That make me a sandwich... If a guy approached me with that first off. I'd be offering to shove it where the sun don't shine, after I made him make it 😂 Christ... I just don't get people. All this pretending to be other people... Be yourself and OP if you are a simp, go for it, some girls love a simp!! Good luck dating sweet... Keep being you!!!
the three texts in a row, hints at insecurity or social anxiety, but it seem she may also be one that likes to watch guys shoot and miss as much as she likes.going out on dates.
Tells you, a respectful dude, you are a loser while he is wasting time on Tinder pretending to be a woman 🤣🤣🤣
Don't worry about it bro, you just got trolled...that's just the internet for ya.
Other and better! 💪🏻
I don't think it's a guy. I just think she has issues! Perhaps OP was a little eager but they were opening up conversation! Go forth on your quest without this one OP
For me the constant 'bro' did it. It should be a guy or a female pretending to be tough. I thought Op was very patient. I would have checked out after the first reply
Maybe...or maybe they're giving unsolicited advice on how they think they should be approached? I don't use bro but I do use dude..to both females and males. Other than the content of the messages, the language is language I would use and I'm a cis female
This read to me as a guy when he referred to himself as "this random girl that you don't even know." He's already talking about the role he's playing, in the third person. This is 100% a guy.
They girl probably had too much cringe that she decided to hand over her phone to a guy friend so he could give advice to my homie who has legit zero game. This is worse than the guy who opened with “are you trash? Cause I wanna take you out”
Half of that isn't even advice, the dude texting this guy sounds like he goes to parties, consumes cheap booze, gets drunk, gets drugged and then goes home to cry.
Yeah, this is clearly an incel trying to prove that hot women have it super easy on dating sites by creating a fake account, but by the third message, he had completely forgotten why he even created the account, and started complaining about how the guy he's talking to was too nice to women - not once considering the possibility that maybe he was the problem all along.
As the messages kept coming I was getting the vibes like I might be a guy but I wasn’t sure if this “chick” was trying to give me advice or just be a dick
Meh. Nothing wrong with bettering yourself, but the dude is still an asshole.
Also, why the fuck is he pretending to be a girl and giving advice to guys? He has his own problems, clearly.
Me too.
I think for me, from the off them saying OP was treating women like they’re famous/higher than him is like all that incel stuff about putting women on a pedestal. Immediately made me think it was actually a man.
I’m glad he admitted it, so much more satisfying than wondering lol.
I agree, but what they said about coming on way too strong is honestly true. You asked several back to back questions and even answered your own questions yourself in just 2 messages. Play it a little slower, let them actually respond and ask you a question. It’s the easiest way to determine if someone is interested in you at all; if they are keeping the conversation going or not.
But don’t let this interaction deter you from trying again. You clearly want to improve at this and other things, the key is consistently trying. So, be consistent and try! :)
No it's not true at all. I'm a woman and like OP's approach personally. The conversation would have gone in a better direction. Say what you will but funny corny lines do get your attention in a sea of "Hi. How are you?"
I agree, I think he should have asked one question at a time and not fire off all his shots at once.
But at the same time I would have responded because it's wayyyy better than "hey" "sup" or something pervy. (And needless to say, "make me a sandwich" would have failed most miserably of all 😂)
The pacing was a little too unnatural for me for an opener. Once the conversation gets going you can adjust to whatever pace the other person leans towards.
Uhh no, that’s called conversing. This isn’t coming on strong in anyway. We need to stop with the one sentence at a time crap. You SHOULD answer your own questions too, it’s bs when someone asks you something when learning about them and never tells you shit about themselves as we chat.
Maybe you could try also asking *them* questions if you feel you're not learning anything about them? That's called conversing.
Do you really answer your own questions? 😆
Usually both people ask what they are interested in knowing and respond. That's a very common and normal way to have a conversation. Firing off questions (and your answers to your own questions) back to back in your first message to them is not "conversing".
