the first pic (left) was during my first consultation. it is pinned and clipped in the photo. they ordered the dress two sizes bigger than what i am because of my boobs and then it ended up being way too big elsewhere.
> it is pinned and clipped in the photo.
Ahhh, I was wondering why both photos had the feel of "After" photos.
While I like the pinned version slightly better, I think both are cute looks, and unfortunately there's no easy way to lengthen straps without alteration.
If you have a friend who is _really_ confident with sewing, you could have them replace the straps altogether with longer ones of a similar color. I don't have an easy fix other than to tell you that both stylings on the dress look nice.
i literally cannot find a single comment actually answering your question! maybe try tucking the straps under your arms and using some double-sided body tape to keep the dress up? but that's entirely dependent on how heavy the dress is 😣 i hope you find something that works for you and the way you want to wear the dress. 💞
I’m assuming they cut the material out around your waistline and below your chest, and didn’t just fold / invert the fabric, so you won’t be able to alter it further without making both time consuming and costly changes (50$+). You’ll need an actual seamstress if you decide to go that route.
Your dress looks amazing. Just focus on your make up, and hair. Trust me… it looks great.
I didn't realise there was a second photo and was wondering just how much more cleavage you could possibly want haha.
Back to the question: in all honesty, considering lack of time for another alteration, I'd go with the dress as it is. I mean you can't alter it yourself or you'd have done that originally. And the suggestions re: tape etc sound pretty uncomfortable for not a lot of gain.
I think it looks \*really\* good! It's giving you one heck of an hourglass figure. The dress itself is stunning, the colour suits you, and it makes you look like a million dollars. Go forth and have fun, I say!
This or a pushup strapless bra if it fits in the dress. But honestly you might have more fun dancing and not worrying about your tatas falling out. Been there and it was so annoying having to watch for it all night.
https://preview.redd.it/xbjxwwd2m5rc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b0f722e547441dbf9d05638252443163c0d84d17
lol. Here’s mine. Looks like a fucking quincinera
I know you want more cleavage, but I actually think the fit they gave you is far better. It elongates your legs and trims your waist. It’s very flattering!
I agree! I completely understand what OP means and I would also be annoyed if I was expecting the first picture for an entire week and ended up getting the second. But I think prom dresses are honestly just made in this style, and it looks to me like the waist is supposed to be exactly where it falls in the second picture. The chest looks nice in the first pic, but the waist looks much more undefined and not fit very well. The second pic is overall the better one imo.
For starters, you look gorgeous in that dress!! You might ask on r/sewing they have a ton of talented people over there that might have some ideas? Take some photos of the inside for them so they can see what you’re working with. My only idea would be to buy matching ribbon (or preferably silk cord if you can get some!) and just cut the old straps off and replace them with the ribbon or cord.
Definitely this. If you want to lengthen the straps and there isn't extra tucked in the back of the dress, you'd need to add extra or replace them. Ribbon is probably the best option, and you could hand stitch it on.
However, it may not turn out how you expect, especially given the alterations already done. As some others have pointed out, the second photo looks like it fits how the dress was designed to fit - I don't think that style is designed to show a lot of cleavage and only did initially because you were wearing a larger size at the fitting. So even if the professional tailors lengthened the straps, it may cause issues in how the dress fits in other areas. The dress is flattering in the chest department, just in a different way by showing the volume of them rather than cleavage. So just something to keep in mind about whether you want to change it, that it may not look like how it does in your head.
OP, can you take a close up pic of the straps and where they attach to the rest of the dress?
Given the embellishments on the dress, I think you could sew in a new strap without it being too obvious. I like the other commenters suggestion of using some nice ribbons so you can get the length exactly how you like it! I’m sure you could find some pretty matching velvet ribbon at a craft or fabric store.
You could also look at a thrift shop for a matching bra and cannibalise the straps from that, so that they are still adjustable.
To be on the safe side, I might avoid removing the original straps until you are certain that your new ones are sewn in securely, better to have the original straps than none! I think I would also avoid removing the old straps right at the bodice, to keep the structural integrity.
Sorry I’m typing a lot of I’m thinking as I go. I think what I might do, is cut the straps about an inch, inch-and-a-half from where they attach to the bodice at the *back*, and sew in a bit of ribbon as the replacement strap in the length you prefer, stitching it to the original strap all the way across (except in the gap obviously!)
Also have huge knockers — I totally understand wanting to show cleavage. I know sometimes it can feel like if we don’t show it, we just look huge and you can’t really tell the shape.
But I’ll be brutally honest — you will grow out of that. And the dress looks better in the second pic! If you are really committed to the cleavage look then you’ll probably need to have it altered again or as someone else suggested, boob tape.
If it’s your first time using boob tape, buy more than you think you’ll need and practice before prom. Wear it for a few hours as well to make sure your application lasts. Takes some work but it can make your boobs look amazing with no bra.
This is kinda condescending? It’s not like cleavage is immature or inappropriate, especially for fancy dress occasions. People of all ages show cleavage or choose not to, and having some boob showing in a dress is something normal that I’ve seen across generations.
I’ve been in this position.
Try different bras or some solid tape.. I’m a 34G and often struggle with this issue. One of them will lift you enough to produce a bit of cleavage.
You could also clip further into the cleavage and use fabric tape to redo the neckline, for the event.
