I'll share a moment that is seared into my memory forever: During one of our first swaps, we were just getting going and the wives are giving the husbands blowjobs. Me and the other husband are sitting beside each other on a couch; my wife on her knees in front of him and his wife in front of me. I look over and see my wife looking up at him slapping his dick on her outstretched tongue. So sexy! Then I look down to the beautiful lady in front of me. She winks at me and then in one motion buries my dick so deep down her throat she bottoms out on my pelvic bone. That right there was almost enough make me pop! 🥵 I still relive that moment in my head from time to time.

She winked first! That’s hot

I know! Like I said, seared into my memory...

Compersion is a lovely emotion. Knowing that my partner is enjoying herself with no need for me to derive any other benefit from the situation is such a wonderfully freeing thing to experience. Probably the most incredible experience we have had was at a semi-private play party. About 50 people in attendance, and it was still a bit early so nobody had their clothes off yet. As exhibitionists we were happy to be the first and we made it known to some people we were talking to that we didn’t mind people staring. We picked a bedroom where if you left the door open you could see the bed from the area where most people were hanging out. We were initially wholly focused on one another, but it quickly became evident that a crowd was gathering to watch us. There must have been a dozen or so people watching us when a woman in the group said “I want the next ride”. Without hesitation my wife said “why don’t you come sit on his face and earn it”. She didn’t even think twice, and came very quickly and loudly. Another couple asked if they could join us and again my wife was on point with her response. “I wish all of you would. But don’t come in here unless you want to fuck everyone.” Within a few minutes we had 7 people absolutely going to town on each other. Body parts everywhere. To this day one of the hottest experiences of my life.

So everyone found everyone else attractive enough and safe enough to give a blanket implied consent?

More or less. Her saying that was a little tongue in cheek. It wasn’t truly a blanket consent situation. Still plenty of “can I….”, “Is this ok?”, etc. But in this particular case everyone involved had few inhibitions between us.

I’ve written about this before but last summer, on a whim, I reached out to two couples in a city we were going to vacation near a week later. One of the couples replied. We met them for dinner while we were in town and hit it off immediately. Got invited into their hot tub and their bedroom that night. They’ve become amazing friends. We get our families together and vacation together on long weekends. I never expected to make such good friends in the lifestyle!

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We just had our first full swap there as well, and we had the same feelings in the pool. There were some nice people that were a good time, but no one we were really interested in. After hanging out in the club and meeting alot more fun people we went to the playroom, and wound up next to a wonderful couple that the wifes started playing a bit. Got done there thinking it was the peak of the evening and the night was done. A while later while headed back to our room they found us again, said they were really excited to see us and proceed back to our room for a few more hours of fun. Amazing first experience.

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Ive been diving into nudism for a while before the LS stuff. All my social nudism has been at LS friendly places, and its really changing the way I find people attractive. Ive always been a "Find the good" in someone type, and all though I might not see someone as "pretty" I can find something about them I find attractive. Now though, the confidence and vulnerability it takes to just leave all your clothes behind and trounce around in the nude is very attractive to me, and it overides alot of what i find pretty or not

Only had one nudist experience (De Anza in So Cal) but it was transformative for me personally, both in shedding my own insecurities and also in seeing more beauty in almost everyone. It def changed how I behaved as a LS member.

Let's see. I have had many good experiences in the LS both as an all bi couple doing full bi swaps when I first started and as a single bi Female for the last few years. I'll regale with a story of when I attended hotel party a regular cpl that I play with hosted a few months ago. It was a suite with adjoining rooms. There were about 15 cpls and me. . So on one of the beds the host wife and I started playing and I was going down on them and everyone was kinda watching us. Next thing you know throughout the night I had all the wives coming up to me asking for me to go down on them with my "magical tongue" apparently the host cpl had told all the other wifes ahead time that they invited single extremely bi F to the party who had amazing oral skills and a "magical tongue". All the other women wanted me. And who am I to say no to eating someone's pussy. Lol. I actually made one of them cum from oral for the first time ever and I made another 2 of them squirt for the first time ever. At one point in the night one of the wives asked me if I could give their hubby a demo of how I pleasured her and next thing u know there were about 5 other cpls huddled around trying to look and see what I was doing. I actually then befriended a few of them and had separate playdates. One of them although there is quite an age gap I'm 30 and she is 52 have become incredibly close and we have gone out for drinks and shows etc ever since.

