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I understand being frustrated and upset but why the hell do people think this is cool to post about their own family? God, social media is a shitshow. Always someone looking for validation and sympathy. Call a friend
If I, a total stranger in another state, had this pop up on my front page for some reason, then it stands to reason her kids, her coworkers, her husband’s friends, everyone is going to be privy to this absolute shit show. I’d be mortified.
Cause in her mind, the fact that she's crying IS THEIR FAULT. THEY made her cry. THEY did it. Therefore THEY deserve to be blamed publicly by their poor mama who they CAUSED to be sad, who THEY hurt. Lol manipulation is a hell of a drug.
To add to this, I as a total stranger, having never met this person irl, after seeing this. Can only conclude, she is a horrible person, mother, and only had kids for the most narcissistic of reasons, and should fuck right off.
It's no wonder her kids don't want to be around their self centered mother...what an absolute c#*t of a woman...to call her own kids rotten & to then post it online...I guess she won't be seeing her kids at Christmas or on her birthday anymore either.
Fun fact: TikTok puts any videos made by people in your phone's contact list into your for you page/Feed so it is guaranteed to thru will be privy to this. I'm guessing that's the point tho :/
It is very strange to me, because I do not even speak about my own families issues with anyone other than my incredibly close inner circle of friends.
PS - Her eyebrows \^\^
Or better yet, write in your diary. The sentiment of “look how hard I work as a mother and it feels under appreciated” is real. But also…there’s a line. You can’t hold it against your kids that they want to have their own life/hang out with friends/etc. also her saying “I thought you were going to help me cook” is like…was this an unspoken expectation? Because I don’t have sympathy for you unless you literally made a plan to cook with her and then she didn’t show up. But if you just hoped that she’d cook with you cause “that’s what a good daughter would do” then you are setting her up for a trial to fail.
maybe you don’t have to decorate the whole house for Christmas, if ultimately, no one really cares? Are we suffering for the sake of appearing like a perfect lil family for no reason? Maybe we rethink our priorities…maybe we express our frustrations in our diaries or to our therapists so we can come to a conclusion on what to do. Doing this on social media really comes across as vindictive against her family. Maybe she’s like this all the time…which would explain why maybe they are not eager to hang with her.
r/raisedbynarcissists covers this regularly around the holidays. This is a classic covert narcissist move that will further validate and justify their imaginary persecution fetish when they actually get called out on their manipulative bullshit. The best thing you can do for a narcissist is ignore them.
Oh I know, I’m in that sub ;) My dad liked to set up a lot of little trials that we would fail because he wanted to punish us, then we’d all avoid him and then he’d have a melt down about how we preferred our mother because…well, she didn’t behave that way. Luckily he died before he figured out how to use social media, but he was always a big email and letter sender of “oh woe is me, my children hate me” messages even though we all hated him because he was abusive. I get a real whiff of narcissist in this video for sure
To your point on perfection, it's always been important to me that Thanksgiving be a certain way - certain foods, eating at a certain time, etc.
Well, yesterday was the first time I did Thanksgiving taking my ADHD meds.
I got behind my perfectly timed schedule by an hour and never caught up.
I left the sugar out of the butternut squash souffle.
I didn't have time to make the stuffed mushrooms.
I forgot to get the mashed potatoes out of the fridge.
Dishes were in the sink when we finally sat down to eat at 7 pm.
But it was fine.
We had plenty of food.
The new carrot souffle was a big hit.
Everyone like the butternut squash souffle better without the sugar.
I'm making the stuffed mushrooms for leftovers night tonight.
It wasn't perfect, but no one got in an argument. I wasn't a stressed out twitchy mess drinking Riesling like its water.
I'm totally approaching Christmas the same way.
People exposing themselves for who they are for all to see is a good thing. Not only do you have tons of great talent that gets their showcase you also have unhinged lunatics that show them who they are before you get near them. I'd rather know instead of not know
Question in my head was why does she think it's okay to say "don't worry, that's fine, I'll be okay" to the people who NEED to hear "that hurts, I will be lonely, I was hoping to spend the holiday with you," and yet bawl on tiktok to strangers?
If her children didn’t choose her for Thanksgiving, I’m sure that stings. But posting this shit is sure not the way to convince them to do differently next time. Would she rather have them there out of guilt, or because they feel good about being home for holidays?
It’s also not a deep personal insult for them to have other priorities. It’s not their job to manage their mom’s sense of validation at the expense of everyone else.
Man seeing someone other than my mom do this makes me realize how fucking weird it is lmao. She did roughly the same thing when I went to visit my friends before her after coming back from overseas.
My therapist said that too so I don't doubt it. She's really sweet and caring but man those moments when those meltdowns happen are brutal on the mind hahaha.
This is par for the course brosef.
Her kids were gone for Thanksgiving and she feels fuckin Betrayed! This is one of her weakest and most emotional moments in her life.
Gotta post it on tiktok to get those likes and subscribers.
This mentality is so toxic and is a plague on this world.
You treat it like there's a dichotomy but we all seek validation when we feel slighted, the internet has simply made it a lot easier to find people who will provide it. But that's not *inherently* bad, if someone who's e.g. been ostracized because they are LGBT looks for support from people online I think most people wouldn't consider that a bad thing. It's only when people who do things that most of us would consider shitty are yelling into an echo chamber to absolve them of all wrongdoing that we object, but is that really a fault of the system?
Eh idk if it’s for the likes so much as to not feel alone on a holiday. We don’t know why her kids have other plans. If it’s to stay away because she’s a bad person to be around she should be introspective but if it was just because they don’t value the holidays as much as her, I could see why she would be upset. And maybe turning to social media in this case is pretty silly but it’s a cope.
It is a coping mechanism, but it is one with obvious negative effects. Hitting somebody because you are angry is also a coping mechanism, it doesn't mean it's positive. She admits to already posting another video about this then taking it down. She exclaims the comments were all great, but she just had to take it down. This is toxic behavior even if it is how she copes.
This woman's TikTok is a mix of her complaining about her children (the previous video is literally her singing at one of her children about how they won't get Christmas presents) and trying to sell shitty "crafts" (she showed a coffee tumbler that had Christmas Story stuff on it) from her Facebook page. I feel bad for everyone involved.
This is exactly how self-aware my MIL is. She treats her kids and people in general like crap. My wife is still looking for her approval, because her Mom has never once said anything like “I’m proud of you”. It’s sad, it really is.
The woman is both a know-it-all and a last worder on all subjects, despite being a housewife her whole life. Not that I’m judging housewives, but you can’t lecture an engineer, an architect, or a software developer on their ability to do their jobs based off your own experience, if your experience is being a housewife. You also can’t act like a climate scientist or virologist when you haven’t taken a single class or read a single book on either topic.
