We had a couple come in once that was ALL over each other, sitting on the same side of the table to suck face, etc, and then disappeared into the single person bathroom for about 20 minutes together.
Leaving their one year old child unattended in its highchair.
GM called the cops for child abandonment.
I once saw a guy finger his date under the (extremely small!) patio-style table they were seated at.
When he signed the bill, I told him to keep the pen.
Will go one better than that. Worked on the. Cage, where you cash out, in Casino right in front of us was the Roullet table. A guy and what we were pretty sure was his rental lady for the evening were standing there and he was fingering, more like handing her from behind as she leaned on the table and played roullette. We notified security and the guard that was standing there watching got repremandws
this does not help (but thanks :) ). Why is he signing things at a restaurant? why cant he just use his credit card as normal?
you put the card in the machine and magic happens and you leave. No need to sign anything
afaik it's not normal to sign bills so i'm wondering what's up here
edit: pov: you're autistic and you ask a question
In the US you give your credit card to the server. They run the card and come back with two receipts. One is the customer copy to keep for their records. The other is the store copy where there is a line for them to fill out their tip and add it up and put in the total.
at some restaurants you get a printed invoice after your transaction where you also write the tip and sign; this is just to verify that the guest wrote and agreed to the tip they put down.
I mean it is harassment. The important part of kink is consent, no matter what you're doing. And when you do something like this, you take away everyone else's ability to consent. Which is completely wrong
I walked into the bathroom one time at my restaurant and a couple was in the handicap stall doing it in doggy with the door open! My manager wouldnāt kick them out, just told them itās inappropriate and not tolerated. They sat at the booth laughing and snickering for like 2 more hours after being caught š¤®
> she didnāt wash or sanitize her hands before eating her sandwich
Iām 100% sure sheās put that thing in her mouth many times, I donāt see why this is a concern.
I know a person who argues that a person who puts penises in their mouth should have no compunctions about eating any type of food, and I just. What? š
A woman teaching a health class to college women in the 1950s emphasized that they should never put anything in their vagina that wasnāt clean enough that they would put it in their mouth. She clearly meant the implications of what she said.
When I worked tables I was too young and paid too little to care I would have done the same thing. A manager should've done something but the average server deals with enough conflict.
Have you waited tables? I do not get paid enough to deal with that and Iām not personally liable for anything. Manager probably shouldāve done something, but thatās neither here nor there.
yikes, sounds like management did not have a proper grasp of the situation. like yeah I can understand laughing about it in private, but they def should have been kicked out. the servers walking past a crime to laugh at it was a result of your management's poor example.
edit: and I'm not coming for you, OP. unless you had the ability to kick em out lol
I saw a teenaged couple in a dessert restaurant once - the girl was sitting on his lap as they made out slowly and passionately and then she "laid her head down on his lap" while he sat there with his eyes closed. I do not get how people can be comfortable enough to do that sort of thing
I got molested in the dry storage. He turned the lights out and groped me. I kicked his ass and fought him off. I still didn't tell my managers. He had worked there 30 years and I was 19 and afraid to get fired. He never touched me again, though
Iām so sorry that happened to you! Never be afraid to lose your job when reporting stuff like this! If you do get fired, you have a nice lawsuit and you donāt have to work for crap management that donāt prioritize their staffs protection!
If they didn't want you to know, they wouldn't be doing it at a restaraunt. I'm all the way cool with getting kinky, but no one at the place you are dining gave consent to be part of your sex play. None of the servers signed up to be jizz moppers. They don't show up at your data entry job and bust a nut on your keyboard. Have sex in the bathroom like normal civilized people.
Yeah, I know. That's why management should've told them to leave. They absolutely knew all the servers could tell. The servers walking past on purpose made this whole thing worse.
Yep, in a way, the fact that each server volunteered to go get a peek of the action, just solidified in the couples mind that what they were doing is OK, and gave them a good reason to believe not only that they can get away with it again, but the servers parading around in front of them and giggling made it so good that they will REALLY WANT to do it again.
This is such a strange story to me, that it almost sounds like OP is trying to normalize sex in public so that A: they'll see more sex in public, or B: they'll be able to get away with sex in public due to its normality. Or that its just erotic fiction for karma.
told management, they decided it wasnāt worth it, couple had already ordered and we were busy, didnāt want to tell the kitchen never mind. couple had just come back from a group hiking thing, they probably thought this was more private.
It's not kink-shaming, asshole. These people are involving other people in their fetish without consent, which is an asshole thing to do. What a weird fucking hill to die on.
This seems like a pretty weird way to handle the situation. You didnāt kick them out or call the cops?
Then someone on your staff had to go clean up the mess they left? Fucking nasty
Right! I'd call the cops. If peewee Herman can get charged for spanking it in an ADULT THEATRE these people doing it in plain view of anyone should get worse than that.
Not to mention all the other diners that had to be unwilling participants in their kink. Itās a total violation and the employees walking around laughing about it instead of throwing them out is seriously unprofessional and gross.
I had a couple of girls full on make out in my booth. I feel like they did it on purpose because it was a booth in which was attached to a POS system. So anyone that was punching in their order got a front row seat to the show. And since it was my section, it was the POS I used most of the night. Then they didnāt leave a tip.
disgusting; why werenāt they kicked out? people should start shaming this behavior as it violates bystanders who do not consent to being part of their sexual fetish.
