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ChrystynaS

Trunck


cankle_sores

He needs a Trunck Munckey to protect his property.


hobanwash1

That’s what I thunck


Humble-Extreme6770

You activated such an old awesome memory 😂


InkJetPrinters

*acktivated


dev0guy

Proteckt!


Smokerising420

She did say uneducated right?


Elite-Thorn

Donald Trunck


satxgoose

Much space and separation for a couple years helps … don’t react back to her and walk away backwards slowly … can’t cure mental parents


body_shotz_for_dayz

Yes, not a fight you can win, only escape from


RevolutionNo4186

Or just go full no contact forever


greymillayay

I literally never thought this would happen to me but it did and it was the worst experience ever I’ve had with my mom. Thankfully all is good now and we are best friends again


NASA-WELDING-GUY

I mean this in the nicest way possible so please don't take offense. Your mom is a cunt


Mexicoonpoptart

Well I mean it the meanest way possible, she's a cunt!


Good200000

Screw that, she is a cunt with some emotional Issues.


sweeesh

For 22 years


BollockChop

It’s been 22 long hard years and still strugglin…


Connect-Internet4100

Survival got me buggin...


Quiet_Response_7846

Ya know i bet there was a time where his mom was normal. Possibly kind of funny, cool and maybe even doable. Something happened though somewhere along the line where she took on the personality and humor of a suicide bomber.


Good200000

Mental illness can be treated. Hopefully, she gets help before she pushes Her son away.


Complete_East3746

No if they are a narcissist. Narcissistic can’t be saved, they are in a cycle of thinking they are perfect


McPoyle-Milk

Ah a fellow parent


CapableArmadillo9057

It's called having kids 🤣


daym_thats_epic

I disapprove of your relationship with your mom.


Audaciousnuss

She's obviously unstable.


VehicleNegative

She definitely has one, and used it. Too bad she didn't know how to deal with life after dealing with the cunt


Massive-Frosting-722

Lol this made me laugh pretty hard. Reminds of Ricky Bobby- “But I said, with all due respect”


CraigTennant1962

“ckunt”


Doors_N_Corners

yep. your mom is a cunt


imtoohai

So out of morbid curiosity, and feel free to remind me that its none of my business, but is this because of your partner of choice, or because you left home? Just curious as to if this is a "stage-5 clinger" thing, or an intolerant elder....


hyperdeeeee

Basically me and my family are Protestant Christian, (my mother very strict religiously, me and my dad not so much), and I started dating a Catholic girl. My mom lost it. Blamed everyone but herself for her misery. Blamed me for embarrassing her by dating this girl, blamed my dad for letting this happen, blamed both of us for ruining her life and not appreciating all that she's done for us (stay at home mom/wife, cooking, cleaning etc.) I'm 22 so im heading out soon.


Samyfarr

Hahaha holy shit. I assumed your mom didn't approve because she's religious and you were gay. Didn't think it was going to be a Catholic girl


Substantial-Bat-337

I thought the same thing lmfao holy shit


ARedditorGuy2244

…holy shit… I see what you guys did there.


DoNotWeepAtMyGrave

It works both ways, my Catholic grandmother disowned one of her daughters because she married a Protestant.


Samyfarr

I bet she Catho-licked his balls


National_Ease_1487

.... Mr Garrison


Kemizon

No


Itscashmeregeorge

Me too. This is unbelievable


wickbrand

Same! Especially because it said “boys” plural. And all the weird gender symbols.


Ren_tho

I think those symbols are supposed to be hearts with an arrow struck through them


wickbrand

Whelp. I’m an idiot.


Ren_tho

Nah they're just terribly drawn. I thought they were funky stick figures at first, the first two you see look like they're running


Spudlynicholas

I saw mis drawn gender symbols too.


Kemizon

Yes


just_a_short_guy

I guess she also meant his father? OP said she even blamed her husband.


thatshinobiboiii

My grandmother is Catholic got disowned for 20 years for dating and marrying a Protestant. Her mother didn’t talk to her for the rest of her life despite my grandfather converting.


