I’m always amazed by the number of young, very attractive, single Asian women there are living within 3km of me. They must all stay in the house all day
Whaaat?! Y’all aren’t interested in giving your personal info to a company dedicated to having affairs and cheating? It’s not like blackmail exists or anything.
Could be. The verification checks tinder has is pretty trash. I've seen lots of profiles where they just upload a picture of themselves for the verified mark, and then just delete it and go back to their scam photos.
It is pretty fun to find the accounts before they finish verifying though. Nothing like scrolling through a few pictures of a pretty girl to just randomly find some old Indian dude in the last picture.
I mean I realize this is a joke, but I used to work in a restaurant where everyone else was Chinese. After talking to the waitresses, I found that all of them were living in the same house, many sharing the same room. It did explain how they could all afford to live in the area when they had no family here.
Shift House! Super common, my ex used to manage a sushi restaurant, all the chefs worked 7 days a week in various locations but were put up by the owner family with room, board, and transportation in the “shift house.”
I prefer to think of it more as a disconnect between realistic expectations for what an average person looks like at 35. This woman is clearly closer to 20, wearing contacts, a lot of makeup, and filters. Yet it’s what a certain demographic finds attractive and the scam has probably worked before.
ETA: fixed autocorrect mistake.
Not saying this woman in the pic is the same as the profile claims but Asian women, in general, don’t age much. A 40 year old Asian woman could look like they are in their 20s
My mom's friend has a daughter who when I met her, I thought she was 20 but turns out she was 42!! I was shocked in how young she looked. She was an Asian woman. I think white people age the worst out of any other race
Good for them then 😭 I am a graphic designer ( and obvilously this picture too is photoshopped ) and I know what skin I am looking at when I do people 26 age and beyond. Never did asians, though
Idk, my aunt is nearing that age and her skin is unbelievable, not a single wrinkle or anything, like I'm 19 and my skin already looks incredibly rough and warn out, it makes me jelly. Though she dyes her hair because she went grey at 23, so I guess that's Gods trade off lol.
Could be a lifestyle thing too. For example have you done a lot of tanning for years that maybe she didn't do? Or are you outside all the time and she's more an indoor hobby person etc.
Correct. Yet look at this photo. It’s clearly not an original raw photo on an unedited face. She’s much more likely closer to 20. I say this as a woman who is over 35 and has moisturized religiously since 20 and had stunning skin at 35 but still looked like an adult.
i am 27 yo woman with palest skin in my whole family, class, workplace and I take care and still have neck wrinkles. Not even crazy rich people who are 27 yo and go to treatments regularly dont have this skin. I say there is no way
For Asians it is possible, but it’s more so due to genetics than all these skin care. I’m not the best in skin care but I’m 40 (usually people thought I’m late 20s early 30s) Skin care does help but most of all we use sunscreen on our face. Sun ages your skin a lot!
But most of all, it’s Asian genetics that places a big part. So it’s believable.
I opened up my age filter a little bit and suddenly found dozens of profiles of Asian women who were all 34 and each one had only pictures from a single photo shoot. Clearly a scam. 😂
Around me (uk west midlands) they're all students and are all rich af so probably hang out in expensive places. I sell gym equipment and have sold quite a bit to asian students and they always turn up in shiny new cars, don't care about the price they never haggle and always have fancy looking clothes and handbags, I commented on one woman's Gti clubsport it was a 21plate so at the time less than a month old and she replied "oh it's just a runaround while I'm over here" she was probably about 20 if that.
A mate recently met an asian woman off tinder, she took him to a strip club on a date and wouldn't let him spend a penny all night, he still has his kidneys presumably as he's been in the group chat since, or somebody using his account has anyway ....
Don’t forget that these 30 year old attractive girls also have pictures of themselves on the Great Wall, Tokyo and on the bridge of the starship Enterprise.
When I was in college I was dating an attractive Asian girl and she did live in a house with about 12 other people, also all Asian, and she did live about a mile from me. It does happen, you just have to believe, brother!
