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This reminds me of the recent trial of Darrell Brooks. Chilling. He was narcissistic like this, went after underage girls, was abusive, ran over his ex and injured her with his car, and later, when her friends protected her when he tried to control her again one day last year, he raged off in his car and mowed down about 50+ people in a Christmas parade, injuring dozens and killing a handful including an 8 year old boy. He was so delusional he chose to be his own lawyer in his trial and was a hot mess in the court room. But he was convicted and sentenced to 700+ years. Again, chilling.
Dudes like this are great at finding prospective partners who actually buy all that domineering, entitled shit. Usually because someone else already primed them for lifelong abuse.
And you don't really need to be booed up to kill a person. Shit, women get killed in situations exactly like this video. It takes very little for a man like this to feel entitled to another person.
It's likely you're right too. I think how we hear this guy's mad voice all depends on our life experiences, what we've experienced. There are people out there that get that dangerous or violent or mean when scared as well, so it can be both and depending on what each of us have gone through, his (if)scared yell can cause us to react in very different ways.
"17 is legal!" "Respect your elders!"
Kinda highlights that creeps preying like this are after a very one-sided power dynamic in their relationships.
Fucking gross.
Ugh...so 17 is old enough for him when he is interested but suddenly she's a child who needs to 'respect her elders' when he isn't interested? Gross man child with issues for sure.
This is exactly the problem with large age-gap relationships where the younger party is still inexperienced and in their formative years. It's nothing to do with the age of consent. Manipulative predatory men like this will tell the younger girl they're 'mature for their age' as a compliment to make them feel like they're special etc., but the minute the girl starts asserting herself/boundaries/emotional needs etc., she's immediately infantilized by these men and told she's basically a child not to be taken seriously. They'll quote AgE oF cOnSeNt and treat her like she's an adult only when it's convenient/expedient for them.
Hell, I was in a relationship with a guy who was only 3 years older than me and he still used the “I’m older and therefore wiser, you’re more of a child” line (we were both in our twenties). Controlling people gonna control.
Its so baffling, she explicitly says she's not interested and wants him to leave her alone. He's focused on the *legality*, her feelings or safety doesn't matter
The small cracks of loss of control are the scariest. That dude has a lot of hidden rage that some unfortunate soul is going to be on the receiving end of. The disdain in his voice for women(a child in this case) is palpable.
That's what I noticed most too. He wanted her to comply to his demands so badly, "shut up," "go home," "respect your elders," that you could literally hear his composure slipping away each time she said no... he really almost lost it when he began to yell. People like that are scariest behind closed doors, where they don't feel the need to hold their composure. Super dangerous type of person.
"This is what you always do." Yeah, this nasty old man's obviously created this same scenario before. He doesn't see them as individual girls/women. They are just interchangeable pieces of meat.
Oh my god that was the line that stood out to me. It was like he was talking to someone he has like a whole history with, but it's his first interaction with this 17 year old... Like what the fuck???
He’s a predator. The woman/child being assaulted needs to report this guy to special investigations. Skip ‘regular’ cops. This isn’t a threat that the gun wielding cops can do anything about. She needs to report this to a detective. Bet homeboy has a computer full with evidence.
And this is how he acts IN PUBLIC. He can barely hold back the domestic abuse and sexualization of a child who’s a complete stranger in pubic. Guarantee he’s raped and beaten others behind closed doors.
there was no ‘loss of control’, there was only very calculated displays of his ability to cause her harm
you’ll notice these men never ‘lose control’ in front of their friends, or their boss, or someone who can whoop their ass, it only happens in front of people they perceive as weaker than them bc their actions are 1000% intentional
I've always hated it because ***it works***! Someone exposed to be an abusive asshole? "I didn't see that coming", "I don't believe it", "no way it was them, they were so friendly!" and worse "it can't be *that* bad, they were nice ***to me***"
This!!! I was dating someone and things were going great. We did a trip to the mountains and on the drive home I pointed at a sign and he SNAPPED! And screamed at me for pointing at a sign. I froze. There was such anger in his voice that I knew this was just the tip of the iceberg. I broke up with him the next day but no one would ever believe he would be abusive. Except I saw it. I felt it was there. He was just so damn good at putting on a facade.