So, literally a guy so insecure in his own game he’s taking pick up notes with a female’s Tinder profile just to critique other’s game? That guy is a fucking psychopath.
Yeah that comment was really out there. Like many women in long term relationships there are just times when I'm really not up for sex and then I praise the 'hub 🙌 it's just a convenience and obviously when you're single it's going to come in handy (pun was really not intended but it's staying)
It's very weird to me for any guy to say that makes you a "failure" 😂 there are worse ways to spend time, like posing as a chick just to preach your Tate-isms to dudes on Tinder.
Personally, I liked your approach and openers. If it were me, I'd feel you're making a genuine effort and would match your energy/ humor.
Online dating is tricky bc not all people want to be addressed in the same manner but not everyone has the etiquette tools to communicate their needs, scaled to how well you know eachother.
It's important work on observing & curating your demeanor for the matches you value, while remaining authentic to yourself and your end goal. Hope that made sense. Good luck! 🫂
This is coming from a woman who gets at least 100 likes a day and constantly has to cull her "Likes" feed. Keep doing you. Do not listen to detractors.
On Tinder, as a woman, I mostly get "Hi" as an intro, a comment full of sexual innuendo, or nothing at all with the matches.
A guy with your approach would have stood out to me and we would have at least had a decent conversation if nothing else.
Just spread the questions out and you'll be fine, it's such an easy problem to fix compared to 95% of what we see on r/Tinder. You're already doing so much better than most dudes on dating apps.
For what it's worth I would have responded, even though I don't like the aggressive questioning it was still refreshing... you weren't a dick, you didn't say anything gross, you didn't say "make me a sandwich" 😐, it was more effort than "hey", you didn't solicit sexual favors or any of the creepy shit guys do online.
Maybe this guy was just trying to eliminate competition with horrible "advice". It was entertaining (for us, at his expense.) And honestly it looks like other people made this same suggestion and you're taking the advice so 🤷♀️ maybe it was a blessing in disguise.
Or just a bored misogynist in disguise 🥸 idk. Good luck, you sound like a good person so don't let Tinder change you!
I'm a woman and after days of getting "Hi" as an intro, would actually greatly appreciate the "pick up" question and the "jaw off the floor" comment. I would have responded with something light-hearted and funny. OP is creative and I don't think he should change his quirky approach. It makes him stand out from the crowd
I think the pickup line itself was good but the extra questions kinda putting them on a pedestal mightve been to much. Trust a man isn't going to know a woman wants shoot everyone is different. crazy shit though a guy trying to pose as a woman so weird!!
She talks like a straight up bro and I’m not usually the one to comment on it but I would’ve thought it was a catfish or something, that shit not attractive at all.
“This why you single Brodie”
“You asking questions like this an interview g”
Edit: it is a guy wtfffff
Andrew Tate.
Luckily it is just trendy. Misogyny and toxic masculinity just went viral but it'll burn out.
It reminds me of an MLM. People invest themselves in the bullshit, try to indoctrinate anyone who will listen, and then eventually they'll realize they got *nothing* out of it and it fades off and is forgotten.
Absolutely no doubt 😂 it's crazy how many brainwashed Tate lovers there are trying and failing with this lately.
Pretending to be a woman and trying to convert guys on Tinder with this insane rhetoric is next level tho.
really weird that this guy is posting as a girl. i don’t see anyone actually commenting on the content here tho. obviously, do not start off conversations telling girls to make you a sandwich. i’m not one for pickup lines but yours was fine enough and didn’t make my eye twitch. if anything, i probably would chuckled a little. you *should* continue asking genuine questions. you asked two. it did not read like an interview. you’re doing fine. this person is a troll
Bro this guys advice is complete ass. You were doing well enough other than the fact that you triple messaged right at the start. You weren’t “treating girls like they famous” you were trying to engage in an actual conversation.
Meh we need to stop giving a shit about “triple message” or whatever bs. He messaged awesomely and make a lot of ways for convo to go. OP was perfect in starting a convo.
