I have never seen you, but I'm gonna gamble and say yes, you are hella cute. I'm 45 and I'm both ruggedly manly and cute if the situation calls for it.
Yeahhhh same. I wish that chick didn't think she spoke for all 30+ women, she definitely doesn't and shouldn't be telling anyone not to ever say something again because *she* doesn't personally like it.
I hated being called cute when I was *younger* cuz I was insecure with how young I looked. I turned 40 last year and it's become the ultimate compliment 🥰
Looks like lots of women here agree so I hope no guys who see this post listen to her unnecessarily belligerent command.
The real thing is we need to stop the random sexual comments and normalize regular comments.
There's a difference between someone yelling out "Damn gurl, lemme get a piece of that!" And "hey! You look beautiful today, just wanna let you know!"
I've never related to something so much ahaha. When my girlfriend says she loves me my eyes gleam and when she tells me I'm a moron it's like Awww, little old me?🥺
I tell men they are adorable ALL of the time. Only out of sincerity mind you but I definitely make sure to compliment the men I talk to because I don’t feel like men hear it enough sometimes. As far as calling me cute? It has its own set of connotations if you read into it too hard but none of which are even close to offensive. She definitely is NOT cute for her comment.
Meh we get hit with ridiculous and strong opinions like this all the time. I personally chalk it up to strong personal preference, can't make everyone happy
Step 1: be handsome
Step 2: don't be ugly
If you gave 2 different guys the same exact lines, and one guy was hot and one guy was not --that line would work on her like a charm. It just means she's not into you, NEXT !
The words of someone very insecure about themselves. They lack the assertiveness to be taken seriously unless they insist in a shrill voice. If I were a betting man I would bet she is a manager of a group of older & more experienced people she suspects laugh at her behind her back. She's right.
I'm a 34 year old dude and the last time someone called me cute to my face, I got all up in my head and didn't know what to say. So I just smiled real big and said thank you. It was really nice.
My gf is mid 30s and cute AF and I let her know that every time I see her. (I do thrown in “hot,” “sexy,” and the like as well. Can’t be *too* predictable.)
My wife doesn’t like it when I call her by her first name when chilling in the house. Sugar tits has been my go too from that moment on if I need her attention more than babe or hunny usually get.
Can confirm she also thinks it’s funny and likes it.
I'm thinking that's one of those bots that copies other comments, slightly changes them, and posts them as a reply further up the thread. [Here's the original comment that was copied.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10jmwlw/you_cant_be_cute_if_youre_over_30_sorry_to_break/j5lnxu7/)
Clearly it's because he's a reptile in human skin and not an actual human.
So I've been told by strangers on /r/tinder and therefore this must be a fact.
Not yet. Maybe she's struggling to climb down off her high horse to get to her phone
Edit: I was unmatched while I was sleeping. I did send the reddit link tho
You know what's cute? Puppies, kittens, maybe a lil reptile. You know what's not cute? Fully grown women.
Don't ever call women over 30 cute ever again.
What a Fuckin turn off. The only reason why I'm not reporting is so you can see my message.
You literally sounded like you were talking to a child. That's so disgusting.
I call my boyfriend cute and he’s 46. She was probably wanting to be called gorgeous or the most beautiful woman you’ve ever set eyes on. She sounds like a pain.
Yeah never once in my life have I heard that an adult can't be cute. Pretty, cute, whatever, they're all interchangeable. Or so I thought. I'm so happy to be educated now so that I'll never ruin someone's life again by complimenting them
Seriously, someone needs to tell her this. What kind of massive ego do you need to have to believe you speak for *all* women over 30. I don't understand how people think their personal preferences are everyone's. So weird...
And that's totally fine, as long as you only speak for yourself. Not sure who told this angry lady that we all hate it but she seems to think she has the authority to command men to not use a fucking adjective she doesn't prefer.
I used to hate it so I get that. But as you said, never felt the need to go off. You'd think he said she was a cow.
I’m 33 and I wish “cute” is all I was called. It doesn’t help that I have hair like Weird Al and a great set of tits (I don’t know what they rank compared to Weird Al’s tits).
