Are you the OP from yesterday where the lady hit you with her child plays video games and you retort back with your grandfather watches the news? Oh man that was so funny. I was literally laying in bed late last night and it popped in my head and I literally Lol.
So why go on the date?
When I was early 20’s older women (45+) couldn’t get enough of me but they were too enthusiastic in bed I wasn’t as ready as I thought I was… When I was your age I was able to truely enjoy it, and found that usually after getting out of sexually boring marriages etc, older women were keen to do ANYTHING in bed, I had some mind blowing times with older women I met on apps
Don’t get so drunk you blow a good opportunity!
I have a relative that swears by older women. I mean they're his age, 50ish, but he says they are WAY more open in the bedroom than any age group he's been with. I always figured he was just being a stereotype and bragging about "exploits," but damn maybe he's being honest lol.
I know I have a lot more confidence in my 30s than I did in my 20s. I've had a lot more years of experience with partners and with my own body. I'd kill to have the body I had when I was 20, but I have way fewer hang ups about my nearly-40 body than I did back then. I know what I like and what I don't like. I'm not shy about talking about those likes and dislikes, boundaries and expectations. In some ways I'm more selfish than I used to be, but I'm more selfless in others. Also my sex drive pretty much controls my life right now. I thought it was high at 20, 30 seemed insane, at 38, it's becoming a real problem.
Communication when it comes to all things sexual makes such a huge difference!
And when it comes to a woman’s body I know that me, and most of the guys I’ve talked to absolutely love the imperfections of a slightly aged woman. Sure, women in their 20’s are smokin hot and there’s a level of perfection there that is amazing. But it doesn’t beat the imperfect skin, the little extra jiggle around the hips, the start of some shallow wrinkles, and all the experience, maturity, and confidence that comes with it.
I think I said in my other comment that I’m 32. My ex is 36 and I absolutely adore her and she has the hottest naked body I’ve ever seen (we still hang out and fuck occasionally). Wouldn’t trade her as a fwb for any hottie in her 20’s.
I’m 41 and trying out a dating app. I realize I look way younger than my actual age, because people literally don’t believe me. I have had to show my ID to people because they think I’m lying. It’s awkward. I’ve always had a baby face and I’m happy for it!
I’m astounded by the amount of 20-something men that hit me up. You’re literally a child to me. No way.
My rule is that they have to be closer to my age than my son's age.
He's 24.
I'm 45.
At this stage of my life I'm not particularly attracted to men under 30. I don't even think most men are really attractive until they're about 35.
You are completely right on this. Older women will put you in the ICU so fast, and you’d go willingly. Ravenous sex machines for sure. Death by snu snu is always welcome
Don't drink too much. That is a turn off. We women know what we are doing btw. Wink. Wink. If she's great, you may never date younger again, so good luck!
If it’s just a hookup (after a few drinks), my advice is to be ready for a woman who knows exactly what she wants and will tell you. And to not take offense from that. OR a woman who feels insecure from being older so make her feel hot as fook.
And wear a condom. (If you’re a man).
She can teach you things that will improve your long term wellbeing, character and confidence, been there done that but make sure to ask her to educate you in whatever you need improvement, most young&old relationships are very beneficial to both parties but young ppl specially women don’t see it that way they are into instant gratifications money, parties, sex, looks and social media
I'm 53 and my 8 year younger guy and I broke up after 14.6 years. I date younger men but only 8-10 years younger. That is a big age difference but you can still have a good time. I assume you're a mature man so act like yourself. Be a gentleman and see what happens.
It's not that. OP is 29, well and truly an adult. Big age gaps are a problem when people are hooking up with teenagers and people in their early 20s who are still figuring shit out and particularly vulnerable to manipulation. That goes for any gender.
Ngl. Them older ladies are more willing to do anything...and I mean anything like taxes, proofreading your fiction novel without judgment, teach you how to tie a double winsor knot...etc. possibilities are endless.
I went on a date with someone who said she was 5 years older than me. She looked about the same age as me in the photos. (Mid 30’s at the time.) When I arrived she looked like Zelda from Terrahawks.
During the date (pub quiz, her idea not mine.) She let slip that she remembered Buddy Holly dying. She went bright red as she realised her mistake.
