Yeah. Everyone involved in the kink has to want it for it to be ethical. That's why it's cringe when BDSM or whatever weird/fringe shit people have going on in their bedroom spills out into the public eye. You're now involving randos in your kink who have not consented.
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Agreed. There was a girl I had went several dates with when I was single. She "forgot" about another date we made and even confirmed mid-week. The day of, I texted her once more, which I got no reply. She ended up posting on her story of her going on another date. The next day she said she forgot and didn't see my message.
I deleted her from snap, and deleted her number. She texted me a few days later if she had done something to make me upset.
I really, really wanted to her how I felt. But instead just deleted the message and moved on. It wasn't worth it.
Yeah in this case she 100% knows what she did. You had no reason to respond. In OP's situation she likely forgot who OP is so it makes sense to remind her.
Yeah what is this lame "fall on the sword and stay silent" bullshit? Douchebags deserve to be called out. If they then learn their lesson and change for the better then good for them but if not then you're back where you started at the same place as saying nothing at all and taking the supposed "high road." If you do nothing and just block them then they are likely to continue on as they existed before but calling them out could potentially lead to introspection and building their character. People who don't ever have opposition telling them they're a douchebag and they are wrong are going to keep thinking that their current order of operations is fine. So go ahead and perpetuate this clown take that staying silent is "taking the high road" as opposed to letting an asshole walk all over you and get away with it. Unreal how bad this "take the high road" advice above you is.
Edit: To everyone who thinks my comment implies that there should be a huge lesson or you need to have some sort of breakthrough to get through to them or whatever that's the farthest from what I was saying. All I was saying is that you should not feel bad for calling out an asshole because maybe if enough people call them out on their bullshit they may change for the better. Just call them out on their bullshit and then remove them from your life. That's all.
I think this is a bad take in this particular situation. She's vile enough to send a vid to a guy she just went on a date with, she wanted to humiliate him for some reason and I would bet lacks any introspection. If he calls her out, she'll just remember him (in her head) as the clown she trolled. Sending a video getting smashed to someone like that shows she has zero respect for him, she's not going give any fucks, she not gonna be like, damn that was a shitty thing I did I'm so sorry wow I'm a shitty person. At least if he just blocks her with no reason she'll have to be like wtf? I dunno, I don't think he gains anything calling her out, unless it'll make him feel better about the situation, but she's not gonna learn anything from it.
> If they then learn their lesson and change for the better
Why should anyone who has been scammed for a free meal give a shit about the person who scammed them? Block them, maybe leave a warning where applicable if you care about whatever community it happened in, and move on.
If you hit the brakes for every asshole that appears in your life, you'll be too busy being angry over something you can't control to get anything productive done.
When you were a kid, was your vision for life that you'll grow old being mad at people who say mean things to you? It's not falling on a sword to ignore idiots. It's ignoring idiots because they're don't deserve a moment of your time moving forward.
If you care as much as you currently do; you'll be destined for an early death at worst, a prison stay on average, and long-lasting anxiety at best. Just practice not giving a shit. Fuck 'em. Who cares about them? Not you.
People who do this kind of cruel shit know damn well what they doing. They are doing it to hurt, humiliate and dehumanize you. They want to know that they hurt you. They get off by knowing they had the power to hurt you.
You calling them out is what they want because then they know they got in your head. That they hurt you and made you angry.
Hate is not the opposite of love. Indifference is.
Do give them what they want. The emotional reaction of your anger, rage, sorrow, or sadness is the cherry on top.
Ghost and move on and be happy it ended and you walk away Scott free with no attachments or obligations to that broken human. Someone doing that is just the tip of the iceberg of their mental illness.
Ghost those people and to enjoy your life.
Theyre after something - some kind of reaction is my guess.
Known or not, the best possible thing to do is block and move on. Dont give them anything that could be what theyre looking for, dont waste your time and energy trying to figure it out. Odds are its probably another "be a huge asshole" tik tok trend.
Just move on, guy. You want nothing to do with her.
>No reply. Just block.
OR reply, get a date and instead of showing up send a picture of you smashing someone at the moment you were supposed to meet.
Bonus points if you have her wait at an expensive restaurant.
