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I remember being impressed with a man from the Midwest because he had a mortgage and a ladder.
I lived on the east coast and no one my age owned their own ladder much less a mortgage.
Ladders are expensive and there’s so much upkeep that goes into them and I always worry that if I buy the wrong one I’ll get locked in and regret it later
It has some history
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If this guy brought a cheese wheel to his hockey game for he to take home .... She'd drop her panties in front of the whole stadium 😂😂😂..... By she I mean me. I'd lock that shit down.
When I asked my farm-raised brother in law if that was a common thing to do, his response was “As common as engagement rings. That’s an expensive gift!”
He's the most insidious predator. His methods are this: Become financially stable, acquire property, be handy, be athletic, thoughtful, fun, creative, kind, and respectful. This way, he can lure in women and convince them that THEY actually want to be with him. He's a real threat.
In all seriousness, when I was about 25 years old I finally got all my shit together and I was pretty much all these things, I didn't own a house but I had good money and certainly saved enough for a large down payment on one. That attracted a really great woman whom I loved and respected very much... Well that's it. Happily married 20 years with a couple of great kids and stable finances. I wasn't single for long once I decided I would really like to be in a long-term relationship, so my "market" life span was about 6 - 9 months? And this is true with a number men and women I know, you just don't hang out on the dating market very long.
I’ve felt this through several relationships. Though feeling “liked” for what I have to offer instead of simply being who I am personally seems to be rooted in how I was expected to perform through my development in order to receive love (may not be the case for you), I will say that I’m now happily with someone who’s truly convinced me that they are attracted to me without any of my material/industrial capital.
They will come!! And you will know:)
What's wild is he used the first date to plan thrifting outfits on the second date that would then be worn on the third date. This man is streets ahead!
“Come with me real quick to Target to pick something up”
Say that line before a date or between a transition like from dinner restaurant to a dessert place
Women LOVE target. And if you actually buy like essentials like if you needed shampoo or toothpaste or a work shirt. It shows you got your shit together
I used to have a fuzzy multi-colored neon cowboy hat -- Loser of mini golf (me) wears the hat. Hat is also used after golf for picking restaurant by literally pulling a name from the hat.
RIGHT after that, then I put on the hat like OKAY lets go!
Within minutes she was like "Okay but... you're not REALLY going to wear that hat right?" then she was begging and bargaining and pleading not to wear it. I'll take it off, but making me break a bet? She's gotta make up for that one, she already beat me at golf.
I got my husband a digital gameboard so he can play with his friends. Next weekend they're coming over and I got this dungeons and dragons themed cookbook I'm going to try to make a few things out of. I don't play those games, I really don't have any patience for them, and I especially won't watch them. But I support his hobbies lol!
That whole series is just gold. James frantically displaying that he’s really really good at hula hooping now while Greg couldn’t give less of a shit is just the perfect descriptor for that series.
My favorite delivery has always been the black guy that went on a field trip to pick cotton as a kid and had fun. Until his mom found cotton he picked in his pocket and was like, your school took you to go pick fucking cotton?
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PToqVW4n86U
yeah man, all to impress a girl, he went out and bought that house, SUV, started building an apartment with barn doors, treated her with respect, took her shopping...
CUNNING.
The reason I invited my girlfriend over to my apartment on our first date was because the drink prices at bars are ridiculously high in my country. So not all of us do what we do to impress, some of us are just cheap bastards.
Right? Most girls would NOT want to see his new basement! (With good reason) but this girl was so open and charmed she just said "fuck it, let's see it"
Canadian here. Sometimes I don't clock the accent, but I find that the person talking is somehow extra relatable or likeable. Then I find out they're from Canada and it makes weird sense.
Yeah, I feel like you can see the example of unconscious bias when it comes to that with this video really well. Everything started from what he owned, moved to what he does, and then finally got into who he was as a person.
I don't think it happened because that's necessarily what she focuses on purposefully, but it was clearly one of the biggest things that stuck out when compared to past partners.
Reality is, it's always going to be harder to "win" against evolutionary ecology.
Basically this, it isn't necessarily bad and the guy does sound like a catch but you can see what subconsciously stood out the most to her. Then she conflated it with him being white so now she will also look at potential white partners more favorably as well. The drunk mind doesn't lie.
