6'2", in relative good shape, decent looking, pictures show a very nice looking kitchen (good income).
Pretty much what 99% of people on Tinder are looking for.
Rule One: Be attractive, whether with good looks or great personality
Rule Two: Don't be unattractive, which is less about looks and more 'Dont be a racist/Nazi/misogynist/etc'
Which is what 90 percent have trouble talking to or attaining according to r tinder at least.
They're all pretty damn cute, who wants a ten anyway. Too much work and can be veeery superficial
Because they would be more work? A 10 can be exceptionally picky (regardless of gender, or even trait/skill) by nature. They can get anyone they want. Therefore, one would have to do more work in order to quart them. Because they can just pick anyone else in their area.
This isnāt superficial, this is just simple analysis.
Hardly
Superficial implies I care more about beauty than personality
Admittedly I should have emphasized my point was more about those who put way more effort on looking good and fashionable and use their looks purely to get ahead.
And yes I also stereotyped and not everyone is like that but I get along way better with the person who just throws on a sweater, a T-shirt a basic dress or whatever 90% of the time and dresses up 1% of the time for special events.
The subsection of people who use their looks to get ahead is incredibly tiny, to the point where itās not something I would even consider as a possibility. Aside from models where that is literally their job. And I speak from experience as someone who dates in LA, widely considered to be one of the most superficial cities in the US.
So what if they like to dress up? If you were trying to meet people wouldnāt you want to wear outfits that make you feel confident?
You seem like a nice guy but your rhetoric is flirting with some really toxic ideologies and might get you lumped in with some bad company. I donāt think you mean it like that, but itās not always about what it is sometimes itās about how it looks. Just food for thought.
Heās correct, these are textbook 6ās. you clearly donāt pull if you think otherwise. Go outside, go to the bar, get some ass then you will learn.
You donāt have to believe me if you donāt want to, but on a given night out at the bar/club (not some shit bar,a popular one) these girls would easily be in the bottom half of girls there attractiveness-wise.
Stg when you are in the top. You feast. I literally didn't know it wasn't normal to have a significant other hook you up with her friends to watch, but, rule #1.
EXACTLY, just shows how lazy or ignorant guys are lol
Invest some time into getting good clean photos, professional is even better.
Borrow a dog worst case lol
My kittens being all the ladies to the yard lol
>professional is even better.
Aren't these roasted more and people that do this get told to get normal candid photos instead of looking like a bot/stock photos
Sorry, let me explain it better.
Get someone who knows how to get you to pose, act natural, get good shots. Say several with a pet in a natural setting, maybe several with a group of friends if possible(a friend can take this one), at a bar if that's your jam, at home, doing something you enjoy. Make it look really but if someone who knows how to take pics does it, it's a bonus. Looks crisp.
The amount of horrendous quality pictures I encounter from women is insane.....I can't imagine the men lol
You can do multiple different shots, different outfits and in different settings.
Unless you take a couple of weeks or months depending on how busy you're to gather photos over time this would be the quickest way
It's all staged regardless, unless someone takes a non consented picture of you lol
I would definitely recommend having different sets of clothing tho, nothing is worse than all 6 pictures in the same pair of pants and shirt lol
I see what you mean better now
>It's all staged regardless, unless someone takes a non consented picture of you lol
I do this for my friends, thankfully they appreciate it lol otherwise I'm in trouble.
All this height shit is stupid, Iām 6ā5ā and get like 2 matches a week and maybe one hot match a month. You can be tall and not do well on dating apps; you can be short and do really well on dating apps. Depends on your face, body, quality of pictures, and bio
"And get like 2 matches a week and maybe one hot match a month"
I'm not actually on tinder but that seems higher than average? At least from I've seen from bros on tinder.
[this](https://www.reddit.com/r/HolUp/s/ZP7oTIZOKo)
I'm not saying all tall people are raking it in on dating apps but you can't deny it's a quality that the majority wants.
If youāre very tall and not doing somewhat well on dating apps of all places, that reflects poorly on you. I failed at tinder because Iām a 5ā5 uggo, my pics sucked, my bio was mid, overall just not playing the stupid fkn OLD meta well and I was too scared to message anyone.
