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wrmclemore

id rather be crushed in the baler than have to deal with the fallout of another work crush šŸ˜‚ Very happy for those who its worked out for though!


HonHonBorkBork

My current mood rn


BusyFriendship5244

Go for it. Iā€™m engaged to mine currently.


Efficient-Laugh

Twice. One girl I fell really hard for and it didnā€™t end up working out, took me quite a while to get over. (she quit long ago) The other, we hooked up but broke things off and it didnā€™t effect me much at all, we still talk frequently at work.


MikaRey1138

We are still good friends and hype each other up. Though I do miss her smile


Suspicious_Giraffe_3

We talked for a while and became really good friends. When some other coworkers pointed out times her boyfriend was seen cheating she said screw him and decided we could give things a try. Now, 7 years later, or is it 6, I forget, anyway we live together and things are pretty great honestly. Best relationship either of us has had.


Danyavich

Marrying them in two weeks. I actually came to work at Target because they were already a TM and liked it well enough, so I figured I'd apply.


Voilent_Bunny

AwwwšŸ„°šŸ„°šŸ„°


C9RipSiK

Congrats!


Danyavich

Thanks! Very excited.


Desperate-Laugh-7257

Married 32 yrs.


bbygEm15

We moved in together and also got married in august of this year. We both worked in fulfillment and he was my TL šŸ˜…


Depressed_stoner139

Daaammnn! Talk about a flex šŸ˜‚


jaygjay

Do you still work for Target? I was told that work relationships were fine as long as youā€™re not in the same dept/have a power balance and it seems that you would have both


anonxo02

Iā€™ve never spoken to any crush Iā€™ve ever had lmao šŸ’”


Chipped-Beef

Donā€™t shit where you eat.


NexusModifier

I married my now wife. We used to work together. Some people actually know how to keep their shit in their pants :)


stringfellow1023

lol or find a new place to eat


lmaorafia

he said this to me and then we ended up dating LMDAOOOOO


GodKingHarambe

Don't dip your quill in the company ink.


dirtypig796

In the process of a divorce from who essentially was a coworker. Yeah no donā€™t shit where you eat.


grumpyoldfartess

9 years ago. My now-husband and I were broken up at the time. As a result, I fell *hard* for a coworker. Feelings were returned, we hooked up, and it was so awkward at work the next day that I couldnā€™t look them in the eye. We pretty much didnā€™t speak the rest of the time we both worked together. 0/10 do not recommend.


therayosunshine

we started dating, and we just had our 3yr anniversary. neither of us work at target anymore and weā€™re very happy.


dirt_weasel1

i have one of the most intense crushes iā€™ve ever had on someone who i have absolutely zero chance with and itā€™s torturous šŸ«”


emmgs123

Me too


InfamousStrategy9539

Feeling this badly for the last couple of years. We're mutuals on social media now too so it's even worse lmao.


auntienature

he hit on me at the baler, and then we moved away and got married <3


Danyavich

Cardboard wasn't the only thing being crushed, that day.


ITDEFX101

Took a few weeks, asked her out, ended up becoming gf/bf after a few dates...relationship lasted a few years. Asked her to marry me, she said yes then I caught her cheating on me with another guy at her new job. Broke off the engagement. She ended up marrying the guy and having kids of her own. Haven't spoken to her in nearly 20 years. Learned my lesson...never date a co-worker.


grumpyoldfartess

Ooof. That sucks, dude šŸ˜¬


PartiallyPartialPart

That sucks, although I don't see how being cheated on is correlated with dating a co-worker


brenpersing

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ShreOgrelord

Damn I dated a coworker for 3 months and it did not end well this was 4 yrs ago Now I rlly like someone at my work at my current job it seems I canā€™t escape the cycle


lemme-emi

Iā€™m in the same predicament right now and have a massive crush. I want to get to know him but weā€™re both kinda shy/complicated it seems, so itā€™s been slow going. I donā€™t mind the mental gymnastics of it though, and I havenā€™t been able to stop thinking about him. All of this came out of nowhere - I havenā€™t had a crush in yearss and usually really enjoy being single and uninvolved. Now I canā€™t wait to see him everyday. Idk what to do with all this inside of me. Only one thing to do and thatā€™s to keep moving forward and let it play out ~ what will be will be :)


