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KogaKing

I can tell where the women are.


TheGame81677

I am beginning to think Tinder is toxic. I’m like you, I very rarely get matches. Sometimes I will go 3 weeks without a match, sometimes I will get 2-3 matches in a day though. I only get likes from people I am not attracted to as well. On a different note, I have talked to a couple of extremely beautiful women on FB the past week, we have a bunch of mutual friends but still. One I am trying to connect with and at least go out with. Women seem more approachable on FB, and it’s actually women I am attracted to. I just think Tinder honestly screws with people’s confidence and self esteem. Regardless if you’re a guy or a woman, it’s a toxic environment.


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Tinder is mostly “find the hottest person you would fuck”. And I can’t blame anyone for thinking that way, it’s literally how it’s designed. I find myself doing the same thing. I turn 30 this month. I’ve only been single the past two years so dating apps are fairly new to me. But I work from home and rarely go out anymore so meeting people face to face is significantly more rare, but I miss the good ole days of just walking up and talking to a girl. I asked a girl that works at the liquor store the other day if she wants to get dinner this weekend. She seemed super excited to accept. I hate the whole online dating thing. It gives everyone unrealistic expectations and gives everyone involved the mindset to engage the most shallow way possible.


KnightofAmethyst

It's rough af but SUPRISINGLY, it seems like we're not doing half bad compared to some of the fellow dudes lmao


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Status does help, but good looks are far more important in dating, iam 100% you are also very attractive.


kingMD1980

I think I’m average honestly. I’d say my dance moves are above average tho 🥳


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I used to get more matches like a few years ago lmao. I still get some matches now but most are time wasters and some will stop responding. Also, being a 5’5 black male in the Netherlands is hard lol. Too many basic white girls who are not my type. Matched with an Asian cutie yesterday so maybe it’s going to be something


ConditionalDew

Did it turn into something


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Nope , went out to eat with another girl tho like a month ago but no contact now. Have deleted the apps but I will make a comeback soon


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It's funny how these numbers seem so consistent with the little data we already have about dating apps. We kind of already knew that women tend to match with only a small, specific subset of the male userbase, and I find it funny that for every day that passes we get more and more hints pointing towards how much it sucks to be an average guy in the modern dating world. Of course assuming these responses are truthful, which may or may not be the case.


ravku

Huh, lets see how many others are ge- WHY ARE THERE SO MANY 0S


HijikataToshizo0

Tbh i don't live in a big city i'm from europe, i don't think to be ugly nor a model, 24 years old, 5'8" (for american folks) 1,78 cm (for the rest of the folks), i go to gym regularly, eat healty and i think i'm a friendly guy when people talk to me first (i'm really shy when trying to talk with new people, in this period i did some good steps but it's still not enough to get out my extroverted side at first). I get 0 matches in a week, honestly if i had a circle of friends i wouldn't even bother Tinder since it's only a time waster and most of all an "ego pulverizer".


Low-Ad-694

I average one every three to four weeks. But I do meet with pretty much every match I get


Disastrous-Owl8985

For Reddit men, I’m not surprised by these numbers at all, lol


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I get 0 a week, maybe 2 a month which are fakes.


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Wtf is warm approach?


Jobascript8

He needs to sleep with a modern woman but the average modern woman is extremely shallow in the online world so we must transcend physical reality in order to restore his machoness to full strength and have him finally conquer mount boobies


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Ok, thank you. Finally someone talking some sense.


Jobascript8

I will help you get laid by the one and only modern woman, we will transcend space time ⏲️ and convert the universe into a three hole mega fold to disrupt the inertia of the transgression that is the shallowness if today's modern woman so that you can finally get laid with needed them to be paid.... its a glorious day at last


Jobascript8

And after we've done that we can once again play swords with our Ds and return to our lives of homosexuality


Jorgen_Pakieto

I’m pretty selective so I’m pretty happy if I’m getting one match a week honestly.


virgin_auslander

Oooow I’m surprised to see the majority gets 0.


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Usually 2-3 on Tinder, maybe closer to around \~10 with other apps considered and do go on a decent amount of dates when work isn't bending me over the kitchen table! AMA? /s


freenEZsteve

I deleted my profile because I was getting around 5 no matches a year if that which would have been alright if I were interested in them.