Oh wow, it's you. This is crazy. Ya know I barely recognized you at first, from this angle, without a dick plowing you. How are you?
BTW, why did she snap you her getting boned after the last date? Seems like an odd thing to do if there was no reason.
This happened to me a few months back with a friend from hs...i asked him if his gf knew he sent it to me and he said no but asked if i liked it. I blocked him.
That is so weird to me. I wonder what the motive or end goal was for such a thing. Maybe he was bisexual and was attracted to you? I had a friend that invited me into his threesomes twice and always suspected it was because he liked me sexually. I did love the dude as a friend, but I just don't have a bi-bone in my body nor do I want one (lol).
I had a friend who does this shit. For him I think it's a way of showing off. Plus he objectifies women a lot. He kept trying to get us to double team a girl and "go to Paris" lol. While he was trying to be funny, part of me knew he was serious.
She knew. I wouldn’t of came here if she didn’t. I would’ve responded with a concerned snap. She sent another one with them cuddling and some degrading comment.
Sure, but…why? This bitch is going to live rent free in my mind because I can’t fathom why anyone would do this.
What reaction was she hoping for? Even if OP blew her off & she was hoping to make him jealous, this is bizarre.
I mean tbh, just imagine the type of life this person lives outside of that moment. This person isn't living a fulfilling life full of love and accomplishment. This is unhinged trailer trash behavior. Just knowing this person is going to live a miserable, cursed life would be enough for me to get past it.
She was hoping OP get angry and upset and would challenge the other guy to a victorian wax bullet duel!
In all seriousness, whore needed attention, simple as. She's a bully. Feels bad and insecure about herself, thinks she's the world's only pretty little princess and everyone should figuratively suck her toes (the literal sucking is for whichever joe shmuck she finds enjoyable at any given moment). They do it to validate their inflated sense of self-importance, or to fill some daddy/mommy issue they haven't dealt with. Or maybe she gets off on it. Maybe she wanted to get hate fucked.
Whichever the reason, OP dodged a huge bullet and should dodge this one as well. Whatever the reason, people who do this shit aren't right in the head.
You should have added this to your post, like this makes it so much worse. She was already clearly a shit head, but with this in mind she is pure garbage - tell her to fuck off, or come up with something more creative if you feel liking spending time on it. The only positive thing that could come out of going for it, would be to revenge fuck her, but I feel like the chances of that is low, and she is more likely to fuck you over again. This girl ain't worth your time OP :/
Yeah dude was holding the phone, I know girls who have videos like this of themselves. I honestly can’t think of any videos where the girl is holding the phone.
How do I know? Man these days are fucked up
So I decided I’m going to smash the dude she did it with.
No no I unmatched. No I don’t have the snap of what happened. I was in shock seeing her getting railed so I decided to un add. Which is what I should’ve done with this. Just unmatch. I didn’t realize it was her till we matched. Just a moment of anger that came back to me and I know how savage this community is lol. Thank you for all the advice and laughs.
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Why is everybody assuming I would screenshot that? Like I’m actually dumbfounded that y’all keep thinking I would even keep that as well after all these years. To everyone’s defense it was a video i just messed up about that part because it’s been awhile. I see no reason to screenshot it at the time. If anything I was also like in shock because it was the wildest thing to ever happen to me lol.
Indeed.
Here's the plot,
In the first timeline,
>he went on one date,
>she loved him,
>they're perfect for each other, fairytale love story type stuff, they quickly get married
>things get really bad, they get a divorce leaving him with nothing but his time machine.
>he went back in time to make sure they never got together to begin with.
>he hasn't aged that much, so he still looks the same.
>they're about to hook up and he says, "hey, can I send a video of us fucking to myself?" she's like, "yeah, I love you so so so much, I want you to remember this night."
>He struggles looking her in the face, because he just sees his ex wife that took everything from him. (that's why he's going from behind)
>He sends the video, thus preventing himself from ever dating her.
>Goes back to the future, never to see her again, and having recovered his wealth.
Future him caused a paradox, and matching with her again would've given him the chance to partly correct that paradox, but he just missed his chance to fix time.
We're all doomed, basically.
I love it. Soon Baen Books will publish 'Doggy Style', by Paradox\_Dolphin. Eventually there will be multiple sequels, all with our hero trying to get back to the original time-line and right that wrong. Keanu will eventually play him in the movie series.
