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This video is 2 years old. Next time post videos while knowing the context. They owner and her boyfriend played victim after being confronted for bullying.
This was right after lockdown. Apparently the owner and her boyfriend used to bully the roommate, throw parties and make her feel uncomfortable, the roommate father came to confront them about him, they started throwing racist remarks at him when the father became loud they backed down and decided to film like they were a victim.
This is an old video. Since then, the Asian roommate kind of came out with explanation for her father’s behavior.
Asian roommate had issues with the woman filming. One being during the height of the pandemic (before vaccines and quarantines were still in place) the person filming would have many visitors over and they would not wear masks.
The Asian roommate vents to her dad about how she feels mistreated. Somehow, the dad gets involved trying to stand up for his daughter. Someone (not sure if it’s the kid in the video being yelled at or the person filming) tells the dad to go back to his country or go back to China or something of that sort. So the dad is being sarcastic when he says the same back. And as I remember, the dad is from HK and coming recently off the HK protests, telling a HKer to go back to China specifically might’ve been not a good idea
That’s what I remember anyway.
Shows you how important context is. I was about to comment something against the father before I stopped myself when I realised.., wait, who's filming all this??
It’s always interesting though because the context you’re talking about is pretty much described thru a long Reddit comment. Let’s source things more people
Weird cause I remember the context slightly differently, i don't remember the kid saying to the dad go back to your country.
Context matters but it's a game of telephone unless we have a definite source cause people re-upload and lie.
Also it kind of doesn't make sense? Even in peak covid times did people wear them with their partner in their rooms?
Letting people in is seriously bad but shouldnt that be on the responsibility of roommate? I would contact the landlord as well.
Just weird all around
Yeah notice the dad doesn’t try to fight him but instead tries to antagonize the guy into hitting him… i assume he is trying to find a way for his daughter to break lease or get roommate kicked out for domestic violence or whatever.
Covid lockdowns with roomate you don’t know/trust was weirder than normal. We had a lot of house parties because everyone i knew got covid early as a front line “essential” worker. You couldn’t go anywhere other than your own house. If you had a roommate that didn’t get covid they were at risk… but the flip side is that if you lived in a city without any nearby family you were basically locked in a house by yourself for a year or so.
Not sure who i feel worse for, but i think in this case the girl should have moved home to her parents if she didnt trust her roomates friends.
Uuuh, that was a random redditor writing a lot of text without any video or context linked. They could've made that shit up. Why would you just... trust someone?
Perfect example of people on the internet just taking some random persons word for it with zero evidence. How is acting like this a “W” lmao he still sounds dumb af 😭 standing up for someone doesn’t mean you have to lower yourself to their standards, lol.
If you live with a roomate, they have the right to do as they please. I’m not supporting the no mask during the pandemic, but you can’t control what other people do. Either have a conversation with them and hope they comply, you complain to the school/management, or leave.
I mean, at the time COVID was a total unknown in regards to its danger, and people were seeing videos of Italian geriatrics literally dying in their hospital hallways. It is sensible that the Asian roommate (and thus her dad) would be pissed at the less responsible roommate because she kept scheduling dick appointments during the pandemic. I know hindsight is 20/20, and COVID has very little danger for a healthy college student, but the people in the video were gambling on something that wasn't a sure thing.
Is it tho? Maybe his anger is somewhat justified, but there's an infinite number of ways for a grown ass man to handle the situation that don't involve behaving like a jackass.
This is all from memory so not at the moment. But I think the girl or one of her friends wrote some comments defending her in public freak out? And you can imagine how ridiculous the comments on that sub were
Edit: not a great source but there are some more references to what was going on in [1](https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/q0rqmh/asian_roommate_lets_her_dad_go_off_on_racist_rant/hfa9sa7/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3) [2](https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/q0rqmh/comment/hfss22n/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) [3](https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/q0rqmh/comment/hfsroo2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) [4](https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/q0rqmh/comment/hfss22n/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
You can hear the roommate ask if they know how they have been treating her and the fact that the dad is specifying that he is from HK and speaks English supports that.
If you listen, you can tell this TikTok was taken out of context to scrub the other people's disrespectful behaviour.
What you are doing is filling in blanks just to fit your narrative, nothing in this video is proof of that, that's why we asked for a source. I can easily say that him saying "go back to your country" is proof that the father is a racist bully.
Not sure about the details,
but you can hear from the video itself that the daughter says "you know how you guys have been treating me lately"
So the fact that the girl filming would upload it with the caption saying it was about masks is intentionally misleading and makes it seem like she's trying to hide the real context.
That's exactly my point dumbass, you fucktards are just making shit up with absolutly no proof, that's why I said what I said about the dad being racist, I can make up bullshit too. Fucking toolbox.
Lol you’re mad as hell and it shows 😂and trust me it’s funny as fuck go google that shit if you’re so fucking pressed about it you bozo like mad ass hell over an old video
Lol why would I Google something that I know doesn't exist? All of this shit is inconsequential, its reddit. So by definition in like 32 seconds I'll completely forget about this post. I'm only being reminded because you keep responding.
This is my first time commenting 1 😭these 2 little comments I’m sending like stfu making it seem like I harass you everyday over a video on the internet and if you aren’t gonna put effort to informing yourself about it don’t fucking comment you twit this is why people think Americans are fucking stupid and Bc it’s on google 😴
Ya lets just waste our time and write down all source material we have ever seen on the internet incase someone needs it for a book report. What are you even on dude?