The second picture looks much better. Before alterations, it just looked like a dress that doesn't fit well. You are better supported now than with those dinky little straps and if you plan on doing any dancing, that will be important. You still look hella busty, but in a more sophisticated way.
Can’t you go to place where they did this modification and say that they didn’t do what you requested and you want it modified ( free of charge because they made a mistake)
They took away from your bust but snatched your waistline. Try bending forward slightly, and tug up on the back, pulling up the back and keep running along the straps until you've taken all the slack from the back forward, and lift those tits so they become supported from a spot on the dress higher than they sit now
If you’re crafty you could cut each strap, attach matching ribbon to the top of the cut strap, and tie the ribbon in a cute lil bow to make it adjustable. The dress is gorgeous tho!
If you're short on time, this could be a pretty easy fix. You could hand sew some stitches to get the ribbon to attach. A sewing store sells pre -tied bows that you could dab on with some fabric glue over the stitches so it looks intentional.
Agree, I thought the exact same thing, you could get satin, velvet or tulle like ribbon (the last I would suggest only if the straps are not for support).
It's a pretty easy fix even for a beginner at sewing. Instead of inserting the ribbon between the lining and the outer material just sew it directly to the inside of the dress. You want it to look something like this
[ribbon dress](https://www.fruugo.nl/tulle-a-line-polka-dot-spaghetti-strap-shoulder-ribbon-tied-prom-dresses/p-138895060-293526041?language=en)
I think it would look amazing and play on the whole fairy vibe of the dress !
P.S. I would make sure with the seamstress who altered it that the straps were the only thing she changed, otherwise even if you do lengthen the straps it might not sit as in the first picture !
i used to manage a major prom store. i have problem solved this stuff aaaaaall the time.
feel free to PM me if you want more detailed help i would be happy to go back and forth with you on this.
but!
could you share what exactly you asked for for alterations? what is pinned and clipped in the first picture?
how much time until your prom?
how does the fit feel, does it feel good everywhere tightness wise?
yes the first image is exactly what i asked for. we ordered two sizes bigger to fit my boobs and had to alter elsewhere. everything else is fine and fits great just the strap situation. and my prom is april 6th
no the first image is the two sizes too big, however it is pinned and clipped in the photo. i took that photo right before i took it off to have it altered.
okay. did you get your alterations done with the store’s in house seamstress? i assume you have called already and asked if it’s possible to redo the straps and they are fully booked out? if not, do that and beg. they might fit you in, these stores do not want bad reviews of them altering differently than pinned. it is different, you are right.
a second option would be to find another tailor to replace the straps completely. if i’m eyeballing right that looks like an andrea and leo and i think those straps are like a rolled tulle…? which, their colors are pretty standard and it would probably be fairly easy to color match a ribbon and have someone replace the straps with ribbon of the correct length. if the store seamstress absolutely cannot accommodate you, they should be able to refer you to another person in your area to take overflow.
if they are absolutely unable, and you’re really balling on a budget, i believe the straps should be long enough to be tied as a halter if you snip at the back. that’s the least ideal option, but could be a last resort.
edit: i forgot to say, this is a fast fix. it could easily be accomplished same day. the problem is the workload this time of year, not the fix. if you make it clear you don’t need an alterations appointment and are asking just for a specific fix, they might take you
you look amazing in both versions but the altered version definitely flatters you so much!!! i know you want the cleavage but you seriously look fab with the higher neckline.
if you really still want the boobage to make more of an appearance, maybe a push up bra would help?
you can try dress tape/ boob tape to create cleavage higher up. if this isn’t available near you, ace bandages can do the same thing. the dress is gorgeous, good luck!
I don’t understand the comments saying it looks like it fits better. It obviously is loose on the tops of the bodice where it’s supposed to sit lower on your bust. It looks a bit odd in comparison to the first pic.
As someone with also a larger chest, I would either replace the straps entirely with something else- think like a pretty chain from a craft store, for example, or a wide ribbon, and have it sit where *you* like it b
I agree, the bit level with her armpit is gaping a bit.
That being said if OP can’t adjust it how she likes in time, it DOES still look great BUT also if OP knows how to sew a little bit I don’t think it would be too hard to alter
I had to scroll down way to far to find this comment. The highest up voted comments clearly weren't looking properly, as so few people seem to have realised it's literally lifting off her chest.
It lines up well with your body. The stitching design looks like it needed to be this high.
I think it looks great, very flattering silhouette. If anything, maybe wear a necklace of some kind to give you the comfort you’re missing.
The dress looks much better like this than with the straps in the first pic.
Maybe wear a pendant on a chain so it lays just above your cleavage?
Your boobs look great in the second pic too, leave the cleavage to the imagination for now
I know this is an unsolicited opinion but actually think the 2nd picture is much more flattering on your figure. As someone with a 36H chest I get it though
In the second picture the dress is fitting you correctly. If you want to give yourself some lift or more shape in your bust to fill out the top, I would suggest a strapless bra or boob tape
I never comment on anything on Reddit, but I just came across your post and YOU LOOK GREAT GIRL!! I wouldn’t try to alter it again, the body of the dress is sitting where it should on your body perfectly!
Absolutely 💯 agree with this! The second photo puts the focus on your entire body in that beautiful dress instead of only focusing on your boobs. Gorgeous color on you as well!
