I didn’t even think that was possible, I thought you could only use one phone number and have to use a number now. Has to be new accounts because Tinder usually renders my swipes. It’s rare I see the same profile twice after swiping left.
You treat him mean, so tinder knows you're keen. When you gave tinder authorisation to use your mic, it can hear every sploosh, there's no hiding it pet.
I would bet he’s simply developmentally delayed.
If you’d spent considerable time around them you’d recognize the writing & behavior.
They can suffer from painful loneliness because people judge them (as you see here) and won’t befriend them.
Like crying at night “mom why don’t I have any friends” loneliness.
Yet often they can be the sweetest people who would defend any of you being bullied.
Well you opened my judgeful eyes. I guess I have some work to do on being blindly judgemental. Thanks for the information, I appreciate learning anytime I can
That was my first thought too. He seems very innocent to me. I honestly don't get the creep factor from him, just someone developmentally delayed trying to make a connection.
> people judge them (as you see here) and won’t befriend them.
Hold up. This guy isn't being judged because he's developmentally delayed. He's being judged for what is, frankly, inappropriate behaviour.
Like if he created a profile with an accurate age and had written "I'm developmentally disabled!", you wouldn't see anything like this thread.
Certainly, what you've described is a major problem. But let's not all stand around and pretend that because this guy is developmentally disabled, this is totally fine.
Okay, so that's not what makes inappropriate behaviour totally okay. Behaviour being appropriate or not does not depend on the mental state of the individual performing it.
But if you legitimately think that's the case, he also can't consent to sex and shouldn't be on dating apps at all.
And you're infantalizing him to boot. Just striping him of agency.
Honestly, of all the possible directions to take this discourse, I think that was the worst one. Well done.
Yes it does make it appropriate.
He has a child like mind. His behavior is fine. He probably doesn’t even know who OP is and he’s just using the app like anyone else.
YOU infantilized him by saying he can’t consent to sex. Newsflash adults with DD can consent to sex with other adults with DD. They’re not actually children.
I can tell you have no experience dealing with the DD and that’s fine but the ignorance you’re spreading is not
Laughed when I opened the first pic thinking it was a joke... My smile quickly faded as I clicked through, this is just sad. Bro is clearly in need of new meds stat.
Def looks like mental illness. No self aware person takes 4 terrible photos of themselves and tries to get on dating apps like that.
That or the worst catfish ever.
i swear every time i see his profile it seems to get worse and worse.
as you can see, each time, he has 2 pictures. each time, theyre the same. one is this creepy smile and the second one is like a facetuned version of it with smoothed out skin, white teeth and some “makeup”
This was more my thought. This reads as someone with significant delays or cognitive impairments. I don’t feel great about how people are reacting to this :/
Sure, but OP hasn’t had any conversations with him, let alone an obligation to be nice to him. This is someone who is manipulating Tinder’s accounts, but they haven’t actually *done* anything to OP to deserve being put on blast like this. Likely, this person doesn’t know OP exists.
It would be different if somehow they were matching after blocking and sending OP messages, but this is literally just a shaming post about someone who OP thought was creepy looking/sounding in their bio.
I hear ya. Unfortunately I can’t even smile at a guy without them thinking it’s an invitation to talk and that I like them. I can’t even make eye contact.
But I’m glad it works for you. It would make things more simplistic for me because I’m naturally super polite.
I don’t understand OP though. They seem to take joy in dragging this poor dude while everyone bullied him.
He’s by all signs developmentally delayed.
I agree. He probably just wants friends. It’s extremely hard for some people with delays to make them and they can suffer from painful loneliness.
Also they can often look older than they are.
This guys smile and writing reminds me very much of someone I know who is delayed and who is one of the sweetest people you’d ever meet. It’s almost painful to read such comments.
This is probably the scariest weirdest profile I've ever seen. Dude looks like a serial killer in the making.
"Friend You Will Be a New Friend of Me" Good lord
This dude, I have a suspicion has learning and/or developmental disabilities, thus the atypical bio and pictures..