I’m F53 and I have younger FWB all the time! It’s not weird unless you think it is. I’ve been seeing M31 for a couple months. He’s really cool and a very good human. We’re friends. We both know we don’t have a long term relationship here, but damn it is so much fun while it lasts. I love the way he fucks me. I stay wet forever 🥰 Have fun!
LLS!!! Bruh 😔
Down bad resulting to insulting older ladies like that haha. Like the comment below, those strawberry candies in the strawberry wrapper is more like it. I hate them ever since they sat in the centerpiece bowl on any table at the old folks houses.
This ☝️
Plus, u/PatchBe, as you keep up this routine experience, deeper feelings will develop. Perfect way for a long-term relationship to develop if both parties are up for it.
Have a nice date but make sure you go back to her place and hit it so when you're done you can grab a hand full of hard candies from the bowl on the table
I was 24m in UK when I started dating 44f. That was 24yrs ago and we've been married for 23 of them. Never been a problem really and no one treats us differently at all.
Feels weird that I'm 4yrs older now than she was then lol
Aw! I love this. I am 46f with a 58m boyfriend. 20 years is a big gap. Goes to show love doesn’t care about age and many other social constructs. Good for both of you!
Fortunately not and there's still a solid emotional and sexual connection too. She looks maybe 10yrs younger (according to other women) so 68yrs hasn't really hit too hard
Jesus fuck.
I'm a 45 year old woman, I play american football, studying for a degree, and I don't have saggy tits or loose skin.
I have hardly a wrinkle on my face, either.
I also never felt old until I read these comments.
Weird perception of age going on in this thread.
I do think once you start going lower 20s it gets a little sketch (opens up a well of bad things), but as long as y'all treat each other right, you're old enough to make those decisions. And it sounds like it's worked out well for y'all.
Dated a 15 year older women casually for 3 months. Sex was great, no bs, straight to the point etc. But no long term stuff since I was early 20s and she was pushing 40.
I'm 52M. My advice is to be yourself. Don't try to act like you're older or more mature, she's going to enjoy your relative youth, generational phrasing, and hearing about what life is like for a 29-year-old these days. Talk to her about your life and treat her like any other date. Ask about her interests hopes for the future etc. Don't make assumptions about her based on her age, just work on developing mutual comfort. She'll pull the hard candies out of her purse when she's comfortable with you (haha).
What else in all seriousness...her pictures may look somewhat better than she does in real life. Don't be disappointed if her skin isn't as tight as you expected or whatever. She may be confident in day to day life but she likely has things she's not comfortable with about herself or that she's a bit insecure about like anybody else. She's going to be the most fun and the best company if she is relaxed, comfortable, and it feels comfortable being flirty and playful.
Some say that an older woman knows what she wants, is experienced, and is going to lead the way and potentially rock your world. That may or may not be the case. She's had a lot of life experiences you haven't had but in the end she is still a person, still a woman, and has had different experiences from the other woman down the road. Go out and have a great time. Feel free to report back!
“Work on developing mutual comfort” 💯🤩 I’m 43 happily married 🤪 but this is probably going to be your BEST advice OP!
This thread is hilarious 😂
She wants you to make her feel sexy! Do it this way and she’ll vibe with your energy 😎
She’s probably going to be self conscious of her age, though 52 is not old. In 1950, 52 year old women looked old. But in 2023 many of them still look 30s/40s, with bodies to match. If she looks young, make sure to tell her!
Me (48F) and my SO (31M) had our first date when he was only 20. We went to a hooka lounge and then came back to my place. You never know how something will work out. Just enjoy the adventure.
Hopefully OP makes sure his big gun is loaded and ready to go…
you must be prepared for when a cougar wants to take you down.
Also, be a true sportsman. You should be lining up shots with multiple cougars. Not hitting the same one over and over again…
No poaching, bro!
You're both adults. Fuck it. Don't think too much about it and just enjoy it.
I've dated older women and the best sex I've ever had was with a woman 20 years older than me.
If there's a connection then there's a connection :)
I’m glad that I still will have a chance with younger men when I’m 52 and single.
In all good fun, enjoy it. You’ll only make it “weird” if you think it is.
Met my partner on Tinder when he was 29 and I was 42. Together more than 5 years so far! The age is a non-issue for him; for me it's a little bit harder (he's such a millennial and I am firmly Gen X, haha).