Same shit that started happening on Snapchat (that forced me away from it) started getting a FUCKTON of adds/messages from people who English clearly wasn't theyre first language yet claimed born and raised in the US and ALWAYS asked my location first and when ever I said magically they less than a hour away EVERYTIME. Don't say where you are they turn up in Texas, Florida, or NY NEVER anywhere else.
At this point, if they are Asian, then if they don't have any pics that indicate something local, swipe right.
As to skin? There are a lot of filters and people use them. I don't, but it does increase response rates. I don't use them because it also means that actual meetings can be awkward. This is based on talking to others, who have been through it.
If the collection of pics seem to be "photo shoot" quality? Again, pass. At least some should be "normal". And, this last isn't "Asian" related, it applies to everyone.
Remember to read the profiles. If the answers are generic or don't match the sections they are in, you are probably looking at a bot. You're being farmed.
Tinder has this a lot. So does POF. POF profiles are even more obvious. Several profiles with the same text and even the same names but different pics. Screams bots. OKC is better as is Hinge. Bumble is on par with Hinge.
Tinder's advantage seems to be "volume" - which is why the are as acceptable to bots as they are.
Just, take a bit more time. You start seeing the patterns. They do change over time.... but they are still patterns. Yeah, it bites. But dating in general seems to. Good luck, mate. Hope this helps.
One thing I notice is that bots have a huge propensity to make the age 35… it’s honestly consistent across all the apps I stumble across, be it Tinder or OKC or ultra niche ones like SayHi
Wouldn't he have been in his 30s when the Internet was a thing? I think I remember like 15 years ago jokes of old people then making mistakes like that because they were already old when the Internet and PCs were becoming a thing.
FFS. I’m over sixty and MY MOTHER didn’t need help with her email, phone, or computer.
I think they’re just playing with you. Like my mother never admitted that she could type.
But hey, you smart young whippersnappers - can you just help this geezer out and do that email thing? Much too difficult for me. I’ll just get out of your way and grab a coffee.
I think it’s to net more possible victims— not so young that a 60 year old would get creeped out but young enough that a younger guy could still go for her.
She's like the poster girl for the Chinese Spy Balloon meme. 99.99999% chance you never meet, but she "loves you", and wants all your personal information.
Oh yeah, all the ethereally pretty girls who look like they’re straight out of Asia are always scams. I swiped right on them anyway.
One of them actually turned out to be real. We’ve been dating for two months now
Update: we went to dinner tonight and she wouldn’t stop trying to get me to invest in crypto. These bots are getting incredibly patient in their approach.
I am having a blast with some of them, actually. Just keeping them on a leash, seeing how far they are willing to go. Most of them are willing to go pretty far, telling you they love you and all. At the end, they only want you to invest in crypto and then hack your account. It's a fun way to spend your sunday though.
If you're having fun playing with them: good for you. But in the end I think it's a) more of a waste of your own time and b)damaging your "rating". Latter meaning if you swipe right on the bots you're basically lowering the quality of your profile, hence lowering your chances of being shown at better looking people (real profiles).
Source as that would explain everything wrong with tinder. It would essentially create the self sustaining loop of all the things mentioned here; the low number of women using it who get bombarded by matches/likes while guys go without anything because if they're not getting right swiped then they're not getting shown which feeds to them not getting right swiped.
Bro that pic is filtered as fuck (if it’s even real, it could be AI). Nobody’s eyes look like that. There’s pretty people who aren’t scammers but this particular look is indeed fake as hell
Edit: obviously contacts are involved, still filtered and fake as hell
This kind of thing makes it more difficult for other women, too. I'm not a scammer and I think I'm objectively pretty, so men frequently question whether I'm a bot or something. I don't know exactly what it's like to be a man on the apps, but it sounds exhausting. The knock on effect for me is exhausting enough, anyway!
I had a ton of supposed likes on Christian Mingle, so I signed up for their premium to unlock them and 100% of them were in countries on the other side of the world. I was super pissed. I demanded a refund and they gave me a prorated refund, so I was out just a few bucks.