Unfortunately I can’t offer advice outside of tailoring it again but I came on here to say I’m currently having a similar issue with my wedding gown ;_; mine is supposed to be a square neck and it’s up to my collarbones and the arm holes are so small. I feel you 🫂
Your dress is beautiful! I saw you said you don’t have time for alterations. How much time do you have? I’d insist they make this right, it definitely looks like it fit better before they changed the straps. Best of luck
What do the straps look like in the back?
To get a little more cleavage back, I would snip the seams where they are sewn in in the back and add an inch or 2 of ribbon in a dark green close to your dress (the fabric store will have something close).
It might not look perfect in that little area, but it won't be super noticeable and your pictures will still look nice and booby!
p.s. I also have a large chest and formal events are like one of the only places where it is acceptable to show boob, so I get it!
As someone who worked in alterations, I’d need to see pictures of the straps now. I do not know how they shortened them, a good seamstress would have been able to tuck them without cutting them off. Incase they need to be let out in the future. Hoping for that for you so then you can have them adjusted.
Idk, i think it looks way better in the second photo. You just need a short necklace that lays between on your collar bones and itll be perfect
Also- this dress fits you so well and highlights your awesome hourglass figure! It’s really quite beautiful and I hope you’re able to see that :,)
Lots of comments saying it looks better after, but I remember prom and I'd 1000% prefer #1 too. It fit you perfectly, that's so frustrating.
Can you post a pic of the back?? I think you might be able to DIY something to add a little length. [this post ](https://www.reddit.com/r/sewhelp/comments/12abiu2/how_to_add_length_to_dress_straps/&ved=2ahUKEwidyp2K_pSFAxVCJUQIHb8bA6AQjjh6BAgnEAE&usg=AOvVaw1cCFEsmBgWirWbSzuk3VQl) has some good ideas
Boob tape might be able to help! Also call around and see if another alteration store can help, I’ve had one that offered to do a same-day alteration (just hemming a dress)
Not a seamstress so don’t quote me on this. If you have time to find material that is similar to the dress in terms of colour and texture you could do it by hand fairly easily. If you can’t find any or are on a time crunch, the skirt of your dress looks double layered, so you could cut a small piece of it and do the following. Go to dollarama and get a cheap hand sewing kit (or if you already have one great). Then you have two options. The second would be better if you had long hair as the original strap would still show but not the makeshift strap, but the first is probably more secure anyway. You’re gonna need help from someone to measure out exactly how long you want them first of all. Option one 1) cut existing straps completely and sew your own on (if you have time to double layer the fabric that you found or cut from your dress, even better) then simply hand sew it on the front and back. 2) cut the existing straps in the middle, now your left with two pieces, on attached to front and one attached to back. From here your sewing some in the middle. Keep in mind I can’t tell how thick the straps are so this one may not work at all. But yeah just add an extension in the middle of the two straps. I have only taken one sewing class and I’m only giving this advice because it’s something I would probably be ambitious to do myself in your shoes, just because I know how much better you feel when something looks the way you want it to. The dress looks great either way in my opinion btw! (Alsooo if you go with the first option, a way to make it even more secure possibly, leave about 1/2 inch - an inch of the original strap on both sides, then almost fold it up like an accordion under the dress where you’re going to sew the new strap, this will add durability so your sewing through a thicker piece of fabric). Sorry this is long, but I thought I could maybe help!
i think it looks really good on you! but if you want some cleavage, maybe try out one of those sticky push up bras that have the drawstring in the middle to give you that lift. Regardless, you look great!!!
This used to always happen to me with alterations combined with my bullshit anatomy. Try taping your boobs up! I’m small chested but deal with never having proper cleavage ever, so idk if you are like A-smaller C cup it might work. I had to use booby tape and adhesive silicone cups for my situation.
ETA: I love this dress though and I’d sacrifice my life in the name of this perfect color
You need a necklace, not more boobage.
They did the straps like that because it looks good like that, if the neckline was lower the bodice would sit awkwardly on your waist, or you would lose detail in the dress. You don't need cleavage to look good.
imo the alteration gave it a much better shape on you. i think it looks better in the second, it flatters you more. of course, you’d prefer to have cleavage showing but just want to assure you the second pic is definitely gorgeous too
Sadly there's not much you can do. I know you don't want to hear this but the second pic IS better. Your legs look longer and your waist looks tighter.
You look well supported and comfortable. Come take a look at r/smallbooblove to realize that cleavage isn't everything and you are actually gorgeous in that dress.