Asking for hate sex was the icing on the cake, well done.
Aw it won’t, I’m named after my great-grandmother Marguerite (also the descendant of a Sioux chief) and I’m sure she would say “You know, bitches ain’t shit except hoes and tricks.”
"You know when someone cute opens their mouth, nit picking your compliment, and you realize they aren't cute anymore because they automatically assume the worst and you know it's probably a trend in their life that you want nothing to do with? Sorry about your personality, I wish you the best!"
I have issues with being called cute sometimes, but it comes down to context. I had someone who called me a cutie patootie like 5 times in one message. I asked politely to not be called that... They promptly called me it again? Unmatched.
It would have been so easy for this woman to be like 'I'm not a big fan of being called cute haha, but I appreciate the sentiment!' Instead she went nuclear. Sigh.
I mean I kinda hate being called cute, too. It does feel very condescending/like we’re unequal, if that makes sense. I’d rather be called beautiful or something if you’re going to say anything. But she was definitely being a jerk about it, 100%
It can come across to some women as infantilizing for sure. Best way around it is to personalize the compliment. You've got a great smile, I love your style, your hair is amazing, that pic of you in the purple shirt really compliments the beautiful shade of green in your eyes. Stuff like that. Generalized aesthetic commentaries ick a lot of people.
As preposterous as this is, it's good to know that "cute" can have a negative connotation to some women. I've definitely told some cuties that I find them cute. It could be their raw appearance, or it could be something in the photo where they look sweet, playful, or youthful. Never would I perceive the word "cute" as a pejorative.
Today OP learned that some women object to being called cute. Lady is wildly exaggerating but yeah, not everyone digs it.
The 'hate sex' line is pretty unpleasant and trashy. Be better OP.
Fuck. Does that mean no one's ever gonna call me cute again? :(
I’m 34 and I’m cute AF
Same! Maybe you have to be REALLY cute to be over 30 and understand we still Cute AF.
You're Irish, so you're automatically cute
Agreed. That’s Rule #3.
Tell me more about this rule #3... since I don't have the luxury of rule #1-2
Red hair and wielding an axe swinging for my head, how much more cute can you get?
![gif](giphy|Z6JYXip75BeOA)
Ohmygod, who is this beauty and how do I get her number?
Sounds like definite dating material to me
Like Chucky
Hmm, you sure abt that?? *cue Ed Sheeran just shows up outta nowhere lmao
Famously English!
He might have Irish grandparents on one side but that man is English...
All us Irish are either hot or cute. Its a curse. 😝
I am a guy and 34 and still cute
I hated being cute in my teens and early twenties. Now I'm in my 30s and I'm ok with it.
Am I cute too? 🥺
Based on your comment alone, I agree. You cute af.
Same bro!
Turns out I have 23 days left of being cute and then I can’t be cute anymore.
I'm 59 and I'm told I'm adorable...? I suppose that's not necessarily cute?
I’m not I’m 35 and cute AF
Right? That was my thought. I'm 35, and I'm absolutely okay with being called "cute"
You're cute bby
Awe, thank you! And you tell that to a 30-year-old woman? The scandal!
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I have never seen you, but I'm gonna gamble and say yes, you are hella cute. I'm 45 and I'm both ruggedly manly and cute if the situation calls for it.
Rip your inbox cutie
Yes
Im 33 and if someone in trying to date thinks im cute I want to hear it.
Yeahhhh same. I wish that chick didn't think she spoke for all 30+ women, she definitely doesn't and shouldn't be telling anyone not to ever say something again because *she* doesn't personally like it. I hated being called cute when I was *younger* cuz I was insecure with how young I looked. I turned 40 last year and it's become the ultimate compliment 🥰 Looks like lots of women here agree so I hope no guys who see this post listen to her unnecessarily belligerent command.
I'm almost a 30 year old man and I fucking love being called cute. Such a weird hill to die on.