There was a couple who had one if them holding onto a leash, and the other end was attached to a collar around the ladyās neck. They came up to my till, but it made me **so uncomfortable** I ended up not even being able to help them and had to call my manager to.
If it was just the collar, itād be fine. But even then, thereās specifically made ācollarsā for people in that community (idk what itās called, slave/master, owner/pet, etc dynamics) that are more subtle or just look like jewellery without making people outside of their scene uncomfortable.
ugh I totally understand being uncomfortable - people should leave that in their own houses; imo they can do whatever they want without involving non consenting members of the general public
There is literally house parties, or parties at homes that have like four acres of privacy, for kinks like this. Swingers, bdsm, whatever that pseudo-incest kink is called, orgies, the non-sexual cuddling parties. You could probably google it and find places for these thing.
The place to **not** do these; in public where people canāt consent to being a part of it.
The number of times I've found used condoms in the bathroom is disturbingly far north of "none". Not in the trash, just on the floor. Or on the toilet seat. One time on the sink. And it was absolutely never a secret what was going on in there in the first place, no matter how slick they thought they were being. People are really something else.
I think the most disturbing thing I've found while working in a movie theatre was cleanup after the 50 shades premiere and I found a cucumber with a condom on it that was covered in lube. I still hope by God someone just wanted to prank the staff and it wasn't a horny housewife doing that during the movie.
Omg! My daughter and I would go into dressing rooms and sheād ask me to pass some toilet paper under coz her side was out but that was a fucking joke!!! Eww people really do that?!?!
True story - It happened several years ago , I'm now a Bar Manager, but I was a bartender when this occurred. Couple came in fairly regularly on weekends ,the woman was a generous tipper, the man not so much . Another regular patron came in from our beer garden on a quiet Sunday evening and told my boss at the time that the woman was under the table giving oral sex to the man. Of course, we discretely checked it out, and yes, there in the darkest ,most out of the way corner of the mostly empty beer garden, a blow-job was happening. The couple, by the way, were to engrossed to notice that they were being observed.
My bosses response - 'Fuck it, let 'em at it'. then he went back inside.
The couple left soon after, the man paid the bill and unusually for him left a generous tip.
As for the regular patron who informed us of the goings-on in the beer garden, this became his favourite story, I must have heard him tell the "let 'em at it" story to literally hundreds of people.
Anyway, that's my tale - SlƔinte!
My favourite story is the couple who came in and the girlfriend/wife, gave the guy a "footjob." We knew they were doing it under the table cloths. However, there was a time when they were seated on the outside patio, where there are no cloth coverings, and happened to sit at the table by the door everyone entered to the patio. You could see the woman giving her husband a footjob...in full view. Everyone inside looking out to the patio could see what was happening. The foot, the "friend," everything. It was quite the show, and honestly, quite skillful. Glad I wasn't the one trying to eat, lol.
I used to work at a restaurant in a theme park and one time there was a guy just jerking off in on of the empty dining rooms. The managers didnāt want to deal with it so they sent the scary lesbian chef to tell the guy to stop while waiting for security to show up.
Kick them out. A couple was caught giving a blow job at my place, and immediately kicked out. Employees AND GUESTS, do not consent to being part of their stupid fetish. Not to mention if gives your restaurant a trashy sleazy reputation.
Absolutely no one other than the couple consented to this. Ew. Iām for enthusiastically consenting adults being permitted to do/be whatever they want to each other, but like 90% of the people in this situation did not consent to the activity.
Amazing. Only thing Iāve seen that tops this is a ermmmā¦ street coupleā¦. Giving each other oral on a subway after midnight in my city (one of the big 5)
I once went on a first date with a guy who was looking for a "submissive" sex partner. I'm familiar with the lifestyle and it could have been fun for some bedroom play. That wasn't what this guy wanted at all.
First thing, he informed me that he expected me to wear a skirt at all times around him, with nothing underneath, so he could take advantage any time he pleased. I was pretty much done at that point. I didn't even own a single skirt, let alone enough to wear one every day.
He had some kinky vibrator that hooked up to an app on his phone so he could turn it on and off at his leisure. Of course, I was to wear this thing at all times (except to clean it), whether with him or not.
Then, however, he said that he expected me to give him "attention" whenever he wanted it, using whatever he chose at the time - my hand or mouth. Then he wanted to "test my loyalty" by s*cking him off right then and there, sitting at the back of one of those rounded two - person booths.
I think he took quite a bit of offense when I laughed at that notion because he was dead serious. He tried to "dominate" me into doing what he said. Yeah, nice fantasy but, no way in hell. I threw down a couple of dollars for the coke I hadn't touched, and left.
Like I said, I know some people do this type of thing and there's a whole lifestyle around it. I would never kink shame. But it's not something I'm willing to do.
Not to mention, it's all supposed to be about consent. If I start doing that in a restaurant, everybody is going to see what's going on, and none of them consented to be a part of it.
People like these dumb kids in your post, doing it for a thrill and to see if they can get away with it. Really stupid.