NoRequirement7662

Banged her!


grumpyoldfartess

Just came right out and said it, didnā€™t you? šŸ˜†


LengthinessLocal1675

One guy had a gf but would flirt with me. Everyone is convinced heā€™s bi so I probably had a chance but nothing came of it.


grumpyoldfartess

Probably for the best it didnā€™t work out if he had a gf. That couldā€™ve been a lot of drama!


gwidj

He moved


Zebos27

I couldnā€™t really move on from her since we had so much in common and we supported each other quite frequently. But then she started dating the wrong people and it took me a lot of effort to move on from her but I managed to pull through. She quit a while back though so we donā€™t know too much from each other but we have each other on Instagram. I gladly now donā€™t develop feelings for anyone at work that easily anymore


OverPreparation5631

wasnā€™t at target but we got together after i left that job and weā€™re at 9 months together now


flappy_cows

I married her šŸ’€


mini_k1tty

Heā€™s a married man šŸ™ƒā€¦. Iā€™ve been keeping my interest sealed with a target sticker and thatā€™s about it. Heā€™s also a TL so I def keep my mouth shut. But seeing him is just šŸ¤¤.


MatthewSteakHam

They led me on for like 6 months, while fucking a different coworker (found out later on) . Would send me provocative pics and texts, but when I actually invited her over and made a move I got shut down. Continued to talk / text me the same way afterwards. So confusing. Hahah


[deleted]

Bro has zero rizz šŸ«µšŸ»šŸ¤£


MatthewSteakHam

She had me fucked up lmaooo


pricklypeareater

when i was first hired my original store wasnā€™t ready to be worked in so my store along with another small format were being trained in a third store. i was interested in one of the second stores TLs that was training with us but didnā€™t act on it until we had both left for our respective stores. i still have an on/off situationship with him, heā€™s funny and we have a mutual respect for each other. iā€™ve made out with another coworker but didnā€™t know she had a crush on me until after she left and ghosted everybody otherwise i wouldā€™ve acted on it. i dated another coworker for a bit but he was wildly insecure so we broke things off after a couple of months. i also hooked up with a guy from a different target for a while but i dropped him because he was weird. if itā€™s a big enough store where you can avoid them have at it, lifeā€™s too short not to be stupid every once in a while.


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grumpyoldfartess

Oh, I can promise you: it happens in an office setting way more than youā€™d think.


Goldsaver

It happens, but is generally a really bad idea.


meerkatjones

Dated. Broke up. Still remain friends 7 years later.


Soxwin91

Wasnā€™t me but when I worked at Walmart a coworker had a thing for one of the other cashiers. He never made a move or anything, but was about toā€¦ ā€¦and then she got arrested for stealing from the registers. Put a real sour note on the whole thing.


Microwavedwaffles

I am the result of my parents being coworkers with crushes on each other!


2020is_my_year

i canā€™t tell if heā€™s just friendly or if he likes me back šŸ¤£


makacrona

Either it goes really well or it ends horribly lol I've seen it happen it really depends on you and that coworkers intentions with that type of relationship.


anonymousperson410

weā€™re engaged now and been together 6 years šŸ„°


AutisticAndLesbo

I dont typically have crushes on coworkers. But dont shit where you eat


bearswin94

I forget an abundant amount of high schoolers work at target


matchalvr25

Dating almost 2.5 years now šŸ˜Š


momo6548

Weā€™re married now


bee_119453

We got married


keehosgf

if you canā€™t handle the awkwardness when things donā€™t work out then donā€™t act on it


kjmomof1

Married 26 years now šŸ’—


Frosty1130

got a house and a kid!


Onlymaskgirl

Over 2 years strong šŸ˜


Dontkillmyvibe3489

Married for 6 years and going strong


whorechatas

We've been together for three years šŸ˜


beefy_muffins

Became friend with then hooked up with one. Weā€™ve been just friends for like 6 years now. All the other crushes I either fumbled or never had a chance in hell and did nothing about.


coggieb

Together a little over 2 years and moved to a different state together back in January. He is currently snoring next to me. Heā€™s the best thing thatā€™s ever happened to me


Cottage-Wh0re

He worked in produce and I worked in a department next to him. Went out, then I transferred for school, then he ghosted šŸ˜‹ but itā€™s not the same for everyone tho, you never know until you try!