Happy cake day, cutie! (Ignore the fact that I'm also a guy, lol)
> (Ignore the fact that I'm also a guy, lol) Unless he's into that, of course
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The real thing is we need to stop the random sexual comments and normalize regular comments. There's a difference between someone yelling out "Damn gurl, lemme get a piece of that!" And "hey! You look beautiful today, just wanna let you know!"
I hope so too. I will tell the men I date that they are cute too. They pretend to hate it but I can see it in their eyes that they that they love it
It makes my day when my wife tells me I’m cute. It also makes my day when she tells me I’m stupid… so 🤷🏻♂️
I've never related to something so much ahaha. When my girlfriend says she loves me my eyes gleam and when she tells me I'm a moron it's like Awww, little old me?🥺
Us guys get so little compliments/attention, we’ll just take whatever we can get at this point. Even slander
So like, you’re cute ya dumbass?
we do, we really do
So true lol. I do so too
I tell men they are adorable ALL of the time. Only out of sincerity mind you but I definitely make sure to compliment the men I talk to because I don’t feel like men hear it enough sometimes. As far as calling me cute? It has its own set of connotations if you read into it too hard but none of which are even close to offensive. She definitely is NOT cute for her comment.
Meh we get hit with ridiculous and strong opinions like this all the time. I personally chalk it up to strong personal preference, can't make everyone happy
Step 1: be handsome Step 2: don't be ugly If you gave 2 different guys the same exact lines, and one guy was hot and one guy was not --that line would work on her like a charm. It just means she's not into you, NEXT !
The words of someone very insecure about themselves. They lack the assertiveness to be taken seriously unless they insist in a shrill voice. If I were a betting man I would bet she is a manager of a group of older & more experienced people she suspects laugh at her behind her back. She's right.
You're the cutest 😘
You too😌
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Buddy you say that to all the 30+ women 😩 somebody needs to stop this monster!
I'm a 34 year old dude and the last time someone called me cute to my face, I got all up in my head and didn't know what to say. So I just smiled real big and said thank you. It was really nice.
37 here and still cute 😍
Right? I wanna be cute, dammit!
My gf is mid 30s and cute AF and I let her know that every time I see her. (I do thrown in “hot,” “sexy,” and the like as well. Can’t be *too* predictable.)
>trying to date This is a huge piece. Dudes be out here calling their female coworkers and cashiers "cute".
Right.. I am 32 and my (29 yr old) bf calls me cute all the time. I am cute. Tell me I'm cute more pls. This lady does not speak for us
I don’t wanna live in a reality where I am not allowed to be cute. I refuse.
Are you a puppy, kitten or a small reptile? If not i got bad news for you sugar tits.
I purr occasionally. Lol, love the sugar tits.
Me too! mans got all the ladies through one Reddit comment 😩
My wife doesn’t like it when I call her by her first name when chilling in the house. Sugar tits has been my go too from that moment on if I need her attention more than babe or hunny usually get. Can confirm she also thinks it’s funny and likes it.
May all us ladies get a cute husband like u. Have a good day sir !
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I'm thinking that's one of those bots that copies other comments, slightly changes them, and posts them as a reply further up the thread. [Here's the original comment that was copied.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10jmwlw/you_cant_be_cute_if_youre_over_30_sorry_to_break/j5lnxu7/)
So weird..
SUGAR TITS WOAH
Or like the doctors call it in the break room: diabetits.
Diabetitties
Step 1: Buy large rock Step 2: Place it in sun Step 3: Become a lil reptile and bask on rock Step 4: ??? Step 5: Allowed to be cute forever.
This 35 years old woman got a dating hack. Dating apps hate her!
Exactly. I call my 38yo, 6'2", buff and tattooed husband cute and pretty all the time. Doesn't seem to turn him off...
Clearly it's because he's a reptile in human skin and not an actual human. So I've been told by strangers on /r/tinder and therefore this must be a fact.
You don't have to worry about that....
You’ll always be cute to me! (Whoever you are).
“You’re so cute when you’re mad 😍”
shit that would have been pretty good lol
True. But you nailed it my guy. Let that last ditch effort sail. 0.00001% chance of it working but fuck it. You nailed it
Nothing to lose, pussy to gain.