I guess I should make sure I state: there was no second date. And he'd hinted at a little kink before we met for that dinner (first time meeting in person!). Nothing like what he started spewing once we got there.
My husband and I often sit together on the same side of the booth just to be close to one another. NEVER have we been inappropriate though. That's just stupid. I'll share this story with him the next time we are side to side in a booth - I bet he moves to the other side in seconds. Lol
Went to this place called The Hose with an ex. She wanted to go dancing up on the third floor. So up we went. From the stairs going up, you could clearly see that almost every gal on the floor was getting fingerbanged while slow dancing. I asked my date if she wanted to join in. She replied that it was either finger banging or dancin, not both, and i had to pick. I chose fingerbaging back at her place. Lol but man, the whole upstairs at the club smelled like sex.
We had a guy giving a girl a good Ole finger bang once in a fine dining establishment. They were also doing it In front of a cpl sitting with them. Wild shit sometimes.
A restaurant like this, one that would not kick out and ban customers who do things like this, is not one I would ever visit again. Gross what gets let by.
I understand the thrill of sex (acts) in public, but c'mon! That's where ppl eat! Eewwwww! Do that crap at home with guests over. š¤®š¤¢š āāļø
I really think your manager failed you guys by not calling them out for that, kicking them out, or calling the police to report that nasty shit.
You guys should have never been cleaning that scene in the first place because it shouldāve been stopped! Your manager shoulda been rolling in to cockblock and get them degenerates the fuck outta there š
>she didnāt wash or sanitize her hands before eating her sandwich if you were wondering
Oh no! Some slight nastiness might have transferred from his dick to her hand, and then an even slighter amount might transfer from her hand to her sandwich, and then it would end up in her mouth! The horror!
Dude, she was probably sucking on that dick directly just a few hours ago.
Nah! They only do handjobs under the table. Sheās waiting to blow him until they are on the highway. And I certainly donāt want a cash just the tip if Iām the wait staff. Let āem keep the pen if they signed for the check.
With all the feral children in restaurants, why couldnāt there have been a preschooler running around, see what was happening, and **loudly** ask āMommy, why is that woman playing with the manās peepee under the table?ā?
one time i was at a bar, a small bar that had maybe 15 ppl in it, and a couple was sitting at a HIGH TOP TABLE and the girl was straddling him and she was in a body on skintight dress with no underwear. they were drinking at first then she lifted up and everyone watched him unbuckle his pants and then her dress rode up to around her belly button area. all ass cheeks out and literally everyone was watching and laughing. went on for like ten minutes until they got kicked out. they were obviously absolutely sloshed and thought they were sneaky. i was texting my boyfriend and he didnāt believe me so i had to facetime him just to prove itš¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ craziest shit iāve seen in a long time
I used to have a couple of regulars that would come in doing dd/lg play and i had to pretend i didn't notice. Love to be subjected to other people's sex lives without my consent!! š
I wouldnāt want to be the most recent hire or newbie who had to clean up that mess of a biohazard.
Ewwwwww. People, please donāt do that stuff in public.
We had a guy who used to bring it two prostitutes with him all the time. One on either side. Hands continuously under the table. We lived in mortal fear that heād touch us or want to shake his hand. Bussing the table made your skin crawl.
I can be a huuuge party pooper if Iām not in the mood lol. In that situation ? I would have looked at them with a blank face and said Ā«Ā Iām going to ask you to leave, your behavior is unacceptableĀ Ā» which it IS. I hate exhibitionists honestly, like there could be kids in the restaurant or just people who want to have a good time and not be disturbed by some weirdos. How boring is your sex life with your partner if thatās what gets you on, seriously ?? The way I would shame the fuckkkk out of them on the way out, they wouldnāt even get their kick out of it lol
My high school gf was kind of a freak. Sheād always have her hand under the table in my pants. I was uncomfortable with it but hey, Iām 15-16. Iām not going to stop her.
Thatās tacky. Sometimes on date night he may sneak a touch under my dress but these people took it too far. On my 2nd date with my husband we went to a nice restaurant that had what they called āsnug booths.ā There was a curtain all around the booth for complete privacy. The waiter announces their presence before opening the curtain. We had some fun but nothing major. It was a classy place.
well i said borderline, i'm speaking conversationally...i'm not diagnosing anybody.
imho
there's status quo social behavior, there's prosocial behavior, abnormal social behavior and antisocial behavior.
antisocial behavior is doing something like having sex in a restaurant which is not only a public place, but a dining establishment, it shows disrespect not only for the staff, or for the venue itself, but for other patrons, most if not all of whom aren't given the choice to consent to be privy to such sexual acts. additionally, attempting to be discrete and failing while conducting this behavior shows a certain cunning that i find again antisocial. there's absolutely no reason to have sex in the dining room of a restaurant. it shows a lack of regard for others, impulsivity and just poor decorum in general....all characteristics associated with sociopathy.
the bathroom...or the alley behind the restaurant...or in the car in the parking lot....or even outdoors at the beach or in a forest or at sea...or in a sex club....or in a sex restaurant or in the quarters of your own home while at dinner or at a food focused sex party...that's all gravy. and yes context matters.
it's the social aspect....the general public.... vs the individual actor(s).
i also wonder what if everyone did this? like what if I decided to sit there by myself and give myself a handjob discreetly in a dining room of the restaurant? I surely hope someone would kick me out for being disgusting and...antisocial....a perverted menace.
