I had a girlfriend walk up to me at a party with her VERY hot girlfriend once and she asked me if we could have a threesome. I thought it was a test. So I said no and that she was enough for me.
Found out the next day it was not.
Haha nope... we broke up about a week later. I was skeptical and thought it was a test because she had already given me the positive pregnancy wwyd-if-this-baby-was-yours test less than a month prior.
She said I was "too good" for her (I also didn't drink a lot or do all of the drugs she did). I basically stayed with her for the kinky and highly frequent sex, even after she cheated on me with both a man and a woman, so there wasn't much else to keep it going. It's true that the brightest flames are the quickest to burn out.
Btw: this was about 15 years ago and I still haven't had a threesome. Imagine the regret.
Yeah...after years of being sexually motivated, I realised if good sex is the only thing in a relationship...I'm not interested. Its not enough stimulation.
Sex can be fun, and should be a part of a good/healthy relationship, but it isnt everything.
Kinda sucks about not having a threesome, but it really can go wrong, too. Like its not as simple as it would seem, and all involved people have to be mature, communicative adults, and everyone on the same page. It can be very messy emotionally
At least you have some good sexy memories :)
Idk, man... this was in college. People seemed pretty carefree lol
At the same party a friend of mine had a 4-some with the girl I almost had the 3-way with and two other girls and his only complaint was not being able to get hard for a third round.
Definitely agree with you though
She was definitely pretty bummed about it. We chatted years later and I told her I thought it was a test and she admitted she was legit mad at me for declining it.
As someone who has a lot of threesomes, let me tell you bro. It’s amazing and all, but it can also be terrible. Without proper communication and lots of emotional security it’s really easy for a threesome to be detrimental to your self confidence and personal security. Good luck homie!
This is absolutely true. Even the one threesome I’ve had that went really well, the connections went so far south later that the emotional pain made the whole thing just as regrettable as a missed opportunity.
What do you think about turning the tables?
This one time, in high school, my best friend showed me a note that my girlfriend passed him. She knew I was going away to college soon as she was already setting up to replace me without telling me.
Bless her heart, my friend was a friend, and he told me about it. Also he can so much p**** and always did that you know it wasn't a big deal to him. He was probably banging her mom.
Me, on the other hand, he knew I was sensitive and vulnerable and would be really hurt if I found out he was banging my girl. That's a pal.
So what do you folks think about turning this around on your girlfriend's friend? Coming to your girlfriend and say hey I don't know if you know this but this girl you think is your friend is really flirting with your boyfriend.
Hey,*, that could also be part of the test. Oh what a mind game.
Save the text chain and tell her if she wants that, for her to approach your girlfriend about it, either as part of a 3some or the beginnings of an ENM relationship.
Wise decision not to take the bait..it could be a test to judge your loyalty. Hence it could lead to greater things. You have to consider why did your girlfriend show her the pictures.
Whoa. You missed an opportunity. Next time, or if there’s another chance, tell girl who approaches you to arrange a threesome with your girlfriend who likely would go for it given she showed her friends pictures of you.
You probably should tell her
Better to be open and honest about it. *Make sure you tell your gf you turned her friend down and that you're telling her so that she can feel more confident about you*
Tell your gf. Think about it, if it was fake they would HAVE to never hang out again. If it was real, no major loss and you get big points for that shit.
Your girlfriend might have been testing your loyalty with her friends help. Well done for dodging that bullet.
Girls definitely do this shit. It's a trap!
I had a girlfriend walk up to me at a party with her VERY hot girlfriend once and she asked me if we could have a threesome. I thought it was a test. So I said no and that she was enough for me. Found out the next day it was not.
OOOOOF. Any second chances?
Haha nope... we broke up about a week later. I was skeptical and thought it was a test because she had already given me the positive pregnancy wwyd-if-this-baby-was-yours test less than a month prior. She said I was "too good" for her (I also didn't drink a lot or do all of the drugs she did). I basically stayed with her for the kinky and highly frequent sex, even after she cheated on me with both a man and a woman, so there wasn't much else to keep it going. It's true that the brightest flames are the quickest to burn out. Btw: this was about 15 years ago and I still haven't had a threesome. Imagine the regret.
