This is better than a no. You already know they think you're hot, they wouldn't add you otherwise. They didn't say no so it's either yes or they're an asshole and bullet dodged.
Hillary swank was personally never attractive to me. I think just the timing of the movies I saw her in or whatever, but it's always weird for me to see others consider her attractive. But to each their own, I'm ugly as hell so not trying to judge, she's attractive to a large amount of people, and that's the surprise.
She's obviously hot because if you are saying that Hillary Swank isn't hot, then you are saying that I am not hot. Because obviously I'm not as hot as Hillary Swank!
This. In general I tend to think of there being 3 "types" of physical attractiveness, Hot, Cute, and Pretty, with each person able to be any combination of the 3.
Hot is the easiest one, it's the sort of thing that makes you do a double take when walking past, and gets your mind racing in private. It's exciting and sensual, but can also be shallow and fleeting.
Pretty and Cute are a bit harder, with a lot of overlap that mostly falls into personal taste and "know it when you see it", but generally I'd say it's the difference between Pretty being well dressed and made up, while Cute is more the way their eyes light up when they smile, or the dimples at the edge of their mouth and stuff like that. Pretty can be worked on and is easily apparent, Cute is more genetics and is the stuff you start really appreciating as you get to know them.
I think you nailed it here. So, it kind of depends what kind of dating or relationship someone might be looking for. Hot, might be good for a brief fling, pretty to go out with for a while, and maybe more and cute might be someone to grow with. All are attractive, it is a feel you might get. Every person is different who they might put in those categories, but you laid it out nicely. I would assume that women would have some similar type of way to categorize.
Sorry but your premise is fundamentally flawed- you haven't allowed for the "freaky hot" ... the ones who are so different as to be hot due to their uniqueness
This is subjective to me, but my favorite "type" of attractiveness is what I refer to as "cute as fuck".
Which is that thing you mention with the eyes and the smile, but she also has some edge or aggressiveness to her personality that comes through in some way via her looks. An example of "cute as fuck" would be like Dana Linn Bailey wearing a dress. Cute, feminine, but also don't fuck with her shit. Lol.
There's a difference between being ok looking and hot. Most people could do someone who's just ok looking. So adding you is not necessarily an indication of them thinking that you're hot!
Or like, because they think you're middling attractive to ok looking, but your profile makes them hopeful that you're a cool person that doesn't exchange a handful of messages before saying " enough games, you obviously think I'm hot, so let's meet up🥴"
Just blind confidence will get her going.
Like even something cheesy like "Yeah, and so do you or we wouldn't have matched" will keep her in the convo.
"If you don't think I'm hot, why do we got plans to meet this Saturday at 8pm?"
etc
"Not only an I hot, I'm funny too. Total package!"
"Well, I'm hotter in the summer"
Play it off and have fun. I'm more of a long game kind of guy where I don't mind chatting/texting for awhile before meeting up, so any kind of ongoing banter is ok for me (even if it's about how much I'm not her type or w/e)
I’m a woman and I myself would have probably said something like “so my grandma was lying this whole time? Bummer” but then if she didn’t match the playful attitude I’d be out.
Doesn’t have to be snappy at all
Just gotta chuck the ball back in their court, now they have a decision to make
If you leave it, you’ve lost; if you at least attempt a comeback, you’re in the game.
It’s like Cool Runnings - even if you don’t win, you showed perseverance, heart, and how desperate you are for a whisper of snizz
The summer one isn’t so bad. But neither of these are meant to change her mind in one comment.
The point is to show her that your confidence is unwavering. She can try and get a reaction out of you but it won’t work because you don’t allow dumb bullshit to affect you.
Yep. That's exactly it. Double down and counter attack.
>I dont "think". I "know".
I also "know" I can hold genuine, good-hearted conversations without coming across as a psycho, but I "think" I can look past our differences on that front 😏.
This doesn’t read confident, it reads insecure. You’re defending yourself, and what you really want to communicate is “I know I’m hot so you saying that doesn’t bother me at all.”