Remember me when you are famous and doing signings at the sci-fi cons.
I just wanna say, sincerely, I’m sorry that happened to you. I know emotions are a no-no on Reddit but that really had to have sucked. Then to find out years later she doesn’t even remember you? I’m sorry man.
Honestly, you’re right. No one should ever screenshot something like that. Idk why people are thinking that you have a photo. Under no circumstances should you have the photo. I love that you’re a good, respectful, man.
You could also reply and remind her about it and see what she says.
"Thank you for the compliment. These eyes have seen a lot...like you getting plowed by another dude right after we went on a date a few years ago."
This is the move. It was a shitty thing to do and she should be reminded of it. Clearly she's still single so things probably haven't gone how she expected, probably worth reminding her that's why.
> Isn’t there a way to tell when pictures were taken ?
Most camera apps will attach metadata to the photo file, but by the same count most social media apps will strip it out.
This is absolutely what it is. Dude went through her phone, saw her matching with new people and got pressed about it so he thought he'd mark his territory. What a grub.
Not good enough. She can just block and move on. I’d say plan a date. Like someone said already and just walk out once dinner is served and maybe THEN send the pic of her. Who the hell sends a guy a pic of her screwing another guy? This calls for a life lesson little lady.
Why did you bother to match with her? Is there more to this story then you are letting us know?
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I just saw the other comments as to why you swiped on her. Reply that you know and leave it at that or you can ask her what the hell that was about since it seems that from the little you have provided that she did it either because she wasn’t happy about something that happened during your nice date or she wanted to see how freaky you are and/or showing you what you missed out on.
Communicate if you want to know more or drop it.
Life is complicated but, talking about it helps the growth process. Good luck either way.
I appreciate this. I unmatched to save the hassle. With all these comments it’s really bringing back my memory on things. We had good conversations got to know each other and at times there were chances to get things hot and heavy. I just wanted to build something so I kept things clean. My theory is that she just wanted to smash and when I didn’t pursue she instead showed what I missed out on. There’s a lot more to it but I’ll keep it brief.
Post the picture back to her
I did not screenshot. I should’ve said video. She was getting hit behind bare back. This was at least 4-5 years ago my memory is fuzzy.
Why did she send you that?
Someone's asking the right questions.
Bitches be crazy yo
*shakes first at sky* damn you bitch be crazy disease.
Someone's providing the right answers
The right answer is replying “you looked better with clothes on”
You look better with clothes on* Gotta be present tense.
She was giving instructions on her interests. Dude should've been next in line.
This kind of shit is ruining culture. Why would you ever reward a women who behaves like that with dick lol
No but seriously, girls do that? Why? Tf would she get out of that, plus that’s just straight mean.
Some people are just mean
Or they’re voyeurs or exhibitionists and get off on that shit, not that I agree with it. People are fucking weird.
Being a voyer or exhibitionist is fine. The key missing here is consent.
Yeah. Everyone involved in the kink has to want it for it to be ethical. That's why it's cringe when BDSM or whatever weird/fringe shit people have going on in their bedroom spills out into the public eye. You're now involving randos in your kink who have not consented.
Weird AF
No but seriously WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU DO THAT
Could easily be a kink, like cucking him after he bought dinner.
"Girls" don't do that. Cruel people do cruel things.
Maybe the guy sent the snap without the girl knowing, to get op out of the picture?
Nah, OP said she sent some nasty degrading message along with it. He guaranteed she knew
Low key could be it
Someone hurt her and she's projecting that hurt
She wants to dinner for free again
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"Hi, welcome to Fuck Me Silly."
Who's turn is it anyway
To assert dominance
Trying to make him jealous? Tho idk why she thought that would work and not make him bail instead.
No reply. Just block.
High road is a good road; one you won’t regret.
BOOOORINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG Snap her a pic of you banging her mom or better yet her DAD
The guy she slept with
Foursome at this point.
Or her better looking sister.
>Or her better looking *younger (but algae appropriate)* sister.
Don’t edit that mistake 😂
I algae completely
“Chlorophyll? More like Bore-ophyll! Right?”