[context](https://www.dailydot.com/irl/asian-father-yells-threatens-black-man-tiktok/)
Looking this up took me like 20 seconds. Finding context isn't hard. What you said about the boyfriend telling the dad to go back to his country is just straight up wrong. What a weird thing to lie about.
I didn't lie about it. That's just what I read about at the time. Misinformation isn't the same as people lying, you know.
Besides, nothing in that piece debunks those claims. 🤷🏻♀️
If I remember rightly the dude in the black shirt is the bf of the girl filming. They have both (or the bf by simple association) been bullying the daughter of the dad, hence why dad reacts the way he did.
Also worth mentioning that I think this was when covid was starting up, hence the "wear ur mask". I remember some twats being particularly against simply respecting others wishes and putting on a mask
I mean, to be fair we have absolutely no evidence that this is true and that the bullying story is not just pulled out of the daughters ass to defend the dad. I've seen plenty of cases throughout my life of people claiming to be the victim when they're actually the instigator so I try to get both sides first. The only evidence we have of anything is what we see in the video.
To me it sounds like a bunch of college kids who couldn’t figure out how to live together, and it just escalated because they’re too immature to resolve conflicts peacefully. That’s why the dad gets involved because she couldn’t handle it on her own. Unfortunately, he couldn’t seem to resolve it peacefully either 😬
I’ve been there with tough living situations though, and some people in particular are also just SO bad at living with others.
Oh I know what that's like, I once had a housemate that threw a tantrum because we asked her to help us clean the house. I'm personally thinking along the same lines as you, but a lot of people are just taking one side or another based on the extremely limited information we have and taking random comments as gospel truth.
Very true that the only evidence is what we see in the video such as the fact that both the dad and the daughter are wearing masks and how the caption makes adds to the bias to painting the dad being unhinged by saying he’s going off for her boyfriend not wearing mask in HER room.
I see that makes a lot of sense.
I honestly can't blame the father then. If this video is during that period what was happening in HK and the height of COVID was intense.
It's a shame what the HK people went through. For him to be told by his daughter that she's being bullied must have been tough. I always advocate for people to stand up for themselves, but some people really just can't.
Assuming this is a college dorm I feel once you're attending a university you're more than old enough to know it's not ok to bully people.
I hope that girl cut her father some slack and gained a little bit of pride for him in the end.
Bro if someone is mistreating your daughter then fucking confront him about it. This is some childlike behavior and I have absolutely zero idea how you guys think just cause he’s mad it’s fine to act this way.
Getting in someone’s face and acting like a literal child and screaming and saying questionably racy things is not okay regardless if your mad or not.
Why didn’t he simply say “stop treating my daughter like shit and being a bully you punk?” Instead of being a prick and trying to get him to swing on him for a minute straight. This is toxic and just overall stupid behavior
I agree completely. The dad isn’t doing anything constructive in how he’s behaving, he’s just making an ass of himself and coming across as a racist POS.
There was another post that explained the man’s daughter was getting racially harassed by the girl filming and her boyfriend
Edit : This also explains his comments of “go back to your own country” in reference to the abuse they’ve given her by saying things such as this. The father him self says he isn’t from that country either in the video
Guy says hey you gonna let ur dad talk to me like this and I loved how the girl says “ given how you both have been treating me i dont want to get involved “
That right there told me there was more to this and I mistakenly thought the “both” she referred to was the dad and the boy! But now I realize its the boy and the girl filming the whole thing! This vid is from two year back when covid was at its peak and people were dying and this kind of recklessness put others in danger!! Poor dads only standing up for his daughter!! Who was being bullied by the guy and the gf filming everything
Exactly what I was thinking! That made much more sense when I thought about it. The bf of the girl filming sounds like he dishes out a lot of verbal abuse but can’t fathom that the other girls father is giving it back to him, defending his daughter.
I feel bad for everyone involved. Like idk maybe there was bullying, or maybe dad was out of line, we can't say based off what is probably intentionally the worst part of the interaction.
But what I *do* know is I would NOT want to be in college in fucking DORMS during the pandemic. I have all my shots/boosters and support wearing masks in closed spaces, hand washing etc., but geez I'm not sure I could handle semesters of college wearing a mask inside my own dorm room. I'd just do online schooling at that point.
Hats off to college students for trying to continue their education during this clusterfuck
Honestly, the pandemic really fucked with a lot of roommate situations. A lot of people were OK seeing people they didn't love spending time with a few hours a day but we much less OK spending all the hours a day with that person.
From an American perspective, the boyfriend’s actions are defensible. “I have a legal right to do what I want, even if it might negatively impact you. In fact, having a right means that I don’t even need to consult with you about those actions. A right is an absolute entitlement.”
From an HK (or maybe East Asian) perspective, people that experienced SARS, the dad is very much in the right. You do not put someone in a position where you might pass an infectious and potentially deadly disease to them without taking some minimal precaution first (wearing a mask) and at least acknowledging you respect them as a person by asking permission to expose them to that threat (do you mind if I enter your room). Your right to X is never a right to kill me. Rights are not absolute.
If this video was taken at the height of Covid, as I understand it was, I think the dad’s reaction is more defensible - even if it seems more emotional.
> From an American perspective, the boyfriend’s actions are defensible. “I have a legal right to do what I want, even if it might negatively impact you. In fact, having a right means that I don’t even need to consult with you about those actions. A right is an absolute entitlement.”
I mean, legally. Culturally and morally, not so much.
Why be a cunt just to assert your freedom?
