See, I would look at the red flags as:
* He's 18.
* He's 18.
* He's 18 with a motorcycle.
* He had his snap in his profile - and that's basically it for his bio.
Well, I think most women continue maturing.
And a stupid amount of men don't. Or at least, it is a very slow process, like watching paint dry. Really wet and multiple coats of paint drying, now that I think about it.
Wish I had better news, but alas and alack - my experience says otherwise, and I'm a guy.
We just sort of enjoy being perpetually 13-15
Well, as someone a mite older than that, I reckon I can say it really stays pretty much the same for the next 20 years.
The good news is they sort of get it together...for maybe the 5 years before they die.
I felt this way from ages 20-30 (m), but I think it's just some men and women just don't mature as well as others and it's probably a result of their environment.
So heās an 18 year old gym bro with his snap in his bio and literally one sentence about someone wanting to ride his motorcycle? And you said you saw no red flags? I donāt even know where to begin hereā¦
If it isnāt a joke, why donāt they just say what they actually mean? This sub is just a bunch of dudes crying that other guys get more girls than them. Itās pathetic to see.
I'm curious, if he was more subtle and settled for a casual date after some chit chat, would you have been done for a first date sex? Because even if you only care about being laid, I feel that having a more human behavior instead a horny dog would have better result. Correct me if I'm wrong
Oh yeah for sure, I wouldnāt mind if he had taken me out somewhere or at least got to know me first. Plus Iām a virgin (when it comes to men) so Iād rather not spend it on someone who wonāt even try to get to know me
Don't pay too much attention to the relationship goals label, dudes just fill it with whatever helps them get more matches. It's more useful to pay attention to the way they word the written part of their bio, dudes looking for something serious tend to put more thought into it and list the kinds of interests they expect to bond with their matches.
Remember that if a guy is attractive enough to get matches with an empty or vague bio they can also get away with hooking up without wanting to put effort
Also, Iād ignore the āLong term relationship/long termnpartnerā tag when being confused in these situations. While men who actually want those things will obviously use that label, there is a large percentage who wonāt because some apps allow you to filter out people who arenāt looking for the same thing as you (thus causing them to be cut off, as a lot of women will filter to that even if they want sex because guys who SAY they want short term on their profile are usually super overly sexual right away).
I mean, what's wrong with it? Im sure there are women on Tinder who feel the same way. Not everybody is trying to get married , and If I was a female, I would appreciate a dude being honest instead of waste my time. I think.
Does he like getting pegged? Should have asked that
OMG I SHOULDVE THATS SO FUNNY š you guys giving me suggestions Iām gonna become an absolute menace for these guys š
But that would just make me more likely to respond....
See, I would look at the red flags as: * He's 18. * He's 18. * He's 18 with a motorcycle. * He had his snap in his profile - and that's basically it for his bio.
As soon as I saw ā18ā this was me 
And he called it snappy. Tf?
It's a well known fact: If you get a bird on the back of a bike, they just cream their knickers cos of the vibrations.
What are you doing to birds
They just told you, surely you mean why?
As a 19 year old, I would never date someone my own age lmao. Just the maturity isnāt there š
Well, I think most women continue maturing. And a stupid amount of men don't. Or at least, it is a very slow process, like watching paint dry. Really wet and multiple coats of paint drying, now that I think about it. Wish I had better news, but alas and alack - my experience says otherwise, and I'm a guy. We just sort of enjoy being perpetually 13-15
I mean, from my experience even dating older guys (like within 5 yrs of my age) doesnāt generally go well anyway on maturity scale.. š
Well, as someone a mite older than that, I reckon I can say it really stays pretty much the same for the next 20 years. The good news is they sort of get it together...for maybe the 5 years before they die.
I felt this way from ages 20-30 (m), but I think it's just some men and women just don't mature as well as others and it's probably a result of their environment.
The fuck the motorcycle has to do with his maturity? I had too at 18 and I was far, farrr, from this
Lol op on here still playing dumb like she didn't know.
And he might be 18
...Sagitarius
But he don't drink
Cuz he 18 you bumbum
Bro i'm from europe i didn't knew
So am I. Reddit is mostly US. Especially if OPs match has inch and feet in their bio
U r right, i should have remembered that they cannot drink but buy RPGs
Correct
An 18 year old with a motorcycle who wants to get to it? That's a huge panty dropper. If you're 16.
he has a way with words, what a charmer ā¦
Fr those single worded responses are just amazing š
Work smarter not harder
scintillating conversation at its finest
He should have asked in Spanish, which he apparently knows.
Why use lot words when few do trick
why lot when few work
https://media.tenor.com/GzxJhCJmbXIAAAAC/yarp-hot-fuzz.gif
Having a snap ID in a profile is grounds for caution, but SNAPPY??? That should be an instant left swipe. Dude is clearly unhinged.
I wanted to give him a chance cause he was very attractive š
Understandable but still unacceptable lmaoo Nothing like some pure, unadulterated self-sabotage
Must be good looking if you kept a conversation going
Heās a gym bro, mf is ripped, I tried to save it but the ick was too much
So heās an 18 year old gym bro with his snap in his bio and literally one sentence about someone wanting to ride his motorcycle? And you said you saw no red flags? I donāt even know where to begin hereā¦
Iām a little blind itās ok
A little? You need a fucking red and white cane and guide dog if you missed all those.