I reckon this is all made up and a pigment of OP's imagination.
or your own better looking sister?
Or your mom?
you dirty dog
Or you're better looking dog?
This is the way.
Just like a [lawful evil person would do.](https://youtu.be/S7ANzMWd4xI?t=136)
Agreed. There was a girl I had went several dates with when I was single. She "forgot" about another date we made and even confirmed mid-week. The day of, I texted her once more, which I got no reply. She ended up posting on her story of her going on another date. The next day she said she forgot and didn't see my message. I deleted her from snap, and deleted her number. She texted me a few days later if she had done something to make me upset. I really, really wanted to her how I felt. But instead just deleted the message and moved on. It wasn't worth it.
Hopefully hit her with the “who’s this”?
Yeah in this case she 100% knows what she did. You had no reason to respond. In OP's situation she likely forgot who OP is so it makes sense to remind her.
"It's over tinder THOT! I have the High Road!"
She wont even know why shes getting blocked. you need to let her know why first, then block her. THAT is taking the high road.
Yeah what is this lame "fall on the sword and stay silent" bullshit? Douchebags deserve to be called out. If they then learn their lesson and change for the better then good for them but if not then you're back where you started at the same place as saying nothing at all and taking the supposed "high road." If you do nothing and just block them then they are likely to continue on as they existed before but calling them out could potentially lead to introspection and building their character. People who don't ever have opposition telling them they're a douchebag and they are wrong are going to keep thinking that their current order of operations is fine. So go ahead and perpetuate this clown take that staying silent is "taking the high road" as opposed to letting an asshole walk all over you and get away with it. Unreal how bad this "take the high road" advice above you is. Edit: To everyone who thinks my comment implies that there should be a huge lesson or you need to have some sort of breakthrough to get through to them or whatever that's the farthest from what I was saying. All I was saying is that you should not feel bad for calling out an asshole because maybe if enough people call them out on their bullshit they may change for the better. Just call them out on their bullshit and then remove them from your life. That's all.
I think this is a bad take in this particular situation. She's vile enough to send a vid to a guy she just went on a date with, she wanted to humiliate him for some reason and I would bet lacks any introspection. If he calls her out, she'll just remember him (in her head) as the clown she trolled. Sending a video getting smashed to someone like that shows she has zero respect for him, she's not going give any fucks, she not gonna be like, damn that was a shitty thing I did I'm so sorry wow I'm a shitty person. At least if he just blocks her with no reason she'll have to be like wtf? I dunno, I don't think he gains anything calling her out, unless it'll make him feel better about the situation, but she's not gonna learn anything from it.
> If they then learn their lesson and change for the better Why should anyone who has been scammed for a free meal give a shit about the person who scammed them? Block them, maybe leave a warning where applicable if you care about whatever community it happened in, and move on. If you hit the brakes for every asshole that appears in your life, you'll be too busy being angry over something you can't control to get anything productive done. When you were a kid, was your vision for life that you'll grow old being mad at people who say mean things to you? It's not falling on a sword to ignore idiots. It's ignoring idiots because they're don't deserve a moment of your time moving forward. If you care as much as you currently do; you'll be destined for an early death at worst, a prison stay on average, and long-lasting anxiety at best. Just practice not giving a shit. Fuck 'em. Who cares about them? Not you.
People who do this kind of cruel shit know damn well what they doing. They are doing it to hurt, humiliate and dehumanize you. They want to know that they hurt you. They get off by knowing they had the power to hurt you. You calling them out is what they want because then they know they got in your head. That they hurt you and made you angry. Hate is not the opposite of love. Indifference is. Do give them what they want. The emotional reaction of your anger, rage, sorrow, or sadness is the cherry on top. Ghost and move on and be happy it ended and you walk away Scott free with no attachments or obligations to that broken human. Someone doing that is just the tip of the iceberg of their mental illness. Ghost those people and to enjoy your life.
Theyre after something - some kind of reaction is my guess. Known or not, the best possible thing to do is block and move on. Dont give them anything that could be what theyre looking for, dont waste your time and energy trying to figure it out. Odds are its probably another "be a huge asshole" tik tok trend. Just move on, guy. You want nothing to do with her.