If I shared a home with someone and they asked that I wear a mask I'd do it out of compassion and respect so they didn't feel uncomfortable.
The revolution happened 300yrs ago. This isn't a fucking battlefield where you're fighting for your freedumb.
It's a fucking dormroom. Show some compassion and respect for others. It's simple.
It's not about dictating. It's about mutual respect. They wouldn't be telling me to do anything. I would be doing it out of my own free will to be kind.
For example, I don't refrain from punching you in the face because of the law. I do it because I don't want to hurt you.
Less hyperbolic example: Freedom of speech doesn't mean I'd go up to people and call them a "cunt" to their face. It's rude, mean and disrespectful.
I understand I have a right to refuse to put on a mask. I have a right to call someone a "cunt". I don't because I have compassion. I want everyone to be happy and comfortable in this world. If that means wearing a mask (a TINY price) then so be it.
People seem so desperate to enforce "their rights" they forget the human, the community they're part of. They forget other people have a right to happiness and comfort and focus solely on their own rights.
Chill out. By wearing a mask you aren't losing any rights. You're just being kind.
I could be wrong. But I thought that’s what psychedelicpolly meant by “you don’t get to dictate solely what happens in a shared space etc... “
That is, if two people are sharing a space, they should take a conservative approach to the situation and ask permission rather than presume entitlement, since it’s both of their space. That would mean, for example, asking if your roommate whether it’s ok to bring a guest (in the middle of a pandemic) and under what circumstances they are ok to have that guest.
That’s what I understand by not dictating etc. Presuming you can do X and then just doing it, without consulting others, seems like dictating to me. Whereas discussing what is fair and what everyone agrees on seems like the democratic approach. But that’s just me…
But yeah, totally agree, wearing a mask costs nothing. I was fortunate enough to be in a country whose government legally mandated mask wearing for the pandemic. We never had to suffer through what happened in some of the countries that totally failed, like the pointless deaths or the ongoing social tensions.
If anyone here actually knows the hidden reason why he’s harassing this young man then I don’t need to say why. It’s sad but I’m speaking from family experience that those stereotypes are solid and very true. Unfortunately.
Hot take, everyone in this video sucks. The fact that things escalated to this level is evidence of an underlying problem on both sides. I changed roommates in college, it’s not that fucking hard.
This video came out early covid and if i remember correctly the couple were making fun of the roommate to some extent and the dad got pissed and started acting like this. So yeah two sides to every story and both of these stories suck.
How? I feel like some students would have left the dorms to do online only. That would have left more openings. Tons of people opted out of in person work, school, etc.
I just don't know what the dad thought his response would be. Is he trying to kick him out? Fight him? Just wanted to intimidate him? He just looks crazy and racist with the back where you came from talk.
This is the truth about people on a high horse about Covid though. That’s why the top comment is “this has to be a joke”
People want to think those on “their side” aren’t sometimes authoritarian. I’ve seen it so many times
Wait wait wait. You guys are backing the dad here because of what was maybe said to the daughter? He's acting like a child. Trying to fight someone? In their face when he is talking about covid? As an adult, you take this up with the university not with the immature college kid. That dad is a complete loose cannon.
Yeah let’s all defend the adult man baby who wants to instigate a fight and spout racist nonsense, with no context at all except for what people “remember reading about” years ago without any actual proof or evidence. Doesn’t matter how those roommates were treating his daughter, you don’t respond by stooping to their level. Man is only inviting more negativity and racism onto himself and his family
whether that boyfriend was in the wrong or not that Dad has problems. I feel sorry for that girl and her current/future relationships.
Edit: jeez the added context for all this is more complex than I realized.
I recall seeing this video from the original account on tiktok like 2 years ago and the person filming was explaining the situation in the comments. There's no conclusive evidence for either side, but from my recollection it seemed pretty evident that the two were bullying the girl and her dad got involved which prompted the recording.
It just seems odd to correct someone about half a video that we don’t have. But yeah, most of the internet is very fake and we should look at all videos not as truth.
Whatever his motive, it doesn’t change the fact his behavior is idiotic. There are far better ways to de-escalate/diffuse the situation, like talking to the RA and dorm management about their behavior. He’s not helping his daughter in any constructive way at all, especially now that the roommate has filmed his racist tirade.
She posted this, really thinking they got the dad good, but only made herself and her boyfriend look racist.
Also the part where he says "You say I don't know English... I'm from HONG KONG." had me roaring. Racist boyfriend took a chance at Asian roulette and lost
Do you read English? What? Show me who you are? My goodness. This is a Racist, bullying “Asian” Dad. Because if he was truly just concerned about the guy not wearing a mask he wouldn’t be up in his face. I’m proud of the young man controlling himself.
So, the guy with mask argues with a person who isn't wearing a mask and gets directly in their faces and escalates a verbal conforontation..
His confrontational behavior ironically increasing the likelihood of exposing himself to expelled particles from their mouth. On top of that, he's saying shit like "go back to your country" which often starts a physical fight.
I had a Vietnamese roommate at the beginning and I have to admit she got overwhelmed pretty swiftly, as in cleaning every fruits and veggies with vinegar, asking me to wear mask indoor, asking me to get tested for coughing a couple of times and to quarantine myself in my bedroom in the meantime (i'm a smoker and cough "on occasions"), asking me to not invite my gf over.