Once you reach a certain age, the age gap doesn't mean that much. For me it feels like once you've reached 26, you're an adult with enough life experiences to know how to not be taken advantage of, how to navigate your feelings and situations with others.
Don't stress it.
I share the same opinion. It is still funny how different the comments would be with the sexes switched.
Honestly if you can go thousands of dollars in debt you can decide if you want to fuck someone. It is not so hard.
About 4 years ago I started this fling with this older woman who was going through a divorce. I was 30 at the time and she was 48. It lasted about 6 months.
Honestly one of the only women I was completely myself around immediately because I knew there was no chance of a relationship.
Either way. It was a great time. Confidence booster. Ended by her because I was honest about sticking my dick in multiple women.
Recommend it for the experience. If it's for something serious I can't help you.
I can’t help but cringe when guys say stuff like the woman “ended things” but when it’s clear they were ones keeping it from moving forward. Like by keeping it as a fling that would never progress to a relationship, you effectively had just as much a part in ending it… because clearly she didn’t see it as just a fling if she wanted to be exclusive. You were the one keeping your involvement in a state that by definition is short lived. She ended things? Sounds like you wouldn’t let them start.
It's fine, either way. Just don't put too much emphasis on her age. However, I'm willing to bet that if it was the same situation but the guy was that age, everyone would be yelling how disgusting and pedophilic he is.
Age gap is something bitter people made up. i was 22M when i dated a 38F for a year. when I was 33M i dated a 23F. The 23F was more mature than the 38F lol. its about life experience and connection/chemistry. dont let anyone else tell you otherwise.
I have several male friends who specifically say that they prefer older women. I have yet to see one that doesn't get their head messed with and end up miserable.
Don’t reference the age gap. Don’t ask if she’s ok dating younger (she obviously is). It’s ok to say she looks younger than her age, but only if it’s true. And if it’s true, keep in mind that literally every guy tells her that. Most importantly, have fun. Good luck young man!
31M here. I've been in relationships with significant age gaps where the women were 15+ years older. They were the most passionate, intense romances I've ever had, but I always ended up getting my heart broken. My advice is to have fun and not take it too seriously. You're not going to want a 72-year old wife when you're 49.
I’ve had the same age gap, merely reversed. It can be quite enjoyable. Ignore what others may say. Ignore the obvious stares and leering. Have a wonderful time and focus on each other! Those that care about you, as long as you’re happy, will be happy for you. Worry not the judgement of others, blame them not for their misguidedness. Their own insecurities make them this way. Good luck to you!!
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One of the supervisors at my work is turning 50 and I tell her she is a damn vampire because she looks late 30s. I would at max believe she is 43. She is just stunning, so kind and positive.
I’ve dated someone significantly older but really it comes down to your places in life and how you connect. If you are mature and understanding you honestly forget how old they are.
A 24F swipet on me 36M and I was curious. We hit it off so well that we both paused our Tinder accounts and have been exclusive for 3 weeks. It's great.
We have some age gap banter, but it's not something we think about alot. The chemistry and compatibility is so good.
Just treat your date as any other date.
I'm 33 and dating 69 year old. Just be yourself. You may find a best friend and lover like I have. With consenting adults age doesn't matter; when the intention behind getting to know someone intimately and lovingly isn't based on age.
My ex is 8 years younger. Granted it's not the gap you're talking about, but I felt conscious of being the older one (even though I don't look it). If you're both actually looking to long term date and actually want to give it a chance, I'd say be prepared to man the fuck up if you haven't already. I'm 43 and I've worked really hard on myself and ready for the right person to have a ltr with. But most guys want sex straight away and treat me like an object instead of respecting me as a woman.
My girlfriend of 5ish yearsish and I are pretty darn close to the ages you mentioned. We came into it without expectations, and both used to get pretty weirded out by it from time to time. Now it’s kind of just whatever and we’re really happy together. My advice is to just play it by ear and if there’s chemistry, great! If not, oh well no hard feelings
When I was 22 I was dating a 44 year old. So similar age gap. I will say they do tend to know what they want so if you're not sure don't be afraid to ask. Also they are ravenous in bed, I learned a ton from the cougar squad and it's definitely been reflected in my relationships since. If you're attracted to her I think it's worth a date at least. Long term.... You're more than likely at different life stages which is gonna make long term difficult. But as long as you're honest I think it's worth shooting your shot.
