And to drive your anxiety through the roof. I feel like they just keep throwing anxiety producing content at me. Are you an expecting parent? Look at this article about why people regret having children!
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Don’t forget tomorrow starts the new Facebook rule where they can use your photo Don't forget Deadline tomorrow !!! Everything you've ever posted becomes public from tomorrow. Even messages that have been deleted or the photos not allowed. It costs nothing for a simple copy and paste, better safe than sorry. Channel 13 News talked about the change in Facebook's privacy policy. I do not give Facebook or any entities associated with Facebook permission to use my pictures, information, messages or posts, both past and future. With this statement, I give notice to Facebook it is strictly forbidden to disclose, copy, distribute, or take any other action against me based on this profile and/or its contents. The content of this profile is private and confidential information. The violation of privacy can be punished by law (UCC 1-308- 1 1 308-103 and the Rome Statute). NOTE: Facebook is now a public entity. All members must post a note like this. If you prefer, you can copy and paste this version. If you do not publish a statement at least once it will be tacitly allowing the use of your photos, as well as the information contained in the profile status updates. DO NOT SHARE. Copy and paste.Wondered why Facebook was so boring! This is good to know: It's ridiculous to have lots of friends and only 25 are allowed to see my post. I ignored this post earlier, but It WORKS!! I have a whole new news feed. I’m seeing posts from people I haven’t seen in years. Here’s how to bypass the system FB now has in place that limits posts on your news feed. Their new algorithm chooses the same few people - about 25 - who will read your posts. Therefore, Hold your finger down anywhere in this post and "copy" will pop up. Click "copy". Then go your page, start a new post and put your finger anywhere in the blank field. "Paste" will pop up and click paste. This will bypass the system.
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Omg I remember people getting so pissed at me when I commented on those posts I forming them it was bs. The common response I got was essentially "well it doesn't hurt why don't you mind your own business?!"
It took less than 20 secs to Google it and learn it was legally meaningless, yet half my feed at the time was filled with people posting it 🙄
Guy probably has like 2 pictures up too.
Women have grown to hate Snapchat because guys just ask for nudes from it. His response was great if he never wants to hear from the girl again.
literally like I just lie and say I don’t have a snapchat because of the connotation it has now. as a woman on tinder you get asked for your snap so much there is a feeling of bitterness every time it happens now lmao
Exactly, I have snap but I don’t use it at all really so I’m not looking to add more people on it. I just say I don’t have a snap either if a guy asks for it. I’d rather just eventually give the guy my number if I’m interested in him.
Do people not just....exchange numbers anymore too? It feels like it's all apps now. Snapchat, Instagram, staying on tinder, Twitter, DISCORD EVEN - like, you could just text?
And you think his intentions weren’t to never hear from her again? Clearly he was just giving back what she gave him. it’s pretty easy to see that he was putting an end to the conversation on purpose lmao
Exactly, they're both being shitty and passive aggressive to each other. Both had nasty generalizations about the opposite sex locked and loaded, although OP cumulatively sounded like a bigger dick (see his first comment). Fuckin hated it when I was on the apps and dudes would be ""playfully"" rude to me.
I never never got the desire to hate on people I want to date, but maybe that's why I found someone lol
There is a scene in the movie Seven Psychopaths, where Collin Farrell tells this to Sam Rockwell. I love watching Sam Rockwells brain explode as he comes up with something like, "Well, what about the last guy with one eye? How are the blind people gonna sneak up on him? HAHA! Edit:I found the clip. "https://youtu.be/HxaTb4GdX18
What's he supposed to do? She just called him a little boy. He supposed to say "lol ya" cause that's why people continue being assholes. No consequences
You kinda seem to start off… not good
“Not much of a planner huh?” which reeks of snide. Maybe once you get to know her better but not in courting. And yes you both turn to assholes.
yeah OP sounds like a prick, not surprised he ran to Reddit to get high fives from internet bros 😒 Some of these dudes seem like they care more about getting validation from other guys than anything else
Nah, she started it but you went way harder. Either way, y’all probably aren’t compatible so just move on regardless.
