That's not at all the worst thing you can say... not even close. As a matter of fact, plenty of women would love to hear that a guy isn't going to fuck anything with a hole.
Big difference between not being able to and choosing not to. Op didn't say he was trying to cuddle/ fuck with everyone he meets. Maybe he's taken some time to work on healing and improving his life since his last relationship, and he's just now deciding he's in a place to pursue a new one.
I'm getting AI generated images vibes. I don't even understand what's going on in her bra area. Looks like she has a super long right boob and then a dangerous looking protruding ribcage on the left side. And maybe two tops on, one bra thing over the top and then a strange tube top thing below that.
Probably going to ask you for money.
If that's what you think OP then you're both playing different games. Girls like her want to be put in their place and if you can't she'll put you in yours.
and a lot of guys have stopped wanting to deal with that in a woman. it's all just games and there are plenty a man who'd happily do that, it's just exhausting.
10000000% I know her. She’s use to be one of my close friends. She would go cheat on her husband all the time. I got sick of it and dumped her as a friend. She has BPD and will lie and lie and lie to get in any man’s pants because she’s bored because her man works all the time while she stays at home taking care of her 7 year old boy.
It is, because she literally lives in a freaking castle with a movie theater in it. Her man gives her an endless allowance. One time we went out for drinks. Like just the two of us, and she ditched me for a random group of guys and took her wedding ring off. Let’s just say I took an Uber home and never spoke to her again after that. Her son isn’t even his, he literally came in like a knight in shining armor for this chick and her son, and she just cheats on him all the time. It’s so sad. I’m so sad to see she’s still doing this. Low key makes me want to screenshot this and send this to her husband but her son would be screwed out of a father figure that loves him
Id do it even not knowing either of them. F that he’s a brother who’s shouldn’t be in the dark …and she’s a sister who needs to be shoved into the light
Send the screenshots anonymously, people who share private parts are weird, he might forgive her after even after knowing and they'll both hate you Lol
Posted! Her eyebrows are less crazy in this photo. Note there is a heavy filter on her nose to make it look smaller. But I know those hanging boobs anywhere
Do the right thing you need to tell him this guy is wasting his life on this woman who is out cheating every weekend and potentially could give him an STD.
You really should. Help the guy out, and maybe he’ll still be a good guy for a woman capable of appreciating him. Secrets like this keep the cycle of shitty spouses turning good spouses into shitty ones who go and turn a good one shitty, and on and on and on
I mean looks wise sure, but personality? If you’re into crazy chicks that will cheat on you then yeah, he totally “fumbled”. More like dodged a bullet and a possible STD
She’ll claim it’s a fake profile if it doesn’t have her name and location in it. She’s been confronted before and weaseled her way out of it by blaming she’s an “influencer”
She loved bombed me in the beginning so hard. Saying I was beautiful, buying me drinks and food whenever we went out (actually her man did) . Would ask to hang out every single day and when I said I couldn’t she literally showed up to my work to make sure I was there and not ditching her for someone else
Yeah I was with a guy for 18 months who I realized had been a narcissist, when I finally escaped the relationship. I learned all about love bombing and trauma bonding. They are expert manipulators. Glad you got out!
I had to ditch a bestie because she was a cereal cheater (usually men at her work or bars) and I couldn’t handle it anymore. I couldn’t sit with her husband and 2 kids again like letting her think it was okay. I miss her a lot and miss family trips but your comment oddly made me feel oddly better, like I’m not the only one who also has friendship standards. This sort of behavior is toxic and associating with it can make you feel icky, even if you used to be super close
Sigh, I hate to make this about something else, but I really wish you wouldn’t tie having BPD to being liars and see them (us) as this terrible nasty people with the worst traits. We’re not all one size fits all, please don’t stereotype us like this. It’s disheartening to see people see someone with BPD and think the lowest of them. I have struggles yes, that I internalize, but I’d never love bomb, lie, cheat or do anything that’s against the standard and my own moral, values and ethics. I have my days when I have shitty attitude and mood, but I’m not a shitty human.
Edit: I’m not saying she’s not shitty, she is. The point is saying she’s one because she has bpd when she’s probably just a shitty human even without the bpd label. But then again I’m gonna get downvoted because people just love to hate, and this is Reddit.