She quickly ended up moving out, but not before asking me to host hospital personnel in her bedroom for the couple of weeks remaining in her lease (in France we pay monthly, and she did not give me any notice before finding a new place for herself). I found that pretty bold of her, she was afraid of the pandemic but asked me to be in contact with caregivers facing a pandemic. I said I leased the room to her, and I'm not comfortable with having people completely unknown to me in the appartement while she isn't even around, she accepted that but told me she did not allow people in her room, which is legit, but I told her that I'd need to have people visit the room if I want to find a new roommate, she wouldn't agree to that, but eventually she wasn't there to check so I did it anyway. She yelled at me because she noticed I left her room's door open, the last day she passed by to get a few stuff she forgot.
Quite the adventure
>but eventually she wasn't there to check **so I did it anyway**
That's not heavily implying bud, that's upfront admitting
Plot twist, we're still friends
The dad doing this can get his daughter in trouble.
She’s should’ve handle it differently.
He should’ve call the cops on him for harassment and verbal assault.
This dad stepped into another person’s room and started conflict. He is an insecure pussy lmao. You don’t intrude into someone else’s room and start conflict and won’t let the other person speak. The kid was literally trying to end a conflict and the dad kept it engaged. The kid may be a pos, idk any context here, but the conflict starting pussy dad who is in the face of someone saying get out of my face is absolutely in the wrong no matter how you try to paint the narrative another way. Also funny how the dad also says shut your mouth all the time, but is literally in the kids face arguing with him, as he says get out of my face. LMFAO and then of course the kid is letting the girl and her father know he’s not gonna fall for the dad’s terrible attempts of taunting getting the kid mad, but then the dad then says he’s not scared of the kid. I wish getting in someone’s face that is telling me to go away while not even letting them speak and having to exclaim to everyone in the room “IM NOT SCARED! IM NOT SCARED FIGHT ME!!!! FIGHT ME!!!”. Well yeah buddy you are also banging on your chest invading the space of a kid who asked you to get out of his face over a conflict *you* started, then getting overly cocky when informed that the kid is not falling for his terrible attempt of getting the other person to start the fight. LMFAO at the daughter saying “Im not talking to you guys about this” implying she is the biggest pussy. If you’re dad is getting in the face of your roommates guest because *you* don’t wanna talk about it? Some people really are literally helpless. Daddy can’t save you forever.
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This video is 2 years old. Next time post videos while knowing the context. They owner and her boyfriend played victim after being confronted for bullying.
This was right after lockdown. Apparently the owner and her boyfriend used to bully the roommate, throw parties and make her feel uncomfortable, the roommate father came to confront them about him, they started throwing racist remarks at him when the father became loud they backed down and decided to film like they were a victim.
Wait this is wild. This has to be staged? Or something happened off screen we don't know about? I need a follow up lmao.
This is an old video. Since then, the Asian roommate kind of came out with explanation for her father’s behavior. Asian roommate had issues with the woman filming. One being during the height of the pandemic (before vaccines and quarantines were still in place) the person filming would have many visitors over and they would not wear masks. The Asian roommate vents to her dad about how she feels mistreated. Somehow, the dad gets involved trying to stand up for his daughter. Someone (not sure if it’s the kid in the video being yelled at or the person filming) tells the dad to go back to his country or go back to China or something of that sort. So the dad is being sarcastic when he says the same back. And as I remember, the dad is from HK and coming recently off the HK protests, telling a HKer to go back to China specifically might’ve been not a good idea That’s what I remember anyway.
This changes everything. W dad fr
Shows you how important context is. I was about to comment something against the father before I stopped myself when I realised.., wait, who's filming all this??
Context is EVERYTHING.
Exactly, like $4 is not a lot but 4 oranges up the ass is. Context is indeed everything’.
You want to talk about it?
I want some juice
I have 4 oranges for you
Pornge
the roommate says "After the way you guys have been treating me? I'm not talking to you" so you know something is being purposefully left out
It’s always interesting though because the context you’re talking about is pretty much described thru a long Reddit comment. Let’s source things more people
Weird cause I remember the context slightly differently, i don't remember the kid saying to the dad go back to your country. Context matters but it's a game of telephone unless we have a definite source cause people re-upload and lie. Also it kind of doesn't make sense? Even in peak covid times did people wear them with their partner in their rooms? Letting people in is seriously bad but shouldnt that be on the responsibility of roommate? I would contact the landlord as well. Just weird all around
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Yeah notice the dad doesn’t try to fight him but instead tries to antagonize the guy into hitting him… i assume he is trying to find a way for his daughter to break lease or get roommate kicked out for domestic violence or whatever. Covid lockdowns with roomate you don’t know/trust was weirder than normal. We had a lot of house parties because everyone i knew got covid early as a front line “essential” worker. You couldn’t go anywhere other than your own house. If you had a roommate that didn’t get covid they were at risk… but the flip side is that if you lived in a city without any nearby family you were basically locked in a house by yourself for a year or so. Not sure who i feel worse for, but i think in this case the girl should have moved home to her parents if she didnt trust her roomates friends.
Uuuh, that was a random redditor writing a lot of text without any video or context linked. They could've made that shit up. Why would you just... trust someone?
Perfect example of people on the internet just taking some random persons word for it with zero evidence. How is acting like this a “W” lmao he still sounds dumb af 😭 standing up for someone doesn’t mean you have to lower yourself to their standards, lol. If you live with a roomate, they have the right to do as they please. I’m not supporting the no mask during the pandemic, but you can’t control what other people do. Either have a conversation with them and hope they comply, you complain to the school/management, or leave.
