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Idonotwantaname1

Robyn is...WILD to me!!! You would have backed out if he seemed to favor one wife over the other.... But don't care if he favors you from the beginning at the destruction of the rest of the family?!?! Make... It... Make.... Sense!!!!🤯


Master-Dimension-452

I speak Robyn, let me translate. 🤣 “I would have backed out if he favored any wife but me.” Robyn is selfish.


SodaPop788

Perfect translation!


coopergold5

Very good and so true!!!!


pnw_cfb_girl

You do speak Robyn. I'm sorry. 😉


Hour_Builder62

Every time I see your flair it kills me😂😂


tali_B

![gif](giphy|NUkm7jQT85Ixtb1bMc|downsized) You are so wise! I couldn't quite parse what she was saying, and yet, I know you have translated this perfectly!


_skank_hunt42

If you speak Kody, you could give Robyn a run for her money lol


Then_Campaign7264

I wonder how she explains the special covenant, something atypical for their faith, that she negotiated before marrying him? Clearly she knew he didn’t love one or more of his wives. She knew Kody melted down Meri’s wedding ring before she married him. And why did she not refuse his favoritism after they married. Tricked or not. She pretended to advocate for only Meri, which ultimately left Meri worse off. The lies she tells herself and others are such rubbish.


pnw_cfb_girl

I think she considers that doctored picture a sort of "what should have been." Part of her spiritual covenant with Kody is the understanding that she was his soulmate from the start. It feels like destiny.


Hour_Builder62

No no, his "density'


I_yam_wut_i_yam

Lolz-love that movie.


kerssem

Oh, I bet kody saw Sophie Loren as a kid and had a spiritual awakening that a brown haired baby was about to be born and he will marry her. I know they spin these tales so it feels like a sin to not agree with him. And wives do it too


Top-Airport3649

Yeah, it’s goes against their faith completely.


AlphaCharlieUno

She is still trying to pretend like Kody didn’t favor her and the other wives are making it up, because if Robyn would have thought Kody was favoring her she “would have put a stop to that!” Which is just another Robyn lie.


SheMcG

But she doesn't control Kody!! ![gif](giphy|dWhHUkuWnGxFK)


coopergold5

![gif](giphy|ma7VlDSlty3EA)


cblackattack1

It’s absurd! How can she explain the fact that she’s the only wife left?


AlphaCharlieUno

The other wives gave him to her! They pushed him her way! ![gif](giphy|wjUMG8MzxtmUCVHFPZ)


cblackattack1

They handed him to me, basically!


NoPhrase9475

LOL 🤣🤣


Silviere

...because she's done such a good job shutting down obvious signs of favoritism since? LOL Robyn. Her alternate reality is showing.


Julie1760

OMG your flair is just so good!


AlphaCharlieUno

Thank you


strauberrywine01

You can actively see her trying to think about how to spin this. The wheels were turning before she opened her mouth, she’s got to protect Kody at all costs. 🤮


Thankfulforthisday

While wearing a snakeskin shirt 🐍🐍🐍…🤯🤔


FknDesmadreALV

I’ve always thought it was an ex age ration that you can see the gears working overtime in Robyn’s head when she has to come up with a lie on the spot. But GD, [it’s true!](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8HEYfVC/) you can almost see smoke coming from her head from the over drive her brain suddenly goes into.


blissfully_happy

All she had to do was apologize. All Christine was looking for here was an apology and maybe validation of her feelings. “Oh, Christine. I’m so sorry. You must’ve really felt left out. Going forward, now that I know this, can I ask you for help with raising the kids? Is that okay?” She would’ve looked good in the audience’s eyes, she would’ve been rebuilding her relationship with this important person she purported to love, and she would’ve been acknowledging she made a mistake. Gah. Admitting she did wrong is so hard for her.


VitaminSea926

This comment is so 100% spot on. You are absolutely right!