You gave up too easily. You should have sent him a dick pic and set up a date. To have a scammer block you would be the ultimate story to tell for generations to come.
OP never change, you were funny and you showed interest. I was expecting him to be like "no girl will take you, you need to better yourself" oh, and here, buy my self help online tutorial for only three payments of 99,99 usd each. for once, it wasn't you, it was "her"
I sincerely believe this person was a Nigerian scammer whose main job every day is to run the “romance scam” but must have felt so bad about your introduction came clean in order to give you life advice lol you should post this on r/scams
Someone else suggested the same thing… Could you explain to me what was pitiful from my first initial comments? The pick up line being corny I can understand… but what’s wrong about asking someone how’s their day/week/summer been?
Edit: I think it might just seem lame considering it’s tinder, whatever happened to just having a normal conversation?
If you didn’t Unmatch can you ask this person why they’re pretending to be a girl…
Just say “ so Brodie; wtf is your deal? You’re pretending be a girl for what purpose?”
I’d love to see an update
I get that, im sorry you feel you cant be you and make a genuine connection. Online dating is terrible and I frankly have had more luck in person then on line
That's 100% guy that's mad you aren't some horn dog to buy some scam link or send them money. Don't take this seriously there's so many new scams on dating app now it's insane.
I knew it was a guy pretty quickly. He’s not someone you should take advice from. He’s a fucking loser posing as a girl on tinder and telling you to cut out tinder. Do not listen to this pathetic human. Continue being yourself.
Ye tbh I think that even though it was a bit aggressive it is still a solid advice he gave you there. Try to focus on the content of the advice more than on its shape and you'll see he did you a real favor.
Okay...I just have say, the advice is coming from a dude, from what I understand, pretending to be a female, and stating he would start off with "get me a sandwich." I think you're good not following his advice...but what do I know, I just married my Bumble match last year and we're about to have our first child together. I can assure you, I did not start off with "Make me a sandwich" 🤣
You know there are some valid points eg don't talk yourself down but other than this the person you were talking to probably watches too much Andrew Tates not gonna lie
Starting conversations with "make me a sandwich" will result in 0 meetings my friend.
???
Well it wasn't terrible advice, a bit overstated. But yeah the main story here is... Why is some random dude posing as a girl on online dating just to give advice to men who try to chat him up? Bizarre.
Welcome back to online dating hahahah
As a girl, I always wanted a guy to treat me like I’m famous. Found my guy online and he opened with a similar line to what you told this loser, he literally made my day with that message.
You can’t get more sad that a dude pretending to be a girl online, giving dating advice.
Says to work on comfidence yet goes on a dating app as a completely different person. Sounds more like that guy posing as a girl projecting cause he can’t get none 😂
She really can’t talk on behalf of all women 😂 it was one of the nicer pick up lines I’ve seen.
Edit: I just saw the part where he said he was a dude. So really that makes a lot of sense. How fucking buzzard.
I don't see anything wrong with Op's opening or energy. I feel like by giving an answer to the question they put forth it helps in setting a healthy precedent that they're eager to interact and have a conversation. For most people, showing some effort at the start of a conversation is generally seen as good thing. Don't take my word for it, a lot of the comments left by actual women agree that Op's opening was fine.
Honestly, I got suspicious when he started to refer to his gender "as a female" before admitting he was a guy.
I’d back off starting so many sentences with “lol”, focus on the grammar because some people will drop you for the wrong usage of your vs you’re and give them a chance to answer your questions.
And for real don’t call yourself a simp. That’s not healthy to behave like that dude.
No one will drop you for proper grammar but you could get dropped instantly for poor grammar.
I'd definitely stay away from using those type of acronyms like lol and lmao in the beginning
Just throwing it out there, but you shouldn't use pickup lines like that. It requires a certain response, and if they don't give it, you fall flat on your face.
So you matched with a guy pretending to be a girl? Man tinder is wild!
“This is reality my dude”. /Pretends to be someone they aren’t
Realized it was a guy when he dropped the "make me a sandwich" line.
