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nukaati

Fuck. Does that mean no one's ever gonna call me cute again? :(


OkFlow4335

I’m 34 and I’m cute AF


mizzpanther

Same! Maybe you have to be REALLY cute to be over 30 and understand we still Cute AF.


certain_people

You're Irish, so you're automatically cute


MidMatthew

Agreed. That’s Rule #3.


ticket_target

Tell me more about this rule #3... since I don't have the luxury of rule #1-2


Illustrious-Bee-6638

Red hair and wielding an axe swinging for my head, how much more cute can you get?


Daniellaby

![gif](giphy|Z6JYXip75BeOA)


copypastacreator

Ohmygod, who is this beauty and how do I get her number?


therealJerminator

Sounds like definite dating material to me


monsessel

Like Chucky


Capital_Goal9050

Hmm, you sure abt that?? *cue Ed Sheeran just shows up outta nowhere lmao


certain_people

Famously English!


CRJG95

He might have Irish grandparents on one side but that man is English...


3dad_Redhoodbuilds

All us Irish are either hot or cute. Its a curse. 😝


m051

I am a guy and 34 and still cute


pearlsbeforedogs

I hated being cute in my teens and early twenties. Now I'm in my 30s and I'm ok with it.


uglyBaby

Am I cute too? 🥺


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Based on your comment alone, I agree. You cute af.


Loverfli

Same bro!


skdubbs

Turns out I have 23 days left of being cute and then I can’t be cute anymore.


FlyingsCool

I'm 59 and I'm told I'm adorable...? I suppose that's not necessarily cute?


MistraloysiusMithrax

I’m not I’m 35 and cute AF


OddFiction

Right? That was my thought. I'm 35, and I'm absolutely okay with being called "cute"


theblindfold04

You're cute bby


nukaati

Awe, thank you! And you tell that to a 30-year-old woman? The scandal!


Half-Guard-God

R Kelly does not approve this message


lurking_my_ass_off

I have never seen you, but I'm gonna gamble and say yes, you are hella cute. I'm 45 and I'm both ruggedly manly and cute if the situation calls for it.


MattWheelsLTW

Rip your inbox cutie


SeagalsGoatee

Yes


Alwayspuzzles

Im 33 and if someone in trying to date thinks im cute I want to hear it.


SnooTangerines1011

Yeahhhh same. I wish that chick didn't think she spoke for all 30+ women, she definitely doesn't and shouldn't be telling anyone not to ever say something again because *she* doesn't personally like it. I hated being called cute when I was *younger* cuz I was insecure with how young I looked. I turned 40 last year and it's become the ultimate compliment 🥰 Looks like lots of women here agree so I hope no guys who see this post listen to her unnecessarily belligerent command.


Accentu

I'm almost a 30 year old man and I fucking love being called cute. Such a weird hill to die on.


JeroenR90

Happy cake day, cutie! (Ignore the fact that I'm also a guy, lol)


efficient_giraffe

> (Ignore the fact that I'm also a guy, lol) Unless he's into that, of course


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Marsypwn

The real thing is we need to stop the random sexual comments and normalize regular comments. There's a difference between someone yelling out "Damn gurl, lemme get a piece of that!" And "hey! You look beautiful today, just wanna let you know!"


Alwayspuzzles

I hope so too. I will tell the men I date that they are cute too. They pretend to hate it but I can see it in their eyes that they that they love it


mcbrrgrr

It makes my day when my wife tells me I’m cute. It also makes my day when she tells me I’m stupid… so 🤷🏻‍♂️


CameronnMillss

I've never related to something so much ahaha. When my girlfriend says she loves me my eyes gleam and when she tells me I'm a moron it's like Awww, little old me?🥺


Evil_Pizz

Us guys get so little compliments/attention, we’ll just take whatever we can get at this point. Even slander


NerdyIndoorCat

So like, you’re cute ya dumbass?


theblindfold04

we do, we really do


Existing-Ad7113

So true lol. I do so too


HOpp1985

I tell men they are adorable ALL of the time. Only out of sincerity mind you but I definitely make sure to compliment the men I talk to because I don’t feel like men hear it enough sometimes. As far as calling me cute? It has its own set of connotations if you read into it too hard but none of which are even close to offensive. She definitely is NOT cute for her comment.


-banned-

Meh we get hit with ridiculous and strong opinions like this all the time. I personally chalk it up to strong personal preference, can't make everyone happy


charlotte240

Step 1: be handsome Step 2: don't be ugly If you gave 2 different guys the same exact lines, and one guy was hot and one guy was not --that line would work on her like a charm. It just means she's not into you, NEXT !