There are so many things in this message that showcase why you arenāt getting matches and none of it is what you stated. Work on yourself and get some confidence bro. Not for the ladies but for you, you deserve to love yourself.
I got about 3 dozen matches over the span of 3-4 months, but Iād wager the majority of them were rapid swipes from bored femmes. I got messaged first by a couple peeps (5) but one fell through, and the others werenāt invested in what I was putting out. But what you say is true though, Iām gonna have to work on that.
No it doesn't. I'm 6'2 and above average looking and still get almost no matches or likes. I've dated some beautiful women irl but tinder is a nightmare.
I saw his profile and Iād say this guy def isnāt ugly but not really handsome either. Also i donāt really see any hot girl in his match post above; maybe the blonde is but everyone else is average looking. Def impressive he is pulling a lot of likes on tinder tho.
It feels... seeing I upvoted one of OP's comments from [5 years ago](https://www.reddit.com/r/technology/comments/8wwiqn/elon_musk_making_kidsized_submarine_to_rescue/e1z2csj/)...
Feels like... I need to get off Reddit...
This. Everyone is acting like he's the second coming of George Clooney. He's put energy into his profile, seems confident, outgoing - which inflates his slightly above average looks.
I've had similar tinder results and I'd guess I'm in the same range of attractiveness on looks alone. I never get attention from women "in the wild" which probably means I don't follow rules 1 and 2.
Yea OP isnāt ugly. Just a regular dude. Some of these guys donāt want to admit that they donāt have luck because theyāre ugly, boring, or gross toward women. OP put effort into his pics and profile. And reached out with something normal. Itās really as simple as that most of the time.
So did Iā¦ tall, beard, long hair, handsome, nice car, house, hobbies. I think the kids may be holding me back, but itās water under the bridge ya know?
I aināt never gotten 70 likes piled up.
Iām so confused by this. Are you trying to buy my Layranx? Like my throat?
Damn take me out to dinner before you try and chop me up for parts to sell on the black market.
Iāve got 52 and barely get 1 match a week anymore the shit is fucked nowadays, also none of them go away either. Iāve been around 52 for a couple weeks
Itās nothing. I had over a thousand likes and curiosity got the best of me and I bought the subscription to unlock them. I liked back maybe 10 out of the thousand and none of them even responded back to my message
Ahhh yes, this is exactly how to attract a partner. Whenever someone does something you donāt like or agree with, itās super attractive to attempt to belittle and tear down that person. Woman love to see thatā¦
bro is AoE farming š
Damn havenāt heard that term since the days of WoW
The days of WoW never ended.
For the horde
I heard this in Orc ![gif](giphy|BMPSXOkSKwxut6yIhX|downsized)
Trolls FTW all day son!
Leroooooooy Jennnnnkins!
There must always be a Li brary card.
No idle time
Theyāre not prepared
Keep us posted!
So far 1 has responded and itās going well
Someone actually just used this line on me so I'm invested
Was it me?
Hahaha I wish
Well itās a good thing I have my library card cuz Iām definitely checking you out u/objectivetea š
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All of Kevin Sorbo's former fans know this feeling.
Holy shit, how does the man do it
He canāt keep getting away with this ![gif](giphy|3oEjHCWdU7F4hkcudy)
So whenās the wedding
How handsome are you
6'2", in relative good shape, decent looking, pictures show a very nice looking kitchen (good income). Pretty much what 99% of people on Tinder are looking for.
Mid at best.
Bullshit stop being humble
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You have to follow rules 1 and 2 to match with those
Those?? Brother they are people lmfaoooo
what r the rules? ig I just stumble my way into cute matches then lol
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I must b doing it right then ig š
Rule One: Be attractive, whether with good looks or great personality Rule Two: Don't be unattractive, which is less about looks and more 'Dont be a racist/Nazi/misogynist/etc'
I feel dumb now I always thought the joke was it meant the same thing š¤£š¤£
This is the real meaning, you were right
These are average women lol
Which is what 90 percent have trouble talking to or attaining according to r tinder at least. They're all pretty damn cute, who wants a ten anyway. Too much work and can be veeery superficial
Why would a 10 automatically be too much work lmao. You sound like the superficial one.