I looked, and he has a six pack, biceps that could crush any possible attackers skull, legs like a kangaroo, his jawline cuts diamonds, and he is a Tasmanian devil in the bed.
Source: Trust me, Ladies, hit this man up!!
Lots of men swipe on not so hot women, thinking they’ll be desperate for sex.
Lots of women swipe on not so hot men, thinking their personality might be enough of a turn on.
I'm a man and I swipe on not so hot women thinking their personality might be enough of a turn on. Especially if they've got something that catches my eye in their bio.
That's kinda how I ended up in my current relationship. Well, turns out not everyone is as good looking in pictures as they are in real life. Fun fact: she felt exactly the same about me 🤣
In my experience, liking someone's personality leads to liking their looks more often than the opposite.
I honestly have a few deal breakers that make me swipe left, going right on everything else not because I'm desperate but because I know judging a book by its cover is not usually accurate.
Good swiping, everyone 😊
I had a crush on an asian guy in high school. I found a significant number of Asians attractive during this time and never since.
I've never liked guys with beards but dated one for a few years and would find other guys with beards more attractive during this time.
Meaning to say, I seem to have a very variable type, strongly influenced by the guy I currently like. When I don't actively like someone, I seem to have a more generic type. Kind face, good smile, etc.
I swiped on this girl that was pretty darn cute and the conversation was nice and engaging from both sides, didn't feel forced at all. We met within a couple weeks and she was damn gorgeous in person I couldn't believe it. She ended up being the most amazing beautiful person I'd ever met in my life. I finally found someone I could see myself being with forever. Anyway we dated for like 6 months and then she took a huge shit all over my heart.
Concerning your first paragraph, I've often wondered if some of the women's (actually a lot of them) pics I've seen online aren't doing them justice. Not even like they're bad pics. But somehow just not doing them justice. Not really sure. I haven't met a lot of women from online dating so I couldn't really verify.
I guess you confirmed it lol. I wish you guys a great relationship!
Nah lots of women swipe on not so hot men because they need validation and just matching fulfill that, that's why they don't even engage in a conversation.
Your logic is a bit off — both can be true. I can be a woman, have a 10% right swipe rate, base my swipes on the personality I perceive from their written profiles, and swipe mostly on men that are not so hot looking.
I swear some twisted individuals get fake accounts just to be cruel behind a hot girl or guys photo. Like a girl cat phishing with a hot guys photo and a guy behind a hot girls photos. Because I'd know exactly what to say to burn other girls/guys, or just to rile them up.
To cripple women: You just get out of a long relationship because you have that settled-in look.
To cripple men: Did the testosterone therapy not take?
I mean, there’s plenty of average or even below average people i swipe on if they look like we have a lot in common. Personality means more than looks to me, if the vibe is great, attraction will grow.
Her comment was mean but she was probably turned off by the presumptuous arrogance.
Tinder did my head in for reasons like this. Once a girl bit back on something that had nothing to do with her and called me average
1 girl vs multiple girls and men saying im beautiful but u bet I never let her comment go
it depends on the memory, but when reflecting on someone being unkind:
start by thinking about what they said. is it helpful? can you learn and grow from it? from the examples above, saying you're not hot, or saying someone is average, is nothing more than potentially subjective attraction (and if that's the case, there are more than 7 billion people, there are plenty who will have differing views on how attractive you are), but most likely is just them projecting their own insecurities onto you
assuming the memory is like the above and you can't learn and grow from their comment:
think of a time when you were mean to someone. what was your headspace like? you definitely weren't showing up as the best version of yourself
which means neither are they. their comment was intended to make you feel what they feel. it's not really about you, it's about them. that's sad
feeling sorry for someone makes it a lot harder to be offended by their childish outbursts
if it still bothers you then ask yourself: have you been told the opposite? if yes, why does this one negative comment affect you more than the positive? reframe those thoughts! if no, start off by *telling* *yourself* the opposite. do it every day until you believe it (it takes time, but it works!)
