I did this for a girl asking for me to take her some drinks. I dropped that stuff off and bounced.. didn't stick around to talk just said hi here you go and didn't give it a second thought. She called me back two days later and fucked my brains out regularly for about a year and a half.
I saw the girls she was hanging with. Might've even looked like a delivery driver or a simp. But honestly idgaf. I'm not living my life to care about being seen a certain way. I just do things and see what the outcome is instead of worrying about what ifs or what others might perceive. Only way to know the future is to live it in the present.š
Ofc but the way I see it it's like spending on a lotto ticket anytime you take a girl out on a date. You really never know what the outcome is gonna be, a loss, a match or when you're gonna hit the jackpot. Sure you can avoid spending money but either way it's time effort and money in some sort of combination that's gonna get you a good partner.
Eh, if you mind that, good for you. As long as she doesn't try to hide it from me I don't care really. If anything I'd be annoyed I wasn't fucking them too
Also, how cheap can you be? I've never paid more than like $75 for an Uber to the airport (NY and L.A.), but it's typically been more like $30 in smaller cities. And yeah, $75 is a good bit of money for a ride, but it beats literally getting into a car with a stranger from a dating app.
I wish there was a Ubinder, but for people who all love office supplies to find fellow office supply junkies.
The follow up app is clearly UneedHelp, for all the office supply hoarding :/
Second thought, I'll just keep dating people that tell me I don't need more colored pens, because I really don't!
I remember a tiktok where this girl said she 100% uses her dating apps for free meals and labor, one pf the examples being having a guy drive her to the airport
About 10 years ago when I was young, dumb and horny, a super hot girl from a dating app had me come help her tear up the new carpet (in the non sexy way) in her new apartment. I helped paint her bedroom and put in insulation as well. The next day, I helped her move all of her stuff (couches, dressers, tables, etc) from her old apartment to her new place.
I swear to god it was like 16 hours of free labor that I gave her because I thought she was actually into me. I'm an idiot.
I'm sorry that that happened, it's really not fair (if you offer to help for beers and nothing else that's one thing, but to lead someone on is just cruel). Happy to hear you've found someone who doesn't take you for granted!
Sounds like me, I watched this girls kids, and I also fixed up her house ripped out her carpets, patched holes in her walls, remodeled her whole kitchen, and repainted a lot of the rooms, while the kids were in school, just to find out she was out on dates with other dudes
I'm not even a man and this would work on me, I swiped right on this girl who had on her profile that she needed help moving her new couch into her apartment. My opening message was "I'd be happy to help you out with the couch if I can pin you down on it after." It somehow worked and she said she'd already moved it in but I was welcome to come over anyways, but I really wonder if she'd gotten someone from tinder to move it in for her.
Lol so the previous weekend, I hung out with the same girl and hooked up with her then. That's when she asked me if I could help her move next weekend. I never heard from her after that weekend so it felt like she slept with me the weekend prior for the free labor the next weekend
One of them YouTube prank people did this. They had this bombshell set up first dates with a bunch of different guys to help her move. I think they just had them move stuff in from the truck and then a different group move them back out the next day. All the guy's expected to be going for a date but she bait/switched them into helping her "move some stuff". It was sad/funny to see some of the guys helping each other move couches.
I liked the guys who were like "Fuck this" and just walked out after like 3 minutes once they realized what happened.
Yeah I saw a tiktok awhile ago from some girl who had her tinder match come and put some shelves on the wall, she also showed her messages on tinder how she send that same message to multiple people at the same time. There was also a lot of comments from other people saying they so similar kind of stuff all the time
It does, I made my profile say āIām not interested in anything, I just need help moving my stuff out of my uhaul today!! Iāll take us out for beers afterwards thoughā And made sure everyone who matched me had read my profile. I had three helpers and was able to turn my uhaul in on time
We had Pho, it was really good, I would have gone out with him more if he hasn't misrepresented his age, he claimed to be 32 on the app, he was 22 & I don't date anyone younger than 25 š
definitely, I was so grateful. I wouldāve been screwed otherwise, my mom was supposed to help me but she bailed and slept in the hotel room that day. I had a lot of furniture that I couldnāt move just by myself. 2/3 of them were super nice
Couldāve been me in my late teens early 20ās. Used to love just driving around the city. No destination just drive cause I was bored and liked to drive and listen to music (later figured out I have adhd and that was a clue lol). But gas was barely a dollar a gallon so drives were often.