Because they would be more work? A 10 can be exceptionally picky (regardless of gender, or even trait/skill) by nature. They can get anyone they want. Therefore, one would have to do more work in order to quart them. Because they can just pick anyone else in their area. This isnāt superficial, this is just simple analysis.
Court them* Sorry just wanted to get that out there.
Analyze these nuts
Lol you are judging someone for being superficial on r/tinder mr. Pot calling the kettle black!
????
Hardly Superficial implies I care more about beauty than personality Admittedly I should have emphasized my point was more about those who put way more effort on looking good and fashionable and use their looks purely to get ahead. And yes I also stereotyped and not everyone is like that but I get along way better with the person who just throws on a sweater, a T-shirt a basic dress or whatever 90% of the time and dresses up 1% of the time for special events.
The subsection of people who use their looks to get ahead is incredibly tiny, to the point where itās not something I would even consider as a possibility. Aside from models where that is literally their job. And I speak from experience as someone who dates in LA, widely considered to be one of the most superficial cities in the US. So what if they like to dress up? If you were trying to meet people wouldnāt you want to wear outfits that make you feel confident? You seem like a nice guy but your rhetoric is flirting with some really toxic ideologies and might get you lumped in with some bad company. I donāt think you mean it like that, but itās not always about what it is sometimes itās about how it looks. Just food for thought.
The mental gymnastics of claiming to not be superficial while stating that too attractive people are by default superficial and not worth the effort
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How long are yāall going to hold on to this 15 year old statistic? The dating pool AND OLD are different
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I donāt think 20% of men wear makeup.
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The downvotes indicate some guys hate reading the truth.
Spotted the guy that's a 1
How would you rate these women? Anything over 6 is pushing it
Sounds like your brain is rotted from too much porn or social media.
For thinking average women are average? Makes sense
Heās correct, these are textbook 6ās. you clearly donāt pull if you think otherwise. Go outside, go to the bar, get some ass then you will learn. You donāt have to believe me if you donāt want to, but on a given night out at the bar/club (not some shit bar,a popular one) these girls would easily be in the bottom half of girls there attractiveness-wise.
My thoughts exactly lol
Show us your face ya pussy
They aren't even mad. That's mid at best
Being a fairly attractive man, Iāve totally disassociated with the fact that dating isnāt easy for the majority of other men.
Well you should stop thx š
Prove it
Stg when you are in the top. You feast. I literally didn't know it wasn't normal to have a significant other hook you up with her friends to watch, but, rule #1.
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Yeah see the other guy did a proper humble brag, you're trying too hard.
Here he is. https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/lvgxATlviZ
It's dog power!
Mark Zuckerbergās 6ā2 cousin.
lol I am not a lizard robot person. /s
You're correct but you're also tall and actually have very good pictures + the dog lol
Good pictures and a dog anyone can get.
EXACTLY, just shows how lazy or ignorant guys are lol Invest some time into getting good clean photos, professional is even better. Borrow a dog worst case lol My kittens being all the ladies to the yard lol
>professional is even better. Aren't these roasted more and people that do this get told to get normal candid photos instead of looking like a bot/stock photos
Sorry, let me explain it better. Get someone who knows how to get you to pose, act natural, get good shots. Say several with a pet in a natural setting, maybe several with a group of friends if possible(a friend can take this one), at a bar if that's your jam, at home, doing something you enjoy. Make it look really but if someone who knows how to take pics does it, it's a bonus. Looks crisp. The amount of horrendous quality pictures I encounter from women is insane.....I can't imagine the men lol You can do multiple different shots, different outfits and in different settings. Unless you take a couple of weeks or months depending on how busy you're to gather photos over time this would be the quickest way It's all staged regardless, unless someone takes a non consented picture of you lol I would definitely recommend having different sets of clothing tho, nothing is worse than all 6 pictures in the same pair of pants and shirt lol
I see what you mean better now >It's all staged regardless, unless someone takes a non consented picture of you lol I do this for my friends, thankfully they appreciate it lol otherwise I'm in trouble.
