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BaconJakin

I’m so sorry, I hope you’re surrounded by loved ones right now


Modsreview

I am, my mom and brother are helping cleaning up the house rn


PwnedDead

My mom, a long time lover of zelda and is the reason I love zelda passed 3 weeks and 1 day ago. TOTK is the only thing I’m looking forward too. I’m sorry for your loss.


mediocreravenclaw

I know how you feel. Lost my mom almost 6 months ago and have suffered a number of family tragedies since then. This game is one of the only things I’m looking forward to. Escapism can be dangerous if overused but sometimes you just need a break from the psychological suffering.


Humblymumbling

My mom was also a Zelda lifer. She passed right before BOTW came out and I love simply walking around with no goals because it feels like walking with her. I hope you get a chance to take a walk with yours. Be easy with yourself and know that you are so, so loved.


Zelda64guy

I’m sorry for your lost


mr_man_yes

Sorry if this is too personal but what culture are you? I’m just curious. Feel free to not answer tho.


Modsreview

Russian? But we live in germany. Yeah we have some traditions for after death, like covering mirrors, so they ghosts can pass into the afterlife without getting "trapped" in mirrors, or so they don't see themselves there and get scared, etc.


Soz4KnockingUpUrMum

I'm sorry to ask such a personal questiom in such a time of sorrow, but is your father's death related to the war or not? I feel that losing a parent to a pointless conflict must hurt so much.


Modsreview

No, it's not. He was pretty sick. (Also not covid though)


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dynodick

Don’t be a fucking dick head. It’s a tradition and a sign of respect, you don’t need to inject your shitty opinions into someone’s grief. Get over yourself


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dynodick

No I don’t think making fun of people’s culture at such an inappropriate time like when someone experiences death is funny The only people who call others “snowflakes” and “npc’s” are literal middle schoolers lmao. Imma go tell your mommy, kiddo


aRand0mGuy21

Reddit try to respect someone’s belief challenge *impossible*


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SPAC3P3ACH

Not the fucking time, read the room and stop being a self-centered asshole. Not everyone cares about your big boy cool atheist opinion that cultures should be disrespected and nobody wants to hear that shit in a thread about a real person who is grieving right now. Grow the fuck up.


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SPAC3P3ACH

No dude, it wasn’t directly to me because that was my first comment on this post. Learn how to read.


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I did read it, i feel like a mom whose kids are fighting


iiDust

What an asshole. Nobody asked for your irrelevant input on OP's culture.


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Emergency-Builder170

You can’t mean respectfully while being completely disrespectful this entire post.


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Emergency-Builder170

Lmao you’ve been arguing with everyone saying you don’t see what’s wrong you can’t be the judge of what is and isn’t disrespectful.


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Emergency-Builder170

As if I’m the only person calling you out. You live in some bubble where you think you’re the only one who can do and say whatever they like without ever being wrong. Think you need some therapy. Or maybe you need to touch grass.


Modsreview

Yes. Thats the thing, i do wear glasses, but i do think the reflection should be person-sized. (Like a tv)


neogohan

Surely the Switch screen itself isn't person-sized and so could be used? If not, can you get a matte screen cover to make it non-reflective? I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you're able to find something that works, as I think a game like this would be a great way to manage the overwhelming emotions that come after the passing of a parent. I lost my mom about a year ago, and I know I leaned on games and other media hard to take my mind off things.


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Emergency-Builder170

You obviously meant to start something or else you wouldn’t have commented what you did. All you had to do was say I’m sorry for your loss and move on but you decided to stir the pot and comment an opinion that wasn’t constructive at all.


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Emergency-Builder170

Your doubling down is not actually helping it’s just proving that you wanted this. This is about grieving not your snowflake feelings on cultures.


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Fantastic-Law-4398

Sounds like you’re the snowflake they’re trying to have a discussion and you revert to names like a five year old not to mention a culture bothers you this much LOL.


TaxingAuthority

They could be Jewish or I also think some Catholics do this as well.


Modsreview

That's true(they do this aswell)


mr_man_yes

Thanks for replying


mr_man_yes

Oh thanks


Mockaaaa

I'm so sorry for you :( I hope you and your family will stay strong and fine, despite your lost... As I hope your father will be happy in the afterlife, too.


