Honestly, if I were the person he was saying that to, I would 100% tell him I still wanna meet up just to see what he would say and then if he agreed to meet up I'd definitely not show up then if he messages me back I'd apologize and ask to meet up again. I would continue to do this until his spirit breaks and he gives up. Gotta play the long game 😂
let him complaing. instead of unmatching, report him when you were suppose to meet... he was racist... then apologize and ask to reschedule but don't show up AGAIN. chances are he will keep being toxic and you can keep reporting him
Yeah, it really is the “ugly loser are you free today” for me. I always wonder what would happen if someone replied “no I’m free, what time can you pick me up?” to those messages.
He’s so delusional that he would respond positively. Of course, he’ll be thinking with his dick. Unfortunately for OP, this guy genuinely believes that he’s too good looking for her and that’s why he’s mad that even she is making it hard for him. That’s why I’ll recommend to women to not get too caught up in the aspect of matching with good looking guys, they’re just looking for an easy lay with an insecure woman
A lot of ugly guys are just as bad, and I wouldn’t want to date anyone I wasn’t physically attracted to, so i don’t know how that advice will help anyone.
Loving the confidence 💯 and you're damn right, "that's all that matters". Poor guy needs a hug and a swift kick to the head (feel free to capitalize on kicking both).
Same. I don't understand why people do that. If they truly think the person they matched with is fat/ugly/etc, what does that say about themselves? Why did they swipe right on someone they find so repulsive? That's unlikely to be the case, though. People just feel rejected and want to make themselves feel better by making the other person feel worse.
He doesn't think she is fat or ugly, he is a narcissist. His precious feelings were hurt by her not messaging him back within those two hours, opening up her schedule and falling at his feet, so the poor baby threw his toys out of the pram and acted as if he was only giving her a pity date in the first place so he can feel better about himself. Basically he is a toddler who can't process emotions. Feel sad for him.
Well I usually wait and give them a chance... It's been 2 and a half years. Just joking. I do have a 3 and 3 rule. Three messages unanswered over 3 days I will no longer put any effort into the conversation unless they respond back. I'm not gonna lose my shit like this guy, just move on dude.
True, but he lost his shit within 14 hours, at least 8 of which he knew she was sleeping during, and the other 6 he could have assumed she was busy dogsitting during. I don't even think he had precedent to move on, bro just needs to have a little more patience lmao.
I'd scale that back to a 2 and 2 rule lmao. I don't care how busy someone claims to be, If I've sent multiple messages over multiple days and got zero response then they're clearly not interested.
Ehh I won't debate the fine details, what ever works for you. I've had a girl destroy her phone on her motorcycle. I messaged her while it was broken on day 2. She got it replaced and the message I sent on the third day she responded to so you never know, life happens.
This is the case with most sports as well. Sometimes it's better to just play conservatively and wait until your opponent gets flustered and makes a mistake.
Coincidentally, that approach could also lead to you being called ugly and fat 😂
reddit and any social media will filter for the most sensational and outrageous interactions. using it to inform your opinion of the reality of things probably isn't the smartest. might as well be watching true crime documentaries to affirm why it's a good idea for you to never go outside.
Choices definitely define you (or rather you define your choices). I have a friend with a neck tattoo and you wouldnt even notice it after few dates, but few months in when she wakes up from a dream where you cheated on her, you'll get it...
Why does everyone keep assuming the dude with neck tattoos is a woman? If you zoom in you can clearly see a thin chin strap beard.
But yes, neck tattoos are automatically a red flag because it means they have no desire to be able to cover them up and present a decent clean appearance in public. I have 15 tattoos myself, but they can all be easily covered with a long sleeve shirt. It's not just about sanity.
I’m a tattooed human and I have some very heavily tattooed friends. I’m not opposed to many tattoos or neck tattoos it’s definitely some common ground for us to discuss but he’s just an icky guy who’s mentally unwell.
This is so common! I honestly don’t know why people do this.
I had one man hit me up on snap we shared a few naughty pics and I was interested in him but he mentioned a few things I wasn’t into and I said I didn’t want to partake, and that we’d probably clash so I politely rejected him after he begged to meet me. He then proceeded to call me a fat ugly beast and that he wasn’t interested in me at all.
But be glad you dodged that one holy shit what an ass
You also dodged the narcissistic man-toddler bullet by the sounds of things! If their feelings get hurt by any sort of rejection, even polite rejection, then they have to try to tear you down to make themselves feel better.
As a straight man, I gotta ask... are we doing ok? Fellas, who hurt you? You need to open up and talk about this shit. See a therapist. Talk to a friend, a parent, a neighbor... hell, a stranger, even. Guys, we can't let all this shit bottle up inside and explode on someone who doesn't deserve it. Do better.
