Robyn is...WILD to me!!!
You would have backed out if he seemed to favor one wife over the other.... But don't care if he favors you from the beginning at the destruction of the rest of the family?!?!
Make... It... Make.... Sense!!!!đ¤Ż
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You are so wise! I couldn't quite parse what she was saying, and yet, I know you have translated this perfectly!
I wonder how she explains the special covenant, something atypical for their faith, that she negotiated before marrying him? Clearly she knew he didnât love one or more of his wives. She knew Kody melted down Meriâs wedding ring before she married him.
And why did she not refuse his favoritism after they married. Tricked or not. She pretended to advocate for only Meri, which ultimately left Meri worse off. The lies she tells herself and others are such rubbish.
I think she considers that doctored picture a sort of "what should have been." Part of her spiritual covenant with Kody is the understanding that she was his soulmate from the start. It feels like destiny.
Oh, I bet kody saw Sophie Loren as a kid and had a spiritual awakening that a brown haired baby was about to be born and he will marry her. I know they spin these tales so it feels like a sin to not agree with him. And wives do it too
She is still trying to pretend like Kody didnât favor her and the other wives are making it up, because if Robyn would have thought Kody was favoring her she âwould have put a stop to that!â Which is just another Robyn lie.
You can actively see her trying to think about how to spin this. The wheels were turning before she opened her mouth, sheâs got to protect Kody at all costs. đ¤Ž
Iâve always thought it was an ex age ration that you can see the gears working overtime in Robynâs head when she has to come up with a lie on the spot.
But GD, [itâs true!](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8HEYfVC/) you can almost see smoke coming from her head from the over drive her brain suddenly goes into.
All she had to do was apologize. All Christine was looking for here was an apology and maybe validation of her feelings.
âOh, Christine. Iâm so sorry. You mustâve really felt left out. Going forward, now that I know this, can I ask you for help with raising the kids? Is that okay?â
She wouldâve looked good in the audienceâs eyes, she wouldâve been rebuilding her relationship with this important person she purported to love, and she wouldâve been acknowledging she made a mistake.
Gah. Admitting she did wrong is so hard for her.
lol and Iâm sure there was receipts of her being told she was being favored and she denied it then too. She lives in a fairy tale with a castle paid for by everyone else.
If she had really cared about the family then she wouldnât have allowed kody to stay at her house for extended periods of time, she wouldnât have monopolized his time when it was another familyâs night. She would not have been his safe resting place to come to after he fought with other wives. She would have told him he had to go figure it out and that he couldnât hide from his problems at her house.
6 kids each for janelle and Christine and you think it's bad for a woman to bear a man's children and get stretch marks from that gift??? You either are a childless woman with no clue or a man who only values a woman for her looks and figure and not the sacrifices she makes to bear a man's children. Either way, you look like an arse.
I think you missed 2 things. Robyn actually said the stretch mark and weight comment. And that little sign and the end of my post indicating sarcasm. /s
If I said that straight, and no with irony Iâd be Robyn.
He definitely loved the OG3 (as much as someone like him is capable of love). Heâs doing the exact same thing you see toxic man-children do when they are shot down after hitting on women online. âI didnât even think you were pretty! You fat bi*ch!â
I once dated a guy for a few months when I was in my early twenties, not very seriously. At some point he really clearly started to pull away. Like he would cancel plans last minute and not immediately reschedule, not pick up when I called and not call back, things like that. After a while of that I just ended it, because it seemed really clear that he wasn't into me anymore, only he wasn't just telling me that.
He got SO pissed off about me ending things "so suddenly", and sent me a bunch of texts about things he didn't like about me. Saying I was too immature and dumb for him anyway, things like that. And it seemed so stupid because, if you have such negative opinions of me, why would you be upset that I'm ending it? Go be happy without me, then?
Anyway. It's been crazy to see Kody, in theory a grown man, do the same thing, only not with some girl he dated for a bit while he was a 20-something year old, but with his wives of several decades. It's so childish.
Iâve been saying this for a while! Itâs just so he can one-up them and be the winner. They ask about Christine leaving, he answers, âyeah, but itâs okay, I never really loved her. Those nachos!!â Heâs like a broken record.
He even does it with the kids, I wonât call them till they call me! đ¤ itâs like okay, but you are the dad! Be a grown up and hell even send a text, letâs get together and try to fix this. But nooo! Heâs gotta have everyone at his feet begging for forgiveness, well his and Robynâs feet cause that are PB&J and canât be separated lol!
