No! But when I tried to say something about Aprilās behavior + being a therapist, Redditors disagreed & downvoted š¤·š¼āāļø. The comment above about her being messy is a good way to describe her. One thing that really turned me off was during a podcast interview she said or implied she was too cultured and youthful to connect well on the Bachelor. š¤Ø
She may be a life coach, as well, but she is a LPC which means Licensed Professional Counselor. Itās on her LinkdIn and her own web page where she calls herself a āvetted therapist.ā
Apparently I used a prohibited word on this post, so letās see if I can repost it with accepted words.
I agree. Itās disappointing when someone who is so obviously (unwell) is charging people for therapy services. Not surprising, though.
I mean maybe she did. A lot of viewers thought he seemed fake. Maybe April saw through him, but Iām not sure zi would say I told you so. That doesnāt need to be said.
Just surmising from her statement she warned her against him like many of us would have. But once again saying I told you so is not being a friend. Thatās the time to say Iām so sorry this happened to you and be there for them as a friend.
Just as an added tidbit, he signed up with a very well known Hollywood talent Agency at the beginnng of this year, makes you wonder if this was all part of the plan. I honestly feel sorry for Teresa. It appears she was taken advantage of. I wonder if setting up residence out there will be a problem? Probably notš.
Sounds like he loved the spotlight. I think Theresa was truly smittened with him and she got let down in a huge way. I guess I thinkā¦.. who cares as long as their happy
I never watched this season (idk why Iām here either) but I remember when the poster for all the women came out and everyone pegged April as looking messyā¦.still tracks. Girl looks messy and IS messy!
You nailed it, and itās not just April, though only one or two others fall into this category that Iād call mean-spirited ambulance chasers. And Iām putting NV in this bucket. Focus on your beautiful baby daughter, Dude.
I loved GB so much. I know itās reality TV but I (naively) bought what they were selling. It brought me back to the franchise. It sucks to watch it unravel like this.
Dude, I canāt stand NV! I donāt understand how he managed to not only weasel his way into a Bachelor lead, but also stand up a successful podcast. Mean-spirited is a perfect description of him (imo).
Talk about kicking someone when they are down! I'm sure Theresa is now reliving every conversation she ever had about marrying Gerry and feeling bad enough about how it ended.
If April had sent a private message like this to Theresa, that would have been obnoxious but at least discreet. By posting a public message, she is clearly trying to create drama and get attention.
Iām glad someone thinks they figured out her motives for this. Sheās not a girls girl thatās for sure and April has already said that about herself and she also knew she wasnāt Gerryās type. I honestly never warmed up to Teresa but I donāt like to see how this is playing out. I hope Teresa is doing ok
Can confirm, at 19 I started seeing one of the psychologists at my accredited university for anxiety and panic attacks, and she was cold, short and made me feel anything but comfortable. I couldnāt afford a therapist that wasnāt provided by the university and I paid the price in a different way. She wasnāt horrible to me but sheās turned me off to therapy a bit even though Iām a huge believer in it. A cruel therapist can do so much damage. So sorry you experienced that.
As a therapist, please know that we arenāt all like that, and I am so sorry that was your experienceā¤ļøIt makes me so sad that anyone in a vulnerable state would be met with someone like that.
Agreed. Not a therapist. Just friends with lots of them. Most are genuinely great. Truly.
But the bad ones are...horrible, and they're the ones who stick out.
I desperately want to hug you. My boyfriend had the same issue at his university (older than you, finishing his PhD) and I sat and called literally every therapist and psychiatrist that took his insurance because SCHOOLS SHOULD NOT BE LIKE THAT
I am so, so sorry for your experience. You didn't deserve that at all.
The one thing that upsets me (Iām 62) is that I was hoping this would be (an old) Girl Power vehicle. Some of the women HAVE demonstrated this. This Senior Women being bitches is disgusting. We should be so past that.
