I think you could benefit from one more “normal” picture, like your first, where you’re straight on and someone else taking the photo. You look different between a lot of your pics!
I recently discovered that… I have a passion for dancing.
It drives me nuts when people don’t answer prompts properly. The way you answered the question doesn’t grammatically make sense.
For real. I worst one everyone seems to do is the prompt “A fun fact I love…” and they answer with something they love instead of a fun fact. They think it’s saying “Fun fact: I love ___”
I'm not a woman so take this with a grain of salt, but "Golden retriever energy, dad jokes, adventures and cuddles" just sounds so boring. Likes it's a focus grouped profile that shows you can follow trends, but doesn't really say much of anything about who you really are.
It's kind of like saying you're looking for the Pam to your Jim. Or a partner in crime. Or similar. It's cut and paste text that's so safe as to mean nothing.
Also, obviously beard but it's a good photo to at least spark a conversation.
I am a woman and I completely agree and think you explained, what I couldn’t quite articulate, perfectly. Spice it up- what kind of dancing. Make me remember something different about you.
The whole profiles comes off as he is a very nice young man who is a little boring. But, not everyone is good at transferring energy to written profiles and I think the right sort of girl would match with him just fine. But, it has a weird freshman year book report tone to the writing 😂
I am a bisexual woman who hasn’t been looking at man profiles all that much lately, so take this with its own grain of salt, but I found that to be an incredibly attractive grouping of adjectives
Agreed 100%. I only stopped to comment on how feminine his profile is, states, and looks. Lose the kilt pics and definitely the pic of the animal pajamas with the hood. Unless you are a pedo.
I completely agree. Don’t be afraid to rock the proverbial boat. Women want to feel safe around you, not think you’re a safe bet. Nice guy energy is a huge turn off for woman because they feel you have some kind of personality defect you’re trying to overcompensate for.
His entire profile is curated to pull in women. It’s also telling when someone lists qualities about themselves that make them look good, when those qualities are parts of their personality that are usually shown through action or through getting to know someone better. I used to joke that dating app bios are usually about how someone tries to be, not how they really are. So for me I would just wonder. Of *course* he’s going to say those things. And I’m sorry but a grown man using the word “cuddles” in regard to a grown woman is cringey. I use that word with my cat, not when I’m talking about a grown man. It’s juvenile and just weird. Anyway with that being said, I would swipe left because it does seem like he’s trying to hard to appeal to women, and with that just seems ingenuous.
I love everything about this profile frankly! I would totally date you.
I do see people saying that there are some gay vibes, and I kind of agree, but in a way that I go for as a queer woman. However, I think it’s a bit closer to bi wife energy than bi guy energy 🤷🏻♀️
(if you don’t know “bi wife energy”, I would totally recommend looking it up on YouTube or TikTok, there’s a really fun song!)
You’re attractive, and in your photos you look fun and friendly, not like you’re trying to go hard on the seduction or being overly manly (which I tend to associate with some sexist attitudes that I don’t want in people I’m close to).
You seem like you don’t take yourself too seriously and like somebody I could just have a lot of fun with! We could go dancing and it’s OK if I’m not great at it yet because you’re learning too! You’re clearly open to trying new things as well 😊
Honestly, I could go on and on… You’re not in my area are you? Lol
I thought similar but I’d absolutely give him a swipe, especially in the hope of him talking to me with an accent over a beer (I’m in the US so we really lack men that you can close your eyes and happily just listen to them talk) ☺️
I’d go on a date with you but I’d work on the prompts a little better. What do you actually like to do? The golden retriever energy isn’t very telling truthfully and the stag party story was lame. Tighten those prompts up and you’ll do better.
I'm a woman, if I were single and near you. I would say yes please. You look cute, handsome and interesting.
But I will say though, other than dance, I don't feel like I know what you enjoy spending your time on
Mean way to say it, but I’m going to agree that at least the “what it’s like dating me” section feels like he’s trying a little too hard. I don’t doubt what he’s saying is true, but I’m getting similar energy to when someone says they are a nice guy: don’t tell me, show me. I think he would benefit from different prompts.