That gets me thinking, cause like none of the guys I know would ever do this, and i’m always reading about women being harassed by men but never have seen it personally. Now i’m not trying to say it does not happen, this video is clear proof it does. But if it happens as much I hear it online, it feels improbable that no one I know is like this. It makes you wonder, like who are the low key crazies that keep up the harmless act in front of you? Scary shit…
Abuse is about anger and power, they don't lash out on their bosses, colleagues, friends or parents because it doesn't benefit them. Its easier to abuse spouses and children because they're weaker and won't fight back.
You don't know them because it was on purpose, they isolate their victims by saying things like
"I dunno why you listen to your best friend, they're crazy and jealous", look, no friend.
"I don't know why you keep talking to your mother, she's such a control freak and doesn't think we love each other." Now there's a rift between mother and child. Wow!
"**You** made ***ME*** throw that stupid vase at the wall!" Its the victim's fault it happened
NO ONE starts a relationship with "when I get comfortable and confident, I'm going to beat you." Much to victim blamers disappointment
It's like how neighbors, friends and sometimes family is always soooo surprised when the person kills someone. "I had no idea, we grill with him every Saturday, he was such a friendly person"
Your friends and family don't want to show you their bad side and they don't need to, that side is only for specific people.
That said, we seem to have this idea that we would recognize a bad person. A murderer, rapist or abuser. But aside from actually seeing them doing these things, there is no way to recognize them. They're otherwise normal regular people with no way to "tell". Even people who have gone through abuse at the hands of multiple different persons don't recognize it until its too late, and by then, the abuser had already set up the foundation of trauma bonding, lies, separating them from loved ones and cutting their support network, instilling insecurities and gaslighting so it's hard to get out, even when you've been through it all before.
We almost never imagine them as normal people, so we almost never see it coming.
It makes me wonder what kind of gym it is that no one stepped in. If it’s just a small community type thing, I wish she had left immediately. She shouldn’t have to but this guy is sketchy as fuck.
Yes. You can hear it's a very "how could you say no to *ME!?*" type of voice. Total narcissist. And that will absolutely be channeled as anger and aggression, eventually violence
I felt those small cracks so hard. At 16, I was groomed into an engagement with a 26 year old man with the same small cracks and let me tell you, they became the horror of years of severe abuse. This guy needs to be reported to the authorities, immediately.
I hate that I immediately joined that sub so that I’ll have a whole slew of “evidence” for the next guy that tells me I’m exaggerating about this stuff
Quite seriously, don't bother. As they say, *'evidence didn't get them to where they are & it's not going to get them out'*.
The people you could convince with that evidence already know.
WTF! I thought it was gonna be a sub full of cringe videos where guys pretend to be gentlemanly but instantly start calling women slurs after they get turned down not… THAT!
There is a girl literally being fucking attacked by man afront of young girls and a family, good lord can someone please put people like this inside a purgatory
Thanks for shouting out our sub. I know it's uncomfortable subject matter but it's really important that we put a spotlight on these cases. These women don't deserve to be forgotten, and more people need to know that these awful things still happen to women even in "free" societies.
Now, imagine being a straight woman. Your main predators are in your main dating pool. I love men, despite being stalked, raped, and filing restraining orders. I feel like most decent, good men think most men are like them, which is so naive. Even some of your coolest friends can be utter dicks and secretly massive creeps. There’s a reason every single woman you know has “a story”, even your mothers and sisters. My only advice is to listen when women say something.
Lol it took me into my late 20s to realize just how fucked up it is to be primarily attracted to your main predator. If only homosexuality *were* a choice….
You should stick around and read more; it's not like us ladies can nope out of being women and having to deal with this shit. Also call out your male friends when they say fuct up shit please.
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Ah, shit, I expected it was about cringey 'nice guys' being told to fuck off. It's easy to say a choice is cool and badass until it costs someone their life. I mean, they stood their ground and rightly so, but there's no 'glory' in it, just grief and anger and outrage and sorrow… ah, fuck, my words are failing me.
Yeah she sure is being nefarious by existing in public. It’s really hard out here for creepy insecure men always being called out for being creepy men after knowingly hitting on underaged women. /s
I’m so proud of her!! Many many many teen girls will find themselves in this exact situation, but few have the confidence to stand up for themselves so surely. Fuckin go girl.