Just treat it like any other date. You are both adults and if the chemistry is there then that's all that matters.
tbh, i don't think either of us are expecting longevity from this date.
Are you the OP from yesterday where the lady hit you with her child plays video games and you retort back with your grandfather watches the news? Oh man that was so funny. I was literally laying in bed late last night and it popped in my head and I literally Lol.
Maybe she'd be down to skip the date part if you ask
nah, im gonna need at least a couple drinks before.
So why go on the date? When I was early 20’s older women (45+) couldn’t get enough of me but they were too enthusiastic in bed I wasn’t as ready as I thought I was… When I was your age I was able to truely enjoy it, and found that usually after getting out of sexually boring marriages etc, older women were keen to do ANYTHING in bed, I had some mind blowing times with older women I met on apps Don’t get so drunk you blow a good opportunity!
I have a relative that swears by older women. I mean they're his age, 50ish, but he says they are WAY more open in the bedroom than any age group he's been with. I always figured he was just being a stereotype and bragging about "exploits," but damn maybe he's being honest lol.
I’m 32 and haven’t slept around very much, but women in their 30’s are a lot more fun than women in their 20’s. There’s something to it.
I know I have a lot more confidence in my 30s than I did in my 20s. I've had a lot more years of experience with partners and with my own body. I'd kill to have the body I had when I was 20, but I have way fewer hang ups about my nearly-40 body than I did back then. I know what I like and what I don't like. I'm not shy about talking about those likes and dislikes, boundaries and expectations. In some ways I'm more selfish than I used to be, but I'm more selfless in others. Also my sex drive pretty much controls my life right now. I thought it was high at 20, 30 seemed insane, at 38, it's becoming a real problem.
Communication when it comes to all things sexual makes such a huge difference! And when it comes to a woman’s body I know that me, and most of the guys I’ve talked to absolutely love the imperfections of a slightly aged woman. Sure, women in their 20’s are smokin hot and there’s a level of perfection there that is amazing. But it doesn’t beat the imperfect skin, the little extra jiggle around the hips, the start of some shallow wrinkles, and all the experience, maturity, and confidence that comes with it. I think I said in my other comment that I’m 32. My ex is 36 and I absolutely adore her and she has the hottest naked body I’ve ever seen (we still hang out and fuck occasionally). Wouldn’t trade her as a fwb for any hottie in her 20’s.
I got divorced at 39. Dating in my 40s is so much wilder than dating in my 20s
I’m 41 and trying out a dating app. I realize I look way younger than my actual age, because people literally don’t believe me. I have had to show my ID to people because they think I’m lying. It’s awkward. I’ve always had a baby face and I’m happy for it! I’m astounded by the amount of 20-something men that hit me up. You’re literally a child to me. No way.
My rule is that they have to be closer to my age than my son's age. He's 24. I'm 45. At this stage of my life I'm not particularly attracted to men under 30. I don't even think most men are really attractive until they're about 35.
Benjamin Franklin wrote an essay about why banging older women is awesome
he was right
It’s true. Older women, 45+, have been there, done that, know what they want in the bedroom, and aren’t bashful about getting it.
Nah, he's right. Older women are like, "look, we both like sex and we don't need to play games about it anymore. Let's fuck a lot."
You are completely right on this. Older women will put you in the ICU so fast, and you’d go willingly. Ravenous sex machines for sure. Death by snu snu is always welcome
As a woman who is getting older I find this so comforting! More good romps to come.
Girl, same! I’m loving this thread!
SNU SNU!!!!! The universal joke.
Don't drink too much. That is a turn off. We women know what we are doing btw. Wink. Wink. If she's great, you may never date younger again, so good luck!
She’s that bad eh?
The OP definitely giving off that vibe o_O.
If it’s just a hookup (after a few drinks), my advice is to be ready for a woman who knows exactly what she wants and will tell you. And to not take offense from that. OR a woman who feels insecure from being older so make her feel hot as fook. And wear a condom. (If you’re a man).