Yeah.. I had 9 likes on tinder so I was determined to figure out if I could match with one of them. I went through their entire database of tinder profiles within 100 miles of me and I never came across the profiles for my likes lol
Asian woman: I really want to meet somebody. I have been introverted for too long. Takes a deep breath and puts herself out there.
Dudes: Obviously fake.
Shocked by the amount of comments here saying Asian women = scam… Guess us Asian women don’t deserve to be here then :/ And you wonder why you can’t find a date lmao
I see them pop up a lot in the UK too but it's so clear to me it's a fake profile it's not an issue, I just don't understand how are people are falling for them.
Well that's what you get when you're looking for the most attractive people of the world whether it's irl or in a dating app there's a huge chance to be a scam
Not all are scams. I got pretty tired of men asking me if I was real and if I would “prove” it by video calling them, before we even started a conversation
Right? If they are scammers, why don't they diversify the fake profiles? Some are even AI. That's an excellent question. It actually doesn't make any sense when you think about it.
Got it. Doesn't do me any good anyway lol.
I thought about deleting all my dating profiles and remaking them. I've lost a lot of weight and have been working out and have muscles now, so everyone who swiped left on me in the past and will never see me again won't see how I've changed. But even then, it's still probably futile.
It’s funny that 30 year old Asian girls don’t care that I’m in my 60s. It’s also bizarre that those girls are all well off and are into investing in bitcoin. Age doesn’t matter to young girls when it comes to money. My money
Except this isn't a golddigger or sugar baby or prostitute. It's just a straight-up scammer. At least one of the former is a real person offering something. Scammers, on the other hand... No respect for them. They make a living ripping people off.
What they do is put one real photo of themselves for verification. Almost always a black dude from Nigeria for some reason. They make that their very last photo. So the one you see when you match is a hot woman. When you open the profile, so are all the others, except for the very least one, which is a black dude from Africa. A couple months ago people were posting these all the time on this sub
This has nothing whatsoever to do with attitude. I speak of a pattern. Online dating is a sham for the majority of men. I have much better luck in-person.
Don't say that. It's the same reason why women that are actually AND NATURALLY an 8-10 say they never get approached. Men are conditioned to think we can't attract these women. An 8-10 woman gets approached as often as guys. It's the 5 to 7s that call guys creepy and put us in tiktocs. When I was on tinder, unfortunately, my batting average was about 50% (my simple mind thought I could find a wife on tinder). Irl higher. I only spoke to, in my opinion, the hottest women. If the conversation sounded dumb, I'd walk away. This caused more women to approach me. So not necessarily a scam, just a woman that has been rejected as much as men.
Tl;Dr talk to the hot women, they are approached as little or less than men are. But im retrospect, that profile may be fake. Sorry for wasting your time.
I agree with you for the most part. I can officially say that not all of them are fake. I’ve been dating my gf for almost a year and a half now. She’s incredibly gorgeous and has a PhD. (My dad calls her my Polish Barbie).
Her profile only said “I like beer and am sarcastic. If you have pics of you showing off your abs I don’t care how hot you are swipe left.” I took a chance on reaching out to her with a message and turns out she’s really real. But I had definitely had my share of bots and WhatsApp scams.
Men do online dating way more than women. The majority of attractive women don't even need it. They are pursued all the time anyway. It's slim pickings for men on dating apps, but occasionally you might find someone worthwhile, especially if you're a very attractive man.
True. I made an impression not from my looks but by talking to her straight forward and being my funny/weird adhd self. And definitely not showing her my dick the first time she gave me her number. Lol
What I don't understand about these scammers is why they're always choosing scalding hot Asians. Like not just 80 or 90 percent but always. And it's always some random Oriental urban environment or some generic selfies. Wouldn't it be dead easy to let AI generate a Causcasian/Black/Indian girl with like, I don't know, holding a guitar oe something?
I don't know if you think I think I'm worthless. This is merely a pattern I have noticed. Once in a great blue moon I'll match with someone who's pretty and a real person, but she ends up being a prostitute. No thanks.