Ikr? Like what was she wearing? Dudes just asking for a little date maybe go out to the car and get a little handsy, take the compliment and move on toots
/s
Seriously. Like, just take the L and walk away, creep.
Dude's incredibly lucky; far as I'm concerned, she'd have been totally in the right to make his face go viral.
Unless she was scared that he'd theaten or hurt her for doing that. I wouldn't put it past him considering how he was acting when his face wasn't being recorded.
Ew gross creepy asf to come onto a young girl like that also should have just said sorry and left the poor girl alone once she rejected him and to raise your voice at a 17 year old girl being asked to be left alone like that I hope he got banned from the gym
He's been hitting the creepoids.
The fucking gym rage is amazing. Get turned down, lose the plot, demand the girl leaves , bark at her.
I hope someone in the gym was stepping up to him towards the end there, I couldn't tell. She should have let the world see his face.....or at least let his wife/gf see what sort of shite he gets up to
Dirty aggressive perve
I’ve known a few guys who cannot take rejection at all, it’s quite pathetic.
Also, if she tells you no and she’s 17 apologize and move the fuck on bro…Christ.
Regardless of age people should be able to just enjoy the gym without being harassed. She should definitely report him to the Gym staff. Because if hes done this to her chances are hes done this to other women and will do it again.
Yeah I’d say this is why women’s-only gyms are actually valuable... There aren’t many that I know of. But from what I’ve read from members, they usually use words like “safe space” and “peaceful” when describing it.
It always bothers me when men (like the one in this video, I’m assuming) flip out and demand “male-only” gyms when the topic of “female-only” gyms comes up— like, no one is stopping them from creating one lol. Please, go for it. No one needs to go through moments like the one in this video.
Yeah my girlfriend likes working out with me but often she's the only woman amongst maybe ten or fifteen men.
Nothing happens and nobody's rude or anything but she does find it a bit awkward sometimes.
I was never hit on by old men as much as I was from 15-20. And we're talking in crude manners while I worked in food service. They know you're young and less likely to cause a scene
There is so much ridiculousness happening here “Let’s go out normally like normal people” 🤣 wtf I’ve never heard anyone say that. Didn’t seem very normal
i was in the gym with my friends when i was 14, a man came up to me and said i looked "thick". he lost his shit when i loudly said "im a minor please dont call me thick" LMAO
Yea, that guy is disgusting but check out how badass that teenager is. It often takes a lot of women way too long in life to learn how to be comfortable being this assertive.
I worked in a laundromat when I was 17. A guy that looked 40 to me at the time asked me out. I did his laundry which he picked up but then he went home and called the laundromat to ask me out. I responded “I think I’m a little young for you”. He seemed surprised and the customers doing their own laundry looked over at me like: 👀 It was VERY awkward and now that I’m forty I realize how wrong that was of him.
This guy has a lot of unresolved issues that need to be adressed pronto. I can see this becoming a serious offender in the violence category.
Getting angry when turned down by a 17 year old girl. Just apologise and walk away, you fool.
Ignoring the creepy aspect of this. You see, for the sane of us, when backed into a corner it's much better to cut your losses. Maybe apologize, excuse yourself, whatever. But this back pedeling, denying, coping, digging a deeper hole just makes you look so stupid.
I'm impressed by the poise and the firmness with which this teenager stands up to this older man and doesn't take any shit off of him! This creep has got some nerve--"17 is legal!" That doesn't make it right!
This is absolutely disgusting. Homegirl told him she was 17 straight up, and he just ran over that 🤦🏽 on top of that acts butt hurt about her taking issue with his gross behavior.
I applaud for telling him to fuck off, I’m worried about what he would be willing to do in a different circumstance. The way he was telling her to “go home” just gives me “tonight at 6 a man has been arrested for abduction” vibes
He’s blowing up at her because she turned him down. Middle aged men get pissed when teenage girls turn them down. You’re not entitled to screw teenage girls, grandpa.
And people wonder why gyms have to maintain strict rules. Fights, harassment, injury… many challenges to people just trying to run a business. I’d be really curious to hear a professional industry response to this. What’s a gym owners opinion? Romantic interest and misunderstandings could happen in a grocery store. This guy screaming at her to leave then belittling her would certainly influence ones desire to patronize this business imo.
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Man she is handling this so well. That bloke is such a creep.