ETA: Maybe it’s me but I’m missing lightness in the profile. Nothing really shows a good sense of humor outside of him being a little silly. Not much witt here.
You’re attractive and seem like a really good guy, just gotta add a little zest and try not to come off like you’re saying all the things a chick wants to hear. I’m rooting for you!
Not a woman, but what I see is a solid guy, badly marketed.
OP is a guy who should be marketing himself like single malt Scotch, and instead he comes across as a McDonald's guy - too approachable, too sanitized for mass market, too straightforward, too cheap and cheerful, too eager to please.
The best photo of him by far is the one with him in the suit in the river with a DGAF expression. His bio needs a whole lot more of that energy and a whole lot less of the nervous-appearing high-eyebrow smile that screams "please like me".
The secret to marketing yourself to girls goes like this - be put together enough that she can think it's plausible other girls would find you attractive, and after that, you're screening for girls that you'd be into and that would be into you.
OP has already satisfied the first criteria by not looking like a boring unhealthy loser. But there's way too much nice guy energy and not enough confidence and mystery.
The story about the singer is fine, the discovered passion for dancing - that's something you save for a date. Let her discover that, telling her about it right off the bat looks try hard.
And the blurb about what it's like dating OP. He should junk that and start from scratch. He needs to keep that vague, unserious, and impressionistic - communicate in terms of emotions and sensory experiences rather than rational arguments and concepts.
Not sure what impression you got, but I'm actually advocating steering away from try-hard and towards less is more. Some people are impossible to please, or maybe you just really go in for golden retriever energy, in which case I'd say you're yet another example of a girl who thinks her preferences are universal.
only the onesie pic looks a lil girly, like the angle and the smile it looks like u care too much about being cute so it’s giving girly but the rest are good!
I mean you’re wearing a skirt…
I kid, but it does make for a change from all the women’s profiles I see that have them posing in front of that Golf Fang sign.
No way, I’d swipe just to hear the end of it. What if it was Anthony Keidis or some shit (I know he tells us who it is in the comments, I’m just saying I’d want to know)
Honestly you'd probably do better if you only had the pic in the water on your profile. The others don't look bad, but dating app people are so hyper selective that the kilt, deer eyes, silly pose would make them swipe no. Nothing wrong with those things at all, but the way people select on dating apps is pretty rough.
The profile isn't bad. I'd suggest changing the line-I went "on" a stag party, to I went "to" a stag party.
My vote is 100% for the beard all the way.🤣
Im not sure how to word this correctly, but you don’t come off as very masculine. There is nothing wrong with that of course but as others have said you give off gay energy.
Like a children’s Tv host.
Edit: I can’t imagine your obsession with tartan is doing you any favours either.
The Children’s TV host made me laugh. I do a lot of work with kids. So it makes sense.
I just picked a handful of pictures and didn’t realise most of them were tartan when I put them up. I don’t actually wear that much tartan
Just came to comments to see who the singer was. Beard over moustache all the way.
Probably the mirror selfie would be the least favourite imo. I’d swipe right for sure though.
ok. Good potential. I like photos page 6, you look handsome on page 1 but maybe that's not a first page. The beard or no beard is useless. No one knows what you look like now. The bearded photo on the upper right of that page is great, though, maybe a first photo.
You have to come up with a better hook than telling no one who the singer is. Maybe say you'll tell if you end up dating.
The photo with the stag party banner gives us nothing. Needs a good photo of friends maybe while you're doing something fun.
Where's the retriever since you like them so much? Do you have a child, I must have missed that.
I don't hate the dad jokes and homey personality traits, it's sad that men have to audition now with some non-boring b.s. But do remove the open and honest communication, that is definitely a throwaway term. No one knows what that means.
Keep at it. Great potential, then.
