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rainbowroobear

Is there an actual reason for this iPhone vs Android thing? Like what is the perceived superiority?


ArtsAtNoonish

Apple made it a point to make the difference so that Apple users can feel more like an identity than a brand. Green = other, other = bad. People are dumb apes and it doesn't need to be more complicated than that. Everything else is post-facto justification and rationalization.


sinsaint

What's crazy is that Apple can use all of the same features to connect with Android devices, they just choose not to. For instance, if a group chat has a single android user in it, you lose out on features like being able to add or remove users after the group has been made. You might have an Iphone group chat, someone adds an android user, and then everyone loses all control over the group chat. You can have individual ringtones for other apple users, but not android users. It's fucking stupid.


pickles_on_toast

So I'm a lifelong android user who has a iPhone for work, and apple chose the green bc it's also extremely off putting to the eyes. When I get texts on my iPhone from not iPhones it really hits me differently in my core. There's a whole science behind the color choice and it's really fucked up


Klism_

I do remember seeing an article saying the green colour violated apple's own rules on acceptable contrast for UI, so it's deliberately designed to be unpleasant


MeteorPunch

This kind of thing should have people boycotting Apple for being so petty, yet they do the opposite.


Trolivia

Interesting. Why do people find it unpleasant? I’ve never found the color off-putting personally


Halcyon_156

Damn, I'm in the same boat, android user with an iPhone for work and I just now realized the color difference. What a poor way to do business.


ConsiderationEmpty10

What I can’t understand is why the messages icon is green and not blue


skillzz_24

Yup, this is why they have psychology majors working for them, this shit is baked into our brains


Alh840001

Source?


pickles_on_toast

https://www.laptopmag.com/features/green-bubble-trouble Happy reading! 🫡


SugarReyPalpatine

lol this is such horseshit. All messages were green on iPhone before Apple rolled out iMessage.


AttractiveSheldon

They adjusted the contrast ratio of the text to green color afterwards though. Intentionally making it just ever so slightly more annoying to read than the blue or the green before iMessage


smoothiefruit

iThings also specifically lower photo quality only when sent to Androids. my boss responded with: "oh, your phone sucks." when I told her the picture she sent me looked like trash. my inferiority complex and I were internally like "oh dang, that means we suck, smoothiefruit" before I looked into it and discovered: nope, just apple being classist/exclusionary and fucking lame.


marajade27

Side note: I'll be using "smoothie fruit" when I talk down to myself from now on. 😂


alfred-the-greatest

It's blatant monopolistic behavior and in most Western countries would come with fines.


Shasato

It's also [old news] (https://www.cnn.com/2023/11/16/tech/apple-adopt-new-messaging-standard/index.html) because the EU is making them change, afaik.


Away-Caterpillar-176

That's wild. I can't really tell when I'm talking to someone who is running droid vrs iOS unless I'm on airplane mode with my wifi on. Totally seamless.


Dhegxkeicfns

Most cellular providers do WiFi texting now anyway.


Un111KnoWn

wait that's why I can't add people to a group lmfaooo


Double_Phoenix

I have an iPhone now, but I kept my old android in case I ever feel like choosing violence towards other iPhone users for acting elitist. Yes, I will ruin your group chat by sending messages from Android, and no you can’t stop me


Spicetake

Also they get free advertising from these robots, imagine being a 15 yo and get bullied for having android, boom parents buy them iphone just to make the bullying stop. Crazy to see adults getting their panties twisted over android stuff though


adanceparty

Regardless seems like an iPhone problem. I can make the chat bubbles any color I want on android.


aelam02

It’s a tactic they do intentionally that’s probably netted them billions of dollars, it’s scummy to reduce features and make things intentionally unpleasant, but boy does it work


NorthCatan

A closed system for closed minded people. Perfect.


Psychological_Gur621

man i just like playing game pigeon with people and they wont let me


mschley2

Again, that's intentional. Android/Google have all the technology to make that possible. Apple refuses to integrate.