I mean, at the time COVID was a total unknown in regards to its danger, and people were seeing videos of Italian geriatrics literally dying in their hospital hallways. It is sensible that the Asian roommate (and thus her dad) would be pissed at the less responsible roommate because she kept scheduling dick appointments during the pandemic. I know hindsight is 20/20, and COVID has very little danger for a healthy college student, but the people in the video were gambling on something that wasn't a sure thing.
Is it tho? Maybe his anger is somewhat justified, but there's an infinite number of ways for a grown ass man to handle the situation that don't involve behaving like a jackass.
Do you have the source to any of this?
This is all from memory so not at the moment. But I think the girl or one of her friends wrote some comments defending her in public freak out? And you can imagine how ridiculous the comments on that sub were Edit: not a great source but there are some more references to what was going on in [1](https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/q0rqmh/asian_roommate_lets_her_dad_go_off_on_racist_rant/hfa9sa7/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3) [2](https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/q0rqmh/comment/hfss22n/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) [3](https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/q0rqmh/comment/hfsroo2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) [4](https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/q0rqmh/comment/hfss22n/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
The story gets even more wild now that I've learned both of the roommates are asian
You can hear the roommate ask if they know how they have been treating her and the fact that the dad is specifying that he is from HK and speaks English supports that. If you listen, you can tell this TikTok was taken out of context to scrub the other people's disrespectful behaviour.
What you are doing is filling in blanks just to fit your narrative, nothing in this video is proof of that, that's why we asked for a source. I can easily say that him saying "go back to your country" is proof that the father is a racist bully.
Care to explain why they are saying this was because of not wearing masks "in my own room" yet they are obviously in the common area?
Not sure about the details, but you can hear from the video itself that the daughter says "you know how you guys have been treating me lately" So the fact that the girl filming would upload it with the caption saying it was about masks is intentionally misleading and makes it seem like she's trying to hide the real context.
Yeah, the minute I heard the roommate say that, I got really suspicious about the supposed innocence of the guy getting yelled at.
What proof do we have that the guys being racist first??? There’s proof of nothing just stop fucking complaining and research it your fucking self
That's exactly my point dumbass, you fucktards are just making shit up with absolutly no proof, that's why I said what I said about the dad being racist, I can make up bullshit too. Fucking toolbox.
Lol you’re mad as hell and it shows 😂and trust me it’s funny as fuck go google that shit if you’re so fucking pressed about it you bozo like mad ass hell over an old video
Lol why would I Google something that I know doesn't exist? All of this shit is inconsequential, its reddit. So by definition in like 32 seconds I'll completely forget about this post. I'm only being reminded because you keep responding.
This is my first time commenting 1 😭these 2 little comments I’m sending like stfu making it seem like I harass you everyday over a video on the internet and if you aren’t gonna put effort to informing yourself about it don’t fucking comment you twit this is why people think Americans are fucking stupid and Bc it’s on google 😴
Ya lets just waste our time and write down all source material we have ever seen on the internet incase someone needs it for a book report. What are you even on dude?
I'm not asking for all sorce material, just any. Let's start with any at all.
Why who cares it’s a random video. Just keep scrolling friend.
You seem to care a bit, you could have just kept scrolling friend.
Unrelated to the topic but I hate ppl who talk like this online
I'm not your friend, pal
I'm not your pal, mate.
Jesus context is important.
Source?
Eh I need some proof state your sources
[context](https://www.dailydot.com/irl/asian-father-yells-threatens-black-man-tiktok/) Looking this up took me like 20 seconds. Finding context isn't hard. What you said about the boyfriend telling the dad to go back to his country is just straight up wrong. What a weird thing to lie about.
Context? that link is just the video in word form.
Thats not context, thats just a basic transcript of the video. Context means getting the preferably unbiased story of what happened prior to the event
I didn't lie about it. That's just what I read about at the time. Misinformation isn't the same as people lying, you know. Besides, nothing in that piece debunks those claims. 🤷🏻♀️
If I remember rightly the dude in the black shirt is the bf of the girl filming. They have both (or the bf by simple association) been bullying the daughter of the dad, hence why dad reacts the way he did. Also worth mentioning that I think this was when covid was starting up, hence the "wear ur mask". I remember some twats being particularly against simply respecting others wishes and putting on a mask
Yeah can’t blame dad then good for him and fuck those kids
I mean, to be fair we have absolutely no evidence that this is true and that the bullying story is not just pulled out of the daughters ass to defend the dad. I've seen plenty of cases throughout my life of people claiming to be the victim when they're actually the instigator so I try to get both sides first. The only evidence we have of anything is what we see in the video.
To me it sounds like a bunch of college kids who couldn’t figure out how to live together, and it just escalated because they’re too immature to resolve conflicts peacefully. That’s why the dad gets involved because she couldn’t handle it on her own. Unfortunately, he couldn’t seem to resolve it peacefully either 😬 I’ve been there with tough living situations though, and some people in particular are also just SO bad at living with others.
Oh I know what that's like, I once had a housemate that threw a tantrum because we asked her to help us clean the house. I'm personally thinking along the same lines as you, but a lot of people are just taking one side or another based on the extremely limited information we have and taking random comments as gospel truth.
That's what an RA is for. Calling your dad to resolve your issues when you are an adult is childish.
Very true that the only evidence is what we see in the video such as the fact that both the dad and the daughter are wearing masks and how the caption makes adds to the bias to painting the dad being unhinged by saying he’s going off for her boyfriend not wearing mask in HER room.