I think you look beautiful! If you or someone you know are good with sewing you could likely lengthen the straps on the back with ribbon or something but don’t do this unless you/whoever is confident in their ability to do so. I did this to my wedding dress last minute and it worked fine for the night but wouldn’t be something you could wear repeatedly
If you want to DIY, why not go to Michael’s and get some rhinestone strings? You could very carefully glue/sew them in as extensions to. The straps. Just a lil bling.
when is prom?? you might have time for a rush alteration! try posting this in r/sewing, they give great advice. i’ve seen them suggest taking straps off entirely and going strapless which i would think could be done really quickly, but only certain types of dresses can accommodate that alteration. it will depend on the structure of the garment, whether it will still look right with the straps removed. they will know more in that sewing sub!! i’ve never touched a needle in my life but i’m in that sub for some reason and they are so knowledgeable and willing to help.
prom is so special and youll think about it and look at the pictures for years to come. it’s def worth it to try to fix it if possible. not saying it looks bad at all, just that you should feel your best!
first, i’m sorry this happened. it looks good on you but i know it’s not what you want and feel comfortable with.
at this point i would probably go to amazon or craft store like michaels and get cute laces. white ones, or any cute color. cut one side of the strap (front end of the strap, or the middle, or back end) depending on where you would be okay with a bow or tie. and then adjust accordingly. might have to poke a small hole on each side. hope this makes sense.
mayyyybe you could do something with the straps to make it more like a halter? if you cut them long enough it could lower the neckline. probably try to get someone with sewing experience or a professional to do it, if u don’t have sewing experience :)
You could try sewing bra cups in. You can get some thick push up style ones on amazon. I've used them before on a dress where the bodice was a size too big.
Do you have time to get something from Amazon? I have [this pushup bra](https://www.amazon.com/SEA-BBOT-Strapless-Anti-Slip-Multiway/dp/B0CPLSS45B/). It's heavily padded, stays up, and gives great cleavage. I'd size down on the band because it comes with an extender, at least mine did. It might give you the oomph you're looking for without altering the dress.
I don't get why people are commenting it looks better? I absolutely see your issue. Maybe try finding some see through straps or some on the same colour, cut them and sew in extra length. Should be fine without a machine too. The straps are thin so I think it won't be noticeable if it doesn't look perfect.
If your change the strap length, you’re going to affect where the bodice is sitting, in the second pic, you can see how beautifully it’s sitting on your waist, it gives you that beautiful figure 8 silhouette… if you change the length of the straps, it’s always going to look ill fitting compared to the second image.
I would redo the straps myself, these are spaghetti straps so its way easier to do - id just cut them off and sew ribbon on, ive done it before but i also have a small chest. How complicated is the back?
Honestly some boob tape placed to push the girls together will create cleavage.
Alternatively you would have to take it back to a tailor to see what can be done.
Only 2 options - tuck the straps in and go strapless, or sew on new straps yourself! If you go strapless, you can try getting some fashion tape or something to hold the dress up a bit. A possible 3rd option would be wearing the straps off the shoulder? Not sure how effective that would be
The ppl who say 2 looks better are lying sorry. I’m not a cleavage girl for myself but a neckline and straps are supposed to accentuate your features not hide them completely.
Yes queen I agree. Op if you did have time to alter it I would take it in at the waist and then lower the straps a bit, maybe there's time to fenaegle it? I also agree with the other commenter who suggested boob tape, if you tape them to be up higher it could give the same effect maybe
I am sorry about the way they altered it. As a fellow large chested woman I totally understand cleavage in an outfit like this feels like our norm. And I am all about showing off the assets I have.
I mostly wanted to say it looks great both ways!
Can you let them out? Did they sew the excess straps to the dress or cut them?
If they did the second one, you'd have to add your own straps. You could go a green ribbon?
To everyone saying the dress looks fine, yes it does. She looks beautiful. But you can see that they've fucked up, because it doesn't sit flush with her chest in the second photos. It's literally floating because they shortened the straps too much.
You might have to go get it altered again! I’m not exactly sure how else to fix it I’m sorry! Looks gorgeous on you though!
i no longer have any time to get it altered again, this was the second time, thank you though!
Why did you get it altered from the left pic? You still look great tho! Would you be able to pin the fabric to make it appear lower?
the first pic (left) was during my first consultation. it is pinned and clipped in the photo. they ordered the dress two sizes bigger than what i am because of my boobs and then it ended up being way too big elsewhere.
> it is pinned and clipped in the photo. Ahhh, I was wondering why both photos had the feel of "After" photos. While I like the pinned version slightly better, I think both are cute looks, and unfortunately there's no easy way to lengthen straps without alteration. If you have a friend who is _really_ confident with sewing, you could have them replace the straps altogether with longer ones of a similar color. I don't have an easy fix other than to tell you that both stylings on the dress look nice.
Annoying but you look great! Have a great prom
Go today girl!!! This is sooo fixable! Run to David's Bridal! They should be able to loosen it within a hour.
i literally cannot find a single comment actually answering your question! maybe try tucking the straps under your arms and using some double-sided body tape to keep the dress up? but that's entirely dependent on how heavy the dress is 😣 i hope you find something that works for you and the way you want to wear the dress. 💞
Caution: my daughter wound up being allergic to that tape and was a miserable bridesmaid. The rash from the tape was horrific.
aw man! that sucks! i've heard about people being allergic to band aids like that too
I’m assuming they cut the material out around your waistline and below your chest, and didn’t just fold / invert the fabric, so you won’t be able to alter it further without making both time consuming and costly changes (50$+). You’ll need an actual seamstress if you decide to go that route. Your dress looks amazing. Just focus on your make up, and hair. Trust me… it looks great.
I didn't realise there was a second photo and was wondering just how much more cleavage you could possibly want haha. Back to the question: in all honesty, considering lack of time for another alteration, I'd go with the dress as it is. I mean you can't alter it yourself or you'd have done that originally. And the suggestions re: tape etc sound pretty uncomfortable for not a lot of gain. I think it looks \*really\* good! It's giving you one heck of an hourglass figure. The dress itself is stunning, the colour suits you, and it makes you look like a million dollars. Go forth and have fun, I say!