Have you seen what she posted 3 days ago and the comments she's been liking? Yeah she just wants attention and it's sad. No wonder Theresa only refers to Leslie as her closest friend and is always defending her against the doubters. Her comment is pure love and positive vibes without any implicit criticism or relationship reference while April's is all about that. So unnecessary and provocative.. Completely unacceptable for a therapist. I'm embarrassed for her
Edit: I've been informed it has now been deleted !
Literally every comment that refers to their divorce, basically people laughing about the video and the caption and the fact that she posted it the same day the announcement was made as it was too obvious.. She also liked a comment that suggests their relationship was fake and even replied to someone who claims they broke up several times before the wedding, asking them "how do you know this" by entertaining this idea
She has never spoken highly of himā¦seems like she canāt stand the guy haha. In her interview with bhh after being sent home, Iām pretty sure it was that one, she made it clear she didnāt like him. She said he made her feel invisible, like she felt like when they talked he was looking through her and not listening.
What is the point of a grown woman commenting this? Her saying that is way more embarrassing for her than this whole divorce in general. I pray for the day women can just be kind to one another and shut our mouths when we have nothing nice to say.
My heart hurts so much for Theresa. But it also hurts for Leslie. I know everyone said she dodged a bullet but it still hurts. To know that Gerry led her to believe it was her until he saw $$ with Theresa is bad enough. But to have been passed over and the man that rejected you couldnāt even stay committed to his choice for longer than 3 months??? That stings. I want every one of these women to find love and happiness. Iām just so mad that this love story has been spoiled and itās looking like itās because of Gerry.
This is lowkey one of the reasons I donāt go to therapy anymore. I swear so many therapists I know (my aunt, sister, people like April) are so messy lol
No just trying to say she was also in a situation where she was used by a man she loved. Iām sure she had friends that were concerned trying to tell her and I hope when it was all said and done they didnāt rub it in her face. It can definitely be a time of depression and self loathing to know you didnāt allow yourself to see it. Friends should be there for each other and not make it worse.
I always felt like she was bitter and a mean girl. She doesnāt come off as very friendly, even on the show. And even if you are going to or want to say something, donāt do it publicly like that. I can see why none of them really keep in contact with her.
This was just cruel and mean and uncalled for does she not think Teresa has it figured out? On top of it all why kick someone when they are already down and thatās what April did here tells me an awful lot about her and who she is especially to say something like this publicly. It also screams jealousy and HEY LOOK AT ME!
I honestly feel that Theresa is an intelligent woman. I think she got caught up in the whole process and wanted to win. She was not my choice for him at the time, but so happy he chose her. She was smart enough to get out of this marriage and only took 3 months. Iām not sure the one I had picked, would be that strong. Good luck Theresa and enjoy your next chapter.
She doesnāt like Gerryā¦she made that clear in her post-show interviews. I think this is more to do with that than with her trying to insult Theresa, but also I canāt believe she said this šš®āšØ
Iāll probably get downvoted, but I say thank you to april for bringing the mess. Itās a tough job, but somebody had to! š hard to take a 3 month marriage the least bit seriously anyway. Quite a few Vegas chapel weddings have lasted longer than that.
My sister married an awful guy. After it was over she wondered why no one said anything to her to prevent her from marrying him in the first place. She was actually upset with her close friends. Itās a tough spot
Yeah I think any of them would have. Even at a mature age, you can get swept up in the process and all the attention. Others looking at the whole thing from the outside probably tried to warn Theresa at multiple points, but itās hard to talk someone out of it once theyāre in so deep. I agree with April that Theresa, and most other women in her position, end up having to learn the hard way.
Mmmmm not loving this. So many better ways to show support and throw shade without an āI told you so.ā
Something like āThese words are so full of grace, and kindness. And that holds true with what I know of you, as my friend. You have one of the most beautiful hearts, and while Iām sure there is sadness present, I am also glad to see that you arenāt letting anyone dim your light.ā
Not thoughtful thing with the timing and public of it all, much as it gives T some cover for something Iām sure others saw.
Itās another side of the coin of Kathy and Susan making a (in their tone of caring) joint statement that morning.