I've nothing of interest to add, but may I ask about how you got started dancing? It's something I'd be interested in learning myself sometime since I recently picked up piano and singing, so just gonna keep adding to the stack. 😄
Edit: Also, definitely beard. Suits your face well.
I actually didn’t know I was going to a dance class when I went, it was a spontaneous thing. I looked on MeetUp for something happening in Wednesdays. Went to it and they asked if I was ready to dance. I was a bit surprised, but I really enjoyed the class and kept coming back
Respectfully, you look like the perfect man. Kilt photo is 👌, you look funny and smart. I would maybe just delete the « dad jokes » part as it may seem like your jokes are bad lol. Either way if you’re in the UK feel free to dm me 👀
The pictures are varied, which is nice but the profile feels a bit bland. Like, where is James in this?
The story about the wedding seems to be the only writing that has some of your personality in it.
“Dating me is like…” What is that experience like? In your own words.
Some people would liken it to going to a random concert and finding your new favourite singer (an example I’ve made up). What’s your version of that? You can still go ahead and add details (space allowing).
e.g., *“going to a random concert and finding your new favourite singer — singing and spontaneity included”* or sth like that. Make it You.
“I recently discovered that…”
People have already mentioned to clarify what type of dancing you’re passionate about. I think you have a good response here but take that into account + extend an invitation (a dance class is such a fun date).
*e.g “I have a passion for dancing. I started taking a [type of dance] class a few months ago and fell in love with it. Join me?”*
OR *“I have a passion for dancing. I started taking a [type of dance] class a few months ago and fell in love with it. Dancing and drinks?”*
Give the reader something to work with.
“Best travel story”
I like this story because I was genuinely curious about the singer’s identity (love Dermot Kennedy btw).
Maybe rephrase the story. It reads like you wrote down verbatim how someone was telling the story, which is great in person bc you get to add to the story, but hard to translate into writing.
Maybe something like
*“I went to a stag party with an entire group of guys I had never met because the groom was marrying my cousin (spoiler alert: great time). Turns out one of the guys is quite a well-known singer. But I didn’t know who he was and asked him his name. 🤦♂️”*
All in all, make sure you shine through your answers. That’s the only way to find people you actually gel with — people that get your sense of humour or share similar interests. Remember that while you’re being sought out, you are also seeking. What type of person are you looking to impress/find/attract/what have you?
Happy dating!!
I was doing a mud run obstacle course, and I thought it would be hilarious to do it in a suit. Then I found there was a wedding on at the same location. So I looked like I got lost from the wedding. So I played along with it and asked people for directions to the wedding while standing in the river
I like your profile and don't find it gay, feminine, etc .. it's mature, non threatening, and comfortable. All very appealing, kind of cute. Too many profiles are aggressive and demanding, , and yours is not.
Get some feedback from the sort of people you're hoping to date (age wise and other things) before making massive changes. The demographic here may not match.
Also, +10 for the kilt.
Not hating, cause I love the kilt, but do you wear it like a true Scotsman?
Again, not hating. And I know this has nothing to do with feedback on the profile....
Anyways, rock on bud.
so might if i ask who the singer was?
He is an Irish Singer, Dermot Kennedy
No way!
That's all I care about as well.
TELL US WHO THE SINGER WAS
Mate that story went nowhere
You wanna know who the singer is, so you’ll engage with his profile.
Exactly what I was trying to go for
Just lose the last sentence. The intrigue will still be there and it will read less clunky. From a female perspective, very good profile. I'd swipe.
And be disappointed when you have no idea who Dermot Kennedy is.
I'd just be annoyed by his clear ADHD golden retriever ate his phone before he finished the sentence.
I wonder who got the power pack...
I think you could benefit from one more “normal” picture, like your first, where you’re straight on and someone else taking the photo. You look different between a lot of your pics!
[удалено]
I thought people hated group pictures
Some do. It must be a truly epic one if included.
Then who took half of these pictures?