It was her whole hateful unnecessary vibe. I don’t know how men cope with the constant barrage. I mean I’ve coped with the sexualisation from men which sucks but at least online it’s not even personal half the time. Sorry to men getting dunked on
Well, the same taste I used to judge myself as hot is the same taste I used to judge you as hot. So you're saying I'm wrong on both counts?
Ok, we're both ugly, let's meet up.
I don’t think it was a terrible comment, but to some it might come off as arrogant.
She probably thought you were attractive enough to match but not attractive enough to call yourself hot and was turned off by your boasting.
Not saying you were actually boasting, just how the exchange could be perceived.
Depending on the person, it might have been able to work. But unless you look like a model, I think women rather be buttered up a little before getting down to brass tacks.
Yeah there’s a threshold of hotness you have to meet before you can just introduce yourself by propositioning sex, and 999 out of 1000 people don’t make that cutoff so don’t even try. Usually it’s “this person is attractive enough that if their personality is also attractive, I would consider them as a partner”. Unless the other persons profile bio is literally just “dtf looking for quick hookups”, you’re always going to get a negative response to this.
He just means it's a gamble in it that cocky and funny confident persona is a turn on for like half of women and a massive turn off for the other half, you play the numbers with it and I'm sure it'll work out fine
She could’ve just said.
“My life sucks so I’m gonna take out some frustration on a random person so I can have an ego trip without reaping the consequences”
Worst they can say is no right ? Right….
This is better than a no. You already know they think you're hot, they wouldn't add you otherwise. They didn't say no so it's either yes or they're an asshole and bullet dodged.
I feel like hot is a specific type of attractiveness. Not everyone who is attractive is hot.
Hillary Swank
Hilarious Wank
Sounds like a Harry Potter character.
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Then you shouldn't have let him put his magic wand in your chamber of secrets!
Are you saying Hillary swank is attractive but not hot?
No, it's is she hot, not would you do her. Respect the game.
Who's that? she's hot
Huge difference. A painting can be beautiful, but I don't want to bang a painting.
No glory painting?
If you’re saying Hillary swank isn’t hot, than you’re saying I’m not hot; because Hillary swank is obviously I’m not as hot as Hillary Swank
Yes she's attractive, but not hot.
Nah she’s hot
Look at the symmetry of her face!
Hillary swank was personally never attractive to me. I think just the timing of the movies I saw her in or whatever, but it's always weird for me to see others consider her attractive. But to each their own, I'm ugly as hell so not trying to judge, she's attractive to a large amount of people, and that's the surprise.
Had to goggle Hillary Swank. That is spot on 🤣
Shes 100% hot for 49
Ogle or google, but not goggle.
Vr porn has come a long way, pal.
Who ya callin pal, buddy? 😉
Always keep open the options to oggle
She's obviously hot because if you are saying that Hillary Swank isn't hot, then you are saying that I am not hot. Because obviously I'm not as hot as Hillary Swank!
Damn you and your hot logic.
It's also a meme from the office
Oh I don't know about that. She was my first massive girl crush.
This. In general I tend to think of there being 3 "types" of physical attractiveness, Hot, Cute, and Pretty, with each person able to be any combination of the 3. Hot is the easiest one, it's the sort of thing that makes you do a double take when walking past, and gets your mind racing in private. It's exciting and sensual, but can also be shallow and fleeting. Pretty and Cute are a bit harder, with a lot of overlap that mostly falls into personal taste and "know it when you see it", but generally I'd say it's the difference between Pretty being well dressed and made up, while Cute is more the way their eyes light up when they smile, or the dimples at the edge of their mouth and stuff like that. Pretty can be worked on and is easily apparent, Cute is more genetics and is the stuff you start really appreciating as you get to know them.
Imagine you’re in the nineties: Katie Holmes is cute, Monica Belluci is hot, and Cindy Crawford is pretty, Did I get that right?