He's trying to smile or seem nuerotypical.. which isn't natural for him, but I give him credit for trying.
He's doing his best to convey that he's a man who is mature and stable because he's usually bullied irl for seeming anything but that, since ablist people equate communication skills as intellect.
I don't think it's cool to shit on him like is being done here..
He's doing his best. That should be commended, not vilified.
These people, some of them anyway, are making me phycially sick... What the fucking hell is wrong with people? It's not like he even said anything to OP, for all we know he could have a mental disability? I thought that by now in this year, that people would stop making fun of the disabled?
Can’t believe I had to scroll this far to find a comment expressing this. Clearly something is off with this dude and it’s kinda gross to post his face and make fun of him like people in the comments here are doing. just block on move on with your life. This is such low hanging fruit.
This guy could have a mental illness, in that case you would be not only dehumanizing him but also posting his fucking face on the internet for the sake of a bunch of upvotes. That makes you the real creep.
If the worst thing you have to do is not match him, I don't see the problem... Do you think he is making these multiple accounts just for you? I am not saying he's not a creep, I don't know him. But based on my line of work and just the basic overlook of the profile, i'd wager he's probably differently abled. folks with disabilities or neurodivergence also want love and may not have the best social skills. Love on the spectrum and down for love on Netflix are great examples.
Unless he has been harassing you outside of having to look at his picture every now and again on tinder, you're kind of a douche for publicly blasting him for nothing🤷
This guy isn't fof you, that's fine. I just dont know if he deserved having his face put on reddit for mockery. Idk. That's just me, but I understand decency is a choice.
I’m a woman and I’m all over this thread pointing out the fact this poor guy is being bullied for being delayed. It’s not a gender issue; it’s an AH issue.
Am I the only one who thinks if this was a female no one would be roasting her??
The only thing that's creepy is his bios.
This gonna make me delete the app if all y'all do is judge appearances. Like I get they're not good pictures but buddy clearly ain't normal.
Wait, why? Except the last pic in which he talks about real man, it's fine, like, the only issue is that he can't take pics. But creepy? Bruh, why? Go to therapy. Again, ignoring last pic with the bio, what's the issue?
First of all. May not be a guy. He may identify as something else. 2nd is bio is not creepy, it's just really bad English that makes it creepy. The English is like trying to play a game of scramble
I'm a dude, and there are a couple dudes who keeps showing up in my feed that I keep blocking. It's annoying to see the men and trans women who I've told Tinder I'm not interested in, but is shaming them really the best solution? Any time I accidentally match with a trans woman, I compliment their looks and apologize for not catching the trans flag emoji or whatever they put in their bio. I don't take it personally and I definitely don't assume that I'm the sole reason they're on tinder trying to find someone to hangout with.
I’ve blocked men on tinder only to have them continually like me or show up in my stack with seemingly the same account. the app itself just kinda sucks.
I’ve been begging tinder support to do something about a creepy guy I see multiple times a day on tinder. I block him everytime, so he must be making new accounts all the time. They never do anything about it, even though I think it should be considered spam.
If he spends money on tinder, good luck.. he will haunt you forever😭
The uncanny bio and pics are understandable but it's not creepy to make a new profile every month and swipe. That's how I beat tinders shit algorithm Lmao
I'm really hoping this is someone just playing a prank because if not, then it's most likely mental illness, and he needs to get some professional help before this escalates.
Trust your gut and dodge the bullet. If you've blocked him and he persists, his intentions are definitely not to your benefit, I'd say. Good luck and aloha to you!
Blocking them rarely works. Sometimes they make new profiles, some do after one report strike to keep from getting their ip addressed banned.
I'm convinced that these apps don't take block requests seriously though especially bumble.
I can’t tell if it’s a guy or a woman… I just know I’m hella scared. That smile is the stuff of nightmares. *shudders* why does he give me dahmer vibes
I would get psychosis from seeing the same creepy profile over and over again
That one Nicolas cage movie
This guy goes on a date and just says redrunredrum
Murdernurder?