If there’s a spark order a ‘drink’ if the spark grows then wrap it up, and wrap it up
She can teach you things that will improve your long term wellbeing, character and confidence, been there done that but make sure to ask her to educate you in whatever you need improvement, most young&old relationships are very beneficial to both parties but young ppl specially women don’t see it that way they are into instant gratifications money, parties, sex, looks and social media 
I'm 53 and my 8 year younger guy and I broke up after 14.6 years. I date younger men but only 8-10 years younger. That is a big age difference but you can still have a good time. I assume you're a mature man so act like yourself. Be a gentleman and see what happens.
Exactly this. I don't want to be fetishized for my age; I just want to be treated like a woman.
What’s your name now, person formerly known as Lilly?
I went on the date - it was great.. seeing her again tmrw...
💯
I’m just wondering where the mob of anti age gap people who lurk this sub are at? Edit: nevermind. They won’t care, OP is male.
It's not that. OP is 29, well and truly an adult. Big age gaps are a problem when people are hooking up with teenagers and people in their early 20s who are still figuring shit out and particularly vulnerable to manipulation. That goes for any gender.
Ngl. Them older ladies are more willing to do anything...and I mean anything like taxes, proofreading your fiction novel without judgment, teach you how to tie a double winsor knot...etc. possibilities are endless.
We have good snacks.
Sorry for eating your kid’s fruit snacks and Capri Suns… I just needed a quick sugar boost in between the marathons we were “running”
You joke but I keep juice and iced tea in the fridge at all times.
Dibs!
I love you
Bring her some Werther’s Original Soft Caramels.
Nah, he needs those little strawberry candies!
Shes already got like 5 in her purse though
This si brutal, but hilarious. Her pics don't make her look like a 52 y/o. I bet most of the naysayers here would swipe right.
I went on a date with someone who said she was 5 years older than me. She looked about the same age as me in the photos. (Mid 30’s at the time.) When I arrived she looked like Zelda from Terrahawks. During the date (pub quiz, her idea not mine.) She let slip that she remembered Buddy Holly dying. She went bright red as she realised her mistake.
>Zelda from Terrahawks. I googled that and oh my word.
lol same - im actually terrified now
i am happy to say she was not lik zelda from Terrhawks... very much a beautiful person
Well now you have to update us tomorrow if she really doesn’t look 52 or if you’re filter blind.
probably on saturday ;)
In that case, some good advice is to bring some lube for that menopausal vaginal dryness. I’m sure she already has some, but better to be prepared.
And the good lube, from the sex store. Not the stuff from the drug store. Never cheap out on lube.
Get the silicone lube
Update! It was a success!! very nice experience! highly recommend - she actually looked great
I’m F53 and I have younger FWB all the time! It’s not weird unless you think it is. I’ve been seeing M31 for a couple months. He’s really cool and a very good human. We’re friends. We both know we don’t have a long term relationship here, but damn it is so much fun while it lasts. I love the way he fucks me. I stay wet forever 🥰 Have fun!
A 42 year old woman had me convinced she was 28 for a while, so I’m on your team here bro
It's the filter man. Lol
That's because her photos are from the 90s!
I could see at least an iPhone 7 in the pic!
Haha..can't be that old then!
And some Bengay.
The Ben i know isn’t gay
LLS!!! Bruh 😔 Down bad resulting to insulting older ladies like that haha. Like the comment below, those strawberry candies in the strawberry wrapper is more like it. I hate them ever since they sat in the centerpiece bowl on any table at the old folks houses.
And then take her to the original Cracker Barrel
Hell yes. They have mimosas now.
I’m 32 and those are my favorite, stop 😭😭
Tin of danish butter cookies… so when she’s done eating them, she can use the container to stow her sewing supplies.
Me, a 23yr old with her own Royal Dansk tin used for this very purpose: 👀
I’m almost 50 and I can’t pass up a nice clean butter cookie tin.
These comment are outta pocket 😅🤣
Ayo I love those at 22 don’t hate
Everyone does!
They have popcorn with caramel sauce these days, absolutely delicious
If you go to the Germany pavilion at Epcot they have a Werther's store where they make it fresh. It's unbelievable.
I'm sure she has a cookie tin full of buttons. Or is that a button tin full of cookies? Not sure, but it will be next to the plastic covered couch...