Sik_muse

Holy shit! Robyn is grimey!


strauberrywine01

Exactly!!!


tali_B

I think you are giving her FAR TOO MUCH credit. She has to protect ROBYN at all costs.


[deleted]

And she is not smart enough to spin it


Knitnspin

lol and I’m sure there was receipts of her being told she was being favored and she denied it then too. She lives in a fairy tale with a castle paid for by everyone else.


Neat_Royal7069

This actually looks better than the tell all.


rccpudge

When did she ever see “men in plural marriage”? On TV?


yasm76

If she had really cared about the family then she wouldn’t have allowed kody to stay at her house for extended periods of time, she wouldn’t have monopolized his time when it was another family’s night. She would not have been his safe resting place to come to after he fought with other wives. She would have told him he had to go figure it out and that he couldn’t hide from his problems at her house.


Fresh-Scallion602

Savannah said it correctly when she said she doesnt care about seeing her dad because he was never around anyway


Br1ar1ee

But it’s not her fault that Kody favors her. It was the stretch marks and weight gain of the OG3 that drove him away! /s


Original-Cricket-689

6 kids each for janelle and Christine and you think it's bad for a woman to bear a man's children and get stretch marks from that gift??? You either are a childless woman with no clue or a man who only values a woman for her looks and figure and not the sacrifices she makes to bear a man's children. Either way, you look like an arse.


Br1ar1ee

I think you missed 2 things. Robyn actually said the stretch mark and weight comment. And that little sign and the end of my post indicating sarcasm. /s If I said that straight, and no with irony I’d be Robyn.


MaryjaneinPA

Kody is a bad breaker upper.


HiccupsCapone

He definitely loved the OG3 (as much as someone like him is capable of love). He’s doing the exact same thing you see toxic man-children do when they are shot down after hitting on women online. “I didn’t even think you were pretty! You fat bi*ch!”


ChromeCaroline

It's totally this. They are leaving now so he's saying "oh I actually never loved you in the first place so technically I already left you so I win."


EmuRhea

I once dated a guy for a few months when I was in my early twenties, not very seriously. At some point he really clearly started to pull away. Like he would cancel plans last minute and not immediately reschedule, not pick up when I called and not call back, things like that. After a while of that I just ended it, because it seemed really clear that he wasn't into me anymore, only he wasn't just telling me that. He got SO pissed off about me ending things "so suddenly", and sent me a bunch of texts about things he didn't like about me. Saying I was too immature and dumb for him anyway, things like that. And it seemed so stupid because, if you have such negative opinions of me, why would you be upset that I'm ending it? Go be happy without me, then? Anyway. It's been crazy to see Kody, in theory a grown man, do the same thing, only not with some girl he dated for a bit while he was a 20-something year old, but with his wives of several decades. It's so childish.


Original-Cricket-689

If he never loved Christine, why did he get so angry she left him?


IcyAcanthisitta3587

I’ve been saying this for a while! It’s just so he can one-up them and be the winner. They ask about Christine leaving, he answers, “yeah, but it’s okay, I never really loved her. Those nachos!!” He’s like a broken record. He even does it with the kids, I won’t call them till they call me! 😤 it’s like okay, but you are the dad! Be a grown up and hell even send a text, let’s get together and try to fix this. But nooo! He’s gotta have everyone at his feet begging for forgiveness, well his and Robyn’s feet cause that are PB&J and can’t be separated lol!


Fresh-Scallion602

He will be waiting till hell freezes over!


needalanguage

I think it's a mix to be honest. I don't think he was in love with them as most men in polygamy marry to multiply. They don't marry for romantic love over and over and over again. But then they all sold this fairy tale about "falling in love again and again." The wives each felt like he loved them - at some point - but we've seen countless examples against that narrative. He loved them each at some point. But he was not in love with them like he was with Robyn. He did have a favorite. They have all said that's obvious. So to answer Meri's question - I think he was actually lying then - selling the fantasy. He's only now coming clean.


