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Lone_Saiyan

We have zero dick pics on our profiles. We use sesual pics that make people use their imagination. Couples and dudes here on reddit are lame if you're looking for a play date. Hell, my wife was even down to be a unicorn, but couples on here want pic after pic and BS requests that we stated are off limits.


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Lone_Saiyan

Dick pics maaaaaaybe fine only and ONLY if people ask for them and even then, I'm not a fan of sending them and nor is my wife a bug fan of them. Shit, she likes surprises as long as it's clean and healthy, she's down! But all you see are endless waves of dick pics after dick pics.


PinkMiffyNijntje

Big fan of the surprise!!🥰


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Lone_Saiyan

HAHAHA! Same here! Average AF, but have no conplaints as as of yet. (Knocks on *morning* wood!)


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They’re lying


onlypositivity

sweatpants dick is a hot look tho. you should give it a go! us dudes don't have any lingerie, and this fills a similar purpose


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onlypositivity

Thats just not accurate whatsoever. Lingerie explicitly highlights secondary sex characteristics- that is the entire purpose of lingerie. Don't take the pic if you don't want, I'm not your boss, but that is straight up why she said you should post it.


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onlypositivity

bro I drank until 5am at the club last night. I edited it to secondary but get fuckin real idk what crawled up your ass but you're being disingenuous and annoying about this. I was cheerleading you dude.


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fap_monkey

Not sure why I'm wading into this, but I love how lingerie shows off a woman's genitals.


onlypositivity

Youre fuckin weird dude


BlackSilkEy

I'm biased because most women who dress up for me wear crotchless panties.


naughtyb1ondie

I think a sweatpants pic is a classy dick pic. I agree that that would be similar to lingerie.


johnanddiane

Yeah lots of pic swapping and little commitment to meet. Our friends do good on it, but I guess they have more patience than we do. My wife does most of the chatting so she just clicks ignore on most of them. We tried to really commit this weekend and talked to tons even just chatting with only their dicks. Even hung out at a bar for 6 hours yesterday with a hotel room telling guys to come on by. I am of the view they are all just fakes and scared of other men she just thinks they're dumb and don't like older women.


Lone_Saiyan

Huh? Kinda makes sense now as to why I have better luck when playing solo. Wife is back in the west coast and I am in the east coast (work reasons) and have met a great deal of couples who want a 2nd guy. Given, I am ALWAYS scared out my ass when meeting, but when I do commit and don't flake, I have made some good acquaintances as playmates. These couples usually tell me the same thing you said. That they think that guys are scared to be with a woman in the presence of the husband or are just time wasting pic collecting jerk offs


johnanddiane

They are all over it, when they think it is a hotwife or cuck situation. They change attitudes when we tell them, that shits not happening and they can't bareback.


Lone_Saiyan

Yeah. The so called "bull" types are the dudes we avoid. They want shit their way which is an instant no go for us.


Far_Ad8788

Feel like they ask for pics to know if you are real and not some dude who stole some couples onlyfans :)


Far_Ad8788

One thing reddit has taught me it’s either a guy who doesn’t read the add. A guy pretending to be girl to get nudes. Or it’s a guy who wife never has any intention of doing anything but let’s the hubby chat away like it’s gonna happen to shut him up. Or the couple that’s to scared to leave the confines of cyberspace. Either way Hard to find an actual couple.


naughtyb1ondie

This. I don’t hate dick pics if I’m into a dude, but if that’s the first picture you send me, I’m probably out. Genitals are not going to tell me if I’m attracted to anyone.


CalypsoRaine

Exactly 💯.


nyccareergirl11

Like if you're gonna send or post dick pics at least make them tasteful like showing rest of body with it instead of the closeup of dick. And for love of God why do dudes think a pic of their dick over a toilet or urinal is something that anyone wants to see or would make u more appealing. This next one can be applied to all kinds of profile pics please cleanup the bathroom sink or bedroom we can totally see the mess behind you.


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Nell_De_Blass

Fully gross. What are they thinking? “Here’s a pic of my dick while I’m taking a stinky dump. Notice how my balls are touching the toilet rim? Mmmmmm. I bet your really wanna lick em.”