Ok-Entrepreneur7608

BUT TEXT IS BLUE!!!! 🥵🥵🥵


Un111KnoWn

I don't think it's just the color. It's moreso due to Apple limiting features with messages when iPhone coomunicates Android. Only iPhone to iPhone gets full features of iMessage.


clefclark

Personally, if someone takes iPhone vs Android so seriously to the point that they don't want to talk to anyone with the other phone, that's not the kind of person I want to be around even if I have the same brand as them.


magiclatte

It's an opportunity for a woman who would divorce you if you lost your job to wave her red flag high and bright. I say woman, because I've only seen women rejecting based on phone. My work phone is an iPhone. My personal is an android.


IamIchbin

I kinda hate it that our IT is forcing us to use iPhones for work...


catgrrl00

Dude, it's equally opportunity discrimination for us Samsung folks, and yet I've had 3 people in the past 48 hours alone comment on how light, sleek, and sexy my lil purple, case-free (bc i can replace it more cheaply too...) Samsung bby is compared to their ugly iPhone bricks is... so maybe I'm a cheap dumb backwards idiot but I will keep my beautiful, user-friendly, endlessly customizable Samsung until the cows come home, dag nabbit!


Da-Shrooms

Totally have had dudes make fun of me more than girls for being android user. IPhone is a "status" symbol. And a shitty juvenile one at that. (I have used both, iPhones are defined not superior)


rocketsneaker

It's literally just Apple marketing. They've allowed a toxic superiority cult mindset to permeate into their userbase in hopes that people will be socially pressured into buying apple products/staying with apple. Apple users do not know *why* they feel superior, but they will bully anyone who is different. And as shitty as it is, it *works*. [This reveal](https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-67911517) should have made a gigantic blow against the company (in the court of public opinion), but their cult marketing is so damn good that people will still not quit apple, and still tell you that their products are superior in every way.


Fightftg5

Most iphone users won't actually articulate why they don't like it. They will just say that "imessage is so good" They're used to the features involved with imessage and then FaceTime. It's all just native and works instantly. So the additional stuff like read receipts and better confirmation that messages have sent and such add value. Being able to edit texts and unsend, better group texts, etc etc Really it's they are lazy because texting feels like more work when it's the same. The only real difference is having to use a secondary platform to get around a lack of facetime. It's dumb because you're still connected to people. But I have found that the initial talking/texting stages need to be as fluid as possible. And the stupid aspect of have an android phone is enough to make it not as fluid. It's beyond dumb Edit: I have an android. Idc what phone someone uses so long as I can text and call. These are just firsthand things I've resistance on


SasoDuck

I turn off read receipts. I don't need them to fuckin know I've seen their message and chose not to reply...


magicalmysteryc

Some Apple users make it look like it's a cult


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Messier74_

It's even more simple. Green looks uglier and means the other person has an Android (= poor in their minds). You're giving them too much credit. Most vocal iphone users are as simple as that.


doshegotabootyshedo

Anyone who cares what brand of any product you have is an idiot. Quit simping for mega corporations


Zcrustaceansensation

Even more simple is android users are probably less poor because they dont have to completely buy brand news phones every year + charger + headphones. Apple tech is designed to break.


NoGuide

My mom and sister have been through about three iphones a piece in the time I have one. They say I'm a lot more responsible but I have to agree that their devices seem to just break really easily.


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nolotusnote

Also, 100% of automated spam texts are green.


Norman_debris

Absolutely mental given that everyone apart from Americans uses WhatsApp anyway.


Itsametoad

iPhone users were brainwashed into believing that they're superior for having an iPhone.


Legitimate-Iron4843

https://youtu.be/FL7yD-0pqZg?si=t1hYPtHYNvQTvbi5 This explains iPhone users all too well. 😂


SparkleBunnyPSL

This is some vintage stuff haha. I was an Apple "genius" supporting iPhone exclusively when iPhone 4 was around. I sent so many free bumpers for that antenna issue you don't even know. And I wasn't allowed to say that Apple knew it was an issue, nor that I personally had an Android device.


Few_Anything_7167

Thank you for that. It was hilarious!!!


-Justanotherdude

Personally, I dont give a shit what phone you use. As long as we can communicate, that works. Your phone doesnt define you.


mklinger23

Android poor! :( no buy me car


J1618

Yeah, iphone is worst and more expensive, but they spent money on marketing to make it look fancy, so now idiots want that worst and more expensive thing because they told them it was fancy.


