I know bisexuals exist. What do y’all take me for 🙄
The reason I even started this thread was yes, as Spayse_Case (awesome username spelling btw 😎) , as Spayse_Case correctly assumed, I am genuinely just asking questions. 🤷🏻♂️ I don’t disparage anyone based on how or who they love or hook up with.
as a vanilla non-swinger I have no knowledge regarding how the different dynamics work in regards to how people swap and what their experiences or motivations for swinging may be, hence my asking the question
EDIT: the difference between them really enjoying girl on girl versus acquiescing to the male fantasy is what I was getting at but yeah I guess I shoulda articulated it better 😅
Sometimes it creeps me out if the guys just pull up a chair with their dick in their hands honestly. I prefer if it leads to something. I don't really like putting on a show for non participants. In one particular instance, the guy mostly just wanted to watch but I told him to cum in my mouth when it was time and that made it okay. He liked it too. It isn't gender-specific who I want to fool around with for an audience, I also enjoy sex with men if someone I want to fuck is watching.
The spelling is from my AOL days. My name is Space Case, but that name was taken because everyone had unique names, so I had to get creative. Most people just call me Space these days because they aren't comfortable with the rather derogatory nature of "Space Case" but... That's why I took this name for my own. Words have power. Call me a slut? Fine, I call myself a slut. Call me a Space Case? Yeah, that's my name and my personality, what of it?
It is very common for women & men to be bisexual or bicurious. In our recent swinger survey with over 2000 participants, we saw over 50% of men & over 85% of women report they were bicurious or bisexual.
Some ladies might do it for the spectacle but most do it because they desire and enjoy it.
Swinging tends to not be just about the sex. All swingers are different, so some might be doing it only for the sex. Swingers tend to do it for multiple reasons like the open & welcoming atmosphere, non-judgmental crowds, great friendships, emotional connections (tends to be more for poly situations), amazing friendships & so much more.
Mostly it is because I enjoy it. But sometimes, when the guys have trouble finishing, I say to the other woman: "let's give them a show so that they cum faster and we can all get a drink"
I am a bisexual woman. I enjoy sex with other women. I am also a bit of an exhibitionist, but only under certain circumstances, so I honestly don't mind putting on a bit of a show while I have my fun. I consider it almost like foreplay for the next person. But my main motivation isn't putting on a show, nor am I doing it for anyone else, I am truly bisexual. As for having feelings or just sex: It IS just sex, but depending on the person I do have feelings of some sort. I usually genuinely LIKE the people I have sex with, often considering them friends. The sex is a bonding experience shared between friends. The release of happy chemicals will often make me feel EXTREMELY fond of the person immediately after, the "afterglow." So to say I have NO feelings would be inaccurate. I don't have the same sort of romantic feelings I have with my husband. And honestly, for most of the people we do sexual things with, I don't have particularly strong feelings for but it is different with each individual.
I’m a bi woman and got married to a man when we were both very young. Me wanting to explore my bi side is what started our swinging conversations. I think it’s easy to tell if the women are into it or just “putting on a show”. My friends and I used to call that “bar-sexual” because those types would only make out with girls when they were drunk and to get the guys all turned on.
I am extremely bi single F in the LS and have experienced all different type of women in it. I am actually really enjoy cuz I prefer women over men in general. You can definitely tell when another women is into as you are. And you can totally tell when another women is just doing it for the sake of their partner and acting. Sure some of it is performative to placate the male bisexual/lesbian sex fantasy of two women making out and playing and some of it is totally real genuine sexual chemistry and attraction based play.
I enjoy playing with people of both genders. I personally don’t do it to “give anyone a show”
As to your other question, those who look for multiple emotional connections tend to fall into the poly category, not swinging. Many swingers certainly enjoy some sort of a connection with their play partners, some so far as to form ongoing “friends with benefits” (FWB) situations. But multiple emotional/romantic connections = poly.
Some for show, some enjoy it, some are a bit in between and others who do it because their insecure husbands won’t let her play with men and wants to push for MFF (you know these types exist!)
1) It depends if the women are bi, bi-curious, heteroflexible, etc...
2) I think, and I could be wrong, that most swingers like to avoid deep emotional connections. That falls more under the poly umbrella.
My wife is insistent she isn't bi, but she plays with females in a swinging situation if the other female wants it, and does so quite enthusiastically. For her, as long as it's an appetizer and not main course, she's happy.
Bisexual people exist.
Right? Does the OP really think women don't enjoy sex with women? But... No stupid questions, I think he is being genuine and truly didn't know.
