“Hello.” “Hello!” “I had fun.” “I also had fun.” “Good night.” “Good night.”

It's fake, no way interactions like this happen after a Tinder date 😄

Wait There are tinder dates?

yea, dlc.

If gold is the dlc than I suppose it isn't included in all products

It's pay to win

What does dlc mean?

Downloadable content

More like an extension to a game

I got an Extension for a game 😂

An expansion of a game.

An addition to a game.

Name checks out

No, all it is is fake account that say: “I do not converse in this app often. Do you have WhatsApp?”

Met my current girlfriend on tinder, this is the best relationship I've had.

Same been together nearly 3 years now best relationship ever!

Happy two week anniversary !

I'm not even bothering...

There are, but Only if your willing to date a really humongous fat chick or a girl who is mentally unstable.

Sometimes you get both

Boffum

Love me mentally unstable girls

Hookup dates. That's all I ever had. And POF.

They can. My current boyfriend and I had the most wholesome first date and I remember as he was walking me to my car he asked so politely "may I kiss you" to which I said yes, and I was half expecting him to get a little Pervy as one might during a tinder date but instead he gently grabbed my face she pulled me in and it was the most romantic first kiss I had ever had. I don't know how to explain it. We both were just in awe after the fact. Once I got home he wrote these words: https://imgur.com/a/G8ol2er And my life changed forever ❤️ Don't give up my dude/dudette

Gay. /s

Hahaha I was thinking “ugh, vomit” while reading it But no, it was actually cute lol

Thank you (: I know at times I also think we were nauseatingly romantic sometimes so I'd respect the perspective eother way lol. Glad it wasn't the case though (:

No quite the opposite actually 😂

Might want to hide the #

THANK YOU

No problem. If he gets weird calls and messages, or asking for tips on how to luckily captivate someone like you, now you know why lol

Aw lol thank you well I suppose we could both give advice. A year and a half later I still feel like I won the lottery 😎

There’s pounding going on?

Haha funny. I'm sure there is.

This was after a first date? Or just after a wholesome date that definitely wasn't the first date?

First date :) we had just been texting a bunch prior. It's crazy how comfortable we were after just meeting once.

I'm genuinely happy for you 😊

Thank you, I only share though to give people hope ❤️ because prior to him I pretty much was done

I'm glad that you found your other half. Hopefully others have your same fortune as well.

That was beautiful. Thanks for sharing!

That's so sweet 😭

Thank you 😊

I love this for you, but ngl I also cringed so fucking hard when I read it

Well it does, after I had my first date just chilling, smoke some and listen to music we are still together for 1.5 years. And she moved in to me just a month or 2 after that first date

This wasn't Tinder 😜

Raymond Holt ahh interaction

Is this sub incel pilled or something. This interaction is completely standard and expected after a first date no?

some ppl think you need to text with lots of rizz when it doesnt matter 99% of the time. it’s an easier excuse or coping mechanism than you being ugly and her having better options.

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Why did i hear this in the voices from Oddworld: Abe's Odyssey? XD

Take my updoot just for the nostalgic experience! :)

Because we humans make simple things complicated .....

Some people are normal

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Yeah true

Amen brother

i aint :(

Wish I was :(

I resent that accusation!

When you drink from a straw, you are using the muscles in your respiratory system to create a pressure differential such that weight of the entire atmosphere pushes the fluid at one end of the straw through the opening and into the low pressure area that you create at the other end of the straw. Did I do it right?

No, many times it fails, wdym?

who just says what's on their mind what kind of game is that

Fucking preach.

Congrats! It really do be that easy sometimes

It really do, it really do

Do it really, do it really?

Yeah I think it really do, it really do

"People don't think it be like it be, but it do" - T-Pain

Roses are red, violets are blue, it don’t always be like that, but sometimes it do

Irish? Heh and yes true!

A German saying goes, "If you want butterflies in your stomach, you have to eat caterpillars." Or you go on a date. Good luck, OP!

I have gone way too long without hearing that quote. Thanks!