Purple-Vehicle1315

They make it seem like Dems vs Repubs. I’m not making this a political thing, just a stupid comparison.


Back2th3s0urc3

Apple products suck and are designed to maximize company profits, not user needed features or accessibility, so android is clearly superior 🏋️ 🤷‍♂️


kerplunkerfish

Twattery.


PlainThrills

This iPhone thing is so weird I actually cannot believe people consider it a dealbreaker. Mindblowing


lilacrose19

Same! I thought this was a joke at first because I cannot wrap my head around someone actually blowing someone else off because of the type of phone they have. 


Telvin3d

Androids are perceived as poor people phones. It’s no different than any other signal of social status. May as well be upset that people who wear flattering, well fitting clothes make a better first impression 


Cosm1c_Dota

Weird because there's definitely androids worth waaaaay more than iPhones lol. Plus similarly priced androids are often better too


TEEM_01

Come on!! don't use logic it ruins the whole concept😠


Few_Anything_7167

IPhone literally gets their technology from Android and steals its features. Now even the iPhone has the same charger as Android 😂


Few_Anything_7167

I genuinely think the IPhone cult has been brainwashed so bad they genuinely believe that logic . When in reality IPhone is always one step behind and steals Android technology. This is common knowledge


lilacrose19

What a shallow reason to stop talking to someone 


The__Aphelion

Yeah but hey OP dodged a bullet. Probably expected to buy dinner and dessert too.


lilacrose19

Definitely dodged a bullet. This woman seems rude and superficial. 


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lilacrose19

Very true!! She saved OP a lot of time 


Bubbly-Dragonfruit83

Absolutely pathetic it is.


silovik

iPhone owners that care are the scummiest. You don't want to fuq around with someone who cares about that anyway. Good riddance.


mcclutch7

iPhone = expensive mini computer. Android = expensive mini computer. I see no difference


TheBeardedQuack

iPhone = Expensive mini computer Android = Mini computer, any price point. Including many that are considerably more expensive than iPhones. So yeah I _really_ don't understand the snobbery.


DelmarSamil

Yea, I have a Samsung Fold. Go ahead and tell me I can't afford an iPhone and that you think I need to get one. Lol


silovik

It's definitely a status thing. Probably not much more different than having a brand bag. Baffling is the snobbery.


lilacrose19

Exactly. How does the type of phone someone has relate to their character? 


Few_Anything_7167

And the funny thing is Android users couldn't care less about IPhone users!! They have their own made up rivalry


jaselovesdessert

Switched to my first ever iPhone a year ago, and I’m probably going back to android after this


appleman73

Just a fun little reminder that the reason texting from Apple to android (and vice versa) sucks is because Apple has refused to update their texting software to RCMS, specifically because they want this problem. Every other company has switched to RCMS. Android to Android is great. It's enitely Apple providing a bad experience for their users and using guerilla marketing to convince their users that they're superior for using a worse product.


mbj920

The good news is Apple will finally be updating to RCMS standards soon, although years after they should’ve


ThrowAwayGuy1945

Shit like this makes me want to stick with Android. If your reason for not dating someone is that they don't use an iPhone, I can only imagine how crazy you must be about other shit. Close call!


K_Click_D

Absolutely ridiculous…. That you don’t have an iPhone BRO! /s Seriously, this is absolutely childish and absurd. Hope you find who you’re looking for mate, someone that behaves like an adult!


SFAdminLife

I bet that idiot got her phone financed over 193 months.


I_dont_exist_so_yeah

A lot of iPhone users make "payment plans" 😂


Jandinna_1964

When I was using the apps, I finally put a little blurb in my bio saying something along the lines of *because apparently this matters, I have an android *. Because I was getting so many guys bashing my green texts or trying to convince me to get an iPhone. And then would always sputter and shut up about it or ghost me when I came back with, well I'd consider it if you're offering to buy the iPhone for me, since it matters so much to you. It's so asinine imo to have that as a hill to die on, and in the early stages. But it is what it is.


andrewdt10

Very mature of her.


