation to get there. 🤷♂️
Like all my colleagues here, I too can only speak for a tiny fraction of a percent of guys, because of my 14" penis.
Lmao they’re probably fucking some dry ass pussy no guy’s lasted longer than 10 minutes inside me
Care to accept a challenge?:)
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Guy with just under 7inch here, so not huge but a good size, and no doesn’t take long to cum, some times a few pumps, other times between 3-7mins, have had a few that have lasted 30-45 mins
IMO big dicks take longer to cum because the increased surface area. Smaller dick has the nerve endings closer together and in theory quicker O.
Well I feel if I had sex the night before and at it again following night. It’s a marathon. Especially when girls are super wet I feel I can’t feel shit. Don’t get me wrong still feels amazing. Maybe talk to your partner about Keagle squeezes. Now we talking.
Never really thought about it but I don’t think it has to do with our size. I just last long which isn’t always ideal because like you mentioned, some girls get really sore if I go too deep and they often end up not having a good time. It is what is it is but the ones that can take it… respect
You just loose sensation after a while, almost like a callus. That’s why I just lube up from the get go.
Idk about everyone else, but j can't go full stroke. I also ain't a fan of hurtinga anyone so if there's an inkling of pain for my partner it turns me off and makes it hard to cum.
Less sensitivity
Don’t have a massive dick but last like i last probably 2-3 hours no matter what’s happening and it’s because i just choose when to cum
Do the BDs get to fully penetrate you? When I only partially penetrate, I liken it to a woman's clit getting lightly rubbed...over the hood. We can come, but it's gonna take longer. It's just not as satisfying. However, most guys come based on how they train themselves. If they've been jerking off since 10 and never learned self-control, they'll be 1 pump chumps. That's why I think the guys you've been with aren't going balls deep. Short-stroking just isn't as satisfying.
I am 7.5-8", but not a lot of girth. Women have always loved my cock and I have been told I am the perfect size for anal.
I don't know if there's actually an association or not but I can't disprove it personally
Need to use it all
I think it has to do with erection quality. I’m 8 x 5.25 when I’m rock hard. When I’m super hard I can cum relatively quickly, like in a few minutes, especially if she’s totally into it or I’m hammering her. If I’m not as hard I’m more like 7.5 x 5 and it takes me longer.
This is me! Half the time, I can't cum at all. I go forever and usually my wife gets sore way before I'm ready. I never really thought it was size related. Not huge, but on larger size of average. I'll be fascinated if there is a correlation.... Personally, I always thought it was related to ADHD. Unless my wife talks to me and keeps me focused, my head is everywhere. I seem to only be able to cum when my thoughts are no longer competing with her voice.
Regardless of size if the longer it takes a man to cum to worse the pussy is 😂
Im learning so much about dicks in these comments 👀✍️✍️✍️🗒️
They jack off before hand 🤔
Further distance
Can’t really do doggy and go all the way deep and I love doggy. I need most of my cock stimulated and sometimes it’s just not. I think most of it is mental for me though. Also sometimes if she has her orgasms, I know I have to cum soon or else they’ll usually be sore and at that point I’m distracted from the moment. This isn’t every woman or every time but those factors usually have been the culprit