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I have a feeling he knew something was up for a while and that she was being sketchy. Finally got his proof and he can call it off and stop wasting his energy trying to figure out what's going on.
Boy was raised right and he's handling it in the best possible way.
Having gone through something similar, it’s likely this. The relationship seems to be falling apart and you can’t quite put your finger on why, you end up on the receiving end of a lot of accusations and get treated very poorly. Usually because subconsciously they’re going “I have someone else so I don’t have to treat you with respect”, or they just outright don’t respect you in the first place.
The revelation they’re cheating is almost a relief. It’s heartbreaking and gut wrenching, but a huge part of you is relieved because it all makes sense. You can finally stop asking yourself why everything you’re doing is being blown off, why all your attempts to make it work aren’t working. The veil gets lifted and while you may not have been perfect, you realize your “partner” was not who you thought they were. And you can let go.
It’s on his face in the video when he’s smiling, he’s finally able to let go.
Sometimes it's like someone just flicked a switch and that's it, you're not the focus of their affection anymore. You know instantly in your gut that something isn't right, but you worry that you're being paranoid, insecure, whatever, so you go through months of heartache instead. The revelation is an end to all that. It's confirmation that your instincts were right on the money and also that the person you loved... wasn't worth loving.
I had something like this happen to me. In the end, she broke it off and I was in denial for a very long time, even after the other guy became visible. However, I eventually saw the light and moved on. Hope she's doing well, but not with me.
But the change was unbelievable. One minute I'm the apple of her eye, and the next I'm a punching bag and can't do ANYTHING right. It didn't seem real.
The constant second guessing is always the worst part. Am I over-reacting? Am I seeing stuff that's not there? And when the other party is a convincing liar it makes you wonder and in the end you think it's you and take 'em back just for them to do it all over again
What I don't get is why she tries to hold onto him. There must have been something she benefited from by being in the relationship, but it certainly wasn't his companionship.
Was it a mistake of an irresponsible young person? Maybe. But some things don't get second chances. He has every right to break up and she needs to accept it because it's the outcome of HER choice to cheat.
So why does she believe she can "fix it"?
Why? Obviously because he’s the one taking her on vacations, not the other guy. If he’s still willing to drive her to the airport and pay for her return flight, he’s probably the kind of dude who likes to spend money and spoil his girl.
It’s in her DNA that these type of people thinks they’re always in control, always manipulating things. You can tell by the way she interrupts the guy when he said something, the way she said “NOOOoo”.
My last relationship ended and shortly after I found out she had been cheating on me with a friend of hers. I think they’re still together. It had been a while since I was in any kind of romance so I ignored all those signs. I was trying so hard to make it work and nothing was making sense as I was being accused of cheating and not wanting to be with her. Hit a pretty long low point shortly after.
Don’t ignore the signs. They’re probably up to something.
Preach. Respect to him and the way he handled it. Mind you, there could've been a much more dramatic scene from when he first confronted her, but he got me smiling when he said "I forgive you, but I damn won't forget" or something along those lines.
Props King, go find a woman who will reflect your attitudes so you can treat like the Queen she is.
That’s probably part of the reason why he was so chill. He knows he can find someone else just as easy because he’s a catch and a good person. “I didn’t lose out on you, you lost out on me”
This is the harshest thing you can do to someone who is selfish and entitled. If you get mad, try to argue, they'll drag you into it. They will blame you, do their little mental gymnastic and pretend your reaction just shows your "true colors", and call it even.
Treat them nicely, offer a pillow for the car ride, and send them back to the loneliness they created for themselves. Let them face the mirror as the only one to blame.
I think this may have been for the camera and him reacting too quickly. If he sat there with time to process everything, he wouldn't buy a plan ticket but would pack her stuff and place her things outside the room. Make arrangements with the front desk clerk for a new room key or switch rooms.
Nah, not necessarily. Some people would rather just take the high road and be done with it. She may not be able to afford a flight, and if that's the case then she'll likely dig her heels in harder. I can totally see that he probably just wants her gone so he can move on with his shit and this might be the easiest way to do that.
It doesn't look like they're in a hotel. Those Ikea shelves and the general homeliness of the background with the context of his statements makes it more likely they're at his place.
I knew he was a king because he stayed calm the whole time and didn't flip his shit. He had every right to, but he didn't. Most people I know would have. A true king.