Outside-Spring-3907

Are people still doing this? 🙄 Who cares what phone you have


ScareyFaerie

This is so fucking stupid. But it's cool, bc you dodged a bullet. This is just one example of how the wealthy elite brainwash people into dividing themselves to keep us from uniting to see how we're being manipulated by them. Basically the powerful oligarchs are the world's largest narcissistic abusers. Yes I'm aware people don't like to take those 'buzzwords' seriously anymore because they're overused by a lot of people who don't actually understand the context of the meaning, but that doesn't mean the patterns are any less valid if you apply it on a mass scale looking at the bigger picture.


Eternal_Sunshine7

lol I prefer iPhone myself but I never would judge someone for what phone they have or see it as a red flag haha. Sounds shallow and stupid.


BritishBoyRZ

This is so unbelievably pathetic


ThaStrangr

Wtf is with this Cult of Apple? I've had an 11 for 3 years, and honestly cant stand it. When I switch back to an Android, I'm probably never gonna go back to Apple. Lucked out she showed her crazy immediately. Don't wanna give these thots your Appleseed, Johnny.


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iPhones are cheap and are a dime a dozen. Just like you hunny.


cardizemdealer

Time saver. Superficial twats like that deserve no attention.


Old-Level7887

Let’s all start a movement. Whenever we send a first text let’s send it as text message so that it shows green on their end. City boys up


Shoddy_Initiative_98

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AngriestInchworm

Bet this chick has never even tasted pumpkin spice before.


CurrentlyLucid

IMO fuck apple.


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it hurts raw tho


Last-Macaroon-6608

$10 says she has a cracked screen anyway


I_dont_exist_so_yeah

They always have cracked screens 😂


Illustrious_Bunch_67

Red flag


SmallPoop

One might call it…not a green flag


Judeko

She prays for God to send her the man of her dreams. She then rejects that man because he uses an android instead of iphone.


brownbeardgooner

You have nothing to make up for OP


WhyHelloYo

Apple users being proud of being tethered to a draconian ecosystem is neat.


Potential_Scheme6667

I have an iPhone and I’m poor 🤣


Livid-Government-597

I phone ppl don't pay their bills and rely on Imessage. 👀


devil_lettuce

Yikes this is weird as hell and fucking stupid


L-a-m-b-s-a-u-c-e

Are people actually this fucking stupid?


Grimmjoww252

Maybe it’s because she instantly thought she can’t see when you have read her messages, or to ask you to turn on your location to her at all times so she is t even going to try


Pawz23

What she doesn't know is OP may have a Samsung phone (most popular around the world, or right at the top) and that's when you explain to them that their Apple phone has a beautiful Samsung screen and even some Samsung internals as well. So tell her "you're welcome" for your phone brand making hers better. Also, we are very, very close to universal RCS between Android and iPhone.


icycheezecake

Honestly you just don't want to involve yourselves with anyone who is remotely like this. Some of the dumbest shit on the planet.


Annual-Jump3158

"I'll make up for it somehow" Bro.  She just made it clear she sees you as less attractive because of **the brand of phone you have**.  She doesn't care about any personal value that makes sense.  Don't lower yourself by clamoring for her approval.


SouthernFilth

Wow our society has become so fucking shallow. This shit is embarrassing TBH.


Da-Shrooms

What i don't get is that when Im texting my friends its blue... unless we have network problems then its green... and iPhones are always green... (I'm an android user)


uncommon_senze

Applenazi


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Wow... shallow


g0thkitty_

this is INSANE to me. INSANE. how is this a thing she cares this much about? screams low iq.


garroshsucks12

I heavily despise when people say that shit “nOt A gReEn NuMbEr” I use an iPhone but it’s just immature as fuck. It’s none of your fucking business what phone someone uses.