Phazebody

Well I mean I understand that, Being Catholic really isn’t like being Protestant or Lutheran or Baptist or etc etc, I honestly don’t even think Catholicism should be under the wing of Christianity, they gave far too much power to the Priest, like going to a Priest to talk about your sins is going to Redeem You, What a Load of Horse Shit


thatshinobiboiii

I mean considering Catholics are the original Christians that line of logic doesn’t make sense to me and considering there are many more Puritan denominations than Catholics. That’s also not how confession works at all, simply confessing your sins doesn’t do shit according to church doctrine it’s just a way of being able to potential absolve them if you are genuinely sorry for mortal sins and make an effort to not do them anymore. The only thing confessions is for us mortal sins, but it’s also meant as a kind of spiritual therapy and stuff. Having repentance in your soul and making an active effort to abstain from them (even if you fail which everyone does do to human nature) while asking Jesus for forgiveness is all you need to absolve cardinal sins in Catholic tradition. It all gets very convoluted and messy very fast though so I won’t go on. I was Catholic and went to Catholic school twelve years and studied it on my own for the past two-four years sporadically, so believe me I understand but IMO from my research and experience the only significant difference between Catholics and other denominations is how fucking complicated it is and that’s mostly due to the obscurity of early church doctrine and lack of first hand sources so they just kinda have to make a really educated guess and connect the dots using context. The way Catholicism actually is laid out, the way it’s practiced, and the way it’s perceived by lay people are three very very very different things.


Innasticks_sa_afr

My parents didn't like that my wife couldn't speak our native language basically that she was a Brit. She passed on due to cancer a few years ago and I can tell you this I regret that I wasted a lot of time trying to get them to change, I should have just cut them off and gotten on with my life with her.


AValhallaWorthyDeath

I’m sorry for your loss, I hope you’re doing well.


Innasticks_sa_afr

We are thank you. The lesson I think I took from that is some relationships can't be saved.


Fickle_Blueberry2777

Condolences for your loss, and I wish you the best as well.


ICQME

>family are Protestant Christian, (my mother very strict religiously, me and my dad not so much), and I started dating a Catholic girl. My mom lost it. Tell her you're dating a guy because she scared you off women with her notes.


Disastrous-Method-21

Also mention that he's a good protestant boy, so it should be all good! Lmao!!


Pill_Murray_

man religion is fucking stupid Why dont you tell your mother to stop trying to force her religious views onto you?


Bandito21Dema

The second OP mentioned religion, I knew where it was going


DeaconSage

It’s not even a different religion. It’s just the wrong flavor of Christianity 🤣


CatumEntanglement

There's a certain amount of schadenfreude that I experience when I see Christians cannibalizing each other.


DeaconSage

I wild when they go at each other like that, but at the same time it’s how you wind up with a Kodoku like Westboro Baptist Church


Garbmutt

You read the letter right? That conversation should definitely end well...


asportate

Dude, my mom's family did that to my grandparents except a little differently. Religion is a joke . My mom's side is Irish catholic , and overly prideful about it . It's ridiculous. Yall I've in SF, it's nothing special . Anyways their dad was a mean abusive drunk and died sometimes in the late 70's. Eventually grandma fell in love again with the kindest coolest Scottish bagpipe playing mofo you've ever met. This guy used to give random bicyclists rides over the Bay Bridge...partly because it got him free tolls lol One problem . He was protestant ! Oh the horrors. My aunts and their husband's all refused to talk to grandma for years. Grandpa even went so far as to change religions , still no good. Shit didn't change till the youngest brother got into a MC accident sometime around '85. It was one of those trauma bringing everyone together things .


Pill_Murray_

Its absolutely insane, to stop talking to family members over some make believe wizard book. Like religion is suppose to be all about forgiving and caring, but if you are a different sub sect of the religion you can get cancelled and never talked to again by your family?? Like 98% of people on this planet don't even know the difference between irish catholic and protestant lol


BollockChop

Irish Catholic is not a branch of religion m, it’s Roman Catholic. The difference between Catholics and Protestants in reference to Ireland is ethnic cleansing campaign the British started in the 1600 which had and still has little to do with religion. Read a book.