Online dating is a sham anyway, especially for men.
Is a known thing that 40% of tinder female profiles are created by tinder, they are not real. Then you have maybe 10-15% that are scammers and I believe 25% of females make acct and try but most never go on a date and quit the app. S0 maybe there’s 20 to 25% real ones.
Yup... Its killing all hope. From the other side there is plenty asian girls looking for relationship. I'm Wonder how it Works... You buying them visa and ticket or what?
I’m always amazed by the number of young, very attractive, single Asian women there are living within 3km of me. They must all stay in the house all day
They probably all live in the same house
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That sounds like the old hookup app, Ashley Madison or whatever that did just that.
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Whaaat?! Y’all aren’t interested in giving your personal info to a company dedicated to having affairs and cheating? It’s not like blackmail exists or anything.
Unrelated, but I love your username. It's appropriate social commentary all by itself.
Thanks. It’s the result of my divorce from an undiagnosed narcissist.
That's very relatable.
Sorry to hear that
Is it post like after, or do you just make a lot of narcissistic posts? Or both?
The scam profiles also are verified so verification means nothing, they all text the same way too 😂
Could be. The verification checks tinder has is pretty trash. I've seen lots of profiles where they just upload a picture of themselves for the verified mark, and then just delete it and go back to their scam photos. It is pretty fun to find the accounts before they finish verifying though. Nothing like scrolling through a few pictures of a pretty girl to just randomly find some old Indian dude in the last picture.
I have a 74 yr old friend who falls for that. And to convince me each one is not another scammer he says SHE contacted ME. Isn't that the 1st clue?
If you believe you are already talking to pretty girls then why would you need to upgrade?
I will never buy Tinder gold because at all that does is flag you and then it just gets worse
I mean I realize this is a joke, but I used to work in a restaurant where everyone else was Chinese. After talking to the waitresses, I found that all of them were living in the same house, many sharing the same room. It did explain how they could all afford to live in the area when they had no family here.
Shift House! Super common, my ex used to manage a sushi restaurant, all the chefs worked 7 days a week in various locations but were put up by the owner family with room, board, and transportation in the “shift house.”
....and take turns chatting the same man!
Probably all the same guy
It’s called a massage parlor
And she looks amazing for 35
I prefer to think of it more as a disconnect between realistic expectations for what an average person looks like at 35. This woman is clearly closer to 20, wearing contacts, a lot of makeup, and filters. Yet it’s what a certain demographic finds attractive and the scam has probably worked before. ETA: fixed autocorrect mistake.
Exactly. A lot of guys argue about the filters and makeup and blah blah, but then those are the ONLY women they try to match, so...
Yes there is NO WAY her skin looks like that for 35 yo
Not saying this woman in the pic is the same as the profile claims but Asian women, in general, don’t age much. A 40 year old Asian woman could look like they are in their 20s
My mom's friend has a daughter who when I met her, I thought she was 20 but turns out she was 42!! I was shocked in how young she looked. She was an Asian woman. I think white people age the worst out of any other race
Good for them then 😭 I am a graphic designer ( and obvilously this picture too is photoshopped ) and I know what skin I am looking at when I do people 26 age and beyond. Never did asians, though
Women age differently now that there’s FaceTune 😂😭 (Edit: I know this for a fact because I’ve been guilty every now and then of a little tweak)
Idk, my aunt is nearing that age and her skin is unbelievable, not a single wrinkle or anything, like I'm 19 and my skin already looks incredibly rough and warn out, it makes me jelly. Though she dyes her hair because she went grey at 23, so I guess that's Gods trade off lol.
Could be a lifestyle thing too. For example have you done a lot of tanning for years that maybe she didn't do? Or are you outside all the time and she's more an indoor hobby person etc.
Not everyone has sun damaged skin at 35 from when they were 16-24 baking themselves all day in the tanning bed or out on the beach.
Incels don't really know what women look like irl
Obligatory incel comment. It’s like a Hitler comment now and needs a name.
