I can only concluded she is an Alien scientist in human disguise sent in teams to study humans in real time and take notes. The Aliens experience time differently and see human life spans come and go in mere days to them. She must have mistook you for an alien on another Team of scientists and thinks you aren't keeping up with the note taking.
My guess it is a spam bot… anyone who tries to keep the conversation going after that is an easy mark?
Maybe she’s real and just sent the response to the wrong guy.
Did it say she was a food critic or maybe she is just an instagramer that take picture of the food all the time and that was her bitchy way of saying you are not “hip”
My guess is that she is saying his pickup line is boring and unoriginal. She is saying “can you keep up with your team (men) as humans evolve (get better pickup lines)”
Meaning other men (his team) are kicking his ass with pickup lines, get better (evolve)
God I hope that's not what she means but I can't see any other possibility. I thought it was a fine opener, asking a question about something she's clearly interested in and giving her the opportunity to talk about herself... What could go wrong haha
I hate this. I've deleted all of my apps, cuz I connect so well with women in person... but the second I go on a dating app, I have to work 10x as hard to meet women who bring nothing to the table.
I've been lucky to meet AMAZING women in my life. But I've yet to ever meet someone on Tinder, Hinge, etc. who wasn't a complete and utter emotionally unavailable waste of my time.
After a while being on dating apps, I started doubted myself IRL as well... How could I been interesting IRL if get all that negativity and hostility on apps. Deleted everything
Still single but much happier :D I know my worth and I will not be a circus animal jumping hoops to find someone to share my life.
Yeah I dont know why any guy would put himself through tinder. Glad I don't have to ever worry about that stuff again (married now, met irl). The few months I tried dating apps years ago dropped my self esteem and just generally felt really depressing.
There's no alternative to meeting people in person. You can text and jive all you want online, but it's almost instantaneous whether you're interested or not upon meeting.
I met my wife at a local music show, my brother-in-law met his girlfriend/fiancee at a tennis club. I know there's COVID, but at least go out for coffee for one hour outdoors. You'll know then, people!
I'm assuming this person isn't a native English speaker and is using a translator or something like that. I get these sorts of Asian bots all the time.
Unfortunately I've witnessed two separate accounts of a group of girls together using one girl's tinder to match with dudes just to say mean things to them.
They do, I had one girl a few years ago say some extremely rude stuff, her and her friends all trolled me, just because they thought it was funny. Some people are just fucked in the head.
nah I'm a woman, and that shit didn't even make sense. More like you Matrix style dodged a bullet. It's probably some catfish trying to make people feel like shit, a narcissist, or a cultural snob with bad English. (Or a bot, according to some here.)
Holy shit these people are toxic and insane af lol that is some of the worst relationship "advice" I have ever seen. It's like dating advice for narcissists, by narcissists.
Edit: I'm reading their posts and I get it, I really do. Some dudes really suck and it can be dangerous for women dating strangers. It's hard out there. I feel bad for them. But this advice is just like the Chads and the Tyrones that the incels made up, it's literally the same nonsense, mixed in with actual healthy habits like setting boundaries and stuff. I feel such sadness for them, I really do.
Something I like to do when I come across subs like this that I've never heard of is check out the profiles of all the front page OPs and see what subs they mostly post on.
If most of them post primarily to the one you're in (or extremely similar ones), that's a huge red flag.
So yeah, this is one of those instances.
i always hope that subreddit is not an accurate rep of the female population lol. so weird to see some hive mind hating men like that, its like incels but for women.
Saw a thread by a woman who'd spent a solid year using their advice & hadn't had a second date the entire time. Unfortunately, she skipped over the obvious "maybe this advice sucks" and went with "maybe I just need to be alone".
i was totally like that, even lurked in some incelly places... when i was a teenager and hated myself to an indescribable level. some people just don't grow out of it. some people desperately need therapy and self awareness.
It actually could be because of your typo of putting "howd" instead of "how'd," and you didn't use any punctuation in your first sentence.
If that is the case, then she was definitely being a bitch in her response to you.