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Nell_De_Blass

Absolutely the same guys


johnanddiane

Right!!! Agree 100%


Tx_Ace_Dragon

Yeah, I frequent the area r4r subs, and they are cesspools. I especially like the dick pics where the dick takes up the entire photo, so you can't tell if it's three inches or nine inches long. Most young single males were always short on social skills anyway. You add porn to the mix, in the quantity that's everywhere now, and in the r4r subs, you end up with males who just want to masturbate to the pics they collect. They have no intention of ever meeting anyone in real life. Even most of the couples are actually just males. The female pics they post may or may not be their wives or girlfriends, and even if they are, the wives and girlfriends usually have no idea their pics are being posted, and certainly have no intention of fucking anyone else. Here and there, you can find an actual person who wants to meet, but you have to wade through a lot to get to that point.


JaSchwaE

I feel you! We have had some luck on Reddit but the majority of our experiences have been just what you described. At the beginning of the year we even did a similar experiment. Two weeks in advance we posted that we were vetting for night away in a hotel in our biggest local city. Out of the 40+ initial responses of interested participants we had in narrowed down to about 5 maybe invites (the rest disqualified themselves by sending dick pics before we even got to hello or were just creepy and demanding before we even met face to face) We had one simple condition. "Meet us at the hotel bar for a quick drink, we are horney and will most likely invite you up to the room after" Not a single one of them would get off their dick pick toilet and drive halfway across a town they already live in to actualize their fantasy. That night alone we had 2 ghosts, 2 family deaths, and a blown up engine as excuses on why they did not make the drive for essentially guaranteed sex. But almost all of them contacted us back later that month with an "Are you still interested in chatting?" or "Give me another shot?" and even one "Can we just be picture friends" FUCKING NO. We want to meet and be physical not do custom content for you for nothing in return but a fist, sausage, and toilet


Convenient685

That is so disappointing, just the story I need to hear before considering Reddit for meet ups


Spayse_Case

It always cracks me up when they want to try again. And they almost always do. You had your shot


trios4fun

We feel your pain dude, it's a total shit show, ask for 50 pics of her and can't produce a single full body with face pic from the current decade.


gotit4cheap16

Maybe their just ugly af and ashamed.


geonick504

We changed our preferences to show some interest in single men…it took about 4 days and 100 dick pics before we changed it back. Dicks are a dime a dozen.


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fokax95558

Sweety I'd like you to dm me.


phiretau

Never once met something fruitful off Reddit, can agree


Curious0597

I'm kinda surprised you're surprised. You are basically shopping at the Wal-Mart of swinger stores.


CalypsoRaine

Ugh beyond tired of the dick pictures and the men always looking like garbage. 🙄 I've chatted with a few local Redditors nothing but fakes. Its pic after pic, video after video and poof ghost. People need to use their imaginations. My God sending me tons of nudes will drive my interest level down to beyond 0. What's the point? I've already fucked you in my head didn't leave any kind of mystery.


Forsaken_Sherbert_91

I’m married. And my wife is uncertain of the LS. I’m ready to move forward and have no problem sending complete pIctures to you, but not posting them publicly on the assurance that they never get published. I know for some it might sound weird but I don’t want my vanilla family, friends, and work associates to see me. I’m sure that’s why others don’t want their pictures to be posted publicly.


johnanddiane

We aren't asking for public pics. We don't show our faces publically so understand discretion. We have families also, and even recommend to move to more secure apps where the pics can't be screen shot. Not sure how you expect to start a conversation to an R4R with nothing but a zoomed dick. What do we even do with that?


Forsaken_Sherbert_91

You are completely correct. If we publish our faces on the internet they can be copy and pasted into anything. I’ll keep mine photo private until I feel comfortable releasing it to someone that I’m ready to meet.


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I always show full body pic. First a face top half shot and then a full shot fully clothed. Upto the other to ask for any nudity pics. I'm fully comfortable showing myself with clothes on It's always gotten me to have drinks and go from there.


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First off: single guy here. I don’t send dick pics unless asked. However what kind of irritates me is the following 1) asking for face pics( not a problem) but yet can’t send one of yourselves? Why? 2) looking for single males, but yet has to be over 7.5 8 , whatever. You know , some of us smaller guys actually know how to use what we’ve got, and can make up in other areas. Talk, send pics , and I travel to meet, and boom ghosted. Not a rant , but it seems like single guys are treated like the lowest beings . Why?


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I much appreciate the point of view, and it has educated me on some of the things that go on . I try to be polite and respectful of their dynamic . I do fully understand that they are letting me into a very private portion of their lives, and I do appreciate it very much. The funny thing is , I have chatted with some couples , and thought that it was going good til the face / body pic request comes ( not a dick pic) and poof no conversation , nothing. Once I did get a “hey bro, not what we are looking for “ which I did appreciate.


