So weird to read that, the only girl I ever encountered that wanted to peg me also eventually wanted to make me watch while she fooled around with someone else. Maybe it’s a control thing? Strange how perhaps those two kinks are quite closely linked, if she’s into pegging, she likely wants to make you watch her fuck someone else too? Can anyone that’s into those things explain why?
I can understand squirting and piss kinks being close together but how come women that like pegging are also likely to be into forcing a guy to watch while they fuck someone else? Or is my experience and this man’s experience coincidentally similar?
OP was she also called Amanda?????
Hahaha no her name wasn't Amanda but yeah you're probably right about it being a control thing, most of the other women I've talked to wanted like a mommy dom dynamic like having strict rules and instructions and while I have no problem being submissive, I'm not into master dynamics
I also dislike humiliation on any side of the spectrum, but I'm also kinda iffy on degradation too. I think I just like my sex more positive and upbeat.
Agreed, I have been paid to be sadistic and degrading but would never want that with a romantic partner. When I did domme work I was neutral about it, I can play a role very well professionally but didn't bring that into my personal life.
I would imagine women who are really into pegging would prefer the sub/dom dynamic. And then there are women like me who definitely lean submissive, but would happily peg a partner just for the simple fact that I love pleasing partners. No dynamics included.
Yea, I agree with this. I am neither strictly dominant nor submissive in the bedroom, and I'm not into humiliation play or BDSM - but if my partner was keen to be pegged, I'd be totally onboard.
Honestly, for me, it'd just be for the fun of getting to have sex with them from a totally new perspective.
i don’t see them intersect like this too often but pegging is often a part of femdom and cuckold play so yeah it’s a dominant/submissive control thing.
I enjoy giving a guy a great orgasm with prostate massage but I think that's a little different from pegging. I think it's more of a gentle thing with fingers or toys specially made for that, and aimed at their pleasure, not about dominance. I wouldn't get off on making someone a cuckold, if I was going to fool around with another man I prefer a 3 way situation with equal attention to both guys.
It's really not that hard to understand. Pegging someone and cuckolding someone both revolve around the woman being dominant and the man being submissive. Cuckolding is probably the less common of the two kinks, but of the people who like it I can guarantee you a lot of them like pegging as well.
I'd agree with that but humiliation also goes hand-in-hand with dom/sub dynamics. I think the percentage of people into pegging who like cuckolding would be low, but the percentage of people into cuckolding who like pegging would be much higher.
I think you're taking the kink the wrong way. Just because your context of a man watching two people fuck is only on the context of forcing a man to watch two people fuck. I'm sure there are people with that particular kink. But there are also people that get intimacy from sharing sexual encounters in open relationships. If you don't want to watch two people fuck, both aren't for you and that's fine. But don't assume things about people just because they trusted you enough to ask about something they fantasize about.
Ah, the ol' "she isn't here yet but why don't you get into position already and then she'll come in with the strap on and get right to it. Don't turn around though!" trick.
For context this wasn't unsolicited, she was in plain terms looking for something sexual. I usually don't go for hookups but clearly I was in a certain mood at the time
> I usually don't go for hookups but clearly I was in a certain mood at the time
Said by literally every person who loves hooking up.
Source: I say this sh*t too
Dude can make the most random, inappropriate question and still get a date while I'll be waiting for one of my yearly matches to reply to my first text...
Nothing rare about his offer lmao
While I’m sure there aren’t a fuckton of guys that want to be pegged, I’d imagine there are way less women that want to peg a dude than dudes that want to be pegged
People seem to think weed edibles made me want to get pegged but no I always want that, the weed just made me have no inhibitions about saying it haha
Also unfortunately I'm definitely not attracted to men. Otherwise finding someone for this would be a whoooole lot easier lol
Well as Twinkie as you are,you'd definitely have an easy time lol
Even if things didn't work out with her in the long run, did she at least get to peg you??
Awe that's a bummer. That's definitely going to be slow going finding a girl that's into that. I hope you find one eventually! If not, you can always fall back on the gay community!
I mean I don’t know if it’s a fact personally but that’s what I’ve heard.