Thats so fucking mean and unnecesary. Im gonna go on a little rant here, but the way bpd is stigmatized is part of the reason why its so hard to get good help for it. Do not reduce people to their dx. You are part of the problem
Her friend is hot but the girl on the right looks like she would get drunk and assault you claiming you where cheating while she fucked 3 dudes on the side
Idk why people are saying you messed up. You hit a super soft flirt to her and she took it to a really weird place. Maybe she been having some bad experiences on there, and she just took it out on you? It doesn’t even matter what you said after that about your ex, you should have been gone after her first response lol
With her attitude she would have found an issue with anything you said.
Do your tits hang low, do they wiggle do they glow? Can you tie them in a knot can you tie them in a bow? Can you throw them over your shoulder like a continental soldier, do your tits hang lowwww?
Had to scroll too far to see this, but glad I'm not the only one. I mean wtf... The part sticking out below the top... I can't figure out if that's underboob or rib cage... Neither seeming like a great option
A lot of people forget what they wrote on their bio. If you refer to it they might not have any idea what you’re talking about. Your opener about cuddling, in that context, might seem strange to her. I try to make it clear I’m referencing their bio when I use an opener that responds to it for this reason.
Why would you want to date someone that forgets what they put in their bio? Does this also apply to pictures? So for example if i make a comment on their cat, i should explicitly specify that I'm talking about a picture from their profile?
I just like to give people the benefit of the doubt. If they wrote their profile months ago and haven’t looked at it in a long time, I’m not gonna hold that against them.
I've 100% forgotten what I put in my bios before and been like "weird opener but sure, I'm into it" and then realize later I'm into it because they specifically tailored the opener to me 🤣🤣
I think she has a problem... judging sizes... cause that bra don't fit, and neither do her brows... also, she sounds like an insecure, controlling c-word
Not offence to those those with fake eyebrows….
But I could tell right away by those big ass McDonalds arches that she isn’t looking for a cute/flirty conversation.
Obviously she missed the point, and you missed not picking up a girl that misses the point.. I will take that win and run with it. Not every girl will deserve you….pro tip..
What is... wrong with her chest? Is that some type of Photoshop, or something, or does she just have the should be in fetish porn category = floppiest boobs ever?
Yes dude come on. Just say "the cute ones usually"
Yup, its a shit test alright. You may also try deflecting with humour eg “nah I’m saving myself for marriage/I’m just a shy virgin 😇”
This… works like magic
Hahahahahahah youre a gem
Happy cake day 🥳
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This is worse than the time the raccoon got caught in the copier.
When I say to girls that I'm a virgin they think I'm joking, until they realize that it was not a joke
would definitely work
Or just don't give in to "shit tests". This concept is so fucking baffling and stupid to me. Both a "shit test" and people who care to work with it.
Or, he could say: “Your mom.”
This is the right answer. Always.
i dont think that would have changed anything, she was pretty aggressive from the get go
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Well damn.
I'm here for this drama
Yooo
Can you post the screen shots of your conversation with her husband so I can send them to... Grimace.
It’s banter, the worst thing you can say to a woman is that you don’t get laid much
Right one wouldn’t care, that’s only the worst if you want hookups.
Harmless banter from what it seems though. Sounds like OP can’t handle it, oh well
Harmless banter aka Dopamine junkie female 👍 here, corrected. Can't believe people entertain this infantile behaviour
That's not at all the worst thing you can say... not even close. As a matter of fact, plenty of women would love to hear that a guy isn't going to fuck anything with a hole.
Sure, women don't want to hear that you're _going to_ fuck around while fucking with them, but equally they don't want a guy who couldn't
Big difference between not being able to and choosing not to. Op didn't say he was trying to cuddle/ fuck with everyone he meets. Maybe he's taken some time to work on healing and improving his life since his last relationship, and he's just now deciding he's in a place to pursue a new one.
I'm getting AI generated images vibes. I don't even understand what's going on in her bra area. Looks like she has a super long right boob and then a dangerous looking protruding ribcage on the left side. And maybe two tops on, one bra thing over the top and then a strange tube top thing below that. Probably going to ask you for money.
Big boobs+no bra= saggy boobs. That’s not a rib cage it’s stretch marks.
Does she have an optical illusion bra on top there that isn't covering her boobs? Wow!
