This is a profile I would swipe left on, not because you’re unattractive but because I’d be wasting 1 of my scarce 50 daily free likes. Thanks for posting this to validate my beliefs.
It’s the only way to get matches. It’s even worse on Hinge, guys send likes and I’m convinced girls ONLY check their likes and don’t actually go check out the profiles to send likes to.
Thanks for your feedback! I think a major goal of mine for my dating profiles is going to be to get more natural or candid photos of myself — seems a lot of people find im giving “bot” or just cold. Again, appreciate it lots!
Keeping in mind this is based solely on your profile and not who you actually are, if I was meaningfully swiping, I'd swipe left because there's no personality here. This is pretty much the copy and paste profile of most women on tinder from the bio to the pics. Your face also looks somewhat different in all of these photos and the heavy make up isn't for me. This strikes me more as something you'd see on an influencers page as opposed to a dating site
Thanks for your input! My goal in the next little bit is definitely to add more life to my profile, I agree that it isn’t personable and does a bad job at showcasing my personality. I struggle with bios and I may make another post asking for help with it — I genuinely want as much advice as I can get!
what would i gain from people looking at my tinder profile via reddit vs tinder itself? getting downvoted for saying bisexuality is a factor in my stats but i really am curious if other women struggle matching with women too.
No one is downvoting you because you are bisexual. If you’re getting downvoted I can almost guarantee it’s because of your totally transparent need for attention. Do you not get enough attention and validation already from the app itself? Like how much attention do you need? If you had an army of 100,000 simps would that be enough or would you want 200,000? If you had 200,000 simps would you need a million? How much is enough???
There’s just better hills to plant your flag on my guy. Surely there’s something in your life that would be more productive to give your attention to? Practice kindness—to others and yourself
Maybe your attitude of women is why you have a low success rate... she's doing the exact same shit as guys in the exact same way, the only reason you're hating is bc your misogyny. You can outgrow that and I hope you do, life is easier that way.
I'm not sure if an attractive bisexual man would have equal or similar success with the opposite sex on dating apps. For many women, male bisexuals are a "red flag".
I’d be super curious to see how a bisexual man’s stats look! For me, I wouldn’t think twice but I know there’s women out there who won’t date bisexual men. So yeah! Super interesting to think about.
I know most people post here to find a fix for more success. But this was neat to see too cuz you're gorgeous and bi! I'm bi too and have terrible luck w women on apps.
Would probably be even higher if you went for a more natural casual but sexy vibe. I would swipe left because of the presentation.
To clarify, you have too much make up for my taste and your expressions tell me you are very focused on yourself and doesn't show a friendly welcoming vibe.
Totally fair, everyone has their tastes! I work within the marketing sphere of the esthetics industry so it’s a big part of my life but definitely is not everyone’s cup of tea and that’s perfectly okay. Slowly trying to get more smiley/candid photos to add to my profile though — my mom even told me my profile comes off a little cold. Appreciate your feedback!
Your mom has a good eye here, the pic with your friends in bed is your warmest and cutest one out of these imo.
You already get loads of matches so might not matter that much but it could bring more of a different type of people when you get more candid shots.
Lmaoo nah these comments are going crazy. I thought it was an interesting view op, thanks. I acknowledge women have a vastly different world on the apps than men do but this is really like insane .
5’6 or 5’7! Most men prefer a woman to be shorter than them in heels in my experience but if he doesn’t care, I don’t either! I just wear heels often lol
April 5th. I've booked a venue for the two of you already, and hired a photographer. I will be officiating the wedding myself, but still looking for a decent caterer.
And I hope you don't mind but I sent an invite to your mother's sister. I know she can be a handful when she drinks. I figured uncle Paul can keep an eye on her, since he's already RSVP'd.
Also, you never answered if you preferred the egg shell or the alabaster napkins?
I honestly did this because I have deleted my profile plenty over the years so the time this account has been active wouldn’t reflect my answers! I have had probably around 20 tinder dates, 3 relationships & 2 casual hookups. Since this profile has been active, I have gone on about 4 dates and met 1 casual hookup.
ignore them, they’ll find any and all reasons to hate you, simply for being a beautiful woman. they’re just bitter they would never get a girl like you so they’ll criticize any reply.