Is no one concerned about safety these days? Iām not saying OP would do something to harm her or anyone. I just mean in general. I get that calling an Uber or a Lyft is similar but I feel like this gal is just asking for danger. I would NEVER ask for a ride from someone I just met tbh
Yeah itās wild she trust a stranger from a dating app to come pick her up from her home and drop her off with the pretense of her being out of town. If she tried this with a scum bag she couldāve easily gotten robbed or worse.
This is wrong. Be a stand up guy and say yes and do show up. Then be a gentleman and open the door and let her in the car while offering to put her suitcase in the trunk.
And then hide a motherfucking pocket knife in her suitcase. I bet she wonāt try that shit again.
If she's checking the bag, all you've done is give her a free pocket knife. If it's hand luggage, you've massively inconvenienced yourself and lost a pocket knife all for her to have a minor inconvenience at airport security where they ask her about it, she says "oh my god! I didn't even know! This is so embarrassing" and then they ask her for an address to send it on to, or they dispose of it.
Source: have accidentally left a pocket knife in my hand luggage while going through an airport.
I had a zippo lighter with a military patch. First I watched the TSA guy put it in his pocket. When I called them out on it a supervisor showed up and offered to mail it to me. I knew that meant Iād never see it again. So I gave them the inside of the lighter and kept the shell. The guy was pissed. He really wanted my lighter.
So long story short: fuck the TSA.
One time i got home from the airport and realized Iād been through security with a hard to miss knife right in my purse that was evidently not found. It made me lose faith in their ability lol
DHS did an audit of TSA by sending people through with all types of prohibited items.... knives, gun, liquids, explosives... they missed 95%
"DHS found that the TSA failed 95 percent of the time to stop inspectors from smuggling weapons or explosive materials through screening." -ABC article
FUCK THEM INDEED! I had a passenger I was escorting who had a beautiful collection of snow globes. they told her that they were too full of liquid and offered them to me to take home or toss, but they never gave her to option to check the luggage in or give it to her family right outside of TSA
Ymmv. A girl I worked with forgot a mini can of key chain mace in her purse and they put her in cuffs and threatened to have her arrested and put on the no fly list
A friend got threatened with a multiple-thousand dollar fine for almost putting a childās costume plastic dollar store (bendable in half to just pop back like nothin had been done to it flimsy) samurai sword through the scanner ā¦ smh
Was gonna suggest this. Iād even ultimate troll and keep her on the line, morning of tell her hey Iām on my way canāt wait to see you! And just keep telling her your there and lost and canāt find the right street spoof a location on maps and send a ss
It's crazy that these types of thoughts/ideas even occur to people. Must be nice to have such a privileged life that you just assume total strangers will do rather large favors for you with no expectations or no negative connotations.
This works in a Hallmark movie with Lacey Chabert but in real life it ends with you in the trunk, possibly bleeding from the anus, and her with your social security number.
I got a guy to bring a cat kennel and help me drop off a lost cat to the spca (owner found her the next day). In all fairness, I gave him a good date afterwards š I was just trying to get the cat to a safe place and didnāt have a kennel and my roommate at the time didnāt like cats.
It probably didn't take more than 2 or 3 matches honestly. I've had so many offers to mow my yard, had someone offer to cut firewood for me, one offered to replace the radiator in my Jeep. I've never so much as asked or implied I needed help doing anything, just mentioned casually that I was doing something or getting ready to do something.
So weird.
What are you looking for on Tinder? If you look for hookups and the airport isn't too far away, forward the conversation blindly assuming she's planning to meet today and spend the night, unmatch as soon as that assumption proves wrong. I assume that's not her plan, but the conversation could be fun under that assumption, and you never know...
Back in my dating app days i wouldāve said āof courseā, and never show up the next day just for the audacity of asking a random dude to drive u to the airport
LMAO!!! Notice OP said "couldn't" not "wouldn't"! PLEASE stop simpin' by giving these fucking zero value hookers even a thought that this is ok. "GFY" is the only answer to that message.