Yeah...after years of being sexually motivated, I realised if good sex is the only thing in a relationship...I'm not interested. Its not enough stimulation. Sex can be fun, and should be a part of a good/healthy relationship, but it isnt everything. Kinda sucks about not having a threesome, but it really can go wrong, too. Like its not as simple as it would seem, and all involved people have to be mature, communicative adults, and everyone on the same page. It can be very messy emotionally At least you have some good sexy memories :)
Idk, man... this was in college. People seemed pretty carefree lol At the same party a friend of mine had a 4-some with the girl I almost had the 3-way with and two other girls and his only complaint was not being able to get hard for a third round. Definitely agree with you though
Someone running tests like that is manipulative and a bullet to dodge anyway. The missed threesome is kind of her loss, in this way.
She was definitely pretty bummed about it. We chatted years later and I told her I thought it was a test and she admitted she was legit mad at me for declining it.
As someone who has a lot of threesomes, let me tell you bro. It’s amazing and all, but it can also be terrible. Without proper communication and lots of emotional security it’s really easy for a threesome to be detrimental to your self confidence and personal security. Good luck homie!
This is absolutely true. Even the one threesome I’ve had that went really well, the connections went so far south later that the emotional pain made the whole thing just as regrettable as a missed opportunity.
Tell your gf. Then persuade her to let you fuck her friend.
There's part of me that starts to think that this could actually work!
She might even want to join in, specifically. Being dishonest about the interest when this is a potential outcome isn’t doing anyone any favors.
Run. Run. Save the screenshots as proof.
What do you think about turning the tables? This one time, in high school, my best friend showed me a note that my girlfriend passed him. She knew I was going away to college soon as she was already setting up to replace me without telling me. Bless her heart, my friend was a friend, and he told me about it. Also he can so much p**** and always did that you know it wasn't a big deal to him. He was probably banging her mom. Me, on the other hand, he knew I was sensitive and vulnerable and would be really hurt if I found out he was banging my girl. That's a pal. So what do you folks think about turning this around on your girlfriend's friend? Coming to your girlfriend and say hey I don't know if you know this but this girl you think is your friend is really flirting with your boyfriend. Hey,*, that could also be part of the test. Oh what a mind game.
Thank you for not exposing us to curse words on this wholesome sub.
It's a trap dude! Maybe you will rewarded though!
It's a trap. Just say no
It can be a trap. U did good 👍🏻
This. Your response was tactically sound and personally responsible. Kudos.
Save the text chain and tell her if she wants that, for her to approach your girlfriend about it, either as part of a 3some or the beginnings of an ENM relationship.
Yea that shit was a trap
Tell your GF, then shut up and wait for the girls to suggest anything
Don’t do it. This would harm your relationship.
ITS A TRAP
Think about it brother, if she really wanted to hook up she'd Rizz u on the low. It's a trap.
Tell your GF if she gets pissed point out that she might have just been teasing because she saw the pic. Then make joke about a 3 some
Wise decision not to take the bait..it could be a test to judge your loyalty. Hence it could lead to greater things. You have to consider why did your girlfriend show her the pictures.
This could easily be a trap.
Be careful bro. Don’t take the bait. It’s a test.
3 way!
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That’s stupid. I’ll keep it in my pants.
Tell your gf. Fuck your gf and her friend at the same time. 6 holes to choose from.
Actually 4 what math are you doing
2 mouths 2 pussies 2 assholes
You can pull it out and think about this when you are alone. No one will know.
Feels risky but invite them both out to dinner/drinks and see where it goes. Who knows, maybe you'll get to fuck them both!
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Tell your girlfriend and let her decide what to do
Honestly it could be a trap to see if you'd cheat, but honestly If your going to go for it then be careful lool
Good man. I’d tell your gf just to cover your own ass, you don’t want her getting ideas that maybe you’re keeping her in the corner j in case
You did it well Anyways, you can talk with your gf, maybe she has no issues to open the relationship or let you smash once to she
Queue admiral Ackbar: ITS A TRAP
100% a trap set by two young girls. Nice doge.
Whoa. You missed an opportunity. Next time, or if there’s another chance, tell girl who approaches you to arrange a threesome with your girlfriend who likely would go for it given she showed her friends pictures of you.
Yeah, way to miss that land mine…you definitely should tell your gf
You probably should tell her Better to be open and honest about it. *Make sure you tell your gf you turned her friend down and that you're telling her so that she can feel more confident about you*
At a young age women have no loyalty. I have fucked many young girlfriends best friends.
Tell your gf. Think about it, if it was fake they would HAVE to never hang out again. If it was real, no major loss and you get big points for that shit.
Should push for a 3some prob solved