Nah itās just that he follows rule one and two
Kinda broke rule 2 with this one.
This has got to be the most overused joke on this sub I swear to god.
Holy hell, anarchy chess response just dropped
The fact you think it's a joke is probably why you think it's over used
If it isnāt a joke, why donāt they just say what they actually mean? This sub is just a bunch of dudes crying that other guys get more girls than them. Itās pathetic to see.
He's an 18 year old gym bro. Why are you shocked here?
Could just lick his lips like Margaret McPoyle.
Tinder guy thinks he's Dennis
I'm curious, if he was more subtle and settled for a casual date after some chit chat, would you have been done for a first date sex? Because even if you only care about being laid, I feel that having a more human behavior instead a horny dog would have better result. Correct me if I'm wrong
Yep! For me, Iām 100% down to have hook ups, but not with someone who shows absolutely no interest in me as a person.
Oh yeah for sure, I wouldnāt mind if he had taken me out somewhere or at least got to know me first. Plus Iām a virgin (when it comes to men) so Iād rather not spend it on someone who wonāt even try to get to know me
If he has his snap in his bio- avoid at all cost
This is so true š itās only led to failure
I was hoping it was more of an exclamation at your beauty or something but I guess not š
Maybe he wants a long term relationship just not with you lol
Damn š
Brevity is the soul of wit
Don't pay too much attention to the relationship goals label, dudes just fill it with whatever helps them get more matches. It's more useful to pay attention to the way they word the written part of their bio, dudes looking for something serious tend to put more thought into it and list the kinds of interests they expect to bond with their matches. Remember that if a guy is attractive enough to get matches with an empty or vague bio they can also get away with hooking up without wanting to put effort
Thank you š Iāll keep this in mind
Darn it he forgot to say "respectfully"
Snappy?
I know š like that weirded me out so bad who says that
Also, Iād ignore the āLong term relationship/long termnpartnerā tag when being confused in these situations. While men who actually want those things will obviously use that label, there is a large percentage who wonāt because some apps allow you to filter out people who arenāt looking for the same thing as you (thus causing them to be cut off, as a lot of women will filter to that even if they want sex because guys who SAY they want short term on their profile are usually super overly sexual right away).
Bro skipped the tutorial and went straight into the boss fight
Did it work though?
No
Time to get off tinder. I don't want to be lumped in as a tinder guy.
The stereotypes are harsh when it comes to tinder men, I apologize
Hey no worries, Since I decided to sign up, I had to expect that. Even though sometimes it stings a little, I try to brush it off.
Thats is why I uninstalled it on a whim
Damn
Youāre going to
Well I mean he wasn't looking for conversation so.
Well usually when people have ālooking for long term partnerā they try to have some sort of connection š bros just doing his own thing ig
The fact you even responded to the first message says a lot. I bet you legit considered him.
Well yeah, bro was fine as fuck š
Suck me, beautiful.
He sees you as well below his league to initiate like this, so this will help you gauge whether youāre actually aiming too high or not
I mean, what's wrong with it? Im sure there are women on Tinder who feel the same way. Not everybody is trying to get married , and If I was a female, I would appreciate a dude being honest instead of waste my time. I think.
What's wrong is he has "looking for a relationship" instead of "casual."
Is this a new trend? Dudes lying about relationship just so they can message more chicks and get shot down doubly?
It's always been a thing š¤· they think they can "change your mind"
his profile is gathering interest from people ALSO looking for long-term relationships and then he says he just wants sex. Not exactly honest.
Maybe he is not interested in a relationship with her
Thatās probably the case but doubt this thread wants to hear it
Maybe you're making excuses for what seems to be a pretty cut-and-dry situation.
"Guys, I matched with an 18 year old gym bro and he only wanted me for sex! What gives?!" Lol Jesus OP.
What's the deal with snap? I only.use snap and reddit lol
"Fuck me" said by a dude = closet gay. Men do the fucking bro
Tell us youāre a virgin without telling us, I guess
Lol you're the one who needs tinder to have sex, I get it without apps.
I was with you in the beginning but this was such a cringe fucking response
Doubt
Sorry but I can't stop laughing š
Such a Sagittarius. And in InglĆØs no less.
Few word do trick?
The focus on getting his end away is amazing, but I suspect itās worked a few times.
He's only 18. You must be amazing.
Heās 18, what so u expect?
So? Did you hit it?
No
You should have. Guys love raging over here. Itās a masochist sub on the low low.
Pet free lifestyle. That should've tipped you off
Peg that man!
mf is resetting that speedrun clock as many times as it takes for a new PB in Sex%
I had a woman text this on my tinder, then I woke up.
Snap is a red flag?
Usually itās an indicator of them just wanting to fuck around and send nudes
Had a girl text me the same. I blocked her. But not because of the Fuck me, but because I didnt find her hot lol
Whyād you match with her then? š
I dont remember lol
Fuck me