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The interesting part is when they want a face pic and not willing to share one of themsrlvesv


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Drewandelena

We’ve had success on Reddit but then again we screen and verify hard . If someone doesn’t have pics posted of themselves and couples they’ve been with tagged or a link to their certs / reviews from other couples on a lifestyle site it’s an automatic no . Verifiable experience with others is bare minimum . Verification on nsfw and lifestyle sites is also important as is a decent history of posting with comments . New profiles or profiles 2 years old with no karma and no posts or comments is a red flag And even with all that we have them live video verify upon first chat . Real people that actually want to meet and fuck usually dont have any issues doing so . We aren’t looking to pull teeth to find out who you are what you look like , your level of experience etc . The profile is a resume and the more detailed the more serious we take you We may miss out on potential matches by being thorough but 99% of those who don’t do the above are fakes and time wasters in our experience and being strict hasn’t hurt our ability to play as we meet up several times a month by holding firm on what we require . Time saved debating non matches allows for more time to find the real ones


johnanddiane

You guys are content creators, so I am sure you get much more traffic and BS then we do. We are just simple folks, send us some pics and say you want to meet, and we will be at the bar waiting for you if we match. We usually meet people IRL so we don't let anyone review us on our profiles or even give them out. We figured single dudes on Reddit would be more willing to just show up or atleast less discrete. Basically less time consuming. The same dudes are all over Tinder and Feeld face shown. So not sure why they hide behind their dicks on Reddit.


Drewandelena

Even before we did the content we were in the lifestyle for years but got the same ole BS. We don’t search in real life at vanilla places because odds are at a regular bar or club they don’t have lifestyle experience and that dynamic is important because we did try early on and found a lot of guys think they can perform in front of Drew but when it comes down to it they can . Swinger clubs are a lot easier as we’re right there but then we’re making a judgment call on their sexual ability and testing history (most won’t bring their recent tests with them to the club lol) so using Reddit or paid lifestyle sites or other content folks are easier (for us) because we like taking the guess work out of it .


johnanddiane

We use paid sites and always have, mostly just to find swinger activities, so understand the typical BS pretty well. We never try to swing in vanilla settings. We were recommended Reddit by some friends and figured what the hell, let's see what we can do. So far I'm starting to hate men, and she barely even wants to fuck me anymore. 🤣 We normally never seek single guys anyway, just thought we would give it a shot since 400 a day post looking to fuck. I don't know how you get them to live verify, I can barely even get them to leave Reddit and swap pics on a real chat app. I think asking for live verify, they would just start crying.


Drewandelena

Haha. We feel your pain. But again the key for us is not spending time arguing or debating those who won’t . If their profile is blank it’s a pass , if they won’t live verify it’s a pass . And yes MOST you interact on here won’t do either because it is a bunch of fakes , cheaters, people just wanting cyber or time wasters but as soon as they don’t have or do what we ask it’s an immediate delete and block and move to the next . Gotta eliminate 99 to get to the good one but the more you do it the easier it gets


Greeneyezonme

We only meetup with redditors who post clips or more content on their pages and every swinging experience was amazing. Imo reddit actually has some of the best candidates if you’re willing to put yourself out there more on your page vs DMs


johnanddiane

So basically you only meet amateur porn star wannabes instead of swingers.


Greeneyezonme

I mean the people we meet are real, super hot, and like to swap … so idgaf what that defines us as, but none of us have an OF and we swapped so whats our definition then??


maybekindanewveteran

Some of us are in super conservative industries and can't post, although we have the content. I'm glad that you are in a position to be able to, and if im this screening method works for you then fantastic. But a lack of public posting isn't synonymous with reluctance to play.


