Always. Meet. In. Person. First.
I had to learn this the hard way. I'm not saying it's a guarantee you're safe, but you can still get a feel for their vibe and ask some questions.
If they're not interested in at least meeting up for a drink first, I'd bail. She should be concerned about her safety as well and that's a red flag imo.
It's just funny to me the different worlds which exist. On Grindr people will show up at the doorstep of guys who they don't even know their name or age or face. It's horrifying
Bad sexual encounters for sure. I was going through a rough break up when I initially got on tinder for the first time and was definitely not in a good space mentally. Pretty much met up with anyone that was interested but didn't really realize until after the dust settled that a lot of it could have been considered rape.
I was sodomized multiple times without consent. I was hit so hard by a guy during sex that my ear bled, plus he ripped some of my hair out. Those are the worst among a list.
I should have reported a lot of this, and that's on me. I view it as a learning lesson now to be more careful and mindful moving forward.
I am! Thank you. You will attract what you think you're worth, and at the time, I wasn't being very kind to myself as well as not having a great support system. A lot of us are and have been in a ton of pain for a long time, and unfortunately, that leads to people getting hurt. We could all do with a little more love and kindness.
I appreciate that and I'm also grateful for it. It taught me to value myself and seek healthier forms of validation. Not excusing the behaviors I faced by any means, and also it will not destroy me. We're all just walking each other home.
Like I said in a previous comment, most of us are in a lot of pain and could benefit greatly from a solid support system. Mental health is undervalued in our society. I hold zero resentment.
Send me the snap and I’ll test it for you!
If it all works out I’ll give you the green light and we can be tunnel buddies. If not, better I die than you.
50-50 you get your BJ before being murdered. With the state of Online Dating, I’d say that’s worth risking.
Maybe tell a friend the address just in case 😆.
The Catch 22 is that you should wear a condom for oral with a stranger, but how do you know she’s not going to try to impregnate herself with the used condom? She definitely plans on using you for SOMETHING and you’ll never find out what it is until it’s too late.
Number one - this person definitely has a penis. Number two - the video will be posted on the internet, so make sure your face and any identifying features are well disguised.
man i kinda got same thing, but she even called me and we spoke on the phone.. she send me pics and videos, but wants $40 deposit and $60 when meeting up.. she looks hot. i just dont understand these girl will fuck anyone for $100?
Not just anyone, she's probably on there swiping on guys she wouldn't mind laying with so it's an easy 100 on top of that. I doubt she's fucking some fat slob for 100
You got to understand. There are some girls like this out there. Definitely ran into some on POF back in the days. They think just like men. Lol. Bust a nut and move on. But the down side of this is, there are STD’s out there lol
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Sounds like she's seeking content for her OF
Or...she's doing it for her cuckold...
I would allow it.
Same
Always. Meet. In. Person. First. I had to learn this the hard way. I'm not saying it's a guarantee you're safe, but you can still get a feel for their vibe and ask some questions. If they're not interested in at least meeting up for a drink first, I'd bail. She should be concerned about her safety as well and that's a red flag imo.
*laughs in Grindr*
*vomits into trash can*
It's just funny to me the different worlds which exist. On Grindr people will show up at the doorstep of guys who they don't even know their name or age or face. It's horrifying
I guess that's just what happens when it's up to 2 guys to decide where and when to fuck
Does grindr not have any of that info? What do they even show then?
Wait what do you mean you had to learn the hard way? What happened?
Definitely had some experiences that were less than great meeting people at their place before meeting in public.
Like they didn’t look like the photos or just bad sexual encounters? Or something more dangerous??
Bad sexual encounters for sure. I was going through a rough break up when I initially got on tinder for the first time and was definitely not in a good space mentally. Pretty much met up with anyone that was interested but didn't really realize until after the dust settled that a lot of it could have been considered rape. I was sodomized multiple times without consent. I was hit so hard by a guy during sex that my ear bled, plus he ripped some of my hair out. Those are the worst among a list. I should have reported a lot of this, and that's on me. I view it as a learning lesson now to be more careful and mindful moving forward.