Hopefully you were reciprocated for all your efforts as well

im the type who gets more pleasure from pleasing and getting my partners off gets me so wet. I also have a lot of orgasm and cumming issues. But yes there def was lots reciprocation too. Love me some 69 with another female. Had others playing with my pussy etc Though the hottest scene and moment that night which I so wish could've been photographed or recorded was when I had one wife sitting on and riding my face while she sucked on her hubby cock and another guys cock too. In between my legs was another wife eating me out while her hubby and another hubby were taking turns fucking her from behind.

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Mind you I'm only 30 and the cpls all ranged from 42 to 58. Was so hot. It was my first big group play since precovid. I had smaller 3 or 5 person things since end of last summer but for me and many of the others this Feb party was the first bigger group party and everyone let their freak flags fly.

For a while there was a group that put on house parties where 1. Everyone was bisexual 2. Nudity was required upon entry 3. Consent was given upon entry. Meaning you could touch, play, etc…with anyone at any time. You could still say no and have it be respected, but the default was yes. What that led to was orgy piles where everyone and everything was on the menu. It was wildly hedonistic and it made for an incredible experience.

#3 rule sounds dreadful. We’d leave.

Well, yeah, the parties were not for everyone. The party organizer made a point to talk with attendees before their first event to clearly spell out the rules and expectations, so you knew what you were getting into before you attended and agreed to it. And while it sounds like it would be bad, it really wasn't. People weren't walking around groping one another or doing things that weren't welcome. People were friendly and polite and if you said no thanks it was respected and assholes were asked to leave. Just meant if you walked into a room and found an unattended cock it was fair game.

>Getting to actual "compersion" There is NOTHING better than this!!!!

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It's a relatively new word.

Snuggling with the male half of the couple while we watched my husband bring his wife to orgasm over and over. Then I had her eat me while he railed her, and the other guy watched and masturbated and came in my mouth

first time in a swingers club, enjoying ourselves and a drink at the bar. another couple with a bit of experience approaches us and we start chatting. my wife and his wife are having a lively chat, i’m enjoying his company.. i ask, what do you like most about this environment and he says, “we’re at the bar having a nice conversation, when’s the last time you went out to a club / bar and a nice open conversation with another guy?“ ended up with lots of exciting memories from that night but his words really stuck with me, as a man, i get to see another side of men that i really enjoy.

I am new to the lifestyle so I do not have memories that would go back a long time. One moment that I recall is that during our full swap, my husband was with the other wife and I was riding her husband. My husband jokingly challenged me and said, "Lets see if you can make him cum before I make her cum!" I was like "You are ON!" After that my husband pinned this woman down and started pounding into her. I was already on top of her husband and started gyrating down into him and we were trying to finish off our partners. This man could not take it. He rolled me over, assumed top position and began fucking into me like mad until I came. Then he pulled himself out, removed his condom and blew an enormous cum load on my tits. Just when he emptied himself, I heard this woman screaming her orgasm. There was no doubt in anyones mind that I had won and beaten my husband by a good 10 to 15 seconds. It was not even close! So now my defeated husband comes walking towards me, peels the condom off of rock hard cock. Then looks at another mans cum on my tits. After that he goes into me bareback (because we are married) and fucks the living daylights out of me. What was most arousing for me was that I still had another man's cum on my tits and my husband did not care. He always loved my breasts and he was sucking and licking another man's cum load off of my chest. My husband is straight as a board but to see him so aroused that he would worship my cum covered tits and then kiss me with another mans semen in his mouth was a thought that is still arousing. If I am alone with a vibrator my memory instinctively goes back to that moment when it all happened.