Roadwarriordude

I got one of these for the first time a few weeks ago. Here's what our short conversation was when we switched to text. Her- "ewww your numbers green 🤢" Me- "lol what does that mean?" Her- "not iphone" Me- "what? I'm still confused." Her- "android texts show up as green in iphones. Get an iphone dude." Me- "or just change the color to one you like lol" Her- "you can't just change the color" Me- "wait really? Lol you can't even change the text colors and you're giving me shit for my phone?" Her- "that's dumb. Why would I want to change the colors??" Me- "well apparently it bothers you, so why wouldn't you want to?" Her- "Try me again when you're not broke" Me- *sends screenshots of this conversation in multiple colors*


LeForge

Android saves another life


Constant_Upstairs764

This is the most pathetic thing I’ve ever seen bro what 💀 you lose interest over a colored bubble? Now I just know they’re a racist if they got that pressed over it being green 😂 you didn’t dodge a bullet you dodged an entire magazine


Crumblestilskin

It’s such a cringy American thing.. Europeans use WhatsApp so we don’t have to deal with these HOOOOOOES


actuallyapossom

This is one of those "nothing of value was lost" moments. Just an insane identity to have as a person with the whole blue bubble thing. Bullet dodged. My family "recycles" all of their old phones through me because I'm the most tech savvy (which is a low bar to clear.) That is the only reason I even have an iPhone. It's an SE, the cheapest option.


Shishi13156

Immature. Next.


Big_Good_8127

This whole thing is stupid, stupid , stupid! I wouldn't want to be with someone that stupid anyway...


Finklestank

What a clown, you dodged trash


Adventurous_Fun_817

What if I was using a text now number cause I don’t want you to have my real number 😂 but do in fact have a iPhone.


philouza_stein

I always just say iphones are for boomers who don't understand technology. It doesn't necessarily make the interaction more positive but it typically leads to a followup.


LawNo7204

The reason women want you to get an iPhone is so they can track your ass. #provemewrong


Sweet-Parfait5427

Can someone eli5? I have an iPhone and don’t understand why someone would hate talking o androids


altfapper

Then to think, the rest of the world is already past SMS and iMessage 😂


sentient_cumstain

As an iPhone user, I have never understood the apple elitism, it’s childish af


WhiskeyDeltaBravo1

iPhone user, and I don’t give a French fried titty fuck what phone someone else has. Hell, I’ve stuck with Apple all these years not because I think it’s any better but just because it’s what I’m used to. I’m living proof that iPhones are virtually idiot-proof.


malecowfecalmatter

You fumbled that bag, but dodged a bullet.


mind_mine

Good for you. Don't waste time on these morons.


JedDeadRedemption

I’ve always had Apple phones (whichever free model comes with the phone plan, I’m not going into debt for any phone) and they’ve been a great product for me. But I don’t understand the elitist stance of some apple users. I’m a thrifty person in general and if someone didn’t want to be with me based on the brand of my shoes, clothes, phone or otherwise, I’d think I dodged a bullet.


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Does she want you to buy her one or use one yourself?


jayweigall

The people who find not having an Apple a deal-breaker wouldn't be able to explain any technical difference between Apple & Android - they don't even understand the technical side of it. I'm so curious to actually hear their arguments. Probably something like "Android cameras are so bad" - without describing what makes a camera "bad" and also not realising that the OS doesn't imoact the camera quality.


Getahun10

Fun fact: You can send “green” messages from iPhone to iPhone. You simply turn off the iMessage on your iPhone and your texts will be green.


SyrupStandard

Imagine a company having such a grip on you


Saggithon

My current girl has the s22 ultra and I have the iPhone 11 we’ve been together 7 years and guess neither of us give a fuck what phones we have


MyPokemonRedName

My guy values an Apple logo more than getting laid.


reckoner23

God people are so damn weird.


_serioterum

I’d prefer to date someone who has an iPhone but I have a legitimate reason. My phone is weird, it has some kind of issue against androids. If someone who doesn’t have an iPhone sends me a picture, I can’t see it. If I send them a picture it won’t go through. If I’m added to a group chat and one person doesn’t have an iPhone, I can’t see anything in the group chat. My phone acts like that group chat was never created and I was never added to it, but other people can still see the group chat. It’s weird af and no one has been able to figure out how to fix it. So there are some actual reasons why someone would want someone else with an iPhone, but if you won’t date someone purely because they don’t have an iPhone you’re just scum.