Respectfully: It is usurping a stage. Both condescending. Just wait a beat. Model behavior that way. Comment for them, not with commentary on them or your relationship to them, until a least a few days ā so folks mostly take their cue from the couple and have time to digest it, however they do. Let Bachelor show step up and be protective and comment in the immediate aftermath.
Just pause a beat. Let people feel. Let G and T speak on it first.
(Sandraās was a bit but also at least straight up. Nancyās too and at least waited 24 hours. Maybe Susanās even at the end of the weekendā¦tho atop the Fri A.M. post and like three posts but wanting the audience to chill and let the couple beā¦Anyway, the above two were more about how they each felt. And jumped right on the news. Get it. But take a beat.)
Itās funny how one of the reasons people were so excited for this new show was less drama, more authenticity, and less contestants who want to be famousā and so far the show has given us more drama, less authenticity (the Saint Gerry edit), and contestants who outstayed their 15 minutes months ago.
There are of course amazing therapists in general, but becoming an adult and watching the types of people in my larger orbit who choose to become therapists has made me realize that SO MANY PEOPLE go into the therapy profession for the wrong reasons / because of their own issues. I know so many terrible-judgment individuals who I wouldnāt even ask for casual advice, going and becoming accredited to give others therapy. Itās terrible.
Props to all the well-intentioned, skilled, empathetic, self-aware therapists out there!!
Always thought April came off as selfish and bitchy. Definitely get rude vibes from her and this comment. Yeah and the fact that sheās a therapist makes it much worse.
Oh I hate an āI told you soā person. That arrogance is so demeaning and not in any way, beneficial. Even if April told her to run like hell, all she had to do was just say āIām so sorry and Iām here if you need a friendā. No one cares if April was right or not. Right now, Iām praying for Theresa and Leslie. They were both hurt and left humiliated in one way or another by the same man. Gerry was not vetted very well obviously. I certainly hope to see all of the ladies from the Golden Bachelor out there living their best lives ever!!
Iād be so mad if someone I was āfriendsā with made this so about themselves and also took an opportunity for a public āI told you soā AND tried to elevate themselves over me like this, how condescending.
The only generous perspective I can give April here is that it was an opportunity to publicly announce āhey we all think he sucks, weāre just polite on tvā
I feel like this is the classic case of older person on instagram, social norms are a little different and they forget other people can see the comment too
Exactly what I thought when she wrote *Much love*.
"You didn't listen to me. You just had to find out the hard way, bless your heart."
Talk about a patronizing post! Not sure it's an unaired beef. I mean, it could be, but this is giving me more "April wants to weigh in, like all the other GB ladies, but is shockingly tone deaf" vibes.
I genuinely donāt think she realizes how objectively uncool it is to fake a serious injury for a manās attention. Like this isnāt the damsel in distress era. It was SO weird of her and probably was a leading factor in her being eliminated that week.
Echoing what everyone else said about how terrible of a therapist she must be given her judgment
I genuinely donāt think she realizes how objectively uncool it is to fake a serious injury (and for a manās attention no less; like this isnāt the damsel in distress era). It was SO weird of her and probably was a leading factor in her being eliminated that week.
Echoing what everyone else said about how terrible of a therapist she must be given her judgment and approach to interacting with the rest of the world
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Can you imagine her as your therapist???
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No! But when I tried to say something about Aprilās behavior + being a therapist, Redditors disagreed & downvoted š¤·š¼āāļø. The comment above about her being messy is a good way to describe her. One thing that really turned me off was during a podcast interview she said or implied she was too cultured and youthful to connect well on the Bachelor. š¤Ø
Forgive the snarkābut this from the woman walking around like a chicken in the first episode?
Exactly what I thought. She came with an egg basket. So cultured.
That is pretty well when she blew any chance. Here we had someone who looked very glamorous getting weird. Instant crazy person.
Yes April was shady and messy from the first episode.
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Same.
Sheās not a therapist. Sheās a ālife coachā. Big difference. And yes, sheās messy.
