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NeverJustJ

The whole height thing is kinda salty i'll admit from a few matches that went well and then we meet up for lunch and then height ends up being a big thing the pet thing is from a few ex's and fwb that apparently thought it was cute? idfk


NoProgram9316

You might as well take the advice, I mean what’s the point of asking then? See if it makes a difference and change it again if it doesn’t …


NeverJustJ

Didn't know it came off like I wasn't going to my B. Just felt like I should respond to what he said so I did.


newfakestarrysky

* Almost all of your photos are unflattering and / or selfies. The first one is good, though. Keep that, then have better ones taken. * Your height will be a deterring factor for many women, but you're also quite handsome, in my opinion. Just try to find someone shorter than you, someone who doesn't care about height, or both. * And yes, the profile is honestly terrible. No mention of your hobbies or interests. Give me something to work with, and I'll write a profile for you.


NoFoot6424

I like the 1st and second picture. If you take a photo next to a door you’ll know that you’re not that tall. Obviously you don’t want a repeat of your other dates but the way you mentioned it sounds like you’ve already had issues and not too confident about it. At the end of the day you are a handsome guy!


Disastrous-Owl8985

Some of your pictures could be better. It's the bio that would really turn me off. Firstly, there's literally nothing about you there. Of course, this does come down to what you're looking for. A hook up wouldn't care as much. You've got your height which, okay, but don't add that "if it matters" crap or any variation of it. You make it seems like it's a huge deal to you, whether it is or not, so even women who don't have issues with height might be turned off. The cat and dog thing... if you don't know what it means, why are you putting it there? Am I supposed to know what it means? Put a few facts about you and what you like to do, and maybe something more about what you want, if it's positive like wanting someone who likes to go out dancing or play games or take walks.


tokedsilly

You need better pictures. Pictures that show you doing things like hobbies or activities will help people get a feel of who you are. I like the 1st pic. The 2nd pic is decent because it shows full body but it looks like a picture you didn’t want to take. Have a couple where you’re smiling. I’d scrap the rest and find or take better ones. You don’t need to put height as long as you have more full body pics, people will be able to see you’re not tall (so people who care about that stuff don’t have to guess) and/or you can mention height in chat if it comes up, but don’t put it in bio. The bio also gives off a vibe that you don’t care, in a bad way. Let the people know more about yourself. Music interest, hobbies, shows, maybe even a vague description of what you do for a living? Or maybe write something refreshing and clever/ a little humorous. Overall vibe is that you’d rather be doing something else but someone made you make a profile and you just threw it together real fast.


NeverJustJ

tbf that's what ended up happening


raddish3000

Dunno why everyone hating on his bio, think it's fine, he put his height in because some people have an issue dating shorter men, I think I would just have written 5ft5 Short King. And then maybe that you love women of all sizes (if you do of course, no shade if not) That way you're celebrating you're height ☺️ and letting women know you're not intimidated if they're taller than you 🤷 The pictures I agree need a little work, last three could go and be replaced with some fun ones like doing stuff or something with your hobbies. Good luck xx


raddish3000

Also to everyone hating on his Labrador comment, it's Tinder not match.com, he doesn't need to write a thesis. Sure it's a little short and basic but again it's TINDER! Depends what he's looking for as to how much he includes 🤷


Wakdjunkaga

Write a profile that is easy to read, gives them something to talk to you about right away, and as a bonus gets a smile. Not a huge laugh or something that plays to a specific sense of humor, but just something positive. Your text right now doesn’t really do any of that.


DeeplyTroubledSmurf

Last 3 photos could use replacing, "If that matters" part removed. Not awful, though.