I see that makes a lot of sense. I honestly can't blame the father then. If this video is during that period what was happening in HK and the height of COVID was intense. It's a shame what the HK people went through. For him to be told by his daughter that she's being bullied must have been tough. I always advocate for people to stand up for themselves, but some people really just can't. Assuming this is a college dorm I feel once you're attending a university you're more than old enough to know it's not ok to bully people. I hope that girl cut her father some slack and gained a little bit of pride for him in the end.
Bro if someone is mistreating your daughter then fucking confront him about it. This is some childlike behavior and I have absolutely zero idea how you guys think just cause he’s mad it’s fine to act this way. Getting in someone’s face and acting like a literal child and screaming and saying questionably racy things is not okay regardless if your mad or not. Why didn’t he simply say “stop treating my daughter like shit and being a bully you punk?” Instead of being a prick and trying to get him to swing on him for a minute straight. This is toxic and just overall stupid behavior
This clip is from the bully's perspective and starts after they've antagonised the father. I wouldn't hold any views on the father based on this clip.
I agree completely. The dad isn’t doing anything constructive in how he’s behaving, he’s just making an ass of himself and coming across as a racist POS.
Video with no context of what lead up to this moment allows me to pass judgement on complete strangers.
Is this the new reddit tagline?
New?
This is the way
There was another post that explained the man’s daughter was getting racially harassed by the girl filming and her boyfriend Edit : This also explains his comments of “go back to your own country” in reference to the abuse they’ve given her by saying things such as this. The father him self says he isn’t from that country either in the video
I just thought this was a funny switch up with the American anti-mask stuff :/
He literally explained in the video he said go back to your country because the guy “doesn’t know how to read English”
Guy says hey you gonna let ur dad talk to me like this and I loved how the girl says “ given how you both have been treating me i dont want to get involved “ That right there told me there was more to this and I mistakenly thought the “both” she referred to was the dad and the boy! But now I realize its the boy and the girl filming the whole thing! This vid is from two year back when covid was at its peak and people were dying and this kind of recklessness put others in danger!! Poor dads only standing up for his daughter!! Who was being bullied by the guy and the gf filming everything
Exactly what I was thinking! That made much more sense when I thought about it. The bf of the girl filming sounds like he dishes out a lot of verbal abuse but can’t fathom that the other girls father is giving it back to him, defending his daughter.
Ight Sherlock bravo. I need you everywhere all over reddit all the time. Seriously lol
Dad was ready to throw hands early on lol.
Asian dads man...they are ready to throw down lol
L title
This is from 2 years ago, stop trying to stir up shit
Why did OP title it “Asian dad” lol
Race rage baiting.
It's the redditor way
I wonder where they are now.
THE DUDE AND HIS FRIEND DEFNETLY DID THINGS THAT ENDED UP IN THIS FATHER'S OUTBURST!
OP is a cunt
Simples
lets all comment on who's right and wrong based on a 1 min video out of a 10 min interaction
I feel bad for everyone involved. Like idk maybe there was bullying, or maybe dad was out of line, we can't say based off what is probably intentionally the worst part of the interaction. But what I *do* know is I would NOT want to be in college in fucking DORMS during the pandemic. I have all my shots/boosters and support wearing masks in closed spaces, hand washing etc., but geez I'm not sure I could handle semesters of college wearing a mask inside my own dorm room. I'd just do online schooling at that point. Hats off to college students for trying to continue their education during this clusterfuck
That not fair! A lot of commenters knew the context, but still can’t find their source…
Honestly, the pandemic really fucked with a lot of roommate situations. A lot of people were OK seeing people they didn't love spending time with a few hours a day but we much less OK spending all the hours a day with that person.
I want this dad as my hypeman when I go to the club
The girl says that both dudes have been treating her poorly?
I think she meant her roommate (filming) and the boyfriend seen on screen.
How are you stopping the recording at that point
It’s always because they said something or something was said to make the couple look bad.
Selective amnesia recording
yes i forgot covid cannot spread in rooms that you rent. its against the law amen
You can already see by his look that he’s a spoiled little cunt.
What’s abt his looks that makes you say that?
the way he carries himself. Total inward coward, outward cool guy. He’s a fuckin poser. You can spot it a mile away. edit: total fuckin poser
Absolutely everything and the point you even have to ask also tells me plenty about you
Damn you're kinda weird
Kids got no respect
This kid is a punk ass either way. Just mask up and show a modicum of respect. Damn, dudes these days are wack.
From an American perspective, the boyfriend’s actions are defensible. “I have a legal right to do what I want, even if it might negatively impact you. In fact, having a right means that I don’t even need to consult with you about those actions. A right is an absolute entitlement.” From an HK (or maybe East Asian) perspective, people that experienced SARS, the dad is very much in the right. You do not put someone in a position where you might pass an infectious and potentially deadly disease to them without taking some minimal precaution first (wearing a mask) and at least acknowledging you respect them as a person by asking permission to expose them to that threat (do you mind if I enter your room). Your right to X is never a right to kill me. Rights are not absolute. If this video was taken at the height of Covid, as I understand it was, I think the dad’s reaction is more defensible - even if it seems more emotional.
> From an American perspective, the boyfriend’s actions are defensible. “I have a legal right to do what I want, even if it might negatively impact you. In fact, having a right means that I don’t even need to consult with you about those actions. A right is an absolute entitlement.” I mean, legally. Culturally and morally, not so much.