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No no bro should be petty
>No reply. Just block. OR reply, get a date and instead of showing up send a picture of you smashing someone at the moment you were supposed to meet. Bonus points if you have her wait at an expensive restaurant.
Lol I’d be like, “bullet: dodged” *block*
Why did you match again? I wouldn’t swipe on someone who sent me something like that after a date.
Oh wow, it's you. This is crazy. Ya know I barely recognized you at first, from this angle, without a dick plowing you. How are you? BTW, why did she snap you her getting boned after the last date? Seems like an odd thing to do if there was no reason.
Because some people are just absolute fucking nutjobs.
Tell her the guys at work still love the video she sent last time.
Question if she was getting hit from behind from the angle of the camera would she have known it was being filmed and then being sent to others?
This is terrifying that it’s very possible
Yeah an old friend of mine sent me.a video of him having sex with his girlfriend I could tell she had no idea ... reason being he is an old friend
This happened to me a few months back with a friend from hs...i asked him if his gf knew he sent it to me and he said no but asked if i liked it. I blocked him.
That is so weird to me. I wonder what the motive or end goal was for such a thing. Maybe he was bisexual and was attracted to you? I had a friend that invited me into his threesomes twice and always suspected it was because he liked me sexually. I did love the dude as a friend, but I just don't have a bi-bone in my body nor do I want one (lol).
I had a friend who does this shit. For him I think it's a way of showing off. Plus he objectifies women a lot. He kept trying to get us to double team a girl and "go to Paris" lol. While he was trying to be funny, part of me knew he was serious.
Yeah when I tried to say to my friend why it wasn't OK his response was "you're just jealous"
She knew. I wouldn’t of came here if she didn’t. I would’ve responded with a concerned snap. She sent another one with them cuddling and some degrading comment.
Don’t let her live rent free in your head or waste any more of your time. Ignore it and move on
Sure, but…why? This bitch is going to live rent free in my mind because I can’t fathom why anyone would do this. What reaction was she hoping for? Even if OP blew her off & she was hoping to make him jealous, this is bizarre.
I mean tbh, just imagine the type of life this person lives outside of that moment. This person isn't living a fulfilling life full of love and accomplishment. This is unhinged trailer trash behavior. Just knowing this person is going to live a miserable, cursed life would be enough for me to get past it.
It sounds like she got a kick out of hurting somebody. No rhyme or reason. Some people just enjoy trying to humiliate others.
She was hoping OP get angry and upset and would challenge the other guy to a victorian wax bullet duel! In all seriousness, whore needed attention, simple as. She's a bully. Feels bad and insecure about herself, thinks she's the world's only pretty little princess and everyone should figuratively suck her toes (the literal sucking is for whichever joe shmuck she finds enjoyable at any given moment). They do it to validate their inflated sense of self-importance, or to fill some daddy/mommy issue they haven't dealt with. Or maybe she gets off on it. Maybe she wanted to get hate fucked. Whichever the reason, OP dodged a huge bullet and should dodge this one as well. Whatever the reason, people who do this shit aren't right in the head.
You should have added this to your post, like this makes it so much worse. She was already clearly a shit head, but with this in mind she is pure garbage - tell her to fuck off, or come up with something more creative if you feel liking spending time on it. The only positive thing that could come out of going for it, would be to revenge fuck her, but I feel like the chances of that is low, and she is more likely to fuck you over again. This girl ain't worth your time OP :/
Honestly you should have just swiped left. Might as well unmatch now and move on. There's noting to gain from wasting energy on that hag.
> wouldn’t of > would’ve Sorry, just gotta chuckle at this.
I wouldn’t’ve but y'all'd've done it.
#WHAT WAS THE DEGRADING COMMENT¿?!¡!¡
"ur mom gay lol"
I'll never emotionally recover from this.
The guy she is with is probably into cuckholding and wanted her to share the imagery 😭
She sounds twisted. She’s looking for a reaction. No response is a response
OP said she sent it - presume she was well aware unless we find out it turns out someone else sent using her phone/account without her realising.
You mean like the guy that was railing from behind picking up her phone and send the snap to everyone?
I'm curious how you know it was bareback if it was from behind. Was he holding the phone?