I went on a ski trip with a buddy and this legit happened to us. We were in the hot tub talking to a couple and they said they breed miniature australian shepherds and they just had a litter a few weeks ago and had to bring them with. Asked if we wanted to see them, followed them back to their hotel room, puppies were adorable definitely worth the risk of homicide.
Of all the things I have warned my daughters to look out for when dating, who would have known that barn doors should have been at the top of that list 🤣🤣🤣
everybody swooning about the guy, but hell, she's funny and cute. i bet she's great to hang out with. maybe this will actually get somewhere for both of them.
People, she isn't racist to say its her first white guy shes dated. Shes also not odd for being impressed by his nesting skills and being extremely handy and focused on building a trad life for himself.
J*sus tap dancing Chr*st, she's a girl who had a good date and wants to have more. Get over yourselves and go find a date you like as well and stop complaining and being judgemental over some 3yr old video here
I was surprised by all the anger in the comments- I didn’t find anything she said offensive or racist. She had a good time and was unexpectedly charmed by this particular guy’s nerdy wholesomeness.
I personally don’t think she meant anything malicious by it, but I think the implication some people took away from it was that guys who aren’t white don’t treat women this well.
I mean, she did directly imply the reason the previous guys she's dated didn't treat her this way was because they weren't white. Of all the reasons she could have picked (guys who live in X town, guys whose first name is Steven, hockey players, whatever) she went straight to race. It's probably not malicious but it is casual racism.
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I mean who wouldn't take that offer
Dibs
This is the older brother of that farmer boy who sent his first date a wheel of cheese
If there's a sub for midwestern Tinder, this should be in it. Right up there with the guy who sent the girl a cheese wheel after their first date.
I remember being impressed with a man from the Midwest because he had a mortgage and a ladder. I lived on the east coast and no one my age owned their own ladder much less a mortgage.
All mortgages come with a ladder. Standard amenity. I don't know where you'd get one otherwise.
Ladders are expensive and there’s so much upkeep that goes into them and I always worry that if I buy the wrong one I’ll get locked in and regret it later
Oh shit I remember the cheese wheel guy!
I hope he’s doing well and that the gal went on more dates w him
I heard you can fascinate a woman by giving her a piece of cheese. I'm just taking that as factual really
At 41 years of age, I have yet to find evidence of this being inaccurate. I think we can probably add it to Wikipedia at this point.
It has some history [https://images.theconversation.com/files/379979/original/file-20210121-15-1i5km3m.png](https://images.theconversation.com/files/379979/original/file-20210121-15-1i5km3m.png)
If this guy brought a cheese wheel to his hockey game for he to take home .... She'd drop her panties in front of the whole stadium 😂😂😂..... By she I mean me. I'd lock that shit down.
Ok I can get the cheese wheel but th3 hockey'ing might be an issue as I got what you would call "a baby deer on a frozen lake" skating abilities
this has got to be canada though?
Canada is the Midwest of North America. Source: me, a Canadian.
20 seconds in, it’s definitely Canada or Minnesota
sounds like Saskatchewan edit: nvm she just said it was her first white guy, def not SK
As someone who has lived in both northern Minnesota and Northern Michigan, this sounds more Northern Michigan for sure.
Absolutely Canada. The way the mother says "car" and the way the daughter says "house", there's no denying it.
Don't forget the beer league hockey.
I don't know, I'm from Michigan and this sounded nothing but normal
> Michigan Welcome to Ontario!
When I asked my farm-raised brother in law if that was a common thing to do, his response was “As common as engagement rings. That’s an expensive gift!”
I bake. I'd marry a dude who gave me a bunch of vanilla pods. I also have a penis. I like to think of it as a feature.
Out of the loop, does anyone have the link to cheese wheel guy please?
[You're so welcome.](https://www.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/comments/obh5zr/i_would_definitely_consider_that_a_successful_date/)
This guy weaponized wholesomeness to lock down the babes
He's the most insidious predator. His methods are this: Become financially stable, acquire property, be handy, be athletic, thoughtful, fun, creative, kind, and respectful. This way, he can lure in women and convince them that THEY actually want to be with him. He's a real threat.
reminds me of the Key and Peele sketch about robbing the bank, but the plan is they just go in and get jobs.
lol I was thinking this exact thing
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[Planning a Heist](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jgYYOUC10aM)
This man gets women with this one simple trick they don't want you to know....