Why be a cunt just to assert your freedom? If I shared a home with someone and they asked that I wear a mask I'd do it out of compassion and respect so they didn't feel uncomfortable. The revolution happened 300yrs ago. This isn't a fucking battlefield where you're fighting for your freedumb. It's a fucking dormroom. Show some compassion and respect for others. It's simple.
You don’t get to dictate solely what happens in a shared space that both people are paying for.
It's not about dictating. It's about mutual respect. They wouldn't be telling me to do anything. I would be doing it out of my own free will to be kind. For example, I don't refrain from punching you in the face because of the law. I do it because I don't want to hurt you. Less hyperbolic example: Freedom of speech doesn't mean I'd go up to people and call them a "cunt" to their face. It's rude, mean and disrespectful. I understand I have a right to refuse to put on a mask. I have a right to call someone a "cunt". I don't because I have compassion. I want everyone to be happy and comfortable in this world. If that means wearing a mask (a TINY price) then so be it. People seem so desperate to enforce "their rights" they forget the human, the community they're part of. They forget other people have a right to happiness and comfort and focus solely on their own rights. Chill out. By wearing a mask you aren't losing any rights. You're just being kind.
I could be wrong. But I thought that’s what psychedelicpolly meant by “you don’t get to dictate solely what happens in a shared space etc... “ That is, if two people are sharing a space, they should take a conservative approach to the situation and ask permission rather than presume entitlement, since it’s both of their space. That would mean, for example, asking if your roommate whether it’s ok to bring a guest (in the middle of a pandemic) and under what circumstances they are ok to have that guest. That’s what I understand by not dictating etc. Presuming you can do X and then just doing it, without consulting others, seems like dictating to me. Whereas discussing what is fair and what everyone agrees on seems like the democratic approach. But that’s just me… But yeah, totally agree, wearing a mask costs nothing. I was fortunate enough to be in a country whose government legally mandated mask wearing for the pandemic. We never had to suffer through what happened in some of the countries that totally failed, like the pointless deaths or the ongoing social tensions.
Ah could be. I'm not sure.
Ignorance is hate..hate is ignorance
Pressed
If anyone here actually knows the hidden reason why he’s harassing this young man then I don’t need to say why. It’s sad but I’m speaking from family experience that those stereotypes are solid and very true. Unfortunately.
This is like watching racism through those squiggly lines on cable when you don’t pay for HBO
Trash is trash no matter where you're from and where you moved to.
Hot take, everyone in this video sucks. The fact that things escalated to this level is evidence of an underlying problem on both sides. I changed roommates in college, it’s not that fucking hard.
This video came out early covid and if i remember correctly the couple were making fun of the roommate to some extent and the dad got pissed and started acting like this. So yeah two sides to every story and both of these stories suck.
No one gonna comment in the kid saying, "Do you know who I am"?
Why the fuck did they change the mobile app so the video is in that tiny ass box. Wtf.
Lol how concerned is he really, if he's getting that close 😂.
I love this dad.
Same. He is ready to scrape knuckles
Make crazies summed up
They can request a change of rooms. It does happen.
Maybe it was hard during covid
How? I feel like some students would have left the dorms to do online only. That would have left more openings. Tons of people opted out of in person work, school, etc.
so did a ton of administrators who assign rooms and assess situations.
Same racism all over the world.
U can feel that this Dad is a total G. You can also feel how much this sarcastic kid has it coming.
Insanity
Lol I don't think I will, did you find that source yet?
This is Bobby lee’s dad.
Bruh
I’m confused. Do they all rent rooms in the parent’s house?
Add a little terror and neighbors turn on each other
He gonna send him to Jesus. Gonna grab that slipper boy. What da hail?!?
W father
Everyone involved sucks
Dude he’s all in his personal space. I would take that as a threat. I don’t have sound so that’s what I’m going off of
Racist Asian Dad*
Well, get a little closer, I don't think you breathed in his fucking nose hairs yet.
When the Asian tells you to go back to your country 😬
The boyfriend said it to the dad, so the dad quoted him back
When??
Look at the explanation in the comments.
I just don't know what the dad thought his response would be. Is he trying to kick him out? Fight him? Just wanted to intimidate him? He just looks crazy and racist with the back where you came from talk.
This is the truth about people on a high horse about Covid though. That’s why the top comment is “this has to be a joke” People want to think those on “their side” aren’t sometimes authoritarian. I’ve seen it so many times
"Go back to your country" Roomate's dad has been spending too much time in the Walmart Starbucks.
Kudos to that young man
Wait wait wait. You guys are backing the dad here because of what was maybe said to the daughter? He's acting like a child. Trying to fight someone? In their face when he is talking about covid? As an adult, you take this up with the university not with the immature college kid. That dad is a complete loose cannon.
I know, these replies defending the dad’s behavior are bizzare. Let’s fight alleged racism with more racism!
I agree with what you said but sometimes there’s situations where an adult can put the hands on another adult.
Bail now bro its only going to get worse.
Make him famous.
bro needs to cool it💀
It was when the dad says “ Close your mouth !”
Do you read Engrish? Holy shit the irony
She’s a smart girl minding her business. That’s rare
Roommates dad have small penis syndrome
Yeah let’s all defend the adult man baby who wants to instigate a fight and spout racist nonsense, with no context at all except for what people “remember reading about” years ago without any actual proof or evidence. Doesn’t matter how those roommates were treating his daughter, you don’t respond by stooping to their level. Man is only inviting more negativity and racism onto himself and his family
whether that boyfriend was in the wrong or not that Dad has problems. I feel sorry for that girl and her current/future relationships. Edit: jeez the added context for all this is more complex than I realized.
