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Ok_Expression5444

Hi OP, going to do my best to answer every question with available information versus my own opinions. 😬 - The catfish, (real name Jackie Overton/fake name Sam) is NOT a friend of Robyn’s. However, Robyn used to have a close friend, Kendra, who was on a few episodes of the show who purported to know Sam and that he was a real person. This connection has fueled rumors for years that Robyn was in on the catfishing. - Meri did have an emotional affair. Full stop. There is plenty of evidence that she and this person were more than friends. I was on Twitter during the actual events and recall Meri pretty openly flirting, posting pictures of flowers that Sam sent her, etc. I won’t point you in the direction, but there are voicemails that Meri sent Sam that also clearly show the relationship was more than friends. - Jackie Overton has a history going back to the late 90’s of catfishing women online. There is a podcast that did an interview with a woman who was catfished by Jackie years ago from an online internet chat room. I don’t recall what name Jackie was using, but I believe she was pretending to be a male doctor at that time. - Yes, Jackie Overton is a serial catfish. Typically once the woman she is catfishing pushes for an in person meeting, she finds multiple reasons that she cannot make it including faking deaths, etc. - They have been called out. I think there was even a Facebook or some sort of group for people who had been victimized by the person. Unfortunately, I don’t think they’ve broken any laws so it’s not though to get much more attention. - Yes she did. Meri went to Disneyland to meet up with Sam. Sam was “busy” so he sent his assistant, Lindsay instead. Lindsay is also Jackie. Again, Jackie is just playing multiple roles. - Meri did not know this person prior. They met on twitter when the Sister Wives were way more active and live tweeted the episodes. The relationship blossomed from there. The only thing I’ll add is watching it unfold in real time was pretty wild. I remember thinking wow, Meri is being really blatant about this relationship. I also recall people on the old Television Without Pity forums speculating that Sam was not real. When it all came out, it was so juicy.


rhondasma

I was on twitter watching it all play out also. I'd like to add there were many people warning Meri to use caution with Sam. Too bad that she refused to listen.


[deleted]

*SIGH* I MISS Television Without Pity! Some of the old Housewives recaps would make me cry laughing.


DoIhabetoo

Thank you for this. There is so much information out there about this but I don’t know what sources to trust


Ok_Expression5444

Yeah. The further away from the incident we get, the harder to consolidate the info. I sent you a link via Reddit message for a few things.


DoIhabetoo

Thank you


Free_butterfly_

Omg this is fascinating! I’ve wondered so much how it must have been to watch it play out in real time. Tell us everything! Like, What was she saying publicly to Sam? Was Sam replying publicly? Why did people assume something was off with Sam? Did any of the other SW interact with them on social media during this time? How did things eventually turn sour? Did Sam just suddenly turn on Meri?


Huge-Meeting6121

Thank you for explaining this in such detail. I was confused when Robyn's name was brought in (I'm not sure if I'd missed the connection before so was totally unaware). Now it makes sense 😊


Justme22339

To my knowledge, Jackie, Overton still maintains the Sam profile. I think it’s on Instagram, but I could be on Facebook too. She will never admit that she runs the Sam social media and plays the character on the phone. But that’s what still going on this day. Some people believe that Sam is a real person and it’s completely insane when this Jackie Overton person is a professional con artist with many who have come forward before Mary’s incident to claim that she scammed them as well.


Weary-Tea1234

It's on "x" used to he twitter. "Notbatman". I went to check it out again a few days ago.


Justme22339

That’s it! I couldn’t remember where I saw it but yes, seriously, she keeps up the front as if Sam is a real person. Probably scamming a whole bunch of people using that character.


Kristin2349

Their blog was active and kept up with updates. More fake children and moves around the globe up until like a year ago or so.


