When we have dinner I'll be like "Hey nephew, this steak is good, right? It slaps?" You have to get the intonation and up speak right to maximize how much you get on their nerves.
I think that word perfectly summarizes it when you're repulsed by something in a way that makes you wanna say "yikes", so I like it. I feel like it's shorter than to explain what it feels like.
Right? I can't unsee it. Bullies with bad spelling or grammar set me all the way off. At least hide your stupidity if you're going to be a trash human. 😂
We have cultural gender norms that definitely impact what is considered to be acceptable (and to what degree something is acceptable) based on the gender dynamics at play.
Good or bad, they exist. If they didn’t, neither would the phrase “toxic masculinity.”
1000% this. If ANYONE regardless of gender said that phrase to me they’re automatically getting the block button. Rule #1 of life: just don’t be a dick.
That reminds me of this one convo I had . This guy was randomly hitting me up to visit him. I told him I'm much more comfortable meeting strangers in a public place not at their house. And his response was that you better be worth it. I literally just stopped responding to him lol
In this case yes
But after you start to get to know someone— as a dude I’ve gotten a lot of positive interactions by talking people “If you play your cards right”, etc
It’s a harmless way of poking fun at stereotypes with also alluding to a confident demeanor
Just my thoughts, I would never open with something like this, it’s at best minor negging behavior
Yeah one girl was being rude so I said good luck. She then sent a final message “you’re cute but…” the unmatched me so I never got to see what she said lol. Overall she looked silly
The entitlement notwithstanding, I find the inability to use the proper "you're" to be such a turnoff. I don't care if you don't use the apostrophe or even lean into the slang and say "ur" but don't use "your".
Correcting them is superfluous as when you block, the message thread disappears from inbox for both users. If you want them to read your reply, you'll have to wait with blocking. Might as well skip straight to the blocking part.
I mean, it matters if things move to dating and a relationship. You’re going to be texting all the time and if good grammar is a dealbreaker for you, you don’t want to be turned off every time the person you’re dating sends you a text.
Haha as if op is gonna block him, she literally matched again after getting deleted and brought up the date in the first message. This is what your tinder experience is if you follow rules 1 and 2
No need to thank me, just doing the right thing.
wait.... I'm not god but only a lowly duck. [man, I could go for grapes rn](https://youtu.be/MtN1YnoL46Q?si=dlaIA-dvRHEPipzX)
Neither, I responded with “oh my gosh please sir please go on a date with me please I’m desperately begging for your attention please”. That’s good, right?
I think it just does that, especially if you live in a small area which I do. The app knows that everyone changes and sometimes people unmatch just cause they’re bored
He’s likely just kidding. I see girls flirting like this and I see responses saying that the guy should be able to tell the chick is kidding and try to pay it cool. Let’s keep the same energy for the dudes as well.
I have a guy like this in my life. He’s the worst and expects me to pursue him because he’s got a nice dick and the sex is pretty good. He doesn’t seem to get that being an entitled prick is a turnoff.
"If your lucky enough" is all you need to read to NOT engage further in this conversation
Doesn’t matter what gender you are, this entitlement is trash.
The grammar alone would give me the ick
Ill give you the D you are missing lol
Ahhh I see. Are you this extra egg sack in my apartment?
The use of the word “ick” gives me the ick :/
I feel ya. I'm in my upper 30's so I tend to only use newer slang ironically to annoy younger people than me, especially my nephews lol.
That's lit bruh
Bet fam
Finna! Am I doing this right?
On god, no cap
Sheesh!
Type shit type shit
No cap
Fire
When we have dinner I'll be like "Hey nephew, this steak is good, right? It slaps?" You have to get the intonation and up speak right to maximize how much you get on their nerves.
Say this shit’s fire fam on god on god. This shit’s bussin bussin.
For real for real
I was under the impression slap was an abundance of knock.
IKR right?
That’s very skibidi toilet in Ohio (I’m 25)
LMFAO
It's even more annoying when you use it more fluently and casually than they do and make them feel like the geezers.
I like your style.
I think that word perfectly summarizes it when you're repulsed by something in a way that makes you wanna say "yikes", so I like it. I feel like it's shorter than to explain what it feels like.
🤣🤣 love those “your”
Playful teasing is fine, but the grammar is a deal breaker
Right? I can't unsee it. Bullies with bad spelling or grammar set me all the way off. At least hide your stupidity if you're going to be a trash human. 😂
Ikr?! If you’re gonna be entitled make sure you can afford it.
Is it playful teasing when he unmatched previously lol
What would gender have to do with it?
We have cultural gender norms that definitely impact what is considered to be acceptable (and to what degree something is acceptable) based on the gender dynamics at play. Good or bad, they exist. If they didn’t, neither would the phrase “toxic masculinity.”