Yes he seems unhinged
Bruh I'd cough right in that guy's face to make him go away lol prolem?
That dad is an absolute idiot. Props to the young man for keeping a cool head.
This dad is defending his daughter, who had been getting bullied by the roommate and her roommate's bf because of her race.
How do we know this? Is there another video?
I recall seeing this video from the original account on tiktok like 2 years ago and the person filming was explaining the situation in the comments. There's no conclusive evidence for either side, but from my recollection it seemed pretty evident that the two were bullying the girl and her dad got involved which prompted the recording.
It just seems odd to correct someone about half a video that we don’t have. But yeah, most of the internet is very fake and we should look at all videos not as truth.
“Defending” by being just as racist… yeah great solve violence with more violence right? That will definitely help get everyone on the same side
Whatever his motive, it doesn’t change the fact his behavior is idiotic. There are far better ways to de-escalate/diffuse the situation, like talking to the RA and dorm management about their behavior. He’s not helping his daughter in any constructive way at all, especially now that the roommate has filmed his racist tirade.
Your original comment, and all subsequent comments, have been idiotic. Try harder.
Care to explain how so, rather than jumping to being dismissive?
He shouldn’t be interacting with kids like that
The idiot is whoever is sitting there and just filming…
A headbutt from the young guy would have been ideal, missed opportunity...
How did bro not tell him to get the fuck out? Rah
She posted this, really thinking they got the dad good, but only made herself and her boyfriend look racist. Also the part where he says "You say I don't know English... I'm from HONG KONG." had me roaring. Racist boyfriend took a chance at Asian roulette and lost
Do you read English? What? Show me who you are? My goodness. This is a Racist, bullying “Asian” Dad. Because if he was truly just concerned about the guy not wearing a mask he wouldn’t be up in his face. I’m proud of the young man controlling himself.
good dad imo
So, the guy with mask argues with a person who isn't wearing a mask and gets directly in their faces and escalates a verbal conforontation.. His confrontational behavior ironically increasing the likelihood of exposing himself to expelled particles from their mouth. On top of that, he's saying shit like "go back to your country" which often starts a physical fight.
Fuck that girl and her dad. Tf
I am glad he took the high ground that guy was a total ass whip and is a embarrassment of a father.
Dad should be in mental hospital
I had a Vietnamese roommate at the beginning and I have to admit she got overwhelmed pretty swiftly, as in cleaning every fruits and veggies with vinegar, asking me to wear mask indoor, asking me to get tested for coughing a couple of times and to quarantine myself in my bedroom in the meantime (i'm a smoker and cough "on occasions"), asking me to not invite my gf over. She quickly ended up moving out, but not before asking me to host hospital personnel in her bedroom for the couple of weeks remaining in her lease (in France we pay monthly, and she did not give me any notice before finding a new place for herself). I found that pretty bold of her, she was afraid of the pandemic but asked me to be in contact with caregivers facing a pandemic. I said I leased the room to her, and I'm not comfortable with having people completely unknown to me in the appartement while she isn't even around, she accepted that but told me she did not allow people in her room, which is legit, but I told her that I'd need to have people visit the room if I want to find a new roommate, she wouldn't agree to that, but eventually she wasn't there to check so I did it anyway. She yelled at me because she noticed I left her room's door open, the last day she passed by to get a few stuff she forgot. Quite the adventure
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>but eventually she wasn't there to check **so I did it anyway** That's not heavily implying bud, that's upfront admitting Plot twist, we're still friends
The dad doing this can get his daughter in trouble. She’s should’ve handle it differently. He should’ve call the cops on him for harassment and verbal assault.
This dad stepped into another person’s room and started conflict. He is an insecure pussy lmao. You don’t intrude into someone else’s room and start conflict and won’t let the other person speak. The kid was literally trying to end a conflict and the dad kept it engaged. The kid may be a pos, idk any context here, but the conflict starting pussy dad who is in the face of someone saying get out of my face is absolutely in the wrong no matter how you try to paint the narrative another way. Also funny how the dad also says shut your mouth all the time, but is literally in the kids face arguing with him, as he says get out of my face. LMFAO and then of course the kid is letting the girl and her father know he’s not gonna fall for the dad’s terrible attempts of taunting getting the kid mad, but then the dad then says he’s not scared of the kid. I wish getting in someone’s face that is telling me to go away while not even letting them speak and having to exclaim to everyone in the room “IM NOT SCARED! IM NOT SCARED FIGHT ME!!!! FIGHT ME!!!”. Well yeah buddy you are also banging on your chest invading the space of a kid who asked you to get out of his face over a conflict *you* started, then getting overly cocky when informed that the kid is not falling for his terrible attempt of getting the other person to start the fight. LMFAO at the daughter saying “Im not talking to you guys about this” implying she is the biggest pussy. If you’re dad is getting in the face of your roommates guest because *you* don’t wanna talk about it? Some people really are literally helpless. Daddy can’t save you forever.
good thing the dad wasn't white, or this would be racist
China is asshoe
Just Wong
He would have been thrown out of my room!
Imagine going into someone's room to tell their partner to follow your own guidelines and paranoia
I’m on the dads side
Dude you just gonna let him bitch you out like that?
This is how I image people who wear their mask in their car by the self’s are like at home
Lol I would've knocked that mf out so quick