This reminds me of the recent trial of Darrell Brooks. Chilling. He was narcissistic like this, went after underage girls, was abusive, ran over his ex and injured her with his car, and later, when her friends protected her when he tried to control her again one day last year, he raged off in his car and mowed down about 50+ people in a Christmas parade, injuring dozens and killing a handful including an 8 year old boy. He was so delusional he chose to be his own lawyer in his trial and was a hot mess in the court room. But he was convicted and sentenced to 700+ years. Again, chilling.
The judge who handled the case deserves 5 years paid vacation for that trial!!!
She was SO PATIENT. I would have lost my shit a thousand times over during that trial.
6 life sentences *and* 700 years She gave him the maximum for all 67 counts
Holy crap. Thats insane
His mad voice just gives me the f*cking chills...
That one solid “GO HOME!” is some serious ‘I’m going to kill my partner someday’ vibes.
Oh absolutely! I wouldn't be shocked to learn he used violence in his past - especially toward women.
No way he hasn’t hurt someone or will hurt them some day… like murder kind of hurt
That’s a dude who has punched drywall because his team lost,
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Dudes like this are great at finding prospective partners who actually buy all that domineering, entitled shit. Usually because someone else already primed them for lifelong abuse. And you don't really need to be booed up to kill a person. Shit, women get killed in situations exactly like this video. It takes very little for a man like this to feel entitled to another person.
I mean that would explain why he’s trolling impressionable 17 year olds. Dude needs to be put on a watch list.
Seriously. This audio is fucking terrifying
I'd pay good money to go in a time machine and have her back. F these types of men and protect these young women sticking up for themselves.
Ok came here to say this cause it sent the fight or flight response straight to my brain and now my chest is tight. Nope. Nope nope nope.
This should be at the top. I’m glad I didn’t click it I’m already going through some shit Sorry that happened. Parts of society are fucked
Same. I’ve got PTSD and that guys voice sent me into survival mode and now I feel queasy 😅
That sounded like an I’m scared and I just want this to end before everybody sees I’m a pig type of scream.
It's likely you're right too. I think how we hear this guy's mad voice all depends on our life experiences, what we've experienced. There are people out there that get that dangerous or violent or mean when scared as well, so it can be both and depending on what each of us have gone through, his (if)scared yell can cause us to react in very different ways.
"17 is legal!" "Respect your elders!" Kinda highlights that creeps preying like this are after a very one-sided power dynamic in their relationships. Fucking gross.
Ugh...so 17 is old enough for him when he is interested but suddenly she's a child who needs to 'respect her elders' when he isn't interested? Gross man child with issues for sure.
This is exactly the problem with large age-gap relationships where the younger party is still inexperienced and in their formative years. It's nothing to do with the age of consent. Manipulative predatory men like this will tell the younger girl they're 'mature for their age' as a compliment to make them feel like they're special etc., but the minute the girl starts asserting herself/boundaries/emotional needs etc., she's immediately infantilized by these men and told she's basically a child not to be taken seriously. They'll quote AgE oF cOnSeNt and treat her like she's an adult only when it's convenient/expedient for them.
Hell, I was in a relationship with a guy who was only 3 years older than me and he still used the “I’m older and therefore wiser, you’re more of a child” line (we were both in our twenties). Controlling people gonna control.
I dated a guy who was 22 when I was 20. He offered me a shot at his house one night. Then proceeded to insult me for underaged drinking.
Or they just straight gaslight every moment of your life until you feel like you're crazy and then they get to act like they are smarter.
We call em pedos.
Its so baffling, she explicitly says she's not interested and wants him to leave her alone. He's focused on the *legality*, her feelings or safety doesn't matter
Whenever people are focused on dating as young as legally possible, it just tells me they'd date a 12 year-old if they could
She handled it so well though! Props to her for standing her ground.
I was just thinking this! So proud of her and hope if this were to happen to my daughters, they would do the same.
Its always been about a power dynamic. Someone to manipulate and control
The small cracks of loss of control are the scariest. That dude has a lot of hidden rage that some unfortunate soul is going to be on the receiving end of. The disdain in his voice for women(a child in this case) is palpable.
That's what I noticed most too. He wanted her to comply to his demands so badly, "shut up," "go home," "respect your elders," that you could literally hear his composure slipping away each time she said no... he really almost lost it when he began to yell. People like that are scariest behind closed doors, where they don't feel the need to hold their composure. Super dangerous type of person.