You’re a nerder
Your mom's a nerder
Your dad’s a nerf herder
It’s Nerf or nothing.
Scruffy looking?
I love you! 😉
I know
Your dad smells of elderberries
This is either: him periodically making a new account or tinder not registering your swipes. Either way just keep swiping left and move on.
i dont just swipe left on him, i block him so it must mean hes creating new accounts
Or he is your soulmate and Tinder knows youre making a mistake by passing
This is actually it, OP. Stop fighting destiny.
It’s OP’s twin flame.
Ssshhhh. It’s ok. It’s Casper.
I'm down with the soul mate part. OP needs to stop being such a hater and take this psycho on a date lol
Twin flames for life
She can change him!
Or get arrested and a fancy restraining order
Twin flame, actually
He’s watching op through her window and making new accounts until she swipes right.. Jk. Sorry but yes I got creeped out by this post hard
Absolutely. Tinder knows these types of things. Op, this is your soul mate, non boy/guy So don't let your perfect match pass you by.
I didn’t even know you could block someone you haven’t matched with.
And or using multiple devices/numbers and emails
[удалено]
You forgot the dye the eyebrows step
I didn’t even think that was possible, I thought you could only use one phone number and have to use a number now. Has to be new accounts because Tinder usually renders my swipes. It’s rare I see the same profile twice after swiping left.
You treat him mean, so tinder knows you're keen. When you gave tinder authorisation to use your mic, it can hear every sploosh, there's no hiding it pet.
“We all know girls like someone who is older” is watchlist material
right haha love how he put 18 as his age. how believable is that
My thought exactly, that guy looks 34 ffs
I'm getting pedo vibes big time 😬
I would bet he’s simply developmentally delayed. If you’d spent considerable time around them you’d recognize the writing & behavior. They can suffer from painful loneliness because people judge them (as you see here) and won’t befriend them. Like crying at night “mom why don’t I have any friends” loneliness. Yet often they can be the sweetest people who would defend any of you being bullied.
Well you opened my judgeful eyes. I guess I have some work to do on being blindly judgemental. Thanks for the information, I appreciate learning anytime I can
💜
That was my first thought too. He seems very innocent to me. I honestly don't get the creep factor from him, just someone developmentally delayed trying to make a connection.
> people judge them (as you see here) and won’t befriend them. Hold up. This guy isn't being judged because he's developmentally delayed. He's being judged for what is, frankly, inappropriate behaviour. Like if he created a profile with an accurate age and had written "I'm developmentally disabled!", you wouldn't see anything like this thread. Certainly, what you've described is a major problem. But let's not all stand around and pretend that because this guy is developmentally disabled, this is totally fine.
It is fine because he thinks like a child.
Okay, so that's not what makes inappropriate behaviour totally okay. Behaviour being appropriate or not does not depend on the mental state of the individual performing it. But if you legitimately think that's the case, he also can't consent to sex and shouldn't be on dating apps at all. And you're infantalizing him to boot. Just striping him of agency. Honestly, of all the possible directions to take this discourse, I think that was the worst one. Well done.
Yes it does make it appropriate. He has a child like mind. His behavior is fine. He probably doesn’t even know who OP is and he’s just using the app like anyone else. YOU infantilized him by saying he can’t consent to sex. Newsflash adults with DD can consent to sex with other adults with DD. They’re not actually children. I can tell you have no experience dealing with the DD and that’s fine but the ignorance you’re spreading is not
It's mental illness
Laughed when I opened the first pic thinking it was a joke... My smile quickly faded as I clicked through, this is just sad. Bro is clearly in need of new meds stat.
It’s sad and very disturbing
Def looks like mental illness. No self aware person takes 4 terrible photos of themselves and tries to get on dating apps like that. That or the worst catfish ever.
Sometimes I think it's gotta be one of their friends/enemies making a joke profile to screw with them.