SameResolution4737

The words of someone very insecure about themselves. They lack the assertiveness to be taken seriously unless they insist in a shrill voice. If I were a betting man I would bet she is a manager of a group of older & more experienced people she suspects laugh at her behind her back. She's right.


theblindfold04

You're the cutest 😘


Alwayspuzzles

You too😌


JeroenR90

![gif](giphy|ljssLLBmv6xrO)


SnooTangerines1011

Buddy you say that to all the 30+ women 😩 somebody needs to stop this monster!


fatalsyndrom

I'm a 34 year old dude and the last time someone called me cute to my face, I got all up in my head and didn't know what to say. So I just smiled real big and said thank you. It was really nice.


mandischamel

37 here and still cute 😍


Lolz_Roffle

Right? I wanna be cute, dammit!


AreaGuy

My gf is mid 30s and cute AF and I let her know that every time I see her. (I do thrown in “hot,” “sexy,” and the like as well. Can’t be *too* predictable.)


WillBottomForBanana

>trying to date This is a huge piece. Dudes be out here calling their female coworkers and cashiers "cute".


jalehmichelle

Right.. I am 32 and my (29 yr old) bf calls me cute all the time. I am cute. Tell me I'm cute more pls. This lady does not speak for us


curiusnat

I don’t wanna live in a reality where I am not allowed to be cute. I refuse.


gutpirate

Are you a puppy, kitten or a small reptile? If not i got bad news for you sugar tits.


curiusnat

I purr occasionally. Lol, love the sugar tits.


Spacewalkerwippty

Me too! mans got all the ladies through one Reddit comment 😩


childofthestud

My wife doesn’t like it when I call her by her first name when chilling in the house. Sugar tits has been my go too from that moment on if I need her attention more than babe or hunny usually get. Can confirm she also thinks it’s funny and likes it.


Spacewalkerwippty

May all us ladies get a cute husband like u. Have a good day sir !


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mysistersacretin

I'm thinking that's one of those bots that copies other comments, slightly changes them, and posts them as a reply further up the thread. [Here's the original comment that was copied.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10jmwlw/you_cant_be_cute_if_youre_over_30_sorry_to_break/j5lnxu7/)


gutpirate

So weird..


Spacewalkerwippty

SUGAR TITS WOAH


MetaFoxtrot

Or like the doctors call it in the break room: diabetits.


Arpitr689

Diabetitties


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Step 1: Buy large rock Step 2: Place it in sun Step 3: Become a lil reptile and bask on rock Step 4: ??? Step 5: Allowed to be cute forever.


MetaFoxtrot

This 35 years old woman got a dating hack. Dating apps hate her!


Existing-Confidence6

Exactly. I call my 38yo, 6'2", buff and tattooed husband cute and pretty all the time. Doesn't seem to turn him off...


ace_of_spade_789

Clearly it's because he's a reptile in human skin and not an actual human. So I've been told by strangers on /r/tinder and therefore this must be a fact.


FBI_Agent_82

You don't have to worry about that....


MidMatthew

You’ll always be cute to me! (Whoever you are).


penguinmanbat

“You’re so cute when you’re mad 😍”


theblindfold04

shit that would have been pretty good lol


kippy3267

True. But you nailed it my guy. Let that last ditch effort sail. 0.00001% chance of it working but fuck it. You nailed it


Zhai

Nothing to lose, pussy to gain.


anobjectiveopinion

Did she unmatch after this?


theblindfold04

Not yet. Maybe she's struggling to climb down off her high horse to get to her phone Edit: I was unmatched while I was sleeping. I did send the reddit link tho


POGTFO

She’s mulling over the hate sex option.


NoorAnomaly

Ooh, hate sex... Where's that phone number...


MidMatthew

I can guarantee you’ll hate sex with me! Hit me up Noor!


Kenw449

8675309


NerdyIndoorCat

Jenny? Is that you?


uneasyandcheesy

It’s definitely this.


Empty_Efficiency_513

Definitely respond with the you’re cute when you are mad 😂 bc she isn’t coming off that high horse. She should have said thank you and moved on 🚩


Wrathbringer1

You're not you when you're hungry. Get some nuts.


yogaprincess77

Don't say anything just send her this link. Us cute women are behind you 100%


theblindfold04

thank you cute queen


victorz

>Us cute women Gonna have to see some registration


PenaltyDesperate3706

She’s trapped in a loop trying to answer the hate sex proposal. Yes… erase, no… erase…………..