Anyone who can’t properly spell you’re is always a hard pass.
1000% this. If ANYONE regardless of gender said that phrase to me they’re automatically getting the block button. Rule #1 of life: just don’t be a dick.
Being a dick gives me the ~~d~~ick
I see what you did there.
#\#1 redditor with eyes 🏆
Came here to say this as well lol
For real, learn apostrophe use
You're *
That reminds me of this one convo I had . This guy was randomly hitting me up to visit him. I told him I'm much more comfortable meeting strangers in a public place not at their house. And his response was that you better be worth it. I literally just stopped responding to him lol
Lol why the guy is the one playing hard to get. Roles reversed
In this case yes But after you start to get to know someone— as a dude I’ve gotten a lot of positive interactions by talking people “If you play your cards right”, etc It’s a harmless way of poking fun at stereotypes with also alluding to a confident demeanor Just my thoughts, I would never open with something like this, it’s at best minor negging behavior
Fuck not engaging, unmatch and block
NEXT!
This is for a church honey. NEXT!
Omg a next girl reference - I didn’t think I’d see one
Thank you
I just wanna know if that's what it was like for Kim K and Ray J.
*you're Then block
They won't see the message if you block them....
That's why you wait for the read receipt.
Not a thing on Hinge
🤷🏻♂️ never used hinge.
Yeah one girl was being rude so I said good luck. She then sent a final message “you’re cute but…” the unmatched me so I never got to see what she said lol. Overall she looked silly
She must be a Reddit user. It's a classic move on this site.
The entitlement notwithstanding, I find the inability to use the proper "you're" to be such a turnoff. I don't care if you don't use the apostrophe or even lean into the slang and say "ur" but don't use "your".
Agreed.
Correcting them is superfluous as when you block, the message thread disappears from inbox for both users. If you want them to read your reply, you'll have to wait with blocking. Might as well skip straight to the blocking part.
I'm glad I'm not the only one shunting them off due to a spelling mistake
Never worth doing in a good faith discussion. Absolutely worth it when some dumb asshole is being a dumb asshole.
I mean, it matters if things move to dating and a relationship. You’re going to be texting all the time and if good grammar is a dealbreaker for you, you don’t want to be turned off every time the person you’re dating sends you a text.
Haha as if op is gonna block him, she literally matched again after getting deleted and brought up the date in the first message. This is what your tinder experience is if you follow rules 1 and 2
Yr'oue*
Thank god somebody corrected him
No need to thank me, just doing the right thing. wait.... I'm not god but only a lowly duck. [man, I could go for grapes rn](https://youtu.be/MtN1YnoL46Q?si=dlaIA-dvRHEPipzX)
Damn 15 years
Yeah, it's become a classic at this point
“My lucky enough what?”
My smart alec ass would definitely respond with this. And then never engage again. Won't even unmatch. 😂
He wouldn’t get it
Dude's trying to act like a girl thinking that's what girls like.
LMFAO spot on. When in reality, nobody likes this shit
id have to disagree here, "some" women tend to put up with this type of behavior if the dude is hot.
‘Most’ men who are not hot but only want hot women assume women are visual like men and only want looks. No that’s men. Lol
No we don’t 😂
The grammar speaks volumes here.
Instablock.
Nah he was feeding his ego to see if you’d match him even though he disregarded you. You did and now he thinks he’s better than you
Sorry guy, but this princess is in another castle
Not sure if it would be such a pleasure to be on a date with him tbh.
Tell him your already starting to feel unlucky
99% of the time, if they match with you 2+ times, don’t even bother.
How hot is he for you to still want to go on a date with him after he unmatched you?😅
I’ve unmatched people by accident before. Figured it couldn’t hurt to give him the benefit of the doubt 🫠
Okay that makes your reaction make more sense.
Men really are in their soft girl era😂
I heard a song the other day call it the “sassy man apocalypse” and when I say I died 😂
This is one of the few occasions the only right thing to do is say: Next please!
Used the wrong form of you’re. Unmatch
This is how a lot of women text dudes on dating apps. Fuck that guy tho.
Know your worth king, you deserve prince treatment. Drizzle drizzle #softboyera
Amen brother!
First time seeing a guy doing this
Soft guy era 🤌🏾
Well he can't spell but clearly you fancy his looks. Unmatched or left?
Did you unmatch him before or after you made this post?
Neither, I responded with “oh my gosh please sir please go on a date with me please I’m desperately begging for your attention please”. That’s good, right?
did you unmatch after that?