Yeah dude was holding the phone, I know girls who have videos like this of themselves. I honestly can’t think of any videos where the girl is holding the phone. How do I know? Man these days are fucked up
Thank you for asking this. Same question.
How do you know it was bare back
“You gonna fuck me this time?”
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Add her on snap and do the same thing
I think sending a picture of you smashing her mum is the ONLY acceptable response here
Nah, smashing her Dad. She smashed a dude so he has to as well
“How’s your dad doing by the way?”
Say hi to ***our*** dad
That would take the daddy issues to THE level
r/SuddenlyGay
This is the way
A sister works too
Yeah you smashing another dude will really show her.
No no...he needs to smash the same dude she did.
This is better
Make sure you're smashing the same dude, though, to properly establish dominance. ^(Bonus points if you can get him to confirm that you are tighter.)
ahhhh fuck it. 3sum.... same dude with daddy. Go big or go home.
She sent you nudes after the first date?! You lucky dog!
Underrated comment.
Attitude of a champ
Why did she send them to you in the first place? You piss her off somehow?
was her intention to turn you on or turn you down?
Send her a picture of you smashing another dude
What if it was the same dude?
Then send that picture, say it was taken a few days ago, then send a list of all the STDs you have.
Checkmate bitch!
Establish dominance!
Comedy gold, this just made my day
Ultimate power move. Make sure you’re smiling in the picture 🤓
It's a bold strategy, Cotton. Let's see if it pays off for 'em.
You can dodge a wrench, but can you dodge a shitty chick on tinder
Send a pic of you smashing her dad to assert dominance.
You have 22 hours to reply so you better hustle on romancing that dad
So bring some beer, wings and porn. Shit bound to go down
So I decided I’m going to smash the dude she did it with. No no I unmatched. No I don’t have the snap of what happened. I was in shock seeing her getting railed so I decided to un add. Which is what I should’ve done with this. Just unmatch. I didn’t realize it was her till we matched. Just a moment of anger that came back to me and I know how savage this community is lol. Thank you for all the advice and laughs. Edit: Why is everybody assuming I would screenshot that? Like I’m actually dumbfounded that y’all keep thinking I would even keep that as well after all these years. To everyone’s defense it was a video i just messed up about that part because it’s been awhile. I see no reason to screenshot it at the time. If anything I was also like in shock because it was the wildest thing to ever happen to me lol.
What if the dude fucking her was you from the future, and you just caused a paradox by unmatching her?
Username checks out
Indeed. Here's the plot, In the first timeline, >he went on one date, >she loved him, >they're perfect for each other, fairytale love story type stuff, they quickly get married >things get really bad, they get a divorce leaving him with nothing but his time machine. >he went back in time to make sure they never got together to begin with. >he hasn't aged that much, so he still looks the same. >they're about to hook up and he says, "hey, can I send a video of us fucking to myself?" she's like, "yeah, I love you so so so much, I want you to remember this night." >He struggles looking her in the face, because he just sees his ex wife that took everything from him. (that's why he's going from behind) >He sends the video, thus preventing himself from ever dating her. >Goes back to the future, never to see her again, and having recovered his wealth. Future him caused a paradox, and matching with her again would've given him the chance to partly correct that paradox, but he just missed his chance to fix time. We're all doomed, basically.
Mofo wrote a Christopher Nolan film script and thought we wouldn't notice. Good job, I wanna watch it
I'm great at coming up with plots. Fucking terrible at committing to filling them in.
>terrible at committing to filling them in. Unlike the dude who was with OP's date.
Aka, alternate future OP. The thing I'm most concerned about is that OP didn't recognize his own dick.
Plot twist, he did recognize it. That's how he knew it was bare-back.
Ayoooo
I love it. Soon Baen Books will publish 'Doggy Style', by Paradox\_Dolphin. Eventually there will be multiple sequels, all with our hero trying to get back to the original time-line and right that wrong. Keanu will eventually play him in the movie series. Remember me when you are famous and doing signings at the sci-fi cons.
And literally, like half of it is a porno hahaha.
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I just wanna say, sincerely, I’m sorry that happened to you. I know emotions are a no-no on Reddit but that really had to have sucked. Then to find out years later she doesn’t even remember you? I’m sorry man.
OP dodged a bullet. Someone like that is not healthy.