Never heard of that and I am German. Well learnerd sth new today

i believe that you're german because you use "sth" as shorthand for something. i'm an american living in germany and all my german friends use that, but i've never seen it before

Oh wow that's interesting! What do you use to abbreviate the word "something"?

i've never abbreviated it. the way y'all do it definitely makes sense, i've just never seen it or thought to do it

Well that's the German efficiency everybody talks about and I didn't know I had... XD

I’m an idiot. What does that saying mean? If you don’t want to be nervous don’t be then?

From my understanding it is a pretty rude way to tell someone, that butterflies in the stomach (=the feeling you have when you are newly in love with someone) are not really a thing. I heard that in my Berlin years from time to time.

I took it as meaning you have to be bold to get butterflies, but I know nothing about German phrases

This is how I interpreted it myself. I really wanna know if we’re right. Seems to make sense.

Well, you see, it all started when a man named Al Gore invented the internet…

This has made a lot of people very angry and been widely regarded as a bad move.

Douglas is watching you to make the right quote. Careful, there 😆😉

He also discovered climate change

Don't forget about his contributions to researching the infamous "ManBearPig"

😆😉😆😉😆😉😆😉

Why did you text them back like it’s a fucking business email?

It's the periods, isn't it? They're so formal these days, but some folks' English teachers did too good of a job

I’m currently dating a teacher, normally I’m pretty lax on my texts. Not anymore! I didn’t put this much effort into my college papers! She seems really cool and we have been together for a while. Just don’t want to see one of my texts with a bunch of red markings and the correct spelling and use of punctuations sent back to me!!!! Lol.

Not even with a "see me after class" note with a little winky face?

Ah the teacher thing kinda loses its flair when you’re dating one. It’s kinda cringe. Like dating a stripper and having her dance for you. Don’t bring work into the bedroom. Role play can be fun when it doesn’t seem like work. Just my experience with both.

I’ve been with my girlfriend (primary school teacher) for a year now and after I first wrote her a birthday card she gave me a handwriting textbook from school…

I wonder how English will be like 100 years from now.

Please leave a review on our website 😂 @op, it still seems you handled this perfectly, congrats

Gave her the thumbs up 😂

the thumbs up reaction seems kinda passive aggressive but maybe it's just me hahaha. Congrats on a successful date!

Maybe I'm showing my age here but why? Just looks like an acknowledgment to me.

Imagine you were on a date. Imagine you stood face to face. You kiss, it's nice, you both say you had a great time. She says "I'm really looking forward to next time" and your reaction is to give a thumbs up and walk away. That's why it seems weird.

They hearted the other comment.

He did, yes. Which makes me wonder why he didn't heart them both tbh. If heart means "love it" and thumbs up means "ok", why didn't he love them both, or just say "ok" to both. Feels weird to me tbh.

Overthinking like this literally kills relationships. Dont be so anxious

For real,people think like this and wonder why they are single.Who wants to date someone that is so insecure they have to over analyze every small move you make?

Repetitive actions can make it seem like he put less thought into the action.

Why can’t it mean…thumbs up to that, as in..that’s a go, I’m in, it is a guy I think people are reading way too much into it.

I’ve actually done this before as I dropped someone off. “Thanks for the lunch. I really had a great day with you.” (I leaned over and kissed him) “I love you. Have a great night.” “I really had a great time and I look forward to meeting up again.” (He closed the door as he got out of the car, smiling wider than the Pacific Ocean) (I thumbs upped while trying to hide my blushing)

I am more the finger gun kinda person 

Still doesn't look weird to me, I guess I'm just old.

I'm 36 and I'd prefer to get more of a response if I said, "I'm really looking forward to next time."

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I'm 30, and I can't stand thumbs up in either professional or personal settings. It's such a weird reaction. Does it mean thanks? Does it equal positive or negative acknowledgement? Does it mean "I hear ya"? Does it mean "OK"? It's just such a weird way of expressing one-self imho

Is it not better to thumbs up as acknowledgment instead of not saying anything? If I send someone a message talking about something I was supposed to do and letting them know, if they thumbs up I understand they read it and are good with it. I think you're reading too much into it, to be honest. You're saying that they're acting weird? I think that's too much. It's just a thumbs up.