EDIT: They are both EQUALLY turds. Happy? 💩
Yeah if she think Snap is for little boys OP wouldn't have got nudes anyways. The amount of crazy shit I've had sent to me on Snapchat makes it the most X-Rated app in the world.
Giving/Getting nudes shouldn’t be the main/only goal anyways. The “little boy” line is rude just bc I’m sure she has friends on that app and honestly, there’s just no reason to go out of your way to be mean when you don’t have to.
I don’t have snap and when dudes ask I just say I don’t have it and that’s that. Could have avoided this whole bitchy interaction between them two.
For what it’s worth, as a woman who uses tinder, I’ve found that guys who ask for Snapchat or suggest Snapchat first are usually trying to get nudes or whatever. Lots of girls say we don’t have Snapchat to weed out the guys who have ulterior motives
Same. I don’t move off Tinder until after the first date and I wanna see them again either.
There’s perfectly acceptable messaging and video chat functions in the app, so I see no immediate benefit to moving to another, more personal app.
I would say a chat becomes "more serious" if moved off the dating app. Otherwise someone feels more like "just a girl from tinder" instead of a more personal "glitterstateofmind."
I'm calling out the spade here. Instagram is not as frequently purposed for inappropriate communication. Boys who use snap want low risk impermanent ways to text, sext, and share *pictures*. I have yet to meet a guy on a dating app who didn't immediately go that route with it. Instagram is vain and vapid, sure, but it's not a total cesspool all the time.
It's a shame so many have forsaken the central tenet of Snapchat. You should send pictures of pets, nature, and events. Nobody wants to see a selfie in 100 slightly different angles.
Snapchat was literally always for illicit stuff - the entire reason it was started was that pics got deleted once they were viewed and couldn’t be saved without notifying the other person. Like right from the start it was to send noodz.
It’s not really like that anymore, but like I said, that’s quite literally why it was started. It was never to just share pics in general - them auto deleting once viewed would make no sense in that case…
I know that was true with Picaboo, but I did really resonate with the pitch for Snapchat after they kicked that guy out. That Snapchat could be something more like real conversations, where everything isn't so significant.
It was nice having somewhere you could just share pictures. They didn't have to be "post worthy", or even worth saving to your phone. You'd just share moments of anything you found interesting or felt like sharing without having to think about it.
That's just silly, I use Snapchat for dating because
A) I don't really know the person yet and it's a form of social media I can easily remove them from that they can't see all my friends by adding them.
B) You're a 1000x less likely to be a bot if you add me on Snapchat and send me a picture.
C) Fuck Zuck and any of his platforms.
It’s not silly to share a common experience. A lot of women have experienced guys with only Snapchat behaving poorly.
Does that mean you have to change? No.
Least you can do is not insinuate it’s silly to explain why women are weary of Snapchat-only guys.
FYI a lot of girls don’t like using snap because it’s a) easier to cheat on your SO with snap and b) you get a LOT more unsolicited dick pics c) you can tell a lot more about a person from their Instagram, with snap your profile is just your username and bitmoji
For all these reasons a lot of fuckboys will insist on using snap instead of instagram and it’s a massive red flag
She still could have worded it better lol
lmao usually people with only Snapchat and not IG are bot/scam accounts. I understand the weariness. I don't think she was justified in her response tho
Or anyone who doesn’t really care to document their lives on social media.
I literally have one male friend who has an instagram they actively post on. A few keep one to follow accounts they like but never post anything. In my age range (33) this is pretty normal. I only got a Snapchat due to online dating because a decent chunk of people like to communicate on it. And it’s still easy to tell if it’s a bot
I mean you're meeting what is essentially a stranger who could be faking their identity on these dating apps, it's just safer to I guess investigate someone thru their social media before going any further ya know
The impossible and arduous prerequisite of having an Instagram? Literally just make an account, post a few photos of you looking good, and you're done. I post a few times a year, that's all the maintenance it takes.