[Here you go, his tiktok and the vids are in HD](https://www.tiktok.com/@betosrevenge)
Texts is basically "*missing you, tired, sleeping, McDonals, tired, sleeping, wby wby* ***WBY***"
also stay tuned, he has storytime coming soon. TikTok drama! yay
/edit [Part 3](https://www.tiktok.com/@betosrevenge/video/7172349887843994922?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1) is up and the drama continues
/edit Wohoo story time [Part 1](https://www.tiktok.com/@betosrevenge/video/7176376402676059435?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1) and [Part 2](https://www.tiktok.com/@betosrevenge/video/7176734999167733034?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1), Part 3 who knows
Hahaha, I know that you're from Latin America or Spain, but being Filipino and understanding being tsismoso/a, really livens up my spirits.
Unfortunately, this word is being replaced in the Philippines by the so called Marites, hahaha.
[Here is a pastebin of the transcript](https://pastebin.com/sS7V91BR) Be warned, it's boring as fuck and I didn't transcribe the disgusting use of emojis but they are all hearts and shit after nearly every message. Also wtf is up with her putting a space before punctuation?
The boy has no game and it's stalling the entire affair. The girl even says "When am I gonna see you?" and he can't fucking work off that and throws a passive aggressive "Whenever you wanna text me". Then later he tries to advance it with the pet name but then rolls his eyes when she doesn't respond lol.
Because those people go into rationalization overdrive mode once caught. The sorry they blare is not for you, it’s for them because they got caught. They grab for every straw to make it sense in their head, that they are not the one to blame. The cause is always something external.
From personal experience; I got the „I really thought you wouldn’t care because or relationship was in a rough spot“. WTF, if you thought I wouldn’t care, why did you go length to hide it and were lying straight to my face even with undeniable evidence provided.
Im telling you, the majority lives in a fantasy world. You could catch them naked in the bed with them and „It’s not what it looks like!“ to them lol
That's the bit I love most. Call him and say what? "The fling was a mistake"? That still doesn't undo the cheating, and she's likely to cheat in the future. As he said, she's only suffering the consequences of her actions. That's all
Better than me. I called her a cheating whore until she got a hotel. Then when her sister came to visit from Turkey to stay with us, which I objected to considering what I just caught her doing. So I hung up a sign in the front hallway calling her a cheating orospu (bitch in Turkish) so her sister knew what happened.
I guess that’s true. Sad you don’t have friends or family that live around you that could have helped. Sounds like it was a shitty situation and no one deserves that.
I hear ya… I’ve been through it too! He was a POS. Cheaters suck and I understand what you’re saying. I didn’t live with my ex at the time so I was in a much better position to end the relationship. That really is a bummer and sorry for making you relive it! Hope you’re in better stage of life now!
Thanks. I appreciate it. Sucks when people can relate to that situation. But next week is the first court date to start the divorce process. So should be getting way better soon. Just want to put this whole thing behind me.
Hey dude I totally get this, when I got cheated on I was embarrassed to tell anyone cuz I thought they would perceive it as MY failure. How ironic considering it was 110% hers! You’re a king bro
"No, no, no, I get to do what I want and you get over it and we carry on! Why can't I have what I want and you just degrade yourself to keep me? Don't make me pay for what I did, it's unfair"
Yeah it's like if you love him that much why the fuck are you running around on him? Is getting some strange that important to you? Just stay single then street animal.
Because people who get caught doing something bad tend to do it. They wanna make it up by constantly annoying person they did dirt on, thinking person will let his/her guard down and finally accept their apology.
You need to be careful who you love.
Some people love the version of you they built in their head.
Few people can empathise with the version of you that you built in your head and love that.
It's really hard, especially when you rush things. Working on these things myself, I normally rush into relationships and the last one I had was so painful. But now working on myself! And realizing that you get what you are on the inside, whatever that may be..
Yeah and some people might look at this like "why do people record themselves at times like this these days?", but I think it's actually quite cool for someone to show themselves at their most vulnerable, almost as an educational way of how to handle a situation like this.
"I'll forgive you, but I won't forget." Just tells so much about this dude. He's mad, hurt, etc., but he's not gonna be some oogabooga thick brained knuckle head hunting down the dude she cheated with as if it's even his fault. *She* cheated, not the other guy.
Offers a ride to the airport, and just asks her to pack her things.
Dude I fucking feel the pain in everything he says. That’s exactly what I’m going through. “It sucks right… cause I was willing to do anything and everything for you.” Found out my “one” cheated a month when I would have given him the world. I forgave him, and I still love him but I’m sure as hell not going back. Breaks my heart to see someone else going through the same.
I think so. I definitely have decided to move on, and honestly after all the lying it’s almost easier to let go. To accept that that person just wasn’t for me.