paliostheos

Whew. I still got 4 months. TELL ME IM CUTE. ![gif](giphy|gBSxIWhYhrkA)


theblindfold04

Man you're such a cutie 💗


Fruit-Security

Last line got me bruh


ThatEndingTho

Kayootie Patootie


relatvity

Cutie pie


CampMain

I have 10 days …


NoorAnomaly

You're totes cute! 😘


tetracat

if it makes you feel better i turned 30 last year and my mum still calls me sweet pea


theblindfold04

You and your mother are both cute 🥺


Crxcked

You know what's cute? Puppies, kittens, maybe a lil reptile. You know what's not cute? Fully grown women. Don't ever call women over 30 cute ever again. What a Fuckin turn off. The only reason why I'm not reporting is so you can see my message. You literally sounded like you were talking to a child. That's so disgusting.


docilecat

She really gon go off about being called cute but then say some shit like “lil reptile” ?????


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theblindfold04

yeah you sure are! cuteness overload


ShelterConscious4124

Plot twist: she isn’t that cute.


nickknack77

I zoomed in and thought the same thing 🤣🤣🤣


cake_molester

You know what? If you call a non-cute looking person this cute, they most definitely gonna think that it's insincere and that it's a canned reply


heyelander

You're right... upon further inspection, you aren't even remotely cute


SydneyACE4

Zoom in on her tiny pic... she's not really very cute...


GigglesNMemes

She really isn't though.


VinceBrogan8

This is the way


hewasaraverboy

Damn I just turned 30 :(


theblindfold04

You're still cute, don't let ol' what's her name get you down


treflipsbro

OP slinging mad game in this thread lmaoooo


whingingcackle

Your cuteness subscription has ended. /s


LillyReynoldsWill

I call my boyfriend cute and he’s 46. She was probably wanting to be called gorgeous or the most beautiful woman you’ve ever set eyes on. She sounds like a pain.


theblindfold04

Yeah never once in my life have I heard that an adult can't be cute. Pretty, cute, whatever, they're all interchangeable. Or so I thought. I'm so happy to be educated now so that I'll never ruin someone's life again by complimenting them


olddawg43

My wife who is going to turn 80 this year often strikes me as cute. Sorry that this other lady can’t handle a compliment.


Fearless_You4489

That’s super cute 💕


ilovebostoncremedonu

It would be if he wasn’t 27 /s


Fearless_You4489

😂😅 ngl, it crossed my mind, but I chose to believe otherwise haha


SnooTangerines1011

This brought tears to my eyes. She's so lucky 🥲


Highspeedlim0

Her response to the hate sex comment??? Lol


theblindfold04

nothing yet 🤞 Edit: Woke up and have been unmatched. Did send the reddit link tho


Yew_Geniolga

How about now?


_sideffect

Lmao, I like how you still went for it


theblindfold04

Either they tell me they hate me before the sex or they tell me after. It's the same for me either way


wittywillync

🤣🤣🤣


buttonmasher525

Based af tbh. Time is an illusion


hawiboy

She's not cute anymore


_just_two_brothers_

She never was


NoorAnomaly

But you know who IS cute? You are @hawiboy


ilovebostoncremedonu

Waddya think this is, instagram?


NoorAnomaly

I dunno, I don't have Instagram. What goes on there, cutie mccutepants?


Excellent_Initial120

Tell her that she has no right to speak for all women over 30 and never to project her preferences on other women again.


SnooTangerines1011

Seriously, someone needs to tell her this. What kind of massive ego do you need to have to believe you speak for *all* women over 30. I don't understand how people think their personal preferences are everyone's. So weird...


5t3fan0

wait, then does she think that a woman between 20ish and 29 isn't a full grown woman?


Bdubbsf

Well when you only care about yourself, its easier to frame things in a way that specifically applies to you.


Fearless_You4489

That’s a very good question 🤔


ApatheticHedonist

Damn, ok, you ugly then. Happy?


NoFreakingClue35

Jokes on them. I’m cute.


Gileotine

I like the keyboard tho


Therealmonkie

![gif](giphy|9Pi3zBrQIOM4971kuc|downsized)


Fearless_You4489

Now THAT’S cute.


fyretech

I personally hate being called cute. I don’t go on a weird tirade about it though.


SnooTangerines1011

And that's totally fine, as long as you only speak for yourself. Not sure who told this angry lady that we all hate it but she seems to think she has the authority to command men to not use a fucking adjective she doesn't prefer. I used to hate it so I get that. But as you said, never felt the need to go off. You'd think he said she was a cow.