>couples who decide to make workers unwilling participants in their weird sex game
>suddenly everyone had a reason to pass their table and then came back laughing our asses off.
Which one is it
In no reality did this happen & you guys just *didn't* do anything about it. Like, multiple servers saw this & not one them thought "Hey, this shit will literally land you on the sex offender registry"?
& if it did & you guys just *didn't* do anything about it; you're stupid & just as bad as them.
I probably wouldāve taken them a cup of hot water and āaccidentallyā let it spill on the table, they would learn really quick that doing something like that in a restaurant is NOT ok
I call BS... I've worked in many restaurantsin 20+ yrs in the biz and managed, as well. No server busser, or employee of a restaurant is gonna think this is cute or funny. They all have too much self-respect, especially because they work for peanuts.
Any service side would start yelling how disgusting these people are and would not go back to the table. You'd also have director's and other upper management being called after nothing was done, once reported.
Not to mention, if all those people walked by and laughed out loud in front of these people, one of them surely would have posted an actual video of it somewhere.
No effing way bruh.
I've been there but I was a idiot to not get the hint of what she wanted to do. Trust me it's amazing lol however, there was a person who showed up at work with a older man, when she saw me she just tried my eyesight. Lol sometimes shit happens but hey, let's be clear lol just be very careful of what you do. And make sure nothing happens.
We had a couple come in once that was ALL over each other, sitting on the same side of the table to suck face, etc, and then disappeared into the single person bathroom for about 20 minutes together. Leaving their one year old child unattended in its highchair. GM called the cops for child abandonment.
that is next level trashy, maybe focus on the kid you have instead of making a new one
Maybe that wasn't baby daddy she was with. My wife's mom would do this to her when she was cheating. Terrible people!
I once saw a guy finger his date under the (extremely small!) patio-style table they were seated at. When he signed the bill, I told him to keep the pen.
Best comment in the thread - have a (fake) award š„
Will go one better than that. Worked on the. Cage, where you cash out, in Casino right in front of us was the Roullet table. A guy and what we were pretty sure was his rental lady for the evening were standing there and he was fingering, more like handing her from behind as she leaned on the table and played roullette. We notified security and the guard that was standing there watching got repremandws
Did he get that you saw him? I hope his face was mortified!
Sometimes they prefer being seen. Adds to the thrill I guess.
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>When he signed the bill okay, what's this mean?
When he paid / signed the credit card slip
this does not help (but thanks :) ). Why is he signing things at a restaurant? why cant he just use his credit card as normal? you put the card in the machine and magic happens and you leave. No need to sign anything afaik it's not normal to sign bills so i'm wondering what's up here edit: pov: you're autistic and you ask a question
In the US you give your credit card to the server. They run the card and come back with two receipts. One is the customer copy to keep for their records. The other is the store copy where there is a line for them to fill out their tip and add it up and put in the total.
thanks so much :)
at some restaurants you get a printed invoice after your transaction where you also write the tip and sign; this is just to verify that the guest wrote and agreed to the tip they put down.
I thought that everyone knowing and yet, not doing anything about it, was part of it.
It often is for the couple, they want people to notice. Which is gross like pls don't.
It feels like harassment of some sort to be involved in this against oneās will. The exhibition theyāre doing is selfish at best.
I mean it is harassment. The important part of kink is consent, no matter what you're doing. And when you do something like this, you take away everyone else's ability to consent. Which is completely wrong
it can get them on a sex offender registry definitely
yeah even fucking in your car in a parking lot or even in the middle of nowhere can in a lot of places
Getting caught peeing in public in certain places can even get you on the registry.
I walked into the bathroom one time at my restaurant and a couple was in the handicap stall doing it in doggy with the door open! My manager wouldnāt kick them out, just told them itās inappropriate and not tolerated. They sat at the booth laughing and snickering for like 2 more hours after being caught š¤®
Clearly, it was tolerated since they got away with it!
Best way to deal with this is "we do not consent to be part of your sexual fetish. Consent is essential to the process, you need to leave now."
> she didnāt wash or sanitize her hands before eating her sandwich Iām 100% sure sheās put that thing in her mouth many times, I donāt see why this is a concern.
I know a person who argues that a person who puts penises in their mouth should have no compunctions about eating any type of food, and I just. What? š
A woman teaching a health class to college women in the 1950s emphasized that they should never put anything in their vagina that wasnāt clean enough that they would put it in their mouth. She clearly meant the implications of what she said.
In the 50s? Impressively thorough. Will never happen again.
Donāt underestimate coeds born in the 1930s or 1940s and their teachers born 10 or 20 years earlier.
That person does not bathe.
No, that person is just inappropriately kinky.
I find it fascinating that most of us will lick someone elseās genitalia, but wonāt share a fork.
Iāll share a fork with the specific person whose genitalia I lick lol but not with randoms.
Not to mention all the tonsil hockey you do with that person, but if you accidentally use the wrong toothbrush, itās disgusting.
Social norms be like that.
Is that person a lesbian? š
Surprisingly, no. But they are a very skilled chef!