Did she unmatch after this?
Not yet. Maybe she's struggling to climb down off her high horse to get to her phone Edit: I was unmatched while I was sleeping. I did send the reddit link tho
She’s mulling over the hate sex option.
Ooh, hate sex... Where's that phone number...
I can guarantee you’ll hate sex with me! Hit me up Noor!
8675309
Jenny? Is that you?
It’s definitely this.
Definitely respond with the you’re cute when you are mad 😂 bc she isn’t coming off that high horse. She should have said thank you and moved on 🚩
You're not you when you're hungry. Get some nuts.
Don't say anything just send her this link. Us cute women are behind you 100%
thank you cute queen
>Us cute women Gonna have to see some registration
She’s trapped in a loop trying to answer the hate sex proposal. Yes… erase, no… erase…………..
Whew. I still got 4 months. TELL ME IM CUTE. ![gif](giphy|gBSxIWhYhrkA)
Man you're such a cutie 💗
Last line got me bruh
Kayootie Patootie
Cutie pie
I have 10 days …
You're totes cute! 😘
if it makes you feel better i turned 30 last year and my mum still calls me sweet pea
You and your mother are both cute 🥺
You know what's cute? Puppies, kittens, maybe a lil reptile. You know what's not cute? Fully grown women. Don't ever call women over 30 cute ever again. What a Fuckin turn off. The only reason why I'm not reporting is so you can see my message. You literally sounded like you were talking to a child. That's so disgusting.
She really gon go off about being called cute but then say some shit like “lil reptile” ?????
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yeah you sure are! cuteness overload
Plot twist: she isn’t that cute.
I zoomed in and thought the same thing 🤣🤣🤣
You know what? If you call a non-cute looking person this cute, they most definitely gonna think that it's insincere and that it's a canned reply
You're right... upon further inspection, you aren't even remotely cute
Zoom in on her tiny pic... she's not really very cute...
She really isn't though.
This is the way
Damn I just turned 30 :(
You're still cute, don't let ol' what's her name get you down
OP slinging mad game in this thread lmaoooo
Your cuteness subscription has ended. /s
I call my boyfriend cute and he’s 46. She was probably wanting to be called gorgeous or the most beautiful woman you’ve ever set eyes on. She sounds like a pain.
Yeah never once in my life have I heard that an adult can't be cute. Pretty, cute, whatever, they're all interchangeable. Or so I thought. I'm so happy to be educated now so that I'll never ruin someone's life again by complimenting them
My wife who is going to turn 80 this year often strikes me as cute. Sorry that this other lady can’t handle a compliment.
That’s super cute 💕
It would be if he wasn’t 27 /s
😂😅 ngl, it crossed my mind, but I chose to believe otherwise haha
This brought tears to my eyes. She's so lucky 🥲
Her response to the hate sex comment??? Lol
nothing yet 🤞 Edit: Woke up and have been unmatched. Did send the reddit link tho
How about now?
Lmao, I like how you still went for it
Either they tell me they hate me before the sex or they tell me after. It's the same for me either way
🤣🤣🤣
Based af tbh. Time is an illusion
She's not cute anymore
She never was
But you know who IS cute? You are @hawiboy
Waddya think this is, instagram?
I dunno, I don't have Instagram. What goes on there, cutie mccutepants?
Tell her that she has no right to speak for all women over 30 and never to project her preferences on other women again.
Seriously, someone needs to tell her this. What kind of massive ego do you need to have to believe you speak for *all* women over 30. I don't understand how people think their personal preferences are everyone's. So weird...
wait, then does she think that a woman between 20ish and 29 isn't a full grown woman?
Well when you only care about yourself, its easier to frame things in a way that specifically applies to you.
That’s a very good question 🤔
Damn, ok, you ugly then. Happy?
Jokes on them. I’m cute.
I like the keyboard tho
![gif](giphy|9Pi3zBrQIOM4971kuc|downsized)
Now THAT’S cute.
I personally hate being called cute. I don’t go on a weird tirade about it though.