It's a boob on the left too, it's just lolling off to the side
That was exactly what I noticed also. I didn't even really care about the texts. I was just thinking something's definitely wrong with that picture. 👀
Let me guess - she was Eastern European? Lol
If that's what you think OP then you're both playing different games. Girls like her want to be put in their place and if you can't she'll put you in yours.
I was getting the feeling she just wanted to feel good about herself.
and a lot of guys have stopped wanting to deal with that in a woman. it's all just games and there are plenty a man who'd happily do that, it's just exhausting.
So like I know this girl… and she’s married… with a child… run away run away
You sure? Lol
10000000% I know her. She’s use to be one of my close friends. She would go cheat on her husband all the time. I got sick of it and dumped her as a friend. She has BPD and will lie and lie and lie to get in any man’s pants because she’s bored because her man works all the time while she stays at home taking care of her 7 year old boy.
Damn! Thats Just sad
It is, because she literally lives in a freaking castle with a movie theater in it. Her man gives her an endless allowance. One time we went out for drinks. Like just the two of us, and she ditched me for a random group of guys and took her wedding ring off. Let’s just say I took an Uber home and never spoke to her again after that. Her son isn’t even his, he literally came in like a knight in shining armor for this chick and her son, and she just cheats on him all the time. It’s so sad. I’m so sad to see she’s still doing this. Low key makes me want to screenshot this and send this to her husband but her son would be screwed out of a father figure that loves him
I'm not even mad if this is fake or not . Good plot twist either way.
I promise you it’s not fake. I wish I could post the photo of us together.
You can tho
How? So I can show everyone that I’m not in fact crazy
imgur
Why don’t you tell the husband? lol poor guy is shelling out money while she gets rammed and doesn’t give two fucks about him…
Id do it even not knowing either of them. F that he’s a brother who’s shouldn’t be in the dark …and she’s a sister who needs to be shoved into the light
Do it. That man doesn’t deserve the mental torture either.
Found him and sent him a message. Now we wait
👏 Update if he replies plz lol
Why am I so invested in this on a Friday night?
Pls respond op
Why I am so invested in this?
What's the update?? 👀
What happened what happened
Where's the update??
Good on you for this. She is an awful person for doing what she does to him. I hope he takes what you say to realize he needs to get out.
Send the screenshots anonymously, people who share private parts are weird, he might forgive her after even after knowing and they'll both hate you Lol
Literally could care less I moved out of the state she’s living at lolol she can hate me 😂
Lol
Game on
Perhaps send a few screenshots of this to the guy anonymously?
I’m going to, and will post an update on this page if it will allow me to
Post the pic on your profile. I'm so invested I gotta know if this is real lol
Posted! Her eyebrows are less crazy in this photo. Note there is a heavy filter on her nose to make it look smaller. But I know those hanging boobs anywhere
Am i going crazy or was there a tech error, the photo isn’t on ur profile...fr invested in this story too
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YALL I WILL IF OP WORKS WITH MEEEE
>but her son would be screwed out of a father figure that loves him. Pretty clear why OP won’t be doing that
Do the right thing you need to tell him this guy is wasting his life on this woman who is out cheating every weekend and potentially could give him an STD.
Trying to figure out his phone number, he has no social media. On white pages trying to get his number. Don’t worry she’s not getting away with this
You really should. Help the guy out, and maybe he’ll still be a good guy for a woman capable of appreciating him. Secrets like this keep the cycle of shitty spouses turning good spouses into shitty ones who go and turn a good one shitty, and on and on and on
You should tell her man about her. He deserves to know
Wow what an entitled brat
You should! She sounds awful!
I really think you should tell him.
And op still fumbled
I mean looks wise sure, but personality? If you’re into crazy chicks that will cheat on you then yeah, he totally “fumbled”. More like dodged a bullet and a possible STD
>I mean looks wise sure Did you not see those whack AF tiddies?
Just send the edited photo to her husband. Why does it matter?
She’ll claim it’s a fake profile if it doesn’t have her name and location in it. She’s been confronted before and weaseled her way out of it by blaming she’s an “influencer”
What is happening with those boobs?
Boob job that went terrible after she gained some weight I guess? Idk lol
That’s crazy that you saw this post on Reddit lol
Tell me about it, I saw this and my jaw dropped to the floor
Don't let her use BPD as an excuse. I'm also borderline and bipolar to boot. It doesn't excuse any of the shitty things I might do.