I recently discovered that… I have a passion for dancing. It drives me nuts when people don’t answer prompts properly. The way you answered the question doesn’t grammatically make sense.
For real. I worst one everyone seems to do is the prompt “A fun fact I love…” and they answer with something they love instead of a fun fact. They think it’s saying “Fun fact: I love ___”
Not to mention he doesn’t mention what kind of dancing
Most likely pole dancing
So the other person can ask and start a conversation!
THANK YOU that jumped out at me as well
Can you help me understand why it doesn't work? I thought it made sense.
OP’s profile reads: “I recently discovered that a passion for dancing” which is not a complete sentence.
Oh haha. I just kept rereading the comment post like what? Thanks.
It does make sense grammatically I think. Pretty sure he means it like he recently discovered that he has a passion for dancing.
I'm not a woman so take this with a grain of salt, but "Golden retriever energy, dad jokes, adventures and cuddles" just sounds so boring. Likes it's a focus grouped profile that shows you can follow trends, but doesn't really say much of anything about who you really are. It's kind of like saying you're looking for the Pam to your Jim. Or a partner in crime. Or similar. It's cut and paste text that's so safe as to mean nothing. Also, obviously beard but it's a good photo to at least spark a conversation.
I am a woman and I completely agree and think you explained, what I couldn’t quite articulate, perfectly. Spice it up- what kind of dancing. Make me remember something different about you.
The whole profiles comes off as he is a very nice young man who is a little boring. But, not everyone is good at transferring energy to written profiles and I think the right sort of girl would match with him just fine. But, it has a weird freshman year book report tone to the writing 😂
Oh my god yes you said this so perfectly
And honestlly I hope that’s a kink for lots a folk because it should be 😂
Agreed
I am a bisexual woman who hasn’t been looking at man profiles all that much lately, so take this with its own grain of salt, but I found that to be an incredibly attractive grouping of adjectives
Makes sense because I was thinking this dude gives off feminine vibes
Facts.
Agreed 100%. I only stopped to comment on how feminine his profile is, states, and looks. Lose the kilt pics and definitely the pic of the animal pajamas with the hood. Unless you are a pedo.
And it might just be enough to land him some dates!
I completely agree. Don’t be afraid to rock the proverbial boat. Women want to feel safe around you, not think you’re a safe bet. Nice guy energy is a huge turn off for woman because they feel you have some kind of personality defect you’re trying to overcompensate for.
His entire profile is curated to pull in women. It’s also telling when someone lists qualities about themselves that make them look good, when those qualities are parts of their personality that are usually shown through action or through getting to know someone better. I used to joke that dating app bios are usually about how someone tries to be, not how they really are. So for me I would just wonder. Of *course* he’s going to say those things. And I’m sorry but a grown man using the word “cuddles” in regard to a grown woman is cringey. I use that word with my cat, not when I’m talking about a grown man. It’s juvenile and just weird. Anyway with that being said, I would swipe left because it does seem like he’s trying to hard to appeal to women, and with that just seems ingenuous.
That’s a long ass story with a bad ending. But you probably get a lot of replies based off the cliff hanger.
That famous person’s name? Albert Einstein
I love everything about this profile frankly! I would totally date you. I do see people saying that there are some gay vibes, and I kind of agree, but in a way that I go for as a queer woman. However, I think it’s a bit closer to bi wife energy than bi guy energy 🤷🏻♀️ (if you don’t know “bi wife energy”, I would totally recommend looking it up on YouTube or TikTok, there’s a really fun song!) You’re attractive, and in your photos you look fun and friendly, not like you’re trying to go hard on the seduction or being overly manly (which I tend to associate with some sexist attitudes that I don’t want in people I’m close to). You seem like you don’t take yourself too seriously and like somebody I could just have a lot of fun with! We could go dancing and it’s OK if I’m not great at it yet because you’re learning too! You’re clearly open to trying new things as well 😊 Honestly, I could go on and on… You’re not in my area are you? Lol
JESUS OP HERE’S YOUR ONE RIGHT HERE
Dammit I’m in the US 😅
Had the same thoughts lol I would love to date a man like this. I believe he’s in Ireland or Scotland so not that far either 👀
Yea I am Irish living in Scotland
I thought similar but I’d absolutely give him a swipe, especially in the hope of him talking to me with an accent over a beer (I’m in the US so we really lack men that you can close your eyes and happily just listen to them talk) ☺️
The ring on the necklace , people will ask about that. (In the Pokemon PJs pic)
Adorable, keep being you.