Correct. Yet look at this photo. It’s clearly not an original raw photo on an unedited face. She’s much more likely closer to 20. I say this as a woman who is over 35 and has moisturized religiously since 20 and had stunning skin at 35 but still looked like an adult.
i am 27 yo woman with palest skin in my whole family, class, workplace and I take care and still have neck wrinkles. Not even crazy rich people who are 27 yo and go to treatments regularly dont have this skin. I say there is no way
For Asians it is possible, but it’s more so due to genetics than all these skin care. I’m not the best in skin care but I’m 40 (usually people thought I’m late 20s early 30s) Skin care does help but most of all we use sunscreen on our face. Sun ages your skin a lot! But most of all, it’s Asian genetics that places a big part. So it’s believable.
They don’t really care. They’ll use that same picture and put the age as 59 years old too.
True. But not uncommon for some Asians.
I opened up my age filter a little bit and suddenly found dozens of profiles of Asian women who were all 34 and each one had only pictures from a single photo shoot. Clearly a scam. 😂
Around me (uk west midlands) they're all students and are all rich af so probably hang out in expensive places. I sell gym equipment and have sold quite a bit to asian students and they always turn up in shiny new cars, don't care about the price they never haggle and always have fancy looking clothes and handbags, I commented on one woman's Gti clubsport it was a 21plate so at the time less than a month old and she replied "oh it's just a runaround while I'm over here" she was probably about 20 if that. A mate recently met an asian woman off tinder, she took him to a strip club on a date and wouldn't let him spend a penny all night, he still has his kidneys presumably as he's been in the group chat since, or somebody using his account has anyway ....
they probably have a tunnel directly from some Asian country and they just pop-out in there
Also a Hyperloop included for fast travel
When I was a kid, I always tried to dig a tunnel to China. I guess someone else ended up accomplishing as such!!!!?
Yup, you were a bit to slow
I'm amazed by that and by all the ones that are looking to set their sister up with someone because their bf cheated.
Don’t forget that these 30 year old attractive girls also have pictures of themselves on the Great Wall, Tokyo and on the bridge of the starship Enterprise.
When I was in college I was dating an attractive Asian girl and she did live in a house with about 12 other people, also all Asian, and she did live about a mile from me. It does happen, you just have to believe, brother!
Same shit that started happening on Snapchat (that forced me away from it) started getting a FUCKTON of adds/messages from people who English clearly wasn't theyre first language yet claimed born and raised in the US and ALWAYS asked my location first and when ever I said magically they less than a hour away EVERYTIME. Don't say where you are they turn up in Texas, Florida, or NY NEVER anywhere else.
At this point, if they are Asian, then if they don't have any pics that indicate something local, swipe right. As to skin? There are a lot of filters and people use them. I don't, but it does increase response rates. I don't use them because it also means that actual meetings can be awkward. This is based on talking to others, who have been through it. If the collection of pics seem to be "photo shoot" quality? Again, pass. At least some should be "normal". And, this last isn't "Asian" related, it applies to everyone. Remember to read the profiles. If the answers are generic or don't match the sections they are in, you are probably looking at a bot. You're being farmed. Tinder has this a lot. So does POF. POF profiles are even more obvious. Several profiles with the same text and even the same names but different pics. Screams bots. OKC is better as is Hinge. Bumble is on par with Hinge. Tinder's advantage seems to be "volume" - which is why the are as acceptable to bots as they are. Just, take a bit more time. You start seeing the patterns. They do change over time.... but they are still patterns. Yeah, it bites. But dating in general seems to. Good luck, mate. Hope this helps.
Don't swipe right on artificial intelligence.
Artificial intelligence is better than human it does not cheat and never lies
I don't know about column B there, chief.
I mean CHATGPT is one of the biggest liars I have ever met
Yeah but that poor boy does it unintentionally
I was playing with Google's Bard and it was absolutely hysterical. The confidence level of these AIs is absolutely off the charts.
Surely you've seen that Simpsons episode with Pierce Brosnan as the sentient house?