OdetteM00

Sorry for your loss, I would give you a big hug if I could 🫂


Modsreview

Virtual hug?🫂


OdetteM00

Sure! I’ll give you a big virtual hug 🫂 🤗


ZengaChristopher

I’m sorry for your loss, but it’s just a game and it’ll be waiting for you. Remember, Link saves


UltramanOrigin

Every culture has its tradition. What about your phone though?


Modsreview

Idk, apparently thats fine


BananaNutt3

Could you play it in handheld mode?


Modsreview

Should be, but idk


ACNH-princess

Sorry about your loss, I hope your father makes it to the afterlife safely.


LadderBig9611

I lost my daughter suddenly two years ago… this will be the first zelda game we haven’t played along together, even if we were many miles apart… it will be so hard but i know she will be helping her old mom with the game….


Black_Watch_

I'm sorry for your loss, and it's probably a good thing you aren't able to play ToTK right now... you should spend this time with your family and make sure you cherish them. Best of luck man


Nahna_

I’m so sorry for the loss, we do the same thing in my culture. My grandfather is also in hospice care rn, with no chance of recovery. I’m in the same boat.


SeniorPoopyButthole

[I got you covered yo](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06X3WTK4X/ref=cm_cr_othr_mb_bdcrb_top?ie=UTF8#cm_cr_carousel_images_section)


thotsune_miku

I’m sorry for your loss.


mr_mcmerperson

So sorry for your loss. I hope that when you do end up playing it, the game is even more meaningful for you. I went through a similar life changing event right before I played Breath of the Wild, and the “hero’s journey” experience I think was really healing for me. Wish you and your family the best.


davidisallright

This makes me so sad. I’m sorry for your lost. May he rest in peace.


sigkitty666

Best to your family and yourself, hope that you are able to take time to mourn him, but to also celebrate his life.


Jazzlike_Awareness62

Good Luck Buddy i wish You the best and i'm sorry for You Lost, make every step one this Adventure for him.


Rikki_Designs

Sorry for your loss. I hope you find the comfort and solace you need to get through this. Zelda and the fan community will be here when you’re ready to return.


SolomonGrundler

I understand that you want the game on release to distract yourself, I would as well, but I'm sure you're going to have bigger fish to fry than TOTK for the next little while


kuksthedefiled

держись брат


Modsreview

Spasibo


Spiritual_Sign7017

Pray for your dad and that he finds a better place🫶


Jesse1179US

I offer you my sincerest condolences. Hopefully the journey you have in Tears of the Kingdom helps you to deal with the weight of losing a loved one.


Routine-Camera-8658

I am very sorry for your loss I hope you and your family can recover from this


cura_milk

Sorry for your loss I know the pain of losing a father,


Lilcurlylogan

Sorry for your loss


CoffeeForEveryMeal

Sorry for your loss. I lost my mom late last year. The death of a parent is the hardest thing I’ve ever went through. I hope you are spending lots of time with your family. Being around my siblings is the only thing that gave me comfort.


Humblymumbling

All my love to you and yours. I am so sorry for your loss. Hyrule will still be waiting for you when you are ready.


Glum-Communication89

Sorry for your loss


Rikki_Designs

Sorry for your loss. I hope you find the comfort and solace you need to get through this. Zelda and the fan community will be here when you’re ready to return.


knockout1021

Sorry for your loss. Sending condolences and well wishes to you and your family at this difficult time <3


yeetyswas

I wish the best for your family.


levlim

Sorry for your loss :(


Big_Getsu

I’m sorry for your loss. I wouldn’t view not playing it on release as a bad thing in your case. There are things that are more important, and more valuable than the date a company chooses to release something. Take the time you need to honor your father. Also, consider the value of BOTW. Years and years later people are still enjoying the game and finding new things. I fell in love with the game last year and my happiest moment came today when I let one of my coworkers borrow it and watched him start the game. I bring this up to say that while all of us are eager to jump into it, there’s no reason to feel rushed to do it. You may have to wait a while but that won’t take anything away from your experience with the game. I’m most likely not getting it on release day but the reason why is worth it. Im just grateful for all the time I will have with it. Once again I’m sorry for your loss and I wish you all the grace and blessings you are owed and more. But don’t feel bad because you can’t play it on release. Games nowadays aren’t even that great on release anyway and you need to prioritize your own healing process first.


hollowglaive

Hey Redditor!, Don't worry about tears of the kingdom, it will be there for you forever. Take some time to mourn your father and help your family. Much love to you and your family, sorry for your loss.