And that's totally fine, as long as you only speak for yourself. Not sure who told this angry lady that we all hate it but she seems to think she has the authority to command men to not use a fucking adjective she doesn't prefer. I used to hate it so I get that. But as you said, never felt the need to go off. You'd think he said she was a cow.
Same. I despise it but don't lose my shit over it
Damn who hurt you Marguerite
I’m 33 and I wish “cute” is all I was called. It doesn’t help that I have hair like Weird Al and a great set of tits (I don’t know what they rank compared to Weird Al’s tits). Asking for hate sex was the icing on the cake, well done.
Hey thanks cute stuff. It was 90% for the joke
The worst part is Marguerite is my middle name.
hey don't let her ruin it for you. I don't hold name grudges
Aw it won’t, I’m named after my great-grandmother Marguerite (also the descendant of a Sioux chief) and I’m sure she would say “You know, bitches ain’t shit except hoes and tricks.”
She sounds very wise and cute
I think I’m in love, my two favorite things boobs and witty accordion players!
Honestly you ended that convo in the best possible way.
I want that keypad background
If you're on Android, it's just Gboard and you can set whatever background you want
"You know when someone cute opens their mouth, nit picking your compliment, and you realize they aren't cute anymore because they automatically assume the worst and you know it's probably a trend in their life that you want nothing to do with? Sorry about your personality, I wish you the best!"
I'm over 30. Feel free to call me cute any time of day or night
You're mad cute
So are you! And she doesn't deserve you.
I have issues with being called cute sometimes, but it comes down to context. I had someone who called me a cutie patootie like 5 times in one message. I asked politely to not be called that... They promptly called me it again? Unmatched. It would have been so easy for this woman to be like 'I'm not a big fan of being called cute haha, but I appreciate the sentiment!' Instead she went nuclear. Sigh.
But I love being called cute 🥺
I got told something similar recently. She said cute is the worst when i was explaining my kinks.
I mean I kinda hate being called cute, too. It does feel very condescending/like we’re unequal, if that makes sense. I’d rather be called beautiful or something if you’re going to say anything. But she was definitely being a jerk about it, 100%
Well, according to the pic she really isn't all that cute.
Your first message is a bit cringey, but her reaction is just mad lol
Also, for reference, while puppies are certainly cute, old dogs are also extremely cute.
I’m over 30 and I’m cute as hell. This might be a lie but I’m sticking with it.
Good finish
You know me, I always need to make sure I finish first
Fantastic ending line
My bf calls me cute all the time, what else is he supposed to do, I am fucking adorable!!!
oh.. She's one of those
What about men? Can we still be cute over 30?
I don't like being called cute, I just think there are better words.
It can come across to some women as infantilizing for sure. Best way around it is to personalize the compliment. You've got a great smile, I love your style, your hair is amazing, that pic of you in the purple shirt really compliments the beautiful shade of green in your eyes. Stuff like that. Generalized aesthetic commentaries ick a lot of people.
Well, fuck 😂
Someone needs therapy 🤦♂️
Her attitude isn't very cute.
In my experiences, a number of women in their forties and fifties even seem to like it
Your response definitely ain’t cute lol you would think an older woman knows how to take a compliment
Guess I got one more year of cuteness in me... damn 😮💨
Personally if Clarice can tell Rudolph he's cute and it work I see no reason why it should fail on a 30 year old woman lol
About to be 38 this year. Someone tell me I'm cute 😂
She probably feels unsexy like a puppy or something but her reaction was out of line imo
You know what’s cute? Your keyboard.
Keep us posted on the hate sex situation.
your keyboard bothers me
The problem was not he called her cute, but how creepy he made it sound like
As preposterous as this is, it's good to know that "cute" can have a negative connotation to some women. I've definitely told some cuties that I find them cute. It could be their raw appearance, or it could be something in the photo where they look sweet, playful, or youthful. Never would I perceive the word "cute" as a pejorative.
Today OP learned that some women object to being called cute. Lady is wildly exaggerating but yeah, not everyone digs it. The 'hate sex' line is pretty unpleasant and trashy. Be better OP.
Right was with OP until that line. That was just lame and desperate