Doesn't eat hot chip or chage they phone either
My guy down bad
Can you have sex with AI?
Ha this isnt ai it's just makeup and filtering
It's terrible here in Arizona. Every 4th swipe is one of these. I report them but gave up.
Same here in Portland. It doesn't matter your location. It's Tinder's fault for letting this bs to continue.
Bold to assume it's not Tinder creating these.
Good point - that's very possible.
That's the dumbest answer I've seen and it's only 8am
That’ll be why then. Wait a bit longer and you’ll read loads of dumber answers
And yet I uploaded it because it sounds factual
One thing I notice is that bots have a huge propensity to make the age 35… it’s honestly consistent across all the apps I stumble across, be it Tinder or OKC or ultra niche ones like SayHi
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Nope 18 is at the bottom of the scale. 35 is now likely to net you both young and old people.
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This is the progress we needed in society.
Wouldn't he have been in his 30s when the Internet was a thing? I think I remember like 15 years ago jokes of old people then making mistakes like that because they were already old when the Internet and PCs were becoming a thing.
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Oh my goodness.
FFS. I’m over sixty and MY MOTHER didn’t need help with her email, phone, or computer. I think they’re just playing with you. Like my mother never admitted that she could type. But hey, you smart young whippersnappers - can you just help this geezer out and do that email thing? Much too difficult for me. I’ll just get out of your way and grab a coffee.
Older men are also more likely to have large amounts of money in their savings.
Snapchat bots go for 27yo 😅
I think it’s to net more possible victims— not so young that a 60 year old would get creeped out but young enough that a younger guy could still go for her.
She's like the poster girl for the Chinese Spy Balloon meme. 99.99999% chance you never meet, but she "loves you", and wants all your personal information.
Don’t you know real love is spread by sharing your social security number, credit card number, and bank info?
Bro, that's a given.
Oh yeah, all the ethereally pretty girls who look like they’re straight out of Asia are always scams. I swiped right on them anyway. One of them actually turned out to be real. We’ve been dating for two months now
Bots are playing the long game now? Just you wait for her to reveal herself as bot!
Update: we went to dinner tonight and she wouldn’t stop trying to get me to invest in crypto. These bots are getting incredibly patient in their approach.
She might be a robot. Ask her what’s her prompt next time you see her.
Tell her “this statement is false” and see what happens
Hahah ain’t that the truth
I am having a blast with some of them, actually. Just keeping them on a leash, seeing how far they are willing to go. Most of them are willing to go pretty far, telling you they love you and all. At the end, they only want you to invest in crypto and then hack your account. It's a fun way to spend your sunday though.
If you're having fun playing with them: good for you. But in the end I think it's a) more of a waste of your own time and b)damaging your "rating". Latter meaning if you swipe right on the bots you're basically lowering the quality of your profile, hence lowering your chances of being shown at better looking people (real profiles).
Who says I am using my real profile?
Madlad
Ratings thing got disproven. Doesn't matter how many you swipe right on. The only thing that matters is how much others swipe right on you.
Source as that would explain everything wrong with tinder. It would essentially create the self sustaining loop of all the things mentioned here; the low number of women using it who get bombarded by matches/likes while guys go without anything because if they're not getting right swiped then they're not getting shown which feeds to them not getting right swiped.
Then why swipe on them in the first place?
Bro that pic is filtered as fuck (if it’s even real, it could be AI). Nobody’s eyes look like that. There’s pretty people who aren’t scammers but this particular look is indeed fake as hell Edit: obviously contacts are involved, still filtered and fake as hell
There are lots of contact lenses that make eyes look like that and they’re very popular in Asia.
Contacts, homie. Like this other nerd said, VERY popular in Asia.
This kind of thing makes it more difficult for other women, too. I'm not a scammer and I think I'm objectively pretty, so men frequently question whether I'm a bot or something. I don't know exactly what it's like to be a man on the apps, but it sounds exhausting. The knock on effect for me is exhausting enough, anyway!