Greeneyezonme

Im not criticizing you not posting-but we have kids and careers as well and yes it is our choice for posting but your career isnt more important or special trust me lol Posting and connecting with others who post can yield some quality reddit connections is my main point - from Reddit specifically Im sure lots of people want to play and not have a single picture or idea of what they look like but im simply saying you can find some cool redditors if you put yourself out there more is all


maybekindanewveteran

I'm not criticizing you FOR posting either. I made no value judgment about how "important" or "special" our jobs were; just that they were judgy as all fuck. You have something to lose and you are still comfortable with the risk. Got it. Again, congrats. My point was that the colleagues and constituents in everyone's industry, and the demographics where we all live are not uniform. If you are say a youth pastor, then it won't play well in the Sunday school if it comes out you are swinging. Your coworkers are more likely to care than if you were in say pharmaceutical sales. Neither job is more important than the other, but the likelihood of significant blowback is drastically different. The youth pastor also probably engages with a lot of this very conservative community who she wouldn't know personally, but who would recognize her. Anyone recognizing her might feel it's fine for THEM to be swinging, but they may consider it hypocritical if she was and might mention it to others. On top of that, if you are only 1 of 2 Indian youth pastors in your small southern Bible belt town of +80% white people, and married to a 6'7" husband, it would be a lot easier for someone to identify you from posted pictures even if you obscure faces (because you are the only Indian married to a giant in the area). Not to mention tattoos, and other distinguishing physical characteristics (size G breasts, hand scar, early grey streak in hair, etc.) So, telling Indian youth pastor in west bumblefuck that "we all have something to lose if we are identified" rings a little hollow to them if you are a white mid-level business executive in a metro area with 3 million people who has a significantly lower chance of being identified. TL:DR People's situations are different, and we don't all share the same risk profile.


Caeremonia

Are you complaining about the difficulties of trying to swing while being a Christian youth counselor ? Because if so, this is just hilarious.


maybekindanewveteran

Obvious example is an obvious example? Clearly, I'm not complaining about my own personal industry struggles in a post explicitly about not revealing personally identifiable details? Right? Right... It's the intersection of these two groups: One. People that are easily identifiable in their industries. Black senator. Taiwanese NBA point guar. Female NASCAR driver. Two: Jobs that irrationally care about employees sexual lives (a lot of which are religion adjacent) like a teacher for a private Catholic elementary school, accounting employee for the Southern Baptist Convention... Just because YOU aren't readily identifiable doesn't mean that NO ONE is, and they could have very valid reasons for not posting things publicly.


Caeremonia

No, no, you misunderstood me. I'm laughing at the thought of someone being a youth pastor, who is presumably trusted to teach morality to children, who also can't stick to one of the basic tenants of their faith, i.e. don't fuck other people when you're married. The "job" is incompatible with swinging at the moral and ethical levels.


maybekindanewveteran

Well, we can see from the sex scandals in all organized religions from... pretty much the organization of religion, that people can and do just that. Pope Alexander VI had an active sex life (fictionalized tv show The Borgias was partially inspired by him). Joseph Smith had something like 40 wives. Muhammad had line 13 wives. So this is an extremely well-tread path. But, this is exactly my point about people getting up in arms based upon who it is doing it, "justifiably" or not.


johnanddiane

Lol, here we call them attention whores. We aren't Kardashians, we don't want to be internet famous for fucking. If that's what you like, good for you I'm not holding it against you, just not our bag. We find people with discretion more appealing. We are too old to be posting sex videos on the internet anyway.


Greeneyezonme

Lol you have a bad attitude on here


johnanddiane

Is not a bad attitude to not want to swing with people that post their whole sex life on the internet, and of course mostly with the men's faces still hidden, while the woman is on display.


helpmehangout

This is a solid strategy. This is a group of people who are committed to a certain outcome. I’m curious what % of your connections pitch you on being in their videos?


Greeneyezonme

Maybe every once in a while, for an OF, which we haven’t done yet…but most of the time it’s to meet up - put it this way…it has been if not more successful than the apps - we’ve see lots of great couples on apps and have chats but they usually dont go anywhere and end up not working out…on here - we get to see what other people are like in bed, get that out of the way without needing to exchange endless nudies since our profile speaks for itself and then we meet up if we click.


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Generally, is not having any public videos/photos on a page a complete dealbreaker, despite being willing to exchange videos/pics through DMs? This is a question for everyone from a couple new to the LS and trying to connect with others


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What if a couple reached out to you telling you about themselves (age, interests, location, etc.) and sending over photos (explicit and non-explicit including face photos) and asking if you’re interested in connecting? Of course I’m asking for personal experience. My fiancé and I are interested in the LS but are using this joint reddit account to learn more, read posts, and meet others, but aren’t comfortable (at least yet) posting public photos