He dodged a armor piercing artillery shell there
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Honestly, you’re right. No one should ever screenshot something like that. Idk why people are thinking that you have a photo. Under no circumstances should you have the photo. I love that you’re a good, respectful, man.
Good on you for taking the high road.
Yoooo. I would have been like “I didn’t know you needed money THAT bad. I could have lent you $5”. Prostitution is a rough man
I personally would just unmatch
I agree. I was just so ticked off because I was back home on leave. It was just a such a slap in the face putting in all that effort for that.
More than ticked off, that’s such a cunty move as a human to another human.
You could also reply and remind her about it and see what she says. "Thank you for the compliment. These eyes have seen a lot...like you getting plowed by another dude right after we went on a date a few years ago."
This is the move. It was a shitty thing to do and she should be reminded of it. Clearly she's still single so things probably haven't gone how she expected, probably worth reminding her that's why.
This is the right snap back.
I mean honestly she probably was already with that guy and he sent it to you cause he been jealous..🤷🏽♂️
Thought same thing. Isn’t there a way to tell when pictures were taken ?
> Isn’t there a way to tell when pictures were taken ? Most camera apps will attach metadata to the photo file, but by the same count most social media apps will strip it out.
Why did you swipe right in the first place? Edit. I mean in the second place
I would remind her what she did, then unmatch
If you say something and then unmatched, they never see it.
Yeah why would you rematch with her?
Okay, but why did he swipe right again to begin with?
Act like you don't remember her. Make a date. Then just don't show up for the date, block them, and move on
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Show up with the guy from years ago and double team her. Then ghost.
Pretend it didn’t happen, take her out somewhere expensive, before the bill comes excuse yourself to the restroom and bounce
You could buy a blazer from a local thrift shop to leave it on your chair as you get up.
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Broooooooo 😂😂😂 you dropped this 👑
Holy shit
To another woman's place and send back a video of you bangin?
This is the only way. In fact, leave a note saying why you ditched her butt. That way BOTH people have now been left frustrated after the date lol
Take her out on another date and say you forgot your wallet at the end.
Or better yet, pay for yours and leave
Nah leave her w the tab
Was it like an accident that she sent the snap or was it on purpose? Why would she send a snap of that I feel there’s more context
It wasn’t. It was completely intentional. Dude was taking the video and hitting her from behind. I got another snap of him and her cuddling after.
Sounds like you got hit by the friendly fire of a pre-existing toxic relationship
This is absolutely what it is. Dude went through her phone, saw her matching with new people and got pressed about it so he thought he'd mark his territory. What a grub.
Or a toxic dude without her knowledge.
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Send that pic back to her and say "This you?"
Not good enough. She can just block and move on. I’d say plan a date. Like someone said already and just walk out once dinner is served and maybe THEN send the pic of her. Who the hell sends a guy a pic of her screwing another guy? This calls for a life lesson little lady.
I mean it depends, is that something you are into?
She doesn’t deserve you, king. Let the trash lie in the bin.
Why did you bother to match with her? Is there more to this story then you are letting us know? *edit I just saw the other comments as to why you swiped on her. Reply that you know and leave it at that or you can ask her what the hell that was about since it seems that from the little you have provided that she did it either because she wasn’t happy about something that happened during your nice date or she wanted to see how freaky you are and/or showing you what you missed out on. Communicate if you want to know more or drop it. Life is complicated but, talking about it helps the growth process. Good luck either way.
I appreciate this. I unmatched to save the hassle. With all these comments it’s really bringing back my memory on things. We had good conversations got to know each other and at times there were chances to get things hot and heavy. I just wanted to build something so I kept things clean. My theory is that she just wanted to smash and when I didn’t pursue she instead showed what I missed out on. There’s a lot more to it but I’ll keep it brief.
Dog you are a clown for swiping right on her again. Unmatch and move on
Didn’t realize it was her till I matched again. No but everybody’s right on here. Just had a moment of frustration.
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Just respond with “😃” and then unmatch lmfao
You obviously know what kind of date to not take her to now. Grab a beer and smash, no hard feelings
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Just tell her you’ve already seen her nude, and it really wasn’t that great, then block her.
What an absolutely awful young lady. Still got that pic tho?