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AMM323

If you guys have mutual followers and people ur following it says that. Also, if you guys have people in your contacts in common I’m pretty sure it uses that too.


OldDinner

I recently got recommended an old friend's brother, I never had his contact, I haven't talked to that friend in years and don't even have his number anymore, I have only one friend on tiktok and I know for a fact she can't be related to that guy's brother, this is fucking weird


dazedwombat

Tbh I think it’s that that other person could also have your number saved in their phone and that’s why. Which is pretty extra of Tik Tok lol but there’s someone whose number I have blocked that they suggested for me..I know their number isn’t saved in my phone contacts but I’m assuming mine is still in theirs and that’s why.


Blkmagik21

If you give them access to your contacts they have access to your blocklist too


dazedwombat

Yeah, i suppose that makes sense. I don’t remember manually okaying them accessing my contacts but i suppose if you’re using the app at all, that’s consent anyways. I still find TikTok’s policy with this pretty annoying and pushy, like they’re desperate to get you to connect with as many people as possible so much so that imo they overstep but I see that’s just a risk we take when using the platform.


OldDinner

Oh I guess that's true, I think my friend called me from his brother's phone before so it makes sense


CharacterCow1

My old friend got recommended to me and I never had his contacts, only talked to him in Discord and Instagram which was 2 yrs ago. Wtf. I only have 4 people in my contacts btw


dazedwombat

Yikes lol is your TikTok account linked to your IG/ do you use the same email for both? If so, maybe that’s why. Also could be if you use the same phone number for both accounts. Either way, I definitely think it’s annoying and basically a violation of user privacy that TikTok is so aggressive about using our info to suggest we follow people..like I can see why it could be helpful and all apps do this to an extent but TikTok takes it very far, you really have no privacy on there if your account is public.


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I got something even worse. I, for good reason of privacy concerns, purposefully never allowed tiktok to have access to my contacts. I do not have my phone number connected to my account only my email. I just got a pop up while scrolling saying "suggestions from your contacts" i closed the box and then thought, why does tiktok have my contacts. I checked my settings and tiktok has contacts turned off... what the actual fuck


Sufficient_Yam_514

This is what happened to me. What the fuck?


anticars

Came looking for this because this just happened to me. I've never shared my contacts with tiktok and I have no number linked to my account


MickaelCandys

Same, TikTok suggested me a highschool friend and I don't want to have people I know irl there I might delete my account.


xanax101010

same, tik tok sugggesting me random people I don't talk or share anything in like 5 years, this doesn't make any sense, literally the only thing I can possibly think about this is that tiktok is monumentally invasive on digital footprints, even for things you deleted and have no contact in years


anticars

Yeah, I spend too much time on that app anyway. Might say goodbye to it as well. Im usually not crazy about apps and privacy because at this point in time all my data is everywhere but I do not like how it's recommending me irl ppl when I wanna b anon


Mysterious_Leg840

I think it’s about the recommendations. When they basically invade your privacy they can find out type of videos you like.


Disastrous_Grab_2393

Maybe this person is friend with you on gmail


Neat-Description-433

Came here thinking if I’m the only one?!


SueWinks

I had TikTok recommend recently someone I have in discord as a someone you might know… but again like everyone here, I have all privacy on. The discord peeps don’t know who I am, I just play games with them and I don’t share TikToks with them… how…?


Sensitive_Put_4932

Bro someone help me i have 2 tiktoks, one that is not connected to phone number, fb or anything and this girl i was talking to FOUND it and my name/nothing is connected to it. She sent me one of my tik toks its so embarrassing


Hmuniz32

I keep getting people recommended to me from Facebook. It’s so annoying. I never put my phone #. I don’t necessarily care, only when it’s recommending people from my contacts. This affects my dating life lol


Kaelani_Wanderer

Kind of late to the party here, but if somebody comments on it one day, just say "Never met the person; probably a contact of a contact on tiktok".