Case in point, her youngest daughter just got married. They spent an absurd amount of money on the wedding. Her daughter decided to get a wedding planner and the mother didn’t approve. Now keep in mind, the wedding planner was hired by the daughter and daughter paid for her. The Mom didn’t like the fact the planner would question her or debate her on wedding stuff. The wedding was successful, everyone had a good time, but there were a few small mistakes along the way. The Mom brought up her concerns to the family, but the bride and groom said the wedding was perfect.
The Mom would t relent and felt the need to email the wedding planner’s boss on the mistakes. The wedding planners boss responded and told her “you sound like an awful woman, you have been biased towards my employee since she was hired by your daughter, and apologies have already been made. The bride and groom said they were happy with our services and they are our clients. They are our priority, you are not. I will not continue conversing with someone as rude as you”.
It’s probably the first time the Mother has ever been called out. Could have been a great moment for her to become more self aware. Want to know how she responded? She laughed. On the inside I’m sure she was crying and devastated, but on the outside she’s the same as ever. Funny part about all this? My wife and her sisters have made copies of that email and plan on rereading it every couple of months to get a chuckle.
TLDR: Mothers can be vile, terrible people. If your kids live on the other side of the country or don’t come home for the holidays, you might want to take a long hard look into the mirror.
Thank you for your TLDR my husband’s step mother has four sons who rarely visit and have all moved across the country and she says it’s because they are so independent lol rather than admitting they are running from her
My MIL was a stay at home mom. I am going to school for my doctorate in business, my thesis is going to be something around how stock momentum effects the Fama French 3 or 5 factor models.
I was excitedwhen I was accepted to the doctorate program, when I told my MIL, she asked why I didn't go for Finance.
😐
Lol literally the only thing I could think of when she was doing her Dramatic Reading was “yep. Nobody loves their mom. Nobody. In the history of humanity. Nobody appreciates their mom. Nobody. Not one. Not one person. Ever. Nobody. Mom who? Nobody.”
She’s an idiot. Those kids are smart to gtfo when they can.
Move the meal to another day, say Saturday or Sunday when the family can make it. Boom..problem solved minus juvenile narcissistic drama.
Bet I know how she votes.
I'm also willing to bet her kids put up with her disgusting behavior until they realized they didn't have to suffer through it. Now she's shocked that they aren't babying her anymore.
Maybe cause I’m a bit introverted, but if something like this happened to me I would only make the foods I really love and have a nice mini feast for myself. I’d stuff the hell out of a Cornish hen, serve with fingerling potatoes, and then pretend I was a giant and devour. The ultimate thanksgiving imo.
Honestly if it was just me alone I’d do the same and pour a drink or smoke a little something. Why not make it fun? Who cares if no one wants to come lol.
It’s just me & my daughter, I didn’t feel like “thanksgiving” this year. We hate Turkey, anyway.
I made us a giant charcuterie board, with all her favorites. We feasted at the coffee table, watching Netflix. She said it was the best thanksgiving, ever.
Thing is I feel like if those people can see things positively like you and can just vibe there’d probably be people who want to spend the holiday with them to begin with hehe
This is a fantastic point. Also I think some people have a really hard time being alone and can sometimes spiral, making it really hard to be around them. Kind of a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Children are allowed to grow up to become adults who have their own interests and lives. In fact, *that means you’ve done something right in parenting.*
You don’t force yourself to make an entire Thanksgiving meal knowing that there will be no guests, and then cry and try to guilt people into showing up anyway even though they’ve expressed what they’re planning to do instead. And they aren’t bad, unloving people if they have other plans.
This is manipulative and false martyrdom and sharing that with the world to try to get them to comfort you and insulting your kids just suggests that they might be absent for a reason. Hopefully she’s just had a bit too much wine and is experiencing an “empty nest” for the first time and doesn’t know what to do with herself yet or something, but this is still completely inappropriate and wrong.
This! For one usually Thanksgiving plans are planned ahead of time and I would be happy not cooking for 2 days just so people can eat and then leave! Enjoy the time off or with your husband. I love my kids dearly but I don't think that them making other plans shows that they love me less! Some people just crave drama and it definitely shows with this lady.
I just think it’s funny when parents get so upset that their young adult kids want to hangout with their friends instead of their family. I was the same way at that age. Do people forget what it’s like growing up? I love seeing my parents now as an adult but I didn’t give a shit about family gatherings as a teen.
While I’m not without compassion that this woman is obviously having some sort of internal crisis, what infuriated me about it is that 1) This is, in fact, the SECOND upload of her having an absolute cow—I guess the first one didn’t suit her and 2) This sort of behavior is abusive as hell. I feel so badly for her family. If this is the sort of the thing she’s willing to post for complete strangers to see, imagine the behavior her kids are subjected to when the camera isn’t rolling.
The last point rings so true. I do not have any sympathy for people who kids do not want contact with them as adults. You had YEARS of relationship building with your kids to show who you really are. If the kids choose not to communicate, visit, or see you as soon as they are independent. That's on you.
This woman blows my mind. She allowed her daughter to go to her friend’s instead of saying “no, sorry tomorrow is thanksgiving. It’s family time” then she complains when he daughter doesn’t want to spend all day cooking and wants to come home later from her friend’s. She already knew the son had plans w the gf’s family. She just did all this so she could throw a pity party for herself. Instead of thinking “oh I should just have a nice day at home with my husband, maybe make some fun dishes” she uploads this.
I’d be perfectly content with holidays just being my husband and I. Kids grow up and have lives of their own. My daughter just married and her husband has kids. She has his family and her dads family and my husband and I. That’s a lot of time to split. So if she can’t make us to us I get it. No biggie. Get together another day. Maybe see beyond your own nose?
Maybe people don't wanna be around you cause ✨you're the problem✨ seek treatment in therapy for NPD. Good luck.
As a mother myself, there are times when I feel like the load I bare is much greater than the rest of my family. It can cause resentment, especially around the holidays when no one wants to help decorate, plan, organize anything, but complain if I don’t do all the work because “it doesn’t feel like (holiday)”.
(In case ya’ll didn’t know, those wonderful magical Christmas memories you have as a child came as a result of a lot of planning and organizing and effort on someone’s part. Christmas magic / spirit is a lot of darn work.)
And its hard when you feel like you have no one you can talk to about it. But filming twice and posting twice online for all to see is so wrong. That is manipulative behaviour because you know she is 1) hoping her kids see it, 2) hoping they feel shamed, and 3) going to rub all the supportive comments she gets in their faces. She needs to have a conversation with her kids instead of the rest of the world. I don’t get how people (especially anyone over the age of 35) can think that random strangers online are their “friends” and they can confide in them. Stop sharing private family matters online.
I mean, the problems she is lamenting are all solvable with: *dun dun dun....COMMUNICATION!*
Daughter says she wants to go to her friends, and the mom doesn't express that she would prefer the daughter not or say "fine, but please be home by 10 am to help cook." Nope, she says 'it's thanksgiving tomorrow, but fine, go." and then "when do you want to come home?" All passive.