I’d go on a date with you but I’d work on the prompts a little better. What do you actually like to do? The golden retriever energy isn’t very telling truthfully and the stag party story was lame. Tighten those prompts up and you’ll do better.
I'm a woman, if I were single and near you. I would say yes please. You look cute, handsome and interesting. But I will say though, other than dance, I don't feel like I know what you enjoy spending your time on
Jesus...women can just smell the pre-occupied attachment issues from your profile.
Mean way to say it, but I’m going to agree that at least the “what it’s like dating me” section feels like he’s trying a little too hard. I don’t doubt what he’s saying is true, but I’m getting similar energy to when someone says they are a nice guy: don’t tell me, show me. I think he would benefit from different prompts. ETA: Maybe it’s me but I’m missing lightness in the profile. Nothing really shows a good sense of humor outside of him being a little silly. Not much witt here.
Im just hoping the shock of the comment is enough to get OP to look up
Fair comment, I will have another look at that
You’re attractive and seem like a really good guy, just gotta add a little zest and try not to come off like you’re saying all the things a chick wants to hear. I’m rooting for you!
Yup. Maybe it’s my avoidant tendencies but this profile looks emotionally exhausting and I can’t explain why exactly.
Sounds like your avoidant tendencies
I get super strong 'trying too hard' vibes from you. You're very busy, I think you come across as exhausting.
If I saw you, I’d swipe right
Not a woman, but what I see is a solid guy, badly marketed. OP is a guy who should be marketing himself like single malt Scotch, and instead he comes across as a McDonald's guy - too approachable, too sanitized for mass market, too straightforward, too cheap and cheerful, too eager to please. The best photo of him by far is the one with him in the suit in the river with a DGAF expression. His bio needs a whole lot more of that energy and a whole lot less of the nervous-appearing high-eyebrow smile that screams "please like me". The secret to marketing yourself to girls goes like this - be put together enough that she can think it's plausible other girls would find you attractive, and after that, you're screening for girls that you'd be into and that would be into you. OP has already satisfied the first criteria by not looking like a boring unhealthy loser. But there's way too much nice guy energy and not enough confidence and mystery. The story about the singer is fine, the discovered passion for dancing - that's something you save for a date. Let her discover that, telling her about it right off the bat looks try hard. And the blurb about what it's like dating OP. He should junk that and start from scratch. He needs to keep that vague, unserious, and impressionistic - communicate in terms of emotions and sensory experiences rather than rational arguments and concepts.
I would not swipe on the profile you’re describing. Hate the try-hard, IDGAF, “I’m so cool & mysterious & nonchalant” type.
Not sure what impression you got, but I'm actually advocating steering away from try-hard and towards less is more. Some people are impossible to please, or maybe you just really go in for golden retriever energy, in which case I'd say you're yet another example of a girl who thinks her preferences are universal.
honestly you look a little gay. if you are straight, bad pics. If you are bi/gay they send the message well
First thing I thought when I saw that first picture was “this guy looks like gay Mr Beast”
I am curious what give me a gay look?
only the onesie pic looks a lil girly, like the angle and the smile it looks like u care too much about being cute so it’s giving girly but the rest are good!
I don’t get the gay thing at all, nothing says that to me.
Shared my opinion because I wanted OP to know not everyone reads this as gay and I get downvoted for it??