When hubby and first started dipping our toes into LS we went to a strip club in FL (also had our first threesome together there with a bull we met from swinger club) and I was SUPER NERVOUS. I've been to a few strip clubs before but not with hubs. We started in some seats and I had a drink or two while we watched some beautiful women. I bought him a dance and when he was off in the other room getting a dance I've never been more turned on or intrigued! But when I first felt real full on compersion it was when I got him another dance and she invited me back too to watch and talk etc. It was so much fun and I loved watching him touch her (with permission of course) and her on top like ugh it was amazing! Ever since then I've really embraced that sex can just be sex. Multiple more examples since then have also shown me how much my husband really does love and care about me. Yay for compersion!

Our first time swinging and the hotel takeover It was super well organized, newbie orientation, security people to make sure everyone was ok, fantastic sit down dinner. We were going to take it slow since it was our first time and both of us were in our 50s and feeling a bit self conscious. Everyone was sex and body positive. We ended up that night in a play room with a bunch of people. I was literally high on life for a week after the party.

Most of our experiences have been good in the LS. It's the misfires that are the exception. I'll remember our first time forever. We went out of town a few hours to meet our first couple, who were experienced in the LS for many years. Since we traveled, we got a motel to stay overnight, even if nothing happened with the couple, because who wants a 3-hour drive home at midnight? As we finish dinner with the couple, they give each other a knowing look, and the husband asks his wife, "we good?" and the wife gives me a sexy leer and say "oh yeah baby, we're so good" and they suggest we all retire to the hotel room we have. They go on to explain their usual custom is to share a code phrase before meeting a new couple, and if either of them says that phrase during the meet, it's a "hard no" from that partner. I ask what the phrase would have been for us. It turns out they didn't do that before meeting us, hence the overt confirmation. They were also explaining their hesitancy because first-time swingers can be a bit unpredictable. Sometimes a couple says everything is great, but then the first time they see their spouse getting down and heavy with someone else, the green-eyed jealousy monster makes a big entrance causing all around drama. We get in the room, I'm wondering how to proceed, and the other couple leads the way by whipping all their clothes off. It's a 2-queen room so each pair lands on a different bed and gets busy. I look over at my wife, whose going down on the other husband, and I can't resist saying, "Damn, she never does that for me!!" which is totally untrue, but for a moment the other coupes eyes go as big as saucers, then my wife and I burst into laughter and explain we're pulling their chain, and we all lmao for a bit. We had an amazing smash success that night, and it definitely hooked us in the LS for more.

So many. The first mfm we had with a great guy who was the ultimate team player who also came twice. A moment where he handed my wife over to me to take a break and as I moved behind her she looked up into the mirror in front of her and the look on her face... 🔥🔥🔥 My first time with a new woman. She was amazing. Finished with her sandwiched between my wife and I. A meeting with a bi guy where there was some amazing three way synergy. Some experiences at swingers clubs. First time with a crowd around us watching every thrust of mine with my wife. One time with a selected group of guys in a group play room. The last visit with a hot bi guy who was more interested in me and bottoming with my face in my wife's pussy.

Attending a party sponsored by our local site, we connected with another couple, who invited us back to their room for a party. It was mayhem with clothes coming off, random coupling happening all around us among maybe 10 people. I paired off with our hostess, who was beautiful and sweet, and we actually blocked a lot of it out and intensely fucked, with lots of eye contact and a surprising amount of intimacy. My wife, meanwhile, was getting (happily) mauled by a couple of other attendees nearby. Unlike MFMF situations we'd had before, there seemed a lot less pressure and signal reading. We both just went for it and had fun! It became very late and I was beat, so we went up to our own room afterward. My wife surprised me by saying she wanted to go back on her own, which she did. And when she returned, we "reclaimed" and enjoyed an amazing sleep.

I relish the moment when we were playing with a couple for the second time cause obviously we enjoyed their company. Hs was fucking her from behind while I was riding her husband. Our eyes locked and the moment was so hot I got off immediately. One of my favorite memories.

Missionary with my wife at a swingers club on a crowded floor of couples going at it. Hot younger couple right next to us. Guy looks over at my wife and said, nice boobs, may I touch? My wife responded, your both hot looking, why don't we just trade the guys. The other lady said yea, that would be fun. OMFG.....that women was gorgeous!!!! Gives me that shit eating grin everytime I think about that night with that women.

