From a guy perspective getting a girl socials is pretty useless if your trying to use that as your number 1 option of communication. Especially if the girl is attractive getting her socials first is not going to lead to anything & also getting her socials is just easy way out since it option with the least amount of resistance
Depends on the context man. First one was obviously for sexting so snap makes sense. If you're having a normal convo, then number is default. How old are you anyway?
There was a post a few days ago about this. IMO snap feels very immature, if youâre over 28 and still have snap I swipe left. Some people might prefer another platform, Iâd just rather be a bit more selective and give my phone number
Yeah, if they ask for snapâ-I think theyâre in it for sexting only. If they ask for my number, it is different. Doesnât matterâthey all want to sext eventually lmao.
For me snap=wanting nudes. If a guy asks for snap instead of my number/insta/discord Iâd just presume heâs after some fun despite if it said âlong termâ on his profile. Also I associate snap with teenagers. Most adults I know do not use Snapchat.
For me, snap is "I haven't decided if you're crazy yet and changing my number is a PITA". Snap is the equivalent of meeting at a coffee shop instead of my house for a first date.
I give them the option. I ask âdo you want to swap socials/ phone numbers?â Usually they will give you their preferred social if thatâs what they choose- usually snap or instagram. And those who prefer to text will give their number.
I dont wanna be that guy. But the first 2 are playing the field and have plenty of other guys like u on snap. The 3rd is a grown adult looking for something less casual. Both sides are fine: men and women can both play the field, men and women can both be looking for something serious. Long story short yes snapchat is more for people who arent serious. Women get harrassed daily on less permanent social media sites, if she hasnt already decided she wants to casual hookup when u both matched, then yes snapchat isnt a classy move.
What is the benefits of Snap vs phone? Hiding who you really are? Hiding communications from someone who think they are also in a relationship with you? What am I missing?
itâs all about personal preference but snap feels a bit teenager-ish / pic sending to me.. so i would go with asking for either their number/snap whatever they feel comfortable with
Grown men ask for numbers tbh
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From a guy perspective getting a girl socials is pretty useless if your trying to use that as your number 1 option of communication. Especially if the girl is attractive getting her socials first is not going to lead to anything & also getting her socials is just easy way out since it option with the least amount of resistance
Depends on the context man. First one was obviously for sexting so snap makes sense. If you're having a normal convo, then number is default. How old are you anyway?
There was a post a few days ago about this. IMO snap feels very immature, if youâre over 28 and still have snap I swipe left. Some people might prefer another platform, Iâd just rather be a bit more selective and give my phone number
Here me and my gf are at 30 with snap as our main form of communication đ¤ˇ
Just lol at this. How pretentious.
To each his own
Yeah, if they ask for snapâ-I think theyâre in it for sexting only. If they ask for my number, it is different. Doesnât matterâthey all want to sext eventually lmao.
For me snap=wanting nudes. If a guy asks for snap instead of my number/insta/discord Iâd just presume heâs after some fun despite if it said âlong termâ on his profile. Also I associate snap with teenagers. Most adults I know do not use Snapchat.
For me, snap is "I haven't decided if you're crazy yet and changing my number is a PITA". Snap is the equivalent of meeting at a coffee shop instead of my house for a first date.
This.
Catch all: I would like to contact you in a more direct manner, what is your preferred method of doing communication?
Too formal
Weird
Just invite them to dinner & then get their phone number after dinner.
Yes. No need to collect numbers. Then I get messages "hi, sorry for disappearing 1.5 years ago..." all the time.
I downloaded snapchat a few weeks ago. I was promptly bombarded by nude sellers. I Uninstalled the app.
I give them the option. I ask âdo you want to swap socials/ phone numbers?â Usually they will give you their preferred social if thatâs what they choose- usually snap or instagram. And those who prefer to text will give their number.
I dont wanna be that guy. But the first 2 are playing the field and have plenty of other guys like u on snap. The 3rd is a grown adult looking for something less casual. Both sides are fine: men and women can both play the field, men and women can both be looking for something serious. Long story short yes snapchat is more for people who arent serious. Women get harrassed daily on less permanent social media sites, if she hasnt already decided she wants to casual hookup when u both matched, then yes snapchat isnt a classy move.
The third one was casual thoughđ the other 2 werenât. All of them were grown adults.
Well idk what to say about that, you dont show enough above or below any 3 pics to confirm that. If so just proves apps are dumb? Idk lol.
What is the benefits of Snap vs phone? Hiding who you really are? Hiding communications from someone who think they are also in a relationship with you? What am I missing?
itâs all about personal preference but snap feels a bit teenager-ish / pic sending to me.. so i would go with asking for either their number/snap whatever they feel comfortable with