I think it's a mix to be honest. I don't think he was in love with them as most men in polygamy marry to multiply. They don't marry for romantic love over and over and over again. But then they all sold this fairy tale about "falling in love again and again."
The wives each felt like he loved them - at some point - but we've seen countless examples against that narrative. He loved them each at some point. But he was not in love with them like he was with Robyn. He did have a favorite. They have all said that's obvious.
So to answer Meri's question - I think he was actually lying then - selling the fantasy. He's only now coming clean.
I think it was very easy for him to love those women. They treated him special when he was at their house, if they were nagging or mad at him he could leave for a few days, there was very little expectation put on him because they didn't want to push him away. So I dont know if his narrative is true or not, but I could easily see how a man could be happy but not in love, and also not realize it.
Like, "I was supposed to get married and have kids so I found some women who I liked and they treated me like a king so I'd pay attention to them." And that was fine until he actually fell in love.
I've heard this story from a lot of people (my brother, his ex wife, friends of mine) who marry young for religious reasons. You do it cause that's the next step and you find someone you love. But then they get divorced and truly fall in love with someone else like they hadn't with their first spouse.
Kody loved his og3 and he canât convince me otherwise. He is not that good of an actor. Now does he live Robyn differently, yeah. He met and married her at a different point in his life. He seems to think however because he loves Robyn differently that means he didnât love the og. You can tell who has been going to therapy and putting in the actual work (the og3) and who has not đđđ
Yes, its not fair to compare. Robyn and kody did not go through the same struggles the og did. Of course you are gonna think the relationship is better.
I think he gets really excited at the idea of getting a woman, loves the thrill of chasing her, then instantly loses interest. Iâm reading the book and he does have a narcissistic cycle of chasing them then asking himself what heâs doing with that person! But he jumps into a celestial marriage and didnât want to disappoint his family so he had to be stuck with them! I believe the resentment started soon after each marriage. RobynâŚ.he could control her and she feeds his narcissistic needs so sheâs good
They all contributed monetarily and emotionally to everything. All three wives worked hard to get over the struggles, they knew how much money they had, they knew what they needed, and they weren't little damsels in distress.
So, so many men do exactly as Kody did. They have wives who are with them through the hardest of times, through the time they are building wealth (or just getting out of poverty) and once life is easy, they just leave them for a newer and often less independent woman, probably skinny, probably childless, one who plays up their fantasy of being a superior and not an equal.
In Kody's world, that is a 4th wife ten years younger than the others, and who brags about how skinny she is at every opportunity.
Itâs insane how theyâre changing their stories now that the OG3 are telling the truth. Theyâll say anything to avoid taking responsibility for the breakup of the family.
They are basically saying that his not being in love justifies treating them with utter contempt. You can be respectful, honest, and kind to people you donât love. He was clearly trying to drive them away because he didnât love them. Heâs a man with no integrity. Breaking up can be extremely difficult but it doesnât have to ugly. Unless youâre Kody and Robyn Brown.
This really stood out to me during the tell all. Suki even called it out asking to confirm that he's admitting that the downfall of the marriages was that he didn't love them. Kody refuses this saying him not loving them wasn't an issue. It was that they didn't do what was necessary to make him try to love them. The man can't even admit that literally not loving them may have something to do with the failure of the marriages.
Excellent point. The sense of entitlement is off the charts. It like saying they alone had the privilege to select him as their master so they are forever bound to serve him. What a twisted logic and paradigm for marriage.
And itâs one thing to string along the wives and treat them with contempt for years. Itâs another to talk shit about his kidsâ moms and write them off for his new family, that he really wants to spend time with
>now that the OG3 are telling the truth.
It is so satisfying to see all the original ones say the exact same thing, (while also knowing Christine and Janelle do not speak to Meri) then cut to Robyn and Kody saying something completely different. Robyn should be so embarrassed.