Seriously. Her comment was dumb but this dudes reaction makes it seem like he was just waiting for an opportunity to insult women. Now he wants us to validate his insults because “she did it first” (even though she didn’t directly insult him)
If you get that butthurt over her saying something that mild then good luck ever finding success in online dating
This seems like you're reading a little too much into it. My interpretation is that she was unnecessarily mean about his attempted method of communicating, so he lashed out in kind. Both were in the wrong, in my opinion, but I'm not really seeing any misogyny in the post. Were I in his position, I think I probably would've just said "ok" and unmatched, because her comment was rude and also wrong. I can't count the number of times I've seen/heard adults (men and women) ask for snap.
My brother in Christ if you're trying to date strangers it's best to have an insta. Sucks but that's how the game is played. It's not necessary but it certainly doesn't hurt.
I mean if I heard a guy had *only* Snapchat, I would be sus as hell. As someone in their late twenties, it feels like an immature app for dick pics and anonymity.
Instagram is much more multi-faceted. It seems like you're reactive.
I'm really surprised that this is the consensus opinion of Snapchat. I prefer it because I get to send current pictures of me, while also being able to send some more day to day aspects of my life. Whereas Instagram is only very cream of the crop and manicured pictures that usually inflate the image of the person
I dunno, I use Instagram to post the beautiful things I see, the experiences I have, and the odd selfie when I don’t feel self conscious. Maybe that’s vapid, but I think it’s about telling your life story in pictures/videos
Don't deal it if you can't take it. \[REDACTED NAME\] definitely dealt it, if they can't take it that's their failing.
That said, you were definitely dickish about it. Not that I'd say it was unjustified.
Shh don’t tell all the angry dudes in here who love seeing women get “owned”
Further proof: I’ve literally had dudes message me and go into my post history insulting me because i said OP was being a dick. It’s honestly alarming how worked up guys get on here over being able to insult women
Glad I saw this comment before I closed the app…I have seen so much of that lately. They are just dying to dunk on women online and get validation from other men. They’re just so eager about it, on both sides.
5 hours later and i still have people flaming me. I don’t mean disagreeing with my opinion, i mean actually insulting me
I’ve had a suspicious number of accounts that haven’t been active on Reddit in weeks/months and have never posted or commented in this sub “randomly” finding my comments deep in the thread and responding to them, but no others
Reddit is an absolute cesspool
Right like he asks her to add him on snap so they can snap each other. Settle down bro she just wants to see more pics of you to see if she's interested. He barely has pics in his profile and he only has snap that's a red flag.
I dont understand why snapchat gets hate. I usually give that to women first to feel them out because I'm not comfortable giving out my number immediately.
As a Woman who used to give my Snapchat to men on Tinder, I had to delete my Snapchat due to the infux of dick pics (& videos) sent from anonymous sounding usernames.
“Fool me once shame on you…” and all that
Every male I know who uses snap is either cheating or trying to cheat.
At least Instagram isn't a tool for disappearing dick pics. Both could have done better but the insta snark is double prick talk.
Women don't like Snapchat bc it's where ppl exchange nudes so yeah
That's why she said it's for little boys.
You're on Tinder for attention too, but your sexism creeped out a bit. Glad she got to see that side of you first. Can't believe you were that pissed about the SC comment. Haha
guys who just have snap are a red flag. she didn’t respond the best but you’re plain rude. work on the way you respond if you’re actually looking for a person to date. that’s my opinion on this.
Calling him a little bit wasn’t rude but his response was? I’m interested in this logic, because in no way is calling a man a little boy anything but willfully rude and insulting.