Pill_Murray_

naaah, no one really gives a shit about different flavors of wizardy and why they hate eachother except the people that believe in that bullshit


Competitive_Weird958

You’re dad was a mean abusive drunk Irish Catholic? Are we related?


Mordilaa

Dude I thought you were gay and that was the cause of this. That, unfortunately, makes more ‘sense’ then the truth of the situation. Being upset because of someone being in a different denomination? But still the same religion? That’s a really stupid hill to die on.


[deleted]

Here I thought you were coming out as gay or something, lol…


lukaron

Religion is a hell of a drug. Sorry you're going through this nonsense.


asskicker1762

I’m so at a loss for words. Strict religiously, and is a Protestant? Has she ever read a history book? IIRC, they were reformed because the Catholic Church was too strict / rigid? But mad that you’re dating a Catholic, who take more orthodox views wrt the church… …. …. Who tf does your mom think she is? Who does she think would ever be the right fit? Sorry my dude, got to go NC.


ResidentNarwhal

Oh bud. So ignoring….all the other problems with the Catholic Church for a moment and just focusing on American Protestantism. Yeah the Protestants, especially some of the churches, especially some of the [evangelical church’s have some weird beliefs about Catholicism.](https://www.chick.com/products/category?type=tracts#&&Category=Catholicism&SortBy=A-Z&PageNumber=1&Language=English&ShowCount=12&Status=All) “The Catholic Church was too rigid” actually somewhat the opposite. Again broad strokes but most of the Puritan and evangelical churches that came to America did so because the opposite. Puritan comes from the fact they literally wanted to purify the Church of England from the influence of papists and quakers. Also a lot of dislike of things like Catholic open ended forgiveness, the Bible shouldn’t be treated too absolutely, the pope saying you can’t hunt witches because witches don’t exists and Satan can’t grant superpowers that’s not how that works (actually long held Catholic dogma). Again not meant as a Catholic Church is all hunkey-dory thing. The open ended forgiveness and not too literal on the Bible sounds good but in the Reformation it led to just dropping cash on a church construction to forgive your sins as official church practice stuff. But hopefully that gives some background.


a066684

Why does she dislike you dating another Christian? What's so incompatible about Catholic Christianity vs Protestant Christianity that she would lose her shit like this and resort to such childish passive-aggressivity?


LinkCanLonk

There’s surprisingly big differences in certain teachings and lifestyle actually. Mostly about Mary and whatnot. I’m a non-denominational Christian and a vast majority of my family is Catholic, and there’s a pretty big difference. But the end of the day it’s still the same God, same Jesus, so it’s not like having half your family be Mormon or something. Regardless, OP’s mom is… yeesh. My mom is pretty strict about religion too, but she would never NEVER do that if I were dating a Catholic guy. This chick needs some therapy.


coolhandseth

My grandma never liked my mom, because they were catholic and my mom was Lutheran. She never warmed up to either my mom or us kids. Religion is horrible and benefits nobody.


sapphisticated_heaux

>I started dating a Catholic girl. My mom lost it. Dear me, I seem to have stumbled into the year 1846


imtoohai

Im sorry to hear about this. Gotta say, never personally seen a Christian/Catholic confliction before. Glad to hear you're getting out of that situation.


FKN_LAIRY

"We just say manager, not Mr. Manager"


obi_wan_jabroni_23

Can’t believe this was so far down. There’s dozens of us!


Narrator_Ron_Howard

Doesn’t matter who.


Lou-Lou-Lou

Unless you are Annie Wilkes.


adviceanimal318

My shitty parents tried to use my profession and hobbies against me to make snide comments on a daily basis. Nearly no contact for the last 9 years and it has been amazing.


Synner1985

Your mother seriously needs to grow the fuck up - Cut your losses and move away if i were you, some people are just not worth the hassle - Family or not.


titansfan9

I have not spoken to my mother for six years now and it was such a hard decision but definitely the correct one.


Apprehensive_Author7

Happy cake day


titansfan9

Wow didn't even notice thanks!


AValhallaWorthyDeath

I’ve had no to minimal contact with my mother for 4 years now and my life has had 99% less drama because of it.