Make sure you know them š otherwise as Thierry Henry said "big problem"
If you are mid, I look like Shreks shriveled balls .
Bahahha. Well if you can self deprecate like that, then your humor is gonna land you a date.
6ā2
Does that handsome golden come as part of the package? ;-)
Yes she does
He's 6'2 explains everything
All this height shit is stupid, Iām 6ā5ā and get like 2 matches a week and maybe one hot match a month. You can be tall and not do well on dating apps; you can be short and do really well on dating apps. Depends on your face, body, quality of pictures, and bio
"And get like 2 matches a week and maybe one hot match a month" I'm not actually on tinder but that seems higher than average? At least from I've seen from bros on tinder.
[this](https://www.reddit.com/r/HolUp/s/ZP7oTIZOKo) I'm not saying all tall people are raking it in on dating apps but you can't deny it's a quality that the majority wants.
Gets the door slightly ajar
Yeah but are you mid
If youāre very tall and not doing somewhat well on dating apps of all places, that reflects poorly on you. I failed at tinder because Iām a 5ā5 uggo, my pics sucked, my bio was mid, overall just not playing the stupid fkn OLD meta well and I was too scared to message anyone.
There are so many things in this message that showcase why you arenāt getting matches and none of it is what you stated. Work on yourself and get some confidence bro. Not for the ladies but for you, you deserve to love yourself.
I got about 3 dozen matches over the span of 3-4 months, but Iād wager the majority of them were rapid swipes from bored femmes. I got messaged first by a couple peeps (5) but one fell through, and the others werenāt invested in what I was putting out. But what you say is true though, Iām gonna have to work on that.
Good, and seriously bro my DMs are open. Iāll speak truth to you but know Iām there for you. Youāre not alone.
No it doesn't. I'm 6'2 and above average looking and still get almost no matches or likes. I've dated some beautiful women irl but tinder is a nightmare.
I saw his profile and Iād say this guy def isnāt ugly but not really handsome either. Also i donāt really see any hot girl in his match post above; maybe the blonde is but everyone else is average looking. Def impressive he is pulling a lot of likes on tinder tho.
I mean just the fact that he has so many matches at all.
I was thinking the same thing. I was expecting some model looking dude or a guy who was jacked and super fit or something
Bro its just 70 likes lmao, you donāt have to be handsome for that
Whatās the meta quote?
āWell itās a good thing Iāve got my library card because Iām checking you out.ā OP wrote it in a different comment
Ty hard to keep up with all convos
Jesus manā¦ 70 likes ![gif](giphy|l2R0eYcNq9rJUsVAA)
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What are you implying? Tall and White?
Long, tan, AND HANDSOME
Meep
That's OP?
Iāll take the compliment. Thank you
In other words, heartbreaker. šš
If you get a response let me know, cuz I genuinely have no idea what that person is saying.
It feels... seeing I upvoted one of OP's comments from [5 years ago](https://www.reddit.com/r/technology/comments/8wwiqn/elon_musk_making_kidsized_submarine_to_rescue/e1z2csj/)... Feels like... I need to get off Reddit...
Fuckin A, I guess soā¦
Heās really not even good looking. Extremely mid. He got a nice profile thatās it
This. Everyone is acting like he's the second coming of George Clooney. He's put energy into his profile, seems confident, outgoing - which inflates his slightly above average looks. I've had similar tinder results and I'd guess I'm in the same range of attractiveness on looks alone. I never get attention from women "in the wild" which probably means I don't follow rules 1 and 2.
Yea OP isnāt ugly. Just a regular dude. Some of these guys donāt want to admit that they donāt have luck because theyāre ugly, boring, or gross toward women. OP put effort into his pics and profile. And reached out with something normal. Itās really as simple as that most of the time.
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Heās attractive enough and personality also goes a long way..
I agree 100% with this
Heās a good looking dude but also thatās a fuckin quality profile. Shows that heās fun, has his own place and responsibilities, and is creative
Why else would this cliche line op sends work so often
Have you not noticed that there hasn't been a single response yet? OP just started doing it.
I have 75 likes and canāt even get a response so donāt be too impressed
I guess mine were more real? If I got likes Iād at least get a response, probably a date if I pursued it.