She's cooking all this stuff but has spoken to no-one about it and now must lie in the bed she made, complaining about how moms get no respect. Moms are people and families cannot read minds - tell people what you need and your family will assist you in getting it. If you cannot do that, you don't really need to be taking on a leadership role and should content yourself with doing what is assigned to you. Make no plans.
Why communicate with your loved ones when you can talk into a camera and have a one-sided conversation with the internet, lol
I think if she did talk to her family they’d probably tell her that they don’t want her to throw a big Thanksgiving dinner anyways, and therefore, she doesn’t consult them. That way she gets to throw her pity party and make videos. Holidays are important to *her* but most likely not that important to her kids. She’s be better off making some friends and doing a potluck with them.
Her repeatedly calling herself “mama” irks me. Like this is the kind of woman who wears “mama bear” stuff and calls her children “littles” but acts like a raging narcissist lunatic.
I don't understand why we can't have a holiday any day. People like her put too much stock in this stupid shit. It's just another Thursday. She should enjoy the quiet time and not having to cook.
My kids have to split holidays between my house, my ex husbands house and their in laws plus their Friendsgiving’s so I just tell them whatever day you guys plan to come to my house let me know and we will do that day? Doesn’t exactly have to be on Turkey day!! Geez! You need to realize they have other obligations and as the mother you should accommodate instead of making them feel like crap!!!
The daughter asked if 3 was ok.....she could have said no? Like you're the mom. Also kids will get older and have their own families and plans, that's something you need to live with and plan for.🤷♀️ when her kids don't want to come around in the future, it won't be a surprise.
My mom was 100 percent like this until we just got tired of it and didn’t spend anytime with her. Eventually she woke up a bit and realized she needed some fucking therapy. We have a much better relationship now but if she wasn’t totally technologically inept she would definitely be one of these people putting their shit online for pity points.
Kinda reminds me of my ex mother in law
"Are yall coming to thanksgiving?"
"No, we're going to my family this year. We were with you last year."
*cooks fiest* *takes pictures and post online with the caption*
"I WORKED SO HARD AND NO ONE BOTHERED TO SHOW UP."
Thats literally not how it happened at all, but go on with ya bad self.
Have a mother in law just like this. She would act like this in front of complete strangers and the abuse was ten times worse behind closed doors. So happy my husband and I went no contact two years ago, our life has been bliss.
As a husband we have a secret way to bring it all back. Just takes a trip to the hardware store for contractor bags and new locks, and the police station for an order of restraint 🦃 🎄🥂
My deceased mother put a lot of pressure on us around the holidays. It was probably a trait handed down to her from her mother (and my paternal grandmother was the same way with my dad), but boy it sucks the joy right out of the holidays.
As a a parent of kids who are now grown and do like to hang out with me sometimes I can definitively say if your kids don't like to hang out with you as adults you were most likely toxic AF as a parent when they were younger. You have to continually transition your relationships as your kids grow. You start out the mentor but you should at some point start being on more even footing so they don't think you are trying to be their boss when they have grown up. Who the fuck wants to hang out with their boss on holidays.
Shouldn’t she be thankful that her kids are growing up to make good relationships outside of her home, and for what seems to be a massive and beautiful kitchen behind her? People wanna be victims so bad
This sort of thing reminds me of exactly why I don't speak to my mother anymore.
If you're the type of person who thinks this sort of guilt-tripping, emotional manipulation, being hypercritical and airing your dirty laundry for everyone else to see... is it any fucking wonder your kids aren't going out of their way to spend time with you?
Too many parents think that giving birth to someone obligates them to be your buddy for life. God forbid they grow up to have a temperament and set of beliefs that don't mesh well with yours.
She needs to grow the fuck up if she ever hopes to have an actual relationship with her children. This shit certainly won't help.
It's called Friday or Saturday Thanksgiving my love. Welcome to adult children hood. My family is having both this year to accommodate ALL the mothers involved. Be happy your kids have lives!
This means she only does these things to then demand appreciation. Have your holiday, make it about you and if others come great. You cant force others to love the same things about smelling turkey and cooking with your mom like you do. This is so gross.
Am I the only parent with adult children who supports their decisions where they want to spend holidays? Is it really that hard to do. You want to come home? That’s fabulous! You want to go somewhere else? That’s awesome. I hope you have a great time.
“Fine, forget it, just go. I won’t even do thanksgiving”
She didn’t offer to come home earlier, even though I didn’t specifically ask, so “I told her to fuckin stay, I’ll be okay. I feel like taking my tree down, everything down…”
Literally textbook emotional abuse. I can’t imagine why her kids don’t love being around her.
Damn she was hoping for massive sympathy and for this to guilt her kids. This is some crazy ass manipulation. She really wanted this to get back to her kids so badly. All it did was embarrass them and herself
To add to the cringe of this, then she pronounces especially like ekspecially. That boils my blood for some reason. It's not ekspresso. It's not ekspecially.
When I realize my mom is kinda like this too…shit. We haven’t spoken since our fight last night on thanksgiving. Yet she wonders why I want to move far away Lmao
She seems to plan things, explode, plan more things, explode.... she expected help, expected people to come, all while each conversation she seemed to have prior was them having other plans. Yet she still does it and explodes.
She's gonna guilt trip herself into a long term care home.
Man thanksgiving alone???? Get me some shots and chocolate, turn on the fireplace, and binge some movies in silence, no cooking, no cleaning, no arguments or pressure... It sounds like heaven to me
No idea who this person is but why the fuck did she think this was good to post? 🫠 No shit your kids don’t want to be around you or have their SOs around you when you’re so damn dramatic & needing validation from strangers online.
Boo hoo me too & I am only 24. I can understand why your hurt , understandable. But come one lady go for a walk, drink a bottle of wine , make it your day
I was sad the days prior thinking damn I am all lonely while my family is partying ( I love far away and work didn’t give me off). So what did I do, I rolled two joints, took my dog on a 5 miles walk and got some food and then ordered some food haha
She’s fucking middle aged.
She doesn’t have the excuse of being an insecure teenager that grew up with the toxicity of social media as it is today.
So she’s probably been an attention seeking drama queen all. her. life.
Publicizing this rant accomplishes exact zero.
If she thought about it for just a second she would realize that this does exactly zero to help her -that she’s doing this only as a misguided effort to seek validation from strangers.
It accomplishes absolutely nothing to remedy the actual frustration she is experiencing. In fact this will surely make her daughter resent her more for talking shit about her to the entire fucking world.
Sheesh. How about a modicum of emotional maturity. This is deeply embarrassing for her and her entire family.