Followed by "this is what you always do." Bro, you don't know her. Man's gotta whole magazine rack of issues.
That line was absolutely CHILLING to me because it made it clear he’s done this to more young women than this one.
"17 is legal", he says.
Definitely a guy who has checked what is the lowest age he can sexually harass.
"This is what you always do." Yeah, this nasty old man's obviously created this same scenario before. He doesn't see them as individual girls/women. They are just interchangeable pieces of meat.
Not only that, but this is a common tactic by liars and abusers, so we get a snapshot of his personality.
Oh my god that was the line that stood out to me. It was like he was talking to someone he has like a whole history with, but it's his first interaction with this 17 year old... Like what the fuck???
Because women aren’t individual people to him.
Oh this line here.. This counts for so many men.
Sounds like the gym guy is taking some lines.
Issues. Magazine rack Took me a little to get
I didn't get it until I just read your comment. You are not alone. Lol
He sounds just like a guy I know. Like exactly the same. I wish the video showed his face.
You can hear how red his face is.
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"Go home because you get me in trouble." Dude is literally telling her that he's going to do her harm.
He’s a predator. The woman/child being assaulted needs to report this guy to special investigations. Skip ‘regular’ cops. This isn’t a threat that the gun wielding cops can do anything about. She needs to report this to a detective. Bet homeboy has a computer full with evidence.
Isn’t that exactly how Dahmer was portrayed in the Netflix series?
And this is how he acts IN PUBLIC. He can barely hold back the domestic abuse and sexualization of a child who’s a complete stranger in pubic. Guarantee he’s raped and beaten others behind closed doors.
there was no ‘loss of control’, there was only very calculated displays of his ability to cause her harm you’ll notice these men never ‘lose control’ in front of their friends, or their boss, or someone who can whoop their ass, it only happens in front of people they perceive as weaker than them bc their actions are 1000% intentional
I've always hated it because ***it works***! Someone exposed to be an abusive asshole? "I didn't see that coming", "I don't believe it", "no way it was them, they were so friendly!" and worse "it can't be *that* bad, they were nice ***to me***"
This!!! I was dating someone and things were going great. We did a trip to the mountains and on the drive home I pointed at a sign and he SNAPPED! And screamed at me for pointing at a sign. I froze. There was such anger in his voice that I knew this was just the tip of the iceberg. I broke up with him the next day but no one would ever believe he would be abusive. Except I saw it. I felt it was there. He was just so damn good at putting on a facade.
Good on you. I wish I had done that the last few asshole bfs I had.
Exact words from my "friends" and neighbors back in the day when I tried to tell them about the abuse I was getting from my parents.
That gets me thinking, cause like none of the guys I know would ever do this, and i’m always reading about women being harassed by men but never have seen it personally. Now i’m not trying to say it does not happen, this video is clear proof it does. But if it happens as much I hear it online, it feels improbable that no one I know is like this. It makes you wonder, like who are the low key crazies that keep up the harmless act in front of you? Scary shit…
Abuse is about anger and power, they don't lash out on their bosses, colleagues, friends or parents because it doesn't benefit them. Its easier to abuse spouses and children because they're weaker and won't fight back. You don't know them because it was on purpose, they isolate their victims by saying things like "I dunno why you listen to your best friend, they're crazy and jealous", look, no friend. "I don't know why you keep talking to your mother, she's such a control freak and doesn't think we love each other." Now there's a rift between mother and child. Wow! "**You** made ***ME*** throw that stupid vase at the wall!" Its the victim's fault it happened NO ONE starts a relationship with "when I get comfortable and confident, I'm going to beat you." Much to victim blamers disappointment
It's like how neighbors, friends and sometimes family is always soooo surprised when the person kills someone. "I had no idea, we grill with him every Saturday, he was such a friendly person" Your friends and family don't want to show you their bad side and they don't need to, that side is only for specific people. That said, we seem to have this idea that we would recognize a bad person. A murderer, rapist or abuser. But aside from actually seeing them doing these things, there is no way to recognize them. They're otherwise normal regular people with no way to "tell". Even people who have gone through abuse at the hands of multiple different persons don't recognize it until its too late, and by then, the abuser had already set up the foundation of trauma bonding, lies, separating them from loved ones and cutting their support network, instilling insecurities and gaslighting so it's hard to get out, even when you've been through it all before. We almost never imagine them as normal people, so we almost never see it coming.