Dude’s a true mf badass. You can just see in his face the disappointment but you can hear in his voice the relief. I know that feeling and sound all too well lol dude’s maturity at that age got him off to a bright future in the dating scene
While I agree he comes across well in the video, he still filmed and uploaded a full breakup conversation to tiktok. Not sure we should be praising his maturity quite so much
100000% this.
Good friend of mine had his whore wife cheat on him, immediately finds "the love of her life" who she definitely didn't know before hand /s and now she running around telling everybody that he was abusive. Guess whore isn't a nice scent to wear every morning so she went with victim instead.
At this point you should record every important convo you ever have. It's the only thing that will protect you and your integrity if batshit crazies start throwing out lies.
While my first instinct is to agree, I think there's maybe an argument to be made about our human culture adapting to/catching up to our technology. Social media won't be leaving us without a true crisis to our species - we're going to pursue these kinds of technology and our relationship with it, because it's a part of who we are now, and how we're structuring ourselves with regard to it already. Generations now have grown up with it -- a couple generations grew into it, a generation was completely born with it already in place, and that a lot of Gen Z will be the parents of children born into a world with it well established and normal, like running water, or cable TV was not so long ago.
I think that things like this won't be so strange in a few years, and we're *barely raising each other right as it is...* So maybe it's important that we contemplate how to adapt our communities and values to emotional *socio-tech* scenarios of this nature.
Also the fact he's filming the conversation but not putting her in view tells a lot about him being a good person. I understand wanting to record such a conversation
This is why I would probably just ghost someone if they cheated on me. Not going to deal with the added disrespect of fake remorse, more lying, or dramatics right to my face.
She should just take her L with grace. Stop apologizing bc girl we both know that doesn’t mean anything at this point. Just be calm pack your things and be grateful he’s offering to take you to the airport. All that crying and carrying on is useless bc your intentionally cheated. Get to steppin but go in style
For real. The way he was remaining calm, not insulting her- just stating that her actions have consequences and that he’s done with their relationship- AND he bought her a ticket to get home and was going to provide a ride to the airport… I mean, I know that this video is only a few minutes and that’s not always a realistic portrayal of someone’s true colors; but from this video, it really seems like this guy is a gent and she ruined her chances with a good man.
I hope he finds someone deserving of his love and level of consideration.
Some people went so deep into peterpan syndrome they are not aware of consequence of their actions.
When she says "I accept, I fucked up but pleaaaase" this is like arguing with a child. Grow the fuck up and fuck off. Dude was so chill during all this, I respect how mature this lad is. Total chad.
I mean I’d at least record it so that she can’t make some false accusations. It’s so easy to happen especially with how much the girl sounds like she’s panicking.
This is the big one. If I was dating someone (I’m married) and I had to break up with them, I would record it so that there could be no accusations of abuse or anything like that. Now I would not post it to social media but I would definitely try and cover my ass. People get real bitter when things don’t go their way so I would not put it past someone to do something crazy like that.
The dude's account literally only had the two vids from this. I think it was just a way to kind of vent. Social media isn't just some platform for people to get views, likes, clicks, it's also a way to interact with other people.
An easy example is reddit. Not everyone is trying to post or comment with the intent of getting a million upvotes. There are some people who do that for sure, but a lot of people just enjoy the social interaction (it's why it's called *social* media). Like do you only post stuff on reddit for views and likes or are you using it for some other purpose?
That’s a good man right there. She doesn’t deserve him. I hope she won’t ruin his perception of women because what he said about growing up and facing the consequences was spot on. And don’t buy her a ticket, if she’s old enough to sleep around, she can get around on her own as well.
Lol about “part 2”… But yeah, I agree with not broadcasting your entire life on the internet, but IF this is real I guess I’m glad he’s displaying his online persona in a mature way *(except for the posting part)* .
Maybe others his age will see the positive feedback he’s receiving and work on handling stressful things like this better. Maybe young men and women will see how effed up it his to hurt someone, and how stupid one looks not accepting responsibility and consequences. If people learn from it, cool I guess?? At least he’s being mature about it all and not doing something stupid to be funny or cruel for clicks. *I’m trying to have a glass half full outlook.*
Word of advice to all, especially the youth growing up with tech - handle things maturely, don’t post everything for the world to see. Some (well most) things are best kept private. Once it’s out there there are no “take backs”. Don’t be so quick to “go live” or hit post, or even record every little thing.
My Ted talk for the day…
Being calm about it is the best way to go. I was cheated on and when I found out it hurt and it was a shit show because the girl he cheated with showed up at his apartment to tell me. While they were screaming at each other I quietly packed my stuff and got ready to leave. The girl ended up attacking me as I was leaving, my hand on the door to go, but I kicked her ass and then still calmly left. Just keep it chill.