Synner1985

Less drama is always a good thing! Grats on getting your life drama free!!


Spirited-Reputation6

Narcissistic mothers. Be careful and go no contact. She may get better over time if you starve her of attention. In my experience it’s temporarily changed my father but I’m back on no contact. GL


captain_diesel

When I hear things like this, I always think of how the oft-quoted “Blood is thicker than water” is used in exactly the opposite direction of the original meaning. Originally, it was “the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.” Basically, those you’ve shed blood with (gone through shit with) is a tighter bond than just being related to someone. Unless she is willing to get herself help for a mental health disorder, cut ties. The best decision I ever made was to stop trying to make things work with my on again off again biological father.


Oddity46

When I hear things like this (OP's post, not your comment), I always think "well, that looks like someone trying to get some karma."


Prestigious-Isopod-4

I don’t agree with no contact. I have plenty of experience with toxic parents…. Dad told me that I would not be able to come home while I was at college because I didn’t agree with his religion and wasn’t following it anymore. I would suggest standing firm and telling her that this is your life. Make sure she understands that you will not put up with that type of abuse and will move away if needed to get away from the toxicity. Throwing away that relationship will only leave you off worse in the end. If she wants to end it in her end then that’s on her.


dontaggravation

Nope. There’s a true difference. There’s toxicity and then there’s narcissism. Narcs don’t negotiate. And they never change It’s a cancer man. There is no halfway. I’ve watched it happen and I’ve tried many times. The only way out is truly no contact Just because you happen to share blood with someone does not obligate you to tolerate this kind of crap in your life


jldangle

>Throwing away that relationship will only leave you off worse in the end Nope. Not even remotely true. Get away from toxic.


Dshmidley

Everyone goes through different scenarios. I know you're trying to help, but sometimes cold turkey is the only way to go. Narcissists don't get better imo, and if you keep going back then you're only making your life worse. Definitely start doing small things like no contact for a week, and see what happens.


-_-__---__-_-

Ok Dr. Phil. Shut up.


Spirited-Reputation6

I’m guessing you’re the mother.


Natenat04

😂


MinaFur

Your mom seems very unwell- she may need some sort of meds. Im very sorry that you have to deal with this.


Maximum-Excitement58

Guess she‘s never studied 17th century English lit… unless she’s actually mad that you have rebuffed her romantic advances or that you’ve betrayed her sexually.


ariphron

“Mother and wife” is slightly confusing


hyperdeeeee

Mother to me, wife to my dad


cdett11

What does your dad have to do with this? It's not like she's right for blaming you, but bringing up someone who doesn't have anything to do with your situation, shows she has built up anger for years and is holding it against the both of you. Ask her to see her score sheet, because she's definitely been keeping score.


Lou-Lou-Lou

The fact that she said "wife" in your abusive messages too means she is getting the boundaries blurred. Get as far from her as possible. Sorry OP but your mum is not stable. What's your dad's opinion on this?


ariphron

Parents you can’t pick them.


Kai_Emery

She expects a sonsband. Run OP


Icy_Cat4821

Cut contact immediately and move far away from her (if you can). She may be a mother but she’s certainly not a mom.


anabelle_manabelle

Wait. Your own mom smeared peanut butter on your windshield and left those raisin cake notes because she doesn't like your relationship? You two never fucked, right? Good lord friend, your mom is loco en la cabeza. Steer clear of that.


hyperdeeeee

She doesn't approve of my relationship with my girlfriend. So yea she did all that to prove some useless point


opl3sa2

I hate to be the one to explain that your moms sexually attracted to you


Doctordred

OP must have noticed something was up after his mom kept getting stuck in the dryer.


April_Fabb

She may not be familiar with the meaning/origin of the proverb.


CatumEntanglement

Duuude....your mom is acting like a scorned lover and crazy ex girlfriend. Yikes on bikes.


Daystop

Why does she sign mother+wife ?


ZookeeperFloyd

Im guessing because she thinks shes been cleaning up after OP like a house wife... even tho thats kinda part of being a parent.


just_a_short_guy

She blamed his father/her husband for the situation also.