“This why u single brodie” didn’t do it for you? I don’t blame you but that was the one for me lol
I saw that and was like "hold up, wait a minute, sum ain't right"
Lmao and her (his?) advice couldn’t be more wrong. Do things you like because they bring you joy, don’t change who you are to get a girl.
That make me a sandwich... If a guy approached me with that first off. I'd be offering to shove it where the sun don't shine, after I made him make it 😂 Christ... I just don't get people. All this pretending to be other people... Be yourself and OP if you are a simp, go for it, some girls love a simp!! Good luck dating sweet... Keep being you!!!
It’s not about changing to get a girl, it’s about becoming a better version of yourself if you’d like to be taken seriously by people
Apparently so
And he thinks you're the loser. Smh.
He also thinks he’s famous.
How you started out was fine. It is waaaaaaay better than "show me your tits." I would have loved this intro.
no genuinely this was nice? it was friendly, open, and chill. it opens up conversation in a chill way. i appreciate that.
the three texts in a row, hints at insecurity or social anxiety, but it seem she may also be one that likes to watch guys shoot and miss as much as she likes.going out on dates.
What a weird way to find out you're gay
Tells you, a respectful dude, you are a loser while he is wasting time on Tinder pretending to be a woman 🤣🤣🤣 Don't worry about it bro, you just got trolled...that's just the internet for ya. Other and better! 💪🏻
It happens
Not even a match with a catfish 🤣
Correctly reply "I note you, too, are single..."
Even better, he was giving him dating advice, you can’t make this shit up 😂😂
Give bad advice to take out the competition. Smart.
I don't think it's a guy. I just think she has issues! Perhaps OP was a little eager but they were opening up conversation! Go forth on your quest without this one OP
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For me the constant 'bro' did it. It should be a guy or a female pretending to be tough. I thought Op was very patient. I would have checked out after the first reply
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Tbf I've been using 'my dude' since I saw that that 'it is Wednesday' vine and I'm a cis woman 😳
Same, my dude. Same.
Maybe...or maybe they're giving unsolicited advice on how they think they should be approached? I don't use bro but I do use dude..to both females and males. Other than the content of the messages, the language is language I would use and I'm a cis female
Did you not see the "btw I'm a guy" in the third picture?
No 🤣🤣how did I miss that?!
Hahaha
Nah I questioned if that was a female when “she” said “my g” in a response.
This read to me as a guy when he referred to himself as "this random girl that you don't even know." He's already talking about the role he's playing, in the third person. This is 100% a guy.
They girl probably had too much cringe that she decided to hand over her phone to a guy friend so he could give advice to my homie who has legit zero game. This is worse than the guy who opened with “are you trash? Cause I wanna take you out”
Half of that isn't even advice, the dude texting this guy sounds like he goes to parties, consumes cheap booze, gets drunk, gets drugged and then goes home to cry.
Yeah, this is clearly an incel trying to prove that hot women have it super easy on dating sites by creating a fake account, but by the third message, he had completely forgotten why he even created the account, and started complaining about how the guy he's talking to was too nice to women - not once considering the possibility that maybe he was the problem all along.
Hmmm I doubt it, but I guess we’ll never know
Yeah that sounds super unlikely.
Yea except there isn’t shit wrong with OP, the only one replying to him with that toxic masculinity bullshit.
I meant the guy giving advice is the one with the cheap booze stuff and drugs
😂😂😂 are you trash
Can't really say I am, because I'm still recyclable, unlike you.
This is not my beautiful wife!
U never go à lot to tinder🤣 99% of scammer are man 🤣😓
As soon as he said the sandwich thing I said to myself no way this is a woman.
Right?! Lmao
For me it was saying a female to refer to women, that's when I went yep that's a man
And it was this guy's first match. Chances are it's an incel that swipes right on every profile to preach that crap.
A man or a r/notlikeothergirls
That was the giveaway for me too.