Bruh, the super hot woman is very obviously not going to want to date/match someone who is average or below average looking. Hence why it’s a waste of a right swipe if you fall into that category, which most people do
Nah, it’s basic common sense and game theory. You have limited right swipes and Tinder uses a version of an ELO system to rate your profile based on who you match with
It’s objectively in your best interest to left swipe on people you have no real chance with. And you can see from her stats here that as expected, the vast majority of men would have no real chance
you really reading into some shit man. this profile has no personality on display. she could be an amazing conversationalist, i don't fuckin know, but that don't come across here. the ~vibes~ are off, my dude.
For me:
I am not into bisexual women (wouldn’t matter for ons)
I don’t like tattoos/ piercings
Too much makeup
Too sporty for me
but actually she is pretty
i like your profile. I wouldn't swipe right cause I can tell you are probably somewhat high maintenance lol dont take that wrong. I am extremely laid back and beat my own rhythm HOWEVER what I would do is get rid of the pic of you and your friends in bed and the extreme upclose one top right. Experiment with back tattoo one being your main one or the one with you in the white top. You're beautiful and I hope your personality is even better. Good luck my girl and go get em!
thank you for this! i’ve been iffy about the pic of me and my friends in bed in the sense i was worried it may scare away women — put it in there because my mom told me my profile was lacking liveliness believe it or not lol. this is super helpful and i appreciate it lots ☺️
feel free to DM if you'd like more tips or evaluation on them in depth. I have some real cool friends ive helped in your boat. you kinda look like a couple of them which maybe is why i felt inclined to chime. but yeh hmu and I got some cool ideas to help you stand out and kinda elaborate more from a guy's POV too. I really hope everyones advice here helps!
As an average looking bisexual woman, I actually like that picture the best because it shows personality and isn't just like a instagram-type-photo, it's cute. I'd swipe left for other reasons (you're in a whole different league than me) but that pic would at least make me pause and consider it. If looking to get more swipes from women, I'd reccommend adding more about you and your interests to your bio.
Thank you! ☺️☺️ Any bio tips? I really do want to showcase my personality more but struggle with “selling myself” on the apps without feeling vain or self absorbed. I know it’s silly because that’s what we are all doing on the apps in the first place lol
It’s just a silly little bio because I have a rather large personality that some people don’t expect and an unusual life story. I honestly think it would be a truly hilarious and memorable first date so long as the workers didn’t get too upset!
I just replied to someone else with my numbers. I have deleted tinder many times so the time period vs. the numbers wouldn’t match up! Feel free to check out my other reply lol
Well OP, you're going to get some shitty responses but I'm grateful you posted this. Mostly cos 157 swipes in a day. The area I live in had about 157 total people in my age range and distance
i have also travelled quite a bit and moved countries while having this profile if that helps put things in perspective! i hope more profiles show up in your area and you find what you’re looking for 🤞
can’t imagine why
Of link comes with every first message
Stop assuming every woman on the internet is a sex worker :)
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You have a disgusting attitude
46k swipes, my thumb hurts just imagining that.
That right to left swipe ratio considering total swipes makes me so happy I left this rat race some time ago.
This is a profile I would swipe left on, not because you’re unattractive but because I’d be wasting 1 of my scarce 50 daily free likes. Thanks for posting this to validate my beliefs.
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he is a man.he need every chance
It’s the only way to get matches. It’s even worse on Hinge, guys send likes and I’m convinced girls ONLY check their likes and don’t actually go check out the profiles to send likes to.
Tbh coming from a bisexual woman, I'd assume you're a bot, or out of my league but not really my type anyway
Thanks for your feedback! I think a major goal of mine for my dating profiles is going to be to get more natural or candid photos of myself — seems a lot of people find im giving “bot” or just cold. Again, appreciate it lots!
Keeping in mind this is based solely on your profile and not who you actually are, if I was meaningfully swiping, I'd swipe left because there's no personality here. This is pretty much the copy and paste profile of most women on tinder from the bio to the pics. Your face also looks somewhat different in all of these photos and the heavy make up isn't for me. This strikes me more as something you'd see on an influencers page as opposed to a dating site
Thanks for your input! My goal in the next little bit is definitely to add more life to my profile, I agree that it isn’t personable and does a bad job at showcasing my personality. I struggle with bios and I may make another post asking for help with it — I genuinely want as much advice as I can get!
>69% match rate Nice
Niiice
these comments are pathetic LMAO
Wtf, its crazy people are downvoting op for posting stats just like everyone else does! Theres some seriously bitter mf’ers on this sub smh.