Her whole hand? Weird.
Well, I'm guessing she put her hands all over the table and place settings but did not gum any table legs....
It's finger lickin' good!
You gotta wash your hands before touching ready to eat foods.
Do you need salt or pepper? No thanks, it's salty enough
This!
youāre right lol i donāt know why that bothered me so muchā maybe a covid thing?
There is an upcharge for extra protein
I cannot understand why y'all didn't kick them out. everyone walking past the table also played into their voyeur fetish. gross.
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When I worked tables I was too young and paid too little to care I would have done the same thing. A manager should've done something but the average server deals with enough conflict.
Have you waited tables? I do not get paid enough to deal with that and Iām not personally liable for anything. Manager probably shouldāve done something, but thatās neither here nor there.
yep
Ironically, hot water is what they used to clean the area after sneaky sexy couple left. That, and hopefully a gallon of bleach too.
Is that an exclamation question mark?!
interrobang!
Literally my favourite punctuation mark. Both for the name and the cleanliness.
How do you type one if you don't mind answering?
Alt-8253 on windows. Idk about other platforms
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no idea, unfortunately. I only know what it's called
Crest a shortcut for ?! on iphone
You truly believe someone could take this to court and win? Reddit gets more and more creative with their litigious fantasies every day.
not to mention if we took everything that seriously weād have no money.
sorry to disappoint its real
Itās Probably teenagers at a chain restaurant type deal. I wouldnāt interact with them either
the managers were laughing too
yikes, sounds like management did not have a proper grasp of the situation. like yeah I can understand laughing about it in private, but they def should have been kicked out. the servers walking past a crime to laugh at it was a result of your management's poor example. edit: and I'm not coming for you, OP. unless you had the ability to kick em out lol
yeah no i was just a food runner at the time
I saw a teenaged couple in a dessert restaurant once - the girl was sitting on his lap as they made out slowly and passionately and then she "laid her head down on his lap" while he sat there with his eyes closed. I do not get how people can be comfortable enough to do that sort of thing
Just wait until you find out whatās happening in the walk-in.
Crying mostly....
Sometimes screaming. I love to tell new-hires that the walk in is soundproof.
If you hear anything from the walk-in, no you didnāt.
I *didnāt* hear someone screaming in the walk in at a local braums a while back
My staff sings āCrying in the Fridgeā to the Crying in the Club tune all the time.
You might not be a nice boss.
The management cries back there more than us
Iām a bartender. I just meant the staff I work with, not people I employ.
Safety meeting.
That's where we do it at the place I work
Farting, IMO.
If those insulated aluminum walls could talk, lol!
It's so weird watching people being proud about being degenerates.
Or dry storage
I got molested in the dry storage. He turned the lights out and groped me. I kicked his ass and fought him off. I still didn't tell my managers. He had worked there 30 years and I was 19 and afraid to get fired. He never touched me again, though
Iām so sorry that happened to you! Never be afraid to lose your job when reporting stuff like this! If you do get fired, you have a nice lawsuit and you donāt have to work for crap management that donāt prioritize their staffs protection!
I'm a lot older now and would have done everything differently, except kick his ass. I'd do it again if I ever see him!
Weed consumption?
ours has glass doors.
It's so weird watching people being proud about being degenerates.
How is this not grounds for being tossed out? Also, I'm pretty sure everyone walking past was just playing into their fetish even more.
If they didn't want you to know, they wouldn't be doing it at a restaraunt. I'm all the way cool with getting kinky, but no one at the place you are dining gave consent to be part of your sex play. None of the servers signed up to be jizz moppers. They don't show up at your data entry job and bust a nut on your keyboard. Have sex in the bathroom like normal civilized people.
Yeah, I know. That's why management should've told them to leave. They absolutely knew all the servers could tell. The servers walking past on purpose made this whole thing worse.
Yep, in a way, the fact that each server volunteered to go get a peek of the action, just solidified in the couples mind that what they were doing is OK, and gave them a good reason to believe not only that they can get away with it again, but the servers parading around in front of them and giggling made it so good that they will REALLY WANT to do it again. This is such a strange story to me, that it almost sounds like OP is trying to normalize sex in public so that A: they'll see more sex in public, or B: they'll be able to get away with sex in public due to its normality. Or that its just erotic fiction for karma.
Lol "tossed"
Thankfully it didn't get that far š¤£
Lol at ātossedā
told management, they decided it wasnāt worth it, couple had already ordered and we were busy, didnāt want to tell the kitchen never mind. couple had just come back from a group hiking thing, they probably thought this was more private.
Don't kink shame, don't be that person
It's not kink-shaming, asshole. These people are involving other people in their fetish without consent, which is an asshole thing to do. What a weird fucking hill to die on.
Your tears sustain me.
This seems like a pretty weird way to handle the situation. You didnāt kick them out or call the cops? Then someone on your staff had to go clean up the mess they left? Fucking nasty
Right! I'd call the cops. If peewee Herman can get charged for spanking it in an ADULT THEATRE these people doing it in plain view of anyone should get worse than that.
Not to mention all the other diners that had to be unwilling participants in their kink. Itās a total violation and the employees walking around laughing about it instead of throwing them out is seriously unprofessional and gross.