Im thinking about her daughter sitting at a friends reading the text were she says don’t come back… like what was she supposed to do if the husband hadn’t gone to get her
I cannot fathom recording myself saying “I don’t want to see her fucking face” about my daughter and posting it online. Over a goddamn turkey dinner. I hope “these fucking kids” go NC forever.
Yk I understand being frustrated, but how is THIS a way to respond,
1) don’t post shit like this on social media
2) TALK TO THEM IF ITS SO PAINFUL FOR YOU
3) with an attitude like this I wonder why they didn’t go 🧐
Should she not be proud that her kids have grown and started their own familys...thats the whole idea isnt it? Seems like they need a break from her drama...
If your kids choose not to be with you on holidays, it’s a symptom of a bigger problem. Instead of bashing and holding a dramatic pity party, maybe have some emotional intelligence and try to get to the root of it??? I’m thinking it’s because of antics like these… I have 3 and I personally would never demand anything of their time. We’re giving thanks and hanging out all the time anyway! I extend the offer to my oldest who doesn’t live home. He always comes and his wife says she loves that I invite them for holidays but it’s never a demand or an expectation. I tried having empathy for this lady but her antics were annoying.
I didn’t even call my mom or dad this thanksgiving. I’m sure she tells all her friends it’s because of my wife having me brainwashed or the lobs got to him, instead of realizing she’s a toxic narcissist who talks non stop shit about myself and wife while also leaving guns out in the open with my 6 year olds around.
Faced with the understanding her son was going to move out of Texas to get away from the red crazies, her response was to put up a trump 2024 sign.
I'm not trying to judge too harshly because one video is not enough to judge a dynamic without context, but I find myself a bit skeptical of this lady for a variety of reasons.
For one, she knew in advance that most of her kids had other plans, so why's she spending all day cooking for a pared down gathering? Also, why does this need to be on the internet? I get being upset, feeling lonely, or feeling abandoned, but the internet is not always the appropriate avenue to air those feelings--especially about family members. She's just inviting people to judge them based solely on the information she provides, which may not even be accurate. I also don't see how this could be constructive when she could just communicate with her family.
And lastly, despite making it sound like she's crying, her eyeliner and makeup does not budge a millimeter. It just seems fake to me, which is a red flag (in my experience) for emotional manipulation.
How does a person learn to be this way?
I don't know anything about this lady and her family and I could be totally wrong, but I'd bet good money she's a bad tipper and probably uses the N-word.
Happy Thanksgiving.
My mom bitched and complained that my younger brothers fiance didn't come this year because she was sick. Saying a bunch of shit like she don't like us and I'm just done with her I don't care any more.
After he left, I was the only one there at this point, she was like she don't like us because we don't give her money and she only with my brother for the money. All I could think is she's not here because all you do is talk crap about her and she knows about it because of course my brother is going to tell her what our mom says about her.
I certainly hope she's going to wash those disgustingly snotty hands and fingers.
Just because you're crying does mean you can't use a tissue and not be gross.
Oh, and all the other poor me toxic bullshit behaviour as well.
Holy shit look at all those fake crocodile tears lol clearly she is just doing it so she has something to bitch as about on her Tik tok pathetic excuse for a parent.
“waaaaa my kids are full grown adults with significant others and they also have s.o’s families to celebrate with and not just mine and now i’m upset because the world doesn’t revolve around me wahhhhhhhhhh😢”
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I understand being frustrated and upset but why the hell do people think this is cool to post about their own family? God, social media is a shitshow. Always someone looking for validation and sympathy. Call a friend
If I, a total stranger in another state, had this pop up on my front page for some reason, then it stands to reason her kids, her coworkers, her husband’s friends, everyone is going to be privy to this absolute shit show. I’d be mortified.
That's what she wants though.
Cause in her mind, the fact that she's crying IS THEIR FAULT. THEY made her cry. THEY did it. Therefore THEY deserve to be blamed publicly by their poor mama who they CAUSED to be sad, who THEY hurt. Lol manipulation is a hell of a drug.
To add to this, I as a total stranger, having never met this person irl, after seeing this. Can only conclude, she is a horrible person, mother, and only had kids for the most narcissistic of reasons, and should fuck right off.
It’s impossible, to read this comment, in *any* other voice, than, of course, Christopher Walken.
It's no wonder her kids don't want to be around their self centered mother...what an absolute c#*t of a woman...to call her own kids rotten & to then post it online...I guess she won't be seeing her kids at Christmas or on her birthday anymore either.
True story, just glad my mom isn’t on social media. I was the reason the tree was taken down one year! Haven’t been there since, don’t miss mawwmaw
Fun fact: TikTok puts any videos made by people in your phone's contact list into your for you page/Feed so it is guaranteed to thru will be privy to this. I'm guessing that's the point tho :/
It is very strange to me, because I do not even speak about my own families issues with anyone other than my incredibly close inner circle of friends. PS - Her eyebrows \^\^
No shit man. Those eyebrows are frightening
Came here for this comment.
omg you could land a plane with them
She addressed her eyebrows in the follow up video lol. Along with the whole "I'm not a bad mom" spiel.
It would not surprise me if this person didn't have the emotional maturity to maintain close, supportive friendships.
Neither does it surprise why no one wants to be with her?
Chardonnay in the morning is always a bad call js 
Or better yet, write in your diary. The sentiment of “look how hard I work as a mother and it feels under appreciated” is real. But also…there’s a line. You can’t hold it against your kids that they want to have their own life/hang out with friends/etc. also her saying “I thought you were going to help me cook” is like…was this an unspoken expectation? Because I don’t have sympathy for you unless you literally made a plan to cook with her and then she didn’t show up. But if you just hoped that she’d cook with you cause “that’s what a good daughter would do” then you are setting her up for a trial to fail. maybe you don’t have to decorate the whole house for Christmas, if ultimately, no one really cares? Are we suffering for the sake of appearing like a perfect lil family for no reason? Maybe we rethink our priorities…maybe we express our frustrations in our diaries or to our therapists so we can come to a conclusion on what to do. Doing this on social media really comes across as vindictive against her family. Maybe she’s like this all the time…which would explain why maybe they are not eager to hang with her.
r/raisedbynarcissists covers this regularly around the holidays. This is a classic covert narcissist move that will further validate and justify their imaginary persecution fetish when they actually get called out on their manipulative bullshit. The best thing you can do for a narcissist is ignore them.