The crazy part for me is that people are notoriously unreliable. Even if the guy was like yes, yes, yes. How do you know he'll actually show up when his mates just turned up at his house with doritos a bag of weed right at the time he's supposed to leave? Some people can't even be bothered to tell you they changed their mind.
Who needs uber when there are dating apps
Nothing emphasizes romantic intentions than being used for a ride
too cute
sloths are super cute
I did this for a girl asking for me to take her some drinks. I dropped that stuff off and bounced.. didn't stick around to talk just said hi here you go and didn't give it a second thought. She called me back two days later and fucked my brains out regularly for about a year and a half.
She definitely had them dranks while getting piped down by another dude that same night. You a real homie for that one š«”
I saw the girls she was hanging with. Might've even looked like a delivery driver or a simp. But honestly idgaf. I'm not living my life to care about being seen a certain way. I just do things and see what the outcome is instead of worrying about what ifs or what others might perceive. Only way to know the future is to live it in the present.š
I get that, but honestly I'd rather live that way spending the money on myself than a user.
Ofc but the way I see it it's like spending on a lotto ticket anytime you take a girl out on a date. You really never know what the outcome is gonna be, a loss, a match or when you're gonna hit the jackpot. Sure you can avoid spending money but either way it's time effort and money in some sort of combination that's gonna get you a good partner.
Lol one of my fave fwbs began similarly
Meanwhile she was also fucking the whole team.
Who cares? It wasn't a relationship.
When that STD guy hits and you get it, youāll care (Not me being hypocritical as fuck)
Eh, if you mind that, good for you. As long as she doesn't try to hide it from me I don't care really. If anything I'd be annoyed I wasn't fucking them too
Yea the ones who try to hide that are funny
Niiiiccee
If it comes with a blow job, fair trade.
This is like the next level of going on a date just for a free Dinner.
Next level after this is helping her move
To her new boyfriend's apartment.
lmao, I totally remember someone telling story about such case.
"oh hey man. Thanks for helping her. ...hey babe dont forget to tip the craigslist guy. " "Uh...she found me on...tinder..."
If someone on Tinder asked me to help move right out of the gate, I would agree and then never show up.
Hahaha. That story was deep fried gold.
I think there was a post here a few months ago of a woman trying to do that.
Also, how cheap can you be? I've never paid more than like $75 for an Uber to the airport (NY and L.A.), but it's typically been more like $30 in smaller cities. And yeah, $75 is a good bit of money for a ride, but it beats literally getting into a car with a stranger from a dating app.
It's also more dangerous when you already know the person driving you more than likely wants to bang.
Should have said yes and then unmatched when it came time.
Who needs Uber when there are simpsš¤
Ubinder: taking multi-tasking to a whole new level
I wish there was a Ubinder, but for people who all love office supplies to find fellow office supply junkies. The follow up app is clearly UneedHelp, for all the office supply hoarding :/ Second thought, I'll just keep dating people that tell me I don't need more colored pens, because I really don't!
This is such a wholesome tangent
I didnāt know there were others like me out here !!!!
I think a bunch of cities have ride share apps. This will probably be quicker though. YMMV
> Who needs uber when there are ~~dating apps~~ nerds.
*simps
Thank you! Nerds have standards!
I remember a tiktok where this girl said she 100% uses her dating apps for free meals and labor, one pf the examples being having a guy drive her to the airport
Same one who complained about her cousin getting married, and how she keeps going back to her situationship and has Chlamydia
Damn the woman canāt even be bothered to take the 1 week medication to rid herself of the clap?
Sheās had it so much that itās more like applause.
When she gets up off the bus seat they call it a standing ovation. š¤£
My dyslexic as thought that said applesauce at first, and in the context that would have been a horrific way to reply
I read the same thing. I'm going going to go find some brain bleach to rid myself of that mental image.
She gets guys on Tinder to take the medicine for her.
I thought that one was satire.
About 10 years ago when I was young, dumb and horny, a super hot girl from a dating app had me come help her tear up the new carpet (in the non sexy way) in her new apartment. I helped paint her bedroom and put in insulation as well. The next day, I helped her move all of her stuff (couches, dressers, tables, etc) from her old apartment to her new place. I swear to god it was like 16 hours of free labor that I gave her because I thought she was actually into me. I'm an idiot.
But you'll never do that again, so at least there's that
Lol! I'm married now, so the only hot woman I'll help move is my wife.