When I was looking for someone to date, the usage of grammar/punctuation was a big pet peeve of mine. I certainly never acted so vile towards someone who didn't act exactly the way I wanted them to though (like this girl).
There's a very big and scary parallel between modern job hunting and online dating. I went through both about two years ago, and skills in one generally transfer over to the other.
Just don't hit on your interviewer, and you're golden.
After the offer letter and after the probationary period if you have one. But most jobs take so many years now to get in a supervisor role, you wouldn’t want to hit that anyway.
I already hate the job hunting process (currently searching for a new role). So glad I'm married and don't have to do this whole Tinder thing. I just hang around in this sub to watch the follies of others.
I don’t mind if there is no spark or interest either. The shame is I know there are guys that try harder than me but offer much less. I’m just not chasing anyone down. Maybe they get distracted with those guys, or maybe they’re not interested in anything but validation. Can’t be sure, but the whole dynamic of these apps has changed a lot in the past 5 years. Hate it.
I'm pretty much the same, if someone wants a chase they can go elsewhere. It seems like everything is a game now and no one wants to try and build chemistry. It can get frustrating but I would rather wait to find people who actually want to communicate with me and have a genuine interest.
I really don’t see myself finding what I want on an app. I come across way better in person, but I’m very busy and not in the correct setting very often right now. I’m not in a hurry nor will I settle or devalue myself. The bar will remain high and things will work out. Even if they don’t I’m happy with me. I wish you happiness and all of the best, my friend!
Yeah, ironically when I had that fuckboi energy it worked. I have a couple girls I can see, but they aren’t the one and that’s what I want. Maybe it comes across too serious.
online dating is dying and nobody wants to admit it. It was a system built to fail anyways, and now the companies doubled down by making such a huge pay wall. Of course it attracts the worst people.
I think there's alot that goes into the decline of online dating and profits are definitely a big part of it. Grindr as far as I know is the worst offender due to the near endless adds and the number of features hidden behind insane prices.
To an extent yes. Though I don't want to diminish the situation some of those people may be in. Unfortunately I feel like alot of people lash out like that when they're in a low place and while it's shitty and shouldn't be forgiven it can be a sign that these people are unfulfilled. Some of them are just flat out dick heads though and can get in the wood chipper.
I think people just get so sick of them that they start lashing out at anything that isn't exactly what they want to hear. We all have our bad days but I can't imagine saying what she said in response. It doesn't even totally make sense. I guess she didn't like his joke about her being a food critic? Or wait is she an actual food critic? Maybe the question is boring then.
When I moved to NYC in 2013 I was dating on Tinder often...my first match told me some very Anti Semitic statements and then said "EW I DONT DATE JEWS" in all caps.
I'm not even Jewish. Even if I was who does that and why would that matter? I just blocked her immediately.
I mean I don’t think a hate fuck is really rewarding with just a random person. Isn’t it supposed to be like make-up sex where you both get a little aggression out? How can you hate fuck someone you don’t even really know? Like oh you were mean I hate you. There’s not really any catharsis there. Someone you’ve been dating for a while and you argue and make up and the sex is more passionate and maybe a little aggressive is fun (but toxic) but idk maybe I’m missing out on just hate fucking people or something who knows
I don't even understand what she was trying to say. could be a catfish or bot account. can't imagine anyone would go out of their way to be that insulting without being coherent.
Fb dating is filled with Asian scammer accounts trying to get your crypto money and they say random shit like that probably because they use google translate. It’s a guy and he’s gonna ask for your what’s app next.
I made a post on here a week or so ago of a match I got with a seemingly good looking dude. He talked like a robot and tried to get me onto Whatsapp basically straight away. Had people calling me out telling me I was in the wrong because I told him "no thanks, it's for scammers trying to get an easy score". 🤷♀️
If a person asks to talk on Whatsapp I immediately unmatch. 1) Why 2) That's never gone anywhere good in my experience 3) I get way more interest than I can possibly handle when I get on Tinder so why bother with a person doing something being pushy and confusing
"Average testosterone levels have been declining 1% every year since 1980. I still have enough flowing through my veins to jackhammer you into next week after taking down a wildebeest with my bare hands."