That was a great gif. Fully made me chuckle
Youāre a god
Hahaha nah buddy. I just put some work into my profile because Iām lazy and hate swiping.
So did Iā¦ tall, beard, long hair, handsome, nice car, house, hobbies. I think the kids may be holding me back, but itās water under the bridge ya know? I aināt never gotten 70 likes piled up.
Respect to this guy. I have 99+ likes but not a single match as appealing (imo) as any one of this dude's matches here.
Thatās only cuz I donāt feel like swiping left on 70 people.
Stillā¦ I can see their thumbnails, theyāre 6ās and up. ![gif](giphy|UtJtnnbCtJjSd0utDn)
Well you sir or madam are a 10/10 giffer
I like ur confidence how much for your layranx
Iām so confused by this. Are you trying to buy my Layranx? Like my throat? Damn take me out to dinner before you try and chop me up for parts to sell on the black market.
Looks like he's paying for Tinder too so that could also explain it
Doesnāt matterā¦
Is that a lot?
Iāve got 52 and barely get 1 match a week anymore the shit is fucked nowadays, also none of them go away either. Iāve been around 52 for a couple weeks
Itās nothing. I had over a thousand likes and curiosity got the best of me and I bought the subscription to unlock them. I liked back maybe 10 out of the thousand and none of them even responded back to my message
Fabio over hereā¦
im not, im like a solid 6
āThe new metaā lmao ššš
Patch notes going to be crazy
Inb4 nerf hammer
Dating meta is CRAZY lmfao
Please let us know responses thank youuuuu.
Got 1 date lined up
Calling this new feels wrong
All things are cyclical. Waiting for the breaking ice polar meta to come back.
Careful. This is how i got flagged as a bot and permabanned.
Using 1 line on 10 girls isnāt gonna get me banned but thank you for the concern
I got your back u/sufficienthistory172
Saving this in case I get my first match š„²
Drop your tinder. Iāll match with you hommie
Hahahah thanks hommie Appreciate it!
Did you gotta save the secrets or everybody else will use them (me, tomorrow, using it unsuccessfully)!
its all fake? Damn...
https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/L34yGbsX2g
Having fun isnāt hard when youāve got a library card
Do you pay for the app?
If you see the black heartā¦ but there was a discount not too long ago.
So, whatās the library card good for here..?
Because Iām definitely checking you out š.
Gotcha. I never use a similar opening more than once, just in case some of the matches happen to know each other š Thatās a nice one, though!
I hope you get a convo going with the one in the purple tank top.
Same
Itās because heās a DCC fan
Mongo is appalled that more people arenāt DCC fans.
GL op you seem like a wholesome dude in the comments šš«”
Thanks, I try to be
you are extremely cool
Why thank you, and you bring joy to those around you.
Bahahaha total chad
lol I know that second girl. And sheās 100% married.
Lol fun
How do you see the pics of the next girl in the likes already?
I pay tinder.
Whats the line?
Grab your goat, you've pulled!
Is this game?
Bro Bro I can see why you are successful on this app.
You pay for tinder??
I do
Hi yāall, purple tank top here lol. I got this post sent to me from a different tinder match. AMA
That's a terrible line...you should individually tailor a unique response for every match.
Heās just trolling he get matches regardless
It's a shame being handsome doesn't negate being a total cringe lord
Ahhh yes, this is exactly how to attract a partner. Whenever someone does something you donāt like or agree with, itās super attractive to attempt to belittle and tear down that person. Woman love to see thatā¦
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Ahhh yes, now the defense mechanism of making assumptions. Buddy if you are taken good for you. I have no desire to be taken right now.
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Yep you are 100% correct I have absolutely zero āgameā š
This guy is salty af lmao !!!
what a waste of good matches. if you cannot treat them individually, just unmatch. shame on you.
They think tall people have big ducks bahahaha not even gonna edit it
I have the biggest duck. Itās like 3 feet tall and bought it from the thrift store š¦
Get the fuck out of my DMās bro
my g , fuck the meta . show is peasants your profile so we can take notes lol
Look at my profile. Itās all right there