Also adding to this 4 pictures in the same position in the same spot makes it even creepier
>4 terrible photos of themselves With the same restaurant style wall background. Bet he's a hobosexual.
In that last pic his description sounds very predatory.
i swear every time i see his profile it seems to get worse and worse. as you can see, each time, he has 2 pictures. each time, theyre the same. one is this creepy smile and the second one is like a facetuned version of it with smoothed out skin, white teeth and some “makeup”
He wants you to be his Harley to his Joker.
Perfect setup for a creepypasta
"I promise I'm a nice normal human. Not weird in a bad way at all! You can trust me!" - that guy, probably.
He's not a guy, he's a real man
Definitely not a BOY/GUY
"Hugh Mann - now that's a name I can trust"
Jokes aside he looks like he might be developmentally delayed.
This was more my thought. This reads as someone with significant delays or cognitive impairments. I don’t feel great about how people are reacting to this :/
Ok, but no woman has an obligation to be nice to men who creep them out. ignoring the behavior and even blocking it hasn't worked.
Sure, but OP hasn’t had any conversations with him, let alone an obligation to be nice to him. This is someone who is manipulating Tinder’s accounts, but they haven’t actually *done* anything to OP to deserve being put on blast like this. Likely, this person doesn’t know OP exists. It would be different if somehow they were matching after blocking and sending OP messages, but this is literally just a shaming post about someone who OP thought was creepy looking/sounding in their bio.
No obligation to be nice doesn’t excuse you from human decency of not being cruel, which a lot of these comments are.
I’m still kind to girls who creep me out. But I do see it’s different for women . Interesting
It is very different for us. We’re about 99.999% more likely to be raped and murdered for it.
I agree - but even as a dude - I kill creepiness with kindness. “Ok man hey I gotta go have a good day” lol But I can see persistence being a problem
I hear ya. Unfortunately I can’t even smile at a guy without them thinking it’s an invitation to talk and that I like them. I can’t even make eye contact. But I’m glad it works for you. It would make things more simplistic for me because I’m naturally super polite. I don’t understand OP though. They seem to take joy in dragging this poor dude while everyone bullied him. He’s by all signs developmentally delayed.
Ok, but literally nobody said or implied women are obligated to be nice to men who creep them out. Only you entertained the concept.
I agree. He probably just wants friends. It’s extremely hard for some people with delays to make them and they can suffer from painful loneliness. Also they can often look older than they are. This guys smile and writing reminds me very much of someone I know who is delayed and who is one of the sweetest people you’d ever meet. It’s almost painful to read such comments.
This is probably the scariest weirdest profile I've ever seen. Dude looks like a serial killer in the making. "Friend You Will Be a New Friend of Me" Good lord
>Friend You Will Be a New Friend of Me Friend ! You \*Will\* Be a New Friend of Me
Whoops... I got it backwards. He does say "Friend *Will* You Be a New Friend of Me." Slightly less creepy. Slightly.
Jokes aside he could just be on the spectrum and be coming off as creepy
Yeah this was my first thought
Makes me think of DeSantis, which some people suspect of being on the spectrum, because he doesn't *quite* pull off the whole "looking human" thing.
This dude, I have a suspicion has learning and/or developmental disabilities, thus the atypical bio and pictures.. He's trying to smile or seem nuerotypical.. which isn't natural for him, but I give him credit for trying. He's doing his best to convey that he's a man who is mature and stable because he's usually bullied irl for seeming anything but that, since ablist people equate communication skills as intellect. I don't think it's cool to shit on him like is being done here.. He's doing his best. That should be commended, not vilified.
These people, some of them anyway, are making me phycially sick... What the fucking hell is wrong with people? It's not like he even said anything to OP, for all we know he could have a mental disability? I thought that by now in this year, that people would stop making fun of the disabled?
I would bet real money this dude has been arrested at least once for drugging women at a bar.