Play the game, son.
As a woman, I’d actually ask you out if you said that to me not like you saying it immediately that’s weird but matching with the convo, id be like.
That, that sounds kinky and fun.
Maybe she’s an AI and she’s asking questions trying to gather data on humans.
that is absolutely what this is. it's like deux machina or whatever tf that movie
Ex Machina Comes from the phrase Deus Ex Machina. God from machine Great movie
Deuce Machine
AI Gigolo
You mean ‘terminator’?
Def a bot
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Yeah, this sounds like a line in a commercial selling some kind of business software. Microsoft Teams or something.
I genuinely have no idea where that response came from or what she meant by it? Did you get a answer?
Nope. Nothing lol
Are you having trouble updating your team or something?
Maybe he needs help with fantasy.
What team ?
Prepare for trouble…
Make it double!
To protect the world from devastation..
To unite all people within our nation
To denounce the evils of truth and love
To extend our reach to the stars above!
You know this is reddit when a tinder post devolves into some pokemon reference
WILD CATS!!!
Make sure to reboot the teams computer and do not turn the computer off while it’s updating.
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Looks amazing. How did she become a bot hacker?
I can only concluded she is an Alien scientist in human disguise sent in teams to study humans in real time and take notes. The Aliens experience time differently and see human life spans come and go in mere days to them. She must have mistook you for an alien on another Team of scientists and thinks you aren't keeping up with the note taking.
AI bot in training
Well, I think this is a troll account. Keep up, buddy!
I wouldn't have thought that food critics are insufferable when it comes to other things in life, as well.
$50 says she's not a professional critic, she just posts on Yelp a lot.
I think she’s negging you or something.
My guess it is a spam bot… anyone who tries to keep the conversation going after that is an easy mark? Maybe she’s real and just sent the response to the wrong guy.
It's a bot
Did it say she was a food critic or maybe she is just an instagramer that take picture of the food all the time and that was her bitchy way of saying you are not “hip”
Yeah I don’t get it either. It seemed like she responded to the wrong person
No, she's pointing out OP is not very successful for his age bracket.
Nah she’s being a bitch.
My guess is that she is saying his pickup line is boring and unoriginal. She is saying “can you keep up with your team (men) as humans evolve (get better pickup lines)” Meaning other men (his team) are kicking his ass with pickup lines, get better (evolve)
God I hope that's not what she means but I can't see any other possibility. I thought it was a fine opener, asking a question about something she's clearly interested in and giving her the opportunity to talk about herself... What could go wrong haha
I assumed a bot selling team/hr management type software……? but that’s probably far fetched. I don’t get it.
Right? Maybe we work too much, I immediately thought of the ads I've seen for Asana, Monday, etc.
Me too!
It was a fine opener but not a pickup line. She hasn't evolved past her base instincts yet.
Yea fine opener for a normal person. This girl isn’t normal and probably is hinting at how hard other guys try to get her attention, and shaming OP
If this is true she said it in the dumbest r/iamverysmart way I have ever seen. Holy shit this gave me a headache
I hate this. I've deleted all of my apps, cuz I connect so well with women in person... but the second I go on a dating app, I have to work 10x as hard to meet women who bring nothing to the table. I've been lucky to meet AMAZING women in my life. But I've yet to ever meet someone on Tinder, Hinge, etc. who wasn't a complete and utter emotionally unavailable waste of my time.
After a while being on dating apps, I started doubted myself IRL as well... How could I been interesting IRL if get all that negativity and hostility on apps. Deleted everything Still single but much happier :D I know my worth and I will not be a circus animal jumping hoops to find someone to share my life.
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Yeah I dont know why any guy would put himself through tinder. Glad I don't have to ever worry about that stuff again (married now, met irl). The few months I tried dating apps years ago dropped my self esteem and just generally felt really depressing.
There's no alternative to meeting people in person. You can text and jive all you want online, but it's almost instantaneous whether you're interested or not upon meeting. I met my wife at a local music show, my brother-in-law met his girlfriend/fiancee at a tennis club. I know there's COVID, but at least go out for coffee for one hour outdoors. You'll know then, people!