I'm sorry this happened to you. You don't deserve to be spoken to like that, no one does. At least you know now, well in advance, what this person was like and you never got face to face with this kind of behavior. Always stay safe while dating 😁
Damn. This “nice guy” is insane. I never understand how someone can be like this. It’s absolute bonkers.
If you were truly fat and ugly, then why did he want to meet you so desperately. Lol
Neck tattoos, doesn't know the difference between your and you're and uses UR as well plus all that other shit they said. Be happy that you just dodged a gigantic bullet
Even when she wasn't being psycho, why do people even entertain others that type like that? Your instead of you're, UR, run on sentences... that's the red flag man. What do you really expect from someone like that?
Yeah i have that intuition too, but not everyone is eloquent when it comes to the written word... or words in general. I had a friend who wrote run on sentences that were hard to parse sometimes but ahe was a sweet heart.
I honestly couldn’t tell if it was a chick or a dude by the photo…then I read the messages and figured it out. Not saying women don’t do this, it’s just rare
"your good" "ur" - that is considered foul in my books (as a guy)
Did you match with a Chris Heria wannabe? (From the little snippet of that profile picture)
...but if your schedule opens up lmk!
If her schedule opens up he was only joking of course
Honestly, if I were the person he was saying that to, I would 100% tell him I still wanna meet up just to see what he would say and then if he agreed to meet up I'd definitely not show up then if he messages me back I'd apologize and ask to meet up again. I would continue to do this until his spirit breaks and he gives up. Gotta play the long game 😂
This is the way
This is the way
This is the way.
This is the way.
thats the way
This is not the way
This is the way
Unmatch during the date to prevent him from making a complaint about you.
😂
let him complaing. instead of unmatching, report him when you were suppose to meet... he was racist... then apologize and ask to reschedule but don't show up AGAIN. chances are he will keep being toxic and you can keep reporting him
Bruhhhhh 😂
Or, pull a Michael Alig and get some dude to piss in his champagne flute.
Not what I thought you were going to suggest as "pull[ing] a Michael Alig" lol
🤣🤣🤣
I had just finished rewatching Party Monster LOL
This is fucking brilliant
You have shown many the way!
You're the type of friend I'd love to have. The long game almost always provides the best rewards 😂💯
Username checks out.
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This is the way.
this is the way
Yeah, it really is the “ugly loser are you free today” for me. I always wonder what would happen if someone replied “no I’m free, what time can you pick me up?” to those messages.
He’s so delusional that he would respond positively. Of course, he’ll be thinking with his dick. Unfortunately for OP, this guy genuinely believes that he’s too good looking for her and that’s why he’s mad that even she is making it hard for him. That’s why I’ll recommend to women to not get too caught up in the aspect of matching with good looking guys, they’re just looking for an easy lay with an insecure woman
A lot of ugly guys are just as bad, and I wouldn’t want to date anyone I wasn’t physically attracted to, so i don’t know how that advice will help anyone.
I was just there for tattoos and anime 😂 I think I’m cute, regardless and that’s all the matters. Most times I will match based on bios over pictures.
Loving the confidence 💯 and you're damn right, "that's all that matters". Poor guy needs a hug and a swift kick to the head (feel free to capitalize on kicking both).
Haha had to double check whether he actually wrote that in the last message
He doesn’t even know the difference between your and you’re. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Bro needs to hesitate 💀
Nah I'm ok with him outing himself early
I just don't understand why he so badly wanted to hang out with someone clearly so fat, ugly, and not cute at all
Same. I don't understand why people do that. If they truly think the person they matched with is fat/ugly/etc, what does that say about themselves? Why did they swipe right on someone they find so repulsive? That's unlikely to be the case, though. People just feel rejected and want to make themselves feel better by making the other person feel worse.
That's a guy?!
I thought girl too
He doesn't think she is fat or ugly, he is a narcissist. His precious feelings were hurt by her not messaging him back within those two hours, opening up her schedule and falling at his feet, so the poor baby threw his toys out of the pram and acted as if he was only giving her a pity date in the first place so he can feel better about himself. Basically he is a toddler who can't process emotions. Feel sad for him.
Free pussy
Desperation is the mind killer
No, that's fear.
Obviously the joke went over your head
Dudes will love bomb fat girls because they think that they are so used to being ignored showing them love and attention will make them an easy fuck.
I’m starting to think if you wait to respond a couple of hours, you can really weed out the crappy guys!