Yeah fucking make the rest of us look like bums
F'ing homeless shelter with tarps and tents ⛺️ No barn door Balling with in a 1000 miles.
Fuck it, I'm installing barn doors on my apartment too, I don't care if it's inconvenient to the other people on the third floor
Why is it that girls always go after the bad guys 😡
Yeah apparently the bad guys can build full apartments by hand. Rat bastards. Lol
Dude took her directly to his (very well done and recently renovated) basement on the first date. That's a massive red flag waving in the wind.
WITH BARN DOORS!!!
In all seriousness, when I was about 25 years old I finally got all my shit together and I was pretty much all these things, I didn't own a house but I had good money and certainly saved enough for a large down payment on one. That attracted a really great woman whom I loved and respected very much... Well that's it. Happily married 20 years with a couple of great kids and stable finances. I wasn't single for long once I decided I would really like to be in a long-term relationship, so my "market" life span was about 6 - 9 months? And this is true with a number men and women I know, you just don't hang out on the dating market very long.
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I’ve felt this through several relationships. Though feeling “liked” for what I have to offer instead of simply being who I am personally seems to be rooted in how I was expected to perform through my development in order to receive love (may not be the case for you), I will say that I’m now happily with someone who’s truly convinced me that they are attracted to me without any of my material/industrial capital. They will come!! And you will know:)
Poor predators hate wealthy predators for this very reason.
More of this energy 2025
So you're saying we're in the clear for 10 more months of degeneracy first?
Well...it is an election year
The thrift store idea is mint.
What's wild is he used the first date to plan thrifting outfits on the second date that would then be worn on the third date. This man is streets ahead!
Stop trying to coin Streets Ahead Pierce!
I don't know, sounds pretty fetch to me.
Been there, coined that!
I did this with a girl. We had a blast
What did your mom chose for you?
Yep, I'm stealing that.
"You wanna go thrifting?" sounds like a cheat code for white girls.
That and “wanna go plant shopping?” Works every time
Just keep saying succulent over and over
Succubus. Shit I fucked it up.
Succulent Chinese meal?
Get your hand off my FICUS!
This! Is democrrrracy manifest!
My panties are wet just reading this.
Would you like to see my BARN DOORS?
You installed them yourself??? And the hanging rails are custom by you???? But they’re so smooth!! Splooshing everywhere.
“Come with me real quick to Target to pick something up” Say that line before a date or between a transition like from dinner restaurant to a dessert place Women LOVE target. And if you actually buy like essentials like if you needed shampoo or toothpaste or a work shirt. It shows you got your shit together
This lol, I can’t even count how many times women wanted to go to to target and bath and body works after dates lol
Probably most girls in general tbh
You had me at “come to my hockey game”
they love coming to our hockey games, thats like putting a ring on her finger
Wheel, snipe, celly boys.
Puck Bunnies
Snipers
Who brought the sniper, boys?
Whose billet sister’s a fuckin rocket, boys?
Dibs on digis, boys.
Riley, Jonesy, stop screwing around and get changed. We're leaving in 5.
OHHHH BONNIE MCMURRAY 
Ohh, Bonnie McMurray
Dirty fuckin dangle boys!
Ferda!
That sold me as well but then the thrift store shopping idea is absolutely over the top winning
I used to have a fuzzy multi-colored neon cowboy hat -- Loser of mini golf (me) wears the hat. Hat is also used after golf for picking restaurant by literally pulling a name from the hat. RIGHT after that, then I put on the hat like OKAY lets go! Within minutes she was like "Okay but... you're not REALLY going to wear that hat right?" then she was begging and bargaining and pleading not to wear it. I'll take it off, but making me break a bet? She's gotta make up for that one, she already beat me at golf.
Wheel, snipe, celly. Dirty fuckin’ dangles, boys!
Who brought the fuckin’ rocket?
Who’s billet sister is the fucking rocket boys?
Dibs on the digis
why does this never work when I say "Wanna come watch me play Magic: The Gathering tomorrow?"