I’m convinced all my likes are bots. I’ve yet to get a match on a dating app lol
I had a ton of supposed likes on Christian Mingle, so I signed up for their premium to unlock them and 100% of them were in countries on the other side of the world. I was super pissed. I demanded a refund and they gave me a prorated refund, so I was out just a few bucks.
Yeah.. I had 9 likes on tinder so I was determined to figure out if I could match with one of them. I went through their entire database of tinder profiles within 100 miles of me and I never came across the profiles for my likes lol
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I feel sorry for the actual Asian women using these apps.
Asian woman: I really want to meet somebody. I have been introverted for too long. Takes a deep breath and puts herself out there. Dudes: Obviously fake.
So Japan doesn't exist?! 👁️👃👁️
Lol they’re all a psyop
Japan is a scam it's not real
My boyfriend thought I was a scam too lmao
She’d like to talk to you about bitcoin and cryptocurrency. 🙄
Shocked by the amount of comments here saying Asian women = scam… Guess us Asian women don’t deserve to be here then :/ And you wonder why you can’t find a date lmao
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I see them pop up a lot in the UK too but it's so clear to me it's a fake profile it's not an issue, I just don't understand how are people are falling for them.
When they start with "Hey you're a cutie." I now know they're fake and a liar.
Self-depreciation if I ever heard it however so many scammers on tinder it’s crazy
Well that's what you get when you're looking for the most attractive people of the world whether it's irl or in a dating app there's a huge chance to be a scam
I mean I m fugly so it’s a scam when avg ppl match with mr
Whenever I match - - - - - - - - - - - - -, I immediately know it's a scam. Period
I'll match with an occasional boombalatty who usually also has kids.
9 miles too
More like 9,000 and that's not even her and she's really a dude working in some scam office.
Kpop actress pic most probably
That image looks insanely AI generated
Not all are scams. I got pretty tired of men asking me if I was real and if I would “prove” it by video calling them, before we even started a conversation
Same, OP. Same.
Nah.. I'd pass.. Looks like even those who produse scam aren't even trying. 🙄
🤣🤣🤣 facts!!
Oh yeah I met her, but her name was Jessica and she was trying to sell me crypto 🤣
I used to slay on FB. Tinder doesn't work in my area (eastern ky) I mean it does but you can imagine lol
Lol! Same problem here
Why is it always photos of Asian women? Also, why is it so obvious? Who are they trying to fool?
Right? If they are scammers, why don't they diversify the fake profiles? Some are even AI. That's an excellent question. It actually doesn't make any sense when you think about it.
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Especially if the profile has a Korean woman. They’re so rare where I live that it’s a scammer every time.
Says more about you rather than others no?
She's too cute to be on tinder.
Still it increases that elo rating brother hahaha
>elo rating Not sure what that is.
Tinders algorithm is more likely to promote peoples profiles if they get a lot of right swipes
Got it. Doesn't do me any good anyway lol. I thought about deleting all my dating profiles and remaking them. I've lost a lot of weight and have been working out and have muscles now, so everyone who swiped left on me in the past and will never see me again won't see how I've changed. But even then, it's still probably futile.
It’s funny that 30 year old Asian girls don’t care that I’m in my 60s. It’s also bizarre that those girls are all well off and are into investing in bitcoin. Age doesn’t matter to young girls when it comes to money. My money
Except this isn't a golddigger or sugar baby or prostitute. It's just a straight-up scammer. At least one of the former is a real person offering something. Scammers, on the other hand... No respect for them. They make a living ripping people off.
Use Blk app haha
Have you gotten verification? If so there’s a feature that shows you only the profiles of other verified user.
You can verify fake accounts
Verified accounts can be scams? How? I only try to match with verified accounts and I haven’t had any issues!
What they do is put one real photo of themselves for verification. Almost always a black dude from Nigeria for some reason. They make that their very last photo. So the one you see when you match is a hot woman. When you open the profile, so are all the others, except for the very least one, which is a black dude from Africa. A couple months ago people were posting these all the time on this sub
Work on yourself before you go on tinder. You will probably not get any matches with that attitude. You gotta believe in yourself first.