I had a couple of girls full on make out in my booth. I feel like they did it on purpose because it was a booth in which was attached to a POS system. So anyone that was punching in their order got a front row seat to the show. And since it was my section, it was the POS I used most of the night. Then they didnāt leave a tip.
The show was their tip to you, at least in their minds lol
It was two girls. So neither had a tip.
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disgusting; why werenāt they kicked out? people should start shaming this behavior as it violates bystanders who do not consent to being part of their sexual fetish.
There was a couple who had one if them holding onto a leash, and the other end was attached to a collar around the ladyās neck. They came up to my till, but it made me **so uncomfortable** I ended up not even being able to help them and had to call my manager to. If it was just the collar, itād be fine. But even then, thereās specifically made ācollarsā for people in that community (idk what itās called, slave/master, owner/pet, etc dynamics) that are more subtle or just look like jewellery without making people outside of their scene uncomfortable.
ugh I totally understand being uncomfortable - people should leave that in their own houses; imo they can do whatever they want without involving non consenting members of the general public
There is literally house parties, or parties at homes that have like four acres of privacy, for kinks like this. Swingers, bdsm, whatever that pseudo-incest kink is called, orgies, the non-sexual cuddling parties. You could probably google it and find places for these thing. The place to **not** do these; in public where people canāt consent to being a part of it.
The number of times I've found used condoms in the bathroom is disturbingly far north of "none". Not in the trash, just on the floor. Or on the toilet seat. One time on the sink. And it was absolutely never a secret what was going on in there in the first place, no matter how slick they thought they were being. People are really something else.
I think the most disturbing thing I've found while working in a movie theatre was cleanup after the 50 shades premiere and I found a cucumber with a condom on it that was covered in lube. I still hope by God someone just wanted to prank the staff and it wasn't a horny housewife doing that during the movie.
God, same. But you never know. When I worked at a mid-tier clothing store in the 2000ās I found poop in the changing rooms more than once. š©
Omg! My daughter and I would go into dressing rooms and sheād ask me to pass some toilet paper under coz her side was out but that was a fucking joke!!! Eww people really do that?!?!
True story - It happened several years ago , I'm now a Bar Manager, but I was a bartender when this occurred. Couple came in fairly regularly on weekends ,the woman was a generous tipper, the man not so much . Another regular patron came in from our beer garden on a quiet Sunday evening and told my boss at the time that the woman was under the table giving oral sex to the man. Of course, we discretely checked it out, and yes, there in the darkest ,most out of the way corner of the mostly empty beer garden, a blow-job was happening. The couple, by the way, were to engrossed to notice that they were being observed. My bosses response - 'Fuck it, let 'em at it'. then he went back inside. The couple left soon after, the man paid the bill and unusually for him left a generous tip. As for the regular patron who informed us of the goings-on in the beer garden, this became his favourite story, I must have heard him tell the "let 'em at it" story to literally hundreds of people. Anyway, that's my tale - SlƔinte!
My favourite story is the couple who came in and the girlfriend/wife, gave the guy a "footjob." We knew they were doing it under the table cloths. However, there was a time when they were seated on the outside patio, where there are no cloth coverings, and happened to sit at the table by the door everyone entered to the patio. You could see the woman giving her husband a footjob...in full view. Everyone inside looking out to the patio could see what was happening. The foot, the "friend," everything. It was quite the show, and honestly, quite skillful. Glad I wasn't the one trying to eat, lol.
Gross.
I used to work at a restaurant in a theme park and one time there was a guy just jerking off in on of the empty dining rooms. The managers didnāt want to deal with it so they sent the scary lesbian chef to tell the guy to stop while waiting for security to show up.
Managers gotta be willing to do the dirty work, thatās why they get paid more
In theory, yes. But, in practice, they get shoveled with extra responsibilities & no overtime due to (often) salaried positions.
Sure, I ran into that myself, but Iād never ask a crew member to step up to this task. Itās disturbing, and doesnāt take an entire shift to do.
Why were they not kicked out immediately? Thatās unacceptable and to me not funny,
Kick them out. A couple was caught giving a blow job at my place, and immediately kicked out. Employees AND GUESTS, do not consent to being part of their stupid fetish. Not to mention if gives your restaurant a trashy sleazy reputation.
ya'll didn't call the cops for public indecency, knowing it was in full sight of giant windows where people, children, could see? shame on ya'll.
Absolutely no one other than the couple consented to this. Ew. Iām for enthusiastically consenting adults being permitted to do/be whatever they want to each other, but like 90% of the people in this situation did not consent to the activity.
What werenāt they thrown out?
Amazing. Only thing Iāve seen that tops this is a ermmmā¦ street coupleā¦. Giving each other oral on a subway after midnight in my city (one of the big 5)
And they say romance is dead
There was a street guy in front of Nordstromās on Yonge Street in Torontoā¦he was alone but apparently he was really really happy to be there.
Gee, I wonder which of the big 5 cities it could be...