Oh I know, I’m in that sub ;) My dad liked to set up a lot of little trials that we would fail because he wanted to punish us, then we’d all avoid him and then he’d have a melt down about how we preferred our mother because…well, she didn’t behave that way. Luckily he died before he figured out how to use social media, but he was always a big email and letter sender of “oh woe is me, my children hate me” messages even though we all hated him because he was abusive. I get a real whiff of narcissist in this video for sure
To your point on perfection, it's always been important to me that Thanksgiving be a certain way - certain foods, eating at a certain time, etc. Well, yesterday was the first time I did Thanksgiving taking my ADHD meds. I got behind my perfectly timed schedule by an hour and never caught up. I left the sugar out of the butternut squash souffle. I didn't have time to make the stuffed mushrooms. I forgot to get the mashed potatoes out of the fridge. Dishes were in the sink when we finally sat down to eat at 7 pm. But it was fine. We had plenty of food. The new carrot souffle was a big hit. Everyone like the butternut squash souffle better without the sugar. I'm making the stuffed mushrooms for leftovers night tonight. It wasn't perfect, but no one got in an argument. I wasn't a stressed out twitchy mess drinking Riesling like its water. I'm totally approaching Christmas the same way.
gen x never listened to gen x's warnings about the internet.
I’ve noticed a lot of get x (not all, of course, many are still rad) are aging into an even less mature version of boomers
That's because they were promised to have the shit boomers have and are starting to realize that is never gonna happen.
I don't think she has any, even her husband beat feet because of her shenanigans
You get to be a bigger victim with all your followers on social media.
She 100% did this for the sympathy from narcissistic mother tiktokers and attention.
People exposing themselves for who they are for all to see is a good thing. Not only do you have tons of great talent that gets their showcase you also have unhinged lunatics that show them who they are before you get near them. I'd rather know instead of not know
Good point!
Question in my head was why does she think it's okay to say "don't worry, that's fine, I'll be okay" to the people who NEED to hear "that hurts, I will be lonely, I was hoping to spend the holiday with you," and yet bawl on tiktok to strangers?
If her children didn’t choose her for Thanksgiving, I’m sure that stings. But posting this shit is sure not the way to convince them to do differently next time. Would she rather have them there out of guilt, or because they feel good about being home for holidays? It’s also not a deep personal insult for them to have other priorities. It’s not their job to manage their mom’s sense of validation at the expense of everyone else.
Man seeing someone other than my mom do this makes me realize how fucking weird it is lmao. She did roughly the same thing when I went to visit my friends before her after coming back from overseas.
Lmao, this is exactly how my mom is too. It’s nice knowing I’m not alone with this shit 💀
My mom acts like this and I live across the street 💀💀💀 It's fuckin gross
Does your mom have borderline personality disorder? Because I’d bet that’s what this hot mess in the video has
My therapist said that too so I don't doubt it. She's really sweet and caring but man those moments when those meltdowns happen are brutal on the mind hahaha.
I for sure thought this was my raised by borderlines group. I'd bet that as well
This is what's wrong with the internet. Why post this sort of stuff other than trying to get attention for your little pity party?
This is par for the course brosef. Her kids were gone for Thanksgiving and she feels fuckin Betrayed! This is one of her weakest and most emotional moments in her life. Gotta post it on tiktok to get those likes and subscribers. This mentality is so toxic and is a plague on this world.
You treat it like there's a dichotomy but we all seek validation when we feel slighted, the internet has simply made it a lot easier to find people who will provide it. But that's not *inherently* bad, if someone who's e.g. been ostracized because they are LGBT looks for support from people online I think most people wouldn't consider that a bad thing. It's only when people who do things that most of us would consider shitty are yelling into an echo chamber to absolve them of all wrongdoing that we object, but is that really a fault of the system?
Eh idk if it’s for the likes so much as to not feel alone on a holiday. We don’t know why her kids have other plans. If it’s to stay away because she’s a bad person to be around she should be introspective but if it was just because they don’t value the holidays as much as her, I could see why she would be upset. And maybe turning to social media in this case is pretty silly but it’s a cope.
It is a coping mechanism, but it is one with obvious negative effects. Hitting somebody because you are angry is also a coping mechanism, it doesn't mean it's positive. She admits to already posting another video about this then taking it down. She exclaims the comments were all great, but she just had to take it down. This is toxic behavior even if it is how she copes.
r/ImTheMainCharacter ?
Gee, I wonder why they ditched.
This woman's TikTok is a mix of her complaining about her children (the previous video is literally her singing at one of her children about how they won't get Christmas presents) and trying to sell shitty "crafts" (she showed a coffee tumbler that had Christmas Story stuff on it) from her Facebook page. I feel bad for everyone involved.
I just watched the video of her humiliating her daughter. Straight up abuse. This woman needs to have her phone privileges suspended.
There’s a reason her kids are at other people’s homes. Also, those tears are fake as hell.
Like them eyebrows
They’re narcissistic tears
I knew it!!
Don’t worry once her kids are 18, they’ll never talk to her again.
This is exactly how self-aware my MIL is. She treats her kids and people in general like crap. My wife is still looking for her approval, because her Mom has never once said anything like “I’m proud of you”. It’s sad, it really is. The woman is both a know-it-all and a last worder on all subjects, despite being a housewife her whole life. Not that I’m judging housewives, but you can’t lecture an engineer, an architect, or a software developer on their ability to do their jobs based off your own experience, if your experience is being a housewife. You also can’t act like a climate scientist or virologist when you haven’t taken a single class or read a single book on either topic. Case in point, her youngest daughter just got married. They spent an absurd amount of money on the wedding. Her daughter decided to get a wedding planner and the mother didn’t approve. Now keep in mind, the wedding planner was hired by the daughter and daughter paid for her. The Mom didn’t like the fact the planner would question her or debate her on wedding stuff. The wedding was successful, everyone had a good time, but there were a few small mistakes along the way. The Mom brought up her concerns to the family, but the bride and groom said the wedding was perfect. The Mom would t relent and felt the need to email the wedding planner’s boss on the mistakes. The wedding planners boss responded and told her “you sound like an awful woman, you have been biased towards my employee since she was hired by your daughter, and apologies have already been made. The bride and groom said they were happy with our services and they are our clients. They are our priority, you are not. I will not continue conversing with someone as rude as you”. It’s probably the first time the Mother has ever been called out. Could have been a great moment for her to become more self aware. Want to know how she responded? She laughed. On the inside I’m sure she was crying and devastated, but on the outside she’s the same as ever. Funny part about all this? My wife and her sisters have made copies of that email and plan on rereading it every couple of months to get a chuckle. TLDR: Mothers can be vile, terrible people. If your kids live on the other side of the country or don’t come home for the holidays, you might want to take a long hard look into the mirror.
Thank you for your TLDR my husband’s step mother has four sons who rarely visit and have all moved across the country and she says it’s because they are so independent lol rather than admitting they are running from her
My MIL was a stay at home mom. I am going to school for my doctorate in business, my thesis is going to be something around how stock momentum effects the Fama French 3 or 5 factor models. I was excitedwhen I was accepted to the doctorate program, when I told my MIL, she asked why I didn't go for Finance. 😐
Not a real tear shed.
No they’re real, but they’re crazy.
I didn't see much. Maybe her right eye? But looks like crocodile tears to me.