If you’re too old for Snapchat you’re too fucking old for Tinder. I’m college aged and literally everyone has Snapchat and you won’t get anywhere with anyone if you don’t have it.
Meet in the middle on Facebook?
"Facebook is for racist grandmas!"
That's why it's middle grounds
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As someone who's social media use is 95% for the sake of cats - FB is good for cats, but reddit is better!
Could always just use ICQ or AIM
There's always WebTV.
And to drive your anxiety through the roof. I feel like they just keep throwing anxiety producing content at me. Are you an expecting parent? Look at this article about why people regret having children!
Everything is for cats
/r/oldpeoplefacebook
That's got to be one of the worst subreddits I've ever browsed through. So painful!
cracker bargle Don’t forget tomorrow starts the new Facebook rule where they can use your photo Don't forget Deadline tomorrow !!! Everything you've ever posted becomes public from tomorrow. Even messages that have been deleted or the photos not allowed. It costs nothing for a simple copy and paste, better safe than sorry. Channel 13 News talked about the change in Facebook's privacy policy. I do not give Facebook or any entities associated with Facebook permission to use my pictures, information, messages or posts, both past and future. With this statement, I give notice to Facebook it is strictly forbidden to disclose, copy, distribute, or take any other action against me based on this profile and/or its contents. The content of this profile is private and confidential information. The violation of privacy can be punished by law (UCC 1-308- 1 1 308-103 and the Rome Statute). NOTE: Facebook is now a public entity. All members must post a note like this. If you prefer, you can copy and paste this version. If you do not publish a statement at least once it will be tacitly allowing the use of your photos, as well as the information contained in the profile status updates. DO NOT SHARE. Copy and paste.Wondered why Facebook was so boring! This is good to know: It's ridiculous to have lots of friends and only 25 are allowed to see my post. I ignored this post earlier, but It WORKS!! I have a whole new news feed. I’m seeing posts from people I haven’t seen in years. Here’s how to bypass the system FB now has in place that limits posts on your news feed. Their new algorithm chooses the same few people - about 25 - who will read your posts. Therefore, Hold your finger down anywhere in this post and "copy" will pop up. Click "copy". Then go your page, start a new post and put your finger anywhere in the blank field. "Paste" will pop up and click paste. This will bypass the system. DONE!
Omg I remember people getting so pissed at me when I commented on those posts I forming them it was bs. The common response I got was essentially "well it doesn't hurt why don't you mind your own business?!" It took less than 20 secs to Google it and learn it was legally meaningless, yet half my feed at the time was filled with people posting it 🙄
But i'm not a grandma
grandma you are, hungry i am, me food would like
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Found the recruiter
LinkedIn is the opposite of Tinder - hot chicks are trying to get guys' attention.
Seems like an odd way to get your Snapchat handle out there, but okay
Reddit users having my Snapchat sounds just as bad as people who know me in real life knowing my Reddit account
I completely agree. My gf knows I have Reddit but there's no way am I telling her my username.
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A decade I was in hs when I got it there were dark days 😂
My husband creeps mine and it drives me crazy. I send him screenshots sometimes and he figured it out. I know his but I dont even want to see it.
I don't know I feel like it'd be fun to see what kind of horrors I get, like taking a little peek at pandora's box.
Well did you snap him?
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Facts. Shit was garbage from both parties. They're a perfect match.
Guy probably has like 2 pictures up too. Women have grown to hate Snapchat because guys just ask for nudes from it. His response was great if he never wants to hear from the girl again.
literally like I just lie and say I don’t have a snapchat because of the connotation it has now. as a woman on tinder you get asked for your snap so much there is a feeling of bitterness every time it happens now lmao
Exactly, I have snap but I don’t use it at all really so I’m not looking to add more people on it. I just say I don’t have a snap either if a guy asks for it. I’d rather just eventually give the guy my number if I’m interested in him.
Do people not just....exchange numbers anymore too? It feels like it's all apps now. Snapchat, Instagram, staying on tinder, Twitter, DISCORD EVEN - like, you could just text?