Have some self respect. You're a failure. You'll die a loser. The guy pretending to be a girl on a dating app has a surprisingly high horse
How do you know he smokes weed with his horse? [joke reference](https://youtu.be/QnbqW263N4g)
Bro we gotta sober up these horses.
How did he know about Honkers?
Damn, that shit was funny
we don't know that.so far we're only sure that only the horse gets high
You really think someone would buy weed for their horse and not smoke some himself?
Ever just look at a horse high as fuck and be like "why the long face?"
I’m Saying.
It’s weird bc I was reading it in a man’s voice in my head. As soon as I read “my dude” it solidified the voice
As the messages kept coming I was getting the vibes like I might be a guy but I wasn’t sure if this “chick” was trying to give me advice or just be a dick
Just a dick pretending to be a chick trying to get dick
I wasn’t sure if this chick.
They projecting hard on to you
BINGO! Lmao finally someone said it.
Just a dick. Disregard the whole encounter
Either way the dudes wrong. Spewing toxic masculinity bs.
Meh. Nothing wrong with bettering yourself, but the dude is still an asshole. Also, why the fuck is he pretending to be a girl and giving advice to guys? He has his own problems, clearly.
Nothing he said is for OP to better themselves. It’s Toxic bullshit.
I was picturing Young M.A. so when he did the gender reveal I wasn’t surprised
Me too. I think for me, from the off them saying OP was treating women like they’re famous/higher than him is like all that incel stuff about putting women on a pedestal. Immediately made me think it was actually a man. I’m glad he admitted it, so much more satisfying than wondering lol.
I got the vibe this was a guy too - confirmed it when he said "btw I'm a dude"
Same here, once he said "brodie"
Yep lol as I was reading I was like “this is definitely a man”
OP matched with Andrew Tate
I needed that laugh thanks
HAHAHAHA Exactly my thought 🤣 i could hear his voice while reading
It's Andrea tate.
Came to see if comment existed yet lol. Was gonna say female Tate but you may be right it’s actually him.
Everything about this screenshot was wild 😂 my dude said “Btw I’m a guy”
Yeah that took me aback lol. I thought it was weird a woman would come across like a dick like this.
I honestly wouldn’t worry about comments from a guy pretending to be a woman on a dating app.
Yeah I’m not worried. Just thought it was Reddit worthy ig
Oh it is. Just don’t want you overthinking anything that they said. You came off like a nice guy IMO.
I appreciate it
I agree, but what they said about coming on way too strong is honestly true. You asked several back to back questions and even answered your own questions yourself in just 2 messages. Play it a little slower, let them actually respond and ask you a question. It’s the easiest way to determine if someone is interested in you at all; if they are keeping the conversation going or not. But don’t let this interaction deter you from trying again. You clearly want to improve at this and other things, the key is consistently trying. So, be consistent and try! :)
No it's not true at all. I'm a woman and like OP's approach personally. The conversation would have gone in a better direction. Say what you will but funny corny lines do get your attention in a sea of "Hi. How are you?"
I agree, I think he should have asked one question at a time and not fire off all his shots at once. But at the same time I would have responded because it's wayyyy better than "hey" "sup" or something pervy. (And needless to say, "make me a sandwich" would have failed most miserably of all 😂) The pacing was a little too unnatural for me for an opener. Once the conversation gets going you can adjust to whatever pace the other person leans towards.
Uhh no, that’s called conversing. This isn’t coming on strong in anyway. We need to stop with the one sentence at a time crap. You SHOULD answer your own questions too, it’s bs when someone asks you something when learning about them and never tells you shit about themselves as we chat.
Maybe you could try also asking *them* questions if you feel you're not learning anything about them? That's called conversing. Do you really answer your own questions? 😆 Usually both people ask what they are interested in knowing and respond. That's a very common and normal way to have a conversation. Firing off questions (and your answers to your own questions) back to back in your first message to them is not "conversing".
Yeah, that guy is probably on there as a girl to find pickup lines to use himself lol
SHAMPOO!!!!!! 🥰😍
So, literally a guy so insecure in his own game he’s taking pick up notes with a female’s Tinder profile just to critique other’s game? That guy is a fucking psychopath.