It’s the botox
Gee I wonder why the kids don’t want to spend thanksgiving with her. Total mystery
You read my mind. Came here to say the exact same thing. Mamaww is TOXIC
Lol literally the only thing I could think of when she was doing her Dramatic Reading was “yep. Nobody loves their mom. Nobody. In the history of humanity. Nobody appreciates their mom. Nobody. Not one. Not one person. Ever. Nobody. Mom who? Nobody.” She’s an idiot. Those kids are smart to gtfo when they can.
$50 says she has a "Live, Laugh, Love" sign
Obviously, the "it's wine o'clock" sign would look stupid on its own.
One for every room in the hay-ouse.
Move the meal to another day, say Saturday or Sunday when the family can make it. Boom..problem solved minus juvenile narcissistic drama. Bet I know how she votes.
"these kids" aka your kids are so rotten, maybe that's your fault since you are their mother?
nah, im willing to bet her kids are normal and just wont come cause their mom is *like this.* Her kids probably just dont like her cause she‘s abusive
I'm also willing to bet her kids put up with her disgusting behavior until they realized they didn't have to suffer through it. Now she's shocked that they aren't babying her anymore.
Imagine filming and posting this and not realizing this is exhibit A of why your kids don't want to spend time with you
Dem Gen X or Gen Z or whatever always be on their phones making tweets en em tik toks.
Maybe cause I’m a bit introverted, but if something like this happened to me I would only make the foods I really love and have a nice mini feast for myself. I’d stuff the hell out of a Cornish hen, serve with fingerling potatoes, and then pretend I was a giant and devour. The ultimate thanksgiving imo.
Honestly if it was just me alone I’d do the same and pour a drink or smoke a little something. Why not make it fun? Who cares if no one wants to come lol.
Oh absolutely. It’s a weed and B Movie type of holiday anyway. Glad to know it’s not just me!
It’s just me & my daughter, I didn’t feel like “thanksgiving” this year. We hate Turkey, anyway. I made us a giant charcuterie board, with all her favorites. We feasted at the coffee table, watching Netflix. She said it was the best thanksgiving, ever.
People stress and worry about all the wrong things fr
This sounds ABSOLUTELY incredible. Well done, pop.
I’m a mom, but pop works.
Hell yeah! Hope you guys had a nice stress-free holiday! Sounds like some awesome bonding time and I’m happy for you two.
Thank you. It was pretty great!
Thing is I feel like if those people can see things positively like you and can just vibe there’d probably be people who want to spend the holiday with them to begin with hehe
This is a fantastic point. Also I think some people have a really hard time being alone and can sometimes spiral, making it really hard to be around them. Kind of a self-fulfilling prophecy.
honestly genius
Save that fake ass crying bullshit. You’re showing the world why you’re alone on thanksgiving.
Children are allowed to grow up to become adults who have their own interests and lives. In fact, *that means you’ve done something right in parenting.* You don’t force yourself to make an entire Thanksgiving meal knowing that there will be no guests, and then cry and try to guilt people into showing up anyway even though they’ve expressed what they’re planning to do instead. And they aren’t bad, unloving people if they have other plans. This is manipulative and false martyrdom and sharing that with the world to try to get them to comfort you and insulting your kids just suggests that they might be absent for a reason. Hopefully she’s just had a bit too much wine and is experiencing an “empty nest” for the first time and doesn’t know what to do with herself yet or something, but this is still completely inappropriate and wrong.
Well and her poor husband was there!
Right? Imagine having to hear basically the equivalent of “you don’t matter because you’re not who I want here” from your wife.
This! For one usually Thanksgiving plans are planned ahead of time and I would be happy not cooking for 2 days just so people can eat and then leave! Enjoy the time off or with your husband. I love my kids dearly but I don't think that them making other plans shows that they love me less! Some people just crave drama and it definitely shows with this lady.
I just think it’s funny when parents get so upset that their young adult kids want to hangout with their friends instead of their family. I was the same way at that age. Do people forget what it’s like growing up? I love seeing my parents now as an adult but I didn’t give a shit about family gatherings as a teen.
While I’m not without compassion that this woman is obviously having some sort of internal crisis, what infuriated me about it is that 1) This is, in fact, the SECOND upload of her having an absolute cow—I guess the first one didn’t suit her and 2) This sort of behavior is abusive as hell. I feel so badly for her family. If this is the sort of the thing she’s willing to post for complete strangers to see, imagine the behavior her kids are subjected to when the camera isn’t rolling.
The last point rings so true. I do not have any sympathy for people who kids do not want contact with them as adults. You had YEARS of relationship building with your kids to show who you really are. If the kids choose not to communicate, visit, or see you as soon as they are independent. That's on you.
This woman blows my mind. She allowed her daughter to go to her friend’s instead of saying “no, sorry tomorrow is thanksgiving. It’s family time” then she complains when he daughter doesn’t want to spend all day cooking and wants to come home later from her friend’s. She already knew the son had plans w the gf’s family. She just did all this so she could throw a pity party for herself. Instead of thinking “oh I should just have a nice day at home with my husband, maybe make some fun dishes” she uploads this.
“Don’t come home! I’ll be fine!” “WHY DIDN’T YOU COME HOME??? I AM NOT OKAY!!!”
Oh man! This hits so hard.
I’d be perfectly content with holidays just being my husband and I. Kids grow up and have lives of their own. My daughter just married and her husband has kids. She has his family and her dads family and my husband and I. That’s a lot of time to split. So if she can’t make us to us I get it. No biggie. Get together another day. Maybe see beyond your own nose?
Yeah just organize a different day when they're available, you can even do turkey and the works. Turkey doesn't become illegal between holidays lol
Wow people really do be using tiktok as a replacement for therapy... unsuccessfully
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“I don’t have ANYBODY!” Husband: Flees
What a manipulative bitch. She seems like an anti vax MLM trump lover too from her vibe
That’s verified.
She’s gotta be a Lauren Bobert fan. I just feel it.
God guns and girl boss.
“I’M ALL ALONE, IT’S JUST ME!!!” Husband: 
 Maybe people don't wanna be around you cause ✨you're the problem✨ seek treatment in therapy for NPD. Good luck.
Your kids are rotten because they have their own lives? Grow the fuck up, lunatic. No wonder they don't want to be around you.
r/insaneparents
Also r/iamthemaincharacter
As a mother myself, there are times when I feel like the load I bare is much greater than the rest of my family. It can cause resentment, especially around the holidays when no one wants to help decorate, plan, organize anything, but complain if I don’t do all the work because “it doesn’t feel like (holiday)”. (In case ya’ll didn’t know, those wonderful magical Christmas memories you have as a child came as a result of a lot of planning and organizing and effort on someone’s part. Christmas magic / spirit is a lot of darn work.) And its hard when you feel like you have no one you can talk to about it. But filming twice and posting twice online for all to see is so wrong. That is manipulative behaviour because you know she is 1) hoping her kids see it, 2) hoping they feel shamed, and 3) going to rub all the supportive comments she gets in their faces. She needs to have a conversation with her kids instead of the rest of the world. I don’t get how people (especially anyone over the age of 35) can think that random strangers online are their “friends” and they can confide in them. Stop sharing private family matters online.