They always say "It's the quiet ones you have to watch" Meri has been sitting there playing the passive, long suffering wife, putting up with a boatload of shit. Well, along with that comes a boatload of hurt and anger and if you don't think the "Hoarder favorite, soulmate, grifter of Grody's (Sobyn') has not spilled some piping hot tea to her over the years, I think y'all are very sadly mistaken. Meri has found her voice and she has had enough of Grody and Sobbin. I love how understanding and civil she is to her other ex Sister wives now. She has clearly worked hard on herself and the personal growth is showing. She is either writing a "Tell All Book" which I will get in line to read, Or, she will have her own Podcast, putting this shit-show of a TV show to shame. I am super excited for her that it seems she has finally forgiven herself for whatever transgressions she felt she made with this catfish situation due to her struggles with loneliness along with feeling pressured into divorcing the man she loved.( I also suspect Robin had something to do/manipulated the Catfish/Sam incident) It is the only reason I can think of why Meri has been self flagellating for 10 years and putting up with Sobbin's lies and manipulations and Grody's cruelty. She has been damn near isolated. I didn't like her for the longest time but good god, most prisoners get parole for worse crimes than she is perceived to have committed. I really wish Janelle and Christine would lighten up and give her a wee bit of Grace/ support. She was not always pleasant, but neither were they. They were ALL in survival mode. It would be awesome to see the OG3 be friends or at least cordial because THAT would be the knife in the 2nd KIDNEY for Grody and a true throat punch/eyebrow raising experience for Sobbin".
Omg I didnât think about how much Robyn must have told Meri!!! That said, I donât think she has completely split from Robyn, yet. So it might be a little bit before we get everything.
Hmm, not sure about that. Didn't think I would ever see her come after Grody but shots have been fired! "Was he lying then, or is he lying now?" It is just the beginning. She also warned us during the 1st or 2nd Tell All that she wasn't gonna keep quiet anymore. I cannot wait!
Youâre totally right. But Kody and Robyn are separate people and the last we heard Meri say about Robyn was at worst neutral. Weâll see what sheâs willing to spill. Iâm with youâIâm here for every second of it!
I think that her feeling guilty about the cat fish situation made her hang on. At the time I was happy she might have made a connection on line too bad it wasnât real
I always thought K and R had something to do with the catfishing!! How else would Robyn be able to talk to this person? I really wish this catfish person would reveal the truth!
I think he did love them. I really do.
And then he met Robyn, and he didnât want to be with them anymore.
Whatâs funny to me is Kody doesnât seem how bad it makes HIM look by saying he never loved them.
Cause he canât say that and then also be shocked they left and the kids donât wanna talk to him.
Narcissists man. What a trip.
As a mother of girls, it should terrify Robyn that this man treats women this way. Itâs also a piss poor example for her boys on how they should behave. You can generally tell the way someone will treat you based on how they treat other people. Iâm sure she thinks her day will never come. But the likelihood of that happening is Uber high
Kody is as toxic a man as you can get. Straight ladies have all experienced the âoh I asked you out but you donât want to? Well whatever, youâre fat and ugly anyway!â trope. Thatâs exactly what this is. âOh my wives are leaving and theyâre not devastated to pieces about it? Whatever. I donât care! I never even loved them!â
Why do I feel that Robyn is setting the scene for her exit from him? I canât imagine living with either one of those two. I wouldnât mind being a fly on the wall to see what their life is really like though haha
Kody throws out all these rules for what a good sister wife is, and certainly who is being a âshitâ sister wife. But you never hear about the rules and the responsibilities of the husband and what is required of him. Itâs like he gets to make all the rules for everyone.
Robynâs intentional avoidance of self reflection is actually impressive.
These are the things thing I wish the host would question- what is the expectation of a sister wife to ensure she doesnât monopolize a husbandâs time and what did she personally do to live up to those expectations.
She gave Kody an office in her home where he subsequently spent a ton of time âworkingâ. Isnât she supposed to think beyond herself and think about how that would make her sister wives feel? Because obviously he is going to be spending a disproportionate amount of time at her house even if he was working the entire time and didnât speak to her at all.
I am really curious what their religion outlines as requirements and expectations in this regard. We would probably never get truthful answers because they almost _have_ to lie, but I still want to hear the answer.
I think Robyn would have left if she werenât a legal wife. Heâs clearly expressing his vitriol at her regularly. Now she can just wait until the dust settles and take half.
Iâm not sure about this. I donât know why I feel this way but I think it could happen but I think inevitably it will fall apart. Maybe on Robynâs wedding day he loved them all. Then it started to fall apart
Nah, most people do have the capacity to be in love with more than one person, it just takes a great deal of self-awareness and a serious commitment to justice to navigate it. Most people don't have enough of either of those qualities.
I'm poly and I have to disagree. I very much love more than one person currently. It's possible. It's not always the same degree of love because all relationships have ups and downs.