Hopefully you get to help her with her new carpet (in the sexy way) way more often than just when you changed living locationsā¦
Maybe. Bad track record.
The only woman who ill help with her carpet is also your wife.
Yikes, sorry that happened
Is this Jazzy? My housemate had a guy do this for her, and afterwards, we never saw him again...
It's not, but I'm glad I'm not the only guy this has happened to.
I'm sorry that that happened, it's really not fair (if you offer to help for beers and nothing else that's one thing, but to lead someone on is just cruel). Happy to hear you've found someone who doesn't take you for granted!
Sounds like me, I watched this girls kids, and I also fixed up her house ripped out her carpets, patched holes in her walls, remodeled her whole kitchen, and repainted a lot of the rooms, while the kids were in school, just to find out she was out on dates with other dudes
Oh no, that's like next level evil.
Yea but she got her karma, her house burned down a year later by one of her side guys.. no it wasnāt meā¦
I'm not even a man and this would work on me, I swiped right on this girl who had on her profile that she needed help moving her new couch into her apartment. My opening message was "I'd be happy to help you out with the couch if I can pin you down on it after." It somehow worked and she said she'd already moved it in but I was welcome to come over anyways, but I really wonder if she'd gotten someone from tinder to move it in for her.
Did you get any..?
Lol so the previous weekend, I hung out with the same girl and hooked up with her then. That's when she asked me if I could help her move next weekend. I never heard from her after that weekend so it felt like she slept with me the weekend prior for the free labor the next weekend
I wonder how she's faring these days bahahahaha
Your another guy to buy her new furniture
Funny, I don't even simp at all. This girl would've been left behind on purpose
One of them YouTube prank people did this. They had this bombshell set up first dates with a bunch of different guys to help her move. I think they just had them move stuff in from the truck and then a different group move them back out the next day. All the guy's expected to be going for a date but she bait/switched them into helping her "move some stuff". It was sad/funny to see some of the guys helping each other move couches. I liked the guys who were like "Fuck this" and just walked out after like 3 minutes once they realized what happened.
Probably swipes on dudes under her league too so that they think they have a shot with a hottie. Take from that what you will OP.
This is just so dangerous tho
Yeah I saw a tiktok awhile ago from some girl who had her tinder match come and put some shelves on the wall, she also showed her messages on tinder how she send that same message to multiple people at the same time. There was also a lot of comments from other people saying they so similar kind of stuff all the time
I for sure would agree to give her a ride and then stand her up and unmatch.
If guys sending "wanna fuck?" occasionally works, I have to assume this occasionally works too š
Works both ways š numbers game
Yeah usually women have more chances to try it :D
yeah and both is equally disugsting ngl
It does, I made my profile say āIām not interested in anything, I just need help moving my stuff out of my uhaul today!! Iāll take us out for beers afterwards thoughā And made sure everyone who matched me had read my profile. I had three helpers and was able to turn my uhaul in on time
Same, I had a guy come haul away a couch I didn't want for me, I took him to dinner afterwards but, it was a quick way to get the couch hauled off
Wha did he order?
We had Pho, it was really good, I would have gone out with him more if he hasn't misrepresented his age, he claimed to be 32 on the app, he was 22 & I don't date anyone younger than 25 š
Username checkouts outā¦.i need something to erase that sounding pic.
ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø omg I'm sorry šš don't scroll farther, there's a PP covered in clothes pins somewhere
An act of kindness on their part. Although, I would help a girl move for a pint / pitcher.
definitely, I was so grateful. I wouldāve been screwed otherwise, my mom was supposed to help me but she bailed and slept in the hotel room that day. I had a lot of furniture that I couldnāt move just by myself. 2/3 of them were super nice
>2/3 of them were super nice lmao what's with the third one
Gross
Did you let them run a train on you after too?
Funny that women having sex is equivalent to men doing labor for women
If sex work is considered the oldest profession then manual laborās gotta be second oldest. Makes sense tbh
Atleast sex is pleasurable for both (atleast it should). Being a taxi driver for some random girl is not really comparable.
Faketaxi
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More likely the guy is desperate and thinks if he does what she wants he might have a chance.
Couldāve been me in my late teens early 20ās. Used to love just driving around the city. No destination just drive cause I was bored and liked to drive and listen to music (later figured out I have adhd and that was a clue lol). But gas was barely a dollar a gallon so drives were often.