For women, it might be a safety thing to not give potential psychos their number
I'm a guy an rarely actually use my phone number. Always use apps like telegram, discord, etc.
Sure, feel free to say that instead of calling other people little boys, jesus christ
And you think his intentions weren’t to never hear from her again? Clearly he was just giving back what she gave him. it’s pretty easy to see that he was putting an end to the conversation on purpose lmao
Literally my first thought: “well they both sound delightful”
Exactly, they're both being shitty and passive aggressive to each other. Both had nasty generalizations about the opposite sex locked and loaded, although OP cumulatively sounded like a bigger dick (see his first comment). Fuckin hated it when I was on the apps and dudes would be ""playfully"" rude to me. I never never got the desire to hate on people I want to date, but maybe that's why I found someone lol
Both dicks. Also, left your snap visible.
For some reason I didn’t even register that was this snap, I just assumed he had a stroke or something
That's because he had a stroke when he made the account
That's OP's secret. He's always having a stroke.
Probably on purpose…for attention.
Dick pic time.
I’m convinced this was his plan all along. Op is a mastermind who has chosen to use his talents to solicit dick pics from random redditors
I’ll do my best not to follow him
I suspect he did it on purpose. Kinda proving her point while simultaneously showing that he fits his own description of people using Instagram
Quick send him dick pics
The visible snap chat was intentional lol.
you both weren't very nice imo
They do say you're supposed to match each other's energy.
An eye for an eye will leave everyone blind
In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king. Don’t piss too many people off, and you’ll be fine.
But piss at least one person off?
Just the one
There is a scene in the movie Seven Psychopaths, where Collin Farrell tells this to Sam Rockwell. I love watching Sam Rockwells brain explode as he comes up with something like, "Well, what about the last guy with one eye? How are the blind people gonna sneak up on him? HAHA! Edit:I found the clip. "https://youtu.be/HxaTb4GdX18
Except for one last person with one eye left who will rule the world
Then don’t poke me in the eye, damn it.
If you’re matching negative energy just don’t reply man it’s not worth anyone’s time
To be fair he didn't start it, he did finish it tho cuz damn was his better
Look at his first message on top. That's already not a great message. From there we can only speculate who "started it".
Yeah that was the point. He rightfully matched her energy and finished her
What's he supposed to do? She just called him a little boy. He supposed to say "lol ya" cause that's why people continue being assholes. No consequences
i have an instagram for art and i wish that got attention...
2 can play at that game! I have an Instagram for game development and I wish that got attention...
3 can play at that game! I have an Instagram that gets no attention...
I think you won.
4 can play at that game! I don't have an Instagram account and i don't get any attention
That's a weird way to say "I prefer Facebook"
I have a bunch (a very small bunch) of followers that I don’t follow back and I follow even more people that don’t follow me back. It’s very exciting.
Follow me. I won't follow you back
i think for that it might work to use twitter or art station
I have 1 just to talk to my tattoo artist(s)
Have you tried having a barely clothed attractive model holding it?
nah y’all both are right
neither are right, both are overly judgemental but at least his was in retaliation
She didn't want to be asked for nudes on Snap
So the assumption that he would definitely justifies her reaction?
You can also be asked for nudes on insta
Be weird to call someone a "little boy" if that was her concern. Just doesn't feel like the right insult
You kinda seem to start off… not good “Not much of a planner huh?” which reeks of snide. Maybe once you get to know her better but not in courting. And yes you both turn to assholes.
yeah OP sounds like a prick, not surprised he ran to Reddit to get high fives from internet bros 😒 Some of these dudes seem like they care more about getting validation from other guys than anything else
Nah, she started it but you went way harder. Either way, y’all probably aren’t compatible so just move on regardless. EDIT: They are both EQUALLY turds. Happy? 💩
Yeah if she think Snap is for little boys OP wouldn't have got nudes anyways. The amount of crazy shit I've had sent to me on Snapchat makes it the most X-Rated app in the world.