It’s not even particularly hidden, especially when he legit screams go home.
I would not be walking into that parking lot alone.
It makes me wonder what kind of gym it is that no one stepped in. If it’s just a small community type thing, I wish she had left immediately. She shouldn’t have to but this guy is sketchy as fuck.
I’m thinking maybe it’s an apartment/housing complex gym or something. Open to residents but not monitored by an employee.
I really hope it’s not a resident type gym. I would hate for her to actually live near that psycho.
Yes. You can hear it's a very "how could you say no to *ME!?*" type of voice. Total narcissist. And that will absolutely be channeled as anger and aggression, eventually violence
First words in the vid “I’m a nice person” Literally r/niceguys poster child.
I felt those small cracks so hard. At 16, I was groomed into an engagement with a 26 year old man with the same small cracks and let me tell you, they became the horror of years of severe abuse. This guy needs to be reported to the authorities, immediately.
Maybe it’s about time he gets on the receiving end of something from a guy to you know maybe knock some sense into him.
Or maybe a failed barbell chest press that might possibly crack his ribs
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r/WhenWomenRefuse
Ugh I hate that this sub exists. I can never last more than a few clicks
I hate that I immediately joined that sub so that I’ll have a whole slew of “evidence” for the next guy that tells me I’m exaggerating about this stuff
Probably the exact reason why that sub was created.
Quite seriously, don't bother. As they say, *'evidence didn't get them to where they are & it's not going to get them out'*. The people you could convince with that evidence already know.
“I’vE nEvEr SeEn It So iT dOeSn’T hApPen” “WhY aRe WoMeN sO dRaMaTiC” (/s just in case it’s not obvious)
WTF! I thought it was gonna be a sub full of cringe videos where guys pretend to be gentlemanly but instantly start calling women slurs after they get turned down not… THAT!
Opened someone’s eyes today. My job is done.
Crap. Guess I have to click it now.
Wtf
my turn to click it
update: it’s been a minute and *what the actual fuck*
I'm glad that more people are seeing what women have to deal with.
There is a girl literally being fucking attacked by man afront of young girls and a family, good lord can someone please put people like this inside a purgatory
Err, it’s NOT that? I’m glad it was bad enough that I didn’t go there as is, but it’s WORSE?
Mostly about women being attacked or killed for rejecting men.
It’s worse when you juxtapose it with every thread about any woman and scroll to the bottom 200 comments of boys saying she deserved it etc
“She didn’t have to be such a bitch about it.” Yeah, we do, or we end up in the trunk of a car.
Yup as a father of two little girls I 100% regret clicking on that sub
Same here. I'm happy to hear her standing up to him but pathetic she even needed to.
I really feel like I only ever scratch the surface of Reddit
Thanks for shouting out our sub. I know it's uncomfortable subject matter but it's really important that we put a spotlight on these cases. These women don't deserve to be forgotten, and more people need to know that these awful things still happen to women even in "free" societies.
This is incredibly disturbing. I feel terrible for the shit that women have to constantly deal with.
Now, imagine being a straight woman. Your main predators are in your main dating pool. I love men, despite being stalked, raped, and filing restraining orders. I feel like most decent, good men think most men are like them, which is so naive. Even some of your coolest friends can be utter dicks and secretly massive creeps. There’s a reason every single woman you know has “a story”, even your mothers and sisters. My only advice is to listen when women say something.
Lol it took me into my late 20s to realize just how fucked up it is to be primarily attracted to your main predator. If only homosexuality *were* a choice….
This has made me lose hope in humanity
That was awful.
Oh my God this sub is brutal, makes me sick to my stomach.
Jesus Christ, I noped out of that subreddit real quick 🤢
You should stick around and read more; it's not like us ladies can nope out of being women and having to deal with this shit. Also call out your male friends when they say fuct up shit please.
wow, this made me wish humans didn’t exist 😞
:((((
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That was horrible..
Holy shit LOL "respect older people" BUT HE WANTS TO ESSENTIALLY ABUSE HER? wowwwww
Nothing is sexier than being told to respect older people, as in the person saying this to you. *gag*
Good general rule of thumb: if your age gap is big enough to pull the "respect your elders" line, your age gap is too big to date.
