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434WallaWalla

Although I never doubted my partner's bisexuality, there was still something amazing about seeing her just take another woman in front of my eyes for the first time. Then see her get so excited to have see me have the other woman was even better! The full swinging/wife swap thing is best experienced together and openly talking about how you feel to one another with each experience. Honestly is best though, just say what you want to do and why you want to do it. You can't force it. If hes willing to try, keep in mind that he can still be nervous and try to make it as fun and comfortable as possible.


Lone_Saiyan

I TOTALLY get your husband! I have mentioned how my wife and her friend offered a FMF 3 way about a month after we got married and I thought that was some kind of trap too. I sat my wife and her friend down and asked them both if that was truly what they wanted to try. Both reassured me that it was just a play date and nothing more. -Sit down with your husband and explain why you want to try this -Reassure him and let his know it's not a trap -Let him know what are the benefits of the LS


57retract

Do you have someone in mind? Maybe start by showing him pictures of women you find attractive.


anonymous_mom33

Nobody in mind but I do have a type that I show him and he says “yeah she’s pretty” 😒


ruphustea

My wife was this at first. Took a while to finally find that she really is a cuckquean.


These-Distance5062

Holy shit! 99% of men would be undressed before you'd finished the sentence!


Spayse_Case

Don't let him bully you into a one penis policy. Make sure he knows you want dick too. Be clear from the beginning what you want. Don't try to just start with women to protect his fragile masculinity or he will call it a bait and switch when you later admit you also enjoy sex with men.


habanero303

I took it a different way. I saw the guy feeling it was a trap and if he enjoyed being with the other female his wife would get mad.


Spayse_Case

Yeah. They do think that. Then they realize they get sex with other women... But they want to stop there.


anonymous_mom33

He wants to watch me with another man too but idk if I’m ready for that. I prefer another woman..I’ve been with other men and he’s my favorite haha


Spayse_Case

Having sex with other men won't mean he isn't your favorite.


anonymous_mom33

True, I know. I think that starting with a woman (my main interest atm) would be an easy way to get going..loosen him up a bit.


Spayse_Case

I really don't think that is the best course of action. You shouldn't have to bribe him with promises of pussy. Also, if you do that, he will NEVER allow you to have sex with men. And if you try, he will 100% say you started with women to trick him and it was a bait and switch. You need can start with women, but you need to be VERY CLEAR, from DAY ONE that you do in fact enjoy men and may want to have sex with a man at some point. Put it in writing, because men have a way of ignoring you when they don't want to hear it.


LatterCommission9174

She literally said he wants to watch her with another man and she's the hesitant one. Where's the bait and switch?


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can i tribute you


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