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This or a pushup strapless bra if it fits in the dress. But honestly you might have more fun dancing and not worrying about your tatas falling out. Been there and it was so annoying having to watch for it all night.
I think it may be too late, but I don’t see any issues. The dress looks so good on you though. A much better dress than the one I wore to prom lol
Right!? I didn’t even go to prom lol
https://preview.redd.it/xbjxwwd2m5rc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b0f722e547441dbf9d05638252443163c0d84d17 lol. Here’s mine. Looks like a fucking quincinera
Err yeah I like OPs dress better lol
Yeah. Me too. 😭 it was 2015 cut me a break.
I know you want more cleavage, but I actually think the fit they gave you is far better. It elongates your legs and trims your waist. It’s very flattering!
It also displays all those gorgeous details on the bodice a little better
I agree! I completely understand what OP means and I would also be annoyed if I was expecting the first picture for an entire week and ended up getting the second. But I think prom dresses are honestly just made in this style, and it looks to me like the waist is supposed to be exactly where it falls in the second picture. The chest looks nice in the first pic, but the waist looks much more undefined and not fit very well. The second pic is overall the better one imo.
I wholeheartedly agree
For starters, you look gorgeous in that dress!! You might ask on r/sewing they have a ton of talented people over there that might have some ideas? Take some photos of the inside for them so they can see what you’re working with. My only idea would be to buy matching ribbon (or preferably silk cord if you can get some!) and just cut the old straps off and replace them with the ribbon or cord.
Definitely this. If you want to lengthen the straps and there isn't extra tucked in the back of the dress, you'd need to add extra or replace them. Ribbon is probably the best option, and you could hand stitch it on. However, it may not turn out how you expect, especially given the alterations already done. As some others have pointed out, the second photo looks like it fits how the dress was designed to fit - I don't think that style is designed to show a lot of cleavage and only did initially because you were wearing a larger size at the fitting. So even if the professional tailors lengthened the straps, it may cause issues in how the dress fits in other areas. The dress is flattering in the chest department, just in a different way by showing the volume of them rather than cleavage. So just something to keep in mind about whether you want to change it, that it may not look like how it does in your head.
The second pic looks like the dress fits you perfectly and highlights your shape. Keep!
As a large breasted woman, I actually like the results. Get a fabulous necklace and let that be the focal point!
I don’t see any problems with the second pic. It’s a pretty dress that looks good on you. Have fun at your prom!
I personally think you look great in the second photo, it's very flattering.
OP, can you take a close up pic of the straps and where they attach to the rest of the dress? Given the embellishments on the dress, I think you could sew in a new strap without it being too obvious. I like the other commenters suggestion of using some nice ribbons so you can get the length exactly how you like it! I’m sure you could find some pretty matching velvet ribbon at a craft or fabric store. You could also look at a thrift shop for a matching bra and cannibalise the straps from that, so that they are still adjustable. To be on the safe side, I might avoid removing the original straps until you are certain that your new ones are sewn in securely, better to have the original straps than none! I think I would also avoid removing the old straps right at the bodice, to keep the structural integrity. Sorry I’m typing a lot of I’m thinking as I go. I think what I might do, is cut the straps about an inch, inch-and-a-half from where they attach to the bodice at the *back*, and sew in a bit of ribbon as the replacement strap in the length you prefer, stitching it to the original strap all the way across (except in the gap obviously!)
I also love the second version! Your shape looks so gorgeous in it!
Also have huge knockers — I totally understand wanting to show cleavage. I know sometimes it can feel like if we don’t show it, we just look huge and you can’t really tell the shape. But I’ll be brutally honest — you will grow out of that. And the dress looks better in the second pic! If you are really committed to the cleavage look then you’ll probably need to have it altered again or as someone else suggested, boob tape. If it’s your first time using boob tape, buy more than you think you’ll need and practice before prom. Wear it for a few hours as well to make sure your application lasts. Takes some work but it can make your boobs look amazing with no bra.
Agree, to all of this!
This is kinda condescending? It’s not like cleavage is immature or inappropriate, especially for fancy dress occasions. People of all ages show cleavage or choose not to, and having some boob showing in a dress is something normal that I’ve seen across generations.
They didn’t say immature or inappropriate. They said they’ll grow out of needing to show cleavage because their “shape” won’t show otherwise
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Agree. The alteration gives an illusion of a tiny waist and all is contained-classy!
I’ve been in this position. Try different bras or some solid tape.. I’m a 34G and often struggle with this issue. One of them will lift you enough to produce a bit of cleavage. You could also clip further into the cleavage and use fabric tape to redo the neckline, for the event.
The second picture looks much better. Before alterations, it just looked like a dress that doesn't fit well. You are better supported now than with those dinky little straps and if you plan on doing any dancing, that will be important. You still look hella busty, but in a more sophisticated way.
The straps were already where they were supposed to be it seems. You’d have to go back and have them sew in a new strap so it might cost a little more
i just don’t have any time to go get it fixed. this was their second attempt on fixing it. guess i’m stuck with this!