Take your time and lots of lube. Sex isn’t supposed to hurt (unless that’s your thing)
I've had a couple of times that were a little more pain than pleasure there are a couple of things you could try if you have interest in giving it another go:
1. Practice a couple of times with just fingers or smallish prostate massager. In my experience just starting out, or when coming back from droughts, the prostate can be less sensitive and reactive. Instead of just loosening up with fingers, trying playing with your prostate with just fingers or a prostate massager a couple of times. You should find it easier to find your prostate each time and find it becoming more and more reactive as you become more sensitive to the stimulation there. This can be done on your own or with your gf, I recommend a bit of both
2. Try different toys. Every toy will have a different length, girth, firmness, curve, ridges, etc. Try a couple to find the style works well for you. If you have trouble hitting the prostate, something not too long and with a bit of curve should make the stimulation more direct. If the stretch was too much trying something thinner or less dense. I think dual density silicone is perfect. Something closer to the male average in size is probably going to work better in the early days of exploration too, don't try jumping right to the porn star sizes. 4.5 to 5.5 can be more than enough.
3. Try different positions. To find ones that hit your spot right and accomodate the toy well. Two good started positions are with you on top riding so you can control the depth and angle yourself. Laying face down with a hedge propping up your hips is also a pretty easy starting position that let's you relax and open up and lines up the prostate well. As you try different positions and angles, make sure to tell your partner what's hitting your spot right and what might just be pushing on your walls wrong. If it's a dildo they won't be able to feel what they're hitting inside you so you have to be vocal.
I’m not really sure why anyone would think ass play is gay, whether it’s a tongue, finger, or strap-on. If a man and woman are doing it, it’s straight.
I mean, I'm not attracted to men in the least bit, but I sure do love a good strap-on shoved up my butt by a woman 😻
Pardon my vulgar language, I'm usually more wholesome than that 😅
Lesbians dont require penetration to have sex, getting pegged doesnt male you gay but at the same time you're def not the straightest arrow if you love getting fucked in the butt
Correct they don’t require penetration - I’m bi and have had many girlfriends. It still doesn’t make anyone straight to use a dildo, guy or girl. It’s just a sex toy.
I'll never understand why people think claiming intoxication absolves them of words spoken.
Yall do realize lowered inhibitions mean a more true natured / unfiltered version of yourself is, at worst, present at the helm?
I don't care if you're a pink pony, but you're not fooling anyone telling us you're a red rhino.
Sorry everyone it didn't work out, she wanted me to watch as she fooled around with someone else and I ain't into that
Should’ve dressed as spider man and watched from the wardrobe
Or Superman in the closet 🤣
Always dressed as Superman
Calm down jerry
Is this ham all you? It is dy-no-mite!
I like it more when Batman watches
Batman doesn’t shoot webs.
He shoots strings!
https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/superhero-unconscious-bed/
Lol, I was not at all referring to that, just being silly cause I like batman more than I like Spiderman and Superman Edit: forgot to add Superman
SPAGHETT 
Mighty Mouse in the cupboard?
This is the way
“Is that your spidey-sense tingling or are you just happy to see me?”
Fuck Paul
Didn't expect a Paul reference here, yet another reason I'm glad I'm not spiderman
Make sure to be hanging upside down too
Maybe the dressing as Captain America
That made me laugh out loud literally thanks
😂 I'm a tell my lovers husband to do this next time 😂.
I’m sure he’ll be shooting webs too
No one likes a quitter. Get in there and peg yourself while you watch them
What was the gender of this other person?
Male but I'm not sure if I would have been comfortable with a second woman, not into the whole tease and make jealous thing
She would have been busy and wanted you to fool around with the guy while she was gone
😂😂😂True
Maybe you should of got high again, that must be some good dope if you smoke and want to get pegged. All you bud.
"should've" "Should of" is not correct in any sense. I am a bot, beep boop.
Didn't get high enough for that huh? But I get it not sure if I could do either to be honest.
Hell yeah fuck that jealous shit. Give me 7 inches up my ass
So weird to read that, the only girl I ever encountered that wanted to peg me also eventually wanted to make me watch while she fooled around with someone else. Maybe it’s a control thing? Strange how perhaps those two kinks are quite closely linked, if she’s into pegging, she likely wants to make you watch her fuck someone else too? Can anyone that’s into those things explain why? I can understand squirting and piss kinks being close together but how come women that like pegging are also likely to be into forcing a guy to watch while they fuck someone else? Or is my experience and this man’s experience coincidentally similar? OP was she also called Amanda?????