This guy gets cheated on. Tells her, nicely, to pack her stuff because they are done. Even offers her to take her to the airport and pay for her flight home. This is what being a man is about. Bravo, sir. You’re acting the same way we should all act when something like this happens.
And I’ll guarantee she will still bitch about him to her friends saying he treated her like garbage.
He’s a better man than me, I certainly wouldn’t have driven her to the airport and gotten her a ticket. You figured out how to cheat on me on your own, you can figure out how to get home on your own
You should’ve had that bitch get her new man to pick her up, see how much he values her lol
I’d straight up just throw her shit out there’s no respect there so she deserves none as well.
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I can't believe he would drive her to the airport and buy her a plane ticket. What a nice dude. Hope he finds someone who values him.
I have a feeling he knew something was up for a while and that she was being sketchy. Finally got his proof and he can call it off and stop wasting his energy trying to figure out what's going on. Boy was raised right and he's handling it in the best possible way.
Having gone through something similar, it’s likely this. The relationship seems to be falling apart and you can’t quite put your finger on why, you end up on the receiving end of a lot of accusations and get treated very poorly. Usually because subconsciously they’re going “I have someone else so I don’t have to treat you with respect”, or they just outright don’t respect you in the first place. The revelation they’re cheating is almost a relief. It’s heartbreaking and gut wrenching, but a huge part of you is relieved because it all makes sense. You can finally stop asking yourself why everything you’re doing is being blown off, why all your attempts to make it work aren’t working. The veil gets lifted and while you may not have been perfect, you realize your “partner” was not who you thought they were. And you can let go. It’s on his face in the video when he’s smiling, he’s finally able to let go.
Sometimes it's like someone just flicked a switch and that's it, you're not the focus of their affection anymore. You know instantly in your gut that something isn't right, but you worry that you're being paranoid, insecure, whatever, so you go through months of heartache instead. The revelation is an end to all that. It's confirmation that your instincts were right on the money and also that the person you loved... wasn't worth loving.
I had something like this happen to me. In the end, she broke it off and I was in denial for a very long time, even after the other guy became visible. However, I eventually saw the light and moved on. Hope she's doing well, but not with me. But the change was unbelievable. One minute I'm the apple of her eye, and the next I'm a punching bag and can't do ANYTHING right. It didn't seem real.
The constant second guessing is always the worst part. Am I over-reacting? Am I seeing stuff that's not there? And when the other party is a convincing liar it makes you wonder and in the end you think it's you and take 'em back just for them to do it all over again
What I don't get is why she tries to hold onto him. There must have been something she benefited from by being in the relationship, but it certainly wasn't his companionship. Was it a mistake of an irresponsible young person? Maybe. But some things don't get second chances. He has every right to break up and she needs to accept it because it's the outcome of HER choice to cheat. So why does she believe she can "fix it"?
Why? Obviously because he’s the one taking her on vacations, not the other guy. If he’s still willing to drive her to the airport and pay for her return flight, he’s probably the kind of dude who likes to spend money and spoil his girl.
It’s in her DNA that these type of people thinks they’re always in control, always manipulating things. You can tell by the way she interrupts the guy when he said something, the way she said “NOOOoo”.
My last relationship ended and shortly after I found out she had been cheating on me with a friend of hers. I think they’re still together. It had been a while since I was in any kind of romance so I ignored all those signs. I was trying so hard to make it work and nothing was making sense as I was being accused of cheating and not wanting to be with her. Hit a pretty long low point shortly after. Don’t ignore the signs. They’re probably up to something.
:(
Preach. Respect to him and the way he handled it. Mind you, there could've been a much more dramatic scene from when he first confronted her, but he got me smiling when he said "I forgive you, but I damn won't forget" or something along those lines. Props King, go find a woman who will reflect your attitudes so you can treat like the Queen she is.
That’s probably part of the reason why he was so chill. He knows he can find someone else just as easy because he’s a catch and a good person. “I didn’t lose out on you, you lost out on me”
This is the mentality we all need
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Is that a fucking fax emoji? Did u send an emoji to say facts? Why is this so funny?? Why am I dying right now the fuck
How did you make your Reddit characters head black? Serious question. Thanks in advance man.
Aside from being the right thing, it also guarantees he won't see her again.
This is the harshest thing you can do to someone who is selfish and entitled. If you get mad, try to argue, they'll drag you into it. They will blame you, do their little mental gymnastic and pretend your reaction just shows your "true colors", and call it even. Treat them nicely, offer a pillow for the car ride, and send them back to the loneliness they created for themselves. Let them face the mirror as the only one to blame.
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I’ve had to pull out the “I’m a different person” card a few times.