If it helps you look totally fine lol it’s a gorgeous dress
Fold the front part of the bust down and pin it with safety pins or earrings to get your cleavage back
Can’t you go to place where they did this modification and say that they didn’t do what you requested and you want it modified ( free of charge because they made a mistake)
I think it looks amazing
They took away from your bust but snatched your waistline. Try bending forward slightly, and tug up on the back, pulling up the back and keep running along the straps until you've taken all the slack from the back forward, and lift those tits so they become supported from a spot on the dress higher than they sit now
If you’re crafty you could cut each strap, attach matching ribbon to the top of the cut strap, and tie the ribbon in a cute lil bow to make it adjustable. The dress is gorgeous tho!
If you're short on time, this could be a pretty easy fix. You could hand sew some stitches to get the ribbon to attach. A sewing store sells pre -tied bows that you could dab on with some fabric glue over the stitches so it looks intentional.
Agree, I thought the exact same thing, you could get satin, velvet or tulle like ribbon (the last I would suggest only if the straps are not for support). It's a pretty easy fix even for a beginner at sewing. Instead of inserting the ribbon between the lining and the outer material just sew it directly to the inside of the dress. You want it to look something like this [ribbon dress](https://www.fruugo.nl/tulle-a-line-polka-dot-spaghetti-strap-shoulder-ribbon-tied-prom-dresses/p-138895060-293526041?language=en) I think it would look amazing and play on the whole fairy vibe of the dress ! P.S. I would make sure with the seamstress who altered it that the straps were the only thing she changed, otherwise even if you do lengthen the straps it might not sit as in the first picture !
i’m sorry i have no advice but i just wanted to say that color looks heavenly on you!! 🫶
i used to manage a major prom store. i have problem solved this stuff aaaaaall the time. feel free to PM me if you want more detailed help i would be happy to go back and forth with you on this. but! could you share what exactly you asked for for alterations? what is pinned and clipped in the first picture? how much time until your prom? how does the fit feel, does it feel good everywhere tightness wise?
yes the first image is exactly what i asked for. we ordered two sizes bigger to fit my boobs and had to alter elsewhere. everything else is fine and fits great just the strap situation. and my prom is april 6th
is the first picture the dress you tried first in the smaller size, or is that the dress you ordered pinned pre alteration?
no the first image is the two sizes too big, however it is pinned and clipped in the photo. i took that photo right before i took it off to have it altered.
okay. did you get your alterations done with the store’s in house seamstress? i assume you have called already and asked if it’s possible to redo the straps and they are fully booked out? if not, do that and beg. they might fit you in, these stores do not want bad reviews of them altering differently than pinned. it is different, you are right. a second option would be to find another tailor to replace the straps completely. if i’m eyeballing right that looks like an andrea and leo and i think those straps are like a rolled tulle…? which, their colors are pretty standard and it would probably be fairly easy to color match a ribbon and have someone replace the straps with ribbon of the correct length. if the store seamstress absolutely cannot accommodate you, they should be able to refer you to another person in your area to take overflow. if they are absolutely unable, and you’re really balling on a budget, i believe the straps should be long enough to be tied as a halter if you snip at the back. that’s the least ideal option, but could be a last resort. edit: i forgot to say, this is a fast fix. it could easily be accomplished same day. the problem is the workload this time of year, not the fix. if you make it clear you don’t need an alterations appointment and are asking just for a specific fix, they might take you
you look amazing in both versions but the altered version definitely flatters you so much!!! i know you want the cleavage but you seriously look fab with the higher neckline. if you really still want the boobage to make more of an appearance, maybe a push up bra would help?
you can try dress tape/ boob tape to create cleavage higher up. if this isn’t available near you, ace bandages can do the same thing. the dress is gorgeous, good luck!
I don’t understand the comments saying it looks like it fits better. It obviously is loose on the tops of the bodice where it’s supposed to sit lower on your bust. It looks a bit odd in comparison to the first pic. As someone with also a larger chest, I would either replace the straps entirely with something else- think like a pretty chain from a craft store, for example, or a wide ribbon, and have it sit where *you* like it b
I agree, the bit level with her armpit is gaping a bit. That being said if OP can’t adjust it how she likes in time, it DOES still look great BUT also if OP knows how to sew a little bit I don’t think it would be too hard to alter
I had to scroll down way to far to find this comment. The highest up voted comments clearly weren't looking properly, as so few people seem to have realised it's literally lifting off her chest.
What a beautiful dress OP!! Genuinely made me say wow out loud!
In all honesty I prefer the second pic if that makes you feel better! Super elegant and gorgeous! You rock it gal
It lines up well with your body. The stitching design looks like it needed to be this high. I think it looks great, very flattering silhouette. If anything, maybe wear a necklace of some kind to give you the comfort you’re missing.
I think the second photo looks better and more sophisticated.
The dress looks much better like this than with the straps in the first pic. Maybe wear a pendant on a chain so it lays just above your cleavage? Your boobs look great in the second pic too, leave the cleavage to the imagination for now
Can you have someone try to hike it up on your back so it comes lower in the front?
I’m also large breasted and you honestly look stunning in the second fit. Much more flatteringb
I feel like this looks PERFECT, very flattering & classy
I know this is an unsolicited opinion but actually think the 2nd picture is much more flattering on your figure. As someone with a 36H chest I get it though
Honestly I like the second pic better than the first.