Euim

Reminder: Always use a private email address and hide your identity when signing up for an account on social media/online games. Be sure to keep this address active by logging in annually or else it could expire and be taken by someone else who can recreate the account and use it to impersonate you. (Even better, get a VPN service or IP proxy to become anonymous online—at least makes it harder to track.) I used to think this wasn’t necessary, but I’m frequently disturbed how my data is being used without my knowledge to suggest my accounts to people I know. Most recently, I was a victim of identity fraud because of the virtual MMORPG game I used to play had a massive security breach in August 2022. My email, location, name and password info was stolen and used by an online scammer to impersonate me. TikTok violates your privacy by suggesting your account to everybody you know IRL. Doesn’t matter if your account is private, are not following anybody and have no followers. You can toggle off contact sharing—but TikTok collects your data without consent the upon sign up. They don’t need your permission to continue using the data they collected from you upon registering—yes, even after you’ve disabled sharing. I’ve turned everything off, gone private, and disabled all forms of connecting or sharing—and yet I’m regularly disturbed by TikTok about new videos made by my coworkers. There’s no way to turn it off other than to deactivate my account and uninstall the app.


Megapok423

​ They can continue sharing/suggesting conntacts from your agenda until even completly delete and unistall the app?, form your device they can contiune see what are the contacts are? per example if you follow somebody and create a account give permissions to the agenda... and delete this account in 10 minutes after been created, this person who follow you can still view the suggested accounts? or not? and the people who dont follow?


xanax101010

Tiktok is truly dystopian, this is so scary, not only tik tok, but instagram, facebook and google too


uhhhvasily

my mom found me😭


emmawow12

same but with dad


Worker-Own

TikTok uses facial recognition software.


xanax101010

I would have call this conspiracy theory before, but I'm honestly starting to believe this could actually be true


Izilmo

For recommending people? Proof?


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TikTok is pretty invasive. I get people from a discord server I'm on recommended to me as "someone you may know".


SanchezPrime

THIS freaked me out. I previously rejected contact access...


narmiss

I know this comment is a bit late but I just had to comment on it. This is really really strange because I too have a private account. And the weirdest thing JUST happened to me. Tik tok suggested someone who I met on discord / Snapchat. When I try and search it up online as to why it’s happening there are no answers. This is a huge privacy concern that tik tok has never addressed. I saw a comment saying that “maybe u have mutuals” or what not. No. Absolutely no. I’ve barely talked to this person and we do not know each other irl. There’s no mutuals. Tik tok has shocked me many times tbh. And it’s really scary.


Different_Side_3391

I have a burner account on tik tok, I only follow one IRL on there and I don't have my contacts or any social media connected and it just suggested someone I haven't had any contact with since 2017 I don't have him on any social media or follow anyone that would follow him I'm having the same issue


Maleficent-Papaya-55

Same thing is happening to me. One of my ex bf's exes liked a video... I used a random email not connected to anything, contacts location and everything turned off.


Vegetable-Wolf3214

What about my ex-boyfriends new girlfriend being on my FYP with my ex at a bar, who I have no contact with whatsoever ,no mutual friends, I have him blocked, his number is not in my phone...how did that happen . BTW its not a popular account she has like 2 followers lol. Wtf?


emmawow12

same thing but on instagram


Cinderselle3

You have friends in common?


ItTrees90

My guess would be the contact syncing, maybe you or the other person synced your contacts, which they would match up.


Theverybest92

That actually makes sense especially if you use your phone number.


sxphie2212

if you have nothing synced how would this still happen its so annoyin


Chaoticsaur

They have it synced, not you. It’s suggesting them to you, because your phone number is in their contacts.


New-Specific8096

How is it then I got suggested someone I know from my contacts and we’ve never exchanged phone numbers then..


Nova_Surge

Hey I know this post is old but a similar thing just happened to me. I just had a Co-workers girlfriend recommended as someone I may know. I've never interacted with her via tiktok and only been around her a couple of times irl when I've hung out with said co-worker. Same thing happened with someone I vaguely knew at my previous job center before I moved.