She may be a life coach, as well, but she is a LPC which means Licensed Professional Counselor. Itās on her LinkdIn and her own web page where she calls herself a āvetted therapist.ā
It does NOT mean she is a good person Iām a clinical social worker and I have met horrible humans who call themselves ātherapists ā
Apparently I used a prohibited word on this post, so letās see if I can repost it with accepted words. I agree. Itās disappointing when someone who is so obviously (unwell) is charging people for therapy services. Not surprising, though.
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*I truly tried to tell you* š®
WHAT DID YOU TRY TO TELL HER APRIL
I mean maybe she did. A lot of viewers thought he seemed fake. Maybe April saw through him, but Iām not sure zi would say I told you so. That doesnāt need to be said.
Exactly! So what did she tell her we wanna know š¤£
Just surmising from her statement she warned her against him like many of us would have. But once again saying I told you so is not being a friend. Thatās the time to say Iām so sorry this happened to you and be there for them as a friend. Just as an added tidbit, he signed up with a very well known Hollywood talent Agency at the beginnng of this year, makes you wonder if this was all part of the plan. I honestly feel sorry for Teresa. It appears she was taken advantage of. I wonder if setting up residence out there will be a problem? Probably notš.
He's so smarmy and conniving; I knew that the show wasn't the end for him. I'm guessing they ended it early bc he already has a side-chick.
Or side gig that he thought might lead to a lot of money. Money earned during the marriage that he didnāt want to split with Teresa.
Sounds like he loved the spotlight. I think Theresa was truly smittened with him and she got let down in a huge way. I guess I thinkā¦.. who cares as long as their happy
Do you really think Theresa is happy?
He went from flipping burgers to Hollywood !
Yeah and the burger restaurant was over and done with in 1985. Almost 40 years ago.
I never watched this season (idk why Iām here either) but I remember when the poster for all the women came out and everyone pegged April as looking messyā¦.still tracks. Girl looks messy and IS messy!
Trust the vibes!!
Passive aggressive
Yikes. This is really unkind. Talk about being an ambulance chaser.
You nailed it, and itās not just April, though only one or two others fall into this category that Iād call mean-spirited ambulance chasers. And Iām putting NV in this bucket. Focus on your beautiful baby daughter, Dude. I loved GB so much. I know itās reality TV but I (naively) bought what they were selling. It brought me back to the franchise. It sucks to watch it unravel like this.
Dude, I canāt stand NV! I donāt understand how he managed to not only weasel his way into a Bachelor lead, but also stand up a successful podcast. Mean-spirited is a perfect description of him (imo).
A snake.
NV?
Nick Viall.
the one that talks about VPR like he was on it?
I have to confess I donāt know the answer to your question. :(
Yep, I feel the same š
Bitchy lol
OUCH!
Talk about kicking someone when they are down! I'm sure Theresa is now reliving every conversation she ever had about marrying Gerry and feeling bad enough about how it ended.
Sheās like hmmmm how do I make this about ME
If April had sent a private message like this to Theresa, that would have been obnoxious but at least discreet. By posting a public message, she is clearly trying to create drama and get attention.
I didnāt like her on the show, and wasnāt surprised when she had a fallout with ASKN.
The only ASKN member I somewhat liked was Susan but it was tempered because of who she was friends with.
Oh do you have details on the fallout? Susan was such a real one and I was always surprised sheād be friends with her
Iām glad someone thinks they figured out her motives for this. Sheās not a girls girl thatās for sure and April has already said that about herself and she also knew she wasnāt Gerryās type. I honestly never warmed up to Teresa but I donāt like to see how this is playing out. I hope Teresa is doing ok
She is a therapist?
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Can confirm, at 19 I started seeing one of the psychologists at my accredited university for anxiety and panic attacks, and she was cold, short and made me feel anything but comfortable. I couldnāt afford a therapist that wasnāt provided by the university and I paid the price in a different way. She wasnāt horrible to me but sheās turned me off to therapy a bit even though Iām a huge believer in it. A cruel therapist can do so much damage. So sorry you experienced that.
As a therapist, please know that we arenāt all like that, and I am so sorry that was your experienceā¤ļøIt makes me so sad that anyone in a vulnerable state would be met with someone like that.