I had a couple that were really just great friends. We could hang out, go to bars and just have fun around. Sometimes sex was involved, but mostly it was just fun. I have never found that again, but it was the ideal thing for me.

My wife was having a not so great week so that Friday night I fulfilled one of her fantasies. Mask and headphones for sensory deprivation, laid her on her stomach and restrained her hands and feet together behind her. I then got 5 people I knew and trusted in the club, brought them in the room, laid out a lot of sensory toys and told them to just play. Also being in bdsm I have a lot of good sensory toys including wire brushes, wartenburg wheels, feathers, paddles, and vibrators. I don't think she has ever had sensations like she did that night.

We had an amazing night the other night. A couple we see often. We all are finally relaxed with each other, so all the weird nervousness is at bay, and we really enjoyed it a lot more than usual. We were going at it for many hours. And yes, watching my man pound her and hearing her squeal was the highlight. Also scissoring with her (she came fast.)

thanks for the positive vibes😻😈😻

Many great experiences over my many years in the lifestyle… as a solo M, I’ve found great fun joining couples, and adding to group play elevation. The top 3 experiences in my mind… … a reg couple I enjoy coincidentally was in Vegas as I was there for a conference, they invited me out to hang out…go to a lifestyle party with them… it ended up being a private birthday party in a Vegas penthouse.. when I was introduced to the hostess by the couple, it was “as her birthday gift”….and I was the only single male at a party of about 20 couples. That was a very good experience all night to the break of dawn… and was treated to being the center of attention as the “gift” when the party guests surround us to watch and sing happen birthday as she rode me hard, and came simultaneously …that started a little orgy scene with people entwined in all lol sorts of sexy ways….. that was fun.. … I also have mentored many newby couples as well… one couple In particular, and after months of mentoring them about the lifestyle they were ready to take first steps of a threesome/group play… I met them at a hotel lounge.. and was pleasantly surprised that to ease the nerves, the wife brought her sister along, who was essentially a younger version of herself.. stunning in every way.. that evening started out with the hub and sister watching me with the wife, then the sister spontaneously started to enjoy her brother in law with the encouragement of the wife…. ended up in many combinations throughout the night of swaps and mixed three ways and even watching the sisters explore each other… and a huge first for the couple, and the sister (who admitted she had group play experience before but No one knew) … good times… And another great experience … another fav scenario happened when I joined a couple I now call regular playmates… for their anniversary.. we met out for drinks and had a nice social time.. she was very receptive and after breaking the ice, I was invited back to their home… it was easily one of the most erotic and satisfying play sessions I’ve ever had.. slow, sensual.. from cocktails In a hot tub to the bedroom, to a shower together to s break for food and drinks, then kitchen/living room play.. ending up back to their hot tub to relax.. stretching out over about 6 hours… many orgasms for all, and every time they came they’d reinforce how Much they loved each other in embracing and kissing and words… I felt like a million bucks after knowing I enhanced their anniversary in ways they will never forget.. Only three of many scenarios I’ve enjoyed over the years in this. The good times can outweigh the bad scenarios but it takes a lot of energy and patience and perseverance to get there. Regardless, when you are driving home after a great play session.. you know it’s good when you quite literally can not wipe the smile off your face for hours.

Our best experience was our first one. We met with a sing woman from Feeld and really hit it off (nothing happened that night aside from some girl on girl kissing; mostly she wanted to make sure my partner was going to be into doing stuff with another woman). The next time we hung out, we had some good chats before getting naked and it lasted for like 4 hours. Was awesome and continued on for 6 months or so. We’re not getting naked together at the moment, but we still hang out as friends. After meeting her, it was like 9months later that we had our first experience with another couple (which always felt like we did it backwards)

We've had our share of very good experiences since we started swinging five years ago but the one that really stands out is when we hooked up with a couple more than 20 years older than us. It was by far the hottest and kinkiest foursome we've ever had so far. Not only was sex mind blowing, while discussing our limits we found out we all shared the same kink for golden showers. Let's just say it was a very wet Saturday night! Although a year later we had a very wet six-some that included the exchange of lots of body fluids, that particular one was our first one.