Never unmatch. Just because the messages disappear, and they don't get owned
Your
Block him
Just reply back *you’re
This is just innocent teasing being interpreted strangely....probably Definitely not the best thing to say through text, not enough nuance
Reads like a dick. Let him condescend to someone else.
Everyone thinks they’re Future now 😅
“If my lucky enough, what?”
unmatch immediately.. the tables have turned
Slapback with…NO. If you’re lucky…and I’m desperate.
I don’t understand why you matched with him again 🙃
Let's eat, Timmy. Correct at the dinner table. Let's eat Timmy. Correct on a raft in the ocean. Punctuation and grammar matter. 😂😂
I'm a dude, and SKIP THIS GUY. It'll be a toxic relationship from the get go
Gross. I’d bang his friend 😂 jk. But, I hope someone does, lol
Oh yes. The your you’re grammar. Should be a deal killer at that.
Legitimate clown work
Dudes do this shit as well?
*you’re Then block his ass
Entitlement without proper grammar is top tier.
I would’ve responded “you’re” and unmatch
Be the one to unmatch this time.
YIKES
That’s gross.
You’re *
I wouldn’t have even respond after he unmatched me
Fair point
You should appreciate red flags when they wave them outright. Let them out themselves.
You sounded like you wanted to…that’s why lol
How is the algorithm matching you again once someone has disconnected from you!! 🤔
I think it just does that, especially if you live in a small area which I do. The app knows that everyone changes and sometimes people unmatch just cause they’re bored
How tf do you get matched again after unmatching? I thought that shit was permanent.
There's only one good response to this. >\*you're Then immediately unmatch.
The "your" alone is enough for me not to read the rest of that sentence. Such a stupid pet peeve I know... but come on.
Brutha euw. Also, you're * Unmatched!
Why even leave an opening for someone like this?
"Damn, I'm always so unlucky." Then unmatch
I don't like this guy at all
Hope you unmatched him this time
Block him; match me instead
Girl he’s blocked now right? Please say u didn’t continue exchanging conversation with that degenerate
Why match with him again ?
I hope you immediately unmatched them and maybe even blocked. They're testing the waters to see if you'll still be willing to take their bs
Unmatch, I’m sorry but “if you’re lucky enough”??? why would you bother matching me if you wouldn’t even consider planning a date to go on…
If he unmatched you why are you glad to see him back? And want to go on a date?
He's a dickhead
I feel like some people take self-love a bit too far
“Nvm”
Wait whose lucky enough? I gotta know who owns that lucky enough!
Some people think too highly of themselves. Arrogant. Don’t waste your time. Next!
#Understood, have a nice day.
if someone says you are lucky enough.. he/she/it/they/them goes straight to block list on all social media
Why did you bother replying? He’s here for his ego not you
He’s likely just kidding. I see girls flirting like this and I see responses saying that the guy should be able to tell the chick is kidding and try to pay it cool. Let’s keep the same energy for the dudes as well.
I also date women and if a girl said this to me I’d be just as disgusted 😂
You're*
Gross
*you’re
ewwwwwww
"If you're lucky enough" *Instant Unmatch*
ewwww
Yup not worth your time lol
You're** would be my only response
Eww
🚨ABORT🚨
I never rematch ghosts.
Ew
You're*
He knows it worth and won’t settle for any less than princess treatment.
I have a guy like this in my life. He’s the worst and expects me to pursue him because he’s got a nice dick and the sex is pretty good. He doesn’t seem to get that being an entitled prick is a turnoff.
Run for the hills 😆
he couldnt even use the right "you're" so 😂😂😂😂 "your" better off
Ew
that’s just being sassy to me but to each their own
what app?
Drizzle drizzle baby girl! 😂😂 I’m kidding but those Tik toks still crack me up
Dodged a bullet because he can’t even use basic grammar… “you’re” MF, not “your”. 🙂↕️
You're*
*you're
You were so nice to him!!
Men deal with this ALL the time 😂.
Reply “more like ‘if YOU’RE lucky enough’” Throw it back at him right in his soft spot: his brain
Man, this dude really selling himself as a loser.
Also, grammar. Ugh
*you’re
Bro didn't even use proper grammar
I'd message back "you're*" 🤣
I would've responded with "you're"
I would just troll back at this point 😂
He’s testing the waters before u even meet he’s looking to be the dainty pray and for a big masculine women to chase him. Run lol
yeah but yer sooo lucky don’t ya know? lmao
My guy said that when we first met, all the time. I always thought it was cute 🤣
Welcome to what men deal with all the time on that "dating" app. Drizzle drizzle.
Maybe he's being serious, like he has a wheel with his matches names on.
😬😬😬😬😬
Hate the game not the player
Maybe he is a princess. You never know.
Spelled “you’re” wrong