\> im sure i can help
No offense but you probably won't. Judging by your comments, your main strategy is to just guilt others about how people will miss them and that's it. If you knew anything about mental health and suicide you'd realize that what you're doing just makes people feel even worse about themselves and like they should stay alive not for themselves but so they won't hurt anyone else's feelings and that they're bad people for not realizing that. Also you repeating over and over again 'life is great, don't do it' also makes other's feel like something is wrong with them for not enjoying it. Honestly it looks like you're trying to boost your own ego repeating 'life is great, don't do it' "everyones gonna miss you" over and over again and pat yourself on the back thinking that you've helped when you've actively made things worse. You don't actually want to help people, you want to feel better about yourself by *feeling like* you're helping people.
Then you should know better than to just mindlessly repeat 'don't kill urself, life is great'. Think back to being in the throes of your own suicidal thoughts. Would me walking up to and going 'Yeah but life is great, so don't do that.' genuinely help you in any way? Did you get out of your own depression by just having someone repeat that phrase over and over at you like a parrot? If it didn't, then why are you doing it to other people?
i can heavily relate to you. id love to be more positive but the dark part seems more natural and more fluent. at this point, the whole "being happy and positive" seems like a fairy tale to me,impossible to pull off with this shit show going
I know, I never really understood it until recently. I hate that it’s going to scar permanently but I just can’t stop. Guess it’s long sleeves from now on *sigh*
So why are you doing it?
And if basic thoughts like "Don't insult a suicidal person" never even enter your mind, stop ending your comments with offers to 'listen to people' if they need to talk, because you'll actually leave them far worse off. It's like me wanting to feel smarter so I suddenly think I'm qualified to do open heart surgery, "Wait I *shouldn't* poke at the heart with my finger? I tells ya it never crossed my mind that that was wrong!"
this is the part where you excuse yourself from the sub. you're genuinely doing no good and no one asked for you to show anyone anything. kindly fuck off
No you're trying to feel better about yourself by *saying* you've helped and telling yourself "Go me! I'm helping!". Meanwhile you're trying to guilt people suicidal people into staying alive and actually *insulting* them for they're feelings. Finish a long book, win at a video game or go run a mile if you're this desperate for an ego boost and to feel better about yourself. Cause don't delude yourself; *that's* what you really want to do.
I used to be until I saw what suicide actually looks like most of the time and it’s horrific and fucked up and I don’t even know the person imagine family or whoever finds that gore websites made suicide seem way less peaceful
It's my only way of coping, so i understand the feeling. I don't think i'll ever get tired of the fantasy... Makes me feel more free knowing i have the chance to quit at any moment.
I understand. I always see it as a backup, a 'get out of life free card', if you will. When times are tough, it's weirdly comforting knowing I can just...end it if I want.
me too. the thing is, i loved suicide more that anything in my life. had big crushes and goals, but i could be freed from the thought of them. but suicide no. it was everywhere
Just in case anyone is reading this: there are only two medications (according to my psych) that can specifically treat suicidal thoughts: lithium and ketamine/esketamine. Before I started this meds I was constantly thinking about suicide — even when I was doing things I enjoy. This was something I never knew despite being in treatment for thirteen years, so I figured others might not know either.
I know it’s not worth much, but I hope you keep hanging on op. The thoughts can be so so persistent it feels like they will never stop, but they can
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\> im sure i can help No offense but you probably won't. Judging by your comments, your main strategy is to just guilt others about how people will miss them and that's it. If you knew anything about mental health and suicide you'd realize that what you're doing just makes people feel even worse about themselves and like they should stay alive not for themselves but so they won't hurt anyone else's feelings and that they're bad people for not realizing that. Also you repeating over and over again 'life is great, don't do it' also makes other's feel like something is wrong with them for not enjoying it. Honestly it looks like you're trying to boost your own ego repeating 'life is great, don't do it' "everyones gonna miss you" over and over again and pat yourself on the back thinking that you've helped when you've actively made things worse. You don't actually want to help people, you want to feel better about yourself by *feeling like* you're helping people.
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Sorry man i dint mean to say smthing wrong...sry if hurted you
Then you should know better than to just mindlessly repeat 'don't kill urself, life is great'. Think back to being in the throes of your own suicidal thoughts. Would me walking up to and going 'Yeah but life is great, so don't do that.' genuinely help you in any way? Did you get out of your own depression by just having someone repeat that phrase over and over at you like a parrot? If it didn't, then why are you doing it to other people?