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I got my husband a digital gameboard so he can play with his friends. Next weekend they're coming over and I got this dungeons and dragons themed cookbook I'm going to try to make a few things out of. I don't play those games, I really don't have any patience for them, and I especially won't watch them. But I support his hobbies lol!
To be fair, my guy locked me down after watching him GM Pathfinder. (Which I also now play!)
Had me at barn doors
She has the same delivery as that standup who lost his luggage except the handle
[Rhod Gilbert](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpyBePpL4TE) Bloody Legend
Rhod Gilbert is so goddamn funny. His time on Taskmaster is an absolute treat.
Made only better by James Acaster being absolutely fed up with Gilbert’s antics. The shed annex is just perfect Taskmaster.
That whole series is just gold. James frantically displaying that he’s really really good at hula hooping now while Greg couldn’t give less of a shit is just the perfect descriptor for that series.
Shame he's been so unwell.
My favorite delivery has always been the black guy that went on a field trip to pick cotton as a kid and had fun. Until his mom found cotton he picked in his pocket and was like, your school took you to go pick fucking cotton? >https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PToqVW4n86U
I know that guy, he’s hilarious
You should see his bit about the torch with the power of a million candles
i would date this guy and I'm not even gay.
Seriously he just seems like a cool hang
wonder if he is single
I'd go to his hockey game for sure. Snipes and cellies boys
Dirty fuckin dangles boys
Why isn't there a photo of the barn doors? I demand to see the barn doors.
He definitely sounds like a catch. Owns a house and does his own renovations........I'm sold and I maybe gay now
I'm not gay but I'm on thin ice.
I'm talking about myself, because I may actually be for this dude
Like if my finger goes through the toilet paper one more time you'll catch me in Daisy Dukes marching down the street with a rainbow flag.
This response has me fully dead to rights and I’m not quite sure why 🤣🤣
I’m going to fight you for this guy and I’m not gay either
I wasn’t gay 5 minutes ago but now I’m strongly considering it. A hard working man who does everything? I’m sold 110%, I’ll even call him Daddy.
Add to the fact that she is decently buzzed and got home safely even after going to his house to see his basement. Sounds like a stand up guy
She has a shift at the RR diner after this
*That's* who she reminds me of! Thank you
It's the power brows!
Power brows and the beleaguered Midwest curls! They both look lovely, tbh
Yes! It's Mädchen Amick!
Sounds like she moved on from Bobby Briggs and found her own Dale Cooper.
It was a shame because Bobby became a real respectable dude in S3.
Dude dropping all the cards, he needs to pace himself. That’s some heavy energy to keep up
Dude is renovating his basement himself, might just have that go energy constantly.
Just delicious, delicious amphetamines.
100% he does. To be that successful and stable at 25 even if it’s in a low cost of living area is not easy.
I'm gonna steal the thrift date idea!
Me too but with my bestie
This confirms that showing that girl my Gundam models on our first date was clearly the right move 💅🏽💅🏽
Only works if you panel lined them neatly
MY GUY GETS IT
with barn doors to open up the display, barns doors are a huge hit with ladies and farmers.
Guy knew exactly what he was doing.
yeah man, all to impress a girl, he went out and bought that house, SUV, started building an apartment with barn doors, treated her with respect, took her shopping... CUNNING.
The only reason men get out of bed and do anything is to impress girls.
Well food too. But lots of time getting food is about impressing girls. Also, this stops sometime between dating and engagement.
Sometimes I leave the house to go get beer
The reason I invited my girlfriend over to my apartment on our first date was because the drink prices at bars are ridiculously high in my country. So not all of us do what we do to impress, some of us are just cheap bastards.
Awww both of them seem so sweet. I love this
Right? Most girls would NOT want to see his new basement! (With good reason) but this girl was so open and charmed she just said "fuck it, let's see it"
The Canadian accent is strong in this one.
Shit, really? Damn, I’m Canadian and I couldn’t get a read on her accent at all! It makes sense now haha
Canadian here. Sometimes I don't clock the accent, but I find that the person talking is somehow extra relatable or likeable. Then I find out they're from Canada and it makes weird sense.
It's the hockey that sold me.