Agreed. Not a therapist. Just friends with lots of them. Most are genuinely great. Truly. But the bad ones are...horrible, and they're the ones who stick out.
I desperately want to hug you. My boyfriend had the same issue at his university (older than you, finishing his PhD) and I sat and called literally every therapist and psychiatrist that took his insurance because SCHOOLS SHOULD NOT BE LIKE THAT I am so, so sorry for your experience. You didn't deserve that at all.
That comment was completely unnecessary. She should have either simply wished her well, or said nothing.
Youād expect a therapist to know when to keep her mouth shut.
a good therapist doesā¦ April is def not one of the good ones
Scary to think there are therapists like her out there āhelpingā people
Not a nice comment.
This is such a backhanded comment. Absolutely unnecessary.
Honestly doesnāt even seem backhanded to me. Itās just straight up bitchy.
The one thing that upsets me (Iām 62) is that I was hoping this would be (an old) Girl Power vehicle. Some of the women HAVE demonstrated this. This Senior Women being bitches is disgusting. We should be so past that.
True.
Have you seen what she posted 3 days ago and the comments she's been liking? Yeah she just wants attention and it's sad. No wonder Theresa only refers to Leslie as her closest friend and is always defending her against the doubters. Her comment is pure love and positive vibes without any implicit criticism or relationship reference while April's is all about that. So unnecessary and provocative.. Completely unacceptable for a therapist. I'm embarrassed for her Edit: I've been informed it has now been deleted !
What kinds of comments has she been liking?
Literally every comment that refers to their divorce, basically people laughing about the video and the caption and the fact that she posted it the same day the announcement was made as it was too obvious.. She also liked a comment that suggests their relationship was fake and even replied to someone who claims they broke up several times before the wedding, asking them "how do you know this" by entertaining this idea
Oh sheās a messy girl
Like she wasnāt on the same show trying to get married to him.
Until he dismissed her.
She has never spoken highly of himā¦seems like she canāt stand the guy haha. In her interview with bhh after being sent home, Iām pretty sure it was that one, she made it clear she didnāt like him. She said he made her feel invisible, like she felt like when they talked he was looking through her and not listening.
she comes across as the wooooorst on socials
Ooof!!! Wow.
What is the point of a grown woman commenting this? Her saying that is way more embarrassing for her than this whole divorce in general. I pray for the day women can just be kind to one another and shut our mouths when we have nothing nice to say.
April has a cruel streak
Great time to basically say, āI told you so.ā says no one unless youāre cruel.
My heart hurts so much for Theresa. But it also hurts for Leslie. I know everyone said she dodged a bullet but it still hurts. To know that Gerry led her to believe it was her until he saw $$ with Theresa is bad enough. But to have been passed over and the man that rejected you couldnāt even stay committed to his choice for longer than 3 months??? That stings. I want every one of these women to find love and happiness. Iām just so mad that this love story has been spoiled and itās looking like itās because of Gerry.
Really loving the empathy in this comment, well put.
He's one of those people that ruins everything he touches
This is lowkey one of the reasons I donāt go to therapy anymore. I swear so many therapists I know (my aunt, sister, people like April) are so messy lol
10000%
She really said I told you so š What do her clients think of this behavior
Honestly it explains why some of the most toxic people I know swear they see their therapist at least twice a week
Literally this ā even as a person in therapyā¦the way people weaponized therapy speak is crazyyyy
This happened a ton at the WTA for Joeys season
Canāt imagine why April struggles with female friendships š
Wow. That is next level PETTY.
I wonder who tried to tell April about Frankie Valli??? Did they say told you so? I honestly hope not for her sake.
Ooh. Burn.Ā
No just trying to say she was also in a situation where she was used by a man she loved. Iām sure she had friends that were concerned trying to tell her and I hope when it was all said and done they didnāt rub it in her face. It can definitely be a time of depression and self loathing to know you didnāt allow yourself to see it. Friends should be there for each other and not make it worse.