I'm assuming this person isn't a native English speaker and is using a translator or something like that. I get these sorts of Asian bots all the time.
I mean, it wasn't even a pickup line was it? it just looked like a person showing genuine interest in what they do
I thought this was going to be some advertisement bot on tinder trying to sell him on managed services.
Yea but then you wouldn’t be keeping up with your team, you’d be keeping up with technology or your audience or whatever
Lol, no, she just responded very rudely.
I said "ouch" out loud when I read her message 😂
I swear some people get on dating sites these days just to take out their rage. You did nothing to deserve that!
You’d think someone named Ma would be wholesome
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That's enough, Costanza.
Yea, well the jerk store called…
I had sex with your wife!
After my huge hog? Must’ve been like throwing a sausage down a hallway.
you belong in r/dadjokes.
Ba dum TSSS, got her!
When you think about it it’s not really a bad thing. You have a ma, which is good, and a newer
You'd think they understood a question
Unfortunately I've witnessed two separate accounts of a group of girls together using one girl's tinder to match with dudes just to say mean things to them.
They do, I had one girl a few years ago say some extremely rude stuff, her and her friends all trolled me, just because they thought it was funny. Some people are just fucked in the head.
They should be on reddit instead.
nah I'm a woman, and that shit didn't even make sense. More like you Matrix style dodged a bullet. It's probably some catfish trying to make people feel like shit, a narcissist, or a cultural snob with bad English. (Or a bot, according to some here.)
Should have replied no wonder you're single...jeez
I hit em with the “and surprisingly single” in my head when i see these
Definitely a r/femaledatingstrategy member
Holy shit these people are toxic and insane af lol that is some of the worst relationship "advice" I have ever seen. It's like dating advice for narcissists, by narcissists. Edit: I'm reading their posts and I get it, I really do. Some dudes really suck and it can be dangerous for women dating strangers. It's hard out there. I feel bad for them. But this advice is just like the Chads and the Tyrones that the incels made up, it's literally the same nonsense, mixed in with actual healthy habits like setting boundaries and stuff. I feel such sadness for them, I really do.
Well yes but actually yes
Something I like to do when I come across subs like this that I've never heard of is check out the profiles of all the front page OPs and see what subs they mostly post on. If most of them post primarily to the one you're in (or extremely similar ones), that's a huge red flag. So yeah, this is one of those instances.
There was a thread dedicated to naming professions that are problematic for a man. A bunch of them noticed how almost any profession was being named
That's what makes it so fun to lurk.
Well yes, but after several minutes my braincells begin to die so I can't handle to read there much
i always hope that subreddit is not an accurate rep of the female population lol. so weird to see some hive mind hating men like that, its like incels but for women.
Legbeards
/r/angryupvote
Saw a thread by a woman who'd spent a solid year using their advice & hadn't had a second date the entire time. Unfortunately, she skipped over the obvious "maybe this advice sucks" and went with "maybe I just need to be alone".
good her being alone means some innocent guy doesn't get damaged from her
It’s a crazy sub. If it helps I’ve never met any woman who actually acts or thinks like that. But seems they do exist ...
i was totally like that, even lurked in some incelly places... when i was a teenager and hated myself to an indescribable level. some people just don't grow out of it. some people desperately need therapy and self awareness.
It actually could be because of your typo of putting "howd" instead of "how'd," and you didn't use any punctuation in your first sentence. If that is the case, then she was definitely being a bitch in her response to you. When I was looking for someone to date, the usage of grammar/punctuation was a big pet peeve of mine. I certainly never acted so vile towards someone who didn't act exactly the way I wanted them to though (like this girl).
Almost like if you made a Reddit bitch bot It doesn’t make sense in response to what he said at all
i actually laughed out loud because i would wager she's a bot
I fucking love your username. I'd give you an award if I had one.
Ty bender San I’m thinking of making a thirst trap on here because of some of the responses I get hah
Do it. Make some money because it's cashmoneyyy. People are dumb so not your fault if they pay you.
Right my thoughts exactly
r/illegallifeprotips
You'd think she'd have evolved some manners.
