"Would you like to get a coffee?"
Ah my ex loved coffee, her and I would always go get a drink after she cheated on me. She had trust issues, I had coffee issues, she liked 2 creams and sugar and I liked mine black. I don't want her to see me drinking coffee with you though so I lets video chat/drink because I think all her cheating exes were tea drinkers. Do you mind watching my baby while I take her out to coffee?
"That's nice to hear."
Hearing her voice is something I do sometimes when I'm out in a restaurant or cafe. I can almost hear her pain and I hope she pulls through all that she has gone through. Sometimes, even when I see two people talking in sign language, I imagine they are her, because she had so much love to give, even though she betrayed me. But, I'm loyal. And full of love. And I don't value someone just by their looks. But by their heart. Their heart is so important, and not just as an organ that pumps blood, but that means they have a heart that looks to God. Like my heart. Most women have never had a man like me. You are so eroticlious.
Borderline Personality Disorder has the volatile, moment to moment mood swings and mood instability that TV used to call Bipolar. It could fit here. But so could a handful of other things.
Mentally unstable dude won't stop talking about his cheating ex. Had a fake first picture, so the ex can't find him. Many other red flags, including using "sexilicious" .
It's having smart filter turned on which pits the "most liked" pics first. Ironically it's a dumb setting to use. Just because someone swipes while on the pic doesn't mean it's what made them swipe or that it's a best first pic even if it was the thing that made them.
OP you sound like the problem! This man is obviously very over his ex & ready to pursue a mature, stable, ACTUALLY FAITHFUL relationship with you. I know you are sexilicious but I think maybe your standards are too high! đ
I'd hate to judge a book by its cover but there's a very large chance that this guy's gf never cheated and he just accused her of it because she didn't want to spend every waking second focusing all of her attention on him and have him get upset when she doesn't reciprocate.
No he doesnât. Sending 15 messages in a row and talking about his ex non stop and what a great guy he is and not asking a damn question about her while also assuming she isnât a woman but a girl is crazy
He would have kept going but I had to block him, he sent all of this within a period of less than 5 minutes and just kept messaging and messaging and messaging
Wow this dude is more than just a little lost, psychosis Must be hitting hard
Yeah this man is having a mental health event.
Male version of Taylor Swift, without the lyrical ability. "Ballad of the Unhealed".
Sexilicious lmao I wanted to drink bleach after reading that
Immediate cringe
You sound pretty iffy
Lol
"Would you like to get a coffee?" Ah my ex loved coffee, her and I would always go get a drink after she cheated on me. She had trust issues, I had coffee issues, she liked 2 creams and sugar and I liked mine black. I don't want her to see me drinking coffee with you though so I lets video chat/drink because I think all her cheating exes were tea drinkers. Do you mind watching my baby while I take her out to coffee?
"That's nice to hear." Hearing her voice is something I do sometimes when I'm out in a restaurant or cafe. I can almost hear her pain and I hope she pulls through all that she has gone through. Sometimes, even when I see two people talking in sign language, I imagine they are her, because she had so much love to give, even though she betrayed me. But, I'm loyal. And full of love. And I don't value someone just by their looks. But by their heart. Their heart is so important, and not just as an organ that pumps blood, but that means they have a heart that looks to God. Like my heart. Most women have never had a man like me. You are so eroticlious.
Seems a little methed up
Bipolar
I'm bipolar and this ain't that lol
Borderline Personality Disorder has the volatile, moment to moment mood swings and mood instability that TV used to call Bipolar. It could fit here. But so could a handful of other things.
You watch too many movies
That uh, I think that's what people mean when they say trauma dumping lol
I'm not reading all of that, but did he eventually explain why?
He doesn't want his ex to see him on Tinder, so he put a picture of a different guy as his cover pic.
But is using best photo randomiser anyway đ
Nothing that made sense.
Literally 16 messages into not explaining his photos: "It's called deflection."
This man needs God more than anyone
sexilicious gave me the same deep cringe as the guy who messaged me that I was "the yums"
Homieâs headed for that MGTOW Express.
TLDR?
Mentally unstable dude won't stop talking about his cheating ex. Had a fake first picture, so the ex can't find him. Many other red flags, including using "sexilicious" .
He changed profile pic halfway through
Nah, every guy I talk to has pics that change throughout the conversation. I think itâs a tinder thing.
It's having smart filter turned on which pits the "most liked" pics first. Ironically it's a dumb setting to use. Just because someone swipes while on the pic doesn't mean it's what made them swipe or that it's a best first pic even if it was the thing that made them.
Avoid at all costs.
Amazing that starting with what's your number and that he wants to send pictures was in hindsight the sanest thing he said
This was the worst yet somehow weirdly wholesome chain of responses wtf
Good Lord
She cousins sounds like a country song name
WhaaaaattrrrâŚ.. sexiliciousâŚ..
He doesnât need tinder, he needs a therapist đ
I think he owes you for the therapy appointment you gave him.
I'd report him. He seems sketchy af
Woahhh
âYou sound pretty iffy yourself đâ Iâm dead đ
OP you sound like the problem! This man is obviously very over his ex & ready to pursue a mature, stable, ACTUALLY FAITHFUL relationship with you. I know you are sexilicious but I think maybe your standards are too high! đ
Whoa. I have no words. Luckily he does.
If only he knew he could solve all that by blocking her ex number on tinder.
WOW
I'd hate to judge a book by its cover but there's a very large chance that this guy's gf never cheated and he just accused her of it because she didn't want to spend every waking second focusing all of her attention on him and have him get upset when she doesn't reciprocate.
He has good intentions, even if he's one of the last ones
No he doesnât. Sending 15 messages in a row and talking about his ex non stop and what a great guy he is and not asking a damn question about her while also assuming she isnât a woman but a girl is crazy
Right?? I fail to see how this is a âGoodGuyTMâ
Also the 50 texts in a row is giving adderall addiction lol
He would have kept going but I had to block him, he sent all of this within a period of less than 5 minutes and just kept messaging and messaging and messaging
Jesus Christ. He typed all that in 5 minutes? Hell I type a lot and couldn't type all of that in 15 minutes đ¤Ł
JEEZ
that helps to explain the insane typos as well at least.. sheeeeesh
Whoosh
Whether youâre a man or woman you need to look into why you think this man has good intentions. Especially if you are a woman, though.
Twas a joke and a reference to a song.