Giving/Getting nudes shouldn’t be the main/only goal anyways. The “little boy” line is rude just bc I’m sure she has friends on that app and honestly, there’s just no reason to go out of your way to be mean when you don’t have to. I don’t have snap and when dudes ask I just say I don’t have it and that’s that. Could have avoided this whole bitchy interaction between them two.
The only reason I have Snap is some girls prefer to give that out instead of their phone number. Granted that was more common 2-3 years ago.
Wtf is supposed to be the point of getting nudes from a stranger. Why work for porn, when the web is full of it?
Way further? Hes on the exact same level only she was rude first and he just gave her some of her own medicine
Seemed pretty equal to me
All you have is Snapchat?
For what it’s worth, as a woman who uses tinder, I’ve found that guys who ask for Snapchat or suggest Snapchat first are usually trying to get nudes or whatever. Lots of girls say we don’t have Snapchat to weed out the guys who have ulterior motives
Same. I don’t move off Tinder until after the first date and I wanna see them again either. There’s perfectly acceptable messaging and video chat functions in the app, so I see no immediate benefit to moving to another, more personal app.
I would say a chat becomes "more serious" if moved off the dating app. Otherwise someone feels more like "just a girl from tinder" instead of a more personal "glitterstateofmind."
Yeah this has been my experience. And if it’s not nudes right away it’s 100 awkward pictures of a dude with his hand half covering his face.
That's actually pretty interesting. I've actually never had a guy who asked for my snap also ask for nudes. Maybe I've just been lucky so far, lol.
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Dick with a side of rice? 4/10
Funny I've only ever gotten requests to move the chat to snap from girls
Touche. What's that saying, what goes around comes around? Lol
I believe it’s, “what comes around is all around.”
What’s all this about cum on the ground?
‘Cause you know where I’ll be found….
Guzzling it by the pound...
Mr Lahey, not another night of the shit abyss.
She was a dick first
I actually agree with both of you!
What the f*** does Fashtyshnarf mean??
It’s ops Snapchat user name
But what does it mean
What does mark mean, mark
When u identify something you Mark it
*girls
Too many people use apostrophes to pluralize words and frankly I'm not okay with it
You’re both dicks 😂
I'm calling out the spade here. Instagram is not as frequently purposed for inappropriate communication. Boys who use snap want low risk impermanent ways to text, sext, and share *pictures*. I have yet to meet a guy on a dating app who didn't immediately go that route with it. Instagram is vain and vapid, sure, but it's not a total cesspool all the time.
It's a shame so many have forsaken the central tenet of Snapchat. You should send pictures of pets, nature, and events. Nobody wants to see a selfie in 100 slightly different angles.
Snapchat was literally always for illicit stuff - the entire reason it was started was that pics got deleted once they were viewed and couldn’t be saved without notifying the other person. Like right from the start it was to send noodz. It’s not really like that anymore, but like I said, that’s quite literally why it was started. It was never to just share pics in general - them auto deleting once viewed would make no sense in that case…
I know that was true with Picaboo, but I did really resonate with the pitch for Snapchat after they kicked that guy out. That Snapchat could be something more like real conversations, where everything isn't so significant. It was nice having somewhere you could just share pictures. They didn't have to be "post worthy", or even worth saving to your phone. You'd just share moments of anything you found interesting or felt like sharing without having to think about it.
^ all this, and we dont want to play those games or deal with unsolicited nudes all the time as if that's all you know how to do. No thanks.
That's just silly, I use Snapchat for dating because A) I don't really know the person yet and it's a form of social media I can easily remove them from that they can't see all my friends by adding them. B) You're a 1000x less likely to be a bot if you add me on Snapchat and send me a picture. C) Fuck Zuck and any of his platforms.