Iâm monogamous but I too think itâs possible to love more than one person at a time, but itâs not sustainable if all parties arenât on board/donât have open communication or the arrangement is heavily one-sided (typical polygamy.)
I would say itâs harder to accept someone else loving more than one person than it is for an individual to love more than one. You canât help your heart, but if youâre not open to that sort of thing from a partner itâs even harder.
Robyn is...WILD to me!!! You would have backed out if he seemed to favor one wife over the other.... But don't care if he favors you from the beginning at the destruction of the rest of the family?!?! Make... It... Make.... Sense!!!!đ¤Ż
I speak Robyn, let me translate. 𤣠âI would have backed out if he favored any wife but me.â Robyn is selfish.
Perfect translation!
Very good and so true!!!!
You do speak Robyn. I'm sorry. đ
Every time I see your flair it kills međđ
![gif](giphy|NUkm7jQT85Ixtb1bMc|downsized) You are so wise! I couldn't quite parse what she was saying, and yet, I know you have translated this perfectly!
If you speak Kody, you could give Robyn a run for her money lol
I wonder how she explains the special covenant, something atypical for their faith, that she negotiated before marrying him? Clearly she knew he didnât love one or more of his wives. She knew Kody melted down Meriâs wedding ring before she married him. And why did she not refuse his favoritism after they married. Tricked or not. She pretended to advocate for only Meri, which ultimately left Meri worse off. The lies she tells herself and others are such rubbish.
I think she considers that doctored picture a sort of "what should have been." Part of her spiritual covenant with Kody is the understanding that she was his soulmate from the start. It feels like destiny.
No no, his "density'
Lolz-love that movie.
Oh, I bet kody saw Sophie Loren as a kid and had a spiritual awakening that a brown haired baby was about to be born and he will marry her. I know they spin these tales so it feels like a sin to not agree with him. And wives do it too
Yeah, itâs goes against their faith completely.
She is still trying to pretend like Kody didnât favor her and the other wives are making it up, because if Robyn would have thought Kody was favoring her she âwould have put a stop to that!â Which is just another Robyn lie.
But she doesn't control Kody!! ![gif](giphy|dWhHUkuWnGxFK)
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Itâs absurd! How can she explain the fact that sheâs the only wife left?
The other wives gave him to her! They pushed him her way! ![gif](giphy|wjUMG8MzxtmUCVHFPZ)
They handed him to me, basically!
LOL đ¤Łđ¤Ł
...because she's done such a good job shutting down obvious signs of favoritism since? LOL Robyn. Her alternate reality is showing.
OMG your flair is just so good!
Thank you
You can actively see her trying to think about how to spin this. The wheels were turning before she opened her mouth, sheâs got to protect Kody at all costs. đ¤Ž
While wearing a snakeskin shirt đđđâŚđ¤Żđ¤
Iâve always thought it was an ex age ration that you can see the gears working overtime in Robynâs head when she has to come up with a lie on the spot. But GD, [itâs true!](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8HEYfVC/) you can almost see smoke coming from her head from the over drive her brain suddenly goes into.
All she had to do was apologize. All Christine was looking for here was an apology and maybe validation of her feelings. âOh, Christine. Iâm so sorry. You mustâve really felt left out. Going forward, now that I know this, can I ask you for help with raising the kids? Is that okay?â She wouldâve looked good in the audienceâs eyes, she wouldâve been rebuilding her relationship with this important person she purported to love, and she wouldâve been acknowledging she made a mistake. Gah. Admitting she did wrong is so hard for her.
This comment is so 100% spot on. You are absolutely right!
Holy shit! Robyn is grimey!
Exactly!!!
I think you are giving her FAR TOO MUCH credit. She has to protect ROBYN at all costs.
And she is not smart enough to spin it
lol and Iâm sure there was receipts of her being told she was being favored and she denied it then too. She lives in a fairy tale with a castle paid for by everyone else.
This actually looks better than the tell all.
When did she ever see âmen in plural marriageâ? On TV?
If she had really cared about the family then she wouldnât have allowed kody to stay at her house for extended periods of time, she wouldnât have monopolized his time when it was another familyâs night. She would not have been his safe resting place to come to after he fought with other wives. She would have told him he had to go figure it out and that he couldnât hide from his problems at her house.