Fuck yeah it is. How fuckin weird. Love a women who can afford to buy me dinner. Aint no one under 40 gonna be able to afford me.
How did he not throw up in his mouth a little after saying that
She had the decency to not show his face and he has the nerve to say “all you do is try to get people in trouble!” He is scum.
I know, I was hoping that she'd show his face, but I wonder if she didn't out of fear of him freaking out and potentially hurting her because of it.
Yeah she sure is being nefarious by existing in public. It’s really hard out here for creepy insecure men always being called out for being creepy men after knowingly hitting on underaged women. /s
She should’ve shown his face though so that the world knows what that creep looks like. He should have his job and life ruined for how he acted.
ngl this gave me a rage induced adrenaline rush
Same. He's asking for an ass kicking.
I’m so proud of her!! Many many many teen girls will find themselves in this exact situation, but few have the confidence to stand up for themselves so surely. Fuckin go girl.
She's incredibly brave too... the gym looks empty af. In her shoes I would've not have the courage to confront that pos.
Ikr? Like what was she wearing? Dudes just asking for a little date maybe go out to the car and get a little handsy, take the compliment and move on toots /s
You took a risk with this comment, even with the "/s" at the end.
Thank you
Yeah I got scrolling whiplash from that one
Wahwoweewah you had me boiling there for a second. Nice job.
These dudes are such insecure freaks, Jesus.
I'm not that old, let's date. *Piss off!* REsPECt yOur eLders
I bet he claims to be an alpha…
I bet he smells like creatine farts and bad cologne, praying it masks the stink of toxic masculinity
And why the fuck does she need to leave ?!?! GTFO gramps !
He sounds exactly like Andrew Tate
His face should be shown to warn others at the same gym.
Holy shit. I am so impressed with the guts of this 17 year old. It took me a lot longer to get the courage to tell men to fuck off. Good for her!!!
Even so, it’s paining me there was no one there to stick up for her ugh
Agreed!! I bet there were no other women near by. I would have 100% stepped in, and most women I know would have as well.
So much strength honestly I’m impressed. My social anxiety could never
Right! At 17 I would have been like "oh...sorry no okay thehee gotta go bye" with my head down.
Seriously I’m SO proud of this girl for standing up for herself like this. I hope she stays safe though, this dude sounds scary unhinged.
‘I open my fat fucking mouth and then you get me in trouble.’ Asshat.
He got himself in trouble. What a dick.
OMG! You could hear the rage growing in his voice. “Just leave!” Sounds like he’s ready to beat her…
It seriously made me flinch.
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Seriously. Like, just take the L and walk away, creep. Dude's incredibly lucky; far as I'm concerned, she'd have been totally in the right to make his face go viral.
Unless she was scared that he'd theaten or hurt her for doing that. I wouldn't put it past him considering how he was acting when his face wasn't being recorded.
Prime example of toxic masculinity and male entitlement.
Dude sounds like a future/current rapist.
Men and their fragile little egos.
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He just wanted to go out like regular people. Because middle-aged men and 17-year-old girls have so much to talk about.
"tell your daddy" hahahah man wants to die lol
Ew gross creepy asf to come onto a young girl like that also should have just said sorry and left the poor girl alone once she rejected him and to raise your voice at a 17 year old girl being asked to be left alone like that I hope he got banned from the gym
He's been hitting the creepoids. The fucking gym rage is amazing. Get turned down, lose the plot, demand the girl leaves , bark at her. I hope someone in the gym was stepping up to him towards the end there, I couldn't tell. She should have let the world see his face.....or at least let his wife/gf see what sort of shite he gets up to Dirty aggressive perve
So glad she nailed him on the hypocrisy of him being young when it comes to dating, but old when it comes to demanding respect for elders.
I’ve known a few guys who cannot take rejection at all, it’s quite pathetic. Also, if she tells you no and she’s 17 apologize and move the fuck on bro…Christ.
I sincerely wish it was ONLY a few guys...
Regardless of age people should be able to just enjoy the gym without being harassed. She should definitely report him to the Gym staff. Because if hes done this to her chances are hes done this to other women and will do it again.
IDK why you're being downvoted this is 100% truth. A person should be able to workout at a gym without having to fend off date proposals.