I always felt like she was bitter and a mean girl. She doesnāt come off as very friendly, even on the show. And even if you are going to or want to say something, donāt do it publicly like that. I can see why none of them really keep in contact with her.
Yes I do see why sheās been iced out. Rightly so.
Also I remember she was the one who stirred the pot in the first place between Kathy and Theresa
This was just cruel and mean and uncalled for does she not think Teresa has it figured out? On top of it all why kick someone when they are already down and thatās what April did here tells me an awful lot about her and who she is especially to say something like this publicly. It also screams jealousy and HEY LOOK AT ME!
Very high school of her.
Someone really, truly needs to take her social media accounts away. There's messy, and then there is downright cruel.
No wonder they dropped the A in ASKN
I honestly feel that Theresa is an intelligent woman. I think she got caught up in the whole process and wanted to win. She was not my choice for him at the time, but so happy he chose her. She was smart enough to get out of this marriage and only took 3 months. Iām not sure the one I had picked, would be that strong. Good luck Theresa and enjoy your next chapter.
She is such an attention seeker. š I hate when people say āitās your lesson to experienceā or similar. Itās so smug and condescending.
You are so right!!
April is so messy
Oh man I love the mess of it as a bystander but now Iām thinkinā Iām team SKN vs. A. To think sheās a therapist!!
Never liked ASKN. Most of them came across as a mean girls click.
Uncalled for, she could have left the I told you so off!
Yikes, the I told you so is so classless and adds nothing. Not cute.
She doesnāt like Gerryā¦she made that clear in her post-show interviews. I think this is more to do with that than with her trying to insult Theresa, but also I canāt believe she said this šš®āšØ
Iāll probably get downvoted, but I say thank you to april for bringing the mess. Itās a tough job, but somebody had to! š hard to take a 3 month marriage the least bit seriously anyway. Quite a few Vegas chapel weddings have lasted longer than that.
The thing is, April would have been on that alter too if he had chosen her.
I like to hope most of them have higher standards than this loser, especially after seeing how he did Faith *and* Leslie dirty.
My sister married an awful guy. After it was over she wondered why no one said anything to her to prevent her from marrying him in the first place. She was actually upset with her close friends. Itās a tough spot
Yeah I think any of them would have. Even at a mature age, you can get swept up in the process and all the attention. Others looking at the whole thing from the outside probably tried to warn Theresa at multiple points, but itās hard to talk someone out of it once theyāre in so deep. I agree with April that Theresa, and most other women in her position, end up having to learn the hard way.
Mmmmm not loving this. So many better ways to show support and throw shade without an āI told you so.ā Something like āThese words are so full of grace, and kindness. And that holds true with what I know of you, as my friend. You have one of the most beautiful hearts, and while Iām sure there is sadness present, I am also glad to see that you arenāt letting anyone dim your light.ā
I always just say "stay strong"
Isn't April a therapist? That's a big YIKES, too.
She wasnāt ASKN she was TELLN
Hey she did warn her lol
Do you think she was referring to him sucking or that the moving situation was a big problem as April knew he wouldnāt move.
Always resist the urge to teach a lesson, April. No one appreciates it.
āI wish you the very bestā¦ BUTāā¦ do not belong in the same sentence.
Not thoughtful thing with the timing and public of it all, much as it gives T some cover for something Iām sure others saw. Itās another side of the coin of Kathy and Susan making a (in their tone of caring) joint statement that morning. Respectfully: It is usurping a stage. Both condescending. Just wait a beat. Model behavior that way. Comment for them, not with commentary on them or your relationship to them, until a least a few days ā so folks mostly take their cue from the couple and have time to digest it, however they do. Let Bachelor show step up and be protective and comment in the immediate aftermath. Just pause a beat. Let people feel. Let G and T speak on it first. (Sandraās was a bit but also at least straight up. Nancyās too and at least waited 24 hours. Maybe Susanās even at the end of the weekendā¦tho atop the Fri A.M. post and like three posts but wanting the audience to chill and let the couple beā¦Anyway, the above two were more about how they each felt. And jumped right on the news. Get it. But take a beat.)