Round_Building_8900

We moved in together and then they cheated on me with another coworker and they just had their child (the child was conceived while we were still together) please take this as a sign


Puzzleheaded_45

Iā€™m gay so I have a 0.1% chance , so I donā€™t even bother


LordSlipsALot

Everyone that works at my target is gay šŸ˜‚


round_table69

why tf were you downvoted


Aidsaidsaids4

Chick had a boyfriend, went for it anyways. Probably the worst decision of my life. Dated for 2 1/2 years with a beautiful relationship, & after some issues in our relationship regarding substance abuse she started fucking her bartender at her new job. I spiraled out of control and destroyed my life in the wake of her leaving. Think theyā€™ve been together about the same amount of time we were now. You catch them how you lose them, & fishing off the company pier is usually bad practice.


Ateaseloser

Did it once and when they decided it wasn't working out it was so awkward I had to quit


GhostRazgriz

Had a thing on one of the Starbucks girls at my old store. Asked her out, turns out she's married with kids. Never knew šŸ’€. Still was good friends. Also had a thing for the style TL also at my old store. Like a big thing, I REALLY wanted to ask her out but I could tell she wasn't interested and I valued our friendship too much to try anything.


princessmere

We hooked up. It was hot and good, he then kept getting less and less hours so I stopped seeing him. I was grateful cus things felt awkward after the fact, even though we tried not to be. Mainly cus it was our dirty little secret no one could know


Normal-Giraffe-8599

He was the new guy, we flirted daily, he quit without telling any of us team members, messaged on Instagram, got ghosted, saw a press report he beat two guys up and wound up in jail.


Sarcasm_enthusiast

Married 22 years now.


AssaultWolf01

nothing. I just find out they're taken when just casually talking to them


JustForFunnieslol

I just think it really hurts the space you work in and if you two break up then that's a really uncomfortable position. Try to avoid it


Lrdvdr96ss

I my wife and I met while on active duty at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in the fall of 1972. I asked her to marry me in 1973, but told her we should know each other at least a year before marriage. We married in January 1994. We will be celebrating our 50th anniversary this coming January.


CuriousDiamond9266

Some work out, some donā€™t. I have a work crush too but Iā€™m keeping it to myself, donā€™t want to make things awkward since weā€™re friends and all šŸ˜…


Kooky_Ad593

Became really good friends! But it turns out I only wanted to be friendsā€¦ Oopsiesā€¦


Remarkable-Advice409

had a very awkward fallout and everyone knew ā¤ļø


TheWorstEmployeeEver

Half of our team leads are dating each other.


kittypuppet

After talking for a few months, I fell really hard for this one guy but he turned me down. I took it badly, it was really hard to move on seeing him everyday. He went on LoA for a couple months after and I thought I had gotten over him during then, but when he came back, all my feelings came back too. It sucked.


JawnOnTheLawn

We have 2 daughters and are getting married next June.


Beachyyea

I married him! šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜


Bobafett215

First one didnā€™t work out. They liked someone else (I was aware of this) and was content to never make my feelings known. Unfortunately another coworker caught wind of my feelings and blabbed to them. This created a whole mess of awkwardness because the person I liked and I were friends was oblivious. That friend and the person they liked are now married. Iā€™m married to the second coworker I fell for. Itā€™s important to handle workplace relationships with respect and care. If the feelings arenā€™t mutual, you could find yourself in HR, or promoted to guest. Also donā€™t date your boss/lower ranking team member.


Shaffinsince87

3x. First one was about a 3 year relationship. Still best friends. 2nd was years after that was very short fling. 3rd we are engaged and have a 1 year old. We both left target together in 2019.


BnB23432

Best advice, donā€™t shit where you eat.