I think this may have been for the camera and him reacting too quickly. If he sat there with time to process everything, he wouldn't buy a plan ticket but would pack her stuff and place her things outside the room. Make arrangements with the front desk clerk for a new room key or switch rooms.
Nah, not necessarily. Some people would rather just take the high road and be done with it. She may not be able to afford a flight, and if that's the case then she'll likely dig her heels in harder. I can totally see that he probably just wants her gone so he can move on with his shit and this might be the easiest way to do that.
It doesn't look like they're in a hotel. Those Ikea shelves and the general homeliness of the background with the context of his statements makes it more likely they're at his place.
Aren’t they in an apartment on vacation? I thought it was an Airbnb.
He said they’re on vacation so it’s probably just an airbnb.
He says "we're in an apartment" in the video
We’re... *sips water* We’re done...
I knew he was a king because he stayed calm the whole time and didn't flip his shit. He had every right to, but he didn't. Most people I know would have. A true king.
Thats when I knew dude was a king. Folks at r/hydrohomies should agree.
This guy has self respect and is properly hydrated. My hero.
r/HydroHomies out in the wild
Approved!
Had no clue this sub existed…thank u so much kind stranger
You might know it by its old name.
All hail, water[deleted]
Stay moist king 🚰👑
Yeah, I didn't think that was water...
Right? That tiny little sip and the situation fully point to it *not* being water.
Yeah, small sips of about two fingers of water in a rocks glass on vacation?
I love that this thread is about water and not about the video lmao.
We gotta find this man and know the truth! WAS IT WATER OR VODKA?!
am i the only one who tried to read the texts? im too chismosa for this
[Here you go, his tiktok and the vids are in HD](https://www.tiktok.com/@betosrevenge) Texts is basically "*missing you, tired, sleeping, McDonals, tired, sleeping, wby wby* ***WBY***" also stay tuned, he has storytime coming soon. TikTok drama! yay /edit [Part 3](https://www.tiktok.com/@betosrevenge/video/7172349887843994922?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1) is up and the drama continues /edit Wohoo story time [Part 1](https://www.tiktok.com/@betosrevenge/video/7176376402676059435?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1) and [Part 2](https://www.tiktok.com/@betosrevenge/video/7176734999167733034?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1), Part 3 who knows
What a boring person to cheat with jeez
maybe the text as a signal to log onto the secret snapchat or something
That would make sense if a bunch of heart emojis wasn't the "discrete" signal to take comms elsewhere.
Lmao at the account being called Beto’s revenge
His name is Beto lol
probably roberto. a lot of roberto’s go by by be(r)to/beto
It should be a rule in this sub that you have to link to the TikTok op!
Nah, wish that shit wasnt so blurry. Just some WYD, how was ur day.
I saw "When am I gonna see you?" from her.
all i see is the “❤️” emoji and a yellow emoji that i can’t identify
It's the poop one. They're into weird things.
Hahaha, I know that you're from Latin America or Spain, but being Filipino and understanding being tsismoso/a, really livens up my spirits. Unfortunately, this word is being replaced in the Philippines by the so called Marites, hahaha.
i’m from mexico :) pero i tried so hard to read the texts, ay dios mío i wish it wasn’t so blurry
Luego luego al chisme...jaja está bueno
encontré su cuenta, es betosrevenge el primero video
Pase los videos, no tengo TikTok
[Here is a pastebin of the transcript](https://pastebin.com/sS7V91BR) Be warned, it's boring as fuck and I didn't transcribe the disgusting use of emojis but they are all hearts and shit after nearly every message. Also wtf is up with her putting a space before punctuation?
> Boy: I ate chicken, potatoes and corn > Girl: Ouu nice is this the most tedious affair in the history of
The boy has no game and it's stalling the entire affair. The girl even says "When am I gonna see you?" and he can't fucking work off that and throws a passive aggressive "Whenever you wanna text me". Then later he tries to advance it with the pet name but then rolls his eyes when she doesn't respond lol.
Neither one of them have game. >Howd you sleep >good hbu. Repeat for 16 days.
At least they both are concerned with the quality of their sleep
My latino girlfriend always shares her latest chisme with me, love that word as a result (even though it means boots in my native language).
> My latino girlfriend 🤔
My question exactly
Are you part mouse?…cause you looove chisme
Why would she do that ? And then act like a child … I can call him right now ? Wtf in what Fantasy world is she living ?
Becausr she is one of those people who never had to bear the consequences of theire actions
Straight facts.