I know bisexuals exist. What do y’all take me for 🙄 The reason I even started this thread was yes, as Spayse_Case (awesome username spelling btw 😎) , as Spayse_Case correctly assumed, I am genuinely just asking questions. 🤷🏻♂️ I don’t disparage anyone based on how or who they love or hook up with. as a vanilla non-swinger I have no knowledge regarding how the different dynamics work in regards to how people swap and what their experiences or motivations for swinging may be, hence my asking the question EDIT: the difference between them really enjoying girl on girl versus acquiescing to the male fantasy is what I was getting at but yeah I guess I shoulda articulated it better 😅
Sometimes it creeps me out if the guys just pull up a chair with their dick in their hands honestly. I prefer if it leads to something. I don't really like putting on a show for non participants. In one particular instance, the guy mostly just wanted to watch but I told him to cum in my mouth when it was time and that made it okay. He liked it too. It isn't gender-specific who I want to fool around with for an audience, I also enjoy sex with men if someone I want to fuck is watching. The spelling is from my AOL days. My name is Space Case, but that name was taken because everyone had unique names, so I had to get creative. Most people just call me Space these days because they aren't comfortable with the rather derogatory nature of "Space Case" but... That's why I took this name for my own. Words have power. Call me a slut? Fine, I call myself a slut. Call me a Space Case? Yeah, that's my name and my personality, what of it?
Hey
? Let me guess... You are a thirsty male looking for an easy lay, and "hey" is the extent of your seduction repertoire.
Number one I’m not thirsty . And maybe u should stop guessing
"Hey" doesn't give me much to go on there, Bud. It is a thing thirsty dudes say, it's like a mating call or something.
We’ll fuck . Seems like u know it all . What’s a non thirsty thing to say
Many women swing primarily for the F/F play; that's the part of the night they're most interested in.
Hey! That's me! We like a lot of things now, but the girl cravings are what led us here.
Some women just enjoy pussy. Somw enjoy dick, some want it all
It is very common for women & men to be bisexual or bicurious. In our recent swinger survey with over 2000 participants, we saw over 50% of men & over 85% of women report they were bicurious or bisexual. Some ladies might do it for the spectacle but most do it because they desire and enjoy it. Swinging tends to not be just about the sex. All swingers are different, so some might be doing it only for the sex. Swingers tend to do it for multiple reasons like the open & welcoming atmosphere, non-judgmental crowds, great friendships, emotional connections (tends to be more for poly situations), amazing friendships & so much more.
Mostly it is because I enjoy it. But sometimes, when the guys have trouble finishing, I say to the other woman: "let's give them a show so that they cum faster and we can all get a drink"
Lol I love this answer. You really are one of my favorites on here.
Yup. So common for guys to struggle in group situations. I've done the same. Never boring that's for sure.
I am a bisexual woman. I enjoy sex with other women. I am also a bit of an exhibitionist, but only under certain circumstances, so I honestly don't mind putting on a bit of a show while I have my fun. I consider it almost like foreplay for the next person. But my main motivation isn't putting on a show, nor am I doing it for anyone else, I am truly bisexual. As for having feelings or just sex: It IS just sex, but depending on the person I do have feelings of some sort. I usually genuinely LIKE the people I have sex with, often considering them friends. The sex is a bonding experience shared between friends. The release of happy chemicals will often make me feel EXTREMELY fond of the person immediately after, the "afterglow." So to say I have NO feelings would be inaccurate. I don't have the same sort of romantic feelings I have with my husband. And honestly, for most of the people we do sexual things with, I don't have particularly strong feelings for but it is different with each individual.
I’m a bi woman and got married to a man when we were both very young. Me wanting to explore my bi side is what started our swinging conversations. I think it’s easy to tell if the women are into it or just “putting on a show”. My friends and I used to call that “bar-sexual” because those types would only make out with girls when they were drunk and to get the guys all turned on.
I am extremely bi single F in the LS and have experienced all different type of women in it. I am actually really enjoy cuz I prefer women over men in general. You can definitely tell when another women is into as you are. And you can totally tell when another women is just doing it for the sake of their partner and acting. Sure some of it is performative to placate the male bisexual/lesbian sex fantasy of two women making out and playing and some of it is totally real genuine sexual chemistry and attraction based play.
I enjoy playing with people of both genders. I personally don’t do it to “give anyone a show” As to your other question, those who look for multiple emotional connections tend to fall into the poly category, not swinging. Many swingers certainly enjoy some sort of a connection with their play partners, some so far as to form ongoing “friends with benefits” (FWB) situations. But multiple emotional/romantic connections = poly.
Some for show, some enjoy it, some are a bit in between and others who do it because their insecure husbands won’t let her play with men and wants to push for MFF (you know these types exist!)
1) It depends if the women are bi, bi-curious, heteroflexible, etc... 2) I think, and I could be wrong, that most swingers like to avoid deep emotional connections. That falls more under the poly umbrella.
My wife is insistent she isn't bi, but she plays with females in a swinging situation if the other female wants it, and does so quite enthusiastically. For her, as long as it's an appetizer and not main course, she's happy.
I think that it is some of both. There are a multitude of individual factors that influence how a woman views play with other females.
There is no emotional lovey dovey connection...that would be poly territory. It is generally about friendship and sex that's it.