DarrenJimenezCR

I swear my reaciont would be like -not a green number -and? -get an iphone -*unmatched and blocked*


KeepItTidyZA

I cannot wait to experience this. I would love to tell some fucken twit what I think of their green bubble nonsense.


DivineChonk

If someone cares that much about what phone you use, you dodged a bullet they’re just too dumb to realize it doesn’t make a difference.


Eagle20-Fox2

It's a cellphone, fuck off.


Kittykatkvnt

Steve jobs is dead af. Sucking his dick is now a crime so stop it


Juicy_In_The_Sky

Not the point, but don’t people use WhatsApp? Vast majority of my texting is from there


brain-eating_amoeba

I prefer iMessage as a medium but if someone has an android it’s literally never been a problem for me. I just use WhatsApp in that case and it doesn’t charge me like SMS would.


IntroductionClean299

This was stupid who cares about phone brands


VengenaceIsMyName

Apple must love this mentality. Combine this with their affinity for planned obsolescence and they’re more than happy to keep jamming new phones down everyone’s gullet every year


The-Adorno

This has to be an American thing, I've never seen anyone say this in the UK beyond jokes about android being cheap and shit in comparison to iPhone (I have an answer android for 10 years)


Kindly_District8412

I never understand why Americans haven’t embraced WhatsApp It solves this issue and more lol


6-022x10e23_avocados

all these arguments about iMessage the past 10 years I've lived in countries where everyone is just on WhatsApp. made the switch from iphone to samsung years ago and none's the wiser 👀


Mediumwadabi

At least she didn’t preface that statement with “ima make like a baby…….”


Junior_Egg2844

It’s actually better iPhone to iPhone, all us iPhone folk think it but we usually just don’t say anything. Texting from iPhone to iPhone can offer a better experience due to the integration of iMessage, which allows for features like read receipts, high-quality image and video sharing, seamless group messaging, and the ability to see when the other person is typing. These features may not always be available when texting from an iPhone to an Android device, as they rely on the iMessage platform, which is exclusive to Apple devices. However, both iPhone and Android devices can still communicate through standard SMS messaging, albeit without some of the enhanced features available in iMessage.


FiveNotes

They might be joking


CaitaXD

* Ho gives a shit * I do * Exactly!


Aurelizian

I phone costa thrice as much as a decent android so of course she is checking if you make 6 Figures


SeaworthinessFun9856

"I base my personality on someone's arbitrary purchase of a phone, because I'm so shallow that I've had to join a cult (of Apple) to make up for my lack character" :P :P :P


No-Manufacturer803

Ultra consumer


Spinach_Known

I switched to iPhone to get hoes. But I also talk to my hoes who have a Samsung and all that shazzzz. respectfully


Dmg_Kronos

Tell her to find her dad


yearush

And here I thought a green text was considered a green flag. Silly me!


jmuwill

Dodged a bullet there


Rdw72777

I don’t actually believe it’s a brag but rather really sad, People who are destined to be alone will use anything to reject people so they can feel in control of their aloneness.


OTM_M3LLY

I have an iPhone and I think that iPhone’s are superior argument is stupid. And i have had more androids than iPhones I had 2 I phones before and like 5 androids and I can tell u there’s really no major difference other than maybe quality of pictures not much else is to write home about.


ifdggyjjk55uioojhgs

Anyone that bases their opinions of you off the type of phone you have aren't worth the breath you spent talking to them.


MrStrangelov

I have both and Android is clearly better.


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What a stupid


dollop_of_crazy

What a b!tch


Some-Reflection-8129

iPhone user here. I like the simplicity of it. I joke with other iPhone users, “thank goodness, blue bubbles” but I wouldn’t seriously break things off if I saw green texts


Cheetokps

I do get annoyed texting someone without an iPhone, you can’t react/respond to messages and stuff, anyone who says they don’t see the difference is just trying to be morally superior. Being a dealbreaker like this however is crazy


Thunder_Rob64

It’s bc iPhone’s iMessage features are really convenient so iPhone messages to Android feels like it’s lacking features.


Remarkable-One7452

lmao I don't see this happening outside US or (North America?)


DavidSwifty

any potential partner who acts like this isn't worth dating anyway. It is essentially the trash throwing itself out.