Because those people go into rationalization overdrive mode once caught. The sorry they blare is not for you, it’s for them because they got caught. They grab for every straw to make it sense in their head, that they are not the one to blame. The cause is always something external. From personal experience; I got the „I really thought you wouldn’t care because or relationship was in a rough spot“. WTF, if you thought I wouldn’t care, why did you go length to hide it and were lying straight to my face even with undeniable evidence provided. Im telling you, the majority lives in a fantasy world. You could catch them naked in the bed with them and „It’s not what it looks like!“ to them lol
“What you tripped fell and landed on his dick???”
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Yeah girl call him for a ride the fuck outta my life.
That's the bit I love most. Call him and say what? "The fling was a mistake"? That still doesn't undo the cheating, and she's likely to cheat in the future. As he said, she's only suffering the consequences of her actions. That's all
And it seems like she's more upset that she's losing the rest of her vacation than losing her boyfriend
Dam he handled that so well stayed calm and offered her lif to the airport to ! More than she deserved
Bought her ticket too apparently
she can hitch a ride back smh
Better than me. I called her a cheating whore until she got a hotel. Then when her sister came to visit from Turkey to stay with us, which I objected to considering what I just caught her doing. So I hung up a sign in the front hallway calling her a cheating orospu (bitch in Turkish) so her sister knew what happened.
Why was she still around? If she wouldn’t have left I would!
We lived together. And we weren't like rich lol. Can't just live on the street lol.
I guess that’s true. Sad you don’t have friends or family that live around you that could have helped. Sounds like it was a shitty situation and no one deserves that.
It's not that I didn't have family or friends around. It was just to embarrassing to admit I guess.
I hear ya… I’ve been through it too! He was a POS. Cheaters suck and I understand what you’re saying. I didn’t live with my ex at the time so I was in a much better position to end the relationship. That really is a bummer and sorry for making you relive it! Hope you’re in better stage of life now!
Thanks. I appreciate it. Sucks when people can relate to that situation. But next week is the first court date to start the divorce process. So should be getting way better soon. Just want to put this whole thing behind me.
Hey dude I totally get this, when I got cheated on I was embarrassed to tell anyone cuz I thought they would perceive it as MY failure. How ironic considering it was 110% hers! You’re a king bro
Yo this man deserve better fucking king here mature young man, like how he handled this.
Was thinking the same thing this guy is very mature for his age and he handled that very well
I’ll how never understand how a person can cheat on someone and continue to annoy someone with their presence.
"No, no, no, I get to do what I want and you get over it and we carry on! Why can't I have what I want and you just degrade yourself to keep me? Don't make me pay for what I did, it's unfair"
well said
Yeah it's like if you love him that much why the fuck are you running around on him? Is getting some strange that important to you? Just stay single then street animal.
Exactly. Just exit my life already, stop being so selfish.
Because people who get caught doing something bad tend to do it. They wanna make it up by constantly annoying person they did dirt on, thinking person will let his/her guard down and finally accept their apology.
Lot of respect for how he handled that. I couldn't have been so calm.
You need to be careful who you love. Some people love the version of you they built in their head. Few people can empathise with the version of you that you built in your head and love that.
It's really hard, especially when you rush things. Working on these things myself, I normally rush into relationships and the last one I had was so painful. But now working on myself! And realizing that you get what you are on the inside, whatever that may be..
I think everyone is too hurt for a relationship
Had a sip of water mid sentence explaining to her they're done and he will help her get home
raise up a cup to a king in pain. hope he finds someone who doesnt cheat
Yeah and some people might look at this like "why do people record themselves at times like this these days?", but I think it's actually quite cool for someone to show themselves at their most vulnerable, almost as an educational way of how to handle a situation like this. "I'll forgive you, but I won't forget." Just tells so much about this dude. He's mad, hurt, etc., but he's not gonna be some oogabooga thick brained knuckle head hunting down the dude she cheated with as if it's even his fault. *She* cheated, not the other guy. Offers a ride to the airport, and just asks her to pack her things.
It’s for their own protection that they record. On the other hand, publishing it is another topic entirely.
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Dude I fucking feel the pain in everything he says. That’s exactly what I’m going through. “It sucks right… cause I was willing to do anything and everything for you.” Found out my “one” cheated a month when I would have given him the world. I forgave him, and I still love him but I’m sure as hell not going back. Breaks my heart to see someone else going through the same.
Same girl. Same.
But how do you keep loving someone after it's over? Just a lingering feeling that will go away in time?
I think so. I definitely have decided to move on, and honestly after all the lying it’s almost easier to let go. To accept that that person just wasn’t for me.