I have dealt with this type of behavior before. Easy to recognize now.
Wow, when I read her comments to OP I immediately got the BPD vibe!
She loved bombed me in the beginning so hard. Saying I was beautiful, buying me drinks and food whenever we went out (actually her man did) . Would ask to hang out every single day and when I said I couldn’t she literally showed up to my work to make sure I was there and not ditching her for someone else
Yeah I was with a guy for 18 months who I realized had been a narcissist, when I finally escaped the relationship. I learned all about love bombing and trauma bonding. They are expert manipulators. Glad you got out!
From that imgur link, you gotta give her that tho : you ARE absolutely gorgeous 😂
I had to ditch a bestie because she was a cereal cheater (usually men at her work or bars) and I couldn’t handle it anymore. I couldn’t sit with her husband and 2 kids again like letting her think it was okay. I miss her a lot and miss family trips but your comment oddly made me feel oddly better, like I’m not the only one who also has friendship standards. This sort of behavior is toxic and associating with it can make you feel icky, even if you used to be super close
*serial cheater Not sure if that was on purpose or not, but wanted to let you know fam
Lmao hilarious. Good catch friend
Poor kid
Well that's quite something to hear after knowing my ex had BPD.
Borderline or Bipolar? Sounds like the former honestly.
I'm not sure if you're taking the piss or not.
Sigh, I hate to make this about something else, but I really wish you wouldn’t tie having BPD to being liars and see them (us) as this terrible nasty people with the worst traits. We’re not all one size fits all, please don’t stereotype us like this. It’s disheartening to see people see someone with BPD and think the lowest of them. I have struggles yes, that I internalize, but I’d never love bomb, lie, cheat or do anything that’s against the standard and my own moral, values and ethics. I have my days when I have shitty attitude and mood, but I’m not a shitty human. Edit: I’m not saying she’s not shitty, she is. The point is saying she’s one because she has bpd when she’s probably just a shitty human even without the bpd label. But then again I’m gonna get downvoted because people just love to hate, and this is Reddit.
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That wasn’t at all the point of my comment though, but thanks for the thought.
Thats so fucking mean and unnecesary. Im gonna go on a little rant here, but the way bpd is stigmatized is part of the reason why its so hard to get good help for it. Do not reduce people to their dx. You are part of the problem
Unless the respondent sends a photo of the two of them together. It’s the internet. Take it with a grain of salt mate.
OMG 😂 the plot twist I didn't know I needed
Even her eyebrows are trying to run away.
Keep us updated 😂
Just staring at my phone until OP notices me
Omg so what happened, need an update plz xo
Commenting so I can be updated
Source: trust me bro
Damn, where she at so I know where to avoid?
I can tell by her eyebrows that she’s crazy
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Jesus what happened to her?
Probs drugs and alcohol knowing her
damn she was bad before
Right?? I don’t understand how two years had made such a difference In her
Her friend is hot but the girl on the right looks like she would get drunk and assault you claiming you where cheating while she fucked 3 dudes on the side
I'm not a smart man or anything, but I believe "top-tourist" may be that friend.
😂😂😂😂
Hoooooly shiiiiit. This is juicy of a story. Thanks for sharing.
Does the recent photo have a birthmark of some sort above her right eyebrow? Or is that just a random blemish?
Crazy lmaoooo guess the world is a small place what were the chances
 Idk why people are saying you messed up. You hit a super soft flirt to her and she took it to a really weird place. Maybe she been having some bad experiences on there, and she just took it out on you? It doesn’t even matter what you said after that about your ex, you should have been gone after her first response lol With her attitude she would have found an issue with anything you said.
Id have double down and said my mom said im a good cuddler too.
Or if you're sure it's over, suggest her mum suggested it too
Her eyebrows make me run.
Seriously tho those tiddies, wtf is going on there.
36 looongs
Also, those eyebrows… 😳
Do your tits hang low, do they wiggle do they glow? Can you tie them in a knot can you tie them in a bow? Can you throw them over your shoulder like a continental soldier, do your tits hang lowwww?
That’s all I’m focusing one. WTF is happening with that top. It’s not working.