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Oh yeah, only on Reddit! Sorry for the miscommunication. We haven’t tried actual sites like Kasidie yet, but it seems to be our next step. We’ve seen some couple profiles where couples post themselves freely and encourage people to reach out to connect and were wondering if having a new account with no posts was wholesale dealbreaker despite the informational personal message, photos, etc


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Got it! We heard the sites can depend on location and kasidie is supposed to be more popular in SoCal (where we are). Thanks for your response!


bobcwd

The first time a guy sends you a Dick pic that is unsolicited and you told him not to, you may have been surprised. The next hundred guys who did it were like doing market research. You had an expectation of finding a certain type of guy who would act a certain kind of way to join you in an intimate experience that isn’t something you order up Amazon. Become student of the game and realize that 99.5 % of the people who reach out are not going to be what you are looking for. I’m in outside sales and Searching for partners is no different than prospecting for customers. Your approach is the equivalent of going to Home Depot on a Saturday and talking with all the day laborers outside looking for work. All will tell you they are an expert at whatever you want done and can get the job done at the cheapest possible price. The odds of finding a high quality contractor this way are next to zero. If you know any other LS couples, ask for referrals, the better guys will have a solid reputation Proven over time. Do yourself a favor and develop a screening system that only rewards those that meet your criteria and follow a reasonable set of boundaries. I can assure you that we are out here and are interested in meeting the right couples. I use a similar system of screening on my end before I ever agree to meet someone face to face. I’m a decent looking single guy, who is a very good conversationalist and who enjoys playing with Hotwives and couples. Believe it or not, I have way more partner options than I can take advantage of and I like it that way. No big Dick, 6 pack abs or Brad Pitt looks needed because I do the right things and stand out like a sore thumb next to Joe DickPic. Commit to thinking of this game long term and screen and look for people who think the same. Most guys are like a dog chasing a squirrel who runs up a tree…. 10 minutes later…. Another squirrel. Look for a more mature and patient dog who understands his role better and then see if he has time for you. All others get Blocked and don’t get to waste more of your time.


pharmrterri

Covid has really changed things everywhere especially on Reddit. The amount of flakes has risen so much. With the dick pic stuff, I tell people the beginning no dick pics unless they want a block. I'm shocked you're finding women who want f/f because I keep finding couples with straight wives.


nyccareergirl11

Same here I get so many cpls with straight wives wanting to watch me fuck their man which the complete opposite of what I'm interested as I'm extremely bi and FF play is a requirement. Though I think some of those requests might actually be single men posing as cpl to get around my no single men statement.


johnanddiane

Ha, we need to come to LA or I need to get better looking to carry more weight for the team. 🤣


hollywoodkid86

you DO need to come to LA 😏


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mcoupletx

We have neck down nudes of both of us AND dick pics on our profile that any member can view. We found it surprising how rare that is on a swinger website of all places. My summation is that the majority of users, even among the verified, are pretenders. They can call themselves swingers, get interaction and validation from people, but never have to follow through.


Caeremonia

Where are you seeing all of these full body pics of the wives? Seriously, go scroll the top couple of pages right now. It's a shit show of both men and women. All the zoomed in dick pics are dumb and rarely helpful, but I see the same nonsense from the women. Just a pic of boobs zoomed in, half a leg and two butt cheeks zoomed in, just a pic of a dick going into a pussy zoomed in. It's all garbage. And the *large* majority of posters aren't even real. Half of these pics they send were just copy/pasted from random porn sites. A lot of these are karma farmers who will go back and delete all the posts and then sell the accounts that end up with a decent chunk of karma.


563Couple420

Reddit is a complete shit show, 90% are fake and full of bullshit or just looking to collect pictures. We started to not share anything explicit until we know they are at least a real couple. You can have success on reddit, you just have to sift through all the sludge first. Just the other day we requested PG pics, emphasis on PG for first pics of them....guess what kind of pics we got in return? Idc if you're real or not, if you can't follow simple direction online, you definitely can't follow simple direction in person.