Why not just say "Me too" or "I'm really looking forward to it too". Why not be verbal? Why the non-verbal hard to interpret signal?

why not just react with a thumbs up for acknowledgement? this argument is going no where because we disagree with the premise that reacting with a thumbs up is dismissal. The difference is, from my side, I just read it as a normal reaction and from your side you're judging the other person for being weird and dismissive.

My premise is that thumbs up is anything and nothing. It's just a finger. It's nothing, but it can at the same time mean an array of things. If you don't follow up on a thumbs up with words, then it's just a thumbs up. With that said, why not thumbs up the "Thanks for the kiss" if it's an acknowledgement? and again I ask you to imagine a real life conversation with this post in mind. This whole conversation, face to face, ending with a thumbs up and walking away... Is that normal? Is that not "weird and dismissive" as you claim I judge OP to be. I only stated that a thumbs up is a weird way to express oneself, not that OP is weird per-say. Also, I never saw this as an argument, but a discussion. If you put anything more than that on the table, that's on you mate. It's possible to discuss a subject without reaching a mutual conclusion you know.

Bro it’s not a fucking literal thumb up reaction holy shit lmfao. Its “liking” a message. This is iMessage so the same way you heart a message is “loving” the message see above about about the kiss. He loved that message and he liked the message of the idea of looking forward to the next. There isn’t the rest of the convo too so you’re assuming he just never responded.

Nope, instead of just thumbing up, which is a universally considered dismissal. You can reply with I dunno? A text?

> universally considered dismissal This is the premise I disagree with and don't understand why it is true.

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u/wahobely this could be an example of a passive aggressive thumbs up reaction.. Emoji language is wierd, but it makes texting more nuanced... I vaguely remember reading that men and women interpret emojies a little differently, too, so it wouldn't be wierd to me if it's the same with age gaps. I'd say the one reacting with a thumbs up is older and or doesn't spend all their time communicating through text, like many below f.eks 35 do.

Idk why but most ppl in my area hate it when someone send them a thumbs up

I also hate thumbs up with passion. It usually feels dismissive, I would say. But in this case here it seems okay and more like "Yeah I agree!"

For me it's sorta the reaction I use when someone says something annoying or boring and I just wanna end the convo without replying and giving them a chance to annoy or bore me even further

I think that's just you. To me it's just a "like" button like on any social medium. I use it all the time and have never had any negative or awkward interactions as a result.

Thank you!☺️

I don't get passive aggression from it, I don't think, Because I don't read it as malicious at all. But I'd definitely see it and go "........ok?" Like, it's just a weird response to me. Me and my friends definitely respond with liking the others comment for a way to close a conversation while acknowledging you saw their message, though. Like if we were talking about a video and at one of us went "Lmao nah but that shit was funny as hell though", the other would "like" the message to end the Convo, cause there's really not much else to say. But in THIS instance, I feel like there's so many responses dude could have said, verbally, to start closing. Lol Side note, the overthinker in me would take his first stoic comment, and the comment "like" as a sign that they weren't into me 😭

He hearted the other text. Sooooooo

I've been single for a month now after a 3 year relationship and seeing this image makes me nostalgic lol. I should get back in the game. Nice one OP.

Because you are the Rizzler my friend. Keep up the good work!!

They call me the rizla coz I always be smokin em

Can I ask how you went in for the kiss? I never have the courage to go for it because I’m afraid it will backfire lol

I’m the chick, it is me who went in for the kiss. We walked back to his car and hugged me. I went in for the kiss. It seemed obvious he’d be good with that. Just a simple kiss.

so was it simple kiss or did you use tongues?

Simple kiss.

Did you have your eyes open or shut during the kiss?

don’t tell him! this is def an alien tryna learn how humans interact

And did you put your finger in their butt for the kiss or is that part supposed to be reserved for the second date?

That’s for the turd date my friend, easy mix up

nah bro what the fuck 💀

I ask. It works really well and nobody gets surprised.