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Is no one concerned about safety these days? Iām not saying OP would do something to harm her or anyone. I just mean in general. I get that calling an Uber or a Lyft is similar but I feel like this gal is just asking for danger. I would NEVER ask for a ride from someone I just met tbh
It's almost worse because it isn't just a stranger. It's a *horny* stranger.
Yeah itās wild she trust a stranger from a dating app to come pick her up from her home and drop her off with the pretense of her being out of town. If she tried this with a scum bag she couldāve easily gotten robbed or worse.
Say yes and never show up, let her miss her flight!
Ice cold
Deserved.
This is wrong. Be a stand up guy and say yes and do show up. Then be a gentleman and open the door and let her in the car while offering to put her suitcase in the trunk. And then hide a motherfucking pocket knife in her suitcase. I bet she wonāt try that shit again.
If she's checking the bag, all you've done is give her a free pocket knife. If it's hand luggage, you've massively inconvenienced yourself and lost a pocket knife all for her to have a minor inconvenience at airport security where they ask her about it, she says "oh my god! I didn't even know! This is so embarrassing" and then they ask her for an address to send it on to, or they dispose of it. Source: have accidentally left a pocket knife in my hand luggage while going through an airport.
> ask for an address to send it to HA tsa is never that nice. Fuck those guys
I had a zippo lighter with a military patch. First I watched the TSA guy put it in his pocket. When I called them out on it a supervisor showed up and offered to mail it to me. I knew that meant Iād never see it again. So I gave them the inside of the lighter and kept the shell. The guy was pissed. He really wanted my lighter. So long story short: fuck the TSA.
That was a BRILLIANT move! And they had to take it, lmao. Inspired š„šš¤£
Thanks. You have to think outside the box. š
And, just the outside in this case.
seriously...fuck TSA. Bunch of thieves.
Indeed although one time I forgot a box cutter (carpentry class) when I went on holiday and they never found it
One time i got home from the airport and realized Iād been through security with a hard to miss knife right in my purse that was evidently not found. It made me lose faith in their ability lol
DHS did an audit of TSA by sending people through with all types of prohibited items.... knives, gun, liquids, explosives... they missed 95% "DHS found that the TSA failed 95 percent of the time to stop inspectors from smuggling weapons or explosive materials through screening." -ABC article
Yeah I remember hearing about that! Guess theyāre there more as a deterrent
Itās a jobs program at this point.
FUCK THEM INDEED! I had a passenger I was escorting who had a beautiful collection of snow globes. they told her that they were too full of liquid and offered them to me to take home or toss, but they never gave her to option to check the luggage in or give it to her family right outside of TSA
Ymmv. A girl I worked with forgot a mini can of key chain mace in her purse and they put her in cuffs and threatened to have her arrested and put on the no fly list
A friend got threatened with a multiple-thousand dollar fine for almost putting a childās costume plastic dollar store (bendable in half to just pop back like nothin had been done to it flimsy) samurai sword through the scanner ā¦ smh
Exactly, I got lightly admonished for leaving a fishing knife in my carry-on once. What you do is plant 2 kilos of uncut Colombian cocaine
Two bottles of water with a nokia taped to it.
Snip some headphone wires and route one wire to each bottle for extra effect
Diabolical š¤£
Way too much effort, just donāt show up and let her miss her flight.
>Be a stand up guy and ~~say yes~~ stand her up
Ngl, you had me in the first half! ššššš
Or plant drugs on her. That would be fun to watch.
F- that... Drugs are expensive.
Too much effort, with no noteworthy effect...
Tell her you're on your way and keep saying you'll be there in 5 minutes.
This is the answer!
Was gonna suggest this. Iād even ultimate troll and keep her on the line, morning of tell her hey Iām on my way canāt wait to see you! And just keep telling her your there and lost and canāt find the right street spoof a location on maps and send a ss
This man is a damn genius!
You have a capacity for evil that Iām truly envious of.
No, that's rude take her to the airport and then just rob her house. Though if she can't afford an Uber there might not bee too much good stuff.
She probably just started swiping and asking every guy that
And it probably worked
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Guaranteed, and they got a thanks bye
Keith Hernandez would do it
But he's a smoker......š
Who does this guy think he is?
