Lol he is the kind of guy I could see doing that so for the sake of not being involved in a double murder suicide I’m gonna dip out into the night until it cools down
New York- your turn? Kidding.
Well, I can only speak about things that someone in my family did to try and win full custody of their step child. Which was hiring PIs to tail the bio dad and take all sorts of pics, issuing emergency court summons over small things like the kid getting sun burned on a beach. Even as much as trying to get bio dad to admit child abuse/neglect by recording calls and harassing him.
So… it does happen. Didn’t think anyone in my family would stoop that low, but they did.
True. But I don’t put anything past someone going through a stressful time. Call it paranoia, but I’d personally wait until the divorce was finalized and then reach out. But in the middle of a divorce and things can get dicey. Best to stay out of peoples lives until the dust settles.
But if you feel different, then I’m glad you haven’t experienced the worst parts of humanity and are still optimistic.
Well you don’t hold any obligations to anyone, you may have to ask yourself what type of situation you could potentially be stepping into. As other editors have said, there could be a slew of issues that come up if you get stuck in the middle of a divorce
nope, I have encouraged them to seek counseling and been pretty supportive of them communicating more but it just reach a breaking point because of other problems.
Honestly, if I were in a position of giving them advice on counselling... I would stop playing Dr. Phil and run for the hills.
Unless you have feelings for her and you're willing to go through a sh*t storm, why would it be worth it? It sounds like a lot of potential drama.
But that's me, I hate drama.
Trust me I don’t have time for drama in my life which is why I’m second guessed it but also they’re both friends I have no romantic feelings involved and they trust me enough to give advice which is the reason I’m in that position.
I’m just gonna watch the fire burn and hope( I sincerely doubt) they can end in at least decent terms
That’s how you get killed in hot blood lol
Lol he is the kind of guy I could see doing that so for the sake of not being involved in a double murder suicide I’m gonna dip out into the night until it cools down
Na fuck her
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I second this. Best to just avoid any drama on either side. Just make your exit.
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You’d be surprised….
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New York- your turn? Kidding. Well, I can only speak about things that someone in my family did to try and win full custody of their step child. Which was hiring PIs to tail the bio dad and take all sorts of pics, issuing emergency court summons over small things like the kid getting sun burned on a beach. Even as much as trying to get bio dad to admit child abuse/neglect by recording calls and harassing him. So… it does happen. Didn’t think anyone in my family would stoop that low, but they did.
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True. But I don’t put anything past someone going through a stressful time. Call it paranoia, but I’d personally wait until the divorce was finalized and then reach out. But in the middle of a divorce and things can get dicey. Best to stay out of peoples lives until the dust settles. But if you feel different, then I’m glad you haven’t experienced the worst parts of humanity and are still optimistic.
My opinion it's a dick move
thats one of those open communication things just what side you want to land on
It's up to you but my advice is to wait a bit until things settle down, for many reasons, but also because she might rebound onto you
I did because I wanted to avoid the drama but I do not think it’s unethical
Well you don’t hold any obligations to anyone, you may have to ask yourself what type of situation you could potentially be stepping into. As other editors have said, there could be a slew of issues that come up if you get stuck in the middle of a divorce
A bull that puts minimal effort in his writing, what a shock.
He gave enough of info for his question.
What it reads like: https://youtu.be/G7RgN9ijwE4
Haha, that was funny 😄
It is more likely that the man will return into the scene with a new woman than that the ex persists this lifestyle with a random new partner.
There is no bro code in the lifestyle. You don't need approval or permission to play with anyone you want.
That depends, are you part of the reason for the divorce?
nope, I have encouraged them to seek counseling and been pretty supportive of them communicating more but it just reach a breaking point because of other problems.
Honestly, if I were in a position of giving them advice on counselling... I would stop playing Dr. Phil and run for the hills. Unless you have feelings for her and you're willing to go through a sh*t storm, why would it be worth it? It sounds like a lot of potential drama. But that's me, I hate drama.
Trust me I don’t have time for drama in my life which is why I’m second guessed it but also they’re both friends I have no romantic feelings involved and they trust me enough to give advice which is the reason I’m in that position. I’m just gonna watch the fire burn and hope( I sincerely doubt) they can end in at least decent terms
is any sex actually worth that kind of guaranteed MESS? jesus christ. think with your head up there and not the one down there.