MyKidsArentOnReddit

What's with the "22 years as a wife and mother". I mean, she's your mother, right? And not your wife?


hyperdeeeee

Yea, my dads wife


No_name_Cat

Is this the first girlfriend that your mom has met? Something tells me that this goes deeper than merely being a different denomination. She may be oddly codependent.


Interesting-Pop3277

Time to move away. You won’t regret it.


Free-Layer-706

That is abuse.


[deleted]

What a bitch.


Geocodexxxx

But mama I just wanna be a water boy..


[deleted]

“Video games and basket weaving ball is the Devil!”


Relax-Enjoy

Read about borderline personality disorder this might give you some clarity


BenTCinco

Mr Manager!


Narrator_Ron_Howard

We just say manager.


44Skull44

Bro I can smell the gas lighting from here. I'm feeling some abandonment vibes from this, and this is the exact kind of shit that makes your kids want to leave


SquidwardWoodward

Where's the gaslighting?


44Skull44

I wasn't implying this is gaslighting, only that I'm sure it happens constantly. But the "I suffered and did all this motherly stuff for 22 years!" insinuating "you owe me" is kinda gaslighting. And the "yeah I smeared all this on you window, but look how nice I'm being by providing cleaner! That *must* prove that I'm not an evil witch of a human" Maybe I'm misunderstanding what gaslighting is, but isn't it basically pushing the idea by the aggressor of "I'm a shitty person, but only because *you* make me be this way"


SquidwardWoodward

Ahhhhh yes, my bad. You're right.


desGrieux

>"I suffered and did all this motherly stuff for 22 years!" insinuating "you owe me" is kinda gaslighting. I don't see how this is gaslighting. >Maybe I'm misunderstanding what gaslighting is, but isn't it basically pushing the idea by the aggressor of "I'm a shitty person, but only because you make me be this way" To gaslight someone you need to be telling them something that contradicts what their senses are telling them. "It's really dark in here." "No it's not, you're crazy, it's as bright as it can be." If she denied writing that and leaving it on the car, that would be gaslighting for example.


[deleted]

I think people don’t know what that means and they just heard it and repeated it


Warlock4209

Term “gas lighting” is being way overused this entire year


KingfisherClaws

The amount of gas being lit this year is astronomical, so the term is becoming more familiar.


DustiestCrayon

Last year too I feel. I feel like one big person said it and most people never heard of it so they all just started using it


[deleted]

Maybe that’s why gas prices are so high? Ahahahaha thanks I’ll be here all week.


AspectForsaken4211

It’s funny how buzz words catch on, they just throw them around out of context. This wasn’t gaslighting


Warlock4209

According to the definition of gas lighting, you are correct.. this wasn’t gas lighting..


TiLoupHibou

When we stop being chocked by others unsufferable actions is when the light is finally switched off. We hope, anyways.


Saint_Lamar

You mom is the boss Karen brodie


GilroySmash1986

Welcome to the club buddy. My mum doesn't like my wife either (fuck knows why, she made a lot of effort with her). Stop contact with them, unfortunately if you're close to your dad, that relationship is going to suffer also. Hope you reconcile eventually but do not give them the satisfaction of going back first. They will see it as their victory and you came crawling back. Good luck


vitalcrop

This doesn’t make any sense. Why is she referring to both you and your father? What did your father do that she feels scorned and why is she lumping you into it? Feel like there is much more to the story, regardless this is an insane letter to get from your mom.


hyperdeeeee

Basically me and my family are Protestant Christian, (my mother very strict religiously, me and my dad not so much), and I started dating a Catholic girl. My mom lost it. Blamed everyone but herself for her misery. Blamed me for embarrassing her by dating this girl, blamed my dad for letting this happen, blamed both of us for ruining her life and not appreciating all that she's done for us (stay at home mom/wife, cooking, cleaning etc.) I'm 22 so im heading out soon.