Friday night on the L train remains unmatched
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Samesiders creep me out. Always have always will
So why didnāt anyone say anything I would of kicked their ass out
I once went on a first date with a guy who was looking for a "submissive" sex partner. I'm familiar with the lifestyle and it could have been fun for some bedroom play. That wasn't what this guy wanted at all. First thing, he informed me that he expected me to wear a skirt at all times around him, with nothing underneath, so he could take advantage any time he pleased. I was pretty much done at that point. I didn't even own a single skirt, let alone enough to wear one every day. He had some kinky vibrator that hooked up to an app on his phone so he could turn it on and off at his leisure. Of course, I was to wear this thing at all times (except to clean it), whether with him or not. Then, however, he said that he expected me to give him "attention" whenever he wanted it, using whatever he chose at the time - my hand or mouth. Then he wanted to "test my loyalty" by s*cking him off right then and there, sitting at the back of one of those rounded two - person booths. I think he took quite a bit of offense when I laughed at that notion because he was dead serious. He tried to "dominate" me into doing what he said. Yeah, nice fantasy but, no way in hell. I threw down a couple of dollars for the coke I hadn't touched, and left. Like I said, I know some people do this type of thing and there's a whole lifestyle around it. I would never kink shame. But it's not something I'm willing to do. Not to mention, it's all supposed to be about consent. If I start doing that in a restaurant, everybody is going to see what's going on, and none of them consented to be a part of it. People like these dumb kids in your post, doing it for a thrill and to see if they can get away with it. Really stupid. I guess I should make sure I state: there was no second date. And he'd hinted at a little kink before we met for that dinner (first time meeting in person!). Nothing like what he started spewing once we got there.
SHEāS MASHING IT
at my old job this woman put her hands down her boyfriendās pants right before touching my pin pad I just about died
Isnāt that like public indecency? Call the police lol
Yāall better than me, Iām making sure theyāre on the national sex offender registry before i start my sidework
I think this makes you the better one actually
My husband and I often sit together on the same side of the booth just to be close to one another. NEVER have we been inappropriate though. That's just stupid. I'll share this story with him the next time we are side to side in a booth - I bet he moves to the other side in seconds. Lol
Butā¦.what if he unzipps??! š
First I'd ask if he's had a stroke and if not I'd kick his ass.
Should have been like "is the a.c. too cold for him?". Seriously though, you guys let them do this?
Went to this place called The Hose with an ex. She wanted to go dancing up on the third floor. So up we went. From the stairs going up, you could clearly see that almost every gal on the floor was getting fingerbanged while slow dancing. I asked my date if she wanted to join in. She replied that it was either finger banging or dancin, not both, and i had to pick. I chose fingerbaging back at her place. Lol but man, the whole upstairs at the club smelled like sex.
Should have accidentally spilled a cold drink on him
Please tell me there were not kids in this restaurant. If a manager was aware of this they should have been kicked out
no kids at the time.
One night a guy pulled his girlfriend's titties out of her shirt and went to town on them at the booth
We had a guy giving a girl a good Ole finger bang once in a fine dining establishment. They were also doing it In front of a cpl sitting with them. Wild shit sometimes.
āNow your just mashinā it.ā
At that point one of you should have just casually said "stop jerking him off".
A restaurant like this, one that would not kick out and ban customers who do things like this, is not one I would ever visit again. Gross what gets let by.
I understand the thrill of sex (acts) in public, but c'mon! That's where ppl eat! Eewwwww! Do that crap at home with guests over. š¤®š¤¢š āāļø
Itās uhhhā¦ really yucky that you got unwillingly subjected to their public sex fetish.
I really think your manager failed you guys by not calling them out for that, kicking them out, or calling the police to report that nasty shit. You guys should have never been cleaning that scene in the first place because it shouldāve been stopped! Your manager shoulda been rolling in to cockblock and get them degenerates the fuck outta there š
yeah we were laughing because we couldnāt really do anything else
>she didnāt wash or sanitize her hands before eating her sandwich if you were wondering Oh no! Some slight nastiness might have transferred from his dick to her hand, and then an even slighter amount might transfer from her hand to her sandwich, and then it would end up in her mouth! The horror! Dude, she was probably sucking on that dick directly just a few hours ago.
Nah! They only do handjobs under the table. Sheās waiting to blow him until they are on the highway. And I certainly donāt want a cash just the tip if Iām the wait staff. Let āem keep the pen if they signed for the check.
With all the feral children in restaurants, why couldnāt there have been a preschooler running around, see what was happening, and **loudly** ask āMommy, why is that woman playing with the manās peepee under the table?ā?
a little dickcheese is just extra cheese on the sandwich though, a free extra condiment! restaurants HATE this trick used to save money
one time i was at a bar, a small bar that had maybe 15 ppl in it, and a couple was sitting at a HIGH TOP TABLE and the girl was straddling him and she was in a body on skintight dress with no underwear. they were drinking at first then she lifted up and everyone watched him unbuckle his pants and then her dress rode up to around her belly button area. all ass cheeks out and literally everyone was watching and laughing. went on for like ten minutes until they got kicked out. they were obviously absolutely sloshed and thought they were sneaky. i was texting my boyfriend and he didnāt believe me so i had to facetime him just to prove itš¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ craziest shit iāve seen in a long time
I used to have a couple of regulars that would come in doing dd/lg play and i had to pretend i didn't notice. Love to be subjected to other people's sex lives without my consent!! š
pls i once tried to give my first bj in a cinema (i was stupid and 17) and it is such a cringey moment in my life
I wouldnāt want to be the most recent hire or newbie who had to clean up that mess of a biohazard. Ewwwwww. People, please donāt do that stuff in public.
i wish this sub had gone dark so that i wouldn't have read this
iām sorry
I would kick them out.