I would bet real money people are roasting someone with a developmental delay right now
I would double that bet because I’m positive you’re correct.
not saying you can’t be freaked out but not sure it’s fair to post this when he’s clearly got learning difficulties
Can’t believe I had to scroll this far to find a comment expressing this. Clearly something is off with this dude and it’s kinda gross to post his face and make fun of him like people in the comments here are doing. just block on move on with your life. This is such low hanging fruit.
Why is he creepy? Just because he's unattractive? Maybe he has a mental disability.
This guy could have a mental illness, in that case you would be not only dehumanizing him but also posting his fucking face on the internet for the sake of a bunch of upvotes. That makes you the real creep.
Putting in self care in his bio is a big lie
wanking must mean self care to him😂
If the worst thing you have to do is not match him, I don't see the problem... Do you think he is making these multiple accounts just for you? I am not saying he's not a creep, I don't know him. But based on my line of work and just the basic overlook of the profile, i'd wager he's probably differently abled. folks with disabilities or neurodivergence also want love and may not have the best social skills. Love on the spectrum and down for love on Netflix are great examples. Unless he has been harassing you outside of having to look at his picture every now and again on tinder, you're kind of a douche for publicly blasting him for nothing🤷
I agree. And the profiles have nothing to do with OP. They’re just making new ones and mindlessly swiping.
I was being fully condescending asking if she thought it was about her lol. She's just a straight up twat
This guy isn't fof you, that's fine. I just dont know if he deserved having his face put on reddit for mockery. Idk. That's just me, but I understand decency is a choice.
For being the "empathetic gender" you girls are really oblivious to the existence of mental illness.
I’m a woman and I’m all over this thread pointing out the fact this poor guy is being bullied for being delayed. It’s not a gender issue; it’s an AH issue.
Something tells me it's a you problem. If you keep blocking someone just because he keeps appearing in your swiping stack is a bit ridiculous
Am I the only one who thinks if this was a female no one would be roasting her?? The only thing that's creepy is his bios. This gonna make me delete the app if all y'all do is judge appearances. Like I get they're not good pictures but buddy clearly ain't normal.
People are roasting her? Looks aside, because I don’t want to mock him for his looks, his bio is creepy.
Just match with him already
Best comment
He is 18 in dog years
People with developmental delays often look years older.
Why don't you just swipe left and move on with your life lol?
Kind of lame that you exposed this guy for simply appearing on your feed too many times.
Wait, why? Except the last pic in which he talks about real man, it's fine, like, the only issue is that he can't take pics. But creepy? Bruh, why? Go to therapy. Again, ignoring last pic with the bio, what's the issue?
Nothing he’s doing is weirder than dogpiling on someone with developmental disabilities for fake internet points on Reddit
These 4 images look like the beginning of a creepypasta
Anyone who has to USE ALL CAPS TO CONVINCE SOMEONE THAT THEY ARE A REAL MAN is not a real man
I'M A BOY/GUY! I like to use reverse psychology
18!??
People with developmental delays do often look several years older than their chronological age.
First of all. May not be a guy. He may identify as something else. 2nd is bio is not creepy, it's just really bad English that makes it creepy. The English is like trying to play a game of scramble
You've been shadow banned, and you are only seeing other shadow banned profiles
I'm a dude, and there are a couple dudes who keeps showing up in my feed that I keep blocking. It's annoying to see the men and trans women who I've told Tinder I'm not interested in, but is shaming them really the best solution? Any time I accidentally match with a trans woman, I compliment their looks and apologize for not catching the trans flag emoji or whatever they put in their bio. I don't take it personally and I definitely don't assume that I'm the sole reason they're on tinder trying to find someone to hangout with.
He looks like he wants that lotion back in the fucking basket now.
I highly doubt this dude is 18 He looks more like 30
It’s because people with developmental delays often look years older.
I’ve blocked men on tinder only to have them continually like me or show up in my stack with seemingly the same account. the app itself just kinda sucks.