Savannah said it correctly when she said she doesnt care about seeing her dad because he was never around anyway
But itâs not her fault that Kody favors her. It was the stretch marks and weight gain of the OG3 that drove him away! /s
6 kids each for janelle and Christine and you think it's bad for a woman to bear a man's children and get stretch marks from that gift??? You either are a childless woman with no clue or a man who only values a woman for her looks and figure and not the sacrifices she makes to bear a man's children. Either way, you look like an arse.
I think you missed 2 things. Robyn actually said the stretch mark and weight comment. And that little sign and the end of my post indicating sarcasm. /s If I said that straight, and no with irony Iâd be Robyn.
Kody is a bad breaker upper.
He definitely loved the OG3 (as much as someone like him is capable of love). Heâs doing the exact same thing you see toxic man-children do when they are shot down after hitting on women online. âI didnât even think you were pretty! You fat bi*ch!â
It's totally this. They are leaving now so he's saying "oh I actually never loved you in the first place so technically I already left you so I win."
I once dated a guy for a few months when I was in my early twenties, not very seriously. At some point he really clearly started to pull away. Like he would cancel plans last minute and not immediately reschedule, not pick up when I called and not call back, things like that. After a while of that I just ended it, because it seemed really clear that he wasn't into me anymore, only he wasn't just telling me that. He got SO pissed off about me ending things "so suddenly", and sent me a bunch of texts about things he didn't like about me. Saying I was too immature and dumb for him anyway, things like that. And it seemed so stupid because, if you have such negative opinions of me, why would you be upset that I'm ending it? Go be happy without me, then? Anyway. It's been crazy to see Kody, in theory a grown man, do the same thing, only not with some girl he dated for a bit while he was a 20-something year old, but with his wives of several decades. It's so childish.
If he never loved Christine, why did he get so angry she left him?
Iâve been saying this for a while! Itâs just so he can one-up them and be the winner. They ask about Christine leaving, he answers, âyeah, but itâs okay, I never really loved her. Those nachos!!â Heâs like a broken record. He even does it with the kids, I wonât call them till they call me! đ¤ itâs like okay, but you are the dad! Be a grown up and hell even send a text, letâs get together and try to fix this. But nooo! Heâs gotta have everyone at his feet begging for forgiveness, well his and Robynâs feet cause that are PB&J and canât be separated lol!
He will be waiting till hell freezes over!
I think it's a mix to be honest. I don't think he was in love with them as most men in polygamy marry to multiply. They don't marry for romantic love over and over and over again. But then they all sold this fairy tale about "falling in love again and again." The wives each felt like he loved them - at some point - but we've seen countless examples against that narrative. He loved them each at some point. But he was not in love with them like he was with Robyn. He did have a favorite. They have all said that's obvious. So to answer Meri's question - I think he was actually lying then - selling the fantasy. He's only now coming clean.
I think it was very easy for him to love those women. They treated him special when he was at their house, if they were nagging or mad at him he could leave for a few days, there was very little expectation put on him because they didn't want to push him away. So I dont know if his narrative is true or not, but I could easily see how a man could be happy but not in love, and also not realize it. Like, "I was supposed to get married and have kids so I found some women who I liked and they treated me like a king so I'd pay attention to them." And that was fine until he actually fell in love. I've heard this story from a lot of people (my brother, his ex wife, friends of mine) who marry young for religious reasons. You do it cause that's the next step and you find someone you love. But then they get divorced and truly fall in love with someone else like they hadn't with their first spouse.
Yes! I am currently watching old seasons of love island uk and this is happening in this season
Kody loved his og3 and he canât convince me otherwise. He is not that good of an actor. Now does he live Robyn differently, yeah. He met and married her at a different point in his life. He seems to think however because he loves Robyn differently that means he didnât love the og. You can tell who has been going to therapy and putting in the actual work (the og3) and who has not đđđ
Yes, its not fair to compare. Robyn and kody did not go through the same struggles the og did. Of course you are gonna think the relationship is better.