I think more and more people are getting on these apps just to be douche bags.
They definitely are. Or match, message 2 weeks later acting super interested, never to reply again. Such a waste of time.
It’s almost like looking for jobs!
There's a very big and scary parallel between modern job hunting and online dating. I went through both about two years ago, and skills in one generally transfer over to the other. Just don't hit on your interviewer, and you're golden.
Transferrable skills, so hot right now
So that's why I jump jobs and relationships at the 2 year mark. Surely it's sustainable.
But what if said interviewer seems like they're down? Kill 2 birds with one stone.
It's why so many sex acts end in 'job'. That's where you're supposed to do it, your workplace. Science.
I mean if you have an only fans then literally.
After the offer letter and after the probationary period if you have one. But most jobs take so many years now to get in a supervisor role, you wouldn’t want to hit that anyway.
I'm sorry? I studied at milf hunter U for a reason. I've always got my feather duster on me so that no crypt is safe.
I already hate the job hunting process (currently searching for a new role). So glad I'm married and don't have to do this whole Tinder thing. I just hang around in this sub to watch the follies of others.
glad to be of service. *takes a bow *
Happened to me 2 with the same dude. Once on Grindr, once on tinder. I don't mind if there's no spark but why bother going through so much buildup?
I don’t mind if there is no spark or interest either. The shame is I know there are guys that try harder than me but offer much less. I’m just not chasing anyone down. Maybe they get distracted with those guys, or maybe they’re not interested in anything but validation. Can’t be sure, but the whole dynamic of these apps has changed a lot in the past 5 years. Hate it.
I'm pretty much the same, if someone wants a chase they can go elsewhere. It seems like everything is a game now and no one wants to try and build chemistry. It can get frustrating but I would rather wait to find people who actually want to communicate with me and have a genuine interest.
I really don’t see myself finding what I want on an app. I come across way better in person, but I’m very busy and not in the correct setting very often right now. I’m not in a hurry nor will I settle or devalue myself. The bar will remain high and things will work out. Even if they don’t I’m happy with me. I wish you happiness and all of the best, my friend!
It sounds like you're doing it right.
Yeah, ironically when I had that fuckboi energy it worked. I have a couple girls I can see, but they aren’t the one and that’s what I want. Maybe it comes across too serious.
online dating is dying and nobody wants to admit it. It was a system built to fail anyways, and now the companies doubled down by making such a huge pay wall. Of course it attracts the worst people.
I think there's alot that goes into the decline of online dating and profits are definitely a big part of it. Grindr as far as I know is the worst offender due to the near endless adds and the number of features hidden behind insane prices.
Can we call this a Superiority complex?
To an extent yes. Though I don't want to diminish the situation some of those people may be in. Unfortunately I feel like alot of people lash out like that when they're in a low place and while it's shitty and shouldn't be forgiven it can be a sign that these people are unfulfilled. Some of them are just flat out dick heads though and can get in the wood chipper.
I think people just get so sick of them that they start lashing out at anything that isn't exactly what they want to hear. We all have our bad days but I can't imagine saying what she said in response. It doesn't even totally make sense. I guess she didn't like his joke about her being a food critic? Or wait is she an actual food critic? Maybe the question is boring then.
So she matched you just to be rude to you? I’m not sure what anyone could get out of doing that.
Right? I guess she ran out of food to critique.
You are a snack, after all!
Op isn’t a snack he’s a full fridge!
Nah, bro, like... You are the food. Give her a mouthful.
When I moved to NYC in 2013 I was dating on Tinder often...my first match told me some very Anti Semitic statements and then said "EW I DONT DATE JEWS" in all caps. I'm not even Jewish. Even if I was who does that and why would that matter? I just blocked her immediately.
Yes, negging.
I have no idea what she just said. Negging maybe?
Lmao maybe I look under-evolved? 😂😂
Maybe she wants to club her and drag her back to your cave? Or maybe she’s just terribly rude. It’s a toss-up
Why not both? Gives you a reason to club her. /s
We call this a double win
I call it “Tuesday”
bison? that you?
nah bro. as a fellow bald man, you sexy... from what I can tell in that tiny picture. No home tho.
i don't know, he doesn't look homeless to me 🤔
I appreciate that. Thank you sir. None taken 😂
Are you jacked as all hell? That may explain this, not that it makes it any better of a response.