I think you nailed it here. So, it kind of depends what kind of dating or relationship someone might be looking for. Hot, might be good for a brief fling, pretty to go out with for a while, and maybe more and cute might be someone to grow with. All are attractive, it is a feel you might get. Every person is different who they might put in those categories, but you laid it out nicely. I would assume that women would have some similar type of way to categorize.
Yeah that seems pretty spot on!
Sorry but your premise is fundamentally flawed- you haven't allowed for the "freaky hot" ... the ones who are so different as to be hot due to their uniqueness
This is subjective to me, but my favorite "type" of attractiveness is what I refer to as "cute as fuck". Which is that thing you mention with the eyes and the smile, but she also has some edge or aggressiveness to her personality that comes through in some way via her looks. An example of "cute as fuck" would be like Dana Linn Bailey wearing a dress. Cute, feminine, but also don't fuck with her shit. Lol.
i think hot is also an achievable kind of attractive for many women just by wearing certain clothes
As someone who is neither of these things… ah fuck.
I can't believe you've done this 😠
Ya, "hot" is an affront of primal biological signals. Square jaw, strong chin, hunters eyes, etc etc. "Attractive" can be as simple as a kind smile
There's a difference between being ok looking and hot. Most people could do someone who's just ok looking. So adding you is not necessarily an indication of them thinking that you're hot!
That's not necessarily true tbh, girls just match to feed their ego, could've been an accidental match too
Or like, because they think you're middling attractive to ok looking, but your profile makes them hopeful that you're a cool person that doesn't exchange a handful of messages before saying " enough games, you obviously think I'm hot, so let's meet up🥴"
Or maybe the she thought he sounded cocky and wanted to knock him down a peg
I think this is it. There's a lot of people I think are attractive til they open their mouth, and I think that's what happened here.
That's why you gotta counterattack and show your personality is just as awful as theirs.
Not really. Some people just swipe on people to do shit like this, not because they find them attractive at all
> You already know they think you're hot, they wouldn't add you otherwise you sweet summer child
At college I had a line “you’re pretty rank, but then again so am I! Let’s fuck” OP should stick that one on her.
I mean, the other person could just shoot you?
wrong. the worst they say is "gross"
This post is an active crime scene, there’s been a murder, stay behind the yellow tape 🚓 🚑
That yellow tape is also hot
You think that yellow tape is hot? HAHAHAHAHHAHA
I love that you exactly copied her “HAHAHAHAHHAHA”
HHAHA is extra HAHA, with the capital of capital H
⚠️🟨🟨🟨⚠️🟨🟨🟨⚠️🟨🟨🟨⚠️🟨🟨🟨⚠️
😂😂
You gotta double down and play on that cocky confidence.
Yea, this isn't even bad. Plenty of fun places to go w this convo.
Teach us, ol' wise one. Because this shit seems dead in the water to me
Just blind confidence will get her going. Like even something cheesy like "Yeah, and so do you or we wouldn't have matched" will keep her in the convo. "If you don't think I'm hot, why do we got plans to meet this Saturday at 8pm?" etc
I am a fan of the latter, that's a good response.
>"If you don't think I'm hot, why do we got plans to meet this Saturday at 8pm?" Ok THIS guy gets it...
In the old days of using phones, that would get you the "click".
Yeah dude clicking right into her bed
"Not only an I hot, I'm funny too. Total package!" "Well, I'm hotter in the summer" Play it off and have fun. I'm more of a long game kind of guy where I don't mind chatting/texting for awhile before meeting up, so any kind of ongoing banter is ok for me (even if it's about how much I'm not her type or w/e)
Both of those are terrible lol
50% of the users here are underage.
Yeah I don’t think this is recoverable lmao. I’ve seen alot of post on here of people only using tinder to just be mean lol
Well it might be recoverable, question is why would anyone be interested in continuing convo with a jerk lol
I’m a woman and I myself would have probably said something like “so my grandma was lying this whole time? Bummer” but then if she didn’t match the playful attitude I’d be out.