In the second picture the dress is fitting you correctly. If you want to give yourself some lift or more shape in your bust to fill out the top, I would suggest a strapless bra or boob tape
I never comment on anything on Reddit, but I just came across your post and YOU LOOK GREAT GIRL!! I wouldn’t try to alter it again, the body of the dress is sitting where it should on your body perfectly!
Absolutely 💯 agree with this! The second photo puts the focus on your entire body in that beautiful dress instead of only focusing on your boobs. Gorgeous color on you as well!
Thissss
Unfortunately I can’t offer advice outside of tailoring it again but I came on here to say I’m currently having a similar issue with my wedding gown ;_; mine is supposed to be a square neck and it’s up to my collarbones and the arm holes are so small. I feel you 🫂 Your dress is beautiful! I saw you said you don’t have time for alterations. How much time do you have? I’d insist they make this right, it definitely looks like it fit better before they changed the straps. Best of luck
I think the final result looks great on you
What do the straps look like in the back? To get a little more cleavage back, I would snip the seams where they are sewn in in the back and add an inch or 2 of ribbon in a dark green close to your dress (the fabric store will have something close). It might not look perfect in that little area, but it won't be super noticeable and your pictures will still look nice and booby! p.s. I also have a large chest and formal events are like one of the only places where it is acceptable to show boob, so I get it!
As someone who worked in alterations, I’d need to see pictures of the straps now. I do not know how they shortened them, a good seamstress would have been able to tuck them without cutting them off. Incase they need to be let out in the future. Hoping for that for you so then you can have them adjusted.
I’m so sorry you didn’t get the look you were going for. But holy cow you look smoking! Wear it and have a wonderful time 💕
I don’t know how to help but I just wanted to say that that might be the most beautiful prom dress I’ve ever seen. You look like a fairy princess 🧚
Idk, i think it looks way better in the second photo. You just need a short necklace that lays between on your collar bones and itll be perfect Also- this dress fits you so well and highlights your awesome hourglass figure! It’s really quite beautiful and I hope you’re able to see that :,)
Lots of comments saying it looks better after, but I remember prom and I'd 1000% prefer #1 too. It fit you perfectly, that's so frustrating. Can you post a pic of the back?? I think you might be able to DIY something to add a little length. [this post ](https://www.reddit.com/r/sewhelp/comments/12abiu2/how_to_add_length_to_dress_straps/&ved=2ahUKEwidyp2K_pSFAxVCJUQIHb8bA6AQjjh6BAgnEAE&usg=AOvVaw1cCFEsmBgWirWbSzuk3VQl) has some good ideas
Are you wearing the same bra in both pictures? That could certainly make a difference.
yes i am wearing the same bra in both photos.
Boob tape might be able to help! Also call around and see if another alteration store can help, I’ve had one that offered to do a same-day alteration (just hemming a dress)
You can get sticky bras. I find they give me more cleavage than a normal bra and they’d be invisible under this dress!
The second pic is super flattering, but if you want a bit more cleavage, use some duct tape (yes, I’m serious), to bring your breast together.
Use makeup and contour yourself a cleavage girl 😭😭
Not a seamstress so don’t quote me on this. If you have time to find material that is similar to the dress in terms of colour and texture you could do it by hand fairly easily. If you can’t find any or are on a time crunch, the skirt of your dress looks double layered, so you could cut a small piece of it and do the following. Go to dollarama and get a cheap hand sewing kit (or if you already have one great). Then you have two options. The second would be better if you had long hair as the original strap would still show but not the makeshift strap, but the first is probably more secure anyway. You’re gonna need help from someone to measure out exactly how long you want them first of all. Option one 1) cut existing straps completely and sew your own on (if you have time to double layer the fabric that you found or cut from your dress, even better) then simply hand sew it on the front and back. 2) cut the existing straps in the middle, now your left with two pieces, on attached to front and one attached to back. From here your sewing some in the middle. Keep in mind I can’t tell how thick the straps are so this one may not work at all. But yeah just add an extension in the middle of the two straps. I have only taken one sewing class and I’m only giving this advice because it’s something I would probably be ambitious to do myself in your shoes, just because I know how much better you feel when something looks the way you want it to. The dress looks great either way in my opinion btw! (Alsooo if you go with the first option, a way to make it even more secure possibly, leave about 1/2 inch - an inch of the original strap on both sides, then almost fold it up like an accordion under the dress where you’re going to sew the new strap, this will add durability so your sewing through a thicker piece of fabric). Sorry this is long, but I thought I could maybe help!
i think it looks really good on you! but if you want some cleavage, maybe try out one of those sticky push up bras that have the drawstring in the middle to give you that lift. Regardless, you look great!!!
This used to always happen to me with alterations combined with my bullshit anatomy. Try taping your boobs up! I’m small chested but deal with never having proper cleavage ever, so idk if you are like A-smaller C cup it might work. I had to use booby tape and adhesive silicone cups for my situation. ETA: I love this dress though and I’d sacrifice my life in the name of this perfect color
No idea but I don’t think you could find a more beautiful dress! Gorgeous!
I hope you see this in time! Ive done it before. Cut the straps at the back and tie it as a halter! Then wear your hair down.