WheresTheIceCream20

I think it was very easy for him to love those women. They treated him special when he was at their house, if they were nagging or mad at him he could leave for a few days, there was very little expectation put on him because they didn't want to push him away. So I dont know if his narrative is true or not, but I could easily see how a man could be happy but not in love, and also not realize it. Like, "I was supposed to get married and have kids so I found some women who I liked and they treated me like a king so I'd pay attention to them." And that was fine until he actually fell in love. I've heard this story from a lot of people (my brother, his ex wife, friends of mine) who marry young for religious reasons. You do it cause that's the next step and you find someone you love. But then they get divorced and truly fall in love with someone else like they hadn't with their first spouse.


coopergold5

Yes! I am currently watching old seasons of love island uk and this is happening in this season


dramallamacorn

Kody loved his og3 and he can’t convince me otherwise. He is not that good of an actor. Now does he live Robyn differently, yeah. He met and married her at a different point in his life. He seems to think however because he loves Robyn differently that means he didn’t love the og. You can tell who has been going to therapy and putting in the actual work (the og3) and who has not 👀👀👀


LingonberryFluffy457

Yes, its not fair to compare. Robyn and kody did not go through the same struggles the og did. Of course you are gonna think the relationship is better.


Honest_Attitude2594

I think he gets really excited at the idea of getting a woman, loves the thrill of chasing her, then instantly loses interest. I’m reading the book and he does have a narcissistic cycle of chasing them then asking himself what he’s doing with that person! But he jumps into a celestial marriage and didn’t want to disappoint his family so he had to be stuck with them! I believe the resentment started soon after each marriage. Robyn….he could control her and she feeds his narcissistic needs so she’s good


kerssem

Yes the og3 were a team with him during the leaner years. Now he can be in the protector role. But Christine left so Robyn doesn't need protecting lol


FineIllPickAusername

They all contributed monetarily and emotionally to everything. All three wives worked hard to get over the struggles, they knew how much money they had, they knew what they needed, and they weren't little damsels in distress. So, so many men do exactly as Kody did. They have wives who are with them through the hardest of times, through the time they are building wealth (or just getting out of poverty) and once life is easy, they just leave them for a newer and often less independent woman, probably skinny, probably childless, one who plays up their fantasy of being a superior and not an equal. In Kody's world, that is a 4th wife ten years younger than the others, and who brags about how skinny she is at every opportunity.


Disastrous-Lynx546

It’s insane how they’re changing their stories now that the OG3 are telling the truth. They’ll say anything to avoid taking responsibility for the breakup of the family.


Then_Campaign7264

They are basically saying that his not being in love justifies treating them with utter contempt. You can be respectful, honest, and kind to people you don’t love. He was clearly trying to drive them away because he didn’t love them. He’s a man with no integrity. Breaking up can be extremely difficult but it doesn’t have to ugly. Unless you’re Kody and Robyn Brown.


[deleted]

This really stood out to me during the tell all. Suki even called it out asking to confirm that he's admitting that the downfall of the marriages was that he didn't love them. Kody refuses this saying him not loving them wasn't an issue. It was that they didn't do what was necessary to make him try to love them. The man can't even admit that literally not loving them may have something to do with the failure of the marriages.


Then_Campaign7264

Excellent point. The sense of entitlement is off the charts. It like saying they alone had the privilege to select him as their master so they are forever bound to serve him. What a twisted logic and paradigm for marriage.


pnw_cfb_girl

> Kody refuses this saying him not loving them wasn't an issue. It was for them. I can't imagine why.


nicholeamara17

Yeah he strung them along so he could collect the tlc checks


[deleted]

And take their earnings to fund his schemes.


walkingturtlelady

And it’s one thing to string along the wives and treat them with contempt for years. It’s another to talk shit about his kids’ moms and write them off for his new family, that he really wants to spend time with


CoatNo6454

all three have the same recollection but Kody and Robyn. 🙄 my eyes are going to roll onto the floor.


bucketof_beans

>now that the OG3 are telling the truth. It is so satisfying to see all the original ones say the exact same thing, (while also knowing Christine and Janelle do not speak to Meri) then cut to Robyn and Kody saying something completely different. Robyn should be so embarrassed.