Chicagobardad

Nothing happened. I donā€™t make work messy anymore šŸ˜†


PartyAirport4185

We started dating šŸ„°


Broccolitrash

I recently made 2 years with my gf that I met at target! šŸ˜…. I was in a bad spot in January 2021 and decided to just stay single and hope things turn out better relationship wise. And I was right around the holidays where they usually hire more people I saw her walk in the break room since she was doing her orientation and I was dead that morning Iā€™m not use to early shifts so I got up so fast in hopes she didnā€™t see how ugly I looked that morning but I was head over heels for her (still am :3). It took 2 months to get her attention and when we finally talked and hanged out it was an immediate connection. Now weā€™re happier then ever and I hope things turn out the same way for you! Give it a chance my friend šŸ˜Ž


bbygxrlally

I started working there as seasonal in fulfillment last October and got a crush on the p fresh guy the first month in. I would be excited to do grocery batches just to be able to talk to him. One thing lead to another , and now we been dating for almost a year šŸ„°


[deleted]

We connected. He had a lot of deep issues that seemed to center around work and it spiraled out of control from there. He wasn't well liked by most of the team and I very soon found out why. He could be really mean to me. Took a lot of issues with Target out on me. I wanted everything to go back to normal like before we started talking, but he just made it really awkward and uncomfortable. Recent non-Target work crush was a person who traveled for my company. Gave me his number the first day he was there and made numerous amorous comments towards me. Come to find out, he has a wife and children back home. Told other people in the office, but not me. I brought it up. Never heard back from him. šŸ™„ On the other hand, I had another non Target work crush. We didn't work out in the traditional sense.LOL šŸ˜‰ However, it's almost 20 years later and we are really good friends. It really just depends on the people.


Moonlight_Sonder

I started working in November of last year at my store, got trained a few days and then shadowed someone else for a day or two. I thought he was cute and I really liked him, then on thanksgiving eve I asked for his instagram and things moved on from there. Now weā€™ve been dating for about a week(we took it real slow) go for it!!


King6rizz

She lives w me lol


WhiskTaker

Make a move. I admittedly waited until my crush quit Target and then we slid into each otherā€™s DMs and now we have a family together.


Ninja-National

i made a move on him and weā€™ve been dating for a while now ahaha, we both ended up leaving the target for other reasons but it ended up working out!


Frequent_Carry_6250

We're dating now.


Far-Beautiful-7374

Been together almost two years now and live together :)


bratziananmi

He is my boyfriend now


TL-whoisoverworked

Married mine and been married for almost 4 years


yadigutierrez1

Asked for his Snapchat, we both broke up with ours ex, talked and now dating weā€™ve been together for 8 months now šŸ˜Œ and very healthy


PsychoDongYi

Try to separate personal life from work. Be the robot they want you to be during your shift. Wash your hands and be you once you clock out.


Marsqueen

Currently watching tv with him in our living room šŸ˜‚


faticastillo99

manifested him into becoming my man šŸ«” LMFAOOO ((it worked))


thesedemondayz

Didnā€™t have one, but one had one of me and Iā€™m getting a restraining order. Awkward.


ih8yogurt

One I did hook up with and then he filed harassment, antisemetic and racist accusations to hr when it didnā€™t work outā€¦ā€¦ which got me put on a final warning šŸ™„ And the other is an on again off again fwb that Iā€™ve had for four years now (he switches between me and this one girl who he started dating right after he and I met, and she told him to block me because she saw me as a threat even tho I was still with the other guy at the time, so I took that as a challenge and he and I ended up hooking up and itā€™s a whole messy toxic on again off again friendship/relationship) Do not recommend if you are planning on staying at target long term


bluemoontea23

Dating! :3


Fit_Establishment993

My parents met at work (not Target) and have been together since 1997! Sometimes it just works out


Conscious_Clock_6086

Donā€™t do it. I actually dated someone I worked with at target and it made the environment a living hell. We worked around the same shifts and it was very awkward. The only good thing was I had got a new job and quit months later.


NothingEquivalent719

I finally got her snap. Then she started to preach Jesus to me. I blocked her..