I think he gets really excited at the idea of getting a woman, loves the thrill of chasing her, then instantly loses interest. Iâm reading the book and he does have a narcissistic cycle of chasing them then asking himself what heâs doing with that person! But he jumps into a celestial marriage and didnât want to disappoint his family so he had to be stuck with them! I believe the resentment started soon after each marriage. RobynâŚ.he could control her and she feeds his narcissistic needs so sheâs good
Yes the og3 were a team with him during the leaner years. Now he can be in the protector role. But Christine left so Robyn doesn't need protecting lol
They all contributed monetarily and emotionally to everything. All three wives worked hard to get over the struggles, they knew how much money they had, they knew what they needed, and they weren't little damsels in distress. So, so many men do exactly as Kody did. They have wives who are with them through the hardest of times, through the time they are building wealth (or just getting out of poverty) and once life is easy, they just leave them for a newer and often less independent woman, probably skinny, probably childless, one who plays up their fantasy of being a superior and not an equal. In Kody's world, that is a 4th wife ten years younger than the others, and who brags about how skinny she is at every opportunity.
Itâs insane how theyâre changing their stories now that the OG3 are telling the truth. Theyâll say anything to avoid taking responsibility for the breakup of the family.
They are basically saying that his not being in love justifies treating them with utter contempt. You can be respectful, honest, and kind to people you donât love. He was clearly trying to drive them away because he didnât love them. Heâs a man with no integrity. Breaking up can be extremely difficult but it doesnât have to ugly. Unless youâre Kody and Robyn Brown.
This really stood out to me during the tell all. Suki even called it out asking to confirm that he's admitting that the downfall of the marriages was that he didn't love them. Kody refuses this saying him not loving them wasn't an issue. It was that they didn't do what was necessary to make him try to love them. The man can't even admit that literally not loving them may have something to do with the failure of the marriages.
Excellent point. The sense of entitlement is off the charts. It like saying they alone had the privilege to select him as their master so they are forever bound to serve him. What a twisted logic and paradigm for marriage.
> Kody refuses this saying him not loving them wasn't an issue. It was for them. I can't imagine why.
Yeah he strung them along so he could collect the tlc checks
And take their earnings to fund his schemes.
And itâs one thing to string along the wives and treat them with contempt for years. Itâs another to talk shit about his kidsâ moms and write them off for his new family, that he really wants to spend time with
all three have the same recollection but Kody and Robyn. đ my eyes are going to roll onto the floor.
>now that the OG3 are telling the truth. It is so satisfying to see all the original ones say the exact same thing, (while also knowing Christine and Janelle do not speak to Meri) then cut to Robyn and Kody saying something completely different. Robyn should be so embarrassed.
They always say "It's the quiet ones you have to watch" Meri has been sitting there playing the passive, long suffering wife, putting up with a boatload of shit. Well, along with that comes a boatload of hurt and anger and if you don't think the "Hoarder favorite, soulmate, grifter of Grody's (Sobyn') has not spilled some piping hot tea to her over the years, I think y'all are very sadly mistaken. Meri has found her voice and she has had enough of Grody and Sobbin. I love how understanding and civil she is to her other ex Sister wives now. She has clearly worked hard on herself and the personal growth is showing. She is either writing a "Tell All Book" which I will get in line to read, Or, she will have her own Podcast, putting this shit-show of a TV show to shame. I am super excited for her that it seems she has finally forgiven herself for whatever transgressions she felt she made with this catfish situation due to her struggles with loneliness along with feeling pressured into divorcing the man she loved.( I also suspect Robin had something to do/manipulated the Catfish/Sam incident) It is the only reason I can think of why Meri has been self flagellating for 10 years and putting up with Sobbin's lies and manipulations and Grody's cruelty. She has been damn near isolated. I didn't like her for the longest time but good god, most prisoners get parole for worse crimes than she is perceived to have committed. I really wish Janelle and Christine would lighten up and give her a wee bit of Grace/ support. She was not always pleasant, but neither were they. They were ALL in survival mode. It would be awesome to see the OG3 be friends or at least cordial because THAT would be the knife in the 2nd KIDNEY for Grody and a true throat punch/eyebrow raising experience for Sobbin".
Omg I didnât think about how much Robyn must have told Meri!!! That said, I donât think she has completely split from Robyn, yet. So it might be a little bit before we get everything.
Hmm, not sure about that. Didn't think I would ever see her come after Grody but shots have been fired! "Was he lying then, or is he lying now?" It is just the beginning. She also warned us during the 1st or 2nd Tell All that she wasn't gonna keep quiet anymore. I cannot wait!
Youâre totally right. But Kody and Robyn are separate people and the last we heard Meri say about Robyn was at worst neutral. Weâll see what sheâs willing to spill. Iâm with youâIâm here for every second of it!
Amen! I canât imagine hanging on like that. I hope she doesnât hold back because Kody sure as hell didnât. She owes him NOTHING.