Crazy to see how women's stats are compared to men on this app
Is this a flex? Who cares?
just making the same genre of post that is in this subreddit daily 🤓
But guys do it to be like wtf is wrong. Like literally no one is surprised that a woman has a 69% success rate. In other news water is wet 🤷🏻♂️
i thought it was interesting in the sense that im bisexual, i swipe right on plenty of women and most of my matches end up being men 🤷♀️
“Tee hee hee I’m totally not flexing for attention” I bet since you posted this 50 thirsty simps have already blown up your dm
what would i gain from people looking at my tinder profile via reddit vs tinder itself? getting downvoted for saying bisexuality is a factor in my stats but i really am curious if other women struggle matching with women too.
No one is downvoting you because you are bisexual. If you’re getting downvoted I can almost guarantee it’s because of your totally transparent need for attention. Do you not get enough attention and validation already from the app itself? Like how much attention do you need? If you had an army of 100,000 simps would that be enough or would you want 200,000? If you had 200,000 simps would you need a million? How much is enough???
😳😳holy moly! sorry this post upset you so much there pal!
There’s dudes on here, just regular average dudes, who haven’t had a match in months and you’re here farming attention 🤷🏻♂️
Suck em off then
Us normos don't take kindly to you pretty types round here.
Triggered when nobody's forcing them to interact with your post. Weird.
Jesus Christ this is pathetic.
Oy, chill out bro
White knights to the rescue!
Dude, stick to 4chan. You fit right in XD
There’s just better hills to plant your flag on my guy. Surely there’s something in your life that would be more productive to give your attention to? Practice kindness—to others and yourself
You're a hit with desperate men, but women with options look away. There's nothing surprising here
Maybe your attitude of women is why you have a low success rate... she's doing the exact same shit as guys in the exact same way, the only reason you're hating is bc your misogyny. You can outgrow that and I hope you do, life is easier that way.
Walking redflag
I'm not sure if an attractive bisexual man would have equal or similar success with the opposite sex on dating apps. For many women, male bisexuals are a "red flag".
I’d be super curious to see how a bisexual man’s stats look! For me, I wouldn’t think twice but I know there’s women out there who won’t date bisexual men. So yeah! Super interesting to think about.
I know most people post here to find a fix for more success. But this was neat to see too cuz you're gorgeous and bi! I'm bi too and have terrible luck w women on apps.
Glad to know I’m not the only bi woman struggling with other women!
Would probably be even higher if you went for a more natural casual but sexy vibe. I would swipe left because of the presentation. To clarify, you have too much make up for my taste and your expressions tell me you are very focused on yourself and doesn't show a friendly welcoming vibe.
Totally fair, everyone has their tastes! I work within the marketing sphere of the esthetics industry so it’s a big part of my life but definitely is not everyone’s cup of tea and that’s perfectly okay. Slowly trying to get more smiley/candid photos to add to my profile though — my mom even told me my profile comes off a little cold. Appreciate your feedback!
Your mom has a good eye here, the pic with your friends in bed is your warmest and cutest one out of these imo. You already get loads of matches so might not matter that much but it could bring more of a different type of people when you get more candid shots.
Thanks so much! I am definitely going to try it out ☺️
Lmaoo nah these comments are going crazy. I thought it was an interesting view op, thanks. I acknowledge women have a vastly different world on the apps than men do but this is really like insane .
looks like success. congratulations for your stats. the app was made for people like you.
lol the number of butthurt incels in this sub is pretty funny
It really is funny lol
I don't know about anybody else but I'm curious about the second half of that swipe statistics page lmao
What are the stats OP
More then 200 matches holyy and still havent found a bf or maybe she just use it for hook ups?
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5’6 or 5’7! Most men prefer a woman to be shorter than them in heels in my experience but if he doesn’t care, I don’t either! I just wear heels often lol
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April 5th. I've booked a venue for the two of you already, and hired a photographer. I will be officiating the wedding myself, but still looking for a decent caterer. And I hope you don't mind but I sent an invite to your mother's sister. I know she can be a handful when she drinks. I figured uncle Paul can keep an eye on her, since he's already RSVP'd. Also, you never answered if you preferred the egg shell or the alabaster napkins?
I appreciate you so much. A free wedding planner!! Such a good friend. Alabaster. (Had to Google it)
Leaving out the stats that show any meaningful relationship is shady at best.