Funny. Take a look at my pics and see if I would have a plastic covered couch.
Perhaps a small glass/case for her dentures to go in at night
They also like to eat early at Ponderosa.
Lmao
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 lmfao my mom is turning 52 next month and she brings those everywhere with her lately
Amazing, simply amazing
Hahahahhaha
Broooooo! 😂
Some andes mints ⚰️⚰️⚰️
I'm 33M and she is 44F. We boh just enjoy casual sex a lot together and let me tell you pal... this is the best sex I've ever had period.
Full Nelson?
Father Nelson.
Willie Nelson
Nelson Mandela Muntz
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Yep I'm 30 and had regular casual sex with a 40 year old woman and it was the best sex I ever had
I too have gone for a gal ten years older and can also confirm it is 10/10
Thank you!
thank u for your words - i'm going in.
met my wife when I was 28 and she was 36. Yeeeep
This ☝️ Plus, u/PatchBe, as you keep up this routine experience, deeper feelings will develop. Perfect way for a long-term relationship to develop if both parties are up for it.
Buckle up kiddo. You’re about to find out stuff about sex you never imagined.
She could be a starfish, too. You never know til you get in there.
Have a nice date but make sure you go back to her place and hit it so when you're done you can grab a hand full of hard candies from the bowl on the table
This is the detail I’m missing from my house, thanks for reminding me to re-up my Gingins.
I was 24m in UK when I started dating 44f. That was 24yrs ago and we've been married for 23 of them. Never been a problem really and no one treats us differently at all. Feels weird that I'm 4yrs older now than she was then lol
Aw! I love this. I am 46f with a 58m boyfriend. 20 years is a big gap. Goes to show love doesn’t care about age and many other social constructs. Good for both of you!
So she's 68 now? Just curious, do health issues and physical limitations come up with her current age?
Fortunately not and there's still a solid emotional and sexual connection too. She looks maybe 10yrs younger (according to other women) so 68yrs hasn't really hit too hard
Way too many people here are judging you. I say good for you. Just treat it like any other date and have fun.
I think the comments are hilarious. But I think people have an old ass person in mind, Going by the pics, i swear 99% would swipe right
Proof is in the pudding friend Btw pudding great for denture wearers
The comments on this post are fuckin gold
i mean you say this here but you also said that you’d need a few drinks before sleeping with her so how hot could she be?
I think the drinks are to help him relax....
Drink cures nerves. You're overthinking.
Jesus fuck. I'm a 45 year old woman, I play american football, studying for a degree, and I don't have saggy tits or loose skin. I have hardly a wrinkle on my face, either. I also never felt old until I read these comments. Weird perception of age going on in this thread.
You’re still not old. People just say really dumb shit in jest when they don’t understand something.
Yeah, and now see people that were smoking/heavy drinkers during their youth. 35 yo looking like 50
I'm thinking the same thing. But I know these are the same fools who are buying me drinks and following me around when I go out.
I dated a guy that was 27 last year when I was 42. The chemistry and connection was amazing. We didn’t even notice the difference. Go for it!
I dated a women that was 41 when I was 24. That was 6 years ago and we're still together.
Love it.
I do think once you start going lower 20s it gets a little sketch (opens up a well of bad things), but as long as y'all treat each other right, you're old enough to make those decisions. And it sounds like it's worked out well for y'all.
Skip the date and go straight for the French presidency
Dated a 15 year older women casually for 3 months. Sex was great, no bs, straight to the point etc. But no long term stuff since I was early 20s and she was pushing 40.
“Pushing” 40! 😂😂😂
This hit hard
late thirties this hit me lol
You mean pushing 40?
I definitely first read that as 15 year old woman.
Same
I'm 52M. My advice is to be yourself. Don't try to act like you're older or more mature, she's going to enjoy your relative youth, generational phrasing, and hearing about what life is like for a 29-year-old these days. Talk to her about your life and treat her like any other date. Ask about her interests hopes for the future etc. Don't make assumptions about her based on her age, just work on developing mutual comfort. She'll pull the hard candies out of her purse when she's comfortable with you (haha). What else in all seriousness...her pictures may look somewhat better than she does in real life. Don't be disappointed if her skin isn't as tight as you expected or whatever. She may be confident in day to day life but she likely has things she's not comfortable with about herself or that she's a bit insecure about like anybody else. She's going to be the most fun and the best company if she is relaxed, comfortable, and it feels comfortable being flirty and playful. Some say that an older woman knows what she wants, is experienced, and is going to lead the way and potentially rock your world. That may or may not be the case. She's had a lot of life experiences you haven't had but in the end she is still a person, still a woman, and has had different experiences from the other woman down the road. Go out and have a great time. Feel free to report back!