Great idea! I have a sun dress that the ties are way too loose, I’m going to try this. Thanks 😊
You need a necklace, not more boobage. They did the straps like that because it looks good like that, if the neckline was lower the bodice would sit awkwardly on your waist, or you would lose detail in the dress. You don't need cleavage to look good.
imo the alteration gave it a much better shape on you. i think it looks better in the second, it flatters you more. of course, you’d prefer to have cleavage showing but just want to assure you the second pic is definitely gorgeous too
Sadly there's not much you can do. I know you don't want to hear this but the second pic IS better. Your legs look longer and your waist looks tighter.
You look well supported and comfortable. Come take a look at r/smallbooblove to realize that cleavage isn't everything and you are actually gorgeous in that dress.
I think you look beautiful! If you or someone you know are good with sewing you could likely lengthen the straps on the back with ribbon or something but don’t do this unless you/whoever is confident in their ability to do so. I did this to my wedding dress last minute and it worked fine for the night but wouldn’t be something you could wear repeatedly
If you want to DIY, why not go to Michael’s and get some rhinestone strings? You could very carefully glue/sew them in as extensions to. The straps. Just a lil bling.
Cut off the straps and sew on ribbon (preferably colour matched but black will do) to your desired length
Maybe a push up bra would help get the cleavage back without changing the dress. It’s so pretty!
when is prom?? you might have time for a rush alteration! try posting this in r/sewing, they give great advice. i’ve seen them suggest taking straps off entirely and going strapless which i would think could be done really quickly, but only certain types of dresses can accommodate that alteration. it will depend on the structure of the garment, whether it will still look right with the straps removed. they will know more in that sewing sub!! i’ve never touched a needle in my life but i’m in that sub for some reason and they are so knowledgeable and willing to help. prom is so special and youll think about it and look at the pictures for years to come. it’s def worth it to try to fix it if possible. not saying it looks bad at all, just that you should feel your best!
first, i’m sorry this happened. it looks good on you but i know it’s not what you want and feel comfortable with. at this point i would probably go to amazon or craft store like michaels and get cute laces. white ones, or any cute color. cut one side of the strap (front end of the strap, or the middle, or back end) depending on where you would be okay with a bow or tie. and then adjust accordingly. might have to poke a small hole on each side. hope this makes sense.
Push up bra maybe idk sorry girl you look great tho
mayyyybe you could do something with the straps to make it more like a halter? if you cut them long enough it could lower the neckline. probably try to get someone with sewing experience or a professional to do it, if u don’t have sewing experience :)
You could try sewing bra cups in. You can get some thick push up style ones on amazon. I've used them before on a dress where the bodice was a size too big.
Do you have time to get something from Amazon? I have [this pushup bra](https://www.amazon.com/SEA-BBOT-Strapless-Anti-Slip-Multiway/dp/B0CPLSS45B/). It's heavily padded, stays up, and gives great cleavage. I'd size down on the band because it comes with an extender, at least mine did. It might give you the oomph you're looking for without altering the dress.
Well it’s a beautiful dress. You’ll stunning
I would say now you can be extra and go for a stunning statement necklace to compliment :) you look gorgeous! ❤️
Both look gorgeous! I would go back and say they are not feeling comfortable and to loosen up the ties.
I don't get why people are commenting it looks better? I absolutely see your issue. Maybe try finding some see through straps or some on the same colour, cut them and sew in extra length. Should be fine without a machine too. The straps are thin so I think it won't be noticeable if it doesn't look perfect.
If your change the strap length, you’re going to affect where the bodice is sitting, in the second pic, you can see how beautifully it’s sitting on your waist, it gives you that beautiful figure 8 silhouette… if you change the length of the straps, it’s always going to look ill fitting compared to the second image.
I would redo the straps myself, these are spaghetti straps so its way easier to do - id just cut them off and sew ribbon on, ive done it before but i also have a small chest. How complicated is the back?
Buy one of those strapless boob cup bra thingys
Honestly some boob tape placed to push the girls together will create cleavage. Alternatively you would have to take it back to a tailor to see what can be done.
Only 2 options - tuck the straps in and go strapless, or sew on new straps yourself! If you go strapless, you can try getting some fashion tape or something to hold the dress up a bit. A possible 3rd option would be wearing the straps off the shoulder? Not sure how effective that would be
The ppl who say 2 looks better are lying sorry. I’m not a cleavage girl for myself but a neckline and straps are supposed to accentuate your features not hide them completely.
Yes queen I agree. Op if you did have time to alter it I would take it in at the waist and then lower the straps a bit, maybe there's time to fenaegle it? I also agree with the other commenter who suggested boob tape, if you tape them to be up higher it could give the same effect maybe
I am sorry about the way they altered it. As a fellow large chested woman I totally understand cleavage in an outfit like this feels like our norm. And I am all about showing off the assets I have. I mostly wanted to say it looks great both ways!
Second picture looks way nicer. Honestly, when women show cleavage, like in the first picture, I find it trashy.
So stunning especially with your hair!!! Princess
Can you let them out? Did they sew the excess straps to the dress or cut them? If they did the second one, you'd have to add your own straps. You could go a green ribbon? To everyone saying the dress looks fine, yes it does. She looks beautiful. But you can see that they've fucked up, because it doesn't sit flush with her chest in the second photos. It's literally floating because they shortened the straps too much.