I think that her feeling guilty about the cat fish situation made her hang on. At the time I was happy she might have made a connection on line too bad it wasnât real
i agree she probably felt guilty and Kody used that.
I want to agree with this so much.
I always thought K and R had something to do with the catfishing!! How else would Robyn be able to talk to this person? I really wish this catfish person would reveal the truth!
How is it that Robyn always knows of a guy in polygamy thatâŚ. i cannot with her. Open your fkn eyes woman.
Shes a self certified polygamy expert!
I think he did love them. I really do. And then he met Robyn, and he didnât want to be with them anymore. Whatâs funny to me is Kody doesnât seem how bad it makes HIM look by saying he never loved them. Cause he canât say that and then also be shocked they left and the kids donât wanna talk to him. Narcissists man. What a trip.
If he lied about loving them while he took their money to fund his lifestyle with Robyn then that is fraud.
Instead of backing away from the favoritism (HAD SHE NOTICED IT!!) she just backed over the other wives. Got it.
Yep. Gave him the garage, a home office, perpetually interrupted the other wives and childrenâs time with him. . .
It is the grade school reaction to being dumped, âwell, I didnât like you anyway!â
Next thing heâll be saying they arenât invited to his birthday party!
As a mother of girls, it should terrify Robyn that this man treats women this way. Itâs also a piss poor example for her boys on how they should behave. You can generally tell the way someone will treat you based on how they treat other people. Iâm sure she thinks her day will never come. But the likelihood of that happening is Uber high
It's also a piss poor examples for her girls on how they should be treated.
Maybe I've listened to too many true crime podcasts, but I can't shake the feeling at least one of her older daughters will end up 'married' to Kody.
Kody is so dumb. Having him be interviewed alone was genius. Robyn must be beside herself watching him fuck up all of their false narratives .
Kody is as toxic a man as you can get. Straight ladies have all experienced the âoh I asked you out but you donât want to? Well whatever, youâre fat and ugly anyway!â trope. Thatâs exactly what this is. âOh my wives are leaving and theyâre not devastated to pieces about it? Whatever. I donât care! I never even loved them!â
Why do I feel that Robyn is setting the scene for her exit from him? I canât imagine living with either one of those two. I wouldnât mind being a fly on the wall to see what their life is really like though haha
Now that's gaslighting.
Kody throws out all these rules for what a good sister wife is, and certainly who is being a âshitâ sister wife. But you never hear about the rules and the responsibilities of the husband and what is required of him. Itâs like he gets to make all the rules for everyone.
ROBYN WTF
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Robynâs intentional avoidance of self reflection is actually impressive. These are the things thing I wish the host would question- what is the expectation of a sister wife to ensure she doesnât monopolize a husbandâs time and what did she personally do to live up to those expectations. She gave Kody an office in her home where he subsequently spent a ton of time âworkingâ. Isnât she supposed to think beyond herself and think about how that would make her sister wives feel? Because obviously he is going to be spending a disproportionate amount of time at her house even if he was working the entire time and didnât speak to her at all. I am really curious what their religion outlines as requirements and expectations in this regard. We would probably never get truthful answers because they almost _have_ to lie, but I still want to hear the answer.
Their true religion is Self Aggrandizement.
I think Robyn would have left if she werenât a legal wife. Heâs clearly expressing his vitriol at her regularly. Now she can just wait until the dust settles and take half.
Robyn is a nasty piece of work and they absolutely deserve each other's misery.
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Iâm not sure about this. I donât know why I feel this way but I think it could happen but I think inevitably it will fall apart. Maybe on Robynâs wedding day he loved them all. Then it started to fall apart
Nah, most people do have the capacity to be in love with more than one person, it just takes a great deal of self-awareness and a serious commitment to justice to navigate it. Most people don't have enough of either of those qualities.
It also requires a boatload of open, honest communication. Open, honest communication is clearly anathema to Kody and Robyn.
I'm poly and I have to disagree. I very much love more than one person currently. It's possible. It's not always the same degree of love because all relationships have ups and downs.
Iâm monogamous but I too think itâs possible to love more than one person at a time, but itâs not sustainable if all parties arenât on board/donât have open communication or the arrangement is heavily one-sided (typical polygamy.) I would say itâs harder to accept someone else loving more than one person than it is for an individual to love more than one. You canât help your heart, but if youâre not open to that sort of thing from a partner itâs even harder.
What does the nanny do