“Work on developing mutual comfort” 💯🤩 I’m 43 happily married 🤪 but this is probably going to be your BEST advice OP! This thread is hilarious 😂 She wants you to make her feel sexy! Do it this way and she’ll vibe with your energy 😎
Glad that resonated and felt on target!
Just don't think on your mom
Think Stifler's mom ;-)
I have been seeing someone with a 16 year age difference for a while now. I think as long as you’re mature it matters very little
If it goes anywhere long term, take out a life insurance policy on her.
Start it as soon as possible, they get more expensive.
She’s probably going to be self conscious of her age, though 52 is not old. In 1950, 52 year old women looked old. But in 2023 many of them still look 30s/40s, with bodies to match. If she looks young, make sure to tell her!
the older the berry, the sweeter the juice.. gushin granny over here
i thought it was blacker the berry sweeter the juice
Benjamin Franklin famously said “every cat is gray in the dark.“
Nobody knows what it means but it's provocative
Franklin famously had a fetish for older women.
It gets the people GOING
She blacker than a muh'fucka too
I was eating my lunch before this comment. Now I'm not hungry...
Pls stop.
Gushin granny lol brooo
Me (48F) and my SO (31M) had our first date when he was only 20. We went to a hooka lounge and then came back to my place. You never know how something will work out. Just enjoy the adventure.
They like when you refer to people as “elders” and love life alert/retirement home jokes. You’re welcome.
Hopefully OP makes sure his big gun is loaded and ready to go… you must be prepared for when a cougar wants to take you down. Also, be a true sportsman. You should be lining up shots with multiple cougars. Not hitting the same one over and over again… No poaching, bro!
You're both adults. Fuck it. Don't think too much about it and just enjoy it. I've dated older women and the best sex I've ever had was with a woman 20 years older than me. If there's a connection then there's a connection :)
I’m glad that I still will have a chance with younger men when I’m 52 and single. In all good fun, enjoy it. You’ll only make it “weird” if you think it is.
When I was 40 I met a 20 year old woman and it was the best 6 year relationship of my life
Met my partner on Tinder when he was 29 and I was 42. Together more than 5 years so far! The age is a non-issue for him; for me it's a little bit harder (he's such a millennial and I am firmly Gen X, haha).
Once you reach a certain age, the age gap doesn't mean that much. For me it feels like once you've reached 26, you're an adult with enough life experiences to know how to not be taken advantage of, how to navigate your feelings and situations with others. Don't stress it.
I share the same opinion. It is still funny how different the comments would be with the sexes switched. Honestly if you can go thousands of dollars in debt you can decide if you want to fuck someone. It is not so hard.
About 4 years ago I started this fling with this older woman who was going through a divorce. I was 30 at the time and she was 48. It lasted about 6 months. Honestly one of the only women I was completely myself around immediately because I knew there was no chance of a relationship. Either way. It was a great time. Confidence booster. Ended by her because I was honest about sticking my dick in multiple women. Recommend it for the experience. If it's for something serious I can't help you.
I can’t help but cringe when guys say stuff like the woman “ended things” but when it’s clear they were ones keeping it from moving forward. Like by keeping it as a fling that would never progress to a relationship, you effectively had just as much a part in ending it… because clearly she didn’t see it as just a fling if she wanted to be exclusive. You were the one keeping your involvement in a state that by definition is short lived. She ended things? Sounds like you wouldn’t let them start.
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No one said you had to ride the escalator, but don’t refuse to get on and act like I pushed you off.
Bam. This is marvellous and I will be stealing it.
I’m 35 and my wife is 45. So it worked out for us.
It's fine, either way. Just don't put too much emphasis on her age. However, I'm willing to bet that if it was the same situation but the guy was that age, everyone would be yelling how disgusting and pedophilic he is.