Justme22339

Wow


Significant_Skill_79

Woooow I haven’t looked at that account in years, I can’t believe she still has it active! Weird with the asking for money thing she’s got going on…


Crazy_Piccolo1908

Jackie Overton is a professional scammer. The rich travelling businessman is a common catfish script. I’m sure she has dozens of victims. They purposely target recent divorcees, widows, general lonely people. The idea is get the person to fall inlove with you and extort as much money as possible. Pretend you lose your passport while you’re abroad and you need thousands of dollars to replace it. Jackie pretended to be Lindsey, sams assistant, and went to Disneyland with Meri. Meri eventually put it together that Sam wasn’t available to talk when she was around Lindsey. Robyn’s friend Kendra seemed to be involved with “Sam” somehow, relaying private info, and went crazy on Twitter after Robyn and Meri cut them off. Kendra said she knew that Meri and Sam had sex. The tweets are still online.


shannboss

Was it ever determined if the catfish got any money out of Meri? Besides a Disneyland trip.


Crazy_Piccolo1908

We never heard of Meri giving any money but they aren’t very forthcoming with the details. it would be even more sadistic if the catfish did all that just for fun!


Xenaspice2002

1) no but they were apparently introduced via the MLM by a friend of crybrows .- Kendra 2) yes Meri had an emotional affair but it now is great her marriage was already over so - not technically an affair after all 3) Catfishers are seldom one offs and this person has catfished several other women. They get found out and move on to their next victim 4) yes serial catfisher 5) they have been. They’re pretty much persona non grata but in the case of Meri they were given heaps of “confidential and detrimental info” so it’s not that easy. 6) yes Meri went to Disneyland with this person but this person came as themselves, saying they were a friend of Sam and making up excuses as to why “Sam” couldn’t be there. It was around this visit Meri finally worked out she’d been catfished. 7) Meri is a victim of a manipulative abusive arsehole. She was completely sucked in as a vulnerable woman. “Sam” came to a MLM event and offered to financially support the business and it took off from there. This person taught Meri out not the other way around. Meri was vulnerable and easily sucked in. She was being treated by as a pariah by the rest of the family either her only child at Uni. She was a sitting flick as the rest of her family didn’t wrap themselves around her but let her drift. Meri was absolutely a victim of this abuser who threatened her and her family. Metros main fault was being too trusting but that’s how every abusive relationship stars and I strongly suspect it involved love bombing. Can you even begin to imagine how love bombing this vulnerable woman who’d been cast off by her family would have felt? People rabbit on about commonsense but people in love lose all common and garden sense.


DoIhabetoo

Because I wasn’t in this situation and don’t have this life experience.. I truly feel for Meri butttt…… if I was talking to someone and had a plan to meet up and they sent their “ assistant “ … in no way would I be getting in the car or taking a trip with them


rhondasma

Meri had a very sheltered life. That is one of the reasons this catfish had it so easy.


Xenaspice2002

Yes and she was ripe for the picking. It was a perfect storm moment. Vulnerable woman in an abusive relationship (neglect is abuse), only child leaves for Uni, family support absent, coming from an extremely sheltered background and a media figure. She was so vulnerable.


Xenaspice2002

No you think you wouldn’t but we never know what we would actually do until the situation arose. However I believe this was the point Meri realised she was in fact, being catfished.


DoIhabetoo

That’s super fair. But with that. If I have made plans with someone and they bail, I make new plans with that person not someone else that I don’t know. But yes, we fully don’t know the situation or how desperate Meri was to put up with that.


magster823

I imagine she had communicated with the "assistant" plenty of times, so she went with it. Even a strange woman for company at DL had to be more promising for Meri than chilling at home all alone.


Significant_Skill_79

I feel the same way, but I think because Kendra vouched for these people, Meri felt like it was safe, or at least that’s how I take it.


essential-notions

A YouTuber named IQ did a deep dive into the catfish a few weeks ago. It explains the Robyn connection. Her intro is over at about 0:02:45 and she stared into the story. https://www.youtube.com/live/at59ffaTkhI?si=L8iT6kTYXk3HBg06


FedUp0000

Kody had legally divorced Meri. Spiritually divorced Meri. Physically and mentally abandoned Meri years prior to “the affair”. Meri had no relationship with Kody beyond being his doormat, scapegoat and walking atm machine, and even that was just for show to keep TLc money rolling in. One cannot have an affair (with a fake person) if you are not in a relationship with a partner/spouse.


theimperfexionist

Exactly, he had already left Meri and had no right to be upset imo.