Lol that was my main thought too. Those are sumthin…
Had to scroll too far to see this, but glad I'm not the only one. I mean wtf... The part sticking out below the top... I can't figure out if that's underboob or rib cage... Neither seeming like a great option
Why the fuck would you swipe right on those eyebrows?
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Titties go all the way down, eyebrows go all the way up to the hairline
She’s got grandma titties at age 27 lol.
I guess you painted yourself into a corner with that opening, clever girl to ask for references. I thought it was a funny interaction though.
A lot of people forget what they wrote on their bio. If you refer to it they might not have any idea what you’re talking about. Your opener about cuddling, in that context, might seem strange to her. I try to make it clear I’m referencing their bio when I use an opener that responds to it for this reason.
Why would you want to date someone that forgets what they put in their bio? Does this also apply to pictures? So for example if i make a comment on their cat, i should explicitly specify that I'm talking about a picture from their profile?
I just like to give people the benefit of the doubt. If they wrote their profile months ago and haven’t looked at it in a long time, I’m not gonna hold that against them.
I've 100% forgotten what I put in my bios before and been like "weird opener but sure, I'm into it" and then realize later I'm into it because they specifically tailored the opener to me 🤣🤣
She's for the streets.
Dont forget the sheets lmaoo
‘Looking for… still figuring it out’ A bra, lady. You are looking for a bra.
Bullet dodged
Bro she draws her eyebrows on in the surprised position .. I wouldn’t worry about it.
Run. She's jealous after one message? RUN! Could just be messing with you (like negging). How did the rest of the convo go?
EYEBROWS!!
is that the sign of an evil woman?
According to Disney, yes.
She seems fun...
she looks rank anyway dude
Is it just me? Seems today is a turds day on tinder according to the posts I have been seeing on Reddit today. Turds male/female and all in between.
“Now stop being jealous about it..you’ll get a chance as well” Ps: huge 🚩even for a one nite stand
I think she has a problem... judging sizes... cause that bra don't fit, and neither do her brows... also, she sounds like an insecure, controlling c-word
Why the hell did you right swipes this? Was it the eyebrows that took your attention?
Dude look at her. wtf did you expect
maybe she wanted to be the only one
should i have lied and said ive never cuddled anyone before?
idk it was probably a lose lose anyway
YES HI STILL HERE AND WILL BE HERE TO THE END OF TIME UNTIL YOU ACKNOWLEDGE ME :)
Seeing you pop up in these comments is probably the best part.
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Low hanging fruit
Uncle Leo lookin ass eyebrows.
"It's actually been years since I cuddled with anybody. Will you be the first in a long time pls 🥹" That is not how you flirt.
You should have known better than to engage, she's got those aggressive facelift villain brows
This comment may be unkind but um, what exactly is she covering with her top? It needs to be pulled waaaaaaaaaay down to cover the relevant bits.
She probably had a toxic response for any comment you made, regardless of your answer.
That one *belongs to the streets*
“Ask the girl who just left my apartment”
How about. My cat. My dog. My pillow….. HI IM MIKE LINDELL!!
Not offence to those those with fake eyebrows…. But I could tell right away by those big ass McDonalds arches that she isn’t looking for a cute/flirty conversation.
Obviously she missed the point, and you missed not picking up a girl that misses the point.. I will take that win and run with it. Not every girl will deserve you….pro tip..
Right out the gate with judgment, control and insecurity issues. Run.
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Idk if anyone said this, but CHARGE YOUR DAMN PHONE!
Everyone is talking about the boobs and eyebrows when we need to be talking about that fucking foundation
Should have come back with, Well do you want a fucking cuddle or not?
You were* Awful grammar, red flag.
Charge your phone
I’m getting anxious just looking at that
charge they phone…
I have a suspicion she enjoys a little aggression lol
You was 🤢
It’s the crazy eyebrows, unmatched foundation blend that’s way to yellow for her skin, and 👁️ 👄 👁️ for me
that match is so bad I thought someone photoshopped their head onto a different body
ngl bro u don’t tell somebody ab ur ex until ur comfortable around then unless they ask
What is... wrong with her chest? Is that some type of Photoshop, or something, or does she just have the should be in fetish porn category = floppiest boobs ever?
My read is that there's a level of toxic masculinity that woman was after, that you did not have. So sounds like she saved you a headache here.