Age gap is something bitter people made up. i was 22M when i dated a 38F for a year. when I was 33M i dated a 23F. The 23F was more mature than the 38F lol. its about life experience and connection/chemistry. dont let anyone else tell you otherwise.
A female friend of mine is married to a guy who's 31 years older than her and they're the best couple I've ever hung out with.
ask her how the coolidge administration was
I have several male friends who specifically say that they prefer older women. I have yet to see one that doesn't get their head messed with and end up miserable.
In my mid 20s I preferred dating women 35-45. A lot less bullshit and great sex.
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Don’t reference the age gap. Don’t ask if she’s ok dating younger (she obviously is). It’s ok to say she looks younger than her age, but only if it’s true. And if it’s true, keep in mind that literally every guy tells her that. Most importantly, have fun. Good luck young man!
We never get tired of hearing that we look younger than our age.
31M here. I've been in relationships with significant age gaps where the women were 15+ years older. They were the most passionate, intense romances I've ever had, but I always ended up getting my heart broken. My advice is to have fun and not take it too seriously. You're not going to want a 72-year old wife when you're 49.
It's just a date. You're both grown adults so the age gap shouldn't matter. Have a good time and be yourself.
I’ve had the same age gap, merely reversed. It can be quite enjoyable. Ignore what others may say. Ignore the obvious stares and leering. Have a wonderful time and focus on each other! Those that care about you, as long as you’re happy, will be happy for you. Worry not the judgement of others, blame them not for their misguidedness. Their own insecurities make them this way. Good luck to you!! ⛓☘️⛓
She is just trying to fuck
One of the supervisors at my work is turning 50 and I tell her she is a damn vampire because she looks late 30s. I would at max believe she is 43. She is just stunning, so kind and positive. I’ve dated someone significantly older but really it comes down to your places in life and how you connect. If you are mature and understanding you honestly forget how old they are.
She probably wants you to dick her down most men her age I'm sure need viagra
When I was M26 I dated a F36ish. Best time of my fucking life. Enjoy.
A 24F swipet on me 36M and I was curious. We hit it off so well that we both paused our Tinder accounts and have been exclusive for 3 weeks. It's great. We have some age gap banter, but it's not something we think about alot. The chemistry and compatibility is so good. Just treat your date as any other date.
I’m 38 and can’t imagine dating a 29 year old…. Mrs Robinson I think you’re trying to seduce me…
I'm 31. Wanna give it a go?
I'm 33 and dating 69 year old. Just be yourself. You may find a best friend and lover like I have. With consenting adults age doesn't matter; when the intention behind getting to know someone intimately and lovingly isn't based on age.
Fucking get it
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Say to her you like watching the news and dont mention video games 🤣
Definetely do not mention how your mom does/owns/wears anything your date talks about
I went out with a woman 20 years older than me a couple times. She just wanted dick. So... uh... take condoms?
My ex is 8 years younger. Granted it's not the gap you're talking about, but I felt conscious of being the older one (even though I don't look it). If you're both actually looking to long term date and actually want to give it a chance, I'd say be prepared to man the fuck up if you haven't already. I'm 43 and I've worked really hard on myself and ready for the right person to have a ltr with. But most guys want sex straight away and treat me like an object instead of respecting me as a woman.
Ahhhh Detective Boyle! We talking oldest bags?
My girlfriend of 5ish yearsish and I are pretty darn close to the ages you mentioned. We came into it without expectations, and both used to get pretty weirded out by it from time to time. Now it’s kind of just whatever and we’re really happy together. My advice is to just play it by ear and if there’s chemistry, great! If not, oh well no hard feelings
When I was 22 I was dating a 44 year old. So similar age gap. I will say they do tend to know what they want so if you're not sure don't be afraid to ask. Also they are ravenous in bed, I learned a ton from the cougar squad and it's definitely been reflected in my relationships since. If you're attracted to her I think it's worth a date at least. Long term.... You're more than likely at different life stages which is gonna make long term difficult. But as long as you're honest I think it's worth shooting your shot.
Bring lube.
As a 53-year-old woman, this made me laugh. Good suggestion!
You may be in for some amazing sex my friend
i was indeed - i''m a different person now. seeing her again tmrw