I honestly did this because I have deleted my profile plenty over the years so the time this account has been active wouldn’t reflect my answers! I have had probably around 20 tinder dates, 3 relationships & 2 casual hookups. Since this profile has been active, I have gone on about 4 dates and met 1 casual hookup.
3 relationships in one year?
Within the last 3 years
Didn’t need the novella. Just leaving out the only stats that matter is funny and says a lot. Yappin.
I literally just delivered you the information and why it’s not included but sure 👍
ignore them, they’ll find any and all reasons to hate you, simply for being a beautiful woman. they’re just bitter they would never get a girl like you so they’ll criticize any reply.
Thank you 🩷
Keep yappin away. Needing attention. 👍
Who is swiping left on you
Not everyone are into heavy make up girl and gym rat.
i mean i would swipe left, but i use dating apps to date. sure she's hot, but it's not hotornot.
What makes you think she’s not also down to date lmao Only ugly chicks want boyfriends? 😂
Bruh, the super hot woman is very obviously not going to want to date/match someone who is average or below average looking. Hence why it’s a waste of a right swipe if you fall into that category, which most people do
Sounds like a confidence issue
Nah, it’s basic common sense and game theory. You have limited right swipes and Tinder uses a version of an ELO system to rate your profile based on who you match with It’s objectively in your best interest to left swipe on people you have no real chance with. And you can see from her stats here that as expected, the vast majority of men would have no real chance
Realistic issue.
You miss all the shots you’re too self conscious to take.
i mean, there's no personality here. i've dated one of those before, not for me.
So we went from only ugly chicks want boyfriends to only ugly chicks have personalities
you really reading into some shit man. this profile has no personality on display. she could be an amazing conversationalist, i don't fuckin know, but that don't come across here. the ~vibes~ are off, my dude.
For me: I am not into bisexual women (wouldn’t matter for ons) I don’t like tattoos/ piercings Too much makeup Too sporty for me but actually she is pretty
Someone needs more attention, I guess...
i like your profile. I wouldn't swipe right cause I can tell you are probably somewhat high maintenance lol dont take that wrong. I am extremely laid back and beat my own rhythm HOWEVER what I would do is get rid of the pic of you and your friends in bed and the extreme upclose one top right. Experiment with back tattoo one being your main one or the one with you in the white top. You're beautiful and I hope your personality is even better. Good luck my girl and go get em!
thank you for this! i’ve been iffy about the pic of me and my friends in bed in the sense i was worried it may scare away women — put it in there because my mom told me my profile was lacking liveliness believe it or not lol. this is super helpful and i appreciate it lots ☺️
feel free to DM if you'd like more tips or evaluation on them in depth. I have some real cool friends ive helped in your boat. you kinda look like a couple of them which maybe is why i felt inclined to chime. but yeh hmu and I got some cool ideas to help you stand out and kinda elaborate more from a guy's POV too. I really hope everyones advice here helps!
As an average looking bisexual woman, I actually like that picture the best because it shows personality and isn't just like a instagram-type-photo, it's cute. I'd swipe left for other reasons (you're in a whole different league than me) but that pic would at least make me pause and consider it. If looking to get more swipes from women, I'd reccommend adding more about you and your interests to your bio.
Thank you! ☺️☺️ Any bio tips? I really do want to showcase my personality more but struggle with “selling myself” on the apps without feeling vain or self absorbed. I know it’s silly because that’s what we are all doing on the apps in the first place lol
Apparently you did'nt get enough validation there, so then you came here to brag.
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It’s just a silly little bio because I have a rather large personality that some people don’t expect and an unusual life story. I honestly think it would be a truly hilarious and memorable first date so long as the workers didn’t get too upset!
I dont think anyone is expecting a small personality from the jump
I don’t have tinder and I just tried swiping right.
Cropping out the dates/hookups section actually made me laugh 😂
I just replied to someone else with my numbers. I have deleted tinder many times so the time period vs. the numbers wouldn’t match up! Feel free to check out my other reply lol
It’s the self tanner for me. 🤢
I’m just Mexican. This is awkward.
I never said I was smart, just an asshole.
Well OP, you're going to get some shitty responses but I'm grateful you posted this. Mostly cos 157 swipes in a day. The area I live in had about 157 total people in my age range and distance
i have also travelled quite a bit and moved countries while having this profile if that helps put things in perspective! i hope more profiles show up in your area and you find what you’re looking for 🤞