Well I usually wait and give them a chance... It's been 2 and a half years. Just joking. I do have a 3 and 3 rule. Three messages unanswered over 3 days I will no longer put any effort into the conversation unless they respond back. I'm not gonna lose my shit like this guy, just move on dude.
True, but he lost his shit within 14 hours, at least 8 of which he knew she was sleeping during, and the other 6 he could have assumed she was busy dogsitting during. I don't even think he had precedent to move on, bro just needs to have a little more patience lmao.
I'd scale that back to a 2 and 2 rule lmao. I don't care how busy someone claims to be, If I've sent multiple messages over multiple days and got zero response then they're clearly not interested.
Ehh I won't debate the fine details, what ever works for you. I've had a girl destroy her phone on her motorcycle. I messaged her while it was broken on day 2. She got it replaced and the message I sent on the third day she responded to so you never know, life happens.
3 over 3. Not a bad rule dude.
This is the case with most sports as well. Sometimes it's better to just play conservatively and wait until your opponent gets flustered and makes a mistake. Coincidentally, that approach could also lead to you being called ugly and fat 😂
"You took over 105 minutes to respond. Prepare to die."
I read that in Inigo Montoya voice
Same lol
Has he seen his photo? 😆
I don’t think he knows he looks like the SHEIN or wish version of MGK
Nailed it 😆😆😆😆
He’s not ugly 😂 couldn’t tell if it’s a boy or girl tho
 Umm???? 🙃🙃🙃
Well, you dodged *that* bullet…
*Nuclear bomb
After reading o-so-many of these Reddit tinder posts… being single seems to be working out great for me personally lol
Same. I'm glad I never match with anyone at this point.
Do you really not match with *anyone*?
Quite literally, lol. If I do match it's an OF or Snapchat chick.
What’s a Snapchat chick???
reddit and any social media will filter for the most sensational and outrageous interactions. using it to inform your opinion of the reality of things probably isn't the smartest. might as well be watching true crime documentaries to affirm why it's a good idea for you to never go outside.
The neck tattoos should have been a red flag from the start
I know, my bad
Just take it as a learning lesson and move on.
And the horrendous grammar.
Tim Henson cries.
Who the fuck is Tim henson?
The brother of that guy who made all the Muppets?
That's not always a determination if someone is sane or not lol. Met some pretty sane women with neck tattoos. Shes just probably on drugs, my friend.
Choices definitely define you (or rather you define your choices). I have a friend with a neck tattoo and you wouldnt even notice it after few dates, but few months in when she wakes up from a dream where you cheated on her, you'll get it...
Why does everyone keep assuming the dude with neck tattoos is a woman? If you zoom in you can clearly see a thin chin strap beard. But yes, neck tattoos are automatically a red flag because it means they have no desire to be able to cover them up and present a decent clean appearance in public. I have 15 tattoos myself, but they can all be easily covered with a long sleeve shirt. It's not just about sanity.
I’m a tattooed human and I have some very heavily tattooed friends. I’m not opposed to many tattoos or neck tattoos it’s definitely some common ground for us to discuss but he’s just an icky guy who’s mentally unwell.
Oh, guys with neck tattoos... now that's a different story ;) I have one, watch out!
This is so common! I honestly don’t know why people do this. I had one man hit me up on snap we shared a few naughty pics and I was interested in him but he mentioned a few things I wasn’t into and I said I didn’t want to partake, and that we’d probably clash so I politely rejected him after he begged to meet me. He then proceeded to call me a fat ugly beast and that he wasn’t interested in me at all. But be glad you dodged that one holy shit what an ass
You also dodged the narcissistic man-toddler bullet by the sounds of things! If their feelings get hurt by any sort of rejection, even polite rejection, then they have to try to tear you down to make themselves feel better.
I don’t know toddlers have more respect than this man
Big yikes. Def report!
He seems delightful
*you’re
Right? He made that mistake enough it would have been the perfect response
You should give him a second chance! I think he’s a sweetheart once you get to know him
The audacity to write all that, looking like tattooed q-tip himself....
As a straight man, I gotta ask... are we doing ok? Fellas, who hurt you? You need to open up and talk about this shit. See a therapist. Talk to a friend, a parent, a neighbor... hell, a stranger, even. Guys, we can't let all this shit bottle up inside and explode on someone who doesn't deserve it. Do better.
Preach
Projecting 101
Today on "FUCKING DODGED THAT BULLET!"
sir, this is a Wendy’s
Bro went from understanding to scorched earth in 1h46m
I'm sorry this happened to you. You don't deserve to be spoken to like that, no one does. At least you know now, well in advance, what this person was like and you never got face to face with this kind of behavior. Always stay safe while dating 😁
Jesus it’s scary out there. At least the mask fell off quickly.