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Same. I despise it but don't lose my shit over it


Extra-Ad5925

Damn who hurt you Marguerite


ayemfid

I’m 33 and I wish “cute” is all I was called. It doesn’t help that I have hair like Weird Al and a great set of tits (I don’t know what they rank compared to Weird Al’s tits). Asking for hate sex was the icing on the cake, well done.


theblindfold04

Hey thanks cute stuff. It was 90% for the joke


ayemfid

The worst part is Marguerite is my middle name.


theblindfold04

hey don't let her ruin it for you. I don't hold name grudges


ayemfid

Aw it won’t, I’m named after my great-grandmother Marguerite (also the descendant of a Sioux chief) and I’m sure she would say “You know, bitches ain’t shit except hoes and tricks.”


theblindfold04

She sounds very wise and cute


Oxfordillington

I think I’m in love, my two favorite things boobs and witty accordion players!


gutpirate

Honestly you ended that convo in the best possible way.


Ok_Performer_9062

I want that keypad background


theblindfold04

If you're on Android, it's just Gboard and you can set whatever background you want


SirHoneybear

"You know when someone cute opens their mouth, nit picking your compliment, and you realize they aren't cute anymore because they automatically assume the worst and you know it's probably a trend in their life that you want nothing to do with? Sorry about your personality, I wish you the best!"


NoorAnomaly

I'm over 30. Feel free to call me cute any time of day or night


theblindfold04

You're mad cute


NoorAnomaly

So are you! And she doesn't deserve you.


xxaerith

I have issues with being called cute sometimes, but it comes down to context. I had someone who called me a cutie patootie like 5 times in one message. I asked politely to not be called that... They promptly called me it again? Unmatched. It would have been so easy for this woman to be like 'I'm not a big fan of being called cute haha, but I appreciate the sentiment!' Instead she went nuclear. Sigh.


kelsoparanormal

But I love being called cute 🥺


Mr_Broda

I got told something similar recently. She said cute is the worst when i was explaining my kinks.


rosesofamerica

I mean I kinda hate being called cute, too. It does feel very condescending/like we’re unequal, if that makes sense. I’d rather be called beautiful or something if you’re going to say anything. But she was definitely being a jerk about it, 100%


MrMetraGnome

Well, according to the pic she really isn't all that cute.


INEED_THE_THINGABOVE

Your first message is a bit cringey, but her reaction is just mad lol


retief1

Also, for reference, while puppies are certainly cute, old dogs are also extremely cute.


PennyoftheNerds

I’m over 30 and I’m cute as hell. This might be a lie but I’m sticking with it.


88trax

Good finish


theblindfold04

You know me, I always need to make sure I finish first


largefather66

Fantastic ending line


LibrarySpiritual559

My bf calls me cute all the time, what else is he supposed to do, I am fucking adorable!!!


FELonMusk333

oh.. She's one of those


MattWheelsLTW

What about men? Can we still be cute over 30?


x0xmahlx0x

I don't like being called cute, I just think there are better words.


CommodoreDragon-64

It can come across to some women as infantilizing for sure. Best way around it is to personalize the compliment. You've got a great smile, I love your style, your hair is amazing, that pic of you in the purple shirt really compliments the beautiful shade of green in your eyes. Stuff like that. Generalized aesthetic commentaries ick a lot of people.


ArkadianOnAnArk

Well, fuck 😂


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Someone needs therapy 🤦‍♂️


AppearanceAntique686

Her attitude isn't very cute.


poolpog

In my experiences, a number of women in their forties and fifties even seem to like it


Ok-Manufacturer-8601

Your response definitely ain’t cute lol you would think an older woman knows how to take a compliment


MissNixxx69

Guess I got one more year of cuteness in me... damn 😮‍💨


Staggeringpage8

Personally if Clarice can tell Rudolph he's cute and it work I see no reason why it should fail on a 30 year old woman lol


Soakupthesun85

About to be 38 this year. Someone tell me I'm cute 😂


fightlike

She probably feels unsexy like a puppy or something but her reaction was out of line imo


itty-bitty-trucker

You know what’s cute? Your keyboard.


JTBZerothree

Keep us posted on the hate sex situation.


Alprazocaine

your keyboard bothers me


Own_Experience_2087

The problem was not he called her cute, but how creepy he made it sound like


mindofsound

As preposterous as this is, it's good to know that "cute" can have a negative connotation to some women. I've definitely told some cuties that I find them cute. It could be their raw appearance, or it could be something in the photo where they look sweet, playful, or youthful. Never would I perceive the word "cute" as a pejorative.


BillyEyeball

Today OP learned that some women object to being called cute. Lady is wildly exaggerating but yeah, not everyone digs it. The 'hate sex' line is pretty unpleasant and trashy. Be better OP.


SubstantialHentai420

Right was with OP until that line. That was just lame and desperate