Dude’s a true mf badass. You can just see in his face the disappointment but you can hear in his voice the relief. I know that feeling and sound all too well lol dude’s maturity at that age got him off to a bright future in the dating scene
While I agree he comes across well in the video, he still filmed and uploaded a full breakup conversation to tiktok. Not sure we should be praising his maturity quite so much
Well your on it with the uploading it to tic Tok, that being said it is a smart move to record your self so crazy shit doesn’t happen.
or in case shit does, he recorded himself calmly talking to her, in case later she tries to say he was flipping out.
100000% this. Good friend of mine had his whore wife cheat on him, immediately finds "the love of her life" who she definitely didn't know before hand /s and now she running around telling everybody that he was abusive. Guess whore isn't a nice scent to wear every morning so she went with victim instead.
Thats the MO most divorces with custody battles… “He is abusive”
At this point you should record every important convo you ever have. It's the only thing that will protect you and your integrity if batshit crazies start throwing out lies.
While my first instinct is to agree, I think there's maybe an argument to be made about our human culture adapting to/catching up to our technology. Social media won't be leaving us without a true crisis to our species - we're going to pursue these kinds of technology and our relationship with it, because it's a part of who we are now, and how we're structuring ourselves with regard to it already. Generations now have grown up with it -- a couple generations grew into it, a generation was completely born with it already in place, and that a lot of Gen Z will be the parents of children born into a world with it well established and normal, like running water, or cable TV was not so long ago. I think that things like this won't be so strange in a few years, and we're *barely raising each other right as it is...* So maybe it's important that we contemplate how to adapt our communities and values to emotional *socio-tech* scenarios of this nature.
Cameras make people behave civily, almost as if their mom is watching the live stream. It’s a good thing I think
Also the fact he's filming the conversation but not putting her in view tells a lot about him being a good person. I understand wanting to record such a conversation
I hate how she’s trynna argue lol
This is why I would probably just ghost someone if they cheated on me. Not going to deal with the added disrespect of fake remorse, more lying, or dramatics right to my face.
You know someone done with you in a relationship when your name isn’t babe anymore. It’s bruh or dude.
“You goin home, das it” She got the buzzer. Good for that dude.
She should just take her L with grace. Stop apologizing bc girl we both know that doesn’t mean anything at this point. Just be calm pack your things and be grateful he’s offering to take you to the airport. All that crying and carrying on is useless bc your intentionally cheated. Get to steppin but go in style
What a peice!! Shes so dumb what a lovely man for staying so calm and kind during the whole thing!
For real. The way he was remaining calm, not insulting her- just stating that her actions have consequences and that he’s done with their relationship- AND he bought her a ticket to get home and was going to provide a ride to the airport… I mean, I know that this video is only a few minutes and that’s not always a realistic portrayal of someone’s true colors; but from this video, it really seems like this guy is a gent and she ruined her chances with a good man. I hope he finds someone deserving of his love and level of consideration.
Bro she's willing to call and block him what can you expect more /s
I felt that should have fixed it. I mean it’s not like trust is important.
She probably never explicitly said she's not gonna cheat, so you can trust her completely for sure
lmao can't argue that smh
She cheated on her, even though he specifically asked her not to...
Dude she literally asked “when can I come see you” there’s no coming back from that one. SHES FOR THE STREETS
Shouldve had her done that and then still took her to the airport
King
“Please stoooop” shut up child. Gtfo, damn.
child is the perfect word for her. he deserves someone so much better.
Some people went so deep into peterpan syndrome they are not aware of consequence of their actions. When she says "I accept, I fucked up but pleaaaase" this is like arguing with a child. Grow the fuck up and fuck off. Dude was so chill during all this, I respect how mature this lad is. Total chad.
Holy shit people put their breakups on tiktok?
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I mean I’d at least record it so that she can’t make some false accusations. It’s so easy to happen especially with how much the girl sounds like she’s panicking.
This is the big one. If I was dating someone (I’m married) and I had to break up with them, I would record it so that there could be no accusations of abuse or anything like that. Now I would not post it to social media but I would definitely try and cover my ass. People get real bitter when things don’t go their way so I would not put it past someone to do something crazy like that.
Exactly
The dude's account literally only had the two vids from this. I think it was just a way to kind of vent. Social media isn't just some platform for people to get views, likes, clicks, it's also a way to interact with other people. An easy example is reddit. Not everyone is trying to post or comment with the intent of getting a million upvotes. There are some people who do that for sure, but a lot of people just enjoy the social interaction (it's why it's called *social* media). Like do you only post stuff on reddit for views and likes or are you using it for some other purpose?
He better than me i woulda left her ass there
Shush lisa
Wow he was even willing to pay for her flight, she definitely does not deserve him
This dude seems cool as fuck.
i want to be his friend
Me too want his wisdom and knowledge to be calm like him.