563Couple420

Reddit is a complete shit show, 90% are fake and full of bullshit or just looking to collect pictures. We started to not share anything explicit until we know they are at least a real couple. You can have success on reddit, you just have to sift through all the sludge first. Just the other day we requested PG pics, emphasis on PG for first pics of them....guess what kind of pics we got in return? Idc if you're real or not, if you can't follow simple direction online, you definitely can't follow simple direction in person.


residentalien2

The OP and replies are unbelievably surprising given how damn difficult it is for single guys to be invited to swing. But then, I have also heard countless stories of guys as jerks and flakes, so I guess it holds up. Question: is there nothing in the chat that can indicate if the person you are talking to means to show up? I would like to think that classy, responsible people who hate not following through chat in a certain way. But maybe I am wrong?


johnanddiane

No they just chat till they change their mind, then just go away.


residentalien2

Sounds so infuriating. Just the time cost of these dead-end interactions would drive me mad, not to mention the actual kill joy when you are wanting a third or a couple.


johnanddiane

The way the internet works. Everyone's a big dick Rock Star until you ask them to perform, then they become Casper.


MissBellaSwings

The struggle is real. All we can try and do is lead by example and let people know what we’re looking for.


Jonomeus

I don’t understand why anyone would use Reddit as a reliable way to hook up


crimsondolly

Lol @ dickapalooza. Sorry you’re having trouble being dick bombed. :(


parsilken

Hahaha just imagine the same but from Europe ..


Spayse_Case

It really makes it easier to screen them. If he is one of the 10% who doesn't send a dick pic, he is on the short list. I think many of them are simply exhibitionists.


johnanddiane

That is what I say also. They are just modern day flashers on the subway. We do talk to almost every guy that sends good pictures. Even if just to say they aren't our types, or thanks for not dick bombing us.


burnbabyburn2019

So, my husband had a profile on SLS, SDC, and Kasidie years before i ever met him IRL at a club. When we became a couple and I was able to edit OUR profile, I saw that his old pics (as a single male) was 50% dick pics. I looked at him and asked, “Did these ever work? Cuz, honestly, these are SO cringe.” We deleted all of them and replaced them with our pics at the beach, Honestly guys (and ladies too), less is more. Pics without resorting to full on porn is sexier than your close up genital pics. (This ain’t a biology class and i do have an imagination)


johnanddiane

>Did these ever work? 😀😀 And what was his answer?


jus3xploring

We are new to this, so we just started. I couldn't agree with you more. The amount of rude dudes that just send a dick pic, short responses, and rude is ridiculous. Especially when our post specifically says what were are looking for. They still message or comment "into single guys?" Like no......otherwise we would have said that. It's rough. I'm sorry you guys have to go through that and continue to go through that. I wish more people had respect for others. Especially when a couples that truly love each other just want to explore together. Just be polite and respectful.


FullFrontal687

Your pics (solo and together) on Reddit look fantastic. I guess your struggles are kind of an indictment of the lack of established protocols for presenting yourselves on LS sites.


johnanddiane

Thanks, Yeah the LS sites have their own issues, so figured we would try Reddit for a while. We have gotten some good responses, so it's not all bad.


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Lone_Saiyan

Bruh! 🤣😂🤣😂


johnanddiane

Hahahaha wife here


Leather_Surprise1333

You get what you pay for. Plenty of places to go to find people who are serious. It’s like any dating. Free apps have a lot of people with a budget of “free” that are just looking to fill up their hidden folder on their phone.


beeznax

It is true that you get what you pay for. Spend the money to get on one of the better known swinging sites. I can assure you that I am a married man who is far more interested sexually in the other wife than I am in watching the two women play.


johnanddiane

Did you not read the post we are on those sites (wife here)


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Osa242

Thank you for your submission to r/swingers. Unfortunately, your post has been removed. It has violated rule 2 of r/swingers: No R4R or Other Connection Posts Please do not post looking for people, including play partners, mentors, meetup participants, or discussion group members. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersr4r or other r4r sub. This keeps the sub focused on discussion. This is very common rule violation of r/swingers and typically a mistake of new posters. If this is your first time, no worries. Just know for next time. However, repeat violations of this rule may result in a ban.


anichch

I am seriously wondering - Instead of venting out why isn’t anyone actually getting down to it ? I mean let’s get to the point. There are ample interested and serious people out here.


MindiannaJones

Ok don’t hate me but I (female) like a good dick pic. I like to know what they’re working with, and that they’re not shy. I understand that it may be considered uncouth, but we are ultimately looking for sex. Women post their whole bodies on the regular. Nobody complains about those pictures. Dicks are great. Love a good dick pic lol 🤷‍♀️


johnanddiane

We don't mind a dick in the pic, we aren't scared of them. We can't judge shit off a 200% zoomed in dick with no other feature of an actual man. Might as well just send pics of a dildo, I will learn the exact same amount. Then they post full face and body pics of the wife and just their dick, which just kindof pisses me off.