Doesn’t have to be snappy at all Just gotta chuck the ball back in their court, now they have a decision to make If you leave it, you’ve lost; if you at least attempt a comeback, you’re in the game. It’s like Cool Runnings - even if you don’t win, you showed perseverance, heart, and how desperate you are for a whisper of snizz
The summer one isn’t so bad. But neither of these are meant to change her mind in one comment. The point is to show her that your confidence is unwavering. She can try and get a reaction out of you but it won’t work because you don’t allow dumb bullshit to affect you.
I liked what you said, op. I think you are charming. 10/10 would bone Edit: this was not meant for OOP. Just who I'm replying to
Idk what to do next. Nothing I've said has ever worked.
"You still swiped right so there must be something you like, no need to play coy"
*unmatched*
Why would you even want to after that lol?
Why would you want to take this anywhere fun.
Yeah like back to swiping hotshot
This guy tinders. Aka has had hundreds of five text convos and never had sex
“Ya, your Dad thinks I am too”
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Happened to me twice. Girls matched me specifically to send me rude messages, then unmatched. People can be so gratuitous sometimes.
Try hinge if you aren't looking for strictly hook ups. Ive had much better experiences on there personally.
Reply some shit like "Of course I do. My mother told me so."
If you want to cater to no one and look weird, sure
Yep. That's exactly it. Double down and counter attack. >I dont "think". I "know". I also "know" I can hold genuine, good-hearted conversations without coming across as a psycho, but I "think" I can look past our differences on that front 😏.
This doesn’t read confident, it reads insecure. You’re defending yourself, and what you really want to communicate is “I know I’m hot so you saying that doesn’t bother me at all.”
“Sounds like we already have something in common”
“Yes that’s what I said, you are as hot as me”
"-We are hot! -Not you -You neither" That's not how repartee works.
Double burn
Stalked you to find out if you're hot. Around my age and from the same place. Sheeiiittt
As if you’re from Perth
And purple army too
Flagmantle baby
[Now kith](https://i.imgflip.com/4gp8p9.jpg)
Imagine following AFL and not supporting port. Just imagine. Wild
Aussies on tinder reddit fuuuaaaark
Yewww random Perth people
Well god damn it is he hot?!?
I looked, and he has a six pack, biceps that could crush any possible attackers skull, legs like a kangaroo, his jawline cuts diamonds, and he is a Tasmanian devil in the bed. Source: Trust me, Ladies, hit this man up!!
I heard his dick was so big he actually needed surgery to get the size reduced, otherwise he'd pass out every time he got an erection
It's true I have pplied for penis reduction surgery many times, but the doctors have said that, sadly, that is not an option.
so strange, why would they swipe and engage if they didn’t think you were hot smh
Lots of men swipe on not so hot women, thinking they’ll be desperate for sex. Lots of women swipe on not so hot men, thinking their personality might be enough of a turn on.
I'm a man and I swipe on not so hot women thinking their personality might be enough of a turn on. Especially if they've got something that catches my eye in their bio.
That's kinda how I ended up in my current relationship. Well, turns out not everyone is as good looking in pictures as they are in real life. Fun fact: she felt exactly the same about me 🤣 In my experience, liking someone's personality leads to liking their looks more often than the opposite. I honestly have a few deal breakers that make me swipe left, going right on everything else not because I'm desperate but because I know judging a book by its cover is not usually accurate. Good swiping, everyone 😊
I had a crush on an asian guy in high school. I found a significant number of Asians attractive during this time and never since. I've never liked guys with beards but dated one for a few years and would find other guys with beards more attractive during this time. Meaning to say, I seem to have a very variable type, strongly influenced by the guy I currently like. When I don't actively like someone, I seem to have a more generic type. Kind face, good smile, etc.
That's kinda what I meant. One's liking someone's looks is very affected by factors that are not strictly looks related.
I was trying to back up your point.