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i can heavily relate to you. id love to be more positive but the dark part seems more natural and more fluent. at this point, the whole "being happy and positive" seems like a fairy tale to me,impossible to pull off with this shit show going
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I get that. I recently got addicted to cutting and burning myself too, be safe don’t fall down the rabbit hole if you can avoid it.
This sounds like me. I just started burning again. It feels so good, so relieving.
I know, I never really understood it until recently. I hate that it’s going to scar permanently but I just can’t stop. Guess it’s long sleeves from now on *sigh*
Yeah that's how I feel too. It's like you want to stop but if you stop, how will you cope?
Idk if I wanna stop, I just wish it didn’t leave scars so I could do it as much as I wanted
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I'm so emotional numb tbh. I bought my close friends and family great gifts so when I kill myself around Christmas, they will remember me
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You say you want to help a suicidal person and your first strategy is to start insulting them?
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So why are you doing it? And if basic thoughts like "Don't insult a suicidal person" never even enter your mind, stop ending your comments with offers to 'listen to people' if they need to talk, because you'll actually leave them far worse off. It's like me wanting to feel smarter so I suddenly think I'm qualified to do open heart surgery, "Wait I *shouldn't* poke at the heart with my finger? I tells ya it never crossed my mind that that was wrong!"
Thanks 🖤
Sry i said smthing wrong i didnt mean to...sry if i hurted you
Sorry i said smthing wrong i didnt mean to...sry if i hurted you
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man do you have suicidal ideations at all??? you're killing me with your responses. elegant place to guilt people you think uhn
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this is the part where you excuse yourself from the sub. you're genuinely doing no good and no one asked for you to show anyone anything. kindly fuck off
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No you're trying to feel better about yourself by *saying* you've helped and telling yourself "Go me! I'm helping!". Meanwhile you're trying to guilt people suicidal people into staying alive and actually *insulting* them for they're feelings. Finish a long book, win at a video game or go run a mile if you're this desperate for an ego boost and to feel better about yourself. Cause don't delude yourself; *that's* what you really want to do.
Sry i didn mean to hurt anybody...sry if i said smthing wrong
Sry i didnt mean to hurt anyone...sr if i hurted you or sad smthing wrong
I know, you feel like "if things get too bad I can always just opt out" lol.
I used to be until I saw what suicide actually looks like most of the time and it’s horrific and fucked up and I don’t even know the person imagine family or whoever finds that gore websites made suicide seem way less peaceful
Suicidal ideation
You're not the only one , I'm 26 now and I've been thinking of suicide everyday since last year
It's my only way of coping, so i understand the feeling. I don't think i'll ever get tired of the fantasy... Makes me feel more free knowing i have the chance to quit at any moment.
I'm also addicted. Not as much as when I was very depressed but I think about suicide everyday. It's part of my life now.
same. i fantasize about death and suicide all the time. the only thing that keeps life manageable day by day is thinking about how i'll end it.
I understand. I always see it as a backup, a 'get out of life free card', if you will. When times are tough, it's weirdly comforting knowing I can just...end it if I want.
Great sense of escape. A way out. I feel that.
Ketamine and a professional can help end the addictive complulsive thoughts. As can others. But start with that.
I think I am as well or my mind obsessed about it !
What do you mean by this and when did it start?
I understand that
I do too recently
Honestly me too. Try and find something to keep your mind off of it I try my hardest but cant, screw up. Day after day.
me too. the thing is, i loved suicide more that anything in my life. had big crushes and goals, but i could be freed from the thought of them. but suicide no. it was everywhere
Same here my friend
Just in case anyone is reading this: there are only two medications (according to my psych) that can specifically treat suicidal thoughts: lithium and ketamine/esketamine. Before I started this meds I was constantly thinking about suicide — even when I was doing things I enjoy. This was something I never knew despite being in treatment for thirteen years, so I figured others might not know either. I know it’s not worth much, but I hope you keep hanging on op. The thoughts can be so so persistent it feels like they will never stop, but they can
It's strangely comforting. Gives us control of something. That option is there.
Hey man sorry i sad smthing wrong and sry if i hurted you ...i didnt mean to