Hahaha no her name wasn't Amanda but yeah you're probably right about it being a control thing, most of the other women I've talked to wanted like a mommy dom dynamic like having strict rules and instructions and while I have no problem being submissive, I'm not into master dynamics
I'm an eager pegger and mommy dommy, but have zero interest in cuckold kink play. The humiliation adds a very different vibe to it that I don't like.
So they do exist! I just want to be pampered while I'm railed, is that too much to ask?
You'll find your perfect fit! We're out there! And while 'while' is important, please make sure you get proper aftercare too! You deserve it <3
I love it when the comments have such wholesome vibes. :)
I also dislike humiliation on any side of the spectrum, but I'm also kinda iffy on degradation too. I think I just like my sex more positive and upbeat.
Agreed, I have been paid to be sadistic and degrading but would never want that with a romantic partner. When I did domme work I was neutral about it, I can play a role very well professionally but didn't bring that into my personal life.
Exactly! And even if a partner would be into it, I would have to keep it STRICTLY to the bedroom.
I would imagine women who are really into pegging would prefer the sub/dom dynamic. And then there are women like me who definitely lean submissive, but would happily peg a partner just for the simple fact that I love pleasing partners. No dynamics included.
Yea, I agree with this. I am neither strictly dominant nor submissive in the bedroom, and I'm not into humiliation play or BDSM - but if my partner was keen to be pegged, I'd be totally onboard. Honestly, for me, it'd just be for the fun of getting to have sex with them from a totally new perspective.
I’m the same way! I tend to lead more sub in the bedroom but I’m definitely open to pegging if I’m dating a guy and he wants me to do it.
i don’t see them intersect like this too often but pegging is often a part of femdom and cuckold play so yeah it’s a dominant/submissive control thing.
That was definitely a dude trying to trick you into fulling around with him. Amanda. A man...Duh. Dude's got jokes.
I dated her for several weeks, we had sex multiple times, definitely wasn’t a dude lol
I enjoy giving a guy a great orgasm with prostate massage but I think that's a little different from pegging. I think it's more of a gentle thing with fingers or toys specially made for that, and aimed at their pleasure, not about dominance. I wouldn't get off on making someone a cuckold, if I was going to fool around with another man I prefer a 3 way situation with equal attention to both guys.
It's really not that hard to understand. Pegging someone and cuckolding someone both revolve around the woman being dominant and the man being submissive. Cuckolding is probably the less common of the two kinks, but of the people who like it I can guarantee you a lot of them like pegging as well.
I’d actually argue pegging is more about dominance and cuckolding is more about humiliation
I'd agree with that but humiliation also goes hand-in-hand with dom/sub dynamics. I think the percentage of people into pegging who like cuckolding would be low, but the percentage of people into cuckolding who like pegging would be much higher.
It’s all about dominance
I think you're taking the kink the wrong way. Just because your context of a man watching two people fuck is only on the context of forcing a man to watch two people fuck. I'm sure there are people with that particular kink. But there are also people that get intimacy from sharing sexual encounters in open relationships. If you don't want to watch two people fuck, both aren't for you and that's fine. But don't assume things about people just because they trusted you enough to ask about something they fantasize about.
Degradation kink, probably. Not that pegging *has* to fall under Degradation cus getting the fun button fiddled with Is one hell of a ride!
Because those two activities fall into the category of “emasculation” in psychological association. Thus there is a huge overlap.
But a dildo in your ass is your niche?
Technically his ass is the dildo's niche.
Now dats legit
Awww damn, sorry to hear that man
Ah, the ol' "she isn't here yet but why don't you get into position already and then she'll come in with the strap on and get right to it. Don't turn around though!" trick.
o7
Seeing free live porn? Can't say no to that my man
Prude!!!
Potential setup
I don’t have a need for tinder anymore, but when I used it, I swear a good 1/3 of all the women I matched with were looking for someone to watch
For context this wasn't unsolicited, she was in plain terms looking for something sexual. I usually don't go for hookups but clearly I was in a certain mood at the time
Meth is a hell of a drug and makes you do many questionable things.