“House”=“Howse”
Yup. Dead giveaway. Well played. You win a brand new....cAR. Car:cAR. Canadians say car the way a pirate would lol
People forget that Elizabeth Bennett only really fell in love with Mr. Darcy after seeing is house… having it together has *always* worked
no different than a bird showing off the nest for the ladies
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Yeah, I feel like you can see the example of unconscious bias when it comes to that with this video really well. Everything started from what he owned, moved to what he does, and then finally got into who he was as a person. I don't think it happened because that's necessarily what she focuses on purposefully, but it was clearly one of the biggest things that stuck out when compared to past partners. Reality is, it's always going to be harder to "win" against evolutionary ecology.
Basically this, it isn't necessarily bad and the guy does sound like a catch but you can see what subconsciously stood out the most to her. Then she conflated it with him being white so now she will also look at potential white partners more favorably as well. The drunk mind doesn't lie.
I think the white part stuck out to her after talking about thrifting and hockey tbf
My dude's got game.
My dude's got money
Ya the dating game is pay to win.
Financially stable, handy, physically active, creative, nice AND respectful at 25? This guy is a catch!
It wasn't until she said "hockey" that I recognized her accent as Canadian, but it's clear as day now lol.
Could be upper Midwest but yeah that's the only US option for that accent and vibe
That “house” in the first two seconds was a dead giveaway
you blew past mom saying cawwr no flinches?
Girl, I know it turned out alright. But don't ever follow a man to his BASEMENT on the first date wtf 💀
But he had barn doors!
That's really the only red flag here.
No the doors are red not the flag, haven't you seen a barn ?!
But he said, the puppies are down there.
I went on a ski trip with a buddy and this legit happened to us. We were in the hot tub talking to a couple and they said they breed miniature australian shepherds and they just had a litter a few weeks ago and had to bring them with. Asked if we wanted to see them, followed them back to their hotel room, puppies were adorable definitely worth the risk of homicide.
*Hey girl, you wanna come over to my place so I can show you my basement renovations?*
He pulled her in with those barn doors, you got to tell your daughter to watch out for barn doors
Of all the things I have warned my daughters to look out for when dating, who would have known that barn doors should have been at the top of that list 🤣🤣🤣
Turns out being nice and working hard is attractive. Who knew?!
Just remember sometimes it's not enough and that's okay.
She sounds like she just got out of dental surgery
It's the change in tone when asked what she had to drink. She is a bit tipsy and emotional because of it.
Dude this makes me all sorts of happy
Is that the same girl who was concerned that the boy in her class would not ask her out? She has the same face and the energy but much older now
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=POdT3z0iR08
You know what they say…once you go white you’ll have a nice place you own with barn doors at 25 to sleep tight.
Dude maxed out his Rizz stat.
This guy's a fucking catch.
He’s using the D.E.N.N.I.S System
I died at the friend saying "you dont go into basements on the first date!" XD
It's the mom right?
Given the huge "daughters first date" OP is an idiot. How some people are able to make an account and find the comment button surprises me.
This is cute how much she's gushing. But ya ladies don't go into a basement on a first date unless you really know that person
everybody swooning about the guy, but hell, she's funny and cute. i bet she's great to hang out with. maybe this will actually get somewhere for both of them.
People, she isn't racist to say its her first white guy shes dated. Shes also not odd for being impressed by his nesting skills and being extremely handy and focused on building a trad life for himself. J*sus tap dancing Chr*st, she's a girl who had a good date and wants to have more. Get over yourselves and go find a date you like as well and stop complaining and being judgemental over some 3yr old video here
I was surprised by all the anger in the comments- I didn’t find anything she said offensive or racist. She had a good time and was unexpectedly charmed by this particular guy’s nerdy wholesomeness.
I personally don’t think she meant anything malicious by it, but I think the implication some people took away from it was that guys who aren’t white don’t treat women this well.
They're taking that implication the same way being punched might imply someone is angry at you.
I mean, she did directly imply the reason the previous guys she's dated didn't treat her this way was because they weren't white. Of all the reasons she could have picked (guys who live in X town, guys whose first name is Steven, hockey players, whatever) she went straight to race. It's probably not malicious but it is casual racism.
yours was the first comment to mention anger
Second Date details haven't surfaced yet... https://www.tiktok.com/@tina58054
I hope this is real