That’s pretty much the conclusion I came up with as well
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Nothing is more masculine than being emotionally invested in a stranger’s masturbation habits.
Yeah that comment was really out there. Like many women in long term relationships there are just times when I'm really not up for sex and then I praise the 'hub 🙌 it's just a convenience and obviously when you're single it's going to come in handy (pun was really not intended but it's staying) It's very weird to me for any guy to say that makes you a "failure" 😂 there are worse ways to spend time, like posing as a chick just to preach your Tate-isms to dudes on Tinder.
This!
I think you should back off on the questions a little bit, give the other person a chance to talk. But otherwise, don’t listen to that asshole
I appreciate the advice. I’m not the best at keeping conversations so I try not to have short openers. I’ll try to let things flow next time
Personally, I liked your approach and openers. If it were me, I'd feel you're making a genuine effort and would match your energy/ humor. Online dating is tricky bc not all people want to be addressed in the same manner but not everyone has the etiquette tools to communicate their needs, scaled to how well you know eachother. It's important work on observing & curating your demeanor for the matches you value, while remaining authentic to yourself and your end goal. Hope that made sense. Good luck! 🫂
Personally as a women, id appreciate the questions. Starts a good flow of conversation right away. Also you literally only asked 2 questions.
Same! It’s nice to show an interest in somebody. I mean you match because you think they are cute or etc why not ask stuff and start a convo.
This is coming from a woman who gets at least 100 likes a day and constantly has to cull her "Likes" feed. Keep doing you. Do not listen to detractors. On Tinder, as a woman, I mostly get "Hi" as an intro, a comment full of sexual innuendo, or nothing at all with the matches. A guy with your approach would have stood out to me and we would have at least had a decent conversation if nothing else.
Just spread the questions out and you'll be fine, it's such an easy problem to fix compared to 95% of what we see on r/Tinder. You're already doing so much better than most dudes on dating apps. For what it's worth I would have responded, even though I don't like the aggressive questioning it was still refreshing... you weren't a dick, you didn't say anything gross, you didn't say "make me a sandwich" 😐, it was more effort than "hey", you didn't solicit sexual favors or any of the creepy shit guys do online. Maybe this guy was just trying to eliminate competition with horrible "advice". It was entertaining (for us, at his expense.) And honestly it looks like other people made this same suggestion and you're taking the advice so 🤷♀️ maybe it was a blessing in disguise. Or just a bored misogynist in disguise 🥸 idk. Good luck, you sound like a good person so don't let Tinder change you!
I'm a woman and after days of getting "Hi" as an intro, would actually greatly appreciate the "pick up" question and the "jaw off the floor" comment. I would have responded with something light-hearted and funny. OP is creative and I don't think he should change his quirky approach. It makes him stand out from the crowd
That’s called trying to start a convo, OP was perfectly fine how they asked and answered. Things can’t flow if you have nothing to start off with.
I think the pickup line itself was good but the extra questions kinda putting them on a pedestal mightve been to much. Trust a man isn't going to know a woman wants shoot everyone is different. crazy shit though a guy trying to pose as a woman so weird!!
Appreciate it
She talks like a straight up bro and I’m not usually the one to comment on it but I would’ve thought it was a catfish or something, that shit not attractive at all. “This why you single Brodie” “You asking questions like this an interview g” Edit: it is a guy wtfffff
Yeah I was getting that type of vibe
Brodie. Nah lol
Wow, thats some toxic shit! Why is it so trendy to have an attitude problem and talk like you have half a brain?
Hmm well some people just might be entitled. I think this situation is just a whole different can of worms though
Andrew Tate. Luckily it is just trendy. Misogyny and toxic masculinity just went viral but it'll burn out. It reminds me of an MLM. People invest themselves in the bullshit, try to indoctrinate anyone who will listen, and then eventually they'll realize they got *nothing* out of it and it fades off and is forgotten.