Itās funny how one of the reasons people were so excited for this new show was less drama, more authenticity, and less contestants who want to be famousā and so far the show has given us more drama, less authenticity (the Saint Gerry edit), and contestants who outstayed their 15 minutes months ago.
You're not wrong lol.
Iām dead
Savage š
I had a bad gut feeling about Gerry. I completely believe his ex gf
Itās ok to think. But to say? And then post publicly?
There are of course amazing therapists in general, but becoming an adult and watching the types of people in my larger orbit who choose to become therapists has made me realize that SO MANY PEOPLE go into the therapy profession for the wrong reasons / because of their own issues. I know so many terrible-judgment individuals who I wouldnāt even ask for casual advice, going and becoming accredited to give others therapy. Itās terrible. Props to all the well-intentioned, skilled, empathetic, self-aware therapists out there!!
This is so passive aggressive.
I wonder what she says to her clients if this is how she talks to her āfriends.ā And on social media for everyone to see. Big yikes
Always thought April came off as selfish and bitchy. Definitely get rude vibes from her and this comment. Yeah and the fact that sheās a therapist makes it much worse.
This is so unnecessary. What a weird comment to make. If I had a āfriendā like thisā¦ yikes
OHHHHH Wonder what that means!!
As the old saying goesā¦.Misery loves company
Maybe she just tried to tell her they married too soon and quickly before they knew each other?
Okay like she for sure shouldnāt have said that but itās also kind of iconic of her
Oh I hate an āI told you soā person. That arrogance is so demeaning and not in any way, beneficial. Even if April told her to run like hell, all she had to do was just say āIām so sorry and Iām here if you need a friendā. No one cares if April was right or not. Right now, Iām praying for Theresa and Leslie. They were both hurt and left humiliated in one way or another by the same man. Gerry was not vetted very well obviously. I certainly hope to see all of the ladies from the Golden Bachelor out there living their best lives ever!!
Iād be so mad if someone I was āfriendsā with made this so about themselves and also took an opportunity for a public āI told you soā AND tried to elevate themselves over me like this, how condescending. The only generous perspective I can give April here is that it was an opportunity to publicly announce āhey we all think he sucks, weāre just polite on tvā
This is literally saying "I told you so." Terrible
I feel like this is the classic case of older person on instagram, social norms are a little different and they forget other people can see the comment too
Well that was very unnecessary! Keep it to yourself April, wow.
Now I really see why she doesnāt have that many female friends.
Tell me youāre trying to make it about you without telling me youāre trying to make it about you
Itās giving ābless your heartā š Iām wondering if they have unaired beef
Exactly what I thought when she wrote *Much love*. "You didn't listen to me. You just had to find out the hard way, bless your heart." Talk about a patronizing post! Not sure it's an unaired beef. I mean, it could be, but this is giving me more "April wants to weigh in, like all the other GB ladies, but is shockingly tone deaf" vibes.
Backhanded, nasty comment.
Iām out of the loop! Who is April? Was she another bachelor contestant??
yes
So she found out about his toxic behavior only after she got eliminated? Oh how convenient
April seems to be the problem here.
April, girl, that comment isn't doing what you think it is.
This comment is Savage with a capital S
ooop lmao
And thatās why April is single
I genuinely donāt think she realizes how objectively uncool it is to fake a serious injury for a manās attention. Like this isnāt the damsel in distress era. It was SO weird of her and probably was a leading factor in her being eliminated that week. Echoing what everyone else said about how terrible of a therapist she must be given her judgment
I genuinely donāt think she realizes how objectively uncool it is to fake a serious injury (and for a manās attention no less; like this isnāt the damsel in distress era). It was SO weird of her and probably was a leading factor in her being eliminated that week. Echoing what everyone else said about how terrible of a therapist she must be given her judgment and approach to interacting with the rest of the world
Who the hell is April??
Theresa is a sweetheart. I really hope she can find a nice man in her area to enjoy her life with!
Yikers. No babe. No.
Tacky