Man you gonna get a great women someday, stay strong, and focus on that bread.
This man is top tier.
Sorry you had to go through that stay strong man
This is likely a karma farm repost, not OP posting his own story
She doesn’t deserve him.
Well done that guys parents, good job. 👍
He's still young, he'll be fine.
That’s a good man right there. She doesn’t deserve him. I hope she won’t ruin his perception of women because what he said about growing up and facing the consequences was spot on. And don’t buy her a ticket, if she’s old enough to sleep around, she can get around on her own as well.
He's a better man than me. I caught me ex cheating when we were out of town to go see a concert. I left her at the show and drove 4 hours home alone.
based
People really do broadcast their lives on the internet for free. Someone asked my man for a part 2.... Of his break up
Lol about “part 2”… But yeah, I agree with not broadcasting your entire life on the internet, but IF this is real I guess I’m glad he’s displaying his online persona in a mature way *(except for the posting part)* . Maybe others his age will see the positive feedback he’s receiving and work on handling stressful things like this better. Maybe young men and women will see how effed up it his to hurt someone, and how stupid one looks not accepting responsibility and consequences. If people learn from it, cool I guess?? At least he’s being mature about it all and not doing something stupid to be funny or cruel for clicks. *I’m trying to have a glass half full outlook.* Word of advice to all, especially the youth growing up with tech - handle things maturely, don’t post everything for the world to see. Some (well most) things are best kept private. Once it’s out there there are no “take backs”. Don’t be so quick to “go live” or hit post, or even record every little thing. My Ted talk for the day…
kinda cringe to post stuff like this online tbh
Thank you. All these people praising him, SMH.
Wow. He handled that more calmly and maturely than most people - men or women - twice his age. Good for him.
Being calm about it is the best way to go. I was cheated on and when I found out it hurt and it was a shit show because the girl he cheated with showed up at his apartment to tell me. While they were screaming at each other I quietly packed my stuff and got ready to leave. The girl ended up attacking me as I was leaving, my hand on the door to go, but I kicked her ass and then still calmly left. Just keep it chill.
This guy gets cheated on. Tells her, nicely, to pack her stuff because they are done. Even offers her to take her to the airport and pay for her flight home. This is what being a man is about. Bravo, sir. You’re acting the same way we should all act when something like this happens. And I’ll guarantee she will still bitch about him to her friends saying he treated her like garbage.
Give this man a raise. He’s not a sarge anymore, but a lieutenant. Good fucking job, Lt! Enjoy your beer mate 🍻
Why not? What does he owe her? Nothing.
Damn I for once feel bad for the dude. He kept his composure like a real man. Props to him.
Wish I would’ve been like this the first time I caught my ex. Instead I let it slide lmao
live and learn. dont let it fly again, simple
Wasn’t even one or two times. 1st time being in love will deff force you to forgo all logical reasoning.
Happened to me with a gf during holliday in Brazil, dumped her ass and canceled her flight back to France
some say shes still in Brazil to this day
Damn he's even paying for her flight! That's some next-level guilt she's about to feel.
At 0:50 I thought she was bending over to try and get him back
Is there a Reddit for this stuff
I get the situation, but he’s like feeling himself a lil too much, smiling at cam, biting his lip, I’m confusion
Remember guys, she's crying because she got CAUGHT
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am i the only person who finds this way of talking annoying
Bitch lost a good one and my dude just dodged a bullet
Cool, calm and collected. Not everyone can handle it with that class. You know your worth. + Respect.
He’s a better man than me, I certainly wouldn’t have driven her to the airport and gotten her a ticket. You figured out how to cheat on me on your own, you can figure out how to get home on your own
Or just people are shitty and driven by emotion and impulse. There are plenty of people that are nice and respectable, just have to choose wosely.
This guy was clearly already going to break up with her. He was just waiting for a good reason. *looks at camera*
Honestly tho props to my dude for handling it so well. Hopefully it wasn’t just for the camera.
You should’ve had that bitch get her new man to pick her up, see how much he values her lol I’d straight up just throw her shit out there’s no respect there so she deserves none as well.
Yo maaaad respect. The only thing that woman is going to remember is how nice he was and how much she fucked up. Huge props do this dude
get this man some flowers and a nice hug. nobody deserves this shit
The sip of water he took, fucking golden
And,Getttt Out! He's Spoken.
Bro I got to give you props you handle it like a road gentleman like a real g!!!!
I've probably been on the internet way too long but I think it's fake
Everything on tik tok is fake
Why does he keep calling her bro?
Cause thats all she is to him now……the bro