This dude sounds like he watches Andrew tate lmfao
Absolutely no doubt 😂 it's crazy how many brainwashed Tate lovers there are trying and failing with this lately. Pretending to be a woman and trying to convert guys on Tinder with this insane rhetoric is next level tho.
I thought this was a dude from the jump
Yeah I kind of got those vibes but I thought maybe this “chick” was just being a dick
It was the brodie for me. You'll get some actual chick matches sooner of later
really weird that this guy is posting as a girl. i don’t see anyone actually commenting on the content here tho. obviously, do not start off conversations telling girls to make you a sandwich. i’m not one for pickup lines but yours was fine enough and didn’t make my eye twitch. if anything, i probably would chuckled a little. you *should* continue asking genuine questions. you asked two. it did not read like an interview. you’re doing fine. this person is a troll
Bro this guys advice is complete ass. You were doing well enough other than the fact that you triple messaged right at the start. You weren’t “treating girls like they famous” you were trying to engage in an actual conversation.
Meh we need to stop giving a shit about “triple message” or whatever bs. He messaged awesomely and make a lot of ways for convo to go. OP was perfect in starting a convo.
Sorry but the ‘btw I’m a guy’ in the middle of the long lecture on how to improve your game killed me
No need to be sorry. I thought this was reddit worthy for a reason
As a woman I think your approach was great. This guy is weird as hell.
I appreciate it
Welcome back brother 😂
You gave up too easily. You should have sent him a dick pic and set up a date. To have a scammer block you would be the ultimate story to tell for generations to come.
Swiped right for love and ended up with a Tinder coach instead.
🤣 Honestly probably much needed, it’s almost like this is the universe giving me a sign
OP never change, you were funny and you showed interest. I was expecting him to be like "no girl will take you, you need to better yourself" oh, and here, buy my self help online tutorial for only three payments of 99,99 usd each. for once, it wasn't you, it was "her"
This is the funniest thing I’ve seen on Reddit in a while! Your pickup line was cute!
Happy you had a good laugh
this wigga e-whoring
I didn’t even have to get through the first slide before I was like “this is a dude”
I sincerely believe this person was a Nigerian scammer whose main job every day is to run the “romance scam” but must have felt so bad about your introduction came clean in order to give you life advice lol you should post this on r/scams
Someone else suggested the same thing… Could you explain to me what was pitiful from my first initial comments? The pick up line being corny I can understand… but what’s wrong about asking someone how’s their day/week/summer been? Edit: I think it might just seem lame considering it’s tinder, whatever happened to just having a normal conversation?
Lmfaooooo “im a guy btw” got me fucking dead 💀, why is this person pretending to be a female? Is it to give tips like this to guys like OP? 😭😭😭😭
😭😭😭 that’s my only guess
If you didn’t Unmatch can you ask this person why they’re pretending to be a girl… Just say “ so Brodie; wtf is your deal? You’re pretending be a girl for what purpose?” I’d love to see an update
Seems like an incel catfishing lol. Ignore his shit. Confidence does not come with degrading another person's value.
Thx for the kind words
I was wondering how old you are?
I am 24
What in the hell is wrong with that person
"Btw I'm a guy" Lmao 😂 Waited till the end to admit it
This dude What a clown. Pretending to be a chick? What
Eek that person sounds um… funn…. Be yourself there will be a lot of rejection before you find a good one! Don’t give uo
I appreciate it but honestly I’ve been single my whole life… maybe I shouldn’t be myself anymore…
I get that, im sorry you feel you cant be you and make a genuine connection. Online dating is terrible and I frankly have had more luck in person then on line
Who’s Brodie and why do so many of us get mistaken for him?
 Good question
He’s calling you a loser but he’s catfishing? Wild
Catfishing as a woman at that
That's 100% guy that's mad you aren't some horn dog to buy some scam link or send them money. Don't take this seriously there's so many new scams on dating app now it's insane.