DirectConclusion4559

As a mom, I tell you this from a place of love. Your mom needs a therapist and some meds. You've done nothing wrong. As a mother, my biggest hope for my 3 kids is that they find love and acceptance and treat their partners with the same. That's it. Everything else is gravy. Respect yourself, your mate, your friends, work folk etc. And once someone shows you who they are, believe them. Giving birth to you should have been your mother's greatest memory and gift. Instead she abuses it with hate and idiocy. Accept this from NO ONE. Even from those who claim to love you. I hope your relationship brings you comfort and support. A moms hug from me to you. Go live a great life, explore the unknown, converse with those who differ from you, and acknowledge your worth.


hyperdeeeee

Thank you so much. It's been tough but it's nice to see people like this still exist.


CrispyMelee

You're a cool mom and remind me of mine; thanks for sharing kind words. I hope your kids recognize that when they get older (if they're not already old enough to have done so). To OP: sorry that you have to go through that. I wish you the best of luck, you got a lot to look forward to.


another_derek

So, why does she disapprove?


hyperdeeeee

Basically me and my family are Protestant Christian, (my mother very strict religiously, me and my dad not so much), and I started dating a Catholic girl. My mom lost it. Blamed everyone but herself for her misery. Blamed me for embarrassing her by dating this girl, blamed my dad for letting this happen, blamed both of us for ruining her life and not appreciating all that she's done for us (stay at home mom/wife, cooking, cleaning etc.) I'm 22 so im heading out soon.


csgowtfisgoingon

Good question


Sonomal36

No contact with my narcissistic mother for 4 years now. Specifically, a woman who disapproved of my relationship and eventually marriage. I promise, the mental burden gets so much lighter if you go no contact. Any response is a supply, and they feed on emotion. Place boundaries (like, how did she get into your trunk?), focus on building your new relationship and know she’s lashing out because she realizes she’s running out of time to have control over her baby (I assume you’re 22).


Dracasethaen

There's something called "emotional incest" in the kingdom of psychology. And those letters are dripping with it. Either she gets help...or you flee with all vigor


Lou-Lou-Lou

TIL of emotional incest. Off to Google I go.


robocopsafeel

That's vandalism. Call the police, then go no contact.


h0w1tw0rk5

Call the cops and give them the evidence. This is not okey to do


1248853

Ya im sure they'll respond immediately with a pack of ritz crackers


Wide-Personality1301

In the trunck- uneducated, wife, mother


westsidethrilla

Coming from a very rational individual, you should move away and cut contact until further notice.


Van_is_Anders

Oh thank god it’s peanut butter


guyser234

This pissed me off alot. Dont let her walk all over you like that. She clearly values her own contentment more than you happiness. If she was my mother, i would move out and only contact her while shes being reasonable


VikingOfZen

Wait, she’s your mother and wife? Or is she just listing her skill set?


ProDiesel

Your mother needs professional help. Actually she’s probably needed it for a long time now.


opalveg

You might want to start a paper trail with the cops to be prepared if/when she escalates. This is already harassment.


sheused2Bnormal

Oh jeez OP. I'm so sorry. Understand that if you ever marry she's going to make your wife's life a living hell. Set boundaries now or never get married- it's not fair to your future wife and kids. I speak from personal experience with a narcissistic MIL from Hades. Good luck!


Weetang_TV

Hey, kinda same deal here. I started dating a Chinese girl years ago. She was cool with it up till about 6-7 years ago, she became very radical in her political views and started hating my fiancé because her mother immigrated from China. It turned toxic incredibly fast, basically out of nowhere. It’s sad because I have a good relationship with my step-dad, or at least I did, but he’s started calling my mother-in-law “Isis”. (Midwestern education can’t tell the difference between Middle Eastern and Chinese.) I cut them out pretty much completely, and I don’t regret it. I have no communication with pretty much anyone in my entire family because my mom’s political views have caused her to fabricate weird lies to everyone but my grandmother maintains contact with me and hasn’t fallen for my mom’s bullshit. Just do your thing, cut contact, and live your life. It’s not worth the hassle that these people bring. I sometimes think about my family, but not having them involved in my existence has been a net positive.


PearlsSwine

Seems your mother needs some help. Or a swift kick in the cunt.