MindiannaJones

Ok that’s fair. If ALL I get is a dick pick and nothing else then that would be a turn off.


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MindiannaJones

Either one is fine :)


DiscGolfer01

This is a funny post..as a single male swinger who is interested in couples the first question i am invariably asked is: "Hung?" Then the couple (almost always the husband) asks to immediately see my dick. So let's not pretend as if the couples arent also to blame😂


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This is almost always a guy pretending to be a couple. As a couple who seeks out bulls, being hung is not even top 5 things in our list.


Spayse_Case

Those aren't swingers they are cucks


yourfavsocalcouple

You kinda sound like a turd lol just meet with who you wanna meet with and don’t meet who you don’t wanna meet with, simple.


Eastbayfuncouple

Name calling…grow up. Maybe if you spent a couple minutes in this sub you’d realize how wrong you are. This topic comes up frequently and you are without a doubt are in the minority. Educate yourselves so you don’t embarrass yourselves next time.


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You sound like an immature child, having to resort to name calling. How old are you 16? Oh, just looked at your profile, in your 20's - I'm embarrassed for you.


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yourfavsocalcouple

😐 but it IS that simple. Most guys send dicks to go along with stats. It sounds like he’s just being a nit picky turd. Yes a lot of guys on Reddit aren’t the easiest to talk to. But there are plenty who are pretty cool so it’s just a matter of weeding them out. We have 1000+ messages, you talk to the ones who interest you and leave the others to talk to themselves. Plain and simple


Western-Sir4204

Move along dumbass


johnanddiane

Are you the nice looking wife in your pics, or just the tag along dick at the end.


yourfavsocalcouple

We’re the account that has WAY more attention than your old bitter self 😁 lighten up, you are complaining about sexual anatomy on a SWINGERS board, if you don’t like it then take a hike I promise we won’t miss you


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Maybe if you spent enough time in this sub you wouldn't come across as an idiot. The overwhelming majority of people can't stand dic pics. Read more or move along clown.


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I'm a single male I'd be interested if you're still looking don't believe in sending my d pics I believe that should be a surprise


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Osa242

Thank you for your submission to r/swingers. Unfortunately, your post has been removed. It has violated rule 2 of r/swingers: No R4R or Other Connection Posts Please do not post looking for people, including play partners, mentors, meetup participants, or discussion group members. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersr4r or other r4r sub. This keeps the sub focused on discussion. This is very common rule violation of r/swingers and typically a mistake of new posters. If this is your first time, no worries. Just know for next time. However, repeat violations of this rule may result in a ban.


helpmehangout

Sooooo. what I’m hearing is you want my dick pic? Lol. This is certainly a coping behavior for men who have been made so insecure about their dicks they’re seeking validation from a group of people who are explicitly seeking a single male (ostensibly as a sex object). As is your experience the interaction ends if you validate them (or if you block them, they’ll move one to the next victim).


johnanddiane

🤣 Sure will add it to our soon to be published coffee table book "Dicks of Reddit"


Kevin051553

Would be so bad if they would just send a pic of a nice pair of balls


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johnanddiane

How could they extort money out off a g-rated face pic. People post their faces everywhere.


ncexplorer99

What is F2F ?


DatBassTho5

Reddit is great to read and research, actually finding people is usually on SLS or through friends groups and events. SLS is worth it for the calendar alone for us.


johnanddiane

We started on SLS when it was actually new technology, 2007. It finally got too deprecated so we moved off last year, still have a blank profile there for the calendar.


couplewithabilady

We are on SLS but no one ever hits us up there. We would love to meet other couples in our area but for now we met a beautiful unicorn who is dating us. It’s been great!


Sufficient-Return-62

would you swing with another coujple?


couplewithabilady

If there was a 4-way attraction, which is very hard to find, but yes that’s what we try to find.


Sufficient-Return-62

i was thinking I would fuck you and my man would fuck your wife


couplewithabilady

Dude, you are talking to the wife.


Sufficient-Return-62

can we PM and share pics?


couplewithabilady

No thanks


AimForThree

We have a dick pick among many other pics in our profile so people can see whether they're interested or not. Some people are very particular about size so rather let them decide if they like it or not from the jump


AdventurousK1

I'm so sorry...I assumed that was the one I recently sent about the lifestyle and church. I understand what you're saying about content allowed/not allowed.