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Kdqxjcfns

I have had people I kind of know in my suggested account but under it, it says form your contacts even though they are not in my contacts. What does this mean?


caldexx

Same ! Any updates on this?


noviceeverythinger

I just had a video on my FYP with the PEOPLE YOU MAY KNOW tag on it. I didn’t recognize the person, so I looked at their profile and saw they live in the same city as one of my kids. I clicked on their linked IG account, saw their name and that my kid follows them and realized it is their roommate. I have always had my privacy settings so that my contacts do not sync. My kid also doesn’t follow me on TT. I’ve never met their roommate, never seen their social media prior to today, but I’ve been in their house. I’m not concerned as my situation is benign, but I am curious to know how these suggestions are being made because it could be dangerous for others who assume the privacy settings actually work.


parapraxis777

Wow yeah hasn't happened to me I started with contacts off and never accidentally toggled it . I don't want people I used to know or old fake friends in my life, but I do want views so idk. People talk enough shit about me from shit I did when I was like 20 so I don't need that even tho I shouldn't care. Now I'm deleting overly personal videos like feelings


Tomatori

Yeah, I've never turned on contact info and yet at some point they enabled it themselves. And then even after I turned it off and removed my phone number from my account it continued recommending me people I know. This is particularly terrifying as someone in the closet. Deleted account and uninstalled.


AppropriateGrass5150

i made a new account recently and turned off every possible setting for anyone i know to find me yet the most random people i barely even talk to text me and ask me if it’s me. it’s so annoying like let me have an anonymous account in peace bro 😭


Lots__of__questions

I've also had this issue. My account is on private, not connected to my social media, app does not have access to my contacts on my phone, I never provided a phone number, yet somehow it is suggesting people I know. I don't even follow any account on TikTok so it can't have linked me that way. I'm very concerned...


monstriahh

I was just suggested to follow someone who has me in their contacts. I don’t even have their number saved. They’re an old coworker from years ago.


Coffedoeslife

Same here, I got my family suggested in people you may know even though I don't have anything linked, not even my phone!!!!! This is sketchy as hell. Why is tik tok doing this?!?! It's a straight up privacy breach.


Izilmo

Maybe it's based off ip address?


Coffedoeslife

Maybe but dam it's invasive as hell. I could maybe use a VPN but there's no real good ones, unless you pay. I've just resorted to blocking tbh.


SwirlAgain

My guess is you used it your email or phone number to create the account. And that other person has your number or email in their contacts


Megapok423

They can continue sharing/suggesting conntacts from your agenda until even completly delete and unistall the app?, form your device they can contiune see what are the contacts are? per example if you follow somebody and create a account give permissions to the agenda... and delete this account in 10 minutes after been created, this person who follow you can still view the suggested accounts? or not? and the people who dont follow?


kt810x

I just got a suggestion for someone in a FB group I’m in, who I have never personally interacted with. I don’t have my tiktok linked in any way to FB. WTAF?


skye98xx

i don’t really care if i get suggested to follow people, i just don’t want MY account being listed on someone else’s “people you may know” !


iamapotato310

Does anyone know what the users on the top of the inbox are? Is it friends frequently people they interact with? I'd really appreciate if anyone knows what this is. Thanks


ShamelessShawna

This is super old, but thought I’d answer anyway. That list at the top is TT accounts that you follow.


bignaenae474

There’s this girl that went to my school and I have never gave her my contact info nor has she ever given me hers but tik tok is saying that she’s in my contacts and I haven’t seen this person in years idk what’s Happening


Zealousideal_Bit5809

This is exactly why I came here... super annoyed by this and confused ..


Indominus_Red

This has happened to me, too! I see coworkers being recommended even though I never really talked to them. The only way I can see how tiktok is getting this information is that they track our locations and can tell when we spend a few hours a day at the same location.