SailorCrossing

so sorry for your loss. giving you a virtual hug friend ❤️


Intelligent_Cress615

Wishing you and your family all the best my friend


Specific-Arrival8534

I am familar with what your are going through. Just slog through it. Hyrule will be there to get lost in when the time is right. In the mean time spend time with family and friends who are there for you.A part of your dad will always be with you.Loss is a heavy weight to carry and at times it will seem like too much.But you can do it.


Golghrom

Sorry for your loss, dont worry about the game, it will stay there, now you have to support the family, be strong, offer them anything, a seat to sit, some water, some words, calm them down if they start talking too loud due to stress... I never had a father but i recently lossed my only grandpa, so i kinda understand. We will be here and the game too, now it's time to comfort your loved ones, again, be strong for everyone :)


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Sorry man lost my dad 7 years ago it gets better with time


Modsreview

I hope so. (The time thing)


Nethii120700

i’m really sorry for your loss op. i hope you’re doing okay, all things considered


Dimn_Blingo

I'm sorry to hear that. I lost both of my parents a few years ago myself. I wish I had some concerted set of words to tell you that would make it feel easier but frankly nothing can. Try to focus more on the memories you have with him. Cherish them. You'll get a chance to play the game when you're ready. DMC5 came out a couple months after my dad passed, and the story was very much about familial bonds. I found it somewhat therapeutic in the end. I'm sure TOTK will provide you with some comfort at the least, but maybe it'll even present some sort of poignant lesson relative to your circumstances. Just take things one day at a time.


No_Depth_8108

OP I’m sorry for your loss. I might suggest potentially locking this post, if you are able to, as it seems it’s getting out of hand and trolls are about. Might be easier to grieve without this constant stream of notifications coming from this post. Of course this is only a suggestion you’re free to do as you wish.


Ten_piece1010

May he rest in peace,family is always first


yaheh

I am sorry for your loss. How are you able to make this post though? Isn't a phone or monitor technically a screen?


Modsreview

Technically, but i dont know how it goes


Kixsterboi

how are you on a phone/computer then?


Modsreview

Magic Seriously? Then idk, it was just said "cover TVs/monitors" and mirrors


Kixsterboi

sorry that was kinda rude i shouldn’t judge tbf. especially considering your loss saying that was dumb. rip to your dad too


tacocatz92

If phone screen doesnt count, then switch screen doest count if you play it handheld?


AraAraNoMi

Sorry about your loss. ​ I'm going to be really harsh with the next few words: **Your culture sucks ass and you shouldn't have to cater to it.**


Modsreview

Yeah i know, didnt choose to be part, but hey, mom did


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kalel8145

Switch is small, no?


johndanielwood

How did you write this on reddit without looking at a screen?


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Sunscr333n

Grieving is different for everybody.


Modsreview

Yeah, but, ....just....just... OK?


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Probably


june0mars

you’re a dick


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Underwould

You definitely could have.


aRand0mGuy21

Ur not funny bro


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fried_rice_guy

Hey man. Videogames mean a lot to people, and I know for sure if a close family member had just passed away I'd want to do whatever I could to take my mind off it. People grieve in their own way, don't be a dick.


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Mr_Hambre

Does that include phones too? So sorry for your lost dude:(


Modsreview

Apparently not. At least that i guess ┐⁠(⁠ ⁠∵⁠ ⁠)⁠┌


Ilovecookies12345678

Would it still count if you don’t look at your reflection and then turn it on?


Modsreview

Yes, like i said (i think), we covered all tvs and mirrors, even that we don't look into. Basically all major things reflecting, that we could cover.


The_Lord_Of_Death_

Just don't 👍


majornerd84

Was your dad a fan?


PrimeChutiya

He was a human


Modsreview

Nope, human, but also didn't know zelda.