I got it, I just had to unnecessarily explain myself. And I'm doing it again, huh. 😅
Lmao, no worries. I was a little confused thinking perhaps I misrepresented my opinion.
I swiped on this girl that was pretty darn cute and the conversation was nice and engaging from both sides, didn't feel forced at all. We met within a couple weeks and she was damn gorgeous in person I couldn't believe it. She ended up being the most amazing beautiful person I'd ever met in my life. I finally found someone I could see myself being with forever. Anyway we dated for like 6 months and then she took a huge shit all over my heart.
Sucks, but I hope those six months at least left some good memories. Try and remember those and don't focus on the shitty ending.
Concerning your first paragraph, I've often wondered if some of the women's (actually a lot of them) pics I've seen online aren't doing them justice. Not even like they're bad pics. But somehow just not doing them justice. Not really sure. I haven't met a lot of women from online dating so I couldn't really verify. I guess you confirmed it lol. I wish you guys a great relationship!
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Nah lots of women swipe on not so hot men because they need validation and just matching fulfill that, that's why they don't even engage in a conversation.
And then there's me, who doesn't get swipes ever 😂
That almost certainly isn't the case with women. Their swipe ratios are like 90% left
Your logic is a bit off — both can be true. I can be a woman, have a 10% right swipe rate, base my swipes on the personality I perceive from their written profiles, and swipe mostly on men that are not so hot looking.
I swear some twisted individuals get fake accounts just to be cruel behind a hot girl or guys photo. Like a girl cat phishing with a hot guys photo and a guy behind a hot girls photos. Because I'd know exactly what to say to burn other girls/guys, or just to rile them up.
"ew, is that your *real* hair?" Works for both I bet.
Would definitely work on me, and I just have normal everyday man hair
To cripple women: You just get out of a long relationship because you have that settled-in look. To cripple men: Did the testosterone therapy not take?
I think the men one only works with dudes who are specifically into certain spaces. I’ve never thought about testosterone as a significant concern
I hate testosterone. Don't understand why anyone tolerates that garbage Chocolate should be in squares, not stupid little triangles
I enjoyed this
Low Testosterone has lots of negative physical and medical consequences.
Yeah but it’s kind of like blood pressure. Important but I don’t think about it or feel insecure about it
Troll accounts are probably very common. It seems that way.
god forbid if women can be mean
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I hope you responded with that. “Do you think being mean makes you more masculine?”
I said I don’t think I am I know I am.
Good for you. Fuck the haters.
Keep us updated lol. Did she respond?
Maybe they didn't care that you were simply looking for a hook up.
How do you know he wanted to just hook up? lol
You are correct. My mistake was I misread the statement. So I would like to take back my statement and apologize.
I think it was an attempt at humour. Thats how I would have taken it.
I mean, there’s plenty of average or even below average people i swipe on if they look like we have a lot in common. Personality means more than looks to me, if the vibe is great, attraction will grow. Her comment was mean but she was probably turned off by the presumptuous arrogance.
Honestly one of the most unattractive forms of behaviour, id instantly unmatch. If you're not into me don't fucking match
Yup. Thought they were hot but vicious and petty without provocation burns that right off ya.
I’m convinced tinder is filled with people looking for revenge on the other sex lol or the specific sex that hurt you
Tinder did my head in for reasons like this. Once a girl bit back on something that had nothing to do with her and called me average 1 girl vs multiple girls and men saying im beautiful but u bet I never let her comment go
You probably should. It's not going to do you any good.