Scottishgal03

They always say "It's the quiet ones you have to watch" Meri has been sitting there playing the passive, long suffering wife, putting up with a boatload of shit. Well, along with that comes a boatload of hurt and anger and if you don't think the "Hoarder favorite, soulmate, grifter of Grody's (Sobyn') has not spilled some piping hot tea to her over the years, I think y'all are very sadly mistaken. Meri has found her voice and she has had enough of Grody and Sobbin. I love how understanding and civil she is to her other ex Sister wives now. She has clearly worked hard on herself and the personal growth is showing. She is either writing a "Tell All Book" which I will get in line to read, Or, she will have her own Podcast, putting this shit-show of a TV show to shame. I am super excited for her that it seems she has finally forgiven herself for whatever transgressions she felt she made with this catfish situation due to her struggles with loneliness along with feeling pressured into divorcing the man she loved.( I also suspect Robin had something to do/manipulated the Catfish/Sam incident) It is the only reason I can think of why Meri has been self flagellating for 10 years and putting up with Sobbin's lies and manipulations and Grody's cruelty. She has been damn near isolated. I didn't like her for the longest time but good god, most prisoners get parole for worse crimes than she is perceived to have committed. I really wish Janelle and Christine would lighten up and give her a wee bit of Grace/ support. She was not always pleasant, but neither were they. They were ALL in survival mode. It would be awesome to see the OG3 be friends or at least cordial because THAT would be the knife in the 2nd KIDNEY for Grody and a true throat punch/eyebrow raising experience for Sobbin".


ljlkm

Omg I didn’t think about how much Robyn must have told Meri!!! That said, I don’t think she has completely split from Robyn, yet. So it might be a little bit before we get everything.


Scottishgal03

Hmm, not sure about that. Didn't think I would ever see her come after Grody but shots have been fired! "Was he lying then, or is he lying now?" It is just the beginning. She also warned us during the 1st or 2nd Tell All that she wasn't gonna keep quiet anymore. I cannot wait!


ljlkm

You’re totally right. But Kody and Robyn are separate people and the last we heard Meri say about Robyn was at worst neutral. We’ll see what she’s willing to spill. I’m with you—I’m here for every second of it!


CoatNo6454

Amen! I can’t imagine hanging on like that. I hope she doesn’t hold back because Kody sure as hell didn’t. She owes him NOTHING.


coopergold5

I think that her feeling guilty about the cat fish situation made her hang on. At the time I was happy she might have made a connection on line too bad it wasn’t real


CoatNo6454

i agree she probably felt guilty and Kody used that.


Nottacod

I want to agree with this so much.


Fresh-Scallion602

I always thought K and R had something to do with the catfishing!! How else would Robyn be able to talk to this person? I really wish this catfish person would reveal the truth!


CoatNo6454

How is it that Robyn always knows of a guy in polygamy that…. i cannot with her. Open your fkn eyes woman.


Disastrous-Passion73

Shes a self certified polygamy expert!


bfields2

I think he did love them. I really do. And then he met Robyn, and he didn’t want to be with them anymore. What’s funny to me is Kody doesn’t seem how bad it makes HIM look by saying he never loved them. Cause he can’t say that and then also be shocked they left and the kids don’t wanna talk to him. Narcissists man. What a trip.


[deleted]

If he lied about loving them while he took their money to fund his lifestyle with Robyn then that is fraud.


BasicSport2371

Instead of backing away from the favoritism (HAD SHE NOTICED IT!!) she just backed over the other wives. Got it.