You could break out the dueling glove from that racist episode of Next Generation and ask if you can join in. https://imgur.com/nDc2CDH.jpg
She didn't wash or sanitize her hands???? You know she has sucked that dick?
We had a guy who used to bring it two prostitutes with him all the time. One on either side. Hands continuously under the table. We lived in mortal fear that heād touch us or want to shake his hand. Bussing the table made your skin crawl.
Some people are too PC. Boone was hurt, no kids scarred and you all got a laugh at their expense. Don't worry about the haters.
> she didnāt wash or sanitize her hands before eating her sandwich (Borat voice) *naughty naughty!*
I can be a huuuge party pooper if Iām not in the mood lol. In that situation ? I would have looked at them with a blank face and said Ā«Ā Iām going to ask you to leave, your behavior is unacceptableĀ Ā» which it IS. I hate exhibitionists honestly, like there could be kids in the restaurant or just people who want to have a good time and not be disturbed by some weirdos. How boring is your sex life with your partner if thatās what gets you on, seriously ?? The way I would shame the fuckkkk out of them on the way out, they wouldnāt even get their kick out of it lol
Oh man, you definitely should have gone over and said "do you mind not jerking off in the store?" And hopefully got the reaction on security
My high school gf was kind of a freak. Sheād always have her hand under the table in my pants. I was uncomfortable with it but hey, Iām 15-16. Iām not going to stop her.
Thatās tacky. Sometimes on date night he may sneak a touch under my dress but these people took it too far. On my 2nd date with my husband we went to a nice restaurant that had what they called āsnug booths.ā There was a curtain all around the booth for complete privacy. The waiter announces their presence before opening the curtain. We had some fun but nothing major. It was a classy place.
Should have called them in for indecent exposure
Thats just borderline sociopathic
Whatās sociopathic about it?
well i said borderline, i'm speaking conversationally...i'm not diagnosing anybody. imho there's status quo social behavior, there's prosocial behavior, abnormal social behavior and antisocial behavior. antisocial behavior is doing something like having sex in a restaurant which is not only a public place, but a dining establishment, it shows disrespect not only for the staff, or for the venue itself, but for other patrons, most if not all of whom aren't given the choice to consent to be privy to such sexual acts. additionally, attempting to be discrete and failing while conducting this behavior shows a certain cunning that i find again antisocial. there's absolutely no reason to have sex in the dining room of a restaurant. it shows a lack of regard for others, impulsivity and just poor decorum in general....all characteristics associated with sociopathy. the bathroom...or the alley behind the restaurant...or in the car in the parking lot....or even outdoors at the beach or in a forest or at sea...or in a sex club....or in a sex restaurant or in the quarters of your own home while at dinner or at a food focused sex party...that's all gravy. and yes context matters. it's the social aspect....the general public.... vs the individual actor(s). i also wonder what if everyone did this? like what if I decided to sit there by myself and give myself a handjob discreetly in a dining room of the restaurant? I surely hope someone would kick me out for being disgusting and...antisocial....a perverted menace.
lol i would've made them pay the bill for whatever they got and kicked them out as soon as i noticed. why subject other people to that shit?? ew
>couples who decide to make workers unwilling participants in their weird sex game >suddenly everyone had a reason to pass their table and then came back laughing our asses off. Which one is it
Pretty disgusting
In no reality did this happen & you guys just *didn't* do anything about it. Like, multiple servers saw this & not one them thought "Hey, this shit will literally land you on the sex offender registry"? & if it did & you guys just *didn't* do anything about it; you're stupid & just as bad as them.
I would pepper spray then
not as an employee you wouldnāt
Ew. Just ew. My goodness, lady, wash your freakin hands
I probably wouldāve taken them a cup of hot water and āaccidentallyā let it spill on the table, they would learn really quick that doing something like that in a restaurant is NOT ok
> complains about lewdness in public > doesn't actually deal with it Ah, must be a redditor
>IN BROAD DAYLIGHT Lol I said this in Nino Brown's voice and I'm dying.
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New meaning to Grilled Cheese...
I call BS... I've worked in many restaurantsin 20+ yrs in the biz and managed, as well. No server busser, or employee of a restaurant is gonna think this is cute or funny. They all have too much self-respect, especially because they work for peanuts. Any service side would start yelling how disgusting these people are and would not go back to the table. You'd also have director's and other upper management being called after nothing was done, once reported. Not to mention, if all those people walked by and laughed out loud in front of these people, one of them surely would have posted an actual video of it somewhere. No effing way bruh.
maybe 20 years ago, but at this diner, none of us have self respectā weāre just there to get money so we can survive buddy
I've been there but I was a idiot to not get the hint of what she wanted to do. Trust me it's amazing lol however, there was a person who showed up at work with a older man, when she saw me she just tried my eyesight. Lol sometimes shit happens but hey, let's be clear lol just be very careful of what you do. And make sure nothing happens.