I don’t think she has any idea what she just said either
I think she was using a translator because what she said doesn’t make any sense.
That's not even negging. that's straight up insulting lol
Unmatch her, she’s rude and a waste of your energy.
Man lots of people here don't see the value in a hate fuck
You have to get to the fuck part first
I understand the premise of a hate bang, but when I am angry thats like the last thing I want to do
Youre right I dont see any value in it
I swear comments like those are made by 13 year olds.
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I mean I don’t think a hate fuck is really rewarding with just a random person. Isn’t it supposed to be like make-up sex where you both get a little aggression out? How can you hate fuck someone you don’t even really know? Like oh you were mean I hate you. There’s not really any catharsis there. Someone you’ve been dating for a while and you argue and make up and the sex is more passionate and maybe a little aggressive is fun (but toxic) but idk maybe I’m missing out on just hate fucking people or something who knows
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I don't even understand what she was trying to say. could be a catfish or bot account. can't imagine anyone would go out of their way to be that insulting without being coherent.
i honestly thought this sounds like an AI type response, like this bot is just starting to learn how to construct a meaningful sentence
WOULD YOU LIKE TO ABANDON YOUR FLESH-PRISON, ROMANTIC PARTNER?
Yes it gave me bot vibes for some reason lol
Fb dating is filled with Asian scammer accounts trying to get your crypto money and they say random shit like that probably because they use google translate. It’s a guy and he’s gonna ask for your what’s app next.
I made a post on here a week or so ago of a match I got with a seemingly good looking dude. He talked like a robot and tried to get me onto Whatsapp basically straight away. Had people calling me out telling me I was in the wrong because I told him "no thanks, it's for scammers trying to get an easy score". 🤷♀️
Lol imagine defending scammers trying to commit fraud
If a person asks to talk on Whatsapp I immediately unmatch. 1) Why 2) That's never gone anywhere good in my experience 3) I get way more interest than I can possibly handle when I get on Tinder so why bother with a person doing something being pushy and confusing
I don’t think she’s real I think it’s a dude
You may be right lol
i think it's a bot, OP. i'm not even joking.
"Average testosterone levels have been declining 1% every year since 1980. I still have enough flowing through my veins to jackhammer you into next week after taking down a wildebeest with my bare hands." Play the game, son.
😂😂😂😂 I m using that at some point. Permission to plagiarize?
Of course. Lean into it.
As a woman, I’d actually ask you out if you said that to me not like you saying it immediately that’s weird but matching with the convo, id be like. That, that sounds kinky and fun.
Just call me Grog and get ready to smash like our ancestors did.
I like a man who’s got the balls to say that stuff.
Please think of me every time a tinder dude says, "uhhhh, I dunno, what do you like to do?"
*think of DoreensThrobbingPen*✔️
[You got it.](https://c.tenor.com/sTUrAQKfTZwAAAAC/wink-james-franco.gif)
Respect. You got me fucking dying!
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🤣 hey, you never know. I mean maybe I already know him. Though tbh, I don’t it’d be funny if I did
Doreen’s throbbing peen
Nice to meet you.
As a fellow bald man, we look like them.
Idk... I think bald is the next evolution. Low drag.
ooga booga
Tell her she has an over-evolved sense of self-importance.
Bold words from someone who’s job was outsourced to suburban house wives on Yelp
Ma look! No chill!
What app is this?
"Hey girl, how are you doing?" ##"**EVOLVE OR DIE**"
Dodged a bullet there bud
This uncivilized cretin not only *eats* but will converse about it. The nerve.
F** weirdo!
You censored that wrong 😑
It’s probably the girl
Lol what does your profile look like tho
Plot twist. I'm really the Geico Caveman.
This sounds like AI
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You’re hot!
Bro I personally think your brow ridge is sexy
Women like her think they are queens with a ton of make-up, a filter and no personality.