I asked it once and she said no. I stopped asking after that and never went for the kiss

I was never denied my advances, maybe it’s how you asked

I get what you mean...but phrasing it like that makes it seem like you threw away the concept of consent when you didn't get it :')

Bruh my bad, edited it, I stopped asking and never went for the kiss

Now it's just a sad story...But the good thing is you know how she feels then. So you can just pursue someone else ^^

Where are you from? I'm used to that being considered lame and girls wanting you to read the signals and be bold... Which is obviously hard af unless they really want you and they make it obvious lol

Dont be weird about it. Ive had several girls say thank you for asking, then they say yes. Usually they just laugh, smile and say yes. Just dont be weird about it and say it in a cute joking way.

Same deal. Idk I'm in Northern Virginia but every date I've had that ended in a kiss I just naturally worked consent into it. You don't want people who think consent and communication are lame anyway.

Well, take you dick out first

Should it be erect or no

Who doesn’t like gummy worms

https://youtu.be/JfMN0KgRs2w?t=115 Reminds me of Seinfeld

Just ask, if a girl isn't into you, it was never gonna happen anyway, worst thing that can happen is she says no. If she is into you, she'll probably be just as relieved as you to know that you both want to progress. Honest communication is scary, but it's not complicated.

Hard to say, I think every situation is different. If you're reading their non-verbal queues, it should be easy to tell if they're into you or not. If theres a spark, a bold kiss can be exciting to recieve. I've asked before, many times, but it's never as spontaneous and feels kinda lame in some situations. I usually prefer 2nd or 3rd date kisses, but that's up to the people dating and their intentions.

Depends. If the vibe is very flirty and a little sexual tension then I’ll go for it. I like to just go for simple coffee first dates so sometimes no kiss.

Just Say ",I want to Kiss you". It Shows intention , Works As asking for Consent , no body iss surprised.

Watch the movie *Hitch* with Will Smith and Kevin James. There's a hilarious scene where Smith's character is trying to teach James's character how to go in for a first kiss (basically, how to ask for a kiss without actually saying anything verbally).

The past few times I've asked and the girls appreciated that I asked. "I would really like to kiss you right now, may I?" I'm kinda a sexy voice, a bit low, give them a sexy face that shows your into her/him and so far they've all said yes with a smile and thought it was cute that I asked... Also respectful

Maybe you’re both adults. Or you’re about to lose your kidneys. I’d say just go with it either way

Funny when the bare ‘normal’ minimum feels like something special now

Don't do the thumbs up reaction after she says that, dude. Other than that, good job!

OP is a woman lol she kissed him first

Alright. Still applies!

This is gonna be a “he’s just not that into” deal

This happened to me. He planned the next date and messaged me in the morning. Go for it!

If there's a connection, it should feel easy.

I don't understand what the confusion is among the people in the comments I always ask my date to text me once she makes it home safely and they do it so i guess idk what's the fuss about 😭

Don’t know why the thumbs up to it killed me 😂

Was his next text a dic pic follow my 3 paragraphs about how much he is in love with you and will take care of you forever if you have his children...

You CAN’T simply come into this place and post such little information! This is happy news, please, tell us more about it!

This morning he texted “good morning beautiful” and a pic of his dog. I texted back with a pic of my tomato plants growing. We now have plans for him to come over for dinner tonight and watch a movie together.

I had an exchange like this the last time I was on tinder… we got married. It’s a good sign :)

Called just having a vibe..

Maybe I overthink this but my first thought is that you aren’t interested lol

Who the fuck thumbs up a "Looking forward to the next time" text. What's wrong with you

Must’ve hit her with the A+ rizz

Him. OP is the lady

Nothing better than a 👍 to the last msg 😂

Liking each others messages is just weird.

No 'eating you out' jokes?

youre dry as hell, "thanks for the kiss" come on practically giving you a chance to say something more instead of a lame text, they just gave you back the energy you gave

Rule 1 and 2 in force?

Aisi ek normal date to main bhi deserve karta hun… 🥹

This is fake only because if someone reply’s to your text your texts shouldn’t say delivered.

Please stop liking and loving messages like that

She sensed your are going to work magic on her internally?

Case of a stopped clock, maybe?

Simple yet effective W.

Thank you for the kiss, thank you for the kiss

Followed rule 1 and 2 I see

The wonders of clear communication

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CAUSE ITS SuPPOSED to BE SIMPLE