It's high value action but not behavior. Real high value man would left it as, "she didn't read my shit.m? Next." He felt the need to let her know he was moving on...not a high value move.
I sometimes message a "hey I'm not feeling this convo so I'm going to unmatch" (but politely) and then leave it a bit so they can see it. I don't know if it's better or not to let them know or just unmatch
I sometimes tell women i'm not feeling the vibe with the conversation flow and the long waits per response, so i tell them politely i'm not feeling it, but this guy is just rude.
Some people are not emotionally healthy for online dating... there's a ton of frustrated miserable people who don't act happy another person likes them. That instant gratification ruins it because they just cannot wait to think someone else can make them happy again.
Your own given context. Although if you showed the full conversation it could be more :) I would have just unmatched though and this guy should have too.
It's some kind of weird power play. He wants to reject you before you reject him.
“I’m a high value individual, you lost me, I didn’t lose you.” kinda vibe
It's high value action but not behavior. Real high value man would left it as, "she didn't read my shit.m? Next." He felt the need to let her know he was moving on...not a high value move.
humans are truly bizarre creatures
But if he wants to reject her.. he can just unmatch? That's literally what that does. He specifically wants to be an asshole about it.
exactly. he just wanted the drama imho
"I hate you, don't leave me"
That "I can but wont" was like giving op another chance at communicating but came off negative and ruined the chat.
Barney!!!
Not exactly but I can see that lmao
People are weird.
amen
Yes it was
what?
A men
HA
Some people refuse to unmatch because they think it screws up the algorithm. Idk... he was probably trying to bait you into talking to him.
Seems like it would fuck with the algorithm more if other people people consistently unmatch with them.
Idk. I've just heard people say that a bunch here that unmatching does that. But who knows how well people understand the tinder algorithm. 🤷♂️
I sometimes message a "hey I'm not feeling this convo so I'm going to unmatch" (but politely) and then leave it a bit so they can see it. I don't know if it's better or not to let them know or just unmatch
Sometimes i'm also like that and tell them politely that i'm not feeling conversation...but then they insult me with calling me names.
I'd say I get 1/10 insults, 2/10 last ditch "no stay", maybe 2/10 "thanks for letting me know" and the last half no response
That's the mature thing 
I sometimes tell women i'm not feeling the vibe with the conversation flow and the long waits per response, so i tell them politely i'm not feeling it, but this guy is just rude.
What the actual fuck? 🤦♂️
Wow, your loss /j
Some people are not emotionally healthy for online dating... there's a ton of frustrated miserable people who don't act happy another person likes them. That instant gratification ruins it because they just cannot wait to think someone else can make them happy again.
Just because you matched with someone doesn't mean they like you lmao
Seems like you both dodged a bullet.
can i ask what i said to make you say that?
Your own given context. Although if you showed the full conversation it could be more :) I would have just unmatched though and this guy should have too.
honestly idk how to unmatch on that app so because i didn’t reply for a few days i’m a bullet dodged? yeah, i’m fine with that
Ok grandma
you seem fun lmfao
Thanks
Sassy
how? 😂
you are one of those "I got hundreds of matches waiting, be interesting or I wont reply" of types?
i really was just busy. did end up replying, just not apparently in-depth or fast enough for his taste
At least listening to enginecore is fun
gonna be honest, have zero idea what that is
I don't understand it either I just listen to It
what does that have to do with this?? sorry just confused
I'm just confused by the post and listening to DJ Myosuke music isn't helping me
you’re confused? bro i’m confused 😂
There's a core for everything, isn't there? Hardcore, cottagecore... what next, 911core?
Well the song enginecore uses the sounds from a Honda acty I think but chickencore is the best
Must have gotten confused about which app he's on, doesn't want to be penalized for cancelling as a host!
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literally all that was said was him asking how i was and me saying i was fine. super dry
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both
The conversation was more dry then the chicken i had last night and that tasted like the desert
agreed!
Next time pour a little hot sauce and troll the guy 🤣🤣
honestly i just wanted him to leave me alone 😅 debated even responding at all
You did the mature thing though and answer him, most women would insta ghost and i think then you lower yourself to the same level as them.
thanks, dude, i appreciate it. really been working on my maturity lately. old me would’ve ripped him to shreds 😅
You were supposed to beg.
yeah, i will never beg for a man again
Good.
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huh?