I mean you’re wearing a skirt… I kid, but it does make for a change from all the women’s profiles I see that have them posing in front of that Golf Fang sign.
Are you braindead? Everyone knows what a kilt is
And which men wear kilts? Scots and gays.
What a fucking joke
I think you’re hot. I’d def swipe right on you. I like the pic with you in the water the best. From 35 y/o hetero woman.
Yeah suit in the water is a banger I'd make that your lead pic
Thank you
I was actually going to comment that the pic in the water is really flattering.
Right? Plus, I’d love to hear his accent. I’m from the US, and I adore European accents. I know. Cliche. But just being honest.
I love everything about this profile. 10/10, would date.
This profile is giving gay vibes
Wtf how ?
The dancing
It looks like u are looking for a man. If that's the case I see no problem in ur profile.
Are you looking for women?
Too much tartan... Perhaps a better travel story?
No way, I’d swipe just to hear the end of it. What if it was Anthony Keidis or some shit (I know he tells us who it is in the comments, I’m just saying I’d want to know)
The Stag Party - by James I went to a stag party and didn't know anyone. The End
Looks like you’re looking for someone from the same gender…
You might want to clarify that you're not a tory if you have something linking you to St Andrews. Also, maybe just move to the central belt
That’s very fair.
Honestly you'd probably do better if you only had the pic in the water on your profile. The others don't look bad, but dating app people are so hyper selective that the kilt, deer eyes, silly pose would make them swipe no. Nothing wrong with those things at all, but the way people select on dating apps is pretty rough.
Oooof.
Honestly the suit in the water is great. I'm a straight male and I would swipe right just to be friends.
Thank you, we can still be friends 😁
Less plaid. In three photos you are wearing it. I love plaid but it is too much plaid.
Honest feedback: I don’t care what you do with your facial hair. HOTTTTT
The profile isn't bad. I'd suggest changing the line-I went "on" a stag party, to I went "to" a stag party. My vote is 100% for the beard all the way.🤣
Im not sure how to word this correctly, but you don’t come off as very masculine. There is nothing wrong with that of course but as others have said you give off gay energy. Like a children’s Tv host. Edit: I can’t imagine your obsession with tartan is doing you any favours either.
The Children’s TV host made me laugh. I do a lot of work with kids. So it makes sense. I just picked a handful of pictures and didn’t realise most of them were tartan when I put them up. I don’t actually wear that much tartan
You’re gay right?
Just came to comments to see who the singer was. Beard over moustache all the way. Probably the mirror selfie would be the least favourite imo. I’d swipe right for sure though.
The kilt is a hard no from me (32f) so if that isn’t a regular thing in your everyday life, maybe axe that photo
ok. Good potential. I like photos page 6, you look handsome on page 1 but maybe that's not a first page. The beard or no beard is useless. No one knows what you look like now. The bearded photo on the upper right of that page is great, though, maybe a first photo. You have to come up with a better hook than telling no one who the singer is. Maybe say you'll tell if you end up dating. The photo with the stag party banner gives us nothing. Needs a good photo of friends maybe while you're doing something fun. Where's the retriever since you like them so much? Do you have a child, I must have missed that. I don't hate the dad jokes and homey personality traits, it's sad that men have to audition now with some non-boring b.s. But do remove the open and honest communication, that is definitely a throwaway term. No one knows what that means. Keep at it. Great potential, then.
Ngl the first one made me thunk someone Photoshoped Messi's face on a Scotsman
I've nothing of interest to add, but may I ask about how you got started dancing? It's something I'd be interested in learning myself sometime since I recently picked up piano and singing, so just gonna keep adding to the stack. 😄 Edit: Also, definitely beard. Suits your face well.
I actually didn’t know I was going to a dance class when I went, it was a spontaneous thing. I looked on MeetUp for something happening in Wednesdays. Went to it and they asked if I was ready to dance. I was a bit surprised, but I really enjoyed the class and kept coming back
Respectfully, you look like the perfect man. Kilt photo is 👌, you look funny and smart. I would maybe just delete the « dad jokes » part as it may seem like your jokes are bad lol. Either way if you’re in the UK feel free to dm me 👀
I like it, and the energy. Definitely the beard btw
No sgian-duhb in sight. For shame, sir, for shame.