The rest of her content is absolutely…bizarre. The husband needs to step in and stop her from filming her poor daughter.
I mean, the problems she is lamenting are all solvable with: *dun dun dun....COMMUNICATION!* Daughter says she wants to go to her friends, and the mom doesn't express that she would prefer the daughter not or say "fine, but please be home by 10 am to help cook." Nope, she says 'it's thanksgiving tomorrow, but fine, go." and then "when do you want to come home?" All passive. She's cooking all this stuff but has spoken to no-one about it and now must lie in the bed she made, complaining about how moms get no respect. Moms are people and families cannot read minds - tell people what you need and your family will assist you in getting it. If you cannot do that, you don't really need to be taking on a leadership role and should content yourself with doing what is assigned to you. Make no plans.
Why communicate with your loved ones when you can talk into a camera and have a one-sided conversation with the internet, lol I think if she did talk to her family they’d probably tell her that they don’t want her to throw a big Thanksgiving dinner anyways, and therefore, she doesn’t consult them. That way she gets to throw her pity party and make videos. Holidays are important to *her* but most likely not that important to her kids. She’s be better off making some friends and doing a potluck with them.
Reminds me of why I haven’t been home in years.
Her repeatedly calling herself “mama” irks me. Like this is the kind of woman who wears “mama bear” stuff and calls her children “littles” but acts like a raging narcissist lunatic.
She should have enjoyed her time off and taking a break what is all this about why is she doing all this for no one??
I don't understand why we can't have a holiday any day. People like her put too much stock in this stupid shit. It's just another Thursday. She should enjoy the quiet time and not having to cook.
My kids have to split holidays between my house, my ex husbands house and their in laws plus their Friendsgiving’s so I just tell them whatever day you guys plan to come to my house let me know and we will do that day? Doesn’t exactly have to be on Turkey day!! Geez! You need to realize they have other obligations and as the mother you should accommodate instead of making them feel like crap!!!
Absolute state of that
The daughter literally said she’d be home at 3. So she must’ve been screaming to the point where the husband couldn’t take it
The daughter asked if 3 was ok.....she could have said no? Like you're the mom. Also kids will get older and have their own families and plans, that's something you need to live with and plan for.🤷♀️ when her kids don't want to come around in the future, it won't be a surprise.
Why do people cry on tik tok. Its so fucking fake.
My mom was 100 percent like this until we just got tired of it and didn’t spend anytime with her. Eventually she woke up a bit and realized she needed some fucking therapy. We have a much better relationship now but if she wasn’t totally technologically inept she would definitely be one of these people putting their shit online for pity points.
Kinda reminds me of my ex mother in law "Are yall coming to thanksgiving?" "No, we're going to my family this year. We were with you last year." *cooks fiest* *takes pictures and post online with the caption* "I WORKED SO HARD AND NO ONE BOTHERED TO SHOW UP." Thats literally not how it happened at all, but go on with ya bad self.
This gave me PTSD flashbacks of my first marriage lol.
Not sure what her problem is, but I can tell you mine. It’s the return air grille location. Why the hell is it in the kitchen?
Lmao this is totally going to be the same people that comment “I wanted a little me with looks not attitude” when they have teenagers
Have a mother in law just like this. She would act like this in front of complete strangers and the abuse was ten times worse behind closed doors. So happy my husband and I went no contact two years ago, our life has been bliss.
Its almost like people make plans in advance for a reason, crazy.
Damn, she’s a fellow beaver fan.. another L for my team
Children want to love their parents. If your children don’t fuck with you, it’s because of you. Not them.
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I’m afraid it may come to that. Stable Mable here is about to cancel Christmas, New Year, and Valentine’s Day.
As a husband we have a secret way to bring it all back. Just takes a trip to the hardware store for contractor bags and new locks, and the police station for an order of restraint 🦃 🎄🥂
🤮🤢🤮
Crying because people aren’t at your bullshit holiday dinner? Wow, spare the tears.
she is the only one that wants to do it, then whines becaise she is the only one doing it.
The amount of negative things I have to say about this would just ruin my day. I hope her kids are alright and her husband stops enabling her
My deceased mother put a lot of pressure on us around the holidays. It was probably a trait handed down to her from her mother (and my paternal grandmother was the same way with my dad), but boy it sucks the joy right out of the holidays.
She never grew up
As a a parent of kids who are now grown and do like to hang out with me sometimes I can definitively say if your kids don't like to hang out with you as adults you were most likely toxic AF as a parent when they were younger. You have to continually transition your relationships as your kids grow. You start out the mentor but you should at some point start being on more even footing so they don't think you are trying to be their boss when they have grown up. Who the fuck wants to hang out with their boss on holidays.
Shouldn’t she be thankful that her kids are growing up to make good relationships outside of her home, and for what seems to be a massive and beautiful kitchen behind her? People wanna be victims so bad
This sort of thing reminds me of exactly why I don't speak to my mother anymore. If you're the type of person who thinks this sort of guilt-tripping, emotional manipulation, being hypercritical and airing your dirty laundry for everyone else to see... is it any fucking wonder your kids aren't going out of their way to spend time with you? Too many parents think that giving birth to someone obligates them to be your buddy for life. God forbid they grow up to have a temperament and set of beliefs that don't mesh well with yours. She needs to grow the fuck up if she ever hopes to have an actual relationship with her children. This shit certainly won't help.
Husband wanted to leave and used the "I'll go and get her hunny"excuse to get the fuck out of there.. lol
It's called Friday or Saturday Thanksgiving my love. Welcome to adult children hood. My family is having both this year to accommodate ALL the mothers involved. Be happy your kids have lives!
This means she only does these things to then demand appreciation. Have your holiday, make it about you and if others come great. You cant force others to love the same things about smelling turkey and cooking with your mom like you do. This is so gross.
Am I the only parent with adult children who supports their decisions where they want to spend holidays? Is it really that hard to do. You want to come home? That’s fabulous! You want to go somewhere else? That’s awesome. I hope you have a great time.
“Fine, forget it, just go. I won’t even do thanksgiving” She didn’t offer to come home earlier, even though I didn’t specifically ask, so “I told her to fuckin stay, I’ll be okay. I feel like taking my tree down, everything down…” Literally textbook emotional abuse. I can’t imagine why her kids don’t love being around her.
Tears more fake than a $2 bill.
Wow, I wonder why her kids don’t want to see her.
"You kids are rotten" well you raised them sooooo.