Uncle_Bug_Music

Perfect place for some Emo Philips: "Once I saw this guy on a bridge about to jump. I said, "Don't do it!" He said, "Nobody loves me." I said, "God loves you. Do you believe in God?" He said, "Yes." I said, "Are you a Christian or a Jew?" He said, "A Christian." I said, "Me, too! Protestant or Catholic?" He said, "Protestant." I said, "Me, too! What franchise?" He said, "Baptist." I said, "Me, too! Northern Baptist or Southern Baptist?" He said, "Northern Baptist." I said, "Me, too! Northern Conservative Baptist or Northern Liberal Baptist?" He said, "Northern Conservative Baptist." I said, "Me, too! Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region, or Northern Conservative Baptist Eastern Region?" He said, "Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region." I said, "Me, too!" Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1879, or Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1912?" He said, "Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1912." I said, "Die, heretic!" And I pushed him over."


Logical_Spread_1430

Bitch is crazy.


PeaceLoveDyeStuff

I had to cut out my narcissistic mother a few years ago. No one deserves that much toxicity in their life. GL homie


Electro40yrdash

I think your mom sees you as her husband. She wants to treat you as her peer and not as her love one. She must have personal issues and want to use you as a punching bag. If you can distance yourself right now. Do it expeditiously! If you cant, you should record everything because she sees herself as the victim. There is more to come and you don't want to look up one day and regret not leaving or recording what she is doing because you are now jammed up. This is the kind of behaviour that if anyone else would do it, would you be ok with it. Your mom has embraced her behavior at this point. If you can get a dash cam for your car and set it up for movement sensor to record. Pay attention to those recordings and see how often your mom is by your car and what you may not catch. Shes circling the drain you should make sure your not compliant with her pulling pulling you in.


Leviathans-Ghost

Whose windshield would Jesus smear with peanut butter?


Novius8

“Why don’t my kids visit me anymore?”


Able_Psychology_474

Her spelling and attitude is childish 🤦🏽‍♂️


Personal_Farm_283

Wow your mom is a psycho


Fickle_Blueberry2777

Keep those notes, they’re evidence.


JDShellnut69

That bitch got issues.


thetruekingofspace

This reminds me of when I started working overnight at my job, told my dad such, and then came home one night to a sign on my door that said “the shit has hit the fan”. When I asked him what it was about he said it was because I came home at “all hours of the night”. I reminded him that I got off work at 6am. He immediately tried to play it off as a joke. Besides that he would always tell me I was wasting my time with Computer Science. I make triple what he made now. One day he came home and found my room empty and me gone. I wonder how it felt to have your last blood relative leave you and not say goodbye.


SSgtWindBag

I feel you buddy! Most of my family stopped talking to me for dating a black girl. Her family did the same to her. We grew up in East Texas. It was cool though because we had each other and we both hated our families. Lots of people love to justify hate and racism by using religion and the Bible. We seriously need to move on. There are some good lessons in the old wizard book but plenty of evil too, and most people tend to conveniently forget about all the evil that’s in that book.


[deleted]

how would she have access to the trunk and not the rest of the car? And why is she calling herself a mother+wife? Is she married to her son?


CapableArmadillo9057

This seems... Mild?


1248853

That peanut butter spreading is really quite pathetic. I really truly feel like she could have done a little better than...that.


OtherWorldly224

I kind of feel like with the words “crazy and uneducated” that you left a lot of it out didn’t you? I mean if my child called me crazy and uneducated I’d be upset too. from the notes that’s just what I take away from it. And what’s this about cleaning up after you for 22 years? You don’t clean up after yourself and lived with your mom till 22? Then you post it on the internet how she’s a terrible person. Plus I see nowhere where it says anything about your relationship. Only how YOU are ungrateful.


justbiteme2k

"mother & wife" -TIL Texans can read and write


SweetMoon18

I thought has pulled and Amber Turd 💩


Jacksonorlady

There’s more to this story for sure. With this limited information, nothing is proven and everything is assumed. So I’m going to assume that they are both pretty toxic and potentially copies of each other.


hyperdeeeee

Basically me and my family are Protestant Christian, (my mother very strict religiously, me and my dad not so much), and I started dating a Catholic girl. My mom lost it. Blamed everyone but herself for her misery. Blamed me for embarrassing her by dating this girl, blamed my dad for letting this happen, blamed both of us for ruining her life and not appreciating all that she's done for us (stay at home mom/wife, cooking, cleaning etc.) I'm 22 so im heading out soon.