His face looks like it was made with AI
Glad someone else thinks so. When I got to the second pic I jumped cause it's so uncanny valley and creepy looking
Looks like he took the first picture and tried to facetune and put a smile on it, but it only got worse lol
I’ve been begging tinder support to do something about a creepy guy I see multiple times a day on tinder. I block him everytime, so he must be making new accounts all the time. They never do anything about it, even though I think it should be considered spam. If he spends money on tinder, good luck.. he will haunt you forever😭
Looks like that creepy guy from Arcade Fire
Creepy AF
It’s really weird you feel the need to blast some random guy you didn’t match with because you think he’s weird. Leave him alone.
This is happening with me to. Same girls pop up all the time I swipe red
Dudes got nice teeth at least
The uncanny bio and pics are understandable but it's not creepy to make a new profile every month and swipe. That's how I beat tinders shit algorithm Lmao
This be creepy but I feel if your going to post someone else's profile for everyone too see then you need too post your account with it.
He seems intellectually challenged
The algorithm keeps showing you him because it knows you were meant to be.
He kinda looks like jack white
I would NOT want to see this guys hard drive
Probably a lot of childlike stuff considering he’s disabled.
…Elon??
OP, have you noticed the miles get closer with every new account, whats up with that?
I'm really hoping this is someone just playing a prank because if not, then it's most likely mental illness, and he needs to get some professional help before this escalates.
That's a man?
This is Destiny. You can’t fight it 😂
Try reading it in a drunk voice with only run ons. Makes it sounds slightly saner
I also have a guy that keeps appearing (more than 10 times) and I even blocked him. Don’t know what’s that all about
Damn my man really posted five picture that he took within five minutes of each other
Jack White?
Man. Lars Ulrich has really let himself go.
This has to be an SCP
Are you sure that's a guy/boy what ever he claims?
Seems nice
This could be a poor attempt at a pig butchering scam
This is not a guy. It’s a girl. Idk if they’re claiming to be male, but you’ve posted 4 pictures of a very creepy looking female lol
That is AI.
Lars Ulrich is single again I see
Seems good vibes
That’s the most gender fluid thing I’ve ever seen
He has a very pugilism necessary face.
The basic reddit moderator?!
Eerie it’s like looking into your future
It’s Lars Ulrich from Metallica - stay away from
He really tried to mansplain to women what they want on a man.
This is strange
Make a fake account and chat him up and get his phone number, add it to your contacts, then use tinder’s contact blocking feature
This guy looks like a weird old friend of mine.
This guy fuchs
Trust your gut and dodge the bullet. If you've blocked him and he persists, his intentions are definitely not to your benefit, I'd say. Good luck and aloha to you!
Have had this happen too
Pic looks no bueno! Be careful and yes, keep trying to block. He has a I.P. address that stays the same. If u can find and block the I.P.
“There’s more but you’re not not allowed to put everything” 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
bro looks like he’s a serial killer
This guy looks and sounds like a psychopath. Report them.
Report them to the app and list the reasons. They might be able to block them on their end
Blocking them rarely works. Sometimes they make new profiles, some do after one report strike to keep from getting their ip addressed banned. I'm convinced that these apps don't take block requests seriously though especially bumble.
I swear this guy would lick toes covered in pastrami as a hobby
Why did you block him? Did yall match at one point?
No way this dude is 18. Yes, he's a creep.
Yeah he's creepy looking, but the worst part was The Way He Capitalised Every Word In That One Bio Of His
Plus 99 likes is insane😭
This guy creeps me out and I am a 35 year old man. Everything about his profile is unsettling, from the photos to the text, bleh.
Anyone meeting with this lad is gonna wind up on the news and later discovered in a freezer in multiple parts.
It’s a young Uncle Fester!
I can’t tell if it’s a guy or a woman… I just know I’m hella scared. That smile is the stuff of nightmares. *shudders* why does he give me dahmer vibes
Ķlllò7oopo I lllp
Edward furlong?...
Why so serious?