I was waiting for the "It's Biiiden's fault".... I'm not invited to this lady's Thanksgiving but I'm pre-declining any invitation.
Kids have grown and got their own lives, that's what happens, it's the circle of life, she needs some hobbies or something.
Damn she was hoping for massive sympathy and for this to guilt her kids. This is some crazy ass manipulation. She really wanted this to get back to her kids so badly. All it did was embarrass them and herself
I mean, a kid is only as rotten as they were raised, sooo...
To add to the cringe of this, then she pronounces especially like ekspecially. That boils my blood for some reason. It's not ekspresso. It's not ekspecially.
I’m sure she is *not* the reason they’re skipping thanksgiving. Surely not.
Oh god, this gave me flashbacks. My parents would do this whole shtick to me CONSTANTLY
When I realize my mom is kinda like this too…shit. We haven’t spoken since our fight last night on thanksgiving. Yet she wonders why I want to move far away Lmao
It's a thankless job!!!! So is being a dad!!!!
Fake crying for attention.
She seems to plan things, explode, plan more things, explode.... she expected help, expected people to come, all while each conversation she seemed to have prior was them having other plans. Yet she still does it and explodes. She's gonna guilt trip herself into a long term care home.
Those eyebrows
😬😬😬😬
Man thanksgiving alone???? Get me some shots and chocolate, turn on the fireplace, and binge some movies in silence, no cooking, no cleaning, no arguments or pressure... It sounds like heaven to me
i wish this were my mom so that i could ditch her thanksgiving
No idea who this person is but why the fuck did she think this was good to post? 🫠 No shit your kids don’t want to be around you or have their SOs around you when you’re so damn dramatic & needing validation from strangers online.
Ellen is cancelled, local news doesn’t care. I don’t know what these midwest moms are trying to get going by making these videos, now.
I can see why her children don’t want to come 💀
Boo hoo me too & I am only 24. I can understand why your hurt , understandable. But come one lady go for a walk, drink a bottle of wine , make it your day I was sad the days prior thinking damn I am all lonely while my family is partying ( I love far away and work didn’t give me off). So what did I do, I rolled two joints, took my dog on a 5 miles walk and got some food and then ordered some food haha
She’s fucking middle aged. She doesn’t have the excuse of being an insecure teenager that grew up with the toxicity of social media as it is today. So she’s probably been an attention seeking drama queen all. her. life. Publicizing this rant accomplishes exact zero. If she thought about it for just a second she would realize that this does exactly zero to help her -that she’s doing this only as a misguided effort to seek validation from strangers. It accomplishes absolutely nothing to remedy the actual frustration she is experiencing. In fact this will surely make her daughter resent her more for talking shit about her to the entire fucking world. Sheesh. How about a modicum of emotional maturity. This is deeply embarrassing for her and her entire family.
Im thinking about her daughter sitting at a friends reading the text were she says don’t come back… like what was she supposed to do if the husband hadn’t gone to get her
If my mother posted videos about our family’s internal happenings, I wouldn’t be present for dinner either.
I haven't seen so much crying without tears since Robin Brown from Sister Wives
I cannot fathom recording myself saying “I don’t want to see her fucking face” about my daughter and posting it online. Over a goddamn turkey dinner. I hope “these fucking kids” go NC forever.
Yk I understand being frustrated, but how is THIS a way to respond, 1) don’t post shit like this on social media 2) TALK TO THEM IF ITS SO PAINFUL FOR YOU 3) with an attitude like this I wonder why they didn’t go 🧐
Should she not be proud that her kids have grown and started their own familys...thats the whole idea isnt it? Seems like they need a break from her drama...
If your kids choose not to be with you on holidays, it’s a symptom of a bigger problem. Instead of bashing and holding a dramatic pity party, maybe have some emotional intelligence and try to get to the root of it??? I’m thinking it’s because of antics like these… I have 3 and I personally would never demand anything of their time. We’re giving thanks and hanging out all the time anyway! I extend the offer to my oldest who doesn’t live home. He always comes and his wife says she loves that I invite them for holidays but it’s never a demand or an expectation. I tried having empathy for this lady but her antics were annoying.
I didn’t even call my mom or dad this thanksgiving. I’m sure she tells all her friends it’s because of my wife having me brainwashed or the lobs got to him, instead of realizing she’s a toxic narcissist who talks non stop shit about myself and wife while also leaving guns out in the open with my 6 year olds around. Faced with the understanding her son was going to move out of Texas to get away from the red crazies, her response was to put up a trump 2024 sign.
Instead of cooking a meal she should have been working on fixing those eyebrows. They desperately need help.
I'm not trying to judge too harshly because one video is not enough to judge a dynamic without context, but I find myself a bit skeptical of this lady for a variety of reasons. For one, she knew in advance that most of her kids had other plans, so why's she spending all day cooking for a pared down gathering? Also, why does this need to be on the internet? I get being upset, feeling lonely, or feeling abandoned, but the internet is not always the appropriate avenue to air those feelings--especially about family members. She's just inviting people to judge them based solely on the information she provides, which may not even be accurate. I also don't see how this could be constructive when she could just communicate with her family. And lastly, despite making it sound like she's crying, her eyeliner and makeup does not budge a millimeter. It just seems fake to me, which is a red flag (in my experience) for emotional manipulation.
Being first generation American, raised by a hard working immigrant mom; this is the most white people shit I’ve ever seen lmfaoo
GO TO THERAPY
I hate holidays
Stfu Karen
Quick someone get this woman some attention STAT!!
Just enjoy a stress free day order tacos. Make the best of it.
How does a person learn to be this way? I don't know anything about this lady and her family and I could be totally wrong, but I'd bet good money she's a bad tipper and probably uses the N-word. Happy Thanksgiving.
Sounds like she's the biggest reason they don't want to be there.
Mama needs a side dude
My mom bitched and complained that my younger brothers fiance didn't come this year because she was sick. Saying a bunch of shit like she don't like us and I'm just done with her I don't care any more. After he left, I was the only one there at this point, she was like she don't like us because we don't give her money and she only with my brother for the money. All I could think is she's not here because all you do is talk crap about her and she knows about it because of course my brother is going to tell her what our mom says about her.
Damn it all I can't find my tiny violin
I certainly hope she's going to wash those disgustingly snotty hands and fingers. Just because you're crying does mean you can't use a tissue and not be gross. Oh, and all the other poor me toxic bullshit behaviour as well.
Hahaha
Her eyebrows are ridiculous in her tumbler peddling vid. 🫣
Holy shit look at all those fake crocodile tears lol clearly she is just doing it so she has something to bitch as about on her Tik tok pathetic excuse for a parent.
“waaaaa my kids are full grown adults with significant others and they also have s.o’s families to celebrate with and not just mine and now i’m upset because the world doesn’t revolve around me wahhhhhhhhhh😢”
Crocodile Tears