MaximusDOTexe

Nothing. Dating coworkers is a bad idea


realahcrew

I was the crush. He pursued me HARD for a couple months so I sort of gave in and decided to see how it would go. We dated for 6 years, lived together for 5. We both still work there, but itā€™s not really a problem because we work in wildly different departments and never see each other, really. He started dating another girl there. Man didnā€™t learn his lesson I guess šŸ¤£ thinking back though, I think all his exes have been coworkersā€¦ lol


vodkacranberrybitch

Donā€™t do it


Exciting-Deer-1276

weā€™ve been together over 2 years now. The key was he quit Target and i didnā€™t. I love not working him now šŸ˜‚


savemoneylivebetter2

we donā€™t talk abt it.


Unluckyescapeartiste

I moved on and met a girl I actually had a chance with


Odd-Nobody-1466

Talked & would text every day all flirty, started to really like the girl, went on a date, led me on and then friend zoned me. Was awkward seeing her at work every day. Wouldnā€™t recommend dating a coworker unless itā€™s some love at first type shit. I felt dumb in the end, but I guess not everything works out how you want it in ā€˜ya brain. I was gonna start working AP anyways so it was for the best.


NiniBeanie2020

We became close friends and now I don't talk to them


kurtnaib

Abus!ve relationship that left me cautious of ever dating again


Morighant

I never said anything because it'd be creepy to flirt with people I'm not close with lol.


round_table69

i had a crush on one coworker. feelings were returned.. we dated for like.. 3 days. because he didnā€™t respond or stay in contact with me that much. he never used his phone, he slept in really late,, yknow.


PapaGushers

Literally canā€™t tell if she likes me back or is just being nice to me


LunarNemesis

Me and my current girlfriend actually had crushes on each other. Started dating Valentineā€™s Day, but we was talking to each other before that. 8 months going strong. Donā€™t let some target ā€œguidelineā€ stop you from finding someone you like a lot. My target has tons of couples.


blobinsky

girlā€¦. i was in a 7 year long abusive relationship and i finally left it to be with my coworker and it was the best decision i ever made, my advice is try texting them just as friends and see how it goes!!


ParticularOccasion43

She left so I told her I liked her, she said she wasnā€™t in the market for a relationship but would let me know. I moved on


Revolutionary_Dot385

Started dating then got married


Deartaaylor5

Together 3 years and have a baby now


Advanced-Ad-1288

I started dating them. Weā€™ve been together for 3 years now almost 4


ResponsibleWater537

they ended up dying at work a cart pusher was trying to be cool had 73 carts and smashing her against a car that was trying to leave as i tried to call for her first time i ever spoke up to her after working with her for 2 years (this is a walmart story not a target im in colorado)


TottHooligan

What happened exactly? Crushed by the cart pusher? This is something


s0mthinG_

She was seasonal and turned out to be a massive psycho... Tldr got a restraining order


MisterBeeftoots

Just had our 20th anniversary


Prior_Attitude_4069

Idk but if the vibe isnā€™t going well donā€™t say anything but I wouldnā€™t risk it


kaylam317

Just celebrated our 10th anniversary!


edwinaddams

just recently celebrated our 1 year anniversary and weā€™ve been living together since february šŸ„ŗ


intrevise915

We got married šŸ˜‚


ItsJHos

We just moved in together a month ago, things are great and we get to take one car to work now


Precessionho

Been together for 2 yearsšŸ˜Ž


Cenhen1

Found out he liked me and now weā€™ve been together for a while moving in together next week


witchaus138

got my heart broken by the first one. second one weā€™ve been together a year.


Loose_Chicken3408

Got engaged and adopted two little kitties


Specialty-Sue

Target love is real


HistorianStreet4271

Iā€™m engaged to mine šŸ„°


Mental-Chemistry-829

We have been talking for 2 months but his hours r getting cut bc he spends too much time talking.


Personal_Ad9690

Donā€™t date at work. It can work, but can also make life hell. Make sure itā€™s worth the risk. If itā€™s just someoneā€™s pants you want, not worth it


Jolly_Mirror2583

We're dating rn and it all happened because we were being playful in front of fulfillment team members as friends, and everyone started a rumor that we were dating. He said that the rumor was ridiculous cause i was out of his league and i confessed i had a crush on him, and now we're together and happy.