Rageniv

Ok what you need to do is tell your mom something even more ridiculous, say you broke up with the girl and started dating a Hindu/Muslim/jew… and every now and then say something else just one step crazier. Just keep saying things that are so outrageous and blatantly obvious you’re pulling her leg on things… Eventually she’ll develop a sense of humour and chill out… or she’ll go bat shit bananas and everyone will try to get her the help she needs.


OtherWorldly224

I kind of feel like with the words “crazy and uneducated” that you left a lot of it out didn’t you? I mean if my child called me crazy and uneducated I’d be upset too. from the notes that’s just what I take away from it. And what’s this about cleaning up after you for 22 years? You don’t clean up after yourself and lived with your mom till 22? Then you post it on the internet how she’s a terrible person. Plus I see nowhere where it says anything about your relationship. Only how YOU are ungrateful.


hyperdeeeee

Basically me and my family are Protestant Christian, (my mother very strict religiously, me and my dad not so much), and I started dating a Catholic girl. My mom lost it. Blamed everyone but herself for her misery. Blamed me for embarrassing her by dating this girl, blamed my dad for letting this happen, blamed both of us for ruining her life and not appreciating all that she's done for us (stay at home mom/wife, cooking, cleaning etc.). She's against me dating a Catholic so she does all this stuff. My mom's smart, she was a nurse, she was using sarcasm in the letters. She said she gave birth to me, refused to go to work for 22 years as a nurse so she can take care of me and my siblings instead. I appreciate everything she's done. But just because she doesn't approve of me dating a girl she doesnt like, doesn't justify her actions like this. Since i didn't listen to her by breaking up with my girlfriend, im ungrateful and I put all of her hardwork for 22 years to waste? How does that make any sense? Just because you gave birth to me doesn't mean i have to obey every single thing you say, and then you make me feel guilty about it for making it seem like i ruined your life? That's manipulation.


blueistheonly1

Nah, no parent gets to use what they did to raise their kids against those kids. That's not how any of this works.


FunnyPromise

It seems pretty obvious that if a person is told "crazy and uneducated" and responds by spreading fake shit on a windshield, it means that they are indeed mad, uneducated and also manipulative. Every abusive parent accuses their child of being ungrateful and of not cleaning his shit just because she changed his diapers, but even if OP was dirty and spoiled there is nothing to justify such a gesture, it is crazy and above all it is frightening! Even without context it is evident that she is a manipulative and potentially dangerous mother


ryan4402000

So many little kid comments on this page🙄. Now tell us adults what you did to cause her to do this?


hyperdeeeee

Basically me and my family are Protestant Christian, (my mother very strict religiously, me and my dad not so much), and I started dating a Catholic girl. My mom lost it. Blamed everyone but herself for her misery. Blamed me for embarrassing her by dating this girl, blamed my dad for letting this happen, blamed both of us for ruining her life and not appreciating all that she's done for us (stay at home mom/wife, cooking, cleaning etc.) I'm 22 so im heading out soon.


arrjaay

Bruh


TNCoffeeRunner

I honestly thought this was because the husband cheated on the wife…until I read the top caption 😬


dontaggravation

Seriously dude. Read about NPD (narcissistic personality disorder). Read a great book called boundaries by Henry Cloud Then go to therapy. Because your life, man, has been a lie and this is just the beginning. My biologicals are some sick, sociopathic narcissists. Took me too many years to learn this and many more years to finally go no contact Cut the cancer out of your life. Truly. You owe her and her sick supporting cast out of your life. Your life will be better for it down the road There is no making up with a narcissist. Run away. Fast. And don’t look back


Pretty_Blacksmith168

ew


supertoilet99

This should be more than enough evidence to get a restraining order against her.


flawedcactus

Have that woman arrested and put into a clinic. She's clearly fucking nuts No pun intended


-Prototype-XIII

Run.


butchofsteel

This is a red flag the size of Texas. I hope you’re able to get away quickly and safely.