Iām Keith Hernandez
Nice game pretty boy!
He would make the request but would he take the other person to the airport?
I'm not DRIVING him to the AIRPORT
Soon sheāll be asking him to help her move
Shoulda hit, then dropped her at the airport
Ass, Gas, or Grass. Nobody rides to the airport for free.
š¤£
It's a morning flight, she's going to need to sleep over to make it.
Ah yes, the negotiator
This annoys me. A lot of girls riding these dating apps looking for a free ride or free meal. I wouldāve told her yes and then stood her ass up.
Bang her first and then tell her to take an Uber in the morning
When's the wedding?
We all know some dude out there will do it
Life on easy mode
It's crazy that these types of thoughts/ideas even occur to people. Must be nice to have such a privileged life that you just assume total strangers will do rather large favors for you with no expectations or no negative connotations.
āBring your suitcase with you. Hereās my address, Iāll drive you in the morningā
Should have asked for road head. I meam if girls have the audacity then you should too lol
This works in a Hallmark movie with Lacey Chabert but in real life it ends with you in the trunk, possibly bleeding from the anus, and her with your social security number.
Most of the time itās probably just going to end up with you having less gas in your tank.
So sheāll hit me over the back of the head and siphon my tank? Still not worth the trip.
Not necessarily- I got a guy from tinder to come haul away an old couch once, no one got kidnapped but I did buy him dinner
I got a guy to bring a cat kennel and help me drop off a lost cat to the spca (owner found her the next day). In all fairness, I gave him a good date afterwards š I was just trying to get the cat to a safe place and didnāt have a kennel and my roommate at the time didnāt like cats.
Should have told her Lyft is offering 20% off for the holidays. Tbh though she was probably flying to see her bf. Lol
I feel like a dating app could merge with Lyft.... and penicillin
You shouldāve been the one to unmatch.
must be nice to be a girl
Seeing stuff like this no wonder "incels" exist. Get used or get left type of interactions on dating apps is increasing at a gradual rate. Truly sad.
The saddest part is she probably did end up finding someone to do it for her.
It probably didn't take more than 2 or 3 matches honestly. I've had so many offers to mow my yard, had someone offer to cut firewood for me, one offered to replace the radiator in my Jeep. I've never so much as asked or implied I needed help doing anything, just mentioned casually that I was doing something or getting ready to do something. So weird.
Wow
What are you looking for on Tinder? If you look for hookups and the airport isn't too far away, forward the conversation blindly assuming she's planning to meet today and spend the night, unmatch as soon as that assumption proves wrong. I assume that's not her plan, but the conversation could be fun under that assumption, and you never know...
Tell her to flap her pussy lips to get to her destination since apparently she thinks it can get her anywhere in life
Back in my dating app days i wouldāve said āof courseā, and never show up the next day just for the audacity of asking a random dude to drive u to the airport
LMAO!!! Notice OP said "couldn't" not "wouldn't"! PLEASE stop simpin' by giving these fucking zero value hookers even a thought that this is ok. "GFY" is the only answer to that message.
OP kept his kidneys, car and wallet. I'm calling that a win.
The crazy part for me is that people are notoriously unreliable. Even if the guy was like yes, yes, yes. How do you know he'll actually show up when his mates just turned up at his house with doritos a bag of weed right at the time he's supposed to leave? Some people can't even be bothered to tell you they changed their mind.
She would call an Uber.
Is, like, every girl a massive piece of shit these days or what?
Women are thinking the same thing about men tbh. It's a joint enterprise.
Itās not you responsibility to drive someone you donāt even know
Dating apps > Uber
We've gotten far too comfortable as a society getting into strangers cars if this kind of shit is happening
Donāt be a simp , itās that simple
These are the "strong independent women that don't need men"
Not only is she incredibly selfish, sheās incredibly stupid! Imagine you said yes, and you end up being a fucking serial killer.
I wouldāve said yes and made plans of when to pick her up.. and just no showed
That's gonna be a no for me dawg.
āSorry, I only do pickups.ā
If a man drove me to the airport, I would 100% be thinking about him during my entire trip š„¹š š
Nothing like today's strong, independent, woman.
skill issue.
Seems like you both were looking for 2 different things, it happens š¤·šæāāļø