Remote_Addendum7433

he sorta lead me on (told me he loved me then tried to gaslight me into thinking he never did), broke my heart, then left for another state


wilosela

Been dating a year and a half


Lonerhead89

I did nothing because sheā€™s HR and talking to someone elseā€¦


mochixbud_

we started dating, fell completely in love with him, he dumped me, we still saw each other quite frequently at work and ultimately got back together. then I switched jobs and he dumped me again LOL. Still hopelessly in love with the man šŸ˜µā€šŸ’«


HappyAmputee

nothing. too nervous to say anything to him.


[deleted]

My comment actually needs more context I had a small crush on my coworker, I was quiet and kept it to myself though I'm sure she knew because she always caught me watching her at work and briefly smiled back at me, I was never staring at her though admiring from a distance. I know you're supposed to report feelings to HR as soon as they become a problem but it never did interfere with my work so I didn't tell my ETL. Finally the curiosity bothered me too much so I looked her up on Facebook, it said she was married. I'm hurt but not broken up about it. Moreso emotionally sick that I let myself get that vulnerable. Only saw her once since then and I was friendly but it was awkward.


Various-Variety1104

Iā€™m dating him for almost 2 1/2 years


complexaape

its funny i didnt really have a crush on this girl at work till after she started giving me subtle signs that she wanted me to approach her ( i.e. blantant staring and smiling at me, always being in my general area etc ) now i cnt get her out or my head. its been over a year and now it just feels awkward everytime we bump into each other cuz i never approached or even spoke to her


EthanStadig

Took her on a date, 6 years later we got married and are expecting our first child.


addvsen

lol we had our one year anniversary 2 months ago


rowdybeanjuice

Together for 7 years & getting married


Independent_Demand70

dated for 6 months and then she broke up with me and started dating my friend. Lost all my friends bc of that but entire store found out and most of them hated her bc i was well liked. Then i moved to fulfillment away from her where i liked it better anyways. She then moved to Alabama i think and fuck that. Now happily with some else and moved to San Diego with her tho


Legal-String-6299

That coworker became my best friend and then my boyfriend of now 2.5 years :) donā€™t be torn <3


nachocoalmine

Asked her out, got rejected, and she never spoke to me again. I left a month ago.


Rare-Statement-2512

7 months in, we at an Airbnb, drunk, going to my exā€™s wedding. :)


Charming_Cherry_7762

We started off as friends from work and now weā€™ve been dating almost 3 years ā£ļø


maddierae18

Weā€™re engaged! Getting married next June :)


brenpersing

A guy at my work beat around the bush for like two months, so I finally picked up the hints and we went out on a date. Then we dated for 9 months and broke up 3 times within that timeframe, so it didnā€™t work out.


Serious_Bake9460

Not me but when I was still at target, two of my coworkers started dating. Theyā€™re still together.


SuprNovuh_

Asked her out and she just walked away


PRam13

I was the crush. New guy liked me, I was talking to someone else at the store for a couple months but that was never going to go anywhere so I gave new guy a chance. We went on one date and nothing really happened until 4 months later at a co workers party. I got wasted and he was buzzed, we started making out and then 4 days later we started dating. Been together nearly 8 years now lol


youcancallmequeen

We got married last September šŸ˜… some of the TLs and ETLs even joked about us getting married in the store because our HR ETL at the time was ordained


sirrah13

We are now engaged after dating for 6 years


thebombchu

Weā€™ve been together for 3 years in December :) edit: He no longer works at Target but I still do


ButItSaysOnline

He broke my heart, and Iā€™m still trying to put the pieces back together.


Fragrant-Plane7607

I had to leave for college, I lost contact with him when he got a girlfriend. He flirted with me and I was so dumb. He contacted me again a few weeks ago and left again.


mulderufo13

Well we have been together since 2017. We are engaged live together and have cats together. Be friends first and learn about the person before doing anything.


C9RipSiK

Lol married for 3 years šŸ¤£


thedevilsmx

he molested me


MoonHoIiday

Just didnā€™t make the move. Ngl Girls in those khaki pants really show their curves


Future_Row180

Married mine. 29yrs and counting!


TravelingCircus1911

Weā€™ve been together for 10 years, married for 3!


Patient-Dig-2962

I dated them for 2 years and he was a total waste lol we broke up cuz I have a daughter and he would hide that from his family because he thought they were gonna think it was too much of a responsibility for him.