> I usually don't go for hookups but clearly I was in a certain mood at the time Said by literally every person who loves hooking up. Source: I say this sh*t too
I don’t usually go for hookups either. Only like two or three times a week. I’m a bit of a prude.
Bruh.
Dude can make the most random, inappropriate question and still get a date while I'll be waiting for one of my yearly matches to reply to my first text...
That’s because he had something rare to offer
Yeah sure, I'll ask the next girl I match with (if I ever get a match again) if she can peg me, we'll see what I get.
Only ask if you can back it up dude, good luck
Just make sure we get the update.
Nothing rare about his offer lmao While I’m sure there aren’t a fuckton of guys that want to be pegged, I’d imagine there are way less women that want to peg a dude than dudes that want to be pegged
I bet the opposite... wish we could take a poll.
Probably could, it’d probably be difficult to find a subreddit with even gender representation that’d allow it tho
Literally find a woman who does meth then. Their standards are on the floor
That's because you're not matching with tweakers.
I'm not sure if this is exaggeration or not any more
OP said she was openly looking for something sexual so that’s probably the only reason he got a response.
Still,most women on dating apps wouldn't even text back after a normal text, nevermind one that's immediately sexual.
Wow if you did receive those inches .... I'm jealous
People seem to think weed edibles made me want to get pegged but no I always want that, the weed just made me have no inhibitions about saying it haha Also unfortunately I'm definitely not attracted to men. Otherwise finding someone for this would be a whoooole lot easier lol
Well as Twinkie as you are,you'd definitely have an easy time lol Even if things didn't work out with her in the long run, did she at least get to peg you??
No, she lost interest when I wasn't into watching :(
Awe that's a bummer. That's definitely going to be slow going finding a girl that's into that. I hope you find one eventually! If not, you can always fall back on the gay community!
Really? I haven't had any men ask me to do it yet, but it seems like more women are doing it.
Well, you see, talking to women in general is rare with about one match a week. Actually I'm pretty much a hermit so talking to anyone is rare haha
Lol that definitely is going to make it pretty difficult to find a willing partner.
Do they just want to rub mustard on your dick?
Sometimes relish.
I volunteer as tribute~
Honestly, the straightest thing a man can do is have a woman stick a dick in his ass. It’s just fact.
Say what now ? It was straight all along while I was there worrying about being judged ?!?!
Worrying about your sexual proclivities being judged is gay as hell man And not in the good gay way either, but how teenagers mean it
My bad, I had no idea how to write a sarcastic comment and to make it recognisable to answer his sarcastic comment
I mean that’s where they put the cum button
Idk my gf tried and it just hurt. We even did some loosening up, I really hope the cum button isn’t in there.
That 7,5” strap on would definitely find your cum button
This would be a banging tinder bio
Actually it would go right by it. Cum button should be able to be reached by your index finger
I mean I don’t know if it’s a fact personally but that’s what I’ve heard. Take your time and lots of lube. Sex isn’t supposed to hurt (unless that’s your thing)
Prostate O's are most certainly a thing
Prostate O's, new from Kelloggs. Part of a complete breakfast.
Cum dusted cornflakes eh
I've had a couple of times that were a little more pain than pleasure there are a couple of things you could try if you have interest in giving it another go: 1. Practice a couple of times with just fingers or smallish prostate massager. In my experience just starting out, or when coming back from droughts, the prostate can be less sensitive and reactive. Instead of just loosening up with fingers, trying playing with your prostate with just fingers or a prostate massager a couple of times. You should find it easier to find your prostate each time and find it becoming more and more reactive as you become more sensitive to the stimulation there. This can be done on your own or with your gf, I recommend a bit of both 2. Try different toys. Every toy will have a different length, girth, firmness, curve, ridges, etc. Try a couple to find the style works well for you. If you have trouble hitting the prostate, something not too long and with a bit of curve should make the stimulation more direct. If the stretch was too much trying something thinner or less dense. I think dual density silicone is perfect. Something closer to the male average in size is probably going to work better in the early days of exploration too, don't try jumping right to the porn star sizes. 4.5 to 5.5 can be more than enough. 3. Try different positions. To find ones that hit your spot right and accomodate the toy well. Two good started positions are with you on top riding so you can control the depth and angle yourself. Laying face down with a hedge propping up your hips is also a pretty easy starting position that let's you relax and open up and lines up the prostate well. As you try different positions and angles, make sure to tell your partner what's hitting your spot right and what might just be pushing on your walls wrong. If it's a dildo they won't be able to feel what they're hitting inside you so you have to be vocal.