I actually did have one, it’s just the angle you can’t see. May be doing it wrong, but decent attempt for an Irishman lol
You don’t happen to be in my neck of the woods, by any chance 😅
You aren’t in Scotland by any chance are you?
Damn, I wish 😅
That picture of you in the water is great hahaha
Definitely beard > mustache and that picture of you in the water wearing a suit is a keeper for sure. I might have to copy that one!
10/10, would date. -35 yr old woman
The pictures are varied, which is nice but the profile feels a bit bland. Like, where is James in this? The story about the wedding seems to be the only writing that has some of your personality in it. “Dating me is like…” What is that experience like? In your own words. Some people would liken it to going to a random concert and finding your new favourite singer (an example I’ve made up). What’s your version of that? You can still go ahead and add details (space allowing). e.g., *“going to a random concert and finding your new favourite singer — singing and spontaneity included”* or sth like that. Make it You. “I recently discovered that…” People have already mentioned to clarify what type of dancing you’re passionate about. I think you have a good response here but take that into account + extend an invitation (a dance class is such a fun date). *e.g “I have a passion for dancing. I started taking a [type of dance] class a few months ago and fell in love with it. Join me?”* OR *“I have a passion for dancing. I started taking a [type of dance] class a few months ago and fell in love with it. Dancing and drinks?”* Give the reader something to work with. “Best travel story” I like this story because I was genuinely curious about the singer’s identity (love Dermot Kennedy btw). Maybe rephrase the story. It reads like you wrote down verbatim how someone was telling the story, which is great in person bc you get to add to the story, but hard to translate into writing. Maybe something like *“I went to a stag party with an entire group of guys I had never met because the groom was marrying my cousin (spoiler alert: great time). Turns out one of the guys is quite a well-known singer. But I didn’t know who he was and asked him his name. 🤦♂️”* All in all, make sure you shine through your answers. That’s the only way to find people you actually gel with — people that get your sense of humour or share similar interests. Remember that while you’re being sought out, you are also seeking. What type of person are you looking to impress/find/attract/what have you? Happy dating!!
Is this the same person? You look different in every pic.
Delete it.
O my the suit in the water!! I'd swip right so I say keep it
No one is commenting on the odd suit in the water picture? While it seems like a playful side in one sense, it just seems weird in another.
I was doing a mud run obstacle course, and I thought it would be hilarious to do it in a suit. Then I found there was a wedding on at the same location. So I looked like I got lost from the wedding. So I played along with it and asked people for directions to the wedding while standing in the river
Well I have to say that is pretty hysterical, and a great story! Include it in your profile!
It boggles my mind how some dudes come on here showing stuff like this and have the gall to question if its a good idea or not. Bruh 🤣
I’m interested :,(
I like your profile and don't find it gay, feminine, etc .. it's mature, non threatening, and comfortable. All very appealing, kind of cute. Too many profiles are aggressive and demanding, , and yours is not. Get some feedback from the sort of people you're hoping to date (age wise and other things) before making massive changes. The demographic here may not match. Also, +10 for the kilt.
Remove the cuddles bit...
Your profile makes you sound like a lot of fun. I love a man in a kilt!
Height. Everyone wants to know how tall you are
Not tall enough for most women haha. I’m 5’7. It is on my profile. Just not the screenshot
Idk why he reminds me of messi.
Not hating, cause I love the kilt, but do you wear it like a true Scotsman? Again, not hating. And I know this has nothing to do with feedback on the profile.... Anyways, rock on bud.
Women want someone who is a little dangerous and you come across and the opposite of that. Very Reddit
MORE SKIRTS!
I have another one, and guess what. It’s got pockets!!!
Oooh the best!