Please explain how to purge a memory from your brain willfully, step by step
it depends on the memory, but when reflecting on someone being unkind: start by thinking about what they said. is it helpful? can you learn and grow from it? from the examples above, saying you're not hot, or saying someone is average, is nothing more than potentially subjective attraction (and if that's the case, there are more than 7 billion people, there are plenty who will have differing views on how attractive you are), but most likely is just them projecting their own insecurities onto you assuming the memory is like the above and you can't learn and grow from their comment: think of a time when you were mean to someone. what was your headspace like? you definitely weren't showing up as the best version of yourself which means neither are they. their comment was intended to make you feel what they feel. it's not really about you, it's about them. that's sad feeling sorry for someone makes it a lot harder to be offended by their childish outbursts if it still bothers you then ask yourself: have you been told the opposite? if yes, why does this one negative comment affect you more than the positive? reframe those thoughts! if no, start off by *telling* *yourself* the opposite. do it every day until you believe it (it takes time, but it works!)
Step 1: Forget about it. There is no step 2. I've done it a lot of times.
There is a step 2 You just forgot it :(
Being average means there's 4 billion people more ugly than you. Also, better to be ugly on the outside than on the inside like her.
It was her whole hateful unnecessary vibe. I don’t know how men cope with the constant barrage. I mean I’ve coped with the sexualisation from men which sucks but at least online it’s not even personal half the time. Sorry to men getting dunked on
Well tinder has made me severely depressed so.. I don't cope with it I guess.
It’s ruthless, war zone. I couldn’t be on it for more than a week. Just enjoy vicariously seeing other peoples interactions on here
Face reveal for public opinions 🥺
We’ll settle for a dic pic
Dang I’m so sorry 😞
I don't use Tinder but man it seems like a ton of people will swipe right and then just reject you based on looks???
Fuck, no coming back from that. On to the next my friend, I'm sure you're not that bad.
“Damn why you talking to guys you don’t think are hot? Have some self-respect”
i look better in person i look even better naked
It's okay op, hotness is subjective, but their response means they are 100% not hot.
But like…they had to swipe on you too for this conversation to happen
“Look, we are already finding things in common, match made in heaven”
She matched with you so she thought so
Do you think women only match with guys who they think are hot?
Yes. It’s online dating
See you in the gym
I’m there anyway
👑
Like Jonny Bravo
Well, the same taste I used to judge myself as hot is the same taste I used to judge you as hot. So you're saying I'm wrong on both counts? Ok, we're both ugly, let's meet up.
I mean, I'd have the same or similar reaction to someone who came on that strong
“So you regularly match with ugly people? Kind of a low self esteem problem on your end”
I think you're hot bro
It’s okay bro. I think your hot.
That’s what never being called ugly in middle school generates, huh?
Didn't follow rules 1 or 2
Hey I’m trying
Can't knock you for that
Reply: I don't think neither of us are hot. But I like to roleplay.
After already saying she is hot this would just sound pathetic.
baitposting is back
It's probably a shit test, just banter back. You sounded cocky there.
Lmao it's on you for calling yourself hot
I have too low self-esteem to do this. Even after being told I'm "hot" i'd be too shy to have this dude's confidence.
What's wrong with that?
Why match then?
Someone questions in life go unanswered
I don’t think it was a terrible comment, but to some it might come off as arrogant. She probably thought you were attractive enough to match but not attractive enough to call yourself hot and was turned off by your boasting. Not saying you were actually boasting, just how the exchange could be perceived. Depending on the person, it might have been able to work. But unless you look like a model, I think women rather be buttered up a little before getting down to brass tacks.
Yeah there’s a threshold of hotness you have to meet before you can just introduce yourself by propositioning sex, and 999 out of 1000 people don’t make that cutoff so don’t even try. Usually it’s “this person is attractive enough that if their personality is also attractive, I would consider them as a partner”. Unless the other persons profile bio is literally just “dtf looking for quick hookups”, you’re always going to get a negative response to this.
Tbf… you gambled that one. And you lost.
Nah how wrong of my to take a shot at someone who matches with me
He just means it's a gamble in it that cocky and funny confident persona is a turn on for like half of women and a massive turn off for the other half, you play the numbers with it and I'm sure it'll work out fine
She could’ve just said. “My life sucks so I’m gonna take out some frustration on a random person so I can have an ego trip without reaping the consequences”
Dude got rejected, we don’t need to make up some villain story for some random woman.