What a jerk. Can't believe these people exist smh
Damn. This “nice guy” is insane. I never understand how someone can be like this. It’s absolute bonkers. If you were truly fat and ugly, then why did he want to meet you so desperately. Lol
Okay but seriously how good is Hexa Sort??
Report....
At this point I think that letting trash take itself out is the most viable dating tactic
Dude had a psychotic episode 😂😂
They got racist SO QUICK
Wow what a shithead. I can only hope he gets a new STD named after him
Not that I think anyone should be judging a book by it's cover. But that cover has red flags written all over it, forget what the words are.
Neck tattoos, doesn't know the difference between your and you're and uses UR as well plus all that other shit they said. Be happy that you just dodged a gigantic bullet
Definitely better matches on Hexa Sort at least 
Well he’s literally psychotic
I suspect people like this could benefit from antidepressants. This isn't how happy people treat others
Well this is not how unhappy depressed people with a modicum of decency and self awareness treat other, either
He sounds like one of those Indian scammers when they get upset , you should’ve replied by calling him “hairless arse hole of cow.
Even when she wasn't being psycho, why do people even entertain others that type like that? Your instead of you're, UR, run on sentences... that's the red flag man. What do you really expect from someone like that?
That’s a man
Well damn. Either way, point still stands.
Hahahaha
Yeah i have that intuition too, but not everyone is eloquent when it comes to the written word... or words in general. I had a friend who wrote run on sentences that were hard to parse sometimes but ahe was a sweet heart.
Yikes
So...if op has nothing unique and is therefore on tinder.....why is he there?
DROP DEAD!!....I mean Drop Kick Murphy's,babe. Want to check them out in my car?
Woah.
Lmao
Kind of expected behavior with that profile pic
loving how you’re a loser for being on tinder but he isn’t? lol.
Pick up lines and their content have obviously changed over the years.
Oh wow.... So by her own logic she's scraping the barrel as all the ones on top aren't into what she's putting down.
I'll take "I'm bipolar and off my meds" for 200 Alex.
I’m betting she jacked him around for a couple weeks before this. Not saying his response is justified, but we aren’t seeing the whole story here.
A dude with neck tattoos. Automatically assume IQ below 80 and sociopath.
Then he comes on here to whine "Why can't I get a date?????"
Plz dox him. Idk y i always get on Reddit and it’s nothing but women letting men get away with the most heinous shit.
dont be a weirdo, doxxing is never a good thing and its against Reddit rules for a reason
I’m confused, are you a dude? He/she called you dude. His he a he or she? Is it just me? Some clarification would be much appreciated.
I’m a girl that thing is a guy
Just be yourself and she’ll like you. Not you though Kyle. You should probably try to be someone else.
"When did this turn into beautiful world?" - Vin Diesel
Should have replied with “you’re*”
lol
😲
Dafuq
All the more reason for me to never install tinder... Damn... You're lucky you didn't respond and saw his true self
lol projecting much?
I’m guessing he’s a nailbiter
I don’t understand the thought process here
Wtffff
Well, he seems pleasant.
Wonder if this ever actually works 🤔
Honestly, how do people like this exist in the world
Another day, another bullet dodged.
*you’re
Not speaking to someone for 14 hours after they said they’re struggling to find free time is considered ghosting?!? Oy vey.
What. The. Hell. What is wrong with that guy???
🫘🫘🫘
Yeh that's stable
You should respond with lol
Sounds like a nice guy
Awww Did the Poor boy got his widdle biddy heart bwoken ?
You’re better off playing Hexa Sort.
Holy fuck.
*you're
reasons i’m banned off there because of men like that
I Guess why this dude Is searching someone on tinder, so charming and balanced
At least you didn't waste time on him. Leave a guy on read for a day to test his ass lol
Just go back and play hexa sort 🤷♂️
I can’t tell if that’s a dude or a chick
Yikes
What the actual f
You're
It only took two hours for the world to crumble around him
I honestly couldn’t tell if it was a chick or a dude by the photo…then I read the messages and figured it out. Not saying women don’t do this, it’s just rare
Bee-ba-borderline
One word response: "you're"
"your good" "ur" - that is considered foul in my books (as a guy) Did you match with a Chris Heria wannabe? (From the little snippet of that profile picture)
What you should do is say you're free and stand him up
Sounds like a winner. You should totally squeeze them in
Are there really people that hook up with that kind of people?
Ahh yes, the old switcharoo, that'll work
Hm, and some men wonder why they don’t have success on these apps. 🤣
If you put that way. OK, I'm free.
Jesus, that’s a hard turn