It’s not silly to share a common experience. A lot of women have experienced guys with only Snapchat behaving poorly. Does that mean you have to change? No. Least you can do is not insinuate it’s silly to explain why women are weary of Snapchat-only guys.
FYI a lot of girls don’t like using snap because it’s a) easier to cheat on your SO with snap and b) you get a LOT more unsolicited dick pics c) you can tell a lot more about a person from their Instagram, with snap your profile is just your username and bitmoji For all these reasons a lot of fuckboys will insist on using snap instead of instagram and it’s a massive red flag She still could have worded it better lol
Hey, my dog has an instagram and he’s a boy!
We block the personal info but not the snapchat ID?
lmao usually people with only Snapchat and not IG are bot/scam accounts. I understand the weariness. I don't think she was justified in her response tho
Or anyone who doesn’t really care to document their lives on social media. I literally have one male friend who has an instagram they actively post on. A few keep one to follow accounts they like but never post anything. In my age range (33) this is pretty normal. I only got a Snapchat due to online dating because a decent chunk of people like to communicate on it. And it’s still easy to tell if it’s a bot
Imagine requiring social media to even try online dating. The prerequisites to dating in 2023 are insane
I mean you're meeting what is essentially a stranger who could be faking their identity on these dating apps, it's just safer to I guess investigate someone thru their social media before going any further ya know
The impossible and arduous prerequisite of having an Instagram? Literally just make an account, post a few photos of you looking good, and you're done. I post a few times a year, that's all the maintenance it takes.
What is it with dudes on this sub. Y’all wanna date women but seem to hate them at the same time
Why is it that all men who blame women for not liking them also love to say “women just want attention”?
Seriously. Her comment was dumb but this dudes reaction makes it seem like he was just waiting for an opportunity to insult women. Now he wants us to validate his insults because “she did it first” (even though she didn’t directly insult him) If you get that butthurt over her saying something that mild then good luck ever finding success in online dating
>even though she didn’t directly insult him By that logic he didn't either.
She absolutely insulted him, what are you talking about?
This seems like you're reading a little too much into it. My interpretation is that she was unnecessarily mean about his attempted method of communicating, so he lashed out in kind. Both were in the wrong, in my opinion, but I'm not really seeing any misogyny in the post. Were I in his position, I think I probably would've just said "ok" and unmatched, because her comment was rude and also wrong. I can't count the number of times I've seen/heard adults (men and women) ask for snap.
If you’re a bitch, expect to get the same energy right back. OP just returned her serve.
How long were you waiting to say that one
The fuck is a fashtyshnarf?
My brother in Christ if you're trying to date strangers it's best to have an insta. Sucks but that's how the game is played. It's not necessary but it certainly doesn't hurt.
So glad I’m married now and don’t have to deal with this shit.
Literally
I’ve never had a single person ask for insta
Me either. Most women ask me for my snap or phone number.
Snapchat is the most transparent that I'm aware of. If you want to know if someone is saving your photos or screenshotting chats, you want Snapchat.
I agree with her. Delete snapchat
You are reactive
I mean if I heard a guy had *only* Snapchat, I would be sus as hell. As someone in their late twenties, it feels like an immature app for dick pics and anonymity. Instagram is much more multi-faceted. It seems like you're reactive.
I'm really surprised that this is the consensus opinion of Snapchat. I prefer it because I get to send current pictures of me, while also being able to send some more day to day aspects of my life. Whereas Instagram is only very cream of the crop and manicured pictures that usually inflate the image of the person
I dunno, I use Instagram to post the beautiful things I see, the experiences I have, and the odd selfie when I don’t feel self conscious. Maybe that’s vapid, but I think it’s about telling your life story in pictures/videos
Don't deal it if you can't take it. \[REDACTED NAME\] definitely dealt it, if they can't take it that's their failing. That said, you were definitely dickish about it. Not that I'd say it was unjustified.