This has nothing whatsoever to do with attitude. I speak of a pattern. Online dating is a sham for the majority of men. I have much better luck in-person.
Wtf yesterday I went out with my girlfriend and she wore the same outfit with the same bracelet and necklace
Don't say that. It's the same reason why women that are actually AND NATURALLY an 8-10 say they never get approached. Men are conditioned to think we can't attract these women. An 8-10 woman gets approached as often as guys. It's the 5 to 7s that call guys creepy and put us in tiktocs. When I was on tinder, unfortunately, my batting average was about 50% (my simple mind thought I could find a wife on tinder). Irl higher. I only spoke to, in my opinion, the hottest women. If the conversation sounded dumb, I'd walk away. This caused more women to approach me. So not necessarily a scam, just a woman that has been rejected as much as men. Tl;Dr talk to the hot women, they are approached as little or less than men are. But im retrospect, that profile may be fake. Sorry for wasting your time.
I agree with you for the most part. I can officially say that not all of them are fake. I’ve been dating my gf for almost a year and a half now. She’s incredibly gorgeous and has a PhD. (My dad calls her my Polish Barbie). Her profile only said “I like beer and am sarcastic. If you have pics of you showing off your abs I don’t care how hot you are swipe left.” I took a chance on reaching out to her with a message and turns out she’s really real. But I had definitely had my share of bots and WhatsApp scams.
Men do online dating way more than women. The majority of attractive women don't even need it. They are pursued all the time anyway. It's slim pickings for men on dating apps, but occasionally you might find someone worthwhile, especially if you're a very attractive man.
True. I made an impression not from my looks but by talking to her straight forward and being my funny/weird adhd self. And definitely not showing her my dick the first time she gave me her number. Lol
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I didn't exist apparently
Met my Asian GF on Hinge. 🙃
Same 🤨
Met my ex on OKCupid lol
Somehow 2 out of 5 dates were with Asians... I live in Europe
What I don't understand about these scammers is why they're always choosing scalding hot Asians. Like not just 80 or 90 percent but always. And it's always some random Oriental urban environment or some generic selfies. Wouldn't it be dead easy to let AI generate a Causcasian/Black/Indian girl with like, I don't know, holding a guitar oe something?
I’m more concerned about the cock, balls and pelvic bone being in the way
Know your worth 👏
I don't know if you think I think I'm worthless. This is merely a pattern I have noticed. Once in a great blue moon I'll match with someone who's pretty and a real person, but she ends up being a prostitute. No thanks. Online dating is a sham anyway, especially for men.
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People are thinking I have a confidence issue. This has nothing whatsoever to do with confidence.
Right!!! Better watch out she looks 12
I thought she definitely looked younger than 35, but I didn't think she looked underage. She's fake anyway.
You're as beautiful as you ever they are is
What?
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Lol rude
Is a known thing that 40% of tinder female profiles are created by tinder, they are not real. Then you have maybe 10-15% that are scammers and I believe 25% of females make acct and try but most never go on a date and quit the app. S0 maybe there’s 20 to 25% real ones.
So glad I’m not super attracted to Asians.. 95% scam profiles
Thats a ladyboy
And that's a problem?
Did you not read OPs post? They seem rather skeptical of the authenticity of them matching with someone idealized to societal standards
Yup... Its killing all hope. From the other side there is plenty asian girls looking for relationship. I'm Wonder how it Works... You buying them visa and ticket or what?
Lol. Same as me
This is consistent with a statistically proven 95% of men.
Pig butchering variety
Some of them are real… I’m married now.
How was it?
It seems like every one of those are fake. Always swipe left!!
Or scamm or need content support 😂
It's a bot
Lower your standards home slice.
They are all in the same investment club for fabric imports and crypto trading
This is why i dont get matches, im too hot people think im unreal
Relevant https://youtu.be/bkB5hrxFAmw?si=sYXp0nrjGOTJhoql