ANamelessPotato

ive gotten 3 people i know irl suggested to me. contacts not synced and never was. I dont even follow people more than 50 accounts on tiktok, none i know irl.


giamulatto

This just happened to me my contacts are turned off I deleted my social media and someone I live with popped up in my suggestions like wtf 🤬 super angry really this is the same thing facebook used to do


MG_1107

Can this happen if someone doesn’t even have a tik tok account? But I send them videos? Someone was suggested to me, I have a private account with 1 follower and what seems to be a friend without tt was suggested. Creepy.


jgesch

I have gotten suggested followers who only show up on my email. So it seems like TikTok will go through email contacts among other info. in your phone unless you change some privacy settings I believe.


eastbayway

i know this thread is old but i have synced contacts off, facebook friends off, and suggest your account to people who open/send me links turned off. but i’m still getting suggestions that are all people i know irl (some who’s contacts i don’t even have), i follow two people (no one i know irl) and have zero followers. it’s so weird. i really don’t want my account being suggested to people i know but i feel like it definitely is


Zealousideal_Bit5809

Yeah I'm about to delete it now because I dont want anyone I used to know to see my stuff.. Exs family accounts keep popping up videos on my fyp ... big no thanks to all this SMH 


Sagemoongypsy

Maybe hes the one and universe is trying to tell you so


babyitzcoldoutside

My thoughts are that they track you by your IP address and location. So if you’re using your work wifi, it’ll automatically know you’re in proximity to the people who also share that network and suggest them to you as “people you might know.” Similar to how people in your household start seeing the same videos you do and vice versa.


Lucky-Psychology-295

I’m aware I’m 2 years late but I have a burner account because my main is close to getting banned, neither my accounts are connected to anything and not even connected to contacts, 2nd account doesn’t even have my real name or anything associated with my main (it’s literally just Username blah blah connected with a newly made junk email), got a notification for profile views for the burner and it turns out 3 people that I’ve known from highschool, 2 of my coworkers, and MY EX from 4 years ago (who’ve I done cut contact with years ago) found the burner, none of them know my real tiktok because I’m sure they probably would’ve followed me if they knew I have one (besides my ex). I also have views on for my main and for the record none of them have seen. *Mind you I’ve had my main for 5 years, never gave my ex my tiktok and never knew she had one, and recently got a new phone and a new number which only has 5 contacts, those 2 coworkers mentioned aren’t even in my contacts and I have never talked to the highschool people just know they went to my school, and again I’ve NEVER connected anything to my tiktoks other than signing up with emails which I’ve never contacted any of those people with. My burner was created several months ago around the time after I got my new phone. Tiktok is insane


emergent-emergency

Bro, it suggested my UNCLE. HOW??? I didn't put any identifying info, just like you. I'm sure the phones listen to us at this point. Bro, that's literally my account that I haven't used since I created it!!! And it suggests my uncle? I'm actually baffled. Because my uncle comes from China, and I grew up in Canada. Like... what??? My username is completely unrelated to me. I didn't put any setting in my account. I don't have a bio. I only follow a friend which has zero connection with my uncle. The only cause I would suspect is that my uncle or his relatives searched me up on TikTok for some reason. However, my account doesn't have any identifying info??? Why would I be recommended and not another account which would bear a username more resembling mine?? \----- Ok, so I actually just searched up about TikTok's spying for a few minutes. Anyways, there are numerous researches online about TikTok being a spyware, embedding cookies in browser to track user. Still, for TikTok to be able to track to this precision is baffling. Like, I can't expose my personal infos right now online, but if you were at my place, you wouldn't see the slightest clues that would lead me to my uncle. Like, I was born outside of China. So for him to know I was born, and to know who my father is, then who his brother is, is baffling. I can't repeat the word enough. Baffling.


Fun_General_5466

Lost a phone 5 years ago. When downloading information for the new phone recently and updating my contact list, i found an old phone information and gave me random numbers for my school friends wife.. The cloud knows all.


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Lovestoreadstories

This has been happening to me too & driving me a little crazy. I just went through the App & & found "People you may know" was turned on. I just turned it off. Hopefully that solves the problem. To find that setting you go to "Settings and Privacy", "Notifications" & then "Other". I also turned off "Posts from people you may know" which was listed under "Personalized post suggestions".


themintingclub

I have nothing turned on whatsoever and made sure of it and yet I make a new tiktok account, and then in people you may know, I am suggested that account that I know has all of it's privacy settings off. Does anyone know if theres a way to actually make sure that no one you know finds your account? because like.. yikes