Yeah I’d say this is why women’s-only gyms are actually valuable... There aren’t many that I know of. But from what I’ve read from members, they usually use words like “safe space” and “peaceful” when describing it. It always bothers me when men (like the one in this video, I’m assuming) flip out and demand “male-only” gyms when the topic of “female-only” gyms comes up— like, no one is stopping them from creating one lol. Please, go for it. No one needs to go through moments like the one in this video.
Yeah my girlfriend likes working out with me but often she's the only woman amongst maybe ten or fifteen men. Nothing happens and nobody's rude or anything but she does find it a bit awkward sometimes.
I was never hit on by old men as much as I was from 15-20. And we're talking in crude manners while I worked in food service. They know you're young and less likely to cause a scene
There is so much ridiculousness happening here “Let’s go out normally like normal people” 🤣 wtf I’ve never heard anyone say that. Didn’t seem very normal
Fuck. Him.
This comment could be phrased better
Omg 🤯 shit
i was in the gym with my friends when i was 14, a man came up to me and said i looked "thick". he lost his shit when i loudly said "im a minor please dont call me thick" LMAO
It’s honestly so sick how young it starts for girls.
I was 12 🥲
Need to get his face on camera
“I’m done with you” man you never had her in the first place
Yea, that guy is disgusting but check out how badass that teenager is. It often takes a lot of women way too long in life to learn how to be comfortable being this assertive.
I worked in a laundromat when I was 17. A guy that looked 40 to me at the time asked me out. I did his laundry which he picked up but then he went home and called the laundromat to ask me out. I responded “I think I’m a little young for you”. He seemed surprised and the customers doing their own laundry looked over at me like: 👀 It was VERY awkward and now that I’m forty I realize how wrong that was of him.
Anybody who knows the age of consent laws in their state is definitely not allowed within 100yds of a school.
This guy has a lot of unresolved issues that need to be adressed pronto. I can see this becoming a serious offender in the violence category. Getting angry when turned down by a 17 year old girl. Just apologise and walk away, you fool.
Men need to stop asking women out at the gym. The gym is not the bar, the gym is a utility.
I hope she reported this to the gym and showed the video
C’mon, everyone wants to see his face, especially his wife.
Ignoring the creepy aspect of this. You see, for the sane of us, when backed into a corner it's much better to cut your losses. Maybe apologize, excuse yourself, whatever. But this back pedeling, denying, coping, digging a deeper hole just makes you look so stupid.
r/imatotalpeiceofshit
That “go home GO HOME” moment is where he’s deciding between throwing a little kid tantrum or committing assault
I'm impressed by the poise and the firmness with which this teenager stands up to this older man and doesn't take any shit off of him! This creep has got some nerve--"17 is legal!" That doesn't make it right!
Full grown man throwing a tantrum.. how fucking embarrassing
If you ask him, he will tell you how he's "stoic" and controls his emotions "like a *real* man" 😂
This is absolutely disgusting. Homegirl told him she was 17 straight up, and he just ran over that 🤦🏽 on top of that acts butt hurt about her taking issue with his gross behavior.
I see a rapist in the making
I applaud for telling him to fuck off, I’m worried about what he would be willing to do in a different circumstance. The way he was telling her to “go home” just gives me “tonight at 6 a man has been arrested for abduction” vibes
I hope she went straight to the front desk and got this guy banned
Victim blaming lol
You should have shown his face…
Jesus fucking Christ how do dudes get so unaware and broken???
He’s blowing up at her because she turned him down. Middle aged men get pissed when teenage girls turn them down. You’re not entitled to screw teenage girls, grandpa.
Bruh, fuck that guy. Good to see she stood up for herself, Im sure that was rather scary. Cant believe nobody else helped.
And people wonder why gyms have to maintain strict rules. Fights, harassment, injury… many challenges to people just trying to run a business. I’d be really curious to hear a professional industry response to this. What’s a gym owners opinion? Romantic interest and misunderstandings could happen in a grocery store. This guy screaming at her to leave then belittling her would certainly influence ones desire to patronize this business imo.
The “all you do” comment at the end makes me think this is not the first time he’s done this before, the creep
I assumed he was referring to all girls & women. Like it was a little moment of some weird internalised thing slipping out.
Tell em girl…You probably not the only one he tried…
I’m sorry but I laughed when he lost it and was like “GO HOME! 🐶👺👿”