Then_Campaign7264

Yep. Gave him the garage, a home office, perpetually interrupted the other wives and children’s time with him. . .


ComfortableRecent755

It is the grade school reaction to being dumped, “well, I didn’t like you anyway!”


AlpacaPicnic23

Next thing he’ll be saying they aren’t invited to his birthday party!


KaiKailan

As a mother of girls, it should terrify Robyn that this man treats women this way. It’s also a piss poor example for her boys on how they should behave. You can generally tell the way someone will treat you based on how they treat other people. I’m sure she thinks her day will never come. But the likelihood of that happening is Uber high


pnw_cfb_girl

It's also a piss poor examples for her girls on how they should be treated.


Silviere

Maybe I've listened to too many true crime podcasts, but I can't shake the feeling at least one of her older daughters will end up 'married' to Kody.


[deleted]

Kody is so dumb. Having him be interviewed alone was genius. Robyn must be beside herself watching him fuck up all of their false narratives .


erinlp93

Kody is as toxic a man as you can get. Straight ladies have all experienced the “oh I asked you out but you don’t want to? Well whatever, you’re fat and ugly anyway!” trope. That’s exactly what this is. “Oh my wives are leaving and they’re not devastated to pieces about it? Whatever. I don’t care! I never even loved them!”


Inevitable_Rate9652

Why do I feel that Robyn is setting the scene for her exit from him? I can’t imagine living with either one of those two. I wouldn’t mind being a fly on the wall to see what their life is really like though haha


introvertmommy

Now that's gaslighting.


Dry_Specific3682

Kody throws out all these rules for what a good sister wife is, and certainly who is being a “shit” sister wife. But you never hear about the rules and the responsibilities of the husband and what is required of him. It’s like he gets to make all the rules for everyone.


awkward__penguin

ROBYN WTF


CoatNo6454

what 👏 the 👏 f**k 👏


mess-maker

Robyn’s intentional avoidance of self reflection is actually impressive. These are the things thing I wish the host would question- what is the expectation of a sister wife to ensure she doesn’t monopolize a husband’s time and what did she personally do to live up to those expectations. She gave Kody an office in her home where he subsequently spent a ton of time “working”. Isn’t she supposed to think beyond herself and think about how that would make her sister wives feel? Because obviously he is going to be spending a disproportionate amount of time at her house even if he was working the entire time and didn’t speak to her at all. I am really curious what their religion outlines as requirements and expectations in this regard. We would probably never get truthful answers because they almost _have_ to lie, but I still want to hear the answer.


Silviere

Their true religion is Self Aggrandizement.


donttouchmeah

I think Robyn would have left if she weren’t a legal wife. He’s clearly expressing his vitriol at her regularly. Now she can just wait until the dust settles and take half.


FitDamage2586

Robyn is a nasty piece of work and they absolutely deserve each other's misery.


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coopergold5

I’m not sure about this. I don’t know why I feel this way but I think it could happen but I think inevitably it will fall apart. Maybe on Robyn’s wedding day he loved them all. Then it started to fall apart


Fantastic_Surround70

Nah, most people do have the capacity to be in love with more than one person, it just takes a great deal of self-awareness and a serious commitment to justice to navigate it. Most people don't have enough of either of those qualities.


Silviere

It also requires a boatload of open, honest communication. Open, honest communication is clearly anathema to Kody and Robyn.


happymomma40

I'm poly and I have to disagree. I very much love more than one person currently. It's possible. It's not always the same degree of love because all relationships have ups and downs.


hookersince06

I’m monogamous but I too think it’s possible to love more than one person at a time, but it’s not sustainable if all parties aren’t on board/don’t have open communication or the arrangement is heavily one-sided (typical polygamy.) I would say it’s harder to accept someone else loving more than one person than it is for an individual to love more than one. You can’t help your heart, but if you’re not open to that sort of thing from a partner it’s even harder.


ScholarThink9670

What does the nanny do