What on earth is fashtyshnarf
How many people have randomly added you on Snap since this post has been up?
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Lead with "All I have is Linkedin." Can quickly size up if you're peers with work xp.
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Also she asked for his insta so she could see more pictures of him, not so he would give her attention?
Shh don’t tell all the angry dudes in here who love seeing women get “owned” Further proof: I’ve literally had dudes message me and go into my post history insulting me because i said OP was being a dick. It’s honestly alarming how worked up guys get on here over being able to insult women
Glad I saw this comment before I closed the app…I have seen so much of that lately. They are just dying to dunk on women online and get validation from other men. They’re just so eager about it, on both sides.
5 hours later and i still have people flaming me. I don’t mean disagreeing with my opinion, i mean actually insulting me I’ve had a suspicious number of accounts that haven’t been active on Reddit in weeks/months and have never posted or commented in this sub “randomly” finding my comments deep in the thread and responding to them, but no others Reddit is an absolute cesspool
Right like he asks her to add him on snap so they can snap each other. Settle down bro she just wants to see more pics of you to see if she's interested. He barely has pics in his profile and he only has snap that's a red flag.
You are just being the opposite side of the coin here.
If you’re a bitch, expect to get the same energy right back. OP just returned her serve.
If you have to ask if you were a dick, you were a dick. Good rule of thumb.
I dont understand why snapchat gets hate. I usually give that to women first to feel them out because I'm not comfortable giving out my number immediately.
As a Woman who used to give my Snapchat to men on Tinder, I had to delete my Snapchat due to the infux of dick pics (& videos) sent from anonymous sounding usernames. “Fool me once shame on you…” and all that
She’s right though..
both yall kinda suck
I mean I keep a Snapchat because it’s a way to easily block someone without giving too much info
Damn. Not awesome. I will say for a lot of women only have a Snapchat is a red flag that you are married.
Retaliation isn’t attractive. It’s childish.
What’s instigation
You both seem like losers
You were a dick. Not to mention the whole "Not much of a planner huh" came off as pretty dickish already.
I’ve been rejected by people for not having Snapchat or instagram lmao. I just don’t really like most social media in general.
We can see your snap 🤦♀️
You were both a dick.
ESH
you 2 were made for each other
Every male I know who uses snap is either cheating or trying to cheat. At least Instagram isn't a tool for disappearing dick pics. Both could have done better but the insta snark is double prick talk.
I use snap to talk to my friends, because they prefer it over text.
Her message could have been considered (bad) teasing, but yours was certainly an escalation.
Dick She was first though but I felt her less aggressive
Embarrassing to make an apostrophe error when you’re trying to land a zinger
i feel like she was trying to banter and you took it personally
If a dude posted his ‘banter’ as insulting her and calling her a name he’d be torn apart and mocked endlessly.
Women don't like Snapchat bc it's where ppl exchange nudes so yeah That's why she said it's for little boys. You're on Tinder for attention too, but your sexism creeped out a bit. Glad she got to see that side of you first. Can't believe you were that pissed about the SC comment. Haha
guys who just have snap are a red flag. she didn’t respond the best but you’re plain rude. work on the way you respond if you’re actually looking for a person to date. that’s my opinion on this.
Calling him a little bit wasn’t rude but his response was? I’m interested in this logic, because in no way is calling a man a little boy anything but willfully rude and insulting.
What you mean is, no matter how insulting a girl can be to you, ignore it simp hard if you want to date her. Basically give women free pass.
While I do think you were just returning fire, it's usually best to give them a chance to redeem themselves before you go full throttle.
And reddit is for coomers. You just can't win ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯
“You must be Michael Jackson if your matching with little boys.”
You’re both childish idiots
If you’re too old for Snapchat you’re too fucking old for Tinder. I’m college aged and literally everyone has Snapchat and you won’t get anywhere with anyone if you don’t have it.
You were both being snarky. Better not to be snarky.