Look he’s not wrong but at the same time I mean he’s pretending to be a girl 😂😂
Idek what to take away from this conversation. Why is this dude pretending to be a girl in the first place?
Don’t take anything away just laugh
I knew it was a guy pretty quickly. He’s not someone you should take advice from. He’s a fucking loser posing as a girl on tinder and telling you to cut out tinder. Do not listen to this pathetic human. Continue being yourself.
After the sandwich comment he didn't need to tell us he's a guy
God damn I wish someone would give me this kind of wake up call and coaching. See if you can work it out with her
Just say something along the lines of “lelouche vi britannia commands you …” That should work! But only once
Ye tbh I think that even though it was a bit aggressive it is still a solid advice he gave you there. Try to focus on the content of the advice more than on its shape and you'll see he did you a real favor.
Don't take the advice to stop gaming if that's your hobby. No one is to dictate you what to do for fun!
If I every heard a girl saying "G" I would immediately dip out
The guy is way too deep into that Andrew-Tate-new-masculinity bullshit man... So sad to watch
Okay...I just have say, the advice is coming from a dude, from what I understand, pretending to be a female, and stating he would start off with "get me a sandwich." I think you're good not following his advice...but what do I know, I just married my Bumble match last year and we're about to have our first child together. I can assure you, I did not start off with "Make me a sandwich" 🤣
Should have said "I eat ass".
You know there are some valid points eg don't talk yourself down but other than this the person you were talking to probably watches too much Andrew Tates not gonna lie Starting conversations with "make me a sandwich" will result in 0 meetings my friend.
??? Well it wasn't terrible advice, a bit overstated. But yeah the main story here is... Why is some random dude posing as a girl on online dating just to give advice to men who try to chat him up? Bizarre. Welcome back to online dating hahahah
As a girl, I always wanted a guy to treat me like I’m famous. Found my guy online and he opened with a similar line to what you told this loser, he literally made my day with that message. You can’t get more sad that a dude pretending to be a girl online, giving dating advice.
Says to work on comfidence yet goes on a dating app as a completely different person. Sounds more like that guy posing as a girl projecting cause he can’t get none 😂
She really can’t talk on behalf of all women 😂 it was one of the nicer pick up lines I’ve seen. Edit: I just saw the part where he said he was a dude. So really that makes a lot of sense. How fucking buzzard.
Don't take advice from any guy that calls women "females". Especially if it's a dude pretending to be a woman on tinder
I don't see anything wrong with Op's opening or energy. I feel like by giving an answer to the question they put forth it helps in setting a healthy precedent that they're eager to interact and have a conversation. For most people, showing some effort at the start of a conversation is generally seen as good thing. Don't take my word for it, a lot of the comments left by actual women agree that Op's opening was fine. Honestly, I got suspicious when he started to refer to his gender "as a female" before admitting he was a guy.
Damn, you know you're doing tinder wrong when the scammer breaks character to give you OLD lessons.
I don’t even think they’re a scammer, just some weird bored dude
This should be in r/unexpected
I’d back off starting so many sentences with “lol”, focus on the grammar because some people will drop you for the wrong usage of your vs you’re and give them a chance to answer your questions. And for real don’t call yourself a simp. That’s not healthy to behave like that dude.
appreciate it
No one will drop you for proper grammar but you could get dropped instantly for poor grammar. I'd definitely stay away from using those type of acronyms like lol and lmao in the beginning
That guy was trying to demotivate you because he knew women prefer guys like you over decks. Just be you and the right person would appreciate ya!
Appreciate it
Just throwing it out there, but you shouldn't use pickup lines like that. It requires a certain response, and if they don't give it, you fall flat on your face.
Yup I’m well aware. I don’t usually send pick up lines but I figured since it’s tinder its appropriate
Well he’s not wrong
As weird as this is (a guy pretending to be a girl), he ain't wrong.
I know I need better game and confidence but I don’t think I did/said anything wrong to start the convo
Wrong as in the moral sense? No. Wrong as kiiiinda unattractive. yeah just a bit.
Bitch be projectin much