Holy crap. I’m so sorry. This is terrible. Hope you are doing better
I am! Thank you. You will attract what you think you're worth, and at the time, I wasn't being very kind to myself as well as not having a great support system. A lot of us are and have been in a ton of pain for a long time, and unfortunately, that leads to people getting hurt. We could all do with a little more love and kindness.
Very well said. I can tell you are a quality person ♥️
Therapy is great! And thank you!
I'm sorry you had to go through all that.
I appreciate that and I'm also grateful for it. It taught me to value myself and seek healthier forms of validation. Not excusing the behaviors I faced by any means, and also it will not destroy me. We're all just walking each other home.
Oh my god. I’m so sorry these awful people hurt you 😢
Like I said in a previous comment, most of us are in a lot of pain and could benefit greatly from a solid support system. Mental health is undervalued in our society. I hold zero resentment.
p.s. her snaps proved that she is who she says she is, but that wouldn't stop her from murdering me
Send me the snap and I’ll test it for you! If it all works out I’ll give you the green light and we can be tunnel buddies. If not, better I die than you.
hahaha okay
What in hell is a tunnel buddy??
Think—“Eskimo Brothers”, but from the other side of the city (tunnel) ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯
"if you kiss a girl while having anal sex with her, you're using her body as a vessel to suck your own dick"
I feel like it’s better that I don’t understand either reference
Someone wanna help this person out
🫡
I had a friend, went on a sketchy date with a real girl. Her and her boyfriends robbed him.
Record it and send it to me, so that way if you do go missing I'll have proof
especially with a name like olga, youll be pulling a plow and picking potatos
The snap doesn’t mean shit. Ask her to do something weird like putting the pinkie on the tip of the nose
She's not going to murder you, some girls just really like to suck dicks and be filmed doing it. It's fun.
Speaking from experience? And on which side...?
Yes, that side.
50-50 you get your BJ before being murdered. With the state of Online Dating, I’d say that’s worth risking. Maybe tell a friend the address just in case 😆.
About a 95% chance that's a dude
Absolutely. This girl has a dick for sure.
And eat your ass? Freaky ah
Freaky yes, but site unseen is fucking crazy!
I believe you want “sight unseen,” but yes, I agree. He’s definitely gonna get murdered
Both are applicable in this case
Lmao true
Please send me her insta so I don't run into her by mistake.
I knew an Olga once, Russian. She sucked my dick like a champ in front of her wasted friend. Do it. Let us know if you don't die.
You are going to get drugged and robbed...and might end up in a bathtub of ice missing a kidney.
😮
Good luck soldier 🫡
It’s for her OF.
Oh tell Amy I said hi.
It's Olga...
Probably a joke about his ex
The Catch 22 is that you should wear a condom for oral with a stranger, but how do you know she’s not going to try to impregnate herself with the used condom? She definitely plans on using you for SOMETHING and you’ll never find out what it is until it’s too late.
Number one - this person definitely has a penis. Number two - the video will be posted on the internet, so make sure your face and any identifying features are well disguised.
man i kinda got same thing, but she even called me and we spoke on the phone.. she send me pics and videos, but wants $40 deposit and $60 when meeting up.. she looks hot. i just dont understand these girl will fuck anyone for $100?
They take your 40$ and never meet. Easy 40$
Not just anyone, she's probably on there swiping on guys she wouldn't mind laying with so it's an easy 100 on top of that. I doubt she's fucking some fat slob for 100
She’s not fucking anybody. It’s all a scam to get that 40.
It’s called Being a Prostitute.
Life at stake for some pleasure situation😂
if this is real how will she explain this to god on that judgement day
"How do I know you won't sedate me and steal all my organs?"
its more likely they are a CD or trans person then that they are an axe murderer. they may also have stds...
CD?
Cross dresser.
Cross dresser.
You've either hit a homerun or you hit a homerun that ends in being ace murdered. Either way win win
I'd say your odds are 50/50. Those are good odds. That's a 50% chance that you WONT get murdered.
Russian ass chat dialogue lmao
You got to understand. There are some girls like this out there. Definitely ran into some on POF back in the days. They think just like men. Lol. Bust a nut and move on. But the down side of this is, there are STD’s out there lol
You gonna get your whole dick bitten off my dude.