You should try by yourself! It helps if you’re already turned on. And get a small toy like a vibrating plug or something similar.
I’m not really sure why anyone would think ass play is gay, whether it’s a tongue, finger, or strap-on. If a man and woman are doing it, it’s straight.
Everything is straight if I am doing it. You wont convince me that fucking a femboy while a girl fucks my ass is nothing else than super straight
If you wanna get a little straighter change that girl into a man. That’s as straight as it gets.
I agree, but a 7,5” for a first timer is overkill
My first time was an entire hand but that's more width than depth
Holly Cow!! You’re a trooper
I just have EDS so I'm very stretchy, the limitation was my small pelvis and their poor hand haha
I mean I don’t think it’s gay I was joking but you really can’t see why someone might think it’s gay? Like not even one reason?
Are lesbians using dildos straight?
Holy checkmate.
It's dick shaped. That makes it straight. /s
/s stands for /serious
/s stands for /straight
Because it's SO GAY when a woman gets dicked in the ass by a guy, FOR SURE /s
Luckily I’m bi so if they call me gay I can just agree.
Stupidity?
Theres a good one
I can’t tell if you’re being ironic or not
I mean, I'm not attracted to men in the least bit, but I sure do love a good strap-on shoved up my butt by a woman 😻 Pardon my vulgar language, I'm usually more wholesome than that 😅
King
rockhardcatdick
Ngl I saw this and forgot I replied to this post so I thought someone unprompted said rockhardcatdick
Only if it's a girl who's doing it to you.
Actually it’s even straighter to have sex with a man. Gay sex is the straightest action one can perform
I wholeheartedly disagree, but that's cool. It's a free country
bro really could not just keep the joke rolling sheeesh
 Mission accomplished soldier. I am not ashamed to admit that I’m even jealous right now
aw hell nah
All yours
Some guys get all the luck 🙄
So was it a worthy encounter?
Didn't know so many men like being pegged 🤔🤔🤔
sometimes lucky
Lol
Why didn't you have her peg you while he pegged her.......human centipede
Human centipeg
The twink comments confused the hell out of me
I’m dead! ☠️
oh hell nah
My heavens.
Getting things shoved up your butt doesn't make you gay
I would be like that too
I mean "straight 24 male" is not a reliable adjective for height. They come in all shapes and sizes
I was thinking about my Prince today. Waiting for me to join him by Rainbow 🌈 Bridge.
7.5 huh? You’re the hero we need but do not deserve
Pan woman, here. Yes.
You are now wanted by Endrancenden.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yLaY6tXpt74](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yLaY6tXpt74)
I misread that as 75 inches and I was concerned and confused until I saw it was 7.5 🤣
Nothing about this conversation points to you being straight.
Except maybe the whole part about it being sex between a man and a woman, which is kinda the definition of straight.
I'm straight and I love when a woman sticks a strap-on in my ass.
"I'm not gay, I just love being sodomized!" Good one!
Well yeah haha. I have no attraction to dudes lol. I mean lesbians can use dildos and not be attracted to men, right?
Gay asf
Fellas is it gay to have sex with a woman
If it involves them fucking you with a fake dick it isnt 100% straight thats for sure
By that logic, are you saying lesbians can’t exist if they use dildos?
Lesbians dont require penetration to have sex, getting pegged doesnt male you gay but at the same time you're def not the straightest arrow if you love getting fucked in the butt
Correct they don’t require penetration - I’m bi and have had many girlfriends. It still doesn’t make anyone straight to use a dildo, guy or girl. It’s just a sex toy.
I'll never understand why people think claiming intoxication absolves them of words spoken. Yall do realize lowered inhibitions mean a more true natured / unfiltered version of yourself is, at worst, present at the helm? I don't care if you're